When women tell me, "You are a nice guy, but I want to be friends!" My response is "No thank you." and walk away. Reason for my explanation, I am not your crying shoulder when that guy treated you badly. Trust me, I have been there.

@tavwilliam9367

5 жыл бұрын

Big facts 💯

@dcwad1

3 жыл бұрын

I agree Larry, and when they do attempt to put me in the friend zone, I will tell them that "I am not your girlfriend or buddy". Here's the sad thing about what I've observed over the years with women who have successful relationship with "nice guys", those women are womento work with the man that there with because she sees so much potential in him. Also, not only do they desire to be nurture, but they know how to nurture, or "work with" the "nice guy" and because of their love for each other, the relationship becomes balance. I would like to see this sister research those type relationships.... Peace

@gregkareem9824

3 жыл бұрын

Bro facts 😂😂

@gringoguapo

3 жыл бұрын

Amen Larry, God bless you! We have more respect for ourselves than to be that crying shoulder!

@robertbarack1827

3 жыл бұрын

"I'm not really looking for new friends" you walk away but they still text you, what do you want

Nice guys finish last because men have been lied to about female sexuality.

@memes_for_kings

5 жыл бұрын

Me in my 20s

@thegreatandsigmaticgiants8307

5 жыл бұрын

💯

@drewyetti

5 жыл бұрын

Me in my 20s in a nutshell.

@adrianrice6396

5 жыл бұрын

exactly!! somewhere along the lines you get bad advice then you're confused when shit don't start adding up

@AntDarHaw

5 жыл бұрын

Real talk

In my experience, Sistahs in particular, only start saying they want a "Nice/Good guy" after hitting the wall, being kidded up, bad credit, bad debt, baggage and becoming damaged goods. When they're young, in shape and when their stock is the highest, they're not checking for nice guys. They seem to want the lowest common denominator of society (the pookies and ray rays). Sistahs want that nice/good dude to be the clean up man after wasting away their best years.

@jannieherriott3957

5 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯

@KingKaete21

3 жыл бұрын

Damn that’s true

@jerryscool2008

3 жыл бұрын

PREACH

@billywatson9821

2 жыл бұрын

Preach.

@willharriman1881

Жыл бұрын

Sad, true facts!

I'm no nice guy but I'm a good man. If a women dashes me against the rocks before finding out what I'm all about, it's her loss

@demetriuswilliams5620

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@1luvcity

5 жыл бұрын

Facts

@kingdomkidsmedia6395

5 жыл бұрын

Word!

Good video, but it's funny how "agreeable" women get when they have two kids and are no longer in their prime.

@kinghussien163

5 жыл бұрын

Facts

@marknimmons8906

5 жыл бұрын

Yes and I can offer them money to get right to it. Love that 🤣🤣🤣

@giovannibronx8643

5 жыл бұрын

Lol

@JetBlackAir

5 жыл бұрын

If it takes losing looks and having kids for her to improve her insides, then she's not grown. She's just adapting. That's a good reason to ignore her.

@Dmoney1980

5 жыл бұрын

I agree Facts

Bottom line my dudes if she dont wanna play her role cut her loose. Real G's dont say much. They bout that action boss.

@leroyrichardaonjr.7613

5 жыл бұрын

Solo damn true! Nicely said

@supremec2476

5 жыл бұрын

FLORIDA BOY 305 BOY Facts

@zopound7688

5 жыл бұрын

FLORIDA BOY 305 BOY 💯💯💯

@omniverseldivine

5 жыл бұрын

Facts. PML G.

@nattyleo6079

5 жыл бұрын

Right, You gotta be like them Cubans on US1 during rush hour. Soon as the light turn yellow they blowing the horn for you to go...Ain't no time for all that BS to be dealing with that, if they not on your program get rid of em.

Reasons why some nice guys finish last: 1. Pursuing emotionally unavailable women and playing the victim when she doesn't want you back (signs: she never asks you meaningful questions about yourself, text responses are dry, rarely if ever wants to talk on the phone, is secretive, won't be seen with you in public, etc.) 2. Being a pushover who doesn't know how to set firm boundaries. 3. Never having an strong opinion or stance on anything (which is what makes people interesting) because you're afraid to rock the boat. I see people in the comments going from one extreme to the other (either be a nice guy or act like a pimp), but assuming that we're grown, it's time to learn about balance. Do not let wanting some woman have you completely eradicating your personality and strengths to act like an asshole. You could be wasting your purpose because you'e butthurt. You can be kind and attract and keep women, but being spineless, bland and pursuing women who are clearly dismissive avoidant is what's going to leave you with poor results.

She spoke some truth but sometimes the nice guy has options too and these sistas who dis the nice guy will act a damn fool if they see the nice guy with a white woman then they will say white women taking all the good black men

@khayeel634

5 жыл бұрын

@thepharoahelite Brooks... you hit the nail on the head!

@odubbprince1

5 жыл бұрын

✊🏿✊🏿💯💯💯

@carlmcfarlane8877

5 жыл бұрын

I've said many a time if you're a Nerdy black man you better date non black women.

@mengoingjesuswaytv7319

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@MrJungleWarrior

5 жыл бұрын

So True! They won't want you but don't want you to have options better than them.

Once they hit the wall, those nice guys will get summoned from the friend zone.

@legendarytony2454

5 жыл бұрын

they escaped the end zone

@hazzard1983

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@s.boundless3163

5 жыл бұрын

@@carlmcfarlane8877 *If* most don't

@carlmcfarlane8877

5 жыл бұрын

@@s.boundless3163 Sad but true

@s001til

5 жыл бұрын

@@a.town.2053 Lmao Lmao!!! 6th man, you're up!

Why would a man be with a woman who doesn't respect him? That's not nice. That's nuts.

@JackieLastrada

5 жыл бұрын

Some women are very clever.

@MrJungleWarrior

5 жыл бұрын

I tried it because I thought it would work out. After 5 years I just bounced like Casper! No calls, no text, no phone calls, no emails. She called me crying a year later. Men age like wine. Women age like milk. Life goes on. Keeping it moving.

