I think a big misconception people have with this topic is that they think of masculinity an beauty being mutually exlcusive. Pretty boys that are popular with women all have masculine features. Sharp jawline, good frame, lean body etc.

@ar18legend39

Жыл бұрын

Yess

@mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940

Жыл бұрын

Thats cause ugly guys try to push the whole pReTtYBoYs ArE fEmInINe agenda

@shinjite06

Жыл бұрын

Ngl those all sound like characteristics female models have as well.

@deeb.9250

Жыл бұрын

and tall like bts

@jayqwuan

Жыл бұрын

@@shinjite06 Most female models have masculine traits

My taste in men changed over the years and I've never been on birth control. When I was younger I preferred more feminine looking men, and the older I gotten the more I started preferring more masculine men.

@audrey9able

Жыл бұрын

Same. I had no interest for anyone's looks when I was a teen....then adulthood struck. The hormones in our bodies are a factor. I mean I would soon prefer very dimorphic/masculine/feminine looking bodies as my period comes close, and then picks up again after.

@shinjite06

Жыл бұрын

Is it not just liking people closer to your own age? Guys get more masculine with age.

@richeeg3271

Жыл бұрын

@@shinjite06 yeah that's a pretty good hypothesis

@audrey9able

Жыл бұрын

@@shinjite06 that depends...there are people who got older but did not have any strong masculine or feminine features, who remained androgynous or just average in features.

@adityakishore4260

Жыл бұрын

So I prefer myself to be more feminine looking as I will attract more younger girls. Btw you're aged now that no men likes

Women do prefer attractive men, period, but whether that man is more of a pretty boy, a hyper masculine man, or a balanced blend of the two varies. Know your market.

@harsh3948

Жыл бұрын

The face might vary, but the height is common.

@lordofgingers

Жыл бұрын

@@harsh3948 yup. Which is why as a man your goal should be to go for women who are shorter than you

@markusmath3421

Жыл бұрын

@@lordofgingers I don't want my kids to be short(I'm only 5'8) so I'll probably get limb lengthening surgery to attract a taller than average woman(at the very least 5'7)

@fatbastard7346

Жыл бұрын

@@markusmath3421 wtf is wrong with you

@2saif4u

Жыл бұрын

@@markusmath3421 dont XD

I’ve found myself attracted to both but I feel at my most feminine when I am around men who are not only “masculine” in nature but also in appearance.

@girlthattalkstoomuch9425

Жыл бұрын

i felt myself attracted to none. BAHHA

@SalemSommers

Жыл бұрын

Right? I'm attracted to both types but change my personality around each 😥

@timonbubnic322

Жыл бұрын

@@SalemSommers yo wtf, you have MPD?

@notan3144

Жыл бұрын

@@timonbubnic322 That's not MPD bud

@timonbubnic322

Жыл бұрын

@@notan3144 idk changing personalities is pretty indicative of that she might not be aware that she has it, its either that or then another option is that she is simply manipulative and lying to people to fit a certain image or smth

To be honest bro if your actually good looking you will pull women being both , pretty or masculine

@swavyhighlights2770

Жыл бұрын

Facts

I think the main point that this video is missing is that just because on AVERAGE men or women prefer a certain look doesn't mean it applies across the board. Effeminate depictions of masculine beauty have existed for at least thousands of years, dating back to Greek myths depicted feminine heroes/Gods like Narcissus or Apollo as the peak of beauty. You also see it in Christian murals of "beautiful" males who have long flowing hair, smooth faces, and narrow jawlines. This preference isn't just a new generation trend. There's a good chunk of women who genuinely prefer feminine-looking men, just as there are some men who are attracted to petite women and some who prefer voluptuous women. We all fill in different niches, and you'll see all across the board when it comes to human characteristics that there are always "groups" that are outliers from the norm, simply because evolution prefers diversity.

@m308

Жыл бұрын

so based

@helvete_ingres4717

Жыл бұрын

the word ''feminine' has become so meaningless when applied to guys, someone is here calling Greek nude sculptures of athletic youths with not a trace of fat on their bodies 'feminine' when. Apollo the god most associated with masculinity feminine..? Silly. (The feminine god is Dionysus..)

@DrumsBah

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely. For how 'sciencey' and evidence based this channel is, they rarely talk about effect size and variance.

As someone who is a very 50/50 bisexual, I noticed I leaned more towards androgyneous looking men when I was insecure and felt very plain, but after going through puberty and getting more self-confidence in looks department, I found that my preferences became very feminine women and very masculine men. So this is a real eye-opener

@spaceisalie5451

Жыл бұрын

Are u male or female?

@laskurtanceixixii

Жыл бұрын

​@@spaceisalie5451 yeah that's the most important part

@artemuliashkevych7892

Жыл бұрын

@@spaceisalie5451 a phrase “after going through puberty” sounds more like a male to me tbh UPD: what i mean is that women don’t use this phrase as much as men do. You don’t hear your girlfriend saying “You know, after going through puberty i became so confident”, lol. But boys do actually & we talking about puberty way more. Damn, even this video is about men, come on

@lebrilopejackalope5775

Жыл бұрын

@@artemuliashkevych7892 Why does that sound like a male, women go through puberty as well. My gut impression is that this person is female.

@suides4810

Жыл бұрын

correlation isnt causation? maybe you just prefer people your age

I've gotten more attention from women since I started working out but it doesn't change the fact that I'm introverted and shy, so I'm very scared of misinterpretation

@spaceisalie5451

Жыл бұрын

You’re not alone. Most men, including me, are scared of misinterpretation. But you just gotta take a chance bro. Worst that’ll happen is they say no

@NoRockinMansLand

Жыл бұрын

@@spaceisalie5451 not always, it's a growing trend these days for women to make scene out of it or be extra disrespectful to boost their fragile egos

@NoRockinMansLand

Жыл бұрын

Best thing to do is see if she shows any interest first. If a girl's interested, she'll usually give choosing signals although sometimes it's just because she wants attention. If you decide to make your move just go up and be direct, no pick-up lines or that corny stuff

@FalcaoXTZ

Жыл бұрын

Some girls like masculine looking but calm and introverted personalities

@latifa3995

Жыл бұрын

@@FalcaoXTZ I know I do!! I think masculine but calm/introverted men give off very stoic energy

I'm a very feminine guy (both in looks and personality) and I've always been attracted to more masculine women (also both in looks and personality). So I wonder if there is some research suggesting that this whole dynamic is not bound to biological sex, but instead how masculine/feminine someone is.

@dunlopfamjam158

Жыл бұрын

Polarities :) that’s what I was thinking the entire video.

