Damn, a parent willing to admit his mistakes. A unicorn under a rainbow.
@kuritmanok9174
Dude, the girl was struggling and on the verge of unaliving herself. Any ray of hope is welcome and IF SHE FOUND THAT IN HER DAD LET IT BE SO. Some people can be blinded by their righteousness. If forgiveness would let her have peace and calm in her life, then she should do it. Not for her dad, but for herself (since she sounded all the better for it anyway, unlike some people). Thank goodness he did all he could to sooth his daughter in her hour of need. She's alive, she's happy, and hopefully since the dad is a paramedic theres a good chance their openness and empathy with each other is not fake.
@umangsheel7819
I'm just glad the dad realised his mistakes here. A lot of parents don't ever own up to their mistakes even when they slap them in the face, so this is nice to see. Hope OP is doing better now
@CJAhorlu
Some parents just might not know or realize they are being abusive, and when they do realize what they were doing, they end up feeling horrible about it and try to fix things, which is what happened in the story. (I remember reading something about abusive parents once, I don't remember where)
@dong7474
This is one of the best stories of these that I’ve heard. God if only this happened every time. This was a great ending.
@null6884
The lesson to learn : straight communication is key
@Flikanik
That friend that kept them from setting the rope is the real hero.
@jessevancooney6963
Im guessing he was harder on her because she was the oldest and had the most responsibility out of the kids, and didnt realize how far he had gone to the point of abuse. Reading that note was like a key unlocking a part of his brain to see how bad he actually was, which brought him back to factory settings
@cclaire9
that is such an amazing story, i’m sad it took him so long to realize how he treated her, and i genuinely started silently crying a few minutes in, and i’m glad he realized the error in his ways
@Ujsnsvlohg
He doesn’t care if she kills her self he just doesn’t want the rest of the family to blame him.
@deldarel
To a lot of parents, the reality of the gravity of such a note won't dawn on them. Not because they're bad people, but because it's utterly utterly incomprehensible that their little baby would do something like that, even when it's written out. Such a reality just can't exist to them because it's too horrible.
@DioDeiMari16
Got me tearing up at work. I'm so happy this woman and her father can reconcile and heal.
@situpeutparlemoi
That's great her dad is the kind of man capable of change. Mine isn't. My mother is abusive and he enables her. After I cut contact with her and father kept pushing me to reunite, I asked if he would be happy seeing me return to an abusive relationship rather than being able to have a healthy relationship with me.
@user-pj7bb3ht4w
I have never until now been watching something and started to edge into crying because of how relatable it is thank you for the few tears I have shed for your experience and I am sorry that you went through all of that and one more thing I hope you and your father are doing better now
@kiaraaev
this one hit hard because my mother is the exact same and i’ve been struggling with self harm and suicidal thoughts for over 2 years
@chiranjeevinaidu3660
The story changed for good. I loved it
@Random_lizard
I think you should trust him it sounds like he truly feels bad about how he treated you I think op should slowly build trust.
@sosig6445
Why do some people need to have their child write suicide notes and do self harm to realise their offspirngs DESERVE and NEED love and attention?
@Lohan3001
my dad died a few weeks ago. We hadn't spoken in 20 years. Part of me wishes I had wanted to reconcile, but knowing he left four families behind boils my memory of him down to nothing but a bad taste in my mouth. Maybe if we were both better people, I might not be a suicidal POS.
@turolretar
Dad is a master manipulator, that’s a quality I can admire
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Damn, a parent willing to admit his mistakes. A unicorn under a rainbow.
Dude, the girl was struggling and on the verge of unaliving herself. Any ray of hope is welcome and IF SHE FOUND THAT IN HER DAD LET IT BE SO. Some people can be blinded by their righteousness. If forgiveness would let her have peace and calm in her life, then she should do it. Not for her dad, but for herself (since she sounded all the better for it anyway, unlike some people). Thank goodness he did all he could to sooth his daughter in her hour of need. She's alive, she's happy, and hopefully since the dad is a paramedic theres a good chance their openness and empathy with each other is not fake.
I'm just glad the dad realised his mistakes here. A lot of parents don't ever own up to their mistakes even when they slap them in the face, so this is nice to see. Hope OP is doing better now
Some parents just might not know or realize they are being abusive, and when they do realize what they were doing, they end up feeling horrible about it and try to fix things, which is what happened in the story. (I remember reading something about abusive parents once, I don't remember where)
This is one of the best stories of these that I’ve heard. God if only this happened every time. This was a great ending.
The lesson to learn : straight communication is key
That friend that kept them from setting the rope is the real hero.
Im guessing he was harder on her because she was the oldest and had the most responsibility out of the kids, and didnt realize how far he had gone to the point of abuse. Reading that note was like a key unlocking a part of his brain to see how bad he actually was, which brought him back to factory settings
that is such an amazing story, i’m sad it took him so long to realize how he treated her, and i genuinely started silently crying a few minutes in, and i’m glad he realized the error in his ways
He doesn’t care if she kills her self he just doesn’t want the rest of the family to blame him.
To a lot of parents, the reality of the gravity of such a note won't dawn on them. Not because they're bad people, but because it's utterly utterly incomprehensible that their little baby would do something like that, even when it's written out. Such a reality just can't exist to them because it's too horrible.
Got me tearing up at work. I'm so happy this woman and her father can reconcile and heal.
That's great her dad is the kind of man capable of change. Mine isn't. My mother is abusive and he enables her. After I cut contact with her and father kept pushing me to reunite, I asked if he would be happy seeing me return to an abusive relationship rather than being able to have a healthy relationship with me.
I have never until now been watching something and started to edge into crying because of how relatable it is thank you for the few tears I have shed for your experience and I am sorry that you went through all of that and one more thing I hope you and your father are doing better now
this one hit hard because my mother is the exact same and i’ve been struggling with self harm and suicidal thoughts for over 2 years
The story changed for good. I loved it
I think you should trust him it sounds like he truly feels bad about how he treated you I think op should slowly build trust.
Why do some people need to have their child write suicide notes and do self harm to realise their offspirngs DESERVE and NEED love and attention?
my dad died a few weeks ago. We hadn't spoken in 20 years. Part of me wishes I had wanted to reconcile, but knowing he left four families behind boils my memory of him down to nothing but a bad taste in my mouth. Maybe if we were both better people, I might not be a suicidal POS.
Dad is a master manipulator, that’s a quality I can admire