@vaughnamir.6457

3 жыл бұрын

@@MrJungleWarrior you spent 5 years lmao

@MrJungleWarrior

3 жыл бұрын

@@vaughnamir.6457 What is time? Patience is a virtue. Never be dependent. : ) Things are way better now knowing IDGAF! The Scorpio plan : )

@Dimz30

3 жыл бұрын

Insecurities and other things

the moment you mistake a nice guys 'RESPEK' for SOFTNESS issa red 🚩

@geraldjones3730

5 жыл бұрын

MFYrising mayo!!🗣*#💯!*!

Being a nice guys has got me many places and LAST aint one of them

@demetriuswilliams5620

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@coreythomas3633

5 жыл бұрын

Joseph Valentine exactly

@MrJungleWarrior

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, exactly. Me too. I deal with many high level people because I am a nice person. Black women have a problem with this but white women appreciate it. It's a cultural thing.

@exoticcexoticc5716

4 жыл бұрын

Finally a resonable comment

@genesiskeglar6372

4 жыл бұрын

Joseph Valentine It is somewhat of another category, it seems to me. But sometimes, yes it does appear that we are in last. This usually is just a phase, though.

Maintain masculine frame, give no form of validation, step out of your comfort zone and master it, workout your body, it builds confidence and testosterone, eat smart, save money, WORK ON YOURSELF. Being a nice guy is a form of validation, which is why they finish last. An Abundance mindset is key.

@SaraLena

5 жыл бұрын

I guess it’s best coming from a Man. I appreciate your comment.

@LyallvanderLinde

5 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena Yes, but most guys don't understand women, just like most women don't understand men. So do continue to drop this knowledge for the brothers. I've watched your other videos, you explain it well.

@robertbarack1827

3 жыл бұрын

Some don't even finish, pathetic

Great video! Men should put yourself, goals, mission, and hobbies first. Stop seeking approval. Have a backbone and make the word NO, your best friend.

@kobe88us

5 жыл бұрын

Grand Man 9999 Facts King!!

@grizzlygames9838

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@GrandMan-lw4dv

5 жыл бұрын

RealJoel Peace King. Thank you.

@GrandMan-lw4dv

5 жыл бұрын

Scape Goats Thanks champ!

@coreythomas3633

5 жыл бұрын

Grand Man 9999 i agree

Men need to quit being thirsty and validating everything....how many women answer your validation messages on instagram....Hahah....0

@moe20000

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

Nice guys don't finish last, they will get the submissive lady and marry them, the women who go after the so called bad boys only end up with a couple kids from different baby daddys and end up single a.d angry 😂😂😂the nice guy will get the last laugh!!~💯

@miamidolphinsdiehardfan109

5 жыл бұрын

Preach

@DrewnTiny

3 жыл бұрын

Nice guys don't finish last in any other area. That is actually a misquote from Vince Lombardi. He said about another coach "Nice guy, finished last". Not that all nice guys finish last all the time. This is what garden tools and jerks say to justify being those things.

@KingKaete21

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@Telly7777

3 жыл бұрын

He finishes last because he gets you off first. Hence wins in the end.

Honestly, I think the biggest problem is, many women associate the "Nice Guy" with the guy who feels he's "Owed" affection for being nice. The types of men who think "I held a door open for a woman, she should at least say hello." or "She should stop dating jerks and notice me for a change" without putting forth any effort or stating his feelings. Nice Men, aren't weak-willed or pathetic, nor do they allow themselves to be used. Nice Guys more often times than not, were raised to present themselves in a certain manner, believing it to be gentlemanly and dignified and hold themselves to that ideal standard but they *DO NOT* allow themselves to be used continuously or expect a woman's love without putting forth the effort. Women need to learn there's a difference between a nice man and a weak man and men need to learn to never allow themselves to be taken advantage of.

@reeldeelz2940

5 жыл бұрын

it's primal man ... there's nothing to learn .. either she perceives you as weak or not.. The problem in the black community (due to media/hipHop etc..) is that black men are held to a hyper-masculity standard that other races don't have to face, this is why the "pookies an rays rays" win in the hood.

@keithsmith8543

5 жыл бұрын

Guess Who ABSOLUTE TRUTH!!!!!👊

@zopound7688

5 жыл бұрын

Netherwolf6100 💯

@kcdav7

5 жыл бұрын

Reel Deelz You speaking facts bro

@MrAzrealazdeycomeSr

5 жыл бұрын

Reel Deelz Sadly, this is one of the biggest reasons why our incarceration rate is sky-high.

This is more cultural and less nature. Unfortunately for the black culture the nice guy by default ends up inserting himself and his skills with other cultures. And more unfortunately these are the men with the education and leadership skills to invent, to build, to create. We are stuck in ghetto mentally that we think on every corner is a shooter or killer ready to pounce upon our lives. I see too many Becky's booed up with your rejected nice guy who is the CEO of his software company.

@-tigs2775

4 жыл бұрын

olmec19 I already knew this... sex is just THAT important to the females. They can’t see the fruition of actions like wanting to open the door for you or tell your woman she’s beautiful.

@MoeJaxon

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂right

@joquelhalyard6024

3 жыл бұрын

Thats cap asf lol.. the nice guy finishes last in all cultures.

@CoolGent87

3 жыл бұрын

I totally have to agree💯It's a cultural problem

@jayshaunpatty5329

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree, facts my brother!

Guys, have knowledge of self and stay true to who you are. Keep your integrity. If you're looked at as the "nice guy" don't let anyone take living your life away from you. They're plenty of GOOD LOOKING women on this planet who are compatible with the "nice guy."

@itssdonnie8280

4 жыл бұрын

Facts but it's harder to find that without kids or ran thru already

@foruzurixavier1166

4 жыл бұрын

No there aren't, bro... Trust me

@vonq9831

3 жыл бұрын

Well said .... Brother.... !

@jerryscool2008

3 жыл бұрын

FACTS

@freshlyfe4400

Жыл бұрын

This one!