@uwu2u436

Жыл бұрын

Similarly, I would say I possess more feminine traits as a woman (smaller frame, face, etc) but have a more "masculine" personality, and my preference for men is a relatively masculine frame but a feminine personality/way of dressing.

@701delbronx8

Жыл бұрын

You craze that void you are missing

@Moesie

Жыл бұрын

@@caminte it depends on what u mean what masculine? The guys u talk about are uber masculine. Dwyne johnson rock But chads are masculine guys. Loki And guys whore femenine are pretty boys Charlet timothee

@adamlopez5060

Жыл бұрын

Mommy problems

"Younger fathers with healthier seeds." Red Pillers are punching the air rn.

@Miuranger1

Жыл бұрын

I didnt get it?

@Rochester92G

Жыл бұрын

Huh?..

@petrichor2973

Жыл бұрын

Now they have a "wall" too 😭😭lmao

@Walking-MY-Path

Жыл бұрын

You are making no sense.

@labornurse

Жыл бұрын

It's true. The genetic material in the sperm degrades with age of father as well. Autism, schizophrenia just off the top of my head. Goggle it.

Honestly, men with a bit of a masculine body and a feminine face are just the best :'p

@alexia964

Жыл бұрын

YESS!

@GeilerDaddy

6 ай бұрын

gay

@TobyMcguarro

3 ай бұрын

Speak for yourself

@chinchilla415

2 ай бұрын

Sooooo... you like stuff?

When research is highly contentious like this, I think its safe to say it is not that important(at least in the context of women finding masculine faces attractive). The part about scaring other men is valid and useful though. Overall, it ranks a fair bit lower in importance versus other things like skin health, facial symmetry, and eyes.

Honestly, I always liked angelic looking men lol 😂

@hades9068

Жыл бұрын

Jiminnie

@starmorpheus

Жыл бұрын

Lucifer Morningstar fan over here

@helvete_ingres4717

Жыл бұрын

angels are all male, canonically/biblically speaking

@engineeringka14da

7 ай бұрын

What does that mean?

@TobyMcguarro

3 ай бұрын

@@engineeringka14dait means she loves women

Idk but I’ve noticed that women who’s preference are non masculine men almost always happened to be bisexual women. Ofcourse there are bisexual women that are the complete opposite (as in they prefer masculine men/feminine women) but I noticed a BIG chunk of bi women tend to have a preference towards androgynous and feminine men. I wonder if for a lot of those bi women, does their sexuality influence certain preferences on the opposite sex.

@rooftopfight6210

Жыл бұрын

As a bi woman i think about it all the time

@shironerisilk

Жыл бұрын

That's a very interesting question and I'd also like so see a video about it. As a bi woman myself I tended to like more androgynous men in my teenage years but now I'd say I like masculine men and ''womanly'' women more (as opposed to ''girlish'' women) - taller and with stronger features, even though ''womanly'' women can be very feminine too, but I guess that could be because I'm tall and have stronger features myself and that maybe influencing my preferences as well.

@marie_anne_paris

Жыл бұрын

Honestly I noticed that as well. All my girl friends whose type was a skinny, soft looking, pretty boy were bi or at least bi-curious. I somewhat like androgynous look in men but only to a small extent. I like some features like pretty hair or/and big lips but the rest (eyes, jaw) has to be masculine. So for me it's more of a mixture of some soft features with mostly masculine ones.

@nannaed7833

Жыл бұрын

Noticed the exact opposite. Some of my bi girlfriends had attraction to the most masculine of men, and they weren’t intimidated by the female attention these masculine men gets

@SkippyLaughlin

Жыл бұрын

I agree. But when I thought I was straight my preferences for pretty boys was the same.

Another aspect that is not mentioned is that when society becomes more organized and evolved, the preference for men that are more youthful and feminine increases, but when the country is torn apart by war, the preference is more for masculine men. Edited: my hypothesis, in short,is that you can judge how advanced a civilization is by how pretty, elegant, and intelligent the men are 😅

@ThroughDarknessComesLight

Жыл бұрын

What if you have some feminine features look young but but act masculine and always have . See I think being masculine is a mentality cause I don't have a rugged appearance but I am stoic, calculated, determined

@Blue_Azure101

Жыл бұрын

@@ThroughDarknessComesLight well then you would flourish in a more advanced and developed society, where to survive and navigate that type of society, one must employ political maneuvers rather than fists and war.

@ThroughDarknessComesLight

Жыл бұрын

@@Blue_Azure101 lol I just have a baby face I look young. But my body is masculine I have broad shoulder bit of muscle and I know how to box and wrestle bjj a bit.

@Blue_Azure101

Жыл бұрын

@@pulse3554 sure ☺️

@Blue_Azure101

Жыл бұрын

@@pulse3554 there’s a difference between hypothesis vs theory. Science much?

That thumbnail is cursed💀

I have my type down to a science. Long hair, masculine forehead, masculine eyebrows, more feminine beautiful eyes, more feminine nose, masculine but soft lips, and a softer chin and jawline. (Aka exactly Alain Delon). I really love men who have both femenine and masculine features. Alain Delon, Jude law, Jared Leto, Johnny depp. Another thing is, I do always look forward to when a guy reaches late 20s/30s, because I do think they get better and better

I feel like my own preference evolves based on how much protection I feel I want from my man. By default I always preferred cute boys but when I felt more unsafe in the world/at risk I'd go for more masculine men (which is the type I'm with currently)

@cyberpunkenjoyer3032

Жыл бұрын

This. I made a comment about that as well

@user-go2xi7zq5q

Жыл бұрын

Why do you feel unsafe/ at risk?

@whatthehellzgoingon

Жыл бұрын

@@user-go2xi7zq5q have you not looked around at the state of the world? anxiety is at an all time high

@ThroughDarknessComesLight

Жыл бұрын

Masculine as in macho can fight , knows how to use weapons or whatever ?

@ItsSimplyAless

Жыл бұрын

very relatable actually

thank you for enlisting your sources!

I'm an attractive woman off hormonal birth control and I've never preferred masculine men. Many women around me made fun of me for preferring feminine/androgynous men but start going after the same men secretly

@xxxxxxxxxxxdfdszfgsz

Жыл бұрын

might not be as attractive as you think you are lol

@creatureoftheeast3331

Жыл бұрын

@@xxxxxxxxxxxdfdszfgsz attractive enough I've had three men become stalkers because they believed we were "soul mates" and had women guard their boyfriends around me. Believe what you want though 👍

@nathanmoya5072

Жыл бұрын

@@xxxxxxxxxxxdfdszfgsz 😭

@tartaglia.

