5 Ways Men and Women Look At Beauty Differently

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  • @narongroad7916
    @narongroad7916 Жыл бұрын

    This is a theory, but it does seem that the more masculine the person the more feminine they prefer their partner. The closer to the middle the person is the more variable their preferences This is especially the case with men

  • @helvete_ingres4717

    @helvete_ingres4717

    Жыл бұрын

    it's not really a theory; that's been observed for centuries at least. It's pretty obvious - the most powerful way to think of attraction is that we're attracted to people who outwardly display traits that in ourselves are repressed

  • @bigpapi6688

    @bigpapi6688

    Жыл бұрын

    @@helvete_ingres4717 so how does this explain my attraction to Shego from Kimpossible??

  • @taurus7911

    @taurus7911

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bigpapi6688 you’re basic

  • @bigpapi6688

    @bigpapi6688

    Жыл бұрын

    @@taurus7911 if wanting a goth cartoon girl is basic then I don’t wanna be complex

  • @qasimimtiaz9668

    @qasimimtiaz9668

    Жыл бұрын

    true

  • @BitchChill
    @BitchChill Жыл бұрын

    From what I've noticed men rate each other based on how intimidating they look

  • @thatguywatchingyou9549

    @thatguywatchingyou9549

    Жыл бұрын

    yeah i agree with this, alot of men highly rate the muscular man + bald + thick beard combo when ive pretty much never seen a woman say that she likes it.

  • @levipoops

    @levipoops

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thatguywatchingyou9549 not bald

  • @archnekro4269

    @archnekro4269

    Жыл бұрын

    @@AlexClayland1232 there is a difference between masculinity, ugly, intimidating looks, and scary looking. I Believe Quasimodo is scary and intimidating in women's eyes while not in men's eyes

  • @archnekro4269

    @archnekro4269

    Жыл бұрын

    @@AlexClayland1232 see? exactly. that's why i said there is a difference between masculinity, ugly, intimidating looks, and scary looking

  • @crabb9966

    @crabb9966

    Жыл бұрын

    Not entirely true but that's one element

  • @universalsubliminals1174
    @universalsubliminals1174 Жыл бұрын

    would love to see a video on what femininity looks like for different races!

  • @Laura-dn1zx

    @Laura-dn1zx

    Жыл бұрын

    He already made a video about breaking down the whole biological beauty of women, but if you want cultural then he talks briefly in many other videos each one of the 3 most "famous races", I guess that's what you'd call? Idk lol, but just search and you'll easily find them

  • @universalsubliminals1174

    @universalsubliminals1174

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Laura-dn1zx i think ive seen that one, but i mean more in the sense of how each race - especially if in their native countries - view femininity because the feminine ideals he describes tend to be very western/white, so i'd be interested in knowing how femininity and estrogen manifests in different races

  • @Laura-dn1zx

    @Laura-dn1zx

    Жыл бұрын

    @@universalsubliminals1174 oh I understand. That's probably gonna be hard because it's really specific, and if he talks about the biggest countries like USA and Brazil where it's basically a melting pot of races, it's gonna be pretty hard 😂. But hey, it's really easy to find other channels that talk about that and have good quality videos. This morning I was actually watching one about Korea, lol

  • @martybuffalini

    @martybuffalini

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmaooooo

  • @ThatOneUglyLightskin

    @ThatOneUglyLightskin

    Жыл бұрын

    The exact same for black people at least.

  • @howcanyoudothistome1
    @howcanyoudothistome1 Жыл бұрын

    This is an interesting topic . I've said for a while that men and women view attractiveness differently, this theory stemmed from my high school experience. There was always a girl that all the guys fancied, but the girls (me included) saw nothing special about. It had nothing to do with jealousy, but a genuine and confusing observation. A girl that 'other' girls deemed attracted was never seen as that attractive by the guys. I've always been confused about my perceived attractiveness as I feel I have a gender balanced 'positive' feedback. However, I think my face leans towards men finding it more attractive than women do.

  • @monozone9696

    @monozone9696

    Жыл бұрын

    Same experience. I am a men. Men think I am attractive. Women think I am ugly.

  • @infinityboom1842

    @infinityboom1842

    Жыл бұрын

    @@monozone9696 male and female gaze perhaps

  • @ocelot9643

    @ocelot9643

    Жыл бұрын

    I've seen this as well, on social media too I've noticed men go crazy over, to me, very plain looking women you could find anywhere

  • @paolafei6794

    @paolafei6794

    Жыл бұрын

    Same!! We also had a conversation about this with some men colleagues about actresses.

  • @user-xd3rb1fm5z

    @user-xd3rb1fm5z

    Жыл бұрын

    Sei italiana ? Hai chiesto ai tuoi colleghi se valutano una donna soprattutto per il fisico (come mi sembra), o se guardano il viso ?

  • @eeva1475
    @eeva1475 Жыл бұрын

    An aspect that probably influences these types of studies is that the test subjects for psychology research often are psychology students. Which means that the studied group has gone through a pre-selection: participants tend to be in their 20's, are more towards the intelligent end of IQ spectrum & come usually from middle-class or higher socio-economic background. I also wonder about the cultural differences - would a research done in Thailand or Sudan yield the same results as the same research done in th USA? For an average video-wiever it is almost impossible to make an assesment about how well the study was done or how comprehensive it's scope was. Many of the psychology results haven't been able to be replicated - or the results are much murkier than the cut-clean interpretation given to the public. Psychology is a really complicated field of study!

