Absolutely W Dad, that's how parents should be.

@develyntwocentshenderson5739

Ай бұрын

should have gotten a vasectomy. and if mommy didn't want anymore, a permanent sterilization should also have been considered.

@The_dude_duke

Ай бұрын

@@develyntwocentshenderson5739wtf

@GhostApollyon

Ай бұрын

@@develyntwocentshenderson5739 oorrrr hear me out.. she could’ve gone on birth control. How do you know the dad never wanted anymore kids. You blaming the dad like it’s not easier for a woman to use bc..

@ZippyPiglin36

Ай бұрын

​@@GhostApollyonYeah, whenever people talk about birth control, they blame all responsibility on the male, refusing to believe the fact that there are FAR more female birth control methods for females.

@thelibrarian6009

24 күн бұрын

​@@GhostApollyonIts not, just fucking use a condom.

I hope op can recover from all the emotional abuse she's suffered.

@Tom-TV-vl4to

Ай бұрын

same home was the emotional version of hell for her

@alexdale2387

Ай бұрын

Me two, because the mother is a witch and the brother is a brute

@Ligma_Bolzack

Ай бұрын

It’s an AI created story bro no one is suffering except in make belief land

@ThatPolishMapper.

Ай бұрын

Proof on how it's a Ai story? @@Ligma_Bolzack

@gachatubergirl181

Ай бұрын

​@@Ligma_BolzackIt's not that far fetched honestly- yeah it's reddit and there's a lot of fake stories on there, but things like this scenario actually happens a lot unfortunately- Also- interesting name you got there 👄👁️👄

The mom and brother just mad they got exposed for the pos that they actually are. Shame on the family for excusing the moms crappy behavior. Toxic dynamics deserve to be ruined. They did this to themselves. Let them drown in their own toxicity. I hope op gets therapy and heals from all the bs they put her through.

@mnomadvfx

Ай бұрын

I don't buy them never showing this side of themselves to the father earlier. An act practiced in private will always become public because it is a learned behavior. It's what they mean by a "Freudian slip" - you just can't help yourself because it's your default response to a situation and you have to be doing the equivalent of a mental fist in the mouth to prevent yourself from doing it by accident. Eventually people get distracted and those Freudian slips just happen. Either the dad wasn't paying enough attention, or he wasn't paying any attention. Also the whole "people pleaser" angle is bulls**t too. Literally the only person in the family she has any reason to want to please is the father.

@Yo99753

Ай бұрын

​@@mnomadvfx Literally... Even the father is extremely suspicious. The father knew that Op mom resented her, and he should have kept a close eye on them. You're right. Anyone could've maybe seen the mom and the brother act clearly.Even I don't buy this people pleaser sh*t as well.

@shawn9228

Ай бұрын

Yea, the mom and brother can go cry about it, they took a big L and couldn't handle it, especially the grandparents on the moms side, they just garbage, all of em are 🗑️ Dad is the best however, glad he is out of that terrible relationship with the mom.

@cryptid2923

Ай бұрын

I hate people who act like kids must be grateful to their parents for being born. No one asked to be born, but we all ask to be loved. OP was not shown the love that a mother should give, they have nothing to be grateful for. Having a child was the mothers choice, abusing that child was also her choice, shes just mad she can't manipulate the choices of everyone else into her most favorable outcome

@shawn9228

Ай бұрын

@@cryptid2923 yep I agree, she made choices, now the consequences are biting her, she can't handle it and blames op and not herself. I mean the dad didn't even force her, it was the mom's choice entirely. But still, it's good op is there, cause she's the reason, the dad got out of a horrible relationship, which is great 👍

"AITA For exposing a child abuser?" this is the same

@firstviewok9270

2 күн бұрын

Fr😂

The only counter to whatever the Mother would say in the future would be calling her *"Child Abuser"* And the counter what the Maternal Grandparents would say is calling them *"Child Abuse Enablers"* Just call them out in public, they would shut up & get humiliated afterwards.

@loveluna9653

Ай бұрын

Nah the grandparents are child abusers too. They let this happen and berated her for stopping it. Which is abuse as well.

Family (expect Dad): Women's only purpose to be a maid, a wife or a harlot. Dad: *divorces* Family: *shocked Pikachu face then continues to blame the girl* Dad: *doesn't take the ex-wife back* Family: *shocked Pikachu face*

moment OP revealed she's female, well it's sadly obvious why the unwanted thing only made it all worse

@walterstolfo

Ай бұрын

She revealed it at the start. "I 16F"

@The_Imperial_Enforcer

Ай бұрын

It would've been the same if she was a boy. The mom only wanted 1 child. Her being a girl has nothing to do with it.

