Do Women On Birth Control Prefer More Feminine Men?
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No wonder why kpop is huge
@deekay13
Жыл бұрын
Not really. While Kpop has gotten bigger in the West, the majority of fans are still in non-Western countries. HBC is less common and less accessible outside of the West.
@cmauro6827
Жыл бұрын
Lol
@xGSxAmAZyn
Жыл бұрын
@@deekay13 shut up you think you know itball
@deekay13
Жыл бұрын
@@xGSxAmAZyn ❄️
@yuribezmenov4967
Жыл бұрын
@@deekay13 what did the @guy comment because I can't see his comment
It just brings up a point that has been proven over and over again in the discourse surrounding diet and human relationships. The more we try to evade our evolved nature - whether through, processed food, technology or pharmacology - the more we end up suffering individually, and on a societal level. I am not against these advances. Admittedly, they have brought the world a lot of good. However, let us not blindly embrace every advancement. Let us think critically about the consequences before worshipping at the altar of unmitigated progress.
@markm0000
Жыл бұрын
Big words but I know the science.
@alphacause
Жыл бұрын
@@markm0000 Okay Dr. Fauci.
@castratedbob
Жыл бұрын
@@alphacause Your point has been a recurring theme in a lot of philosophy, from Socrates to Nietzsche. Progress for progress sake is often regressive, intentionally or otherwise. Spot on.
@ThiloIsntPro
Жыл бұрын
the industrial revolution, and its consequences, have been catastrophic to the human race
@RuthLovesJesus
Жыл бұрын
Preach! Love this 🙏🏾👍🏾
Loved the photo of Harry Styles popping up when she said "less masculinized male face". Spot on.
@skinnysnorlax1876
Жыл бұрын
Same, lol. Wtf do women see in that weirdo?
@brianburton1843
Жыл бұрын
@@skinnysnorlax1876 Someone that looks already emasculated. Literally.
@brianburton1843
Жыл бұрын
@@galacticandromeda A jawline that comes down to a pointy chin is not a strong jawline.
@MAC...
Жыл бұрын
He does have a masculine face, the catch with him is he play the "dandy" seduction archetype (read it from robert Greene art of Seduction.. basically one the subtypes of male attractiveness). With dandy's playing the line of androgyny and dressing well. Its just a seduction archetype that men can choose to use if desired.
@JuniperGal-ek2pu
Ай бұрын
@@skinnysnorlax1876 he’s attractive and has style. 😂 That’s what they see in him, Jimmy.
I can confirm that the men I was attracted to completely changed when on and off the pill. This needs to be talked about. Many relationships have broken down because of this phenomenon. I would usually be off the pill when single and dating and only be on the pill when in a serious relationship. I would then lose both my libido and attraction when on the pill but never connected the dots. Relationship breaks down. Rinse repeat This went on for decades.
@pb2959
11 ай бұрын
This is one of the most significant things i have ever read.
@stevejenson2161
11 ай бұрын
This is a fact what you say. I"ve been talking about this for decades. I will not date a women that is on that poison, nor will I let her get on it. Fam Plan with condoms works perfectly.
@Nick-ij5nt
6 ай бұрын
many such cases
Yup. I thought baby faced guys were my type. Went off birth control and now my type is super masculine.
@Joe-td9zw
Жыл бұрын
You hornn dogg
@bryant8647
Жыл бұрын
Is this sarcasm or like ur being for real? I’m curious
@jJust_NO_
Жыл бұрын
oohh? never been into baby, cutesy face lol. im into strong, masculine men but ive never been into birth control sooo...
@MG-dr5mf
Жыл бұрын
@@bryant8647 no I’m not being sacrastic.
@riririri100
Жыл бұрын
That could be because you got older. Your preferences change as you get older. Younger women off birth still go for less masculine looking men. What are all the variables.
“Masculine male faces” *cuts to him* Lol
@Serendipityfemme
4 ай бұрын
lol
The Harry Styles picture was pure shade…😎
@SiniSimon
Жыл бұрын
Why they gotta do him dirty like that 🥲
@kiaayo33
Жыл бұрын
@@SiniSimon feminine men
@sharonlee_333
Жыл бұрын
He gay
@BrianGivensYtube
11 ай бұрын
Soyboi
@Me-hf4ii
10 ай бұрын
But accurate.