  • @andie6766
    @andie6766 Жыл бұрын

    Can you make a video on attractiveness due to exposure? like, how people get attracted to certain facial features after being exposed to ppl w different facial features for a while, like after moving countries

  • @az0963818

    @az0963818

    Жыл бұрын

    That's a really good topic idea!

  • @Aaron-kj8dv

    @Aaron-kj8dv

    Жыл бұрын

    I was in the Marines and we were on a Navy ship for months and there were literally 3 women on it. That's it. None of them were attractive but after a few weeks out at sea and I was lusting hard for all of them lol

  • @travis1271

    @travis1271

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Aaron-kj8dv that’s called being down bad

  • @sakurazukamorisubaru

    @sakurazukamorisubaru

    Жыл бұрын

    Cool story: when I started to get into K-pop and k-dramas, I was like "oh, I like this ugly one" from the members of a group, or drama cast. And then I found out that this person is actually in charge of visuals of the group. So of course I liked him. Everyone likes him. Although logically my brain was used to see men with different facial features as attractive, it still worked objectively. Emotionally I chose that person, who was considered attractive by a lot of other people.

  • @beethedead

    @beethedead

    Жыл бұрын

    Love this as a topic bc proximity has been found to correlate to attraction.

  • @HaHaHaLMFAOtv
    @HaHaHaLMFAOtv Жыл бұрын

    it's funny. I see couples that are not aesthetically attractive but they seem to be happy together. then I see attractive people who seem to be more lonely than others and can't find partner for long term even with all the looks

  • @thelaw557
    @thelaw557 Жыл бұрын

    So glad I watched until the end! I’ve been watching on a video about gay beauty/attraction and relationships.

  • @T-19-
    @T-19- Жыл бұрын

    Do a video on beauty spots / marks. That’ll be interesting.

  • @bellissimajis678
    @bellissimajis678 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot, great work and information

  • @nskfsr
    @nskfsr Жыл бұрын

    I'm a girl but I love feminine delicate facial features for both men and women (V shaped sharp jawline, small chin, small nose, small pouty mouth). Men with hyper masculine face (such as big strong jaw) look old and unattractive to me. Just my opinion but I'm pretty sure there are tons of other people who think the opposite.

  • @mynew6972

    @mynew6972

    Жыл бұрын

    Wait until you grow out of your teen years and you will think differently. That's why kpop is so popular with the teen girls.

  • @Cherubim6166

    @Cherubim6166

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mynew6972 are u a girl?

  • @miso__soup

    @miso__soup

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mynew6972 Nah, just accept that not everyone finds you attractive.

  • @saskilla1945

    @saskilla1945

    Жыл бұрын

    i see you would still like a wide jaw? like with nice flared gonia but small noose and chin yes?

  • @lesgibson969

    @lesgibson969

    Жыл бұрын

    you're probably between 15 - 19 that's why

  • @dd-uf9nw
    @dd-uf9nw Жыл бұрын

    Do developing nations, developed nations and underdeveloped nations have different beauty standards or some of these nations emphasize money , social prestige over physical attractiveness.

  • @alexforce9

    @alexforce9

    Жыл бұрын

    The more poor the country is the more masculine men are seen as attractive and feminine women seen as attractive. Everyone like tall and in shape men, and big boobs, but the more rich the country is - the more are people ready to settle for less. Masculinity and femininity are ques for health and non hungry non disease ridden childhood. In developed nations those ques are less relevant. Plus women feel safer so they dont feel the need to find a mate that can protect them physically.

  • @kracks9852

    @kracks9852

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah i'm from a developing nation and here, beauty is much more rigorous for women. Men on the other hand need to have high paying jobs. It is due to the culture, women stay at home, men work. But as our economy is growing i'm seeing things equalling out. Arranged marriages are going down and there is emphasis on beauty for men too (in urban areas).

  • @lizardmutt
    @lizardmutt Жыл бұрын

    Could you do an analysis on Leonard Nimoy (Spock from Star Trek)? He was an icon at the time and it would be cool to include some classic faces, especially since he has very unusual and interesting features. Same goes with David Bowie.

  • @divyanshuminz7885
    @divyanshuminz7885 Жыл бұрын

    The more I look at these analysis, the more I understand that based on facial aesthetics alone I don't stand a chance and its better to just focus on what I want to do than than trying to find someone that would love me.

  • @rafsandomierz5313

    @rafsandomierz5313

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't think you've heard that dating do not works for attractive people by being only attractive, it's said in this video, self esteem is also an factor that is needed to be taken into account if you belitte yourself then you will get the effect called "Self fullfilling phropercy" that works on almost every aspect of your life if you let it. If you will tell yourself that you will never achive anything in life guess what happens the self fullfilling phropercy effect will start to take over your life.

  • @divyanshuminz7885

    @divyanshuminz7885

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rafsandomierz5313 I get your point, self esteem and confidence does play a huge role in dating and life in general. But imo these things come by either people telling you, you are good or you doing good for yourself through getting consistent results. I dont understand how people are confident in themselves like 98% of the time.