Women always say they want a good man...... ...Till that good man requires them to be a good woman.... Facts💯💯

@cashflodigitalsportsnetwork

4 жыл бұрын

Levite718 hypocrisy

@palexstarks5553

4 жыл бұрын

I had to write that down....profound .Right to the point

I don't know why women equate niceness with not being assertive. I'm a nice guy, but I can blow up at any time if I feel like I'm being disrespected. Also, I like to be dominant in bed all the time. These subconscious nice guy stereotypes running through the minds of women makes no sense. 🤦🏾‍♂️

@entertainmentmedia4742

4 жыл бұрын

Butterscotch Lolly Most don’t think ahead when it comes to their life. What makes you think they’ll think inward or think about things like that?

@DeCurtaRican

4 жыл бұрын

Butterscotch Lolly : I’m a nice guy, but I’m an asshole when I want to be, and definitely a man in my relationships. That’s why my woman stays with me. She complains about it every day, but she stays with me. 🤷🏽‍♂️😆

@tlevy2006

3 жыл бұрын

@@DeCurtaRican 💯💯💯 #TrueStory. Gotta be stiff with they ass 🙌🏾

@ivanmedina9899

3 жыл бұрын

Bro she made it very clear in the beginning she is not talk about you

As a nice guy myself, I haven't found this to be the case. Just cause you aren't attracted to kind men doesn't mean all women are.

This, my guys, is why you show no emotional. As a young man, the only way to win is to become valuable. Men will be criticized for being too nice, then criticized for being “toxic” and emotionless. It’s best to just become a mystery and get attention that way. Growing up in a single household, mothers rarely will admit that being the emotionless man is what got them attracted to their partners. Caring too much , just does not work.

I think the issue is in our community that the thug/gangster/pimp has been asserted as the dominant man. (Other cultures for the most part reject this) This gang culture is glorified by society and is usually most popular in high school. As kids, many young girls grow and idolize these type of men who they desire as they age. When they become more mature, the men most desired for these women are the reformed thug or the wannabe gangster who ain’t a real gang member he can just play the part and project the image. (Perhaps this is the balanced man) I have experienced this. This is why I think these brothers sagging they pants. It has become an image of the dominant man. Personally, if that’s what they like, that’s what they like. I’m not the gangster/reformed thug I would say I’m a traditional man. What I do is date my level of women. If she in to gangster and ratchet, then I don’t care what she look like I’m staying away. Tatted up, different color hair, several children, messy, gossiping, etc those aren’t good qualities to me so I “choose” to pick a different type of woman. Time will tell if this works however I will say I’m very blessed with my current net worth. Brothers save an emergency fund and invest in S&P 500. Pay off debt and buy a house. This stabilizes you. Brothers, this video has a lot of good points. Say no. Hold your grown. If she don’t like it there’s the door. Work on yourself. Lastly, fam you be you.

@musicofdarius

5 жыл бұрын

Great points and outlook. This is the exact motto that I follow and I feel that I'm heading in the right direction. Slow and steady wins the race with EVERYTHING. Relationships, investments, career paths, business creation, etc

@KevsUploads

5 жыл бұрын

brutha kc loll, there’s thugs everywhere in all races

@janelzer

5 жыл бұрын

I agree with this. Simply coming from a black woman's perspective I had a conversation similar to this with a friend of mine who friendzoned a very decent man, but is currently with the type of guy you described in the beginning of your comment. She always talks about the things she wants but her current boyfriend is nothing like that. I just don't get it, why continue to screw yourself over when there's a good man right in front of your face. It's a shame that women put themselves in these situations and then have the nerve to complain and place the blame on the men when it goes to shit.

@JuniorLexus6692

5 жыл бұрын

Brutha kc ....you are a smart man, stay away from the drama queens. Get a good looking traditional woman who caters to her man.. some of these women have too much testosterone.😂🤣🇺🇸🇯🇲🌴☀️🌴

@paulbrandel5980

Жыл бұрын

@denny osifo No not nearly as much as black folks. Most Asians and whites look down on that thug culture, as they should.

Im nice to a woman who reciprocates that. You have to adjust your energy to individuals. Its sad you have to play mind games with women though. Ignore a woman and her interests goes up. My only question is, if women are only attracted to men who other women want or have, then who is perpetually cheating?

@23rumbble

4 жыл бұрын

Hmmmm....well That explains why women would fight the woman when their man cheats

@14kurtismiller

4 жыл бұрын

Girls play games, women are straight forward and serious. We have an overflow of grown girls today.

@levibondjr4650

4 жыл бұрын

Kurtis Miller Exactly.

@BLVCK-VINCI

3 жыл бұрын

@@14kurtismiller yeah say that to the girls who never grew up and raising kids

Taking kindness for weakness, that's like 90% of women unfortunately! But Master Sara is 100% correct on that point.

@xDTHECHEMISTx

5 жыл бұрын

Most are shallow by nature

@topshelf8304

5 жыл бұрын

Nah... its closer to 90%, I'll be fair and say 85%... And we're not talking about men....

These are young women talking points. Damn near everything you said in this video you're going to retract 15 years from now.

Women just judge to quick and assume bc he didnt assert himself one time or everytime. That assertion isnt needed for every situation. Nice guys are mature enough to understand. We must think like humans not animals

@R.P-ACE777

3 жыл бұрын

RIGHT. BRUH, WHAT'S WRONG WITH THESE WOMEN?

@4HeimatLiebe

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah which is why real Man do not think of themselves first in Bed, get "used" up and leave her Yearning....truth is if Man heard and be ready to learn and broaden their Horizons it would benefit them All. The strongest Man are from Lands where Tao is tought and Restraint of one's Lusts instead Mindfulness, being Present and Karrezza in Relations.

What women want doesn't matter anymore, its about to get real on this planet ,reality is about to hit the fan

@LigolasTitus

5 жыл бұрын

You said a mouth full then.

@rasheedresheed5434

5 жыл бұрын

I agree bro.im now in a zone ive been hurt by supposedly good lloyal women.lmfao yea rt got played like fuck 4the clown abusive niccaz guess what im on my mgtow shit..strap up dog em out slut em out.and keep it moving.dnt whatever u do.get attached.if so.homie ur done.

