"J is almost a man, he should know better!" "Wah, she just made a mistake, don't send her to prison!" - same person, probably

@ZedBeiFeng

8 ай бұрын

double standards for men and women.

@aleksandarvil5718

8 ай бұрын

*_feminism_* / *#MISANDRY* in a Nutshell

@Mara_Jade-Skywalker

8 ай бұрын

"J is almost an adult!" "Well yeah and my wife *is* an adult!"

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami

4 ай бұрын

Women☕️☕️☕️

@Mangoboi699

2 ай бұрын

But then men who are sent out to war are still children, people cant make their fucking mind for the life of them. Either 17 is a Adult or 19 is still a child. Or face it everyones someones child.

The girl should be arrested

@jimjohnson394

8 ай бұрын

For her own good, IMO. If she gets away with it now, she will continue a life of petty theft and poverty. She needs to take responsibility for her actions.

@LeonyxHasBigDumbEnergy

8 ай бұрын

yeah, and her mother needs to stop fucking enabling her. Girl royalty fucked up, now she’s got to face the music.

@laithao2092

8 ай бұрын

Also, get a new lawyer

@TaylorSwiftSucksSheRuinedDaNFL

8 ай бұрын

@@laithao2092 fr get a new prosecutor. Send her to jail with everything you have and make sure her life is properly ruined and get back as much money as you can. Also, try and get the police to investigate again and have even more evidence

@thedreamer6930

4 ай бұрын

Agreed. I would have told the judge what he said as well. Prosecutors are not suppose to take side, and she stole over $15k from him and probably more over the years they were together. Should have definitely reported him to the bar for bias.

OP should go ahead with the charges. The prosecutor should shut up and just do his fucking job on sending that criminal to prison.

@TinyMighty10

8 ай бұрын

That had me reeling! He said the case was a slam dunk, but now he wants to spare the demon spawn from consequences?! WTH?!

@winteryuki_onna8172

8 ай бұрын

I hope Regina George goes to jail for life for stealing money and identify, and fraud, after she pay back her ex-step father and ex-step brother.

@PotatoBoi69

8 ай бұрын

@@TinyMighty10 The prosecutor and OP's lawyer are not the same person. The prosecutor is probably a government lawyer on the ex-sd's side.

@TinyMighty10

8 ай бұрын

@PotatoBoi69 gotcha. I thought it was OP's lawyer who wanted to let the SD have a deal.

@mirkostefani6327

8 ай бұрын

He posted it on Reddit everybody must have scream at him to go through(as he should)

I heard this one before. This post is so heart wrenching. Justice failed and op and his son's lives are ruined. I hope for the best for these two.

@uglysquadgoonsmomo9356

8 ай бұрын

Wait so your telling me the stepdaughter didn’t get convicted

@sxand

8 ай бұрын

This story has a happy ending, the guy got his dream job and I think stepdaughter was arrested and charged with a felony

@sxand

8 ай бұрын

@@uglysquadgoonsmomo9356I’m pretty sure she did

@anonymoussynchronous

8 ай бұрын

​@@sxandbro really or are you saying this?

@redditsspoken

8 ай бұрын

​@@anonymoussynchronousna its true.

“I’m uncomfortable he chose his son over his wife”. Why did she chose her lying daughter over her husband? Double standards.

@dihydrogenmonoxide7056

5 ай бұрын

Karens are kings and queens of hypocrisy...

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami

4 ай бұрын

Women☕️

@ma13volent

18 сағат бұрын

@@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami Let's not be sexist :)

@Alainmontpellier1000

2 сағат бұрын

@@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami How dare you saar. Respect women saar.

@Alainmontpellier1000

Сағат бұрын

@@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami How dare you sir. Women are very beautiful sir. Please respect them sir.

It's funny that at 17, the son is called an adult or near-adult by commentators, but then the commentators dismiss the fact that the step-daughter is an adult of 19, so OP must go easy on her... because she is a woman? Why the double-standards?

@piranhaplantX

8 ай бұрын

Welcome to the modern world. Where women are simultaneously supposed to be treated as equal to men. But we are also expected to go easy on them when they screw up.

@rainynight02

8 ай бұрын

Because civilization ALWAYS treats women less harshly than men.