Жыл бұрын

@@xxxxxxxxxxxdfdszfgsz overconfidence immediately makes someone more unattractive; however, we do not know her in real life, and thus cannot judge her looks.

@jayqwuan

Жыл бұрын

@@creatureoftheeast3331 Whatever you say

I think what matters most is not just looking masculine, but actually *being* masculine when selecting a long term mate. I know a lot of men who might have a pretty boy face, but they are very strong mentally and have masculine traits such as a dominance, discipline, being less emotional etc. yet I also know some men who have big muscles, square jawlines, who are very “feminine” such as being more submissive, being more emotional/ freely expressing their feelings etc. My husband doesn’t have a very masculine face, but he has a very masculine personality (protective, providing, tendency to be a leader, more dominant, deep voice etc.) which is why I found myself attracted to him, despite his more “feminine” features, like an obtuse jaw line etc. but don’t get me wrong, my husband is by no means a pretty boy either, so I guess that’s why the studies fail to find an absolute conclusion to this matter

Big replication issues recently with the dual mate / ovulatory shift hypothesis, good genes hypothesis, and the effects of birth control on mate preferences. Gangestad & Dinh (Gangestad is one of the original researchers who came up with the dual mate hypothesis of ovulatory shifts) published a big literature review in June of 2022 on this. Most of the more recent research hasn't been able to replicate the older effects.

@suides4810

Жыл бұрын

This.

@suides4810

Жыл бұрын

As far as i remember the preference shift was never like it it is shown in the video. It was more the difference of a man with stubble and one without in the first place. Nevermind the replica issues of the studies.

@QOVESStudio

Жыл бұрын

Certainly true, this is why they’re still hypothesis. In the video there were also replication issues hence why the question cannot be reliably answered.

@thinking-ape6483

Жыл бұрын

The Chadistician strikes again!

@timhawkins7549

Жыл бұрын

@@QOVESStudio then why dedicate an entire video to a hypothesis that has no evidence? especially when studies from multiple cultures have shown women prefer a more androgynous face to a masculine one? It really seems like you're trying to push a narrative here.

Your channel continues to be absolutely fantastic

maybe its because im bi but i like masculinity and femininity on any person. although i don't really like ultra-masculine macho types. in my opinion, attraction varies greatly depending on many factors, and you can't always categorize things like this so easily

@arnavrawat9864

Жыл бұрын

Take a moment to appreciate the significance of research. It tries to extract the relationship of one thing to another. The overall attraction is a sum of many factors, but women and men have tendencies when those are equalised or flattned out. That's also the reason they use the terms "preference" or "tend to prefer", which conveys uncertainty, instead of "will choose" Or chooses which are hard set criteria

@Matty002

Жыл бұрын

@@arnavrawat9864 people are really using anecdotal evidence to try and say the research is wrong like they dont understand research is done to prevent anecdotal bias in the first place

@samsonquies7922

Жыл бұрын

I'm bi and I'm pretty much the same. If they're aesthetically pleasing, and good person, I will really like them

@davipenha

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, you're just degenerated. But don't worry, most people in modern society are.

@zavdab5238

Жыл бұрын

Objective to an extent but that extent is quite limited

Can you do a video on facial harmony? I think its the reason many models are not conventionally attractive. They'll usually have prominent cheekbones, lean faces,etc but it will be out of harmony with the rest of their features

that dude in the thumbnail was staring down my soul lol great video, cheers

I think the fact that attractive women tend to go for more masculine men can be a result of them being more prone to living by societal norms. As they are considered attractive by societal standarts, they do not develop strong rejections of the norms and find men who are stereotypically handsome attractive.

@dmystfy

Жыл бұрын

Good point

@SeanCoomes

Жыл бұрын

Mating preferences change throughout the ovulatory cycle

@maryy0012

Жыл бұрын

Yep. Korean male beauty standards influence women a lot. Plus we don't see men trying to look masculine nowadays(I'm talking about gen z specifically), so just the fact that they don't see them a lot make men scarier to them

@beIIa_

Жыл бұрын

I dont think so

@SatoshiFibonacci

Жыл бұрын

Or because it’s an evolutionary survival trait that has been engraved for hundreds of thousands of years.

This was on my reccomended page I am subscribing ☺

Rating your own attractiveness totally depends on those around you. Just came back from LA and rating myself as a 3/10 while in Maryland I rate myself as a 6. LOL

Hey QOVES, Dream, one of the biggest KZreadrs just face revealed and the internet has polarizing opinions on him, from worshipping to bullying, I think it would be really interesting to see your objective analysis on his face.

Your channel is fantastic, mate

Aaron Taylor-Johnson in the movie Anna Karenina 2012 as Vronsky is one of the most handsome and attractive men I’ve ever seen, the mustache, the blond hair etc. that’s exactly the kind of men I would call attractive. I just don’t know if he would fall more on the masculine side or the feminine, but for me he fits somewhere in the middle.

@TobyMcguarro

3 ай бұрын

Ok

A mistake many people make is that they think masculinity and physical attractiveness go hand in hand no matter what which is only true to an extent. A man who has a face that is generally masculine with a strong, square jawline but has slightly softer features like a slender, medium to small-sized nose, slightly bigger eyes and slightly fuller lips (with the emphasis on slightly) is seen as the most attractive to women and a good happy medium. Go too far with the androgynous look and he looks too feminine and weak à la Timothée Chalamet, Paul Mccartney, Michael Jackson. Go too far with the hyper-masculine look and he looks like a scary monster or gorilla and is too intimidating à la Arnold Schwarzenegger, Triple H, Mike Tyson. What women want is basically Michelangelo's David or any sort of ancient Greek/Roman sculpture (outside the impossibly tiny man-part, of course) à la Brad Pitt, Sean O'Pry, David Gandy. Women are biologically more attracted to these types of men because they look masculine enough to be fertile and protective of her but not too masculine so he still looks warm and inviting and would be a good partner and parent to her children that doesn't leave her right away for the next sexy lady.

@amen7692

Жыл бұрын

1. Timothée Chalamet looks young, not feminine. 2. It´s mostly guys and 35+ women simping over Sean O'Pry and David Gandy

@avidfather1864

Жыл бұрын

@@amen7692 Maybe boyish is a better word than feminine. I also want to quickly say that all the men i gave as examples are generally attractive, except for maybe the hyper-masculine guys i named and after so many surgeries, Michael Jackson did look kind of freakish at the end of his life. These men just don't belong to the balanced medium that the majority but not all women want most.

