Common Concerns Women Have About Their Men
5 Common Concerns Women Have About Their Men...
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Timecodes:
0:00 - Intro
2:15 - Being a Helpmate
10:03 - Being Submissive
22:45 - Following Rules for Safety
36:35 - Receiving Constructive Feedback
45:15 - Being a Homemaker
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As a so called "Black" man in America , I would just like to say that it warms my heart and re-affirms the natural order of things when I see you two together. It is very evident that there is harmony between you and that is priceless.
@MrShadow8921
2 жыл бұрын
My guy a Moor lol
Some ladies think dressing “bummy” will repel men but all that does is make you appear cheap or easy to LQM. To them you appear in their “league”, and you in turn, turn off better quality options. Keep that in mind if you find yourself thinking this way.
@truthseeker4460
2 жыл бұрын
Wow didn’t know this
Please don’t feel sad about explaining; every generation must be taught! 💕
I didn’t even hit play yet. I just had to look at the photo. And the chemistry could be felt. Y’all’s classy demeanors is such a match.
As a 47 Y.O. man. I've been on the path of Fatherhood, Spouse, leader of my family, and the climb to Divinity for some time. With that said, A refresher course on how I should be moving is imperative. It provides confirmation, reassurance, and helps keep me focused on my path. The consumption of knowledge and wisdom has no age. Thanks.
I’m mad glad that our good brother is back. Much respect!
@Nyufly
2 жыл бұрын
NY's speak in oxymorons. "I'm mad glad" 🤣
The energy (love, affection and respect) you two exude is so contagious!. Thanks for this video and glad to see hubby after so long. Much love💞 x
Y’all look beautiful together. Black and beautiful. Now this should go viral
What a lucky man. Salute to you two.
Adding to the topic of Ideas: Breaking down Large Ideas into smaller manageable tasks will increase productivity Topic of Leadership: Discipline ( being consistent ), Self Control( monitor thoughts + emotions ) and Communication ( ability to listen and articulate ) Topic of Submission: Be more compliant and less combative ( but good leaders love a degree of push back ) Topic of Relationship: Love is Law and Family is business, Give each other grace to grow, Its a process!
I’m glad your husband is back
Black love is beautiful.
@piyesankara890
Жыл бұрын
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Watching y’all in your roles is so refreshing. I could put this video on mute and simply learn from y’all’s body language!! Cheers to your union and beautiful example.
Her body language validates everything he says
Y'all are needed for the culture💯🙏🏾
Wow!!! What a great example of a power couple who are getting it right!!!! The chemistry, communication and connection between you two is par excellence!!! During my viewing of this video there’s been an echo of WOWs from me. In my years of viewing videos, never have I seen a couple who’s gotten it as right as the two of you. 1000 thanks. SALUTE 🙏🏾
Good morning beautiful people, God bless and it's good to see you both❤️
First off, congratulations to you two. I noticed the ring a while back. Secondly, another great video to the basics of being a successful individual and couple/relationship. Thank you both.
The way you look at your husband I can tell you truly admire him. Can’t wait to find my King. I appreciate your content!
The case is that everybody is ouppetung me and that oaralizes me. I cant breathe!
Sometimes people can block you from moving ahead! And you winder why are they doing this?
This is top tier 🔥🔥🔥
🎶Reunited and it feels so good 🎶
This is Incredibly Helpful
I so jealous cos I can’t seem to get a conscious queen but at the same time I LOVE these two… I aways smile when I see them and I’m glad my brother is back. He should be here more often. I can’t wait to get my beautiful conscious black queen…. Much love to my brothers and sisters in America and beyond ❤️❤️❤️. Sending my love from the United Kingdom
Well you're definitely a woman worth the time and effort he's putting in, your Husband has definitely found a Jewel.
Hi sis so glad your husband is back beautiful 💖💖 good video .I'm still going to the park and caring for myself
@SaraLena
2 жыл бұрын
I’m happy to hear that, Princess!👸🏾
I'm 25 and This was beneficial Edit: My dad taught me alot of these things all my life however the video confirms I'm going down the right path and it confirms how I can be better.