This makes sense. I've never been on birth control (in my 40s now) and I've NEVER understood the appeal of more feminine looking men. I respect that some women prefer me but I prefer very masculine presenting men. I thought I was just old fashioned 🤷🏾
@zombine7103
Жыл бұрын
Why does the face matter that much anyway. I cant even find a good human being let alone a good looking one. Looks is sooooo much overrated.
@stevejenson2161
11 ай бұрын
are you on the pill@@zombine7103
@Brian-zc2ip
6 ай бұрын
@zombine7103 i think it's more about less masculine facial features indicating lower testosterone than about "looks"
@JuniperGal-ek2pu
Ай бұрын
Yeah, it’s just a preference.
We already knew this! I noticed this myself yrs ago when I got on BC and when I got off it.
@thomasaanderson12455
Жыл бұрын
CC
@Mistical1982
10 ай бұрын
Same. I noticed it 11 years ago.
This is so true because when I go through my swipes on dating apps, depending on the time of the month the guys i like look different. Then I go back through matches and I'm like why did I swipe on this guy??
Which means that when you get married and decide to have a child - she might no longer love you ...
@kirkbespokeify
Жыл бұрын
She will be having someone else’s child.
@thomasaanderson12455
Жыл бұрын
U forgot one thing. She never loved you
@kiaayo33
Жыл бұрын
Lmfao she's gonna do that no matter what!
@Joe-td9zw
Жыл бұрын
love maybe. Find attractive probably not
@migos1141
Жыл бұрын
@@thomasaanderson12455 facts lol it was only your turn
Could be why testosterone levels are lower than they were 100 years ago, why fertility is going down, and could explain why so many people are questioning their sexuality. Don't pay too mind on that last one, that's MY speculation.
@itsjustavi
11 ай бұрын
MICROPLASTICS! we've known this for some time that levels of microplastics in the ocean and in our blood stream have increased significantly. there's a scientist on KZread who talks about this, hilariously they find out the level of testosterone is found out by the size of the taint... the smaller the taint when your a baby, the lower levels of testosterones you will have
Explains a lot about my dating history.
@skinnysnorlax1876
Жыл бұрын
There's similar data about scent. I don't know how tf ladies do it, but apparently yall have Wolverine's sense of smell, and your level of attraction to the scent of a man's sweat is extraordinarily reliable at determining whether or not you will be happy in a long term relationship with the dude. So uh...go to the gym with your date I guess? lol
Just to clarify for those wondering, the scent of testosterone is ball cheese 🧀.
@Joe-td9zw
Жыл бұрын
Don't mind a late night handful with a glass of wine.
@Cateater123
Жыл бұрын
Its delicious tho
I love masculine men always and I am on contraception.
@stevejenson2161
11 ай бұрын
but you will never know till you get off of that poison. zero sex drive is good enough reason.
I've always been attracted to feminine men but never been on birth control so I don't think that explains everything.
I don't think this is true, sorry. Not saying birth control is good for you, but I don't buy this. I've had to be on birth control for 10+ years, and I have never been attracted to or wanted a feminine or girly guy.
@cryaboutit7499
Жыл бұрын
And I’ve never been on birth control in my life and I like more soft gentle “feminine” guys.😂 these insecure self proclaimed “masculine” males are just upset
@cb8608
11 ай бұрын
Maybe the guys you think are masculine are actually feminine...
@incognitovortex5796
11 ай бұрын
@cb8608 Maybe you don't know what I think is masculine and feminine. I, however, do, and I'm not, nor have I ever been attracted to feminine men. Next time you feel the need to insert your opinion where it's not wanted, you should give it a second thought and then not do it.
@cb8608
11 ай бұрын
@@incognitovortex5796 well good luck coming off birth control. Masculine woman.
@stevejenson2161
11 ай бұрын
very true,@@cb8608
So if she doesn't like you, it's because she's on birth control. Noted. Myself esteem is restored.