  • @rafsandomierz5313

    @rafsandomierz5313

    Жыл бұрын

    @@divyanshuminz7885 You have to find some sort of comfort zone that you can get into when things get too much also remember to care about your health, I have found mine through 3 years of isolation and doing hobbies though there still are things to work on I can't be perfect I can only be better.

  • @madallas_mons

    @madallas_mons

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@divyanshuminz7885 Dress well, and get your body in shape and your confidence will naturally skyrocket. If you dress fashionably with a nice haircut people will perceive you as cool and treat you that way. You can use this to make friends and develop social skills and charisma. Women will come to you naturally. Believe in yourself, and watch Rom Wills

  • @divyanshuminz7885

    @divyanshuminz7885

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks guys. I am already trying these things, but I guess it takes time.

  • @333angeleyes
    @333angeleyes Жыл бұрын

    Hi Qoves Studio, would you consider doing a video on what is more powerful when it comes to attraction "nature vs. nurture" or what is scientifically beautiful vs. what pop culture considers beautiful? In many of your videos, you've stated that things like jawline and symmetry are more important than things like having blue eyes or white skin. However, I am American and, here it seems like most women in their 20s and 30s would chase after an Andrew Garfield and, ignore a Sendhil Ramamurthy even though Sendhil is clearly scientifically closer to fitting the definition of beauty. After years of witnessing so many examples of this I can't help but, to think that what society (and media: movies, television, magazines) deems as beautiful is more influential than what we evolved to think is beautiful. Your thoughts?

  • @saltator8565

    @saltator8565

    Жыл бұрын

    Nature. People are always more attracted to heritable features, especially women.

  • @universalsubliminals1174

    @universalsubliminals1174

    Жыл бұрын

    @@saltator8565 i think it's a mix of both, i think it's nature AFTER falling within the category of your preference/what you're used to seeing

  • @dryames4319

    @dryames4319

    Жыл бұрын

    What an interesting hypothesis. I think that’d make for a great video!

  • @atharvgautam1018

    @atharvgautam1018

    Жыл бұрын

    It's one of the debate going on that even though sendhill is more scientifically attractive but his skin colour makes him unlikable for the western women

  • @Mycenaea

    @Mycenaea

    Жыл бұрын

    You have to look at what they represent too; especially when it comes to celebrities. Not just what they look like. Since they are celebrities, there is already a high chance they look much better than the average guy, so it matters less because they are both hot. What kind of role does each man generally play when he acts? How are they in interviews? For example Andrew has been a judge on Drag Race, so maybe this is attractive to a lot of women because it means he is "open minded" and maybe cares a lot about different social justice subjects that are important to women. And also: is one of them a more well known celebrity? I think that will play a big part, even if you show pictures of them when asking these women.

  • @myaduro
    @myaduro Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing ❤❤

  • @rafaeldominguescampanati3729
    @rafaeldominguescampanati3729 Жыл бұрын

    I love QOVES, wish you guys would make a video on attractiveness for a homoerotic perspective

  • @apollofateh324

    @apollofateh324

    10 ай бұрын

    Yes, it seems the beauty standards vary drastically: what straight men vs bi men vs lesbians vs bi women find attractive about men and women are all going to look completely different. Unfortunately there's less data on that due to the social taboos around it, so I wouldn't expect a video on it any time soon, due to lack of data.

  • @iamenheduana
    @iamenheduana Жыл бұрын

    qoves u need dark mode my guy

  • @user-iq9dd4kk9n
    @user-iq9dd4kk9n Жыл бұрын

    I know this is yoo sciency but I would appreciate it if you talked about how birth control affects the women's preference of men .. such an important topic

  • @breannaw7254

    @breannaw7254

    Жыл бұрын

    I think he might do a video on this soon, there's lots of requests for it

  • @qhamaclaasen4049

    @qhamaclaasen4049

    Жыл бұрын

    Please

  • @cano534

    @cano534

    Жыл бұрын

    I heard that they don't like masculine men when they are on birth control. So when they stop using it can happen that they aren't attracted to their partner anymore.

  • @breannaw7254

    @breannaw7254

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cano534 same

  • @cryspell7240

    @cryspell7240

    Жыл бұрын

    oh my god yes, when I was on it I really started to doubt my sexuality

  • @melanylarsson9006
    @melanylarsson9006 Жыл бұрын

    I always prefer masculine men it seems, the whole month BUT my style (fashion and interior design) changes from soft/feminine to more clean/sleek throughout the month 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 Жыл бұрын

    I find that men who are perceived as very attractive are just not until I speak with them and determine their openness and intelligence, integrity and empathy. If they lack those traits and more I no longer find them attractive. On the other hand I can meet a man who is less attractive but has a great and kind heart and demeanor I then perceive him as a 10.

  • @joshgreen194

    @joshgreen194

    Жыл бұрын

    "Less attractive"? What does that even mean? 😅

  • @AugustRx

    @AugustRx

    Жыл бұрын

    An ugly nice guy or a nice guy who's not ugly?

  • @k_mma

    @k_mma

    9 ай бұрын

    are you a gemini venus?

