The more I learn about (most) women the more I appreciate being single.

She’s right when a woman says he can’t handle me i need a man that can handle me. That’s a huge red flag run

There are a lot of women who are really in need of therapy. They don't want to be held accountable for their mistakes as well as convictions by not seeking the healing that is necessary for them to move forward in life.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed. So many take it as an insult when people say they need therapy, but it’s very helpful. I’m not ashamed to say I had and still do have a therapist. Avoided Trauma prevents us being in our feminine, and from having healthy relationships.

@pleaseactright1

3 жыл бұрын

@Alessandra Gabbana Most women hide these things about them in the beginning. Once we realize it, we're 3-4 months in. If she showed these ways about herself in the beginning, she knows the men who have value would never date her. 85% of the people out there getting into these "relationships" are hiding who they truly are. In most cases, it's hard to tell right off the bat. This happens to a lot of us men and women.

@garrisona5669

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@Dimz30

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena thank u for being real. Many women wouldn't admit they need it.

@mrcouch3232

3 жыл бұрын

BUT FIRST, THEY HAVE TO ADMIT THERE'S PROBLEM...AND WELL U KNOW THE REST

I love how honest you are. Only my aunt and sometimes my grandmother are this honest. What's crazy is that most women have their dad, uncle brothers, male cousins, male friends, male co-workers telling them the truth about the risks of men. Like you said, it's rare that women tell the truth about women - even women in your family.

@Popoutrockout

3 жыл бұрын

Facts most the time they get on the girls side off the gate. Funny thing is the women don't even listen when you give em game anyway.

@17thNO

3 жыл бұрын

Most men (myself included) were basically taught by the women in my family and community and most of the men when I was growing up that women were basically angels and all men were terrible and women could never do wrong, but whooooo I was wrong, as a man in this world I found out things were totally different.

I love this woman!! Protect her!! Keep going sista you got this!!!

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate You!

@jon_s

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena Hi Sara, because I appreciate the truth you tell, I don't mind promoting your new Modern Goddess Channel and I have only 4 ideas for that. Do you ever check the email address you displayed?

@jon_s

3 жыл бұрын

@@danielwong5378 No, not at all. It was my way to get her checking the email... And it worked

@JoeyT

3 жыл бұрын

Protect her from what? An algorithm?

@danielwong5378

3 жыл бұрын

@@JoeyT You people and your sarcasm.

What's really gonna hurt some men's pride is the disappointing answers you get if you confront your mom about why she didn't mention it. It may go from blame shifting to "Oh those are just some girls (NAWALT)" to "well, you still turned out OK" and a whole list of answers to make her unaccountable-- a luxury fathers don't usually have."

@monda3802

3 жыл бұрын

Yo mama is a woman before anything else, she still dodges accountability no matter what

Wow the whole bit about female friends explained me and I didn’t even know it. I’m super introverted and you pretty much explained why I don’t have many female friends and have guy associates (not friends). You’re right you have to initiate with women and I’m so reserved. But guys will talk to you first. This is a real light bulb for me lol. I don’t fall into any of the categories though. I genuinely love doing my own thing solo lol.

@glammodel5299

3 жыл бұрын

Yes same here now I know why I dont have female friends. It's a gamble trying to pick the right one cause so many are hateful, underhanded and sneaky. It's like if you pick the wrong one you can literally lose your life.

@Xallisto1

2 жыл бұрын

" I genuinely love doing my own thing solo" That's deffo an introvert thing, I'm the same way. I cant stand to be around other people for 2 long.

They even cheat on men who are faithful loyal and good to them. Be careful of who you make soul ties with.

@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71

3 жыл бұрын

@@thelmathomas8414 you have a reprobate mind and you are following in Eve's footsteps. I don't trust vipors like you. You are full of of lies and the truth is not in you. If you don't want me to further convict you with the truth then part from me. However you can't run from the truth forever. I bet you cheated on a good man and regret. Now play your game of gaslighting with someone else. Good night.

@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71

3 жыл бұрын

@@thelmathomas8414 I tell you one more thing. You are the one bitter because either you was rejected by a good man, cheated on by a thug, or both. Well that's not my fault.

@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71

3 жыл бұрын

@@thelmathomas8414 I am not a bitter single mother.

@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71

3 жыл бұрын

@@thelmathomas8414 By the way I am not a felon. I don't have to pay child support or alimony. I don't have any kids. I never had any STDs nor felonies. I never had any speeding tickets or DUIs. I have my Class A CDL and passport. I live alone. I have my own place and transportation. I work. I've probably been more places than you will ever see in your life. I'm free and don't want you. Now tell me how I'm bitter since you want to try to project your misery on me.