@animposter4971

Жыл бұрын

But women love Timothee

@TobyMcguarro

3 ай бұрын

So women want a model without them being one 😂😂😂😂😂

@TobyMcguarro

3 ай бұрын

@@avidfather1864women love Arnoldo in his younger days wtf are you talking about

It's not about masculinity and feminity It's about beauty Beauty mean mixing masculinity with feminity Feminine lips Masculine jawline Feminine skin Masculine eyes Feminine cheekbones Feminine hairline Masculine eyebrows ... A good mix will be attractiveness

@GabrielOsorio2

Жыл бұрын

"It's about beauty", you have no idea how few people understand.

@ayor3829

Жыл бұрын

@@GabrielOsorio2 maybe 😂

@GabrielOsorio2

Жыл бұрын

@@ayor3829 What do you mean maybe?

@ayor3829

Жыл бұрын

@@GabrielOsorio2 maybe few maybe alot

@GabrielOsorio2

Жыл бұрын

@@ayor3829 I've been focusing on looks nearly my entire life, I'm 100% sure few people who understand, I pretty sure anyone can find out in less than 10 days if they focus on it.

This is so interesting!

I love your content ❤

For some reason the hottest to me were always men with more feminine faces but very masculine behavior xD Also when i was younger i used to have a very specific type when now i have a way wider range of men i find attractive.

Everyone loves a pretty boy

@pinacolada1393

Жыл бұрын

until they feel like they are competing with one in the relationship, it can throw off the normal dynamic, if that pretty boy is trying to be the hot bitch In the relationship

@lorenzoe.leonard4160

Жыл бұрын

Even lesbians!?

@TobyMcguarro

3 ай бұрын

Pretty boys are divas

Attraction stems from a variety of aspects to each individual coresponding with their self interests. It also goes along with their own identities and finding a match for that as well as getting their needs met. And to top it off PERSONALITY goes the furthest. It really boils down to our own self worth and what company we want with that.

@user-bx8sj6qm3w

Жыл бұрын

Personality doesn't hit the g spot

@KM-bx5nv

Жыл бұрын

@@user-bx8sj6qm3w well we know now what personality you can relate with

@LancesArmorStriking

Жыл бұрын

Personality works in the long term, but looks often get your foot in the door. Ofc attraction is a holistic approach and shouldn't just be seen as getting an object that you want-- but this channel simply happens to focus on one aspect, other channels focus on others

Another amazing video that increases my cynicism of the love and makes me realize we are still animals that still prioritize our survival. Well time to make my trek back into the mountains and to continue being a hermit.

@hades9068

Жыл бұрын

Mood

@numanunal6699

Жыл бұрын

We’re not animal’s . Maybe u are

@masonmandeville

Жыл бұрын

My plan too bro

@wllulu

Жыл бұрын

@@numanunal6699 monke

@Rochester92G

Жыл бұрын

@Rocío Tons of furries nowadays.

Love skinny feminine boys for online audio & visual purposes but IRL have always prefered rugby playing, intelligent, tsundere, bearded guys, met my husband who ticked all the boxes, saw he had bullet scars & that sealed the deal as a family protector for me!💪😍 💪

All of this is true. Hormones CHANGES anyone's minds, even in just these minute dimorphic details. Perhaps as someone who is chemically imbalanced and has PCOS, my preferences for extremely dimorphic features is in line when I'm ovulating and after a period.

@yungmentalproblems

Жыл бұрын

The chemical imbalance theory has been proven to be bullshit

@winxclubstellamusa

Жыл бұрын

I’ve had PCOS since I was 12 or 13, and I have never been attracted to the pretty boy look, nor can I trust it. I’ve always been attracted to handsome masculine looking men.

@paris293

Жыл бұрын

i have pcos and have never been attracted to super masculine guys. my type is pretty boys

@lev1anus

Жыл бұрын

What is a PCOs?

@audrey9able

Жыл бұрын

@@lev1anus polycystic ovarian syndrome. Common issue for women that affects women's fertility, hormones and stuff

need more of that kind of content thanks

I had a video request: most of your videos are about exploring what beauty is. I understand that achieving that ideal beauty is mostly either through genetics and proper habits from childhood or through expensive surgeries. However, attaining those as a teenager in a third world country is practically impossible. Therefore, I would request you to make a video that provides a 'cost-effective' detailed actionable plan and habits for us. A video that talks little about theory and more about what to do to make the most out of my situation. While I know that all of this isn't very effective compared to surgeries and habits from childhood, at least I'll have something to do.

Men don't understand how greatly their appearance matters to us. I'd never even consider dating a guy I wasn't very attracted to.

@cyberpunkenjoyer3032

Жыл бұрын

We do, but as soon as we point out other women say "I don't care about looks I care about personality" It's your gender that tries to sabotage us.

@kushdax4888

Жыл бұрын

blackpilled

@issa2666

Жыл бұрын

Until yall get 30 😂😂😂

@cyberpunkenjoyer3032

Жыл бұрын

@@issa2666 a 30 years old woman has more option than all the men in this comment section combined

@abigailcosta1716

Жыл бұрын

@@issa2666 do you think when we hit 30, suddenly looks dont matter to us?

Personal observations: From 14-20, girls seemed like they prefered tall, skinny(perhaps with abs), blond guys with cuter/a bit feminine faces. I also remember when I was like 15-16 the girls would see any guy over 20 and would be like "he looks old". From early 20s onwards, women switched to preferring tall, muscular men, with masculine faces, dark hair and beards. Sometimes with a tan and tattoos. Also, a lot of them started dating older guys, not 1-3 years older, but usually 5-10 years older. I guess it comes down to the fact that a lot of men can't grow a full beard till their late 20s, and getting a good physique takes ~4-5 years of consistent training and let's be honest here most teenagers don't start working out at 12. Money might also be a factor as well.

I don't think you ever actually explained WHY the pill causes women to change preferences, you kind of just said its hormones and then went on to describe what masculine and feminine men are

@GearZNet

Жыл бұрын

He did recommend a book. I'm certain you'll find all your answers in "This is your brain on the pill" or whatever it's called.

@alexia964

Жыл бұрын

it’s complicated because there are so many different types of birth control, and it can be prescribed for many different reasons… for example i was prescribed bc for acne and my friend takes it as birth control. It affects every woman differently

Cillian Murphy know for playing masculine role/character (pesky blinders) but still has softer, feminine features, eyes and mouth 🫠

@GreedAndSelfishness

Жыл бұрын

Pesky blinders 🤣

@Ninaagabi

Жыл бұрын

@@GreedAndSelfishness bahahaha 🤣

I have one side of my face more masculine and the other more flat and soft, so maybe I have both. However, i think being masculine puts to much pressure in men sometimes, I don't want to feel that I have a duty in protecting and providing women, I want to be free and happy

I like men that have masculine bodies and feminine and masculine facial features with maybe some small feminine features on the body as well. Do you think this could be because I'm bi (f)? This could be a REALLY interesting video about how bi/gay people trend towards liking certain masculine vs. Feminine features.