  • @kugul1683

    @kugul1683

    7 ай бұрын

    I have the same with girls haha, whilst I initially notice them based of appearance, I only really get attracted with their personality as well

  • @sapodilla25
    @sapodilla25 Жыл бұрын

    Omg now I know why I can never stay in a relationship very long. I'm just too good looking 😅

  • @JOEYDEEZ369
    @JOEYDEEZ36910 ай бұрын

    I may look feminine but I am very well in touch with my masculine side.. See Qoves I have oestrogen yes but also very high levels of testosterone floating around in my system (I come from a family of mainly male siblings) I even walk talk think like a boy more so than a girl and I even wear my jeans super low like a boy because I do not have muffin top so I can wear my strides super low. I’m still Tom boy even at 55 hahahahah ! I accept my feminine/masculine self fully and I love myself unconditionally always and forever amen ! Cheers for this entertaining and informative video Q Ttfn;)

  • @Gabriella_Macy
    @Gabriella_Macy Жыл бұрын

    Factual upload as always

  • @daniwatchesyt
    @daniwatchesyt Жыл бұрын

    Please can you analyse what makes FKA Twigs attractive? Thank you

  • @charge3044
    @charge3044 Жыл бұрын

    Make video on can distance or angle can contribute to once facial attractiveness? Like different distance and angle

  • @CrimsonUniverse22
    @CrimsonUniverse22 Жыл бұрын

    In other words, there isn’t one man or woman that could satisfy any man or any woman when it comes to physical looks. Unless the beauty equivalent of Thor drops from the skies.

  • @jonathank786

    @jonathank786

    Жыл бұрын

    Makes sense no one’s a 10

  • @zakihidayat468

    @zakihidayat468

    Жыл бұрын

    Thor is a fat middle aged man with drinking problem and pale skin,you think thats attractive?

  • @VEGAS-NERVE

    @VEGAS-NERVE

    Жыл бұрын

    In my honest opinion, Alain Delon when he was younger is a complete 10/10 and almost all men and women agree on that

  • @rafsandomierz5313

    @rafsandomierz5313

    Жыл бұрын

    @@VEGAS-NERVE The key word is almost all, the OP literally have said that, that there is no man nor woman that is able to satisfy 100% of humanity with physical looks until it's some sort of god from mythology.

  • @VEGAS-NERVE

    @VEGAS-NERVE

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rafsandomierz5313 well if you want to be precise, many people are also asexual so yeah that could never happen

  • @sam1323123
    @sam1323123 Жыл бұрын

    On the point of self attractiveness. Is that an objective rating or are deluded individuals also affected by their perception. In other words, do ugly individuals who rate themselves highly prefer the highly attractive faces? Can we use this as a way to rate our own level of attractiveness?

  • @helvete_ingres4717

    @helvete_ingres4717

    Жыл бұрын

    it would be based no self-perception yes, but self-perception in a rational individual is influenced by environmental feedback

  • @rafsandomierz5313

    @rafsandomierz5313

    Жыл бұрын

    @@helvete_ingres4717 It's still self perception, just affected by envirovment.

  • @madallas_mons

    @madallas_mons

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@helvete_ingres4717 Watch Rom Wills, dress well and get your body in shape

  • @helvete_ingres4717

    @helvete_ingres4717

    Жыл бұрын

    @@madallas_mons uh, what

  • @madallas_mons

    @madallas_mons

    Жыл бұрын

    @@helvete_ingres4717 I meant to reply to someone else lmao

  • @04kilik40
    @04kilik40 Жыл бұрын

    The examples given for Drill Sergeant and Pretty Boy look the same to me..They both have highly masculine features. Pls help.

  • @sarven5984
    @sarven5984 Жыл бұрын

    finally a video that you can actually understand what they're talking about lol

  • @mfwnogf8249
    @mfwnogf8249 Жыл бұрын

    Can you guys do a video exclusively on the topic of male pattern baldness please? I'm sure alot of young men would find it very interesting !

  • @EshaGhosh369
    @EshaGhosh369 Жыл бұрын

    Hello QOVES, I had sent email to the address mentioned in the community tab of this channel regarding the job opening, and that too within the deadline, but I have not yet heard back from the team.

  • @QOVESStudio

    @QOVESStudio

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Jitarpana, I'll let the hiring manager know.

  • @EshaGhosh369

    @EshaGhosh369

    Жыл бұрын

    @@QOVESStudio Okay. Thank you.

  • @EshaGhosh369

    @EshaGhosh369

    Жыл бұрын

    @@QOVESStudio Have you spoken to the hiring manager regarding my email?

  • @steph678

    @steph678

    19 күн бұрын

    ​@@EshaGhosh369you dint get the job

  • @natasharules6737
    @natasharules6737 Жыл бұрын

    A great example is jubilee's women rank themselves vs men ranking women and vice versa

  • @igzotiktv3600
    @igzotiktv3600 Жыл бұрын

    3:53 The thing with bodily attractiveness for men is that bodily attractiveness can develop into facial attractiveness over time and thus the type of relationship will change too; from short term to long term relationship. It's lust (sexual attraction) for short term relationship developing into infatuation (romantic attraction) for long term relationship.

  • @ngonz89

    @ngonz89

    Жыл бұрын

    Or he calls her a butterface

  • @mrdouche9172

    @mrdouche9172

    Жыл бұрын

    Nah it doesn't work that way. For short term, men indeed prioritize body, but for long term they prioritize face.