@RudyGuzman00

5 жыл бұрын

Baseemah Beyah exactly I’m going thru that rn good comment

@seanjohnjohn7847

5 жыл бұрын

Baseemah Beyah cheers bro mgtow is true

@seanjohnjohn7847

5 жыл бұрын

Mgtow

She will AWAYS cheat on you nice guy. You’re not what she wants. She’s SETTLING FOR YOU.

@Adrenalean767

4 жыл бұрын

Lol bruh women cheat on every body,nice or not

@14kurtismiller

4 жыл бұрын

Some women will cheat on any man not just the nice guy.

@JD-zh1el

3 жыл бұрын

Ricky....you must be a very young guy. Women probably cheat more than men do. They just don't get caught doing it. I know of guys that have had one night stands with married women in the woman's car. It takes only 20-30 minutes to do the deed. So, if your woman is out of your sight for more than 20 minutes, she had the opportunity to cheat and if she is for the streets...she will cheat.

She is absolutely right on everything. That's why its important to live your lifeand chase your dreams and goals instead of worrying about women all the time.

I didn't hear a description of a "nice guy" but a passive guy. A nice guy can be bout his business, a leader, a boss, assertive, and direct while being a gentleman to women. That's not beta or being soft or passive. Nice guys with the qualities above may not get the woman they want bc alotta black women (professional or not) want a thug or aggressive dude bc they like a challenge and wanna tame, groom, raise, or take care of a man to feel accomplished. Most women need dysfunction to fix while most nice dudes ain't got dysfunction to deal with.

Bottom line is...people like and want who they want...just keep living and having fun...don't let ANYONE steal your motivation or joy!!! #💪💯

@palexstarks5553

4 жыл бұрын

Well put...good thought.

@4HeimatLiebe

3 жыл бұрын

🙏💖💪😘🙃🤗

if we wasn't good enough for them then their not good enough for us now!

@1luvcity

5 жыл бұрын

Say it again so the people in the back can hear you!!!

@swes9598

4 жыл бұрын

@@yourmainful Yes, and most women are, essentially, overgrown children.

Never chase, but lead. Don’t lead with money, but lead with power. You’re the prize fellas, she should be chasing your validation, and not you chasing her’s. Stay in your masculine frame, and continue to stay on your purpose. However it start up or ends... you”re good. No female can define your worth. Be yourself, be assertive, talk in power, walk in power. Stay humble, but carry a big stick. Be gentle as doves, but cunning as a snake. She better be bringing some cooperation to the table. Keep the abundance mindset.

A Man should never change who he is as a person to fit in with childish girls that haven't made it to Womanhood yet.

What women fail to realize is that the 80/20 rule applies to them as well.

@entertainmentmedia4742

4 жыл бұрын

Robert Drake Its like homeostasis. For every action there is a reaction. For every cause, there is an effect. You may not see the shift happen at once but it gradually occurs. When most people notice the change, it’s already too late. With the help of the Internet, more men are being informed. Some men aren’t getting married, some men are giving many women their own medicine and some are even just abandoning society. When the dating market shifts and they want to settle, they in turn will struggle to find a man. Not to mention their false sense of reality playing against their best interest. When people get left out, ostracized or isolated overtime, what do you think happens? These guys aren’t going to forget the bad experiences they had or witness in their lives. Not to mentioning the fact that men are being attacked in every way. "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.” This is an African proverb but there are similar quotes from different people and nations including China who’ve said the same thing. We already see this in many ways such as school shootings or less productivity. And you already have people complaining about the productivity declining. There are even studies that have been revealing that women are more miserable than ever before. We’re going to see a lot of suicides down the line, a lot of cats, more autism and more misery before the collapse.

I don't mind finishing last it would mean a drama free financial growth great life.

@allee2935

5 жыл бұрын

Real talk

@antonioo6432

5 жыл бұрын

Actually, I’m on that right now 👍🏽

@KevsUploads

5 жыл бұрын

Bullshit loll

@kingquads6982

5 жыл бұрын

@@LyallvanderLinde yeah if you are a teenager and have nothing going on

@menaretheprize2673

5 жыл бұрын

Kneph Sabir her body is super used up you nasty as shit 🤢🤢😷😷

It took me long time to realize this. But being nice is actually a *feminine* trait and if you as a man have this trait then it will turn-off any woman looking for a masculine man. Learn to distinguish a few things. Be polite and gentleman-like, but never be nice. Don't ever act needy and emotional but instead be the intensely-affectionate and caring without compromising your principles and position as a masculine figure. Don't focus on chasing a woman, focus on *attracting* a woman. I hope that general summary turns on a few light bulbs.

Guys be a nice guy...just realize that you are the MAN. Money making, protecting, providing, FATHERING MAN. That is your VALUE, realize your WORTH; and they will flock. I have no time for BW that do not realize the MAN I AM.

@juanitabing2739

5 жыл бұрын

So you don't date women of color?

@luciuschrist6929

5 жыл бұрын

I agree with everything you said -except that nice guy thing . haven't been a nice guy for 3 years, life is so much more fulfilling,especially with regards to females.

@smokiemcgoo8569

5 жыл бұрын

@@juanitabing2739 Lol! Nice!

@alexjones28

3 жыл бұрын

@@juanitabing2739 does it matter.... Date who you want....

NEVER be nice. ALWAYS check her. NEVER let any fuckup go un-addressed. ALWAYS be demanding. GET/STAY selfish. This will keep her in line. Time proven truth.

@0mega.mechan1c.

5 жыл бұрын

Amen, buff!

So women would rather have false manhood than the nice guy

@LigolasTitus

5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! This is also perpetuating the overly aggressive syndrome in men these days.

@jeremy072579

5 жыл бұрын

It's a mental illness at it's finest.

@dyates12

5 жыл бұрын

Of course

@a.x.ethegreat4244

5 жыл бұрын

nice guy doesn't equal true manhood dudes play the nice guy role to get what they want all the time. A strong man that doesn't waver from his morals for her validation, purpose, &/or follow her program but lets her be apart of his is what they truly desire. Nice guys tend to be pushovers, & pushovers dries women's pussies up.