@stevejenson2161
11 ай бұрын
I would not even date a woman on that poison. they are sexless and crazy.
Mannn this lady just red a whole statement fam wtf 😂😂😂
Women want men who can relate to them.
didn't replicate so not true
Modern women prefer more feminine men to be in relationships with for the shared feminine perspective to their own detriment Imo.
@rubioalvin
Жыл бұрын
In other words , Soyboys are sexy to modern women 😆
@vibhorejaiswal2997
Жыл бұрын
Not for relationships but for marriage. The choose their "official" bf as feminine man but . 🤡
@appalachianprivileged3312
Жыл бұрын
@@rubioalvin Not according to the mentioned study. Only hormonal disrupting drugs like BC swing the preference. Also, the preference switches back after BC is stopped. The preference for femine men is manufactured pharma.
@rubioalvin
Жыл бұрын
@@appalachianprivileged3312 oh ok, got it.
@Nah-ah
Жыл бұрын
It’s fkn gross! Just my opinion 😅
This explains a lot
I am on birth control and I have a preference for masculine man. Hairy, musculair and strong features
@samstits8982
11 ай бұрын
If you read the study all it really showed is that women on birth control don’t experience as much of a spike in their sex drive when their on birth control. People are gonna care more about someone’s appearance when their horny.
@marcelobasilio2028
11 ай бұрын
@@samstits8982um... No...? It should be the total opposite, if you're horny you don't have any standards whatsoever, like men.
@stevejenson2161
11 ай бұрын
you will not even ever know what you are missing. sex drive near zero, health issues. and many more problems.
@AM02221
4 ай бұрын
@@samstits8982yeh my flatmate is on birth control pills and she always mentions how she is not interested in sex at all!
I think this result has failed replication though.
Thats why they want men addicted to porn. No test
@picadosinferno
Жыл бұрын
If you masturbate your test goes up, because the body is forced to produce more.
@joen4642
Жыл бұрын
Who?
@benitocamela174
Жыл бұрын
@@luxurybuzz3681 it's actually true
@Nah-ah
Жыл бұрын
Who’s they? 🤔
@oORiseAboveOo
Жыл бұрын
@@Nah-ah The powers that be.
How many times are men having sexaul fantasy about other women while they are in relationships? How many times are you getting excited over pornography? This just indicates that a women may notice an attractive man and doesn't mean she will fall onto crazy lust over him. This sounds more like men are projecting as they are more likely to full into crazy lust and not keep it in their pants.
How did I know that already 25 years ago, when I was dating to find a serious girlfriend to later marry? This is old information, but still relevant of course.
Masculinity. The key to success.
Lol when I’m ovulating it hardly matters. Hence I just lock myself@home for a few days. I should make a t-shirt that says “Don’t touch me I’m ovulating”.
@MG-dr5mf
Жыл бұрын
Are you mixing it up with menstruating? You only ovulate on one day in your cycle, though you can be fertile for 5 or 6 if that’s what you mean.
@northstar2621
2 ай бұрын
@@MG-dr5mf We experience the symptoms on more days than one, because estradiol levels are up for several days. For me it's about a week. Funnily enough, I am ovulating today, I was never on birth control and had a dream last night about my former coworker who I never considered attractive because I perceived him as feminine. In the dream I ran into him and was attracted to him.
Why does she make that face in the thumbnail? Like she's absolutely disgusted lmak
I studies this years ago in social science
Whats up with bros emotionless stare 💀
I wonder if it's the same guy who edits Brandon Carter's shorts on KZread and TikTok who has started doing Chris's, as they follow the same style of editing
And the reason why Timothee Chalamet & Tom Holland are so popular
Lol 😂 I never been in the pill and I always had a thing for femenine man. I’m seriously I love guys who are super skinny with long hair. Kinda like rock and roll David Bowie man. Maybe I had low hormones? 🤔
@iAmNothingness
Жыл бұрын
You do realize that having a weak body can lead to depression. What do you think makes hormones different on having an impact on your brain?