@handsomeX

Жыл бұрын

It's all about Rachmaninoff Piano Concerto no. 2

@timotheechammywammy3214

Жыл бұрын

I am a lesbian and when I find guys that are attractive, they’re usually softer and feminine looking so yes, I think it might have something to do with your sexuality, especially if you’re more into girls.

@rachmaninovwasemo2313

Жыл бұрын

@@handsomeX Yes that's a good one. I have a preference towards my preludes.

@rachmaninovwasemo2313

Жыл бұрын

@@timotheechammywammy3214 Yeah, I'd be interested to hear the science behind it. If there is any...haha

@RuanMei_SocietyGenius

Жыл бұрын

I'm not bi but I prefer men as you describes

Would love to see a video on Hollywood actresses and wh some are type-cast in certain roles. Like Jessica Chastain and Cate Blanchett are always counter-system in some way because of their cheekbones

Just want to know the women demographic? Was it just American women as a interviewed one I may be an exception which is a high probability but I would say a lot of women will disagree , both the sample men are handsome but I like the more girly one ?

@suides4810

Жыл бұрын

The men shown in the video dont even represent the studies.

@run4508

Жыл бұрын

@@suides4810 they are examples as a visual for the study

lol I guess my attraction to "average" or slightly feminine men (I prefer average to slightly short men, extremely defined jawlines look cartoonish to me, etc) makes me average. So be it. But good looking men rarely have anything to offer besides their looks. So when their looks fade, they become insufferable. Average men are used to working for what they want and it makes them more interesting.

Conclusion: It's complicated.

I’m a little masculine in features so I think I go for whatever I’m “missing” in looks in order to aim for better looking children, which is maybe a slighter build in men..I have pretty wide shoulders so I don’t go for super wide shouldered men etc. I’m not slim and frail so I don’t need a thick burly man..this would make more thick burly, hairy lol children..it’s a matter of balancing the ratio. My family runs short n stocky so I go for tall n slim..but that’s just baseline looks, and society, personality and experiences all affect it too..

@sebastiencormier4306

Жыл бұрын

That's an interesting hypothesis for explaining mate choice. Basically a desire to have kids closer to the society's median. It makes sense that some people unconsciously do this.

@sebastiencormier4306

Жыл бұрын

@hello33 attraction is instinctive. Instinct exists for biological functionality. I don't want more kids (I already have 3) but my preferences for women still reflect the biological function of sex. I am attracted to women of reproductive age. I can love a woman who has run out of eggs but I can't desire her.

Idky but I find feminine features on men to be much more attractive (to me, the curly long haired guy in the video looks like a work of art) and masculine ones to sometimes be very plain and unremarkable most often(in the case of the masc example used here I don’t find him attractive) yet I usually find myself not imagining potential relationships w guys who I find more beautiful and idk if it’s bc I’m intimidated to be in a relationship w someone I view as equally or more attractive than me, bc of wanting a partner whose strong & I could subconsciously imagine protecting me or if it’s just random lol; but I have seen men who are just as beautiful and very masculine (taller, deep voice, wide shoulders, muscle etc) sooo idk lol

@erikamiglioranza1559

Жыл бұрын

Your comment is so interesting, I know what you mean because I have the same tastes, and I have felt a bit intimidated when dating someone who, to me, was extremely pretty. I have however no problem imagining myself with this type of guy, but I do like someone with delicate features but at the same time masculine characteristics as in tall, deep voice, strong personality. If he's too masculine looking there's no physical attraction on my part, and if his personality is not masculine then there's no emotional attraction if it makes sense

@issa2666

Жыл бұрын

Yall weird

@greenlamp9219

Жыл бұрын

im very lucky and i look like that guy on the left but im also attracted to him sexually is that weird or what lol idk

The thumbnail had me dying

Bruh, it's very easy, you have your own type as a human being, you might be attracted to certain traits (usually people who look like you or who give you a sense of home, so if you had a bad childhood...well you know why they stay with bad boys now.) Anyway, usually loving somebody has nothing to do with their appearance, at least if you really do love them. Edit: also, don't change yourself for someone else, just focus on being a kinder, nicer person, and that's it.

@ilikepancakes2368

Жыл бұрын

Love doesn’t exist. What humans call love is just simply lust.

Pretty boys/twinks have always been my absolute weakness 😩🤤 and this has nothing to do with age (some people in the comments are equating this type of look to younger males). For example I’m 28 and my partner is 38, but he still has that pretty boy/twink look even though he’s older!

@InsaneCopePosse

Жыл бұрын

He is tall and has money

@Johnnys_Manager

Жыл бұрын

im crying at a woman describing their man as a twink cause its usually gay men who use that term but i really get what you mean at the same time lmaooo. theres something about them

@RuthParodies

Жыл бұрын

​@@InsaneCopePossewhy so cynical? Stop! Not all women are like that.

@yanijen9733

8 ай бұрын

​@@InsaneCopePosse u r describing a masculine man. Tall and provider. She's talking about a feminine princessy twink lol

I wondered for a while if your preference is based off what you have or what category you fit in. For example, a woman who is considered to be masculine by society seems to go for a more soft masculine look. Very feminine women going for a very masculine looking men (very tall, broad shoulders etc). This would go the same way if the coin was flipped.

@alexiakyriacou1397

Жыл бұрын

, I’m a woman with very sharp features, borderline masculine and always go for softer looking men. Wonder why this happens

@Nellzurkat

Жыл бұрын

@@alexiakyriacou1397 some part of me wonders if the opposite opportunity seems more inviting? Are those that go against the grain more open minded? Are the hunter and gathering concepts lost on those that are interested in opposite opportunities because that's part of the past and modern society doesn't need it? (I think it's because the choices are more inviting) Thank you for sharing your experience, glad to know I'm not alone in this thought.

@milabo2177

Жыл бұрын

I'm 20 and a very curvy feminine looking girl and I prefere masculine looking men, I feel like my brain thinks I'm too "grown" for softer looking men

@maryy0012

Жыл бұрын

@@alexiakyriacou1397 I was like that practically all my teenage life until I've kind of forced myseld into being more feminine. I just thought it's more practucal to be feminine compared to how I've been raised by my mom. Now after like 2 years when I changed my habits I'm attracted only to masculine men

@alexiakyriacou1397

Жыл бұрын

@@maryy0012 yes, it’s also common for older women to prefer more masculine men as well. that may be due to more grown women embracing femininity more

Idk my personal attractiveness level but I'd say although I do like more feminine looking guys....like k-pop idols and all. I still would prefer to have a more masculine guy just because i always feel like a tomboy and i would want to feel more feminine around the one I am involved with. And also feel more protected lol.

