Listen to what she’s saying. She said Feminine women. It’s hard to come by feminine women in our community. You get a lot of women that are moving in survival mode. Notice the difference. Great video

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

My next video is going to be for you.

@reggieedwards7058

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena thanks Sis. I appreciate it

@maxk5831

3 жыл бұрын

survival mode. lol

@chadcapitol6674

3 жыл бұрын

So much valuable info, good job ..

@cbbrutal1634

3 жыл бұрын

Survival mode those struggling for financial idenpendece and empowerment? Is that what you mean?

This video explains a lot about how my wife reacts to me. Especially the driving thing. Sometimes I catch her looking at me when I’m driving or when we get back from long trips she’ll say “thank you for getting us home safely”. Now I get it, it’s a feminine thang 😜.

@chichibud31

3 жыл бұрын

Lol..many want to tell you how to drive and become offended if you tell them it's not only annoying but distracting and dangerous.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes Sir! Your wife probably has some thoughts while watching you drive. Lol It is truly a very subtle, yet very attractive thing we love to watch men do.

@abriaangel9986

2 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena I love watching men (I'm not related to lol) drive, especially when they do certain things like reverse in a parking space with one hand kml!

It's sad that I absolutely do not know any female that matches Sara's description of a feminine woman in my generation. *Great video.... but I think Sara Lena is a unicorn. LOL*

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

I’m humbled, but I’m really not a unicorn. Lol Just a woman that was willing to listen, learn, and grow.

@growing.grounds4054

3 жыл бұрын

Yea it’s a lot of women out here that are feminine just go talk to some women outside of your norm

@stopcensorship7365

3 жыл бұрын

I need a clone of her

@OthoWilliamsJr

3 жыл бұрын

@@growing.grounds4054 What's "outside" the norm brotha?!

@growing.grounds4054

3 жыл бұрын

@@OthoWilliamsJr somewhere your not used to

Let me get myself ready before I start this video I don’t wanna miss anything lol

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

I definitely appreciate you Brother!🙏🏾

@danielrolle7621

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena 🙌🏾

Nothing but facts sis...❤️❤️❤️....love to see men operating in their masculine energy...it could be something as simple as watching him cut the grass...make me wanna go make some ice cold lemonade and bring to him

This is like a blueprint for men to get it right. This video damn near produces the perfect man. Sara. I apologize for disrespecting women world wide. Thank you for this amazing update.

Well, I got 6 or 7 out of that list...I'm not Superman yet...Thank you Dr Lena

"In those moments we don't appreciate" 😂😁 I appreciate your honesty.

Content is always on point. Appreciate this video.

Another reminder of improvement internally .... keep killing it

Always on point 👌🏽. You’re appreciated sis! Much ❤️

You are fantastic and most genuine sister!!! Giving great guidance to men and women! Love what you do!!

It’s refreshing to hear a feminine speak and teaching other women how to be more feminine. In the long run this will help more men and women get along together.

Beautiful lady, beautiful perspectives, beautiful service and commitment to enhancing lives in our community!!

This sister is a one in a million ! Great work & love your contents. ☺

My wife loves seeing me do chores and he’s labor as wel as being strong in tough times. Me making money is nice but money ain’t everything.

Awesome video! From start to end.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

💖👸🏾 Thanks for watching Love!

Sara Lena, thanks for sharing, I needed this.

Appreciate the video as always 🤜🏾🤛🏾 a feminine black women's perspective is much needed 💯💯🌟

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Much Love Family! That means a lot.

Thank you very much for your insight 💪🏾 Time to make some improvements

Use this lady's videos to vet any woman you might be interested in, fellas. She's always on point. Salute, sis!

Sara is the one woman who can put women's emotions into logical words that men can understand. I think this ability in a woman is underrated. #7 is now clearly to me. I'm kinda serious minded and I don't laugh with women... But they almost always giggle and laugh at some things I say and/or do. They look childish and I never understood it until now. So it's just funny to them because they don't have to do anything but sit around and look pretty. #Scars. Now I get why my second chick (most feminine ever) was so fond of the scars. While I thought they were ugly, she weirdly but seriously thought they were cute.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

“So it’s just funny to them because they don’t have to do anything but sit around and look pretty”🤣🤣 I’ve never heard it worded that way, but ironically this mad me laugh. Women that are in their feminine tend to have a more “care-free” “light-hearted” energy. It’s hard to be feminine when you’re always stiff and serious, so we like to enjoy life. Sometimes, this can result in us seeming “childish”(or child-like) to people that tend to operate from a more serious survival mentality.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Scars are awesome!

@jon_s

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena Thanks for the enlightenment. Besides the videos you make, I think you should pushlish these articles on your personal website or platforms like Genderic dedicated to restoring the lost essence of binary gender balance. And consider writing a book as well

Great work thanks sis💪🏼

Your message is so important. You are truly doing God's work.

