Honestly first story sounds like everyone's an undeveloped mess who can't figure out anything an adult should.

@kingthe13

2 ай бұрын

In there defence most adults aren't much better

@michaelbalcom5233

13 күн бұрын

That and it seems him almost unaliving seems to have given the whole group the kick they needed to grow up, still messed up way it happened.

People need to realize that if someone doesn't want to get back with someone, they don't want to. Manipulating them is not an option.

@willambonney

2 ай бұрын

Do people ever stop to think maybe it's not a good idea to interfere? Maybe should mind their own business?.....not to some people who are assholes...

Somehow, going onto Reddit after a mental breakdown and with BPD seems counterproductive.

@RepellentJeff

3 ай бұрын

That’s putting it mildly.

@dragb9284

3 ай бұрын

I mean from the sounds of things that seems less toxic then his friends

@garrettwilliams8637

3 ай бұрын

Bro that's literally everyone on reddit dw.

@verygooddeal4436

3 ай бұрын

​@@dragb9284lol no, reddit is definitely far more toxic than his friends

Those "friends" should be facing criminal and legal charges.

TL;DR: Emotional unstable OOP got bullied by Ex and Friends, almost self-delete and go back to his ex.

alright dudes, the lesson of the first story is very simple. if she is trying to make you into something you're not, leave her to the streets.

umm there no friends there exs for a reason jesus

So he knew his friends and ex were going to manipulate him to get back together, fell for it, had a breakdown because of it and then decided to get back together anyways. Congratulations OP, you successfully let yourself be manipulated back into an unhealthy relationship. Except this time they’re even worse people then you knew before.

@judohunter1

28 күн бұрын

Well he is an idiot and weak so there is that

I shouted out “f**k you!” when he said he got back together with her. Why the hell should I bother caring about OP if he has so little self-preservation that he’d get back with someone who drove him to attempt suicide?! At this point any harm sue causes him in the future, and she WILL cause him harm again in the future, will be his own fault. “Fool me once”, and all that. Seriously, OP really pissed me off. I stopped listening to the story right then and there.

@febe111

3 ай бұрын

You can tell he is a doormat from the very beginning.

@verygooddeal4436

3 ай бұрын

Dumb comment

@Genburthing

3 ай бұрын

¡NOT ONLY THAT, SHE SAID SHE HAVE A BOYFRIEND! Like, even without that, this noodle spine of a man wouldn’t have to even get back with her, but or She lied, or She literally said “hey, let me CHEAT”

@Genburthing

3 ай бұрын

the spineless of a man Jesus freaking christ

@Frightmarelordofthenightmares

2 ай бұрын

Ops mind is broken

With friends like these who needs enemies?

@SecretVoices25

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

Love how the friends are having an intervention because OP is comfortable with their life😂😂

oh so he’s stupid stupid ?? 🤦🏽‍♀️

@FroggyGirlDreams

3 ай бұрын

People who are abused typically don't leave their abusers at once. Statistics show it takes them about 7 times to leave an abusive relationship. OP was being coerced and forced and ganged up on and thisnwoman for forcing herself upon OP romantically.

Story 1, why in blazes did the OP not sue the hell out of the EX and 'friends' for causing his breakdown with their stupid intervention?

Men, hopefully you learn this lesson some day. We don’t need a lot of friends. We really only need 1-2 bros who you KNOW have your back through thick and thin. If any single one of my friends put me in this situation, they are getting cut off with ZERO REMORSE. Smh

I don’t even know what to say about the first op , that hasn’t been said already , just wow.

Seriously grow a backbone!!

@LocksAndChains

Ай бұрын

Not everyone gets that chance.

Wow with friends like these. But in all seriousness I hope this is doing well.

@SecretVoices25

3 ай бұрын

🤞🤞🤞

Ah so her plan worked. Well clearly he didn't learn the first time.

Simps never learn.

Story 1 I don’t think the moral of the story is that the friends were monsters or anything like that. I think people need to know that romcom or sitcom relationship schemes aren’t a good idea for real life, especially not with a person who has had trauma and has deep scars from that trauma. They were ill informed people with good intentions, but you know what they say about the road to hell.

@Kris-wo4pj

2 ай бұрын

I dont think the intentions are good. He just didnt want to get injured or die cuz they all have a hobby that has a high death rate.

@judohunter1

28 күн бұрын

No they were still trash as they were trying to force a grown adult into a damn relationship. Doesn’t matter about their intentions, they all still suck.

he's a fool

The husband should at least apologise for a) not believing basic genetics and b) leaving you for 2 weeks with a baby. I suspect the toxic mum has a hold on him too. Also cheating. As for you, divorce at this point.

I honestly feel nothing but sadnness for op in story 1. He's litteraly mentally ill and being taken advantaged of

People really need a backbone. But something tells me he loves being in drama and a toxic relationship.

He weak. I would've said no and then sued if the girlfriend of my boss got me fired. Some people would sell themselves short just to keep a job. Not me

bro has no form of spine

Why is every guy on Reddit just a doormat in these stories like seriously 🤦‍♂️

@scpfoundation8376

Ай бұрын

Think of it this way, most of the men who aren’t doormats aren’t on Reddit. They have actual functioning brains.