@Aymaan714

Ай бұрын

@@The_Imperial_Enforcer Well, it's important for you to know that most people who want only 1 child probably want it to be a boy for obvious reasons

@madhatterine2805

Ай бұрын

@@Aymaan714 What obvious reasons? In some cultures - yes. One-child-policy in china showed that (and how that backfired), but not in all. Are there any obvious reasons apart from "my culture says boys are worth more"?

@iguessso1790

Ай бұрын

​@@The_Imperial_Enforcer Her being a girl has everything to do with it. Some mothers get jealous when the father gives the daughter attention. They feel like they are competing with their daughter for the father's (husband's) attention. It sadly happens often and is very common

Hating someone because they were unwanted. During the divorce proceedings OP should advise her dad's lawyer to also charge them for abuse, harassment, and whatever else they can throw at them along with disowning his son.

Op: "I didn't want to break my dad's heart" Op, bless your heart. Her dad only misses the woman he thought he knew. A good father would have been heart broken by the fact one of his children was being abused and that child didn't trust him enough to tell him this abuse had been going on. Luckily op's dad is a good father. I would have gone scorched on mom, brother and her side of the family if they spoke that way to my kid. They're such cowards too going after a child for the marriage breaking down.

Brother was probably an affair child

@ARKSURVIVOR879

Ай бұрын

Or the other way around not sure

@Waffles435

Ай бұрын

@@ARKSURVIVOR879how can it be the other way around, are you trying to tell me that the dad got pregnant?

@JP-um1nj

Ай бұрын

​@@Waffles435No, the daughter would be an affair child.

@captaingramcrackergrams5990

Ай бұрын

​@@Waffles435usually the a fair child gets treated worse if the parents are still together and better if the parents separated because of the affair and since op's parents are still together and she's getting treated worse, she is probably the affair baby sadly

@Waffles435

Ай бұрын

@@captaingramcrackergrams5990 i know but he said the other way around which makes no sense, a dad can’t have a affair baby.

always interesting when the strategy post-divorce papers is to double down and not apologize. then they act the victim when he doesnt take her back

this is actually Believable.....

@mnomadvfx

Ай бұрын

Ya ya sure - suffers over a decade of s**t, and the moment she has some peace she gets guilty because people she also doesn't like decide to follow suit and also give her s**t. Give me a break. The moment they started being azzholes any sane person without a victim complex would have simply disconnected the call.

@jigg_le

Ай бұрын

first story that isn't AI generated?!

Fuck yeah! Way to go dad! Someone get this man a crown.

people attack who they can, the fact that the grandparents berated her but not her dad means they knew they were in the wrong. OP didn't tell him to divorce her, he decided that on his own. if you are keeping your behavior a secret, then you know damn well it is improper behavior. If you get kicked out for your behavior, how do you have the balls to say "you shouldn't have told on me" not only was it your own actions that got you kicked out, OP is last person you should expect to have sympathy for you.

i’d try to take it a step further and sue her and her brother for emotional distress and ab*se

Well I definitely think the op was right in exposing her Treatment from her mother and brother. I mean I can understand that the mother can't emotionally connect with a child but that's still no excuse to treat them so badly. plus what were they thinking? that everything they were doing was never going to have consequences? because consequences do come to people rather they like it or not. and I think her getting a divorce from her husband would definitely be good consequences. also I don't think the grandparents have any idea what it is like to be treated like a slave so they don't have a right to try and guilt trip her. I also personally hope that she signed a pre-num so she doesn't get anything out of the divorce. also the mother ruined her own life. she could continue to hate her daughter but at the end of the day it's her own actions that ruined her relationship with her husband permanently. plus I definitely think she's gonna struggle to find work as well. I mean she hasn't been working for a while so that's another consequence of her action. I hope all of them rot on the same roof.

@Yo99753

Ай бұрын

You're right... She'll probably use her parents' money or something. There would be no child support for the brother so she will not be able to spend for her needs.

@victoriakiteley8337

Ай бұрын

I have a feeling if op was born a boy, this would have never happened. Seems to me that mother dearest is a boy mom

@southernflight5078

Ай бұрын

​@victoriakiteley8337 feels like it would've happened regardless like another commenter wrote. The woman is probably the type to only love one child and then curse the one she mistreated when they want nothing to do with her after they become successful.