You explained this perfectly for both parties, both men and women.

JELLY!! I love your videos! You can talk about intimate things discreetly, and that's an asset!

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

😳You called me “Jelly.”

Teach Sista...Let your Light Shine ✨

Great video Sara! As usual!

Awesome information! I really appreciate your content on your channel, and help us as men to understand hoq treat women better. God continual blessings on your channel.

Omg...she is spot on!!! ❤❤❤

Great video Sara!!

Always love your content Sara!! Loved hearing MTR shout you out in one of his videos! Wish we could hear a nice rnb/jazzy mellow instrumental in the background tho that’s not distracting. You really need to get the props you deserve for talking the truth! ✌🏾❤️

Yes, yes yes and yes.....yet to meet him but yes. The key is im allowed to be the woman, be feminine. And I appreciate that, need that The last one is so subtle but wow....when you see it ❤

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Do you try to meet men? Or are you the type of woman that goes to work, goes straight home, and that’s pretty much your everyday routine.

@antoniaadams2084

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena Hi love sorry I'm just seeing this now, my comments were off. Yes I am that type of woman. I wasn't the best at going out before, but with covid it got worse. I am going to get back to having fun and experiencing new things again, not to find someone just to have fun! Maybe hes there having fun too x

This is a really good video. Nice job.

*@SaraLena:* Great job sister. Keep up the excellent work! Salute! ✊🏿

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

I’ll do my best!🙏🏾

Another great video and content. Thank you

Bless up Goddess....point 2 hit home for me....sad part is this female feels she did no wrong and has yet to apologize. But the disrespect was evident so I took my stance 🙏🏽

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Much Respect Brother!

Sister you are the truth. Much love to ya

Great message.

100% this helped. Loved the b-roll as these funny but relevant visuals got your points across in an entertaining way, and no. 3 and 10 made my laugh☺️. The masculine female and feminine female distinctions help too, as its quite reafirming to hear there are still women who value the type of men who for instance go and chop wood for a bbq and take the lead. Sure we'll know it, but to hear it in a way that contrasts the type of naritives that have permeated various parts of society is quite refreshing. This has refined both my understanding of why feminine women value these traits in me, and how to be even more concious and efficient with sharing these parts of myself with my woman.

This video is all facts 💯👏🏽

Nailed it Sara!📍💯👏🏾❤

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

👸🏾❤️

Sara Lena, you hit on the things that my sister in Christ loves about me daily. She's so feminine and that's what I love about her. Thank you.

Great vid sis. I just think that most, if not all, of these things like being competent are basic things every man should know and/or be doing. Like it should be normal. At least with my son it will be and is! And hopefully my daughter's see me as a standard and find one who is better in any of these areas.

Sara Lena your perspective are as beautiful as you are sister. Everything you've said is on point..

Sara i appreciate your information from the women perspective.....keep it up thanks

I really appreciate ur content, things that I would normally have 2 blindly do, now I Kno itz what is Xpected, allows me 2 relax even more

Great content as usual (the real deal)!!!!

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Thank You!

This was beautiful and 100% true!!!

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

💖Thanks Pretty Lady!

I truly love the masculine essence in men and yes I'm definitely a feminine women. Love the video Queen 🌻🦋🧘🏽‍♀️☯️peace and blessing ase yeyeo

@bygsmuv5820

2 жыл бұрын

A female Pharaoh sounds more feminist than feminine

I love you, I really do 😂. Need to see more ladies like you. I know they out there 😁. Great messages so serious

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate it! Thanks so much!

@majinkingcharmer8330

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena No doubt, you truly are a God's gift to men and women. Your feminine energy is just amazing so serious

Between the skin, gold, and orange dress! 😍😍😍

I don’t always agree with your videos but this one is spot on!

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks!!!

I’ll tell you what’s attractive! You rocking your natural locks! Dressing feminine and beautiful Understanding we men! Reminding we men on KZread on what to keep up, just in case we forget! Big ups to you!

Superb video yet again! Unfortunately, I think this will fly over the head of a lot of women...you dropped big game in this one. As a man, her simple acknowledgement of the fibers of my DNA as man is what truly gets my attention. Unfortunately, such acknowledgement is rarely achieved due to surface-level examinations. This video is gold to the woman who can smell what your cooking.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Thank Youuu! What would the world be like without masculine men?😩 I hope I never find out. We(feminine ladies) appreciate you all. Wanted to make sure you all heard it from a woman’s perspective. You’re not just walking atms to all of us!

Tell it sista!!! ✊🏾😁

Sara you are a very good content creators i enjoy listen to you thank you

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Thank You!

I appreciate deh headsup

I love this sister!!! She gets it!!!

Spot on!!