@zingara76
Жыл бұрын
@@iAmNothingness Never really suffered depression or have mood swings. In fact people, specially boyfriends said I can be very poker face, or emotionally absent. I grew up in a farm, where you wake up at 5am and collect milk from cow and kill a chicken for lunch. Life it’s a little different from girls who grow up in a farm than city girl. When it comes to my body I’m very lucky, I have an athlete body. I’m what they call amazón women body type. Even in my 30’s I still have a fantastic body. I also work out and eat very healthy so I really never suffered any eating disorder. I just think the definition of what makes a men looking more feminine has to change, because come on. There’s a reason why David Bowie, the Beatles, Mick Jagger and Alan Deloi and others became the sex symbols. If you’re argument is the pill 💊 then those man where driving female crazy even before the pill was in the market. Female sexuality is hard to understand.
@MG-dr5mf
Жыл бұрын
You could track your hormones to make sure everything’s normal. I recommend the book “Taking Charge of Your Fertility”. It helped me see that I was infertile and I’ve since fixed the issue.
@migos1141
Жыл бұрын
Shut up you're a man 🤣🤣🤣
@migos1141
Жыл бұрын
@@zingara76 not hard at all and stop the cap 89-90% of ladies love strong masculine lead and 90% of men love a feminine chick not masculine and mustn't be physical but behaviour too this is nature like it or not
What is the issue with some women not wanting masculine men? Men are all individuals like women and people have different preferences. You dont need to be one way to be a man . If you are born with XY chromosomes you are male and you can like what ever you want and dont need to put on a fasarde to impress others which damages mens mental health when they cant be themselves.
Wow, makes sense...
I think ultimately it comes down to hormones. I have never been on HBControl but I think back to the guys I was crushing on in my past and I ask myself. What were you thinking. one was a bald guy that shaved his hair and now that I'm older I Find bald heads so unattractive. I also read that as you age, women tend to become more attracted to masculine men, which is my case now.
Oh, my God, I like this man! Only guy on internet who doesn't spread some sort of hate, dissaproval or harsh judgement on women....
@danibuki727
Жыл бұрын
If he's the only guy doing that. It really tells a lot about women behaviour
@sarcodonblue2876
Жыл бұрын
@@danibuki727or mens behavior.
@danibuki727
Жыл бұрын
@@sarcodonblue2876 You mean being responsible, have honor and actually have personal value instead of just opening your legs just like every woman does? 🤣🤣
Wow. That's interesting
Woooow smh…this explains a lot
anyone know where you can read about this, thats actually interesting
Does this also affect women prefer taller men then short ones birth control?
‘Less masculine men’ aka women
@CollagenExpert
Жыл бұрын
What is a man?
@PewWorld-ww7kt
10 ай бұрын
@@CollagenExpert xy people
@CollagenExpert
10 ай бұрын
@@PewWorld-ww7kt thx for proving my point.
@JuniperGal-ek2pu
Ай бұрын
Huh? Masculine doesn’t = man.
Anyone know how to find the full video? Besides clicking every imterview he has hoping she shows up? No name or link provided
I don't get why more women use non hormonal birth control. Like a copper iud.
Dr Sarah Hill: "Researchers are starting to play with the idea that..." Audience: "So you're saying this is 100% true, proven research! Thanks! I'll spread it like wildfire"
@Wwattz
Жыл бұрын
I mean, I did read this in 2010. it's been over a decade. there has to be more info by now.
We’re fonked.
Then why do modern women still obsess about height so much? Isn't being short considered a "feminine feature"? Or does "feminine feature" only reference like facial structure/hairiness/voice depth, etc? I'm assuming that height preference is biologically ingrained on a deeper level for women which is why that preference doesn't get affected by bc?
@Serendipityfemme
4 ай бұрын
good question. it could be a societal engraved thing, probably why it doesnt change
@JuniperGal-ek2pu
Ай бұрын
They don’t have to like ALL stereotypically feminine features. 😂 Even lots of men like tall girls with long legs or something.
@Nick-ij5nt
Ай бұрын
@@JuniperGal-ek2pu Ya, but I'm just saying how it's interesting that bc overwrites a lot of women's preferences except height, which would lead me to believe the preference for height is more biologically ingrained into women than face structure or being hairy.