@harshjain3122

Жыл бұрын

I mean ya, even popular culture has a huge effect on women's preference. However, I do believe that after a age, it wears off and they start to realise what they truly want, you know, after working, seeing the world a bit and all. Girls always objected to me removing my beard but found it alright enough when I did go clean shave cuz I do a bit of mewing. It's pretty weird cuz people don't know what they want at younger age(am quite young)...so the best suggestion would be to be strong and stay healthy ig

@engineeringka14da

7 ай бұрын

You like feminine guys but want masculine guys? Make it make sense 🤦🏻‍♂️

What if you like both?

I love your video

I think, if it is true that more attractive women prefer more masculine men, that an obvious reason could be largely about ego/insecurity. Like you said, a beautiful woman may feel more confident that a masculine won’t leave her, or at least that she could find another one. I’ve heard many women say things like “I couldn’t be with a man prettier than me” or “I don’t think I would date someone who was significantly more attractive than me.” (I personally can’t relate.) But I think they know that even on a day to day basis, she may feel insecure next to him. But I think a POSSIBLE less obvious reason could be related to familiarity. I thought of this only when you mentioned that attractive women also preferred feminine traits in women. I remember you saying in one video something along the lines of ‘there are beautiful people in every race, and beautiful people are much like their own race.’ Because you were talking about the traits that tend to exist in beautiful people across the board. Could the slimness that exposes an attractive woman’s feminine traits and her good genetics be familiar to her? And could her male relatives also have attractive masculine traits that are familiar to her? And might the opposite be true for less attractive women?

I’m an ugly woman and I like masculine men so as you can predict I’m forever alone 😅

@GabrielOsorio2

Жыл бұрын

Yes it's typical, ugly women love masculine looking men, in other words ugly men, hot women love hot men in general. The logic is simple, an ugly women will feel insecure being with a hot man, they don't want to be with a guy hotter than themselfs, unless you're very confident in yourself to date hot men. But being alone as a women is impossible, you have to pull apart from soceity to do that. You'll agree with this if I speak womanese. "Men are perverts" nearly any women is hot for men, just as long as she's feminim inside and out, just have long hair, and a skirt, (iconic silhouette of a female) and act feminim and you'll find love. A girl I used to date was deformed, she sort of looked like a man, but she wore makeup, had a wig and wore skirts this completly changed her look, but by doing this it boosted her ego becasue lots of men started to flirt with her, eventually she ended up cheating on me, and I'm like a lameduck still grinding without success.

@JuniperGal-ek2pu

Ай бұрын

Don't say that 😭

The pill and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race

@vklnew9824

Жыл бұрын

At this point it's contaminated the human gene pool.

@chelseashamim9148

Жыл бұрын

Not really. Alot of unwanted babies were abondoned or killed at birth before the pill

@ar433new6

Жыл бұрын

@GymBum and hard times create strong ppl

@chelseashamim9148

Жыл бұрын

@GymBum how do weak men create hard times? Why is it women's responsibility for men to be weak or stronge?

@libertyprime1614

Жыл бұрын

@@chelseashamim9148 1. Because society built and maintained by strong men? 2. By breeding with weak men and producing weak offspring?

Qoves, can you compile a list of modeling agencies in Australia+make a video about how to get into modeling

I have always liked (classic TDH)masculine guys with tall height, dark skin colour,muscles, beard and moustache having qualities like being strong able to protect family. I just feel naturally drawn to them for example south asian actors:- Shahrukh Khan, Wahaj Ali, Dhruv Vikram.

@devyogesh_official

Жыл бұрын

Yeah but except Srk, Dhruv Vikram ain't that tall

@Failed_Abortion

Жыл бұрын

@@devyogesh_official I guess they're exceptions for me.

@harkonnen3672

Жыл бұрын

Shah Rukh Khan is a tiny dude. No offense

I'm still more inclined with the notion that testosterone is immunoregulatory rather than immunosuppressive (or having harmful effects) thus the current idea of T ornamentation may be incomplete or flawed. A 2016 study states the immune effects of T for a wide range of immune factors and that "most [older] studies either focus on a few indicators of immunity, are confounded by phenotypic correlation, or are observational." Medical professionals know that a stronger immune response is as bad as a weakened one. Other recent studies about severe covid infections state that men with low T are at very high risk 9f death while a study about stomach inflammation says that testosterone acts to regulate inflammatory response and may have a protective effect on stomach cancers. Inflammation is a risk factor for developing cancers and autoimmune diseases. This is the reason why women are more susceptible to autoimmune diseases and certain cancers. Also, men with lower T tend to have elevated estrogens which also coincide with aging and a slightly higher cancer prevalence in older men than both younger men and women in general. Fyi, estrogens are listed alongside asbestos and nuclear exposure for potent carcinogenicity.

@ellcally508

Жыл бұрын

I agree.

@Rochester92G

Жыл бұрын

Makes sense. Testosterone has been linked to a ratio dependant response with cortisol (stress). This means, the higher the testosterone, the lower the cortisol. Inflammation is usually associated with stress as well. I can't stand how modern society disregards this and even negatively characterizes testosterone.

@dion5804

Жыл бұрын

And why women live for so long usually? I don't get it. Most of widows are female by far.

I feel like culture also plays into part with this because as someone who's asian our standards are a bit different. This study feels like it just caters to western standard whereas femininity in men is seen as attractive in most asian countries, this is also seen throughout history. Maybe the reason why we see alot of western women find feminine men more attractive nowadays is because of asian influence?

@MLGDuckk

Жыл бұрын

“Asian” is way too broad. Be more specific

@soap2926

Жыл бұрын

@@MLGDuckk southeast asian and east asian to be specific, a lot of beauty standards from them tend to overlap.

@omegads3862

Жыл бұрын

Nah mate Asians don't like feminine men, it's just that there is no stress on muscle and physicality, instead more on finance, stability, health. Actually there should be more stress on physicality and muscle, for enjoying life.

@soap2926

Жыл бұрын

@@omegads3862 @Omega Ds I'm literally an asian woman living in asia. Your concept of asian woman preferring masculine are asians who grew up in the west and was a completely different culture. Even if you look at older and more "masculine" celebrities in asia, they're never to the point of western masculinity and most of them would still have a softer look to them. Even older women here prefer "feminine" looking men.

@andergarcia4953

Жыл бұрын

@@omegads3862 Korean and japanese beauty standards for men are very feminine compared to western beauty. The men shave their faces, have medium to long hair, and are small framed its also socially acceptable for men to where make up. Wow u are ignorant.