  • @Riosgirl98
    @Riosgirl98 Жыл бұрын

    I'd love a collab between you guys and Professor Dutton. It would be epic ❤

  • @myaduro

    @myaduro

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree 🥰🥰

  • @Whatever-hy3dd

    @Whatever-hy3dd

    Жыл бұрын

    Dude his primary audience consists of members from the alt-right. They should not associate themselves with him.

  • @ssam1820
    @ssam1820 Жыл бұрын

    Please please Do video on something I have noticed, sad faces seem to be always agreed upon as the most attractive, like cillian murphy and others. I have noticed those sad faces look the sweetest and most attractive like they will give you love and tenderness.

  • @danieldan7713
    @danieldan7713 Жыл бұрын

    LOOOOL 2:17 that guy went with me to school lmfao. Quoves was the LAST place i expected to see him

  • @wilhelmmaul866
    @wilhelmmaul866 Жыл бұрын

    dikkka das ist übel nice man , yeah chill it out mane!

  • @coggun6763
    @coggun6763 Жыл бұрын

    Posted 54 seconds ago is crazy

  • @rashedulkabir6227
    @rashedulkabir6227 Жыл бұрын

    Make a video analyzing Shahrukh Khan's face.

  • @phyopyaepyaemaung3409
    @phyopyaepyaemaung3409 Жыл бұрын

    Can u do a video about asian ideal face shape vs western ideal face shape. Asian prefer egg facd like smooth v line . Jaw reduction are popular in asian in the other hand in western cheek bone implant are more popular. Western prefer sharp and define face shape. I want to know the differences between western and asian how they define beauty in men or women

  • @Titan_Design

    @Titan_Design

    Жыл бұрын

    He already has such video. Just look for it

  • @moonamoonz
    @moonamoonz Жыл бұрын

    I think i'm one of the few women here who actually prefers masculine men, and i'm not really feminine.

  • @dscyth3r452
    @dscyth3r452 Жыл бұрын

    who is the guy at 7:34 ?

  • @danyyounes3344
    @danyyounes3344 Жыл бұрын

    How about making a video about what makes michele morrone attractive?

  • @samanthaferrari5948
    @samanthaferrari5948 Жыл бұрын

    Please analyze Spanish actress, Rossy De Palma's face.

  • @ayeshanicoochi3094
    @ayeshanicoochi30948 ай бұрын

    your videos always make me feel like a unique 8 out of all these tiktok 10's

  • @amysho2192
    @amysho21923 ай бұрын

    I noticed that on Tinder, I liked certain men, then a couple weeks later, I'd look at those matches and wonder what the heck I was thinking. Then after a couple more weeks I'd find them attractive again! Same with my current boyfriend. He is effeminate and sometimes he seems WAY too girly for me, while other times he seems manly. I came up with the theory that it depends on where I'm at in my cycle. It's so cool to hear that this is actually a thing. I love science. Oh, and my cycle also dictates what type of music I prefer. And what movies I want to watch. Amazing.

  • @Micah_Coatha
    @Micah_Coatha7 ай бұрын

    I’m bisexual and for me it’s very important for both genders to have a good defined jawline, a nice nose and good hair (which are traits that I have too).

  • @OliCrown
    @OliCrown Жыл бұрын

    Interesting

  • @pepklopp3375
    @pepklopp3375 Жыл бұрын

    2:17 what's this guy's name?

  • @javanelsure4500
    @javanelsure4500 Жыл бұрын

    Do jeremy meeks

  • @shanga9517
    @shanga9517 Жыл бұрын

    I really love your voice

  • @worthwhilediscussion

    @worthwhilediscussion

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @sarahfranco6802
    @sarahfranco6802 Жыл бұрын

    2:40, 4:30, 5:50, 6:50, 9:30

  • @universalsubliminals1174
    @universalsubliminals1174 Жыл бұрын

    i want a longterm relationship... good to know that means i'm unattractive lmaoo

  • @lendial
    @lendial Жыл бұрын

    do gay men generally seek out the most masculine looking man because they are more at peace with wanting short term connections rather than long ones?

  • @alexforce9

    @alexforce9

    Жыл бұрын

    I think men in general are more focused on short term coz of the all the testosterone.

  • @durhamrise6207
    @durhamrise62077 ай бұрын

    Nature is always looking for balance.

  • @wowomah6194
    @wowomah61949 ай бұрын

    Okay...so out of curiosity...why would a woman use the word "pretty" to describe me when she KNOWS I'm not gay and she's NOT trying to insult me but meant it as a genuine compliment. What are other examples of what are "pretty" males? I'm just not sure how to take the compliment honestly as usually if a woman wanted to compliment my looks it was "good looking", "cute" or "attractive" or "handsome" and the usual ones. Why in the Hell would a woman opt for the word "pretty"?

  • @hudaverdirey868
    @hudaverdirey868 Жыл бұрын

    As a masculine looking woman I do not know what to do in this situation. Should I get plastic surgery to look more feminine like shaving my jaw but what about my big mouth haha damn destined to be ugly ❤

  • @Bratzmaniac29

    @Bratzmaniac29

    Жыл бұрын

    Idk cause you can say all the Kardashian’s, Jennifer Lopez, Jessica Alba etc are more masculine compared to other celebrities but yet they’re also some of the most attractive women in the world. So I’m curious why they are the exception but also it shows that these studies aren’t 100%!