@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71

3 жыл бұрын

Ecclesiastes 7:26-28 Matthew 7:6 Proverbs 2, 5, 21:9, 21:19, 31:3 Isaiah 3:16-26 Revelations 2:20-23

My momma never taught non of this. Thank you for sharing this video and imma share this with my homeboys too

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

No problem Brother! Respect!

I can't believe this woman decided to wake up and speak nothing but facts🤔❤️

My mother or older siblings taught me nothing about girls, but my observations of my mother and sister taught me contempt and distrust of females from a very early age. This was exacerbated by my father, whose very little "mentoring" on women was always negative. As a result, I just stayed away from them and by age 15 just psychologically shut down. I didnt finally start dating until my mid 20s and only because my first kiss/sex/girlfriend made all the first moves - I never would have. Even then I dated only very sporadically due to continued distrust and hatred toward them. Although I married at 30, I did not really learn to start loving women until I started studying PUA at age 45. Most PUAs are men who truly love women, but also understand their nature. These lessons also improved my marriage and general social interaction skills.

Men always have to find out the hard way especially if h was raised by a single mother. To many mothers are feminist and don't teach there sons 💩 about women especially if she doesn't like his daddy.

@jlcarter04

3 жыл бұрын

This!!! The only thing my mother taught me about sex and relationships was "don't cheat". Yeap thats it. Great name by the way lol.

@theteamleader

3 жыл бұрын

@@jlcarter04 👍

@monda3802

3 жыл бұрын

U don’t miss Unc ✊🏾

@theteamleader

3 жыл бұрын

@@monda3802 👊

@moniquehaddicks4051

3 жыл бұрын

So true I i cringe when I hear a man say "I Was Raised By A Strong Group Of Single Women. Or I'm A Mamas Boy

I learned the hard way , but I glad a did. And now I set boundaries when entering a relationship

@Dimz30

3 жыл бұрын

Please share

I think in this era of online media the producing of more content holding women accountable is occurring because it’s time for us to rise “together”...not to exclude the men, we need to be better as well...but a nation rises no higher than its women...let the healing continue...I appreciate you Sistah ✊🏿

I left my ex because she was toxic and provoking and she got with another who beat her up and pulled out her hair that she is still with now from this video I have a better understanding!

One thing mothers don't tell there sons is she's the reason why his daddy not there.

@monda3802

3 жыл бұрын

Oh jheez this hit

@itstheengineersdaughter1296

3 жыл бұрын

Sad, but often true.

@StevieRay_0328

3 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@Dimz30

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@CalineBRUNO

3 жыл бұрын

Not always true

This lady is telling you guys the absolute 💯truth

Definitely wish I knew this in my 20's...I experience at least four of these in one relationship.....She told me her father "touched her " but she still kept in contact with him, she had a "abortn " because a dude get her high and took advantage of her, come to find out she was still talking to him and she exactly cheated on her then boyfriend and got pregnant from having unprotected sex...the final straw was after her telling me she didn't suck duck for a year and a half, when I said I was done all of a sudden she duck sucking telling me to release in her mouth 😳😳

@come_on_barbie_123

3 жыл бұрын

Whew 😳😳🔥😳😳😳😳

@Inconnu-00000

3 жыл бұрын

👌🏼😅😅😅

@vaushawnbrown2110

Жыл бұрын

These type of women lack loyaltym,orals and value WATCH THEIR ACTIONS AND BEHAVIOR, DONT BELIEVE UNLESS YOU GOT PROOF AND EVEN THEN , PROOF CAN BE FABRICATED

9:52 that revenge cheating can turn violent and become potentially deadly. In my hometown several men have lost their lives because the woman who was revenge cheating convinced the other man to harm/murder her main man.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Yes Sir! I know a few people that were in similar situations. One of the saddest things I’ve seen was a child being born as a result of revenge cheating. Then the actual bf was so mad, he got rid of the biological father(the guy she cheated with) The child had grow up without a father.

@garrisona5669

3 жыл бұрын

Facts bro do these women realize some of these dudes are nuts that they will not only take the life of the other male but hers too and especially if she’s cheating with on of his childhood best friends it’s case for them that ain’t nothing to be joking about I agree !!

@robinmahan101

3 жыл бұрын

I had a cousin die because of this. It is a sad situation. My cousin's mother and grandmother aren't allowed to see their grandchildren. Imagine being a child living with a mother who is responsible for getting your father killed.

@Dimz30

3 жыл бұрын

@@garrisona5669 it's very serious these women think with emotions.