First story: If they’re OP’s friends then they should mind their own business they act like op not a victim and treating his ex like she hurt

1st Story Sad everyone blames OP

Story 2: Me during the initial story- he’s definitely cheating Me during update- called it.

Op in story 1 would have been happier unalived

Man being forced into an intervention because you don't want to get killed by you psycho ex antics seems acurate for any relationshit these days, I had one because I dont like partying.

Interventions never end well

In the second story, even if OP's daughter wouldn't have had her eyes and hair darkened, lighter colors are the received genetic trait. I've heard about a pair of very dark Latin parents who ended up having a daughter like OP's, freaked out the nurses, until the dad showed a group photo with both of the baby's grandmas (his mom and his MIL) with their blond hair and one of them with blue eyes and the other green. To this day they make jokes with friends about doubting if the little girl is biologically related to this Latin OP's wife to get a look of shocked confusion as the people they tell process what they're saying. There's also the fact that the White OP in the story here and her ex might both be carriers for an albinism gene, which would completely overwrite any other coloration traits their daughter would have gotten from either parent. This time, a Black mom had a meltdown when her pasty white baby was put on her chest and it wasn't until her MIL piped up that her husband had an albino second cousin that things started to get sorted out. On another one, a White woman had an affair with and got pregnant by a black man; her marriage was saved by the resulting son, the OP for the story, ending up born with an albinism trait on display. The problem is when he got married, got his wife pregnant, and his son wasn't born with the same trait, he nearly torpedoed his own marriage because he was accusing his wife of cheating until his mom fessed up and provided paternity results to prove things, especially when OP's mom started pointing out structural features in common between his face and his "dad's" Black best friends, OP's biological father. I'd say that these cases are why just looking at a baby's displayed features isn't the best way to judge, and why if paternity is in doubt, lab-processed testing is always the most expensive, but also the most reliable.

S1: So basically they successfully manipulated OP to the point where tried to kill himself and they're now back together.

So, story one is fake. Kinda disgustingly so. There is no way any Dr. Would let him stay with any of the people who forced his mental breakdown. They would be seen as a danger to him. Can't stand karma chasers on reddit sometimes.

They weren’t worried about op they were worried about themselves they were like oh no oh no oh no we may have kill him we’re so Screwed it’s supposed to be like in the movies where they get back together not him ending himself! Oh everyone is going to talk!

Story 1# I have no words for how F-ed up the story is with angst, emotional manipulation, harassment, gaslighting, peer pressure and a slew of other things that is wrong with the GF and her friends and all of this done for months as well. I feel the ending was a huge let down, what with the friends and GF putting OP's life at risk and almost got him killed and in the end got rewarded with OP finally surrendering to their demands to return back to his GF and play "happy" friend group again. The "friends" may feel "guilty" for almost getting him killed by mental breakdown, but I do feel that they all still took advantage of it to make sure that he got back with the GF!!

Feels so many people I know have stumbled into this once. The raw !nsanity of the moment creeps up on you like a horror movie and at first it feels like reality isn't real? Like... No, they're not actually... What? No. They wouldn't do that... I think after it happens once you get SUPER wise to it and run like your @ss is on fire if you even smell it on the wind. But that first time it doesn't seem possible until it's really happening and you're surrounded with it.

story 1 is a joke lol

Op needs new friends.....

Op is beyond pathetic lmfao

S2: yes genetics are crazy. My husband and i both have brown hair and green eyes. Our kids have blonde + blue eyes and red + brown eyes 🤣

When I was born, my hair was super, super blonde, and how at 26, my hair is brown

Do these friends need their dinner cut up for them? Are they still wetting the bed? I only ask because they seem to have the emotional level of toddlers.

If hiking is dangerous, than just call me Evel Knievel! Base jumping I see there's an argument there. Car races too (although I'm assuming he's talking about go karts) are a little dangerous. Dude sounds like a coward. That being said, his "friends" are worse. The whole episode was them being selfish and then coming back to make themselves feel better. Seriously with friends like that, who needs enemies? Run!

2nd story, NTA.

I'm glad op got help for himself he also needs psychiatrical help

2nd story: im amazed how many people do not know that every babies eyes are blue at the start

Assuming story 1 is true, it makes me miss natural selection.

Nope not happening

Story 1 is fake.

Why are these stories always such a cop-out?

S1: So you stayed in the same house as the woman who triggered an episode? You realized you played more into her hands than you realized right? They all may not have intended the consequences but I get the feeling this isn't over. OP, please, for the love of god, be careful.

Man this channel is a lost cause

😂

“You’re a boring, sad person who will die alone.” “I hope your hobbies have the consequences I expect them to have.” Yeah, everybody sucks here.

@JuanSanchez-rv9xy

3 ай бұрын

How does the OP suck? Besides not just standing up for himself

@steelheart538

3 ай бұрын

​@@JuanSanchez-rv9xymaybe they wanted him to say something less mean. For me, she insulted him first so why shouldn't he insult her back.

@shortangel333

3 ай бұрын

Nah fair play to OP, they didnt say exactly what they wanted to happen to that wench.

okay I'm gonna be honest 2nd story paternity tests should be mandatory for all births