@victoriakiteley8337

Ай бұрын

@@southernflight5078 facts upon facts. I've seen that happen before

@Yo99753

Ай бұрын

@@victoriakiteley8337 Before OP revealed her gender, I actually thought op was a boy.

I would’ve posted the video on social media, exposing them to everyone that knew them. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@AprilFoolsGamer

Ай бұрын

They would be in deep shit😂

A difficult/unwanted pregnancy is no excuse to hate a child, and the "mother's" family are undeserving of the OP.

Most realistic story I've ever heard in this channel..

My heart hurts for that girl, I can't even imagine something like that happening to ant of my kids...

The grandparents sound like absolute scumbags. To berate and verbally abuse their granddaughter for defending herself and then refusing to let her explain herself when thrown all these accusations. There was no reason for them to call in the first place except to be hateful

@skyecoleman5449

Ай бұрын

Look who they raised. That’s not a surprise

Doesn't sound like the person she calls mom isn't actually her mom.

@doncjack5913

Ай бұрын

She was an unwanted child from her mother. Her dad is the mvp throughout the situation.

why are these stories so common. Mothers absolutely evil towards their daughters

C is a bad grade??? C is flunking?

@braineatingamoba

Ай бұрын

OP said she was in AP Classes, and you have to get good grades to get into AP Classes. C isn't bad, but it's not good enough for AP

@caffeinedelusions

Ай бұрын

If you've set a standard of A's and B's, a C can seem like flunking simply because it's below par. If you're taking AP courses, those are classes that can also count as college credit under certain circumstances (often requiring a specific minimum grade in the overall class), so if one C paper dropped OP's class grade below that threshold, she may've passed the class for high school graduation purposes, but not received college credit (which could be called flunking).

@makato_yuki1523

Ай бұрын

​@@caffeinedelusionsyou also forgot taking the AP test and getting at least a 3.0 on it which is the equivalent of a 75%. Only reason I know that is because I technically have 1 college credit despite never going.

@tinybattyboy

Ай бұрын

(informative about USA type grades in case anyone doesn't know.) an A is around 100-90, B is 90ish-80, C is 80ish-70, D is 70ish-60, and F is anything below that. There is also a P for pass, I've mainly seen P for pass in special needs classes for struggling kids who definitely try their best to pass, but still dont quite hit the mark. but, as stated in other comments, AP classes are top tier classes, so it requires higher grades.

it's not your fault it's your golden brother and your mom's fault because they are bulling him and that's not right and they should pay for their actions and go to hell for what they have done if they can't see that then you guys are bad people for it.

Just wait for a decade for OP's mom to crawl back on her ex-husband and OP

My fear was more that the mother had cheated and therefore wanted to have an abortion and, according to her statement, she doesn't look like her mother and parts of the family.

This aeint just bullying, it’s straight up abuse.

W dad

I told my dad once and he told me I was playing Cinderella and lying to him this was after my step mom took shit too far and lifted me up off the ground by my throat and choked me

Well when the grandparents called it showed exactly why the mother was a pile of garbage in a garbage fire on fire. I bet there's some real emotional weirdness between the mother and the son and she'll be one of Those mother in laws.

This is like that one Southpark episode where Butters is bullied by his grandma. I'm just imagining when he says his mom bullied him shes like "so you think your fuckin tough huh?"

Boy mom alert

I just can not explain how I can relate to this story and all I want to say this explain a lot of things for me

Poor love. Being bullied for being skinny is just as despicable as being bullied for being fat.

DUDE I WOULD HAVE THROWN A CELEBRATION PARTY INSTEAD OF FEELING BAD ABOUT IT 🤣

OPs mom, maternal grandparents, and brother are absolutely vile. People cut themselves off,you simply hand them the ✂️

OP deserves a better mother

Just coz you got knocked up doesn't mean you deserve respect

Imagine tormenting someone's feelings for over 10 years then making a shitty ass scene after being divorced. Them grandparents need serious help.

I think this is the only time that being vegan is reasonable

Op gets home Mum: If you don't get your skin tone chicken bone looking head ahhh

Clearly the mom learned her behavior from her parents. She very much has mental issues but her parents are keeping that fire well lit

Dad probably knew what was going on, but didn't have proof. Considering they hid the behavior, he had confronted her hatred before.