@Dimz30

3 жыл бұрын

@@robinmahan101 that's very sad

My son is only 9 yr old right now and I will be having this "uncomfortable" conversation with him VERY SOON so he knows what to look out for bc these girls are starting this stuff up younger & younger these days. Smh Thank you so much for sharing this Sistar bc I was unaware of some of these topics you mentioned! ✊🏾🖤

These are some of the reasons why I am not dating. I have been in Monk Mode since December of 2019 people tried to use shaming tactics but they only enforces my stance on this matter.

The title is Most Appropriate. She's passing out Jewels!! "Coming out in clumps & chunks..." Priceless!

As long as KZread been around you are the first content creator to speak on the topic and it really resonates with me

As a former Police Officer, I would feel so bad for brothas that had relationships with those masculine women who would start shit, but then act like a damsel in destress when we got there. For every Karen, there’s a Keisha who abuses men who have weak minds by tricking them to hit them... THEN they call the Police. Also sista I hope that one day, you could make a video addressing “Momma’s Girls/Women.” Peace.

@thescepterofjudah12

3 жыл бұрын

@Alessandra Gabbana Apparently you didn’t listening to the video, because if you did... you wouldn’t ask such a dumb ass question!

Much respect for putting this video together, this will help a lot of brothers. I truly believe you're helping to instil a lot of sense into us as men in general, and undoing a lot of the lack of teaching we see. I know it'll be the same type of thing on your goddess channel too, so much respect to you for all you're doing for our community.

I’ve been waiting for new videos from you sis. So happy to benefit from your knowledge 🙏🏾

This is one of the best videos I have seen on toxic femininity. I wish I had seen this even one year ago. I’ve experienced a lot of these points.

Don’t bring any “wolves” around your “tenderoni”....

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Lol! I like that!

@bettywillis9192

3 жыл бұрын

Good advice. Sharing it with mt grandson.

Don't forget that some do have certain experiences that they share to let someone know your triggers and start a actual relationship where the person can feel comfortable.

@come_on_barbie_123

3 жыл бұрын

Which is not smart. Men usually exploit it, unfortunately! U have to be 💯 certain that that man is really in your corner.

This should be a mandatory in-service for both young men and women. You are truly Godsend!!!! Thank you for your content. I will share with other's.

Amazing content. I've talked about this to my son mom for the last 4 years and now women are making content about it. Masculinity is coming back sooner then you think. Get ready ladies🤷🏿🤷🏿🤷🏿🤷🏿🤷🏿

Actual Facts! thank you love!

Dropping jewels 💎

Great and Informative advice you shared! Thank you 😊

Greetings young sistah! It’s been a while since you dropped some nuggets. Thank you for this, sharing this with my queen now. 🙏🏾

You are simply amazing!! Appreciate it Alot!!

This info was really informative

Sister Sara!!! Bless you a thousand times. I'm sending this to all 5 of my sons. All tough to articulate to young men who are naturally going to follow dads lead, provider protector. But being provider protector to the wrong woman is heartache! Thanks so much.

Thank you! Much needed information 💖💯👑💪

Another great video. Thank you. ✊🏿

Thank you for sharing education about underlying psychological motivations and tactics in relationships. Important and we do not learn in school.

#5 is spot on and so sooo true!

This is why I love your content.

This channel is straight gold

This that much needed Mama’s Cooking!!!

👍🏾You are so necessary and appreciated, Sister💯

B1 sister been dropping jewels for years her and the husband are cool as ice and down to. earth people from my observation of there videos

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

B1 Family! We appreciate that!

Real talk, this is very helpful. Thanks! Most women deny that things are common as they are.

Dropping knowledge ,sis

Took me a while to watch this Vid but, Im glad I did...Great job.

Very well stated 👏 !

Thanks for the Grand Education Devine Sister!

Actually hoped it was 2hrs long. Great stuff, learned a lot

This was really helpful and Amazing 👏🏿✨🙌🏿❤...Go ahead and make that 2 hour video.

Mother told me but glad you putting others on this harsh reality! Solid!

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Much Respect to your Mother!🖤

@glammodel5299

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a woman and some of the truth she was saying was hurtful

Sis...that excessive eating of sugary sweet candies and pastries concept was a 'Mind Blower!' I had NO IDEA!!! I've been married for 10 years (unhappily for the last 5-6 years) and the Yeast Infections have been off the chain to the point where the already sparse relations had become hyper-sparse...and now non-existent. Wow...I am BLOWN AWAY. You are a blessing!

Respect for the video 👌🏽

Great content!

Your EXACTLY right I was scarred by revenge cheating it was someone we both knew too..

@tjaspire

3 жыл бұрын

A taste of your own medicine?

Thank you excellent advice

Thank You Queen❤️🖤💚✊🏾

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Much Love Brother.❤️🖤💚

Amazing Queen My Big sister thank you so much ✊🏿

Great content

Game changer thanks sis

What a wonderful woman you are. Heartbreak prevention 101

Lol my mama did tell me Sara That's how I know when I'm looking At an intelligent super fine woman Like yourself Keep up the great messages I love ppl who are willing to help others!!