@jordansinclaire6292
2 жыл бұрын
My 25th birthday is in a week and I’m soo grateful for this video right now❤️
@ajunteburns6894
2 жыл бұрын
@@jordansinclaire6292 amen and happy early birthday.
I admire what yall are doing... They need to see 40+ black men who aren't strung out or in perpetual childhood interact with black women in thier feminine.. Not even for the advice because it may be good for one and not the other.. It's good if it helps but just seeing you interact with one another in a positive environment is a great thing
These men have turned my life upside down. I have nothing! Was not treated well by these men!
Longest time , it feels good to see your video popped up on my notifications once again . Nice one
Y’all are a beautiful couple , thank you for the upload !
Salute to both of yall! Very inspiring & uplifting conversation👑🌎💯
I miss the videos you two would do together. Good to see .Great
Well said!!!! The brother is on point this simp thing is out of control they clearly have no idea what being a man is so sad,
I love how great you two look together! You both make a great couple!!👌🏿
This was an excellent video! 🌻 Lots of great tips from both sides, and I look forward to growing more with my King! 💕✨☺️ Thank you, Sara Lena!
I can watch you two talk for HOURS. Great content as always Sara. Watched the two of you really does model how a healthy relationship is supposed to be. Stay blessed and hail up the king as well 💪🏾
My new fave channel ❤️❤️
Your back!! Please continue to do more videos!
GREAT stuff... as usual! Thank you for voicing these common thoughts and questions of so many! Peace y'all!
@SaraLena
2 жыл бұрын
Peace!🙏🏾
Great video. This information is helpful. Also, it was good to see the both of you dropping gems on this subject. Relationship's take work and the mindset each person has is key to success. Thank you!
Keep up everything going on this channel guys 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Amen sister!
Great content, quality insights! And so Beautiful your example on camera together, body language, respectful dialog, and trust really shows. Thank you so much, Blessings!
Just came across your videos but when the brother said leadership begins with self discipline I couldn’t agree more. You must be disciplined enough to become a role model for others to even want to emulate. So many young bros never gained the discipline (no fathers in homes) and never learned to discipline themselves, therefore, they aren’t in position to lead. Great talking points.
I like these two together... Great chemistry.. Knowledgeable... Its a good look
Solid brother. Just subscribed to his channel. Aiku…..Long Life!!!!!! Great video.
That's good advice.
Procrastination is a killer of dreams.
I just commented on one of ur post from way back. So thank u for ur beautiful insight. So, I am A white woman who is know learning the truth of the true history of the black people. U r way more powerful than most people think. Learn of the true Egyptians. The true history is finally being discovered and accepted. The Africans were the true rulers of ancient Egypt. Wear ur power with pride and humility. Hope this is taking to heart with absolute respect to your amazing ancestors ♥️🙏
great discussion and productive great love and unity
He is smooth .....When he is talking and she gives him a look he rubs her shoulder ...i like that .....
Salute!!!!!!!
Always good 😊
I figured out I can ask questions without judgement as if I was try to lead her towards an issue she could solve. If she thinks im judging her with my line of questioning, I sidestep it by asking her why see feels a certain way about the thing she feels judge about it. I dont pass judgement either way, but she ends up with a better mindset towards a trigger point she has. As far as talking about goals, what I noticed about women when they hear us talk about our goals is this. Women dont hear strategically, they listen for a kinetic to do list. When a man talks about his goal, he doesn't mention all the forces and obstacles that he either needs to time, move or break before getting there that requires him to be a better man before its attainable. The simple way to understand this when men are talking about their goals, they are really discussing the position they want to be in. Im learning that this isn't something the woman needs to hear but its good to share so she can feel close to you. Just my two cents.
Great video
Love y'all for setting a proper good example of a healthy relationship salute to the Lord and Lady
I'm enjoying this video
Right!