  • @yasmino6387

    @yasmino6387

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely not! Im sure there are ppl who find you attractive out there. Try to accept yourself for who you are.

  • @thiswillnotdo6027

    @thiswillnotdo6027

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Bratzmaniac29 none of those women are masculine looking

  • @Bratzmaniac29

    @Bratzmaniac29

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thiswillnotdo6027 I mean by quoves standards, yeah they are. Wider jaws, longer ramus or face, prominent or taller chins etc. - While I agree they don’t look like men, they aren’t hyper feminine either.

  • @AugustRx

    @AugustRx

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@thiswillnotdo6027The later two are (just in the face)

  • @haebee
    @haebee Жыл бұрын

    yes Qoves, I know i'm ugly. i own a goddamn mirror.

  • @depoiseufalofoiumprazer1310
    @depoiseufalofoiumprazer1310 Жыл бұрын

    Is the guy at 7:35 ai created? If he’s real, what’s his name?

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve observed that guys “not all but many” are attracted to women who look similar to their mothers. I find that creepy but nonetheless I still see this.

  • @viraj-kz9mt

    @viraj-kz9mt

    Жыл бұрын

    Can you explain a bit more?

  • @mela6885

    @mela6885

    Жыл бұрын

    Well don’t most people date those that are usually equally yoked plus most also dating within their race/culture? I feel liked those factors can playing to a man dating someone that looks like their mom. For example a Hispanic man dating another hispanic women where they both share the same phenotype his mother would also have.

  • @xxxxxxxx8903

    @xxxxxxxx8903

    7 ай бұрын

    This is true. I have a lot in common with my fiance's mother. Height and hair/eye color match. His mother has very blunt facial features for a woman and mine are slightly less so - but still more blunt than beauty standards. We're both Scorpios too. I think it's slightly creepy, but seems to be really common. My fiance does not look at all like my father.

  • @Music6teen
    @Music6teen Жыл бұрын

    would you please consider talking about beauty from the perspective of the queer community? id love to hear thoughts on different stereotypes like dating partners that look similar to oneself or why certain attractive traits may be highly coveted vs other attractive traits in the gay community. Thanks!

  • @lovisaadina5470

    @lovisaadina5470

    Жыл бұрын

    I would find a video like this interesting as well!

  • @tryycoper3321

    @tryycoper3321

    Жыл бұрын

    yes pls

  • @StateFlow-ns4mg
    @StateFlow-ns4mg Жыл бұрын

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @yunay8949
    @yunay8949 Жыл бұрын

    4:26 what is this boy's name ?

  • @saltator8565

    @saltator8565

    Жыл бұрын

    Doesn't matter. Not like you got a chance with him.

  • @mickethegoblin7167

    @mickethegoblin7167

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@saltator8565 gottem

  • @alexbeerune

    @alexbeerune

    Жыл бұрын

    MAN

  • @kaibuchan

    @kaibuchan

    Жыл бұрын

    His name is Lester Green

  • @pingeee

    @pingeee

    Жыл бұрын

    @@saltator8565 LOL

  • @senoir.
    @senoir. Жыл бұрын

    2:16 I feel seen.

  • @tylerthecreatorsbiological8130
    @tylerthecreatorsbiological8130 Жыл бұрын

    Do Scott Neslage next

  • @roxy9mh

    @roxy9mh

    Жыл бұрын

    Dad?

  • @christophergraves6725
    @christophergraves67254 ай бұрын

    At 6:26 or so, the point is made that men prefer more feminized faces for SR sexual flings and a more masculinized face for LR marriage. For women, they prefer the more masculinized face for SR flings and a more feminized face for LR marriage. The speculation is presented that the man or the woman prefers the less attractive, lower value person for LR marriage since these less desirable folks are less able to desert them because they cannot find another mate as easily. I would say it quite the opposite. The masculinized woman can be very attractive such as Lauren Bacall and she shows more emotional stability and intelligence, which make her a better wife and mother and also makes her less emotionally changeable and therefore more likely to be faithful to the man and the family. More feminized women are less dependable and less able to manage a household and less devoted as a mother even if they are judged to be more stimulating in bed. For women, hyper-masculinized men might be judged to be better in bed for a fling (from my own questioning of women who have had such affairs, this assumption is questionable since many men like this are done within seconds as they just go for the sexual climax), but are judged to be less able in a modern developed economy that thrives on intelligence and foresight, which the "hunk" lacks. The heavier a person's features, the more likely they are to have a smaller brain, and brain size and intelligence are positively related. The man with a greater balance of features including some feminized features would be more attractive since they have the ambition to advance but they also have the caring attitude necessary to be a loving and devoted husband and father. A man with very masculinized features might not be as willing to sacrifice for the family and share the resources that he has earned, if he has the self-discipline and intellectual ability to even gain more resources in an advanced economy where self-control pays off in the LR.