@stoplookinent4791

5 жыл бұрын

At least she trying to respond to this epidemic

Reasons: Unattractive, non assertive, weak, passive, needy, insecure, sometimes boring, validation seeking. Nice alone is never the real reason.

Most women don't deserve nice guys.

@gidigod1618

4 жыл бұрын

True bro

Nice guys finish last because women often choose the bad boy *first,* mistakenly assuming that he has a greater potential for comfort, stability and survival. Many women realize *after* having spent most of their exuberance with bad boys, that in most cases, bad boys do not necessarily have any greater potential than nice guys, except in causing instability, pain and suffering.

@palexstarks5553

4 жыл бұрын

Some women want drama just for drama sake . allergic to tranquility....women shouldn't site being nice as a defect..rather the thirst for drama. We're both adults .....I shouldn't have to come home and check you ...we both have to deal with the outside world already and then I have to have beef at home because a woman needs me to be a asshole.....wow that sounds totally exhausting .

@shonsimpkins3915

4 жыл бұрын

@@palexstarks5553 "allergic to tranquility..." 😂👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@jrr7031

4 жыл бұрын

@Robert Drake Son.......! Yo, you on it!

@jrr7031

4 жыл бұрын

@Robert Drake yo real talk, God bless you. Most don't make it past 22....

Nice guys finish last, but they last forever...

@jackmutua448

5 жыл бұрын

JONNIE ROMAINE THOMAS hahahaha lord

@jonnieromainethomas9791

5 жыл бұрын

@@deshaunj1168 Change my life? Really? I own 5 homes, two domestically, three internationally. I retired at 32. Marrying an African Woman. I donate generators to people in need in Nigeria. I cruise twice a year and travel overseas every year.....would you change that life? That's the life of THIS "Nice Guy."

@coreythomas3633

5 жыл бұрын

JONNIE ROMAINE THOMAS I’m with you bro

@luciuschrist6929

5 жыл бұрын

I'm a dude ,and nice guys are even irritating to me!I understand why females don't like them,it's natural.

@veemon

5 жыл бұрын

JONNIE ROMAINE THOMAS you're a true champion. I salute you.

Good Men you shouldnt have to go through all that. If she cant like you for you then let her continue to go through baby daddies, divorces, and blaming all men. Being a good guy works on the right one.

@gidigod1618

4 жыл бұрын

That all!

The nice guy will never finish last. He will only become stronger and more successful

@ancientinfo1935

3 жыл бұрын

@The Ra Yeah. I Agree. But when you Reject them when they come back is when you when.

@rnbsteenstar

3 жыл бұрын

Nice women, too.

@elgk9317

3 жыл бұрын

@@rnbsteenstar is there nice women? Thought they all the same

@rnbsteenstar

3 жыл бұрын

@@elgk9317 Yes there are. They just might not fit the mold that you're wanting.

I'm An Actual Nice Guy. I not in any way/shape/form a Yes Man... This is the best way to be simply because women like a man who knows how to treat her like a lady and be polite & generous... However, I have my life, career, and boundaries that I allow no man/woman to ever interfere with. Given there are situations that call for compromise and in some cases even sacrifice, but even in those instances, I maintain my integrity as a man. I can not change or suppress who/how I am nor conform, especially for the sake of anyone's insecurities.

Guys... the Moral of the Story... Women are never Happy or Satisfied. Also, Guys... look for a Woman, Not a Girl... in a Woman's Body. It can be a bit of a vicious circle though... because that type of behaviour can turn Good Guys into Players or Dogs because of what they've experienced. All I can say is be careful... lol... Peace from a Black Man in London, UK.

Nice guys never finish last. Women get ran through and used until they start making better choices.

Best way to get a women hooked is thru sex or finance.. everything else (love, loyalty, compassion, etc) means nothing until they hit the age of 50.

@princeabutta

5 жыл бұрын

Couldnt be more true

@khalidelshabazz5565

5 жыл бұрын

Truth

@BornToBeFamed

5 жыл бұрын

facts.. Protect and Provide and Sex all they want. by 50 they want love because by then they are even out of their sexual prime.

@vereen70

4 жыл бұрын

@ B.L.A.C.K. You know, I’m a 49 yr old guy who just realized your comment is the Equivalent to a “Female Fuckery Unifying Theory” I’ve been trying to put this together for years but because of lies and misdirections from ALL women I could not put my finger on it until your comment. LOL and they swear that “ All women are not like that “ Bah!!

@shonsimpkins3915

4 жыл бұрын

Yep

Problem is some of these guys in the comment section have a scarce mentality. Still mad over that rejection that took place years ago. Some women are going to reject you thats life..... In a city like New York you have literally unlimited options. Rejection is a part of life and on top of that it won’t kill you. 100’s of millions of women that turn 18-30 EVERYDAY!!!!!!!

@SaraLena

5 жыл бұрын

TenTaur Tv Thank You for this comment.

@orlandokelly6711

5 жыл бұрын

Now New York City I believe you all have some of the most down-to-earth sisters I've ever seen 👍🏼

@blacketernal7139

5 жыл бұрын

Orlando Kelly Exactly what I’m saying!!! SOOO many cool women, some want exclusivity and others dont.

@blacketernal7139

5 жыл бұрын

Sara Lena No problemo. I just get tired of the “nice guy” bitching parade. Shit is annoying. Mofos arent even APPROACHING women!!! You cant overwrite thousands of years of evolution and these guys think they can be wall flowers or kiss a woman’s ass and get unconditional love.

@blacketernal7139

5 жыл бұрын

olmec19 Depends on what you’re focused on.... You focus on women that are rachet and aint shit you WILL constantly find said women

My Take is guys, don't believe what your mom told you about women. You need to be Yourself. Don't let them Push you over. If she is fat tell It how is it. Don't let them full you!

@SaraLena

5 жыл бұрын

SuperKwame1 Definitely always be honest. Telling an overweight person that they look “fine” will only hurt them in the long run. And eventually might cause you to step out on them if you know you’re not physically attracted to her, and she’s not doing anything to change it because you keep telling her she looks “fine.” I think it’s best to always be honest...that’s the only way people will grow.