Hey qoves, i doubt you will see this but I was wondering if you could make a video around how the gonial angle influences facial width. I have a face similair in proportion to Khabib Nurmegamedov (a retired UFC fighter) and I was wondering why my face looks so wide and bulky, I discovered it may be the cheeckbones or the jaw, and I would just love an experts opinion on this. for example when I wrap the sides of my face with my hoodie, it makes my face longer, slimmer and more mamsucline, but once i take them off, my face looks bulky and big, if you looked at Khabib (the previously mentioned UFC fighter) then you would know what im talking about, love the channel regardless, thank you!

I also wonder if those women who prefer more masculine, does it have to do with feeling safe as well. I've heard from women who want masculine men say that was part of the reason but I know that probably isn't for all.

@cyberpunkenjoyer3032

Жыл бұрын

I have a masculine face (lot of people say that I look "scary" or like a boxer) and yes, most of the women that liked me said that I made them feel safe.

@ThroughDarknessComesLight

Жыл бұрын

@@cyberpunkenjoyer3032 it’s funny because most boxer who are elite level known don’t even look like they can fight . Example canelo Alvarez and gennady golovkin look like nice dudes haha

@cyberpunkenjoyer3032

Жыл бұрын

@@ThroughDarknessComesLight Canelo has the face of a boxer tho, he has a masculine face, Golovkin yes he looks like a nerd lmao

Btw this is true for men too on a certain extent. One of my friends likes model type of women, very slim with small chest while I like women with huge butts and chests.

@ilikedesserts

Жыл бұрын

Huge but and chest- are you an anime enjoyer? 💀💀💀

I love pretty men I always have. Much more than masculine looking men, they have both masculine and fem traits and it blends so well aaaaa (and I'm an attractive woman and never have been on BC)

@BigDPrettyBoyGigaFemaleSlayer

Жыл бұрын

Anime stylish type of guys is your type?

@chiefjudge8456

Жыл бұрын

If you have to say it, you're definitely deluded and not attractive. People with anime avatars are almost always ugly or fat.

@harshjain3122

Жыл бұрын

@@BigDPrettyBoyGigaFemaleSlayer the anime ones do have broader shoulders, smaller waist and leaner with muscle. I mean, that's masculine too

@qasimimtiaz9668

Жыл бұрын

you sound like you have bpd

@yanijen9733

8 ай бұрын

​@@BigDPrettyBoyGigaFemaleSlayeranime men r masculine. They r just clean shaven lol

Well I consider myself attractive I am also a model and I will admit that ever since I hit puberty I found myself becoming more drawn to men with more masculine features. 😉😍😍

Interesting find. I do wonder though, how does this phenomenon change when discussing bisexual women? And how much does preference differ based on the individual?

I'm a bisexual woman and I consider myself quite attractive. I have always found androgyny appealing in both men and women and my current boyfriend leans more toward the feminine side, with big almond eyes, plump lips and a softer jawline. He's also shorter than average (around my height) with a slight build. I wouldn't change anything about him.

@audrey9able

Жыл бұрын

That is so sweet 💖

@rife133

Жыл бұрын

you cant consider yourself attractive, youre probably just delusional

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

@@audrey9able Yeah! One of the most beautiful things I have seen online!

@wide4583

Жыл бұрын

Boys, she's a keeper alright

@wllulu

Жыл бұрын

Please never change

Can you explain what the effects would be considering this topic while taking testosterone or estrogen? 🤨 I recently started taking Testosterone as a ftm man and it’s made me be able to smell men (like super strong, like a scent) / I like feminine/androgynous men. Not sure if this matches what you’re talking about with cycles etc.

@mackingcheeseinthemichaelwave

Жыл бұрын

Finally found another trans ftm I have so many questions as well lolol

@mackingcheeseinthemichaelwave

Жыл бұрын

I'm a few months away from being on hormones but Idk my preferences have always been blurry, I don't really care if a guy/girl I like is masculine or feminine I just pay attention to their character

@prinxe4230

Жыл бұрын

@@mackingcheeseinthemichaelwave oh same, I just noticed I have a pattern in preferences. I prefer gender non conforming people; even if they’re cis, as long as their presentation is non conforming. I don’t know if that’s going to be changed with me being on testosterone (I am now three shots in every two weeks at .25 ml). I just smell men stronger now and they smell sweet. I have always preferred feminine men so this intensified it for me if anything else.

What I take from this is that I'm hot as hell for liking masculine men thanks for coming to my TED talk

I go for someone I think I could stand near and see a match with, our features in harmony with each other, like if they have an aquiline nose, I know I can balance that out with my nose shape. Or they have a good hairline that I know would give our potential children a better characteristic. It's the image, of us together hypothetically that attracts me most of the time.

@melissa-5670

Жыл бұрын

That's interesting, I think on a subconscious level many people do it.

@maryy0012

Жыл бұрын

If it was true in general than people with every generation would become more beautiful

@melissa-5670

Жыл бұрын

@@maryy0012 I misinterpreted the original comment as "looking for a partner with similar features to your own to pass on children", but apparently it was wrong. My bad

@CraazynBR

Жыл бұрын

@@maryy0012 Obviously it isn't going to be true for the average joe buddy. In the hierarchy of choice they are last. It actually is true to the high society, look at the spouses and children of every high value man(even when they are ugly, they have a wife and children who are beautiful, most of times)

@Ronaldoisboss

Жыл бұрын

bro what

I can just SENSE the Qoves team scripting up a new video on Dream's face reveal.

Please can you make a detailed textbook guide to facial aesthetics including hair. I would eat it up.

where should I watch podcast you mentioned in the video it seems great

I've always been rather masculine in appearance, early onset of puberty, slightly bigger than most guys my age, etc etc and this does connect the dots looking back. In HS and college my friend circle consisting of guys like me who were considered "dumb jocks" somehow managed to pull the really beautiful girls. Girls that we would consider out of our leagues, and often think "Wait, that actually worked?" Sometimes it was really effortless, considering the fact that we literally behaved like grunting cavemen at times. At the time we just thought we were hot sh1t but who knew there was this type of logic behind it lmao

@Darknight526

Жыл бұрын

If that's you in your profile picture you're handsome as hell man!

@fuzzypanda1684

8 ай бұрын

Haha, I was the opposite. I was a shy, skinny, nerdy kid who got bullied and picked on all through school, and obviously got no attention from girls. At 20, I said f*** this, I gotta do something. So I spent years hitting the gym, forcing myself into social situations, and learning how to be more charismatic and outgoing. After nearly a decade I'd put on 50 pounds of muscle, finally achieving the Baywatch physique I'd always wanted, and went from shy and insecure to outgoing and charismatic. But despite all those years of blood, sweat and tears, I STILL get no interest from girls I approach. Life is f***ing ridiculous.