  • @StateFlow-ns4mg
    @StateFlow-ns4mg Жыл бұрын

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💥

  • @jithinff8686
    @jithinff8686 Жыл бұрын

    i am first but it doesnt matter

  • @SpecialAbonnent

    @SpecialAbonnent

    Жыл бұрын

    @@vwqwe-gh6td But when nothing matters maybe what you've said and he've said doesn't matter, so my comment doesn't either

  • @SpecialAbonnent

    @SpecialAbonnent

    Жыл бұрын

    @@vwqwe-gh6td Everything matters and everything doesn't matter at the same time, we have the ability to decide, each day, but absolutely we know if everything mattered after we've died or maybe we won't know, so maybe nothing matters

  • @SpecialAbonnent

    @SpecialAbonnent

    Жыл бұрын

    @@vwqwe-gh6td Of course, if you die and there is an afterlife of course your life mattered, if you die and there is nothing, then nothing mattered, but if you are able to decide each day if something mattered and you decide that your life matters, then even after your death, and even after your death when there is nothing, it will have mattered, so just one decision can decide if something matters or not

  • @SpecialAbonnent

    @SpecialAbonnent

    Жыл бұрын

    @@vwqwe-gh6td Simply said you can decide if something matters or not, it's just subjective

  • @SpecialAbonnent

    @SpecialAbonnent

    Жыл бұрын

    @@vwqwe-gh6td Why does it matter to you?

  • @DMHR100
    @DMHR100 Жыл бұрын

    This is for when people start talking about social constructs. Everything social is a product of biological manifestations of evolution. No one is really enforcing ideas of masculinity or feminity, it's just the natural response to evident sexual differences.

  • @Aaron-kj8dv

    @Aaron-kj8dv

    Жыл бұрын

    Beauty translates all of over the world. A beautiful woman on Finland will be beautiful in China, Ghana, Mexico, Peru, and Yemen. It translates all over the world. Of course there are variances but I feel like that's evidence that it's not only a social construct. I'm sure there are influences because trends are a thing but beauty is beauty.

  • @painexotic3757

    @painexotic3757

    Жыл бұрын

    bruh I said the same thing to someone. I hate this phrase "social construct" since it all ties back to biology.

  • @cmendy1809

    @cmendy1809

    Жыл бұрын

    No, the idea of ​​masculine and feminine (behaviour) has its roots in biology and evolution, but is influenced to a large extent by culture, education, and the environment. As an example, I am West African and in my country we have a great variety of tribes, the women of the Manjago tripe (my tripe) are much more aggressive in their behavior (masculine behavior) but the men like it, for them it is not masculine but rather womanly, shy women are not considered attractive and childlike, as shyness is mostly associated with young children. Well, in one of our neighboring tribes, the women are quite shy and submissive (feminine behavior), and in this tribe, it is a desirable behavior for a woman, loud and aggressive women are seen as masculine and manly. And those are just two tribes in just one country, you can see those differences around the world. Feminine and masculine are not universal across the world, but I do believe there are some deep rooted evolutionary differences in the behavior of men and women, but where you grow up has way more impact on you. When it comes to physical dimorphism, Asian males are considered feminine here in my country because of their soft physical structure and faces. Physical dimorphism has surely an universal denominator, but again, culture, environment, and education play an even bigger role. Humans throughout history have found the most peculiar things attractive just because it was trendy at their time, far from what biology would suggest as being attractive.

  • @Madamchief

    @Madamchief

    Жыл бұрын

    Um no. Christians and conservatives definitely enforce social standards

  • @DMHR100

    @DMHR100

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Madamchief And the idea of chirstianity and religions came from a drive to establish hierarchies and to answer questions that only a species with a developed hypothalamus could come up with. A result of, of course, evolution.

  • @shireensingh2834
    @shireensingh283414 күн бұрын

    Plz try to make your explanations more comprehensive and less cumbersome to understand . May be u can try to make points . THANKS ❤

  • @Pk-wu9tl
    @Pk-wu9tl Жыл бұрын

    Please do the homosexual video! So fascinating.

  • @alexmason8557
    @alexmason8557 Жыл бұрын

    Female preference in men really depends on if they are on birth control pills or not.

  • @bruhmaster6923

    @bruhmaster6923

    Жыл бұрын

    Source?

  • @Madamchief

    @Madamchief

    Жыл бұрын

    WTF? Broscience

  • @Threelegs94

    @Threelegs94

    Жыл бұрын

    Guys there is a book that talks about it. Hormonal: The Hidden Intelligence of Hormones -- How They Drive Desire, Shape Relationships, Influence Our Choices, and Make Us Wiser By Dr Martie Haselton

  • @Threelegs94

    @Threelegs94

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@Jamie Herrera is not bro science, it's has been proven that when women stop taking the pill, they tent to prefer more mainly men, foe some women is even the cause of divorce since they don't feel attracted to their husband anymore

  • @alexmason8557

    @alexmason8557

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Madamchief it's called actual science. You are probably someone who believe there are more that 2 genders.

  • @kenonerboy
    @kenonerboy Жыл бұрын

    Please make a video on mattpats video on face symmetry. Its the most embarrassing thing ive ever seen

  • @clairee4939
    @clairee4939 Жыл бұрын

    This just popped up in my recommendations and was absolutely fascinating, especially being asexual haha! 😊

  • @maggygonzalez4885
    @maggygonzalez48852 ай бұрын

    2:06 Being full of steroids is not an example of masculine. I would use Joe Lando as an example when he was young. He has strong facial features and normal muscles.

  • @user-uk8tt6me6h
    @user-uk8tt6me6h3 ай бұрын

    chat kay nay ley/selectiv

  • @kingwiccan9743
    @kingwiccan9743 Жыл бұрын

    Great video! It would also be nice to discuss the intersection of aesthetics in the context of queer/lgbt community.