Nice guys don't finish last cuz we too busy gettin rich. You only finish last when you think you can put a woman first instead of yourself and your purpose. A prudent woman is a blessing from God but a real man is the prize

If I see girls liking a guy purely on the fact that other girls like him it's a huge turnoff for me and she loses her chances with me. I appreciate a mature women that doesn't play into the trope and knows what she wants regardless of the guy or how many girls like him. At a party where there are a bunch of outgoing talkative girls and girls dancing on the dance floor being loud and obnoxious I'm most attracted to the lone girl that is doing her own thing on the side. She comes off as the most confident and sure of herself in whatever she may be doing that she doesn't need to waste time being loud or noticed.

@Dimz30

3 жыл бұрын

I agree 100%

The truth of the matter is that most women in their teens and twenties want the unpredictable bad boy. Because he's exciting. They have a couple of babies with him or a couple of dudes like him. Then when they hit their thirties and forties, they realize that unpredictable is too unstable. That's when they reach the understanding that they need stability to provide them with monthly necessities (bills) and to help raise the children. By then, their body has changed, after having a few kids. And they're too old to still be going out to clubs and partying every weekend. So, they start to lose options, because they can no longer compete with the younger, more physically fit women the way they use to. They don't want to be the 30+-year-old woman in the club. That's when they start looking to "settle down" with the "nice guy". Hence, the reason why "nice guys finish last". Men should have fun in their twenties. Don't settle down. Be about your business and stack your paper. The women will find you when they're ready to "settle down" in their thirties. At that point, the ball is in your court. You have the options if you've taken care of your business, accumulated wealth (and knowledge to obtain greater wealth) and stay physically fit well into your later adulthood years.

@Dimz30

4 жыл бұрын

Amen to that.

@vereen70

4 жыл бұрын

Solid advice

Of course, nice guys always finish last....because it's the women who choose the bad boys over them that always finish first. So nice guys who finished last dodged a bullet from them. S'how I see it...

@Dimz30

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@NNWillieProject

3 жыл бұрын

*It's 2020, herds of nice guys have taken the Redpill so they are not finishing last anymore nor settling down.* They are competing with the badboys in the dating market. Future statistics will reveal that women will not only have short-term relationships with badboys but with former nice guys...unfortunately, lots of women will be on anti-depressants from the results. "Life finds a way." ~Jurassic Park

So... she plays games with men by not responding to their texts to test them. Many of us are done with your games and looking for a real honest woman, but you go mistake kindness for weakness and chase fake power, while the good men of character with real power are looked over because they are not exciting enough. Y’all can keep your crazy lives and us sane men will keep our money, health, and sanity.

@miamidolphinsdiehardfan109

5 жыл бұрын

Preach

BALANCE is key fellas! There is nothing wrong with being nice and respectable. However you must show her your not a doormat when she gets out of pocket!

Ok, so what is it that makes you (women) come back to the "nice guy" later in life? If the nice guy is so undesirable "early in life" why is he all of a sudden desirable to women later? We all know the answer, just want to hear it from women, which they won't admit, but their actions show it. They either had their hearts broken by the bad boy, or got tired of being cheated on, need a 2nd (stable) income, or they themselves just can no longer compete with younger 20 somethings women. Either way, they aren't in love with the nice guy, they are just settling. True?

@14kurtismiller

4 жыл бұрын

Women return to nice guys because their age becomes a factor later on in life. Some women no longer have as many options as they did when they were younger. Some women also settle down because they began to think about their resources.

@larrymburu2306

3 жыл бұрын

True.

@rnbsteenstar

3 жыл бұрын

@@14kurtismiller OR, SOMETIMES, SOMETIMES, they fall into love with each other later in life. It happens!

@14kurtismiller

3 жыл бұрын

Many women run out of options, get tired of being used and realise that their income and resources have not increased, just their number of sex partners. Women settle down for financial resources. Some just fool themselves into thinking that they have changed their ways. They have children with nice guys in the hopes that they won't have to keep working and struggle through life. Some women settle for the man who wants them later in life, not the man that they actually want. That desirable man don't view women he beds as trustworthy, valuable of worth his time anymore.

@14kurtismiller

3 жыл бұрын

@@rnbsteenstar I hope that there are women who still fall in love, but I doubt that.

Great topic. As a nice guy raised to treat women right, ive learned that I had to instill a 'one strike, you're out' policy with women like that. Here are my results since about age 18, I'm 43 now, most of those women were doing me a favor by ending things with me. Sadly, most of those women's lives have fallen to total shit. I literally laugh at the old ratchets in their present state and how they try to return back. No thanks! Most women just dont know what they want or what is good for the long term.

@Dimz30

4 жыл бұрын

True god knew best.

I beg to differ, nice guys do finish first. We know how to treat our women with dignity and respect. If women want to be used and abused by the "other" guys, more power to you.

I dont understand why alot of black men think it's just black women who has this attitude

I’m a Proud Nice Guy,My Wife and my Daughters Love Me for Who and what I am. Both of my Daughters have their Bachelor Degrees,No Children and want a Guy like Daddy.as they’ve Stated. So you go ahead and Get your Roughneck and I wish that could see you running for an Order of Protection!

@SaraLena

5 жыл бұрын

Ibrahim z ???

@blackinthemiddlerecords

5 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena dude must have watched your video with the volume down. SMH.

That's why I'll allow the man upstairs to lead me to the great woman he wants me to have bc great qualities in all ways good women will appreciate & never take advantage of. Great video to learn from so I can see what more to avoid in today's women.

@ryuken338

5 жыл бұрын

The man upstairs is to busy worrying about more important things than your social life. There are probably billions of other beings on multiple planets in mutiple universe's asking for the same thing you are. Cut the man upstairs some slack and be accountable for yourself and your own decisions

@phillipeuring8602

5 жыл бұрын

@@ryuken338 the man upstairs still deals with each & every one of us on individual basis especially in prayer. Nice troll try but epic fail. Next....

@ryuken338

5 жыл бұрын

@@phillipeuring8602 I'm not trolling. The man upstairs has instilled everything that you need in your life to get by. He didn't just give you free will, he gave you many tools to get by and each tool is to be used for different situations in life. God can't hold your hand and baby step you through everything aspect of your life.