She differently needs to be in therapy.

You could just tell them you have never wanted to be her child too. Any other mom will be much better than her

If I was her when her grandparents told her that I ruined ur mom's life I would be like "EXCUSE ME RUIN HER LIFE WHEN EMOTIONALLY ABUSED ME FOR GOD KNOWS HOW MANY YEARS AND NOW UR SAYING I RUINED HER LIFE LIKE HELL NO SHE RUINED HER OWN LIFE"

The best way to get get out of the Cinderella treatment is to f the work up simple

"I don't have the answer to that right now" immediately answers it 14:46

@Niganigaballsackboii

Ай бұрын

the reddit post can be edited, she added the edit a few days later

this dad is a CHAD

NTA because that probably happened in the mother side of the op's family for generations and yet, the mother refused to change that also the op's maternal grandparents don't deserve to be grandparents

… and then I woke up… hey man. Maybe I’m just cynical, but it’s unfortunate that life doesn’t always work out for the sake of “justice”… it’s sad, but true. 😔

Being a people pleaser is hard, but it can get better with some challenges

I could never love a woman that even thinks of killing her child

I think the term op is lookin for is incubator not mother

Don’t feel bad in the slightest. If your mom cared about you enough to bring you into this world in spite of nearly losing her own life she should’ve shown that instead of being a b**** to you all your life and getting your brother involved (those useless in-laws and extended AH’s were obviously lying). Moreover, you didn’t make your parents get divorced: your mom did that, all you did was speed up what would’ve been another few decades of lies and pain which would’ve ended in a hostile last few years on earth between your parents.

she should have told the dad about the grandparents as well, so he could have helped her get a no-contact restraining order against them as well.. She don't need that kind of shit in her teen life. Ooof, I just started imagining.. Like.. Her brother is gonna have a real tough awakening when he can't use his people-pleaser sister as a scapegoat at his grandparents house any more. They're gonna make him do all the shit she used to do, and he's gonna refuse, because he's a spoiled brat. Then they're gonna argue, his grades are gonna slip, they'll fight more, son does something outrageous (drugs, drunk driving, something "big"), grandpa dies soon after. Son gets blamed, presumably grandpa was too old and got so shook that he died, at least according to grandma and mom. He moves out, he gets a low income job for a few years and blames his mom for messing with his studies and trying to guilt him with grandpa's natural death. Stops visiting. Moves further. Becomes a trucker. The mom ends up watching The Mentalist reruns with grandma until grandma dies Then she just continues to live in the house. Alone. Isolated. Knowing no one from her family is even gonna come to her funeral when she finally croaks. ..crying.. alone :)

The family was right

Poor mom

So did the dad disown the brother or no? I doubt it though.

Well i can kinda relate partly to op's story heres the difference between us tho i was the oldest both parents hated me i was both sets of grandparents favorite and no one really noticed the abuse

"i choose to trear you like shit but it's YOUR fault" 💀💀💀aight

also your not the worst person on earth you did the right thing

I think you're good at swimming because it doesn't need hand-eye coordination plus super skinny=aerodynamic

Look, if I could find that story. I would tell them there good. her mom side of the family is the problem.

All stems from the evil maternal grandparents, they poisoned the well for two generations

If you want you can get revenge by calling them in another number and yell at them

Sounds like ur an affair baby or something. The way he won't talk about it

My book, there are crimes you can justify and some that cannot be justified. Crimes you can justify: -Murder -Theft -Slander/Libel -Driving while under the influence Crimes you cannot justify: -Infidelity -S**ual Assault -Fraud -Abuse The egg donor is an abuser, plain and simple. She outright abused OP just because she exists. People who abuse people just because they're a living person doing what they can to live and enjoy life are deserving of serious prison time. You can justify a murder with psychopathy or just to see what would happen. You cannot justify abusing someone just because they're alive. And the grandparents do not deserve any sympathy. Like OP said, they're an extension of the egg donor. In a way, so is her "brother." He willingly abused her for the same reason, because she exists. I bet you if something were to happen to him to the point he can't be of any help to the egg donor when she gets older, OP would slam the door and lock it tight in the egg donor's face. Even if OP did help, the egg donor would end up in a care home with the worst ratings ever.

No wonder the mom is like that, had a good examples in her own youth apparently judging from what kind of characters her parents were. You can tell a lot about a person when you see their parents, because kids are usually just an extension of their values and morals.