Imms need her to cite her sources
@AM02221
4 ай бұрын
You can find many studies online
A lot of men look very feminine...its different when i look at pictures of men in the l Past they look nore masculine.
Ick does that mean when a woman goes off her birth control she might not be so attracted to “the more feminine man” that she chose? At which point she could already be married and pregnant
@stevejenson2161
11 ай бұрын
yes. that will happen to a great degree
Wholely Shift!
Sure it wasn't masculine faces, but masculine body
Nahhh
Wow!
Lol at showing a photo of Harry Styles as "presenting more feminine features". Styles has a very masculine face and body. Most men wish to have his jawline and are too lazy to stay as fit as he is.
Hairy men were considered handsome and more manly back before birth control became a big thing but not really anymore. I wonder if there’s a correlation?
@LeeNottingham
9 ай бұрын
like the fem boys on 'Friends' ??? Yeah....
@JuniperGal-ek2pu
2 ай бұрын
Feminine men have always been around though…They wore wigs, long hair, skirts, heels, makeup, pink etc. It literally has to do with culture and what is seen as more valuable/essential at the time. And I doubt estrogen/testosterone levels are related to social constructs like femininity and masculinity. :/
Yeah don’t get married. That’s all I heard
It's just a preference to younger males.
This sounds strange. Anyway, hormones work to prevent pregnancy. What are the other choices.
Maybe that's why I'm having trouble dating, I guess I'm just too masculine.💪😎 It seems like you gotta shave and grow out your hair to even have a chance with these girls now a days, lmao.
hence the popularization of kpop
@LeeNottingham
9 ай бұрын
I think you are on to something....
@JuniperGal-ek2pu
Ай бұрын
He really isn’t.
too hard to satisfy a woman. what the hell is this. smh
Femboys rise up!
So what 😑
*_Describe the scent of testosterone._*
@doobyscoober5009
Жыл бұрын
Ball sweat
@arthurdobyns7739
Жыл бұрын
Pheromones
@cryaboutit7499
Жыл бұрын
You can’t smell hormones, it’s bs😂
@oORiseAboveOo
Жыл бұрын
@@cryaboutit7499 Cats can smell them. We don’t have their ability to smell, but maybe we can detect them on some level.
Maybe change the thumbnail bruh
😳I never knew this
@nikosogamias
Жыл бұрын
text your mom this rn! and dont forget to stream my new album
I'm not sure about this
This was not the case for me.
I seriously question founds spent on research sometimes....
So what? If it’s tru and the masculine men don’t like it they shd also get on birth control to be less musculine and share the birth control burden. As it is women do most of the heavy lifting around not making babies. Or get vasectomies already. No point in the discussion when at the end of the day someone needs to prevent childbirth and as it is it’s men’s turn to change something about themselves
@kennykorodele1861
Жыл бұрын
This comment makes zero sense. They are not discussing who needs to take up the burden, she stating what the research has shown, and making a statement based on the evidence. And to that, why do Men need to get vasectomies or take birth control when there are easier methods used to give women more agency when it comes to pregnancy. Birth control is about giving women CHOICES.
@tanyamilewski5700
Жыл бұрын
@@kennykorodele1861 what’s the point of having the discussion or even conduct the research than to blame women for one more thing or to be anti birth control? If there aren’t better methods than vasectomy make them, that’s my point. There shd be choices for both men and women. What’s the big picture of that conclusion or so what? Let’s get women off birth control to restore musculinity?
@kennykorodele1861
Жыл бұрын
@@tanyamilewski5700 it’s about trade offs, there is alway gonna be trade offs to anything in life. There should be other alternatives but there isn’t. This is reality, it’s not blaming women or being anti birth control, it’s about making choices you gotta live with good or bad. And women need to take the info and make an informed decision. Women carry more risk than the man when it comes to this
@tanyamilewski5700
Жыл бұрын
@@kennykorodele1861 which goes back to my point of women have done enough. It’s time for men to figure that out without involving women Eg make themselves less masculine/more attractive. The woman’s choice right now is no unwanted baby and so far that means birth control. If the birth control is bad for certain men they need to solve that on their own.
@ashmit3675
Жыл бұрын
Feminist ☕