Orange is a really underrated color on A woman.

Dont brew a cup of coffee, cook a brother a meal.

Christ, this stuff is gold!

I appreciate you!!!

Tapped in!

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

🖤

Thanks sis, very nice dress

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate it!!!

Just AWESOME advice…. Do you or have you ever thought about doing seminars just as you do in these video presentations….???

Thank you sister.

Love, I do respect ur achievements, traits feminine women find attractive in masculine men, because ur character is an entrepreneur research make things happen.

Too funny I enjoy every one of your videos I’ve watched

Sara Lena Thank You Preach wow 🎬🎬🎬

I am always down to listen to what you have to say. I walk away with the thought that these lessons are the reasons why I have issues with women from a woman's perspective. As a masculine male I check off all of the above, and I don't tolerate the bs. I say what I mean mean what I say, I lead by doing, and work hard for mine. If a woman does not bring it the way that I doI get tight, and bounce. A lot of woman find it hard to give as much as they get, and hate to hear the truth about their failings no matter how you say it. Woman like you that are like what you describe in this video are few and far in between. I never miss a video keep up the good work.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

I am going to do a video for men about where to find feminine women, or what type of women tend to be more feminine. Even though I know a lot of people are not going to like what I have to say, I think it could be helpful.

I am a 52 year old man and thank you!

Yes! Makes a woman want to be MORE softer, listen more, more respectful and more caring. Not about the money , especially when you have your own. We just want a Good MAN.

Basically, being a true masculine man is hard work mentally and physically, and it comes with minimal reward. The vast majority of women these days don't/can't cook/clean, yet he's still expected to constantly work and navigate her hints/innuendos, emotions, etc. Plus, if he wants her to do those little sexual things he likes, he has to tell her rather than her just doing it even though she already knows he likes it! It's truly exhausting.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Actually the reward is great. Every “true masculine man” I know is either hard-working or smart-working Productive, which eventually leads to a great reward of financial success. Every “true masculine man” I know has higher expectations from their women, and more options, which usually results in women that want to please them by living up to his expectations. Every “true masculine man” I know is in some way active, even if he doesn’t necessarily have time for the gym, he still makes sure he is physically able to be a protector if need be, which usually results in a better sex life, and just feeling confident in his body. There are many ways the reward his great...it’s only minimal for men that accept and tolerate the minimum.

@chichibud31

3 жыл бұрын

It can be, yes.

@josephdaley1720

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena if you listen to your video, the man is constantly having to mentally work to get her to act right, dealing with her constant need to be right, her emotions, her issues, etc. And as a bonus, he has to tell her to come and do those sexual things he likes, instead of her just doing it on her own even though she already knows he likes it and wants to please him. So i ask you, exactly what does a man get in return for having to constantly deal with all that, other than some sexual gratification that he had to ask for?

@maxk5831

3 жыл бұрын

@@josephdaley1720 you do make a point there

@josephdaley1720

3 жыл бұрын

@@maxk5831 you're expected to be masculine in a country that looks down on black masculinity, then the BW expects you to constantly put her in her place because it secretly turns her on, yet she will constantly challenge your manhood, and on top of that you're expected to protect her from the world, and herself, while walking the thin line between overt masculinity, and treading lightly to make sure you aren't overly masculine when she tests you. And at the end of the day, what do you really get besides having to do it all over again tomorrow while fighting a country full of people who hate you for the color of your skin? Like i said, it's exhausting.

Fabulous, describe ur appearance drop down gorgeous while ur image expose to the audience a lady with class.

Yippe!!!! I am 1st for once..😜

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

😆 Peace!

Thank you Neterutess

Interesting!

Lol! I love it. Watching a man drive is a new one it makes sense but it made me laugh

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

It is so very attractive!

10:18 Humor aside--when a woman is attracted to a masculine man for all the other reasons you posit, they naturally become more receptive & easier to entertain. It's the same with men towards women; if we're with a 10/10, we have to actually try not to become all goofy & giggly. Genuine burning desire just has an inebriating way of reducing inhibitions, to where everything seems embellished. And when a person is enthralled & yet their insecurities are simultaneously alleviated, spontaneous laughter can be both a non-verbal cue communicating understanding, as well as a stress-releasing mechanism--not to mention, also, the effect it can have toward ingratiating the man's ego toward the woman & its utility as a choosing signal.

Was this a reload of a previous video? I can swear I watched this weeks ago!

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

No sir.

I swear, I do all those things and my girl still complains... when I was broke she complained about money, now I got the money ,she says money isn't everything.... I just can't win yo😅

*Men, you need to be very careful when "taking charge" in sexual situations.* I'm not suggesting you video the encounter as "proof" of consent. But you best be very (VERY) careful with your level of aggression. On the other hand, if she's not opposed to video...