@engineeringka14da

7 ай бұрын

​@@fuzzypanda1684next time try to do it shirtless

@presmokan

Ай бұрын

@@fuzzypanda1684jump on semen retention

Need a study on "Dream's face reveal" now

Short answer: yes.

You should do a video on Dexter (Michael C Hall) or Tony Soprano (James Gandolfini) the former is more conventionally attractive with some feminine features and the latter is more masculine but unconventionally attractive due to his personality and charisma

One thing I couldn’t wrap my head round is how the male leads and heartthrobs of the past like Clark gable or Humphrey bogart or Sean connery were considered really handsome. When I think of handsome I tend to think of sharp jaw, defined cheekbones and hollow cheeks. The features of those old hollywood actors lacked any of those

@cyberpunkenjoyer3032

Жыл бұрын

Young Sean Connery had hunter eyes and good jawline tho

@_my_insomnia_blink562

Жыл бұрын

They look powerful, mature and masculine. I prefer them to pretty boys tbh.

@Miuranger1

Жыл бұрын

Younger Sean was handsome. Search up first coloured film..its just he smoked and drank too much

@sc2716

Жыл бұрын

Maybe the emotional connection from the movies?

@helvete_ingres4717

Жыл бұрын

Rudolph Valentino, Ivor Novello etc. had the more model-type look you consider handsome. Young Gregory Peck too - something a tad feminine in his face imo, probably the lips. Though today most film stars of either sex don't look like models any more than then. A lot of those actors were gay and played slightly off-beat or sinister characters. Bogart wasn't really cast in roles for a handsome guy, he usually played characters that were a little bit sleazy or something and he had the face for that (no offence to the legend). But if you think Cary Grant was not handsome, entire opinion invalid

I feel like there’s more important things women are attracted to, most attractive masculine and feminine men have really similar features, Tall, nice jawline, sexy deepset upturn eyes, etc, those things make any guy hotter to any women statistically, him being more soft or sharp is like comparing a sexy women to a cute women they both will attract more men if they have basic attractive features

Could you please rate Dream's face? He's litterally getting so much hate for being ugly but I don't think he is at all.

@tralilingvlog7160

9 ай бұрын

he's average at best and didn't they already make a video about him?

How do you explain the phenomena of women who look quite average, but still attract men to a high degree. Ive heard it said, "there's something about her. " I mean attraction depends on looks for sure, but sometimes some other mysterious quality has a lot of influence. Any theories on That?

I'd say some factor depends on the value someone places in the aesthetics, not only of the other person but of the couple too, It is undeniable that two similar looking people make a better couple looks-wise than the old myth of the 'pair of opposites' (fat and lean, very malculine and very feminine, very young and very old, beautiful and ugly etc), of all my girl friends the ones who tend to go for more masculine looking men are usually the same ones that say they don't care much about looks, while my more art-leaning, beauty-driven friends tend to like feminine boys and/or women, wich happens to be my preference too, i can't say for sure but there seems to be something going on there, that the more beauty-driven people (perhaps the very feminine beauty canon for both men and women in art influences too) tend to prefer the most graceful, elegant and feminine and hence generating a preference for less masculine men and women, seems to be a common trend for this kind of people, i also read something aboutw women in positions of power or yearning for it going for younger boyish looking men that they percibe as more controllable, tho i don't think in those cases the decision is driven by how pretty the guy is

As a stereotypically feminine looking man (facial features mostly, constantly get told I look young for my age), this is very disheartening 😂

@wllulu

Жыл бұрын

Same

Interesting. I would’ve expected the opposite. With the rise “e-boys” or “soft-boys” and just effeminate men in general, I would’ve suspected that more masculine looking men would be seen as less attractive (especially with the whole toxic masculinity thing being all the rage these days).

@dedasalmeida9047

Жыл бұрын

Masculinity will never be unattractive to women... They need that energy, they don't like admitting it themselves but they need that masculine energy

@alexforce9

Жыл бұрын

It seems age related. Younger girls/women prefer "soft-boys" older women - go for more masculine types.

@mauve9266

Жыл бұрын

I think a lot of it may have to do with perceived personality and character traits with the whole ‘men written by women’ trend and an overall emphasis on the female gaze. Like these more ‘effeminate’ looking men may be associated with positive character traits from a woman’s pov like a Harry styles type so it’s possible that some see the opposite of that, traditionally masculine looking men, to be less attractive cos they may harbour views/ possess traits that women see as not aligning with the ‘written by a woman narrative’ not that it’s necessarily the case or that women believe the stereotype to be true all the time, I think that look just fits with the trend so it’s sometimes seen as appealing depending on the context but especially online

@michaelironsights8347

Жыл бұрын

@@dedasalmeida9047 I think you're confusing confidence for masculinity

@uwu2u436

Жыл бұрын

@@alexforce9 That also seems to correlate with how humans age. Men do get more masculine over time, so it would make sense if women shift their preferences according to what their age group looks like.

as a woman, i like both

I actually wonder if it might also be a freedom of sexuality, specially bisexuality. A male that looks female sorta is the perfect combination of both for bisexual females.

@jeshurundaniel794

Жыл бұрын

I know many straight women that prefer more feminine looking men It's just preference

Ngl I'm almost 30 and still prefer men with feminine/androgynous traits, though I don't mind a clean moustach/goatee combo with longer hair à la Ye Soft Poet Lad. You know, that type lol

Men who are a good mixture of both 🤝🏽

Interesting video, I want to say, do you think trying to look the more masculine you can works for everyone?, I have a feminine face, I'm skinny and I have medium length curly hair, so you say that women prefer more masculine looking men, I get it, but I think if I try to look more masculine like having a short haircut and go to the gym and try to get big, I don't know, I think I'll look worse and really weird.

@micah810

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Women have certain types, and the "pretty boy" type is extremely attractive to a lot of women. As a curly-haired skinny guy myself, women adore me even though I'm not very masculine except for being muscular.

@alexia964

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definitely don’t go that route. i feel like when more feminine looking men cut their hair short they end up looking more like a 12 year old boy rather than masculine… no offense. I think going to the gym is fine though? I don’t see what the problem is with trying to build muscle

@wllulu

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@@alexia964 i don't see a problem with building muscle, my problem is if I try to get like really big, im trying to build muscle but not to much

@wllulu

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@@alexia964 thanks for the answer

@wllulu

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@bomfine I'll do that, thanks for the answer

This is so funny, because it makes so much sense.