  • @QOVESStudio

    @QOVESStudio

    Жыл бұрын

    Definitely!

  • @srose1088

    @srose1088

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes!

  • @GG-lo4sc

    @GG-lo4sc

    Жыл бұрын

    @Louis Tea Enjoyer No

  • @roses1419
    @roses1419 Жыл бұрын

    venus conjunct mars = attractiveness

  • @stoique67

    @stoique67

    9 ай бұрын

    😄😄

  • @She_Is_Toni
    @She_Is_Toni Жыл бұрын

    I'm 10 min late 🥲

  • @Omar_P.S9inchhs
    @Omar_P.S9inchhs Жыл бұрын

    I just have to say...the Thumbnail is freaky 😵...

  • @madisonatior4414
    @madisonatior4414 Жыл бұрын

    Explain racial peferences

  • @sadanna-ww6gj
    @sadanna-ww6gj Жыл бұрын

    Early hehe

  • @athirababuu
    @athirababuu Жыл бұрын

    👁️👄👁️ Iam early

  • @adityagole1330
    @adityagole1330 Жыл бұрын

    Female gaze vs Male gaze, The blkpill never lies

  • @zyyl1949

    @zyyl1949

    Жыл бұрын

    Any links or resources to understand how to appeal to the female gaze that isn't just tails clips? It's hard af to find decent information

  • @poech2pep271

    @poech2pep271

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@zyyl1949 as a woman tails is so right

  • @poech2pep271

    @poech2pep271

    Жыл бұрын

    Do You have any info about male gaze? Like what to do?

  • @urdadsonic1036

    @urdadsonic1036

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zyyl1949 be pretty

  • @marrmart7690
    @marrmart7690 Жыл бұрын

    We need to know what make transman and transwommen deafrent

  • @RevolutionaryLoser
    @RevolutionaryLoser Жыл бұрын

    That doesn't really explain why good looking people cheat with "ugly" people which happens plenty. This seems like the kind of thing that is almost impossible to prove.

  • @bitchplease7436
    @bitchplease7436 Жыл бұрын

    I don't like the idea that Qoves will talk about queer people since he's probably just going to reinforce stereotypes, but i hope he's able to analyze queer people without the "heteronormative/stereotypical" lens that a lot of people do.

  • @alexforce9

    @alexforce9

    Жыл бұрын

    This channel prefers using of studies and there are probably not a lot of those made about what the queer people find attractive.

  • @harrywang4769

    @harrywang4769

    7 ай бұрын

    can't even do a good study on homos since they identify as 27 genders and 42 sexualities. how do you categorize something like that with enough data lol

  • @renatakananaviciene2928
    @renatakananaviciene2928 Жыл бұрын

    Alpha seed and beta need..

  • @JulesLife
    @JulesLife Жыл бұрын

    Attractive females now actually have a harder time getting hired than their less attractive competitors. It’s all wrapped up in the “me too” situation.

  • @hanniltopher7173

    @hanniltopher7173

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't get it, can you explain it??

  • @JulesLife

    @JulesLife

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hanniltopher7173 Basically more attractive women are typically viewed as risky in an office situation. Men don’t want to put themselves in a situation where they may want to pursue a female at work. While ALL WOMEN are being affected in the office negatively… more attractive women aren’t as likely as less attractive women to get hired in the first place.

  • @JulesLife

    @JulesLife

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hanniltopher7173 Even with the less attractive women though… men aren’t taking meetings in private with them anymore. Women are far less likely to be taken on trips for business that involve hotels etc. Any situation where a man feels there is an opportunity for a false allegation against him…. They are being avoided. It’s not worth the risk.

  • @JulesLife

    @JulesLife

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yeehaw-bw8ns I literally see all of the data on this and speak with people in corporations because of my job but okay.

  • @villapulla

    @villapulla

    Жыл бұрын

    Life hack: work in a female dominated field so no need to worry about man boss not hiring you

  • @rose-yeah
    @rose-yeah Жыл бұрын

    I f hate the fact that not the only one who like feminine men. Some women actually likes them and feminine looking men are rare. Most men are masculine and most women likes masculine men. Here, we are talking about looks not personalities.

  • @pingeee

    @pingeee

    Жыл бұрын

    no women like masculine men every girl wants pretty boys

  • @viraj-kz9mt

    @viraj-kz9mt

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pingeee ?

  • @pingeee

    @pingeee

    Жыл бұрын

    @@viraj-kz9mt am i wrong?

  • @viraj-kz9mt

    @viraj-kz9mt

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pingeee u a woman?

  • @pingeee

    @pingeee

    Жыл бұрын

    @@viraj-kz9mt no im a femboy

  • @anthonyreyes2381
    @anthonyreyes2381 Жыл бұрын

    Could you be a bit more inclusive to lgbt in your videos

  • @poech2pep271

    @poech2pep271

    Жыл бұрын

    No

  • @AugustRx

    @AugustRx

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@poech2pep271🤓

  • @ceciliaslepmet4840
    @ceciliaslepmet4840 Жыл бұрын

    Your video totally forget an important part of the population

  • @meinhuekbadakida588
    @meinhuekbadakida588 Жыл бұрын

    please no idea on lgbtq