@phillipeuring8602

5 жыл бұрын

@@ryuken338 doesn't mean we can't ask him for what we want. Word says we have not bc we ask not & to make our requests known to God. Seems like you're minimizing God's ability to take care each & every soul in what he's created. You continue to get by on you. I'll depend on him when my choices get minimal & ask for his guidance.

finishing last is a good thing that way you can bypass all of the junk and drama you would have gone through dealing with a out of control or emotionally unstable person... keep your integrity...be honest and do the right thing.... if you don't not only will you finish last but you will be the sucker... read between the lines if things aren't matching up or if it feels off or wrong get out quick

Thank you for this video. But, please understand that black women are 'confusing' to black men. This video validates that for men. That's why most of the 'nice guys' leave for other races of women. It's nothing against black women, but it's seeking the comfort that we want to feel from women, So, 'nice guys' end up with what we consider 'nicer women', When you tell a black man that he's too nice, then you ARE indirectly telling him that you prefer MEAN guys ... It's what we hear .... It really is ... Again, thank you for the video ... but, the "he picked me" attitude amongst black women is childish at best ..

I usually agree with your assessmnts and advice on your videos but this one is off. I hve seen other people talk abt this topic. You and others make it seem as if "nice" guys are weak, not intelligent and cnt think for himself. You really placed every stereotype on guys who present themselves in a respectable and decent manor. Women hve this duality mindset when it comes to what they say they want in a man. You all say u want a man that is available but not a man who makes himself available. You say u want a man that doesn't hve a whole bunch of women but if a guy doesn't hve 50 women chasing him u dnt want him? Hmmmmm makes no sense, never has and never will. Y'all funny!!!! I get we should hve some flava abt us but the advice u gave was crazy bcus u all want things exact and we men aren't packaged that way and neither are you all. I'd like to see u do one on what men want in a woman and notice the big difference.....

@SaraLena

5 жыл бұрын

Leroy Mckenzie Jr. JNF Enterprises LLC. I actually said none of that...but if that’s how you perceive it...

@leroymckenziejr.jnfenterpr567

5 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena It's not my perception. I am going off of what u were saying abt men or nice men in your video. U sd nice guys are agreeable? Ok, so if we are agreeable we are less likely to be in a position of power? That's not accurate. That is just one example. U sd nice guys just accept whatever? No, individual men may be like that but all nice guys are not that way? These are your statemnts not mine?

@SaraLena

5 жыл бұрын

Leroy Mckenzie Jr. JNF Enterprises LLC. I also said the “stereotypical nice guy”, not a man that is nice. And I explained that...but those words you probably didn’t hear. Which makes sense...this is a sensitive topic for men...which makes you all react the same way emotional women do when we don’t want to hear certain things. My King is nice, but he’s not a “stereotypical ‘nice guy.’” There is a difference.

@ronsmith9714

5 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena I read the comments and comparing it to how women would act when they hear the truth...big difference...men in this comment section are calm and speaking facts I barely see no explicits in their words...women on the other hand would of flipped the fuck out...I only see logic here...I understand his comment

@princeabutta

5 жыл бұрын

Couldnt say it much better , good reply i definitely respect lena answer and her video but you r spot on, u cant find all in one and this is why women suffer , this is y there r single mothers , this is why we have women who r depressed , this is y some women are addicts and have aggressive behavior , this is why women are in the psych wards and losing themselves , these standards women have are unrealistic. These physica,l material , social qualities is what women desire, you cant have all in one , stereotypical nice guys or nice guys , men know this thats y u see men go after foreign and younger women , western culture women are considered to be spoiled, cause men knows women has an expiration date and women knows it too , if you dont find the one before then the time is up, maybe women should try the nice guy early but no they keep them.in the friend z9ne or choose them last because of preferences of everyone else , they need that validation from other women , just to say i got him, men know this and cheat and choose the younger girls late at their age and early , most likely foreign cultural women , who are not polluted with these ideals , it doesnt help women it makes things worse for them, lena pointed out various of facts that men knows. Women create the type of men in their minds and roll along with it, thinking men dont know these common facts. Men counter attack by cheating and not trusting women cause they know the reasons women choose certain men , its good that lena made this videos to shed light on women actions and hopefully teach them to choose better thenones they overlook r thenone they need the most , be yourself and do whats best, dont choose a guy because of alpha or beta types , choose based on consistency, i wouldnt advice no one to change for a women and hoping you lena are not doing that also, they are new sources for nice guys to obtain a women , but women are limited cause of the aging process and societal standards that they so much love and pressured on . Well said both of you

Don't worry they'll turn MGTOW Lena

@LDAGamingDivision

3 жыл бұрын

Already am..

Respect to you for being honest about female nature 🙌🏾

I like being in last, i get to sit back and watch the trainwrecks that are most relationships.

@remainloyaltoyour0wnsoil580

4 жыл бұрын

You do finish last you always will get my seconds 😂😂😭 remember if you never got her first when u approached YOU WILL ALWAYS BE LAST......

Women want what they want, which is everything at all times. Once you stop caring about what she wants or what she’s attracted to you’ll be much better off 💯 focus on your career and your health and let them prove their worth to you 💪🏾

We can't foresee the future but we do somewhat have the key to our destiny, if you pick a negative guy over a positive nice guy then your life will be? Guess what negative.

I'm one of those nice guys with none of these traits she's talking about but still experience the relationship sabotage from women so I just think some women just don't want a nice guy

Think about it this way... finishing fast or first don't matter much after 35 or so. He who laughs last laughs loudest. Stay you nice guys. All good as time passes.