No child in history has ever not complained about any unfairness. Fake

Never shouldve been born? Whos fault was that? I guarantee you, no one chooses to be born 😂

You didnt nothing wrong op you did the right thing exposing your mom and brother they are just trying to gulit trip you you stood up for yourself i think therapy would be good for you and it will never be your fault it will always be there fault

your not wrong

I wonder if she is biologically her father's. Maybe she looking so different and being unwanted was because she was a "mistake" made with someone else than her dad. Anyway, she is a good kid and deserves the best❤

he is the best dad in the world.... if this is real. lmao

This is why I can't believe stories like these cliche cliche

I think the mother was just jealous. Her daughter was naturally slim and never gained any weight. So she tried to fatten her up with a lot of fatty foods. She was smart, so she told her, "Well, who cares about that? Your brother is smart and athletic!" Then you found your sport and suddenly you were both, and your skinny frame was filling out as well, so she hated you even more. She loved your brother like a child because he was a boy, she didn't care what he accomplished because she never saw him as a threat. But you were her daughter, you were another girl.

{Maury Voice} You Are Not the Ahole. It's okay OP, them evil imps Will get what they deserve for ALL ETERNITY. YOU are a Soldier & I thank you for not turning Michael Myers on them mfs (no disrespect, they're your family, but this just sounds Evil)

am sorry for you

I mean, to much animal protein can poison you. It takes a lot, but just force eating to much isn't healthy. Not saying you should be vegan or vegetarian. But eating to much meat has related health complications.

how the fuck is bro moving so smoothly i need that texture pack or whatever it is

@mahpell7173

9 күн бұрын

I feel like he just went creative or tinkered with gravity values. Maybe both.

He is not the asswhole

I feel like she's an affair baby with how the dad said he knew the real reason why. The ex probably didn't tell the dad about the pregnancy until it was too late and they probably had an agreement to pretend until the kids were out of the house to split. So the egg donor is taking it out on the daughter. Edit: Probably should have listened further.

Brother isn't father's kid

I can agree with everything here, other than the fact that you became vegan over it, i’ve got an extremely fast metabolism. I need to eat a lot to gain any weight, nobody’s built skinny it’s all metabolism, you need protein, so cutting all of it out of your life is not healthy.

What happened to the brother are they going to fight for custody

@PelicanTheSkywing

8 сағат бұрын

The brother is 18 so I don't think they will have to fight for custody either of them (op and her big brother) At least where I live, the kid gets to pick what parent they want to live with at 14 years old i think (idk if that is the same everywhere)

I almost have perfect eye, hand coronation

@Seahorn_

Ай бұрын

Talk to the hand 🤚

@Seahorn_

Ай бұрын

Talk to the hand 🤚

the writing is so obviously AI.

LOOOOL “you showing your father what a vile POS your mother is ruined her life, how DARE you do such a thing” I get that awful people support awful people…but this is a BIT of a stretch…

story 1: some men like extremely skinny women while other men like skinny women and some like a little skinny women and some like average weight and others like a bit more weight and other men more and more weight and some like a little bit fat and others fat women and some like fat women and some like obese women in the end it is all about the finding the correct man who likes the certain type of women to me i like women who have a bit more weight although i still like other types of women i mostly care about personality though and personality in my eyes determines everything bad personality would destroy all of the good qualities of a person in my eyes as i would see people with bad personality as worthless human trash and i would not even give them the time of the day at all.

@RashidAli-fb3se

Ай бұрын

also, just because someone call you a lot does not mean you have to answer them like op did with her grandparents despite knowing what there like.

Record everything

The mother and brother are stupid the mom hated her child just cus he was unwanted that’s not a reason that’s an excuse

so your fam just straight up starting insulting you? love your dad OP cuz the others don't deserve a damn ounce of respect from you

Your dad just need a reason to break your family and you give one .thats on you i guess.

not even close to being believable . if you like fiction this is for you

Yeah man this shit did not happen

😮

Whaat? Tons of people find really skinny women attractive.

Under 15ms people 👇

@Alaedine-TheFoxStaff

Ай бұрын

Thank god ur pointing near the comment button

@maazfarhantheepicgamer311

Ай бұрын

@@Alaedine-TheFoxStaff fr

@Alaedine-TheFoxStaff

Ай бұрын

@@maazfarhantheepicgamer311 epik gamer indeed