Salute to you both. Always good to hear y'all's wisdom. And is very funny because I'm actually cooking right now while I'm listening to y'all wisdom. And my queen better not touch a lawn mower better not touch the trash can. I don't think I have to worry about her killing the bug because she is frightened by them things. Lol. One time I literally had to take my lunch break early to drive 30 minutes home just to kill a big bug for my wife 🤣
It is always good to the brother
Im trying to work on me by attempting to get into a womans teansitional program but i hope noone is trying to hold me back on self improvement!
Great Jewels
This is so important, I found that writing things down creates a drive to the next level, I agree with these concepts. However, it is hard to find people moving in the same direction with the winning spirit, I find that challenging, but now impossible. I know that no relationships are perfect but it gives me a little hope of seeing you guys together. Meeting a female and making her your woman is extremely difficult, just a lot of players with the mindset of I don't need any man...I have my own money blah blah blah! Awesome topic
I came across Sara's video about a year ago when she talked about putting a ww who try to recruit her to a feminist in her place. I knew she had to have a husband; she was too precious, but I was so disappointed when it was confirmed. I'm still mad.
@thegeneral1418
2 жыл бұрын
*Lol, this comment turned left quick.*
@selenemiller9976
Жыл бұрын
@@thegeneral1418 😭🤣🤣🤣
Can you please write a book about the material you discuss in your videos?
You can tell yall hating with all these low likes lol. Man up she's taken lmaooo
She was melting the whole video🤗
@percyastronautstatus.8780
2 жыл бұрын
Every man wants that
She is sooo pretty😍 cute couple
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The Roc is in the Building!!
Im gonna get away from the slave master!
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They being busters!
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Did he use to have locs?
We so busy fighting these men we angry how we have been opressed!
@DoloresGillyard
5 ай бұрын
I just think I am not being heard I'm a trying to tell people part of the reason I wanna leave and no one is believing me until something bad happens. Real men will validate my feelings and what I'm telling them!
@DoloresGillyard
5 ай бұрын
We got serial killers on this block!
Well I appreciate the advice that you guys are giving, and hearing you talk I could see that your queen is in her feminine. The problem is that the women today is hard as hell. There not about that.
I swear this is the QUEEN of black women. They burning out they back listening to Cardi and Meg who were "intentionally" popularized to destroy our sisters. This is Eve before the error in the garden right here.
Hello, did you say 7 years? I thought you were newlyweds.
Since you've forced him to come on camera, I don't really care about the topic anymore but this is what I want to see in the black community - a woman who naturally submits and cooperates with her man, a man who protects and cares for his woman. This is all we need. If we have more of this, everything else will fix itself
First of all, I would like to compliment the husband on his choice of women. He chose well. His wife represents him well. Secondly, I like that quote: "High flying birds, fly solo"
Cute couple. You both look like Movie Actors
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Where u been Sara? You don’t love us..🥹
ok most women will tell you they do"t want a leader they want a panther. and most men talk about things or do things
Hes so immature!
Unrelated but you kinda sound and resemble Candace Owens
That’s not for all women some women are bitter who’s still immature just like men who are immature
1. Don't speak 2. Leave me alone until I ask for something 3. Take care of the children. I have everything handled and I need 0.00 help. Thits a marriage...anything also is western cuckoldry. The brother is ✅ right > it begins with the Mans SELF..nothing else is required.
@selenemiller9976
Жыл бұрын
Hi Sativa, hope this finds you well! I cant lie, number 1 triggered me a tiny bit hehe, but im also quite curious tbh....Why would you not want your woman to speak? Or do you mean, dont speak on anything outside of the home/herself i.e you dont her to comment on anything you do etc. ? If you felt like clarifying or giving further insight i would appreciate it and it may help me (since im naturally a chatterbox sometimes lol) 😊
14:30 don't work on most chicks these days. This ain't type specific either. From hood hoes to white collar cuties if she doesn't feel you're better than her, highly attracted to you or just naturally feminine (which is rare now) good luck trying. I've tried exactly how you said it too
Great video