I think it’s all on perception. Im a nice guy, I’ve been with a lot of women, not even bragging. I’ve always had options. Some men are raised to treat women with love and respect. You just have to weigh your options. If a girl is really feeling you, it is what it is. I did learn that I was more passive when I was younger and more naive but you live and you learn but if you really like a woman, there’s really no time for games. Women are ❤️ but they do test and play a lot and most women are going to have options even if they don’t use them. If you see a girl that you really like and want to treat her like a queen, you should do. If she’s not with it, on to the next one. That’s what I had to learn. Be confident in yourself but don’t try to be someone you’re not. Love and respect women. Don’t treat them like shit. You don’t even have to argue with them all the time. Just do you when you know you’re not being respected for your worth. Vise versa

Put her on a pedestal, she looks down on you. Now, I keep them looking UP to me... from her knees. No knees - no go - NEXT! Just accept the fact that she cannot handle "nice". Don't worry about being too mean. She'll just try harder to get in your good graces. Give her flashes of good once in a rare while. Keep her off balance. She loves it. (Yeah, makes no sense).

@MrJungleWarrior

5 жыл бұрын

No emotion, just accomplish the mission. .

@nicholashayes5773

4 жыл бұрын

Women are crazy yo.

Look how she's talking about the nice guy but at the same time laughing. Be a jerk I bet you she won't laugh...

@60NXNP09

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@shonsimpkins3915

4 жыл бұрын

Yep...

@14kurtismiller

4 жыл бұрын

She's with a nice guy, that's why he concern himself with female hyper gamy. Any man that's not a nice guy don't care what his woman's practice of commitment are because he's on the hunt for her replacement anyways. She just happen to have a guy with some balance.

@jxmmykriminallive

4 жыл бұрын

So in your mind, a woman talking about a person and laughing while she does so is a negative thing? Pretty weird way to view things but ok lol.

@rmr2087

3 жыл бұрын

Ok.. that’s what she’s talked about the whole entire video

Until she fall flat on her back and can’t get up after the bad boys left her hanging high and dry alone with 2 or 3 kids that’s when she wants the nice guy to be with. That’s what often transpires.

You are by far the most logical black woman I've ever heard have a podcast good job sis much respect

@TheRebelutionary1

5 жыл бұрын

I think her logical thinking is a result of being in tune with her femininity, and where her power as a woman comes from. She understands who she is, and who she is not. Far too many women, and men are not there yet.

@SaraLena

5 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you both. If I can be completely honest, it’s not just my femininity or even my experiences that help with my understanding...I give much credit to my King. He’s taught me a lot, and submitting to his knowledge and wisdom has really brought much value into my life.

@hootop85

5 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena No offense but I can tell there's a genuine masculine presence/influence in your life it's all about balance!

@maxpawa9282

2 жыл бұрын

Bit she still doing the 80/20 herself.

Thank for your perspective for I am so glad that I don't waste my time with those type of women. I had to learn this the hard way concerning women who don't "feel me". And to my black brothers, I have some good news for you. There are actually good women out there who desire to have the type of "nice guy" that she is speaking about. Remember this my brothers, a good woman not only wants to be nurtured but she knows how to nurture a nice guy or as I will say "work with" "the brother". Even though that she is bringing up some good points, she would probably agree that this does not apply to all women. I've learned this from my dad's example and listening to my mom that us "good guys" only finish last when we pick the wrong type of women. My mom used to say, "your dad was a work in progress when we initially met, but look at your dad now". You get where I'm going with this my dear brothers? There are some great sisters out there who not only see potential in us "nice guys", but because of their patience and love for us, they know how to bring out the best in us. Because, us men have genetic codes that come alive when we are with the right "sister", I'm a witness my brothers, do not be discouraged nor waste your time on someone that "can't see the forest because of the trees". My brothers, when I some time soon, I'll do several videos on the type of women who are compatible with "Nice Guys". So do yourself a favor, when a sister don't accept you for the gem that you are (Nice Guys), just walk away and don't be their yo-yo as mentioned in this video... "Nuff Said". God bless you all..... Peace.

Look at the number of things they need vs what men need. They are ridiculous with all the game playing and testing us its crazy 90% of what she says they like they still get it wrong... Bottom linr dont put no stock in todays girls

@4HeimatLiebe

3 жыл бұрын

who are "they"? Please do Humanity a Favour and go get professional Help from a Brother Therapist.

@albertrobinson4133

2 жыл бұрын

@@4HeimatLiebe so he needs therapy just for stating his opinion?? Lol mfs over kill the therapy card, nothin buddy said was wrong, these females require too much and still don’t be satisfied, men are simple asl

There's a different between nice and being respectful

U should see how nice these girls are when ur making 7 figures.

I’m glad you said it sis 😂💯

Its all a game. You just have to play🤷🏾‍♂️

@Bnines09

5 жыл бұрын

🤷🏾‍♂️

@calmsyvibes1010

4 жыл бұрын

Good thing I have all the cheat codes

I enjoyed this a great deal. I love how honest you are. And how well you explain it from the feminine perspective.

Great points sis, women also damage men too as men damage women Men don’t verbalize there hurt and damage that they receive from women as much as women talk about how men damage them. So there’s a huge misconception about that.

Women with less friends usually know what they want, I do avoid the "den" "coven" types and it works for me, peer pressure and popular opinions are the females most destructive causes.

@Bcizzle225

3 жыл бұрын

💯

Nice guys finish first but it doesn't last because women are addicted to dysfunction.

Looks, looks, and more looks..the confidence argument has been debunked. Dating apps have also ruined most modern women. Why would a woman that’s a 6 go for a guy that’s a 6 when guys that are 7’s 8’s and 9’s are blowing up her tinder for a quick lay? She gets the lay with no commitment but now thinks she not only can pull an 8 or a 9 but now she deserves one. Just be smart fellas

@miamidolphinsdiehardfan109

5 жыл бұрын

Preach

Nice guys finish first. No matter what.

Seem like they want men that don't want them..they just like what they like..

One of the few women telling the TRUTH. I like that. None of that sugarcoated fantasies to trip me up in this dating game

Thanks 💯 I really needed to hear this ❤️ 🙏🏾 🙌

It sounds like a chess game that women' are playing with each other and the men are the pawns

Ok. That's it ! I'm moving to Brazil

@nsisongamama4760

5 жыл бұрын

Johnny H-E LOL

Instagram has truly brung the simps out of nice guys turning our women into narcissists and putting them on a pedestal.

Nice Guy in the end will away win, BE YOURSELF NICE GUY, DON'T COMPROMISE!!!!!