Great video Sara!

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Thank You Family!

Dang I was enjoying then you said you were ending it 😂, anyways that was an awesome eye opening video 🔥🙌🏾

100% fact... Thankhs sis

Peace sister, you definitely should do a series of this type of video. Share that game. Lol. Sons and brothers gotta be properly prepared.

Girl, you keep it 💯

Great videos 😍😍😍

Thanks for the confirmation

I applaud you for giving away some secrets

I'm sure people would listen if you do make it 2 hours! I literally just found your channel this morning and I thank you big sis.

Mama out here giving out good game✊🏿 sista!!

I really like your videos

Sounds like every relationship I have ever been in..

Bars as usual🔥🔥🔥

I love you 😭❤️

PREACH!!!!!!!!!! A LOT of this is very true! 🙏🏼👏🙏🏼👏🙏🏼👏🙏🏼👏🙏🏼👏🙏🏼👏🙏🏼👏🙏🏼 ...also just from my observations in life.

Great video. Sister.

Like many of your subscribers, I think you're an amazing lady. Too bad there aren't more sisters like you. You're dropping knowledge left and right. But, most brothers will not have the opportunity to apply it or don't want to. All of your videos are perfect evidence that American relationships are too complicated. So, I have to work 50 hours a week and then watch 50 more hours of videos to understand relationship dynamics. I have to have game, style, swayze, money, looks, six-pack, and a hosts of other qualities. I gave up and went to the Philippines. Took about 8 days to make it happen there. Good Luck Brothers....

Woman, you are so FIRE! I'd love to look at those eyes in person. good video, thank you for it.

Damn....our mamas really don't teach us anything about all this.... Thanks Sara this was quite helpful..

Blessings from Atlanta 🙌🏽

Great video

This woman does not speak for us as a whole, nor even the majority of women. She is talking about the worst case scenarios of what you can expect. The majority of women just want a good faithful man and are looking for something real.

Great video! Everything about you in this video is A-1. The colors in your dress, the white polish & not a whole lot of makeup! We cherish you Sistah Lena! Oh Yeah, still waiting on a answer about the collab with you and D'Marie.

Ok I guess I'm out the loop. What is this Rose thing?...nvm, I'll Google it.. oh and another bomb vid Sis. You serving up them jewels.

Brilliantly done with a dash of disgusting info that ensures it sticks. Bravo Sis! You should do a video alongside Kevin Samuels

Nice bill SaraLena, dealing with male and female energy, there are books out that break this down. Like Jewel Pokrum works, every female and male should have her books.

I had no idea about the "rose toy". Just looked it up and WOW. You learn something new every day.....

@glammodel5299

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I just looked it up too. It must feel real good cause damn she kept mentioning it in the video. I know she has one. I think I might get me one

@Dimz30

3 жыл бұрын

Where is it?

@glammodel5299

3 жыл бұрын

@@Dimz30 on Amazon

@godcuredme8429

3 жыл бұрын

@@glammodel5299 Hoping it brings you hours of pleas...... never mind LOL...😀

@glammodel5299

3 жыл бұрын

@@godcuredme8429 thanks I wish I will give you an update

Even though the wasn't a ladies video, I appreciate it. I tell my husband as much as possible. He was put off by it at first, but I told him he's too good a guy to get played. If something happened to me, I want him to know ALLLLLLL of what to look out for. He's done the same with me, but not as much.

I appreciate the insights you're sharing. I haven't seen all of your videos, but I was wondering if you are addressing dating issues or topics for older brothers and sisters. Honestly, I'm an older brother and many of my male friends are getting divorced and finding ourselves back out there on the dating scene.

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Yes Sir...most of my videos are made with older sisters and brothers in mind. I’m no spring chicken myself.🤣

@philipmumba3788

3 жыл бұрын

@@SaraLena 😂😂😂😂

@michaeldawn442

3 жыл бұрын

Sara: Thanks for taking the time to reply. Much appreciated. As I just recently stated in another comment I gave up and started searching elsewhere. I'm still a fan...

Great 👌

Of course we miss you Sara Lena bless you sister 🎬🎬🎬

@SaraLena

3 жыл бұрын

Thank Youuuu! Blessings!

Pretty wise talk

I wish I had a sister aunty grandma wife in thw future that has the same spiritual energy likw u. I don't have a wife but I wish I could find a sista like u. You are wonderful and I'm glad I subscribed few months ago. Love u my sista. You would be an awesome mom for a boy to have and a role model for littlw girls.

I wish I could subscribe and like again and again. I have sons and I’ll be sharing this with them.