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. Specifically if it’s just a woman you’re dating. Usually once a couple has already been sexually active, women pretty much know what to expect as for as “dominance” or “taking charge” is concerned from her partner. And by then, usually men know what a woman’s boundaries are, and what she’s not willing to do.

@timbenisrael5763

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena I understand your point completely. As a man in his 50's and well experienced in this life, I have a need to bring clarity to information younger men get online simply because they lack experience in the world. For me, your message is 100% clear for its intent and purpose. But for 19 year old Skeeter, who has never touched a woman other than his mama, that information may not be so clearly understood. Btw, I love your work!

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Thank You so much for your input! This is a perfect example as to why families need the parental coalition of both a man and a woman. You definitely made a very necessary point for the young brothers. I really do appreciate it.

@timbenisrael5763

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena Keep doing the great work you're doing my sister. It is greatly needed in this day and time.

@josephdaley1720

3 жыл бұрын

@@timbenisrael5763 real talk... Nowadays they will file r*** charges on a man if she was drinking with him, has sex, and her boyfriend/husband finds out. Citing she was in no condition to consent to sex.

She's sooo right! Directly related to the "driving" example. Masculine men are soooo sexy!!

Love this!! Sent it to my man to help him understand Why I’m so crazy about him ❤️♥️

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

I’m always happy to know a sister has a mature masculine man! They’re so amazing...and somewhat addictive.🥴

@maxk5831

3 жыл бұрын

that sounds sweet. I'm envious of him.

That's wonderful how i wish all women know this like you do things wouldn't have been going the other way between the opposite sex

Hi Sara , I like your voice

what a doll!

I like what I'm hearing for now

#7 is a bit difficult for me, making jokes isn't my strong suit. But I definitely need to work on it.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Well...if you don’t feel like it’s something that comes natural to you, I don’t think it’s a good idea to try to force it. That’s just my opinion though. We usually can tell when someone is trying too hard...it comes off as somewhat annoying. If you don’t feel like you make the women in your life laugh, that’s what comedy shows, and comedy movies are for. Though it is a trait we love, it’s not a deal breaker if a man doesn’t have it...we don’t expect you all to be perfect.

@andrealexander6446

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena thanks for the feedback!

@cdub7373

3 жыл бұрын

If you’re corny then own it! Lots of times corniness is funnier than being clever..most of the white guys that have ever appeared on wild n out are good examples

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

This is so true! I love corny jokes!

@andrealexander6446

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena corny jokes aren't the problem, I just don't like to laugh unnecessarily. As a matter of fact, I don't like to smile to much. In my mind I think people/ women don't take me seriously if I'm not serious.

I love the...''besides money''.

@josephdaley1720

3 жыл бұрын

You better have some though... This monolog sounded good, but without money you are still assed out.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Lol...yeah...it’s not all about the money. Don’t want brothers to feel like they’re walking atms.

@josephdaley1720

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena lol, but let that money get funny, and watch what happens to that honey.

@ellonglobe

3 жыл бұрын

@@josephdaley1720 😂😂

On a second note you may want to invest in a light filter your overexposed just a bit. Appreciate the videos!

This point is about point number 4, where a man is able to challenge and mentally stimulate a woman. If a woman is starting a debate on a topic that a man is not too familiar with what does he do in this situation? Can he admit he doesn't know about the subject that much and not have that affect her attraction within a man, or does not knowing about a particular topic affects her attraction levels? Cuz I can debate on a matter if it's something I truly know about, but I have been in situations where people talk about the topic I'm not that familiar with.

@goldenbrown439

3 жыл бұрын

What really is your question first you said between you and a woman than your example was a conversation with others not gender you want to know how to talk to people or talk to women?

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

People typically debate on topics they have some sort of knowledge in... It would be odd for someone to argue their point when they don’t know enough to have a point. So it’s unlikely that someone would end up in the situation. But, just as much as we love being mentally stimulated, we also like it when you let us teach you something. Kinda like how we like it when you let us win in a game. We don’t like feeling dumb or inferior, so it definitely won’t hurt to admit you don’t have knowledge in a particular subject. We don’t expect you to be omniscient.

On 13:00 minutes is not what men is doing for you but rather the mindset should be what both party are doing for the sake of the common expectations that both parties had planned, for the life commitment.

❣💯

I appreciate woman who likes a man in is positive masculinity 😎🌎🙆🏼‍♂️🍲

Hello my name is Phillip and I am new to this channel I am disabled I have cerebral palsy I keep wondering what I can do get a high-value women to look past my disability please and thank you in advance for any suggestions you may have

But men we also desire in a feminine woman to make herself be respected by others including others males.. don’t just let any male come over and flirt all over you and then if things get out of hand well your man should come to protect. Also feminine woman she be proud of her mate and protect him as well.

😂😂😂 especially because of June