@queerdeificeeli985

8 ай бұрын

As an AFAB, I despise it when people say that 16/17 year olds need to grow up and then proceed to say that you need to 'go easy' on a 19 year old SHE'S AN ADULT, SHE CAN BE TREATED AS SUCH. It's not like a minor being treated as a 'young adult' which is actually 18-23/24, it's an adult being charged with the right charges as an adult. All the people saying that can grow up and learn how laws work, and stop enabling her, cause they're just as bad, obviously the actual felon will always be the worst but the enablers will forever be jerks and neither deserve anything good.

@robert-trading-as-Bob69

8 ай бұрын

@queerdeificeeli985 I agree. As an ACAB or Assigned Cynic At Birth, I see everything devolving instead of evolving. So much for our Global Village. Damn! ACAB means all cops are bastards! That was not my intention, but I am glad I checked the acronym just in case.. I'm not THAT cynical.

@alancarroll2347

8 ай бұрын

@@queerdeificeeli985tf is an Afab? Y’all mfs keep making up new shit and all these different acronyms lmao. Shit is beyond stupid is unnecessary

OP needs to do this. It's not just about the money anymore. His STBX and her demon spawn have literally and figuratively flipped their lives upside down twice over. Neither one of them nor their supporters gave a damn about OP and his son. This is one of those justified go scorched earth moments.

@dvorakgigachad1444

8 ай бұрын

I checked OPS account and he did! comment update (11 months ago): I did, I was happy she was arrested because she wouldn't be getting away with it but today left me feeling like I should "give her a break" because it's serious charges. post update (8 months ago): At 41 years old I just accepted my dream job I started 2022 married with two kids, financially stable, content at a job that met all my needs, never spent a night alone, with a large supportive extended family. I feared nothing, I had at least 4 emergency contacts if I ever needed anything. I thought I was happy and thriving. I started 2023 divorced, one of those kids ruined my life after she stole thousands of dollars from me, $2 to my name, I rest my eyes on a lumpy couch (anxiety induced insomnia sucks), lost every single friend and family member, and my son is now my only emergency contact. We have one roll of TP left and have been walking to soup kitchens everyday but I’m 100% happier than I was just months ago. I decided to apply for a teaching position that I didn’t think I would get. It was always something I wanted to do but my ex wife would always talk me out of it because she made more $$ than me so she “called the shots”. I was offered the position with a sign on bonus which was a surprise. I won’t get the bonus right away unfortunately, but I haven’t been this excited for something in a long time. I know it’s cliche but it’s never too late to start over or try something new. You are never too old to go after your dreams. post update (7 months ago): I’m a teacher. Today I took the morning off to go to my interview for food stamps and rent/cash assistance. I filled out all the forms, submitted proof that I didn’t have any money (yes this was required), and answered a million questions before being told I don’t qualify. I have a son. It's incredibly dehumanizing to hear that I’m not poor enough or destitute enough for help. I have to “figure something else out” in order to get food. Food insecurity is terrifying. Is dumpster diving at night safe? I know how to stretch food but when I don't have anything to work with it's impossible. comment under that post (7 months ago): I did just start but once my checks start rolling in I will be OK. And I'm a male, not that it matters. this is the last activity on his profile. overall, it looks like he pressed charges and is now doing okay as a lower-class teacher

@jdavis7613

5 ай бұрын

OP needs to press charges. If it was a stranger who had done this to his son, he would stop at nothing to get charges pressed. Unless OP STBEX is willing to repay everything plus for mental anguish, then press charges. Stepdaughter has to learn that there are consequences for stealing.

So wait, you’re telling me a criminal prosecutor reached out to and attempted to guilt trip a borderline homeless guy, who likely can’t survive if this situation isn’t resolved, about how he’s ruining the life of the 19 year old jobless girl who committed credit card fraud? And he should let this debt stand, credit destroyed, so that she can pay him back based on her 0 income which he has no real legal way of forcing her to pay? Are these people mentally challenged? It seems like everyone surrounding OP and his son, besides the lawyer and probably his mom, are massive morons. Letting this kid get off consequence free is the reason her crimes only got worse, it’s the mom’s fault she’s a felon if there’s anyone outside the kid that deserves blame. I better not see an update where OP tells us he didn’t follow through, thisnisnforbher own good, she’s young and can still turn her life around, but not if goes on with that shit attitude she has, never suffering consequences for the now felonious crimes she’s committed.

@lavonnewr

8 ай бұрын

So glad to see updates 3+. Drop the hammer on her.

@DarkHeartTheEmo

8 ай бұрын

I think K is a lost cause, there is no consequences that going to change her, but she should be arrested for a long time, is a shame that the OP can't do the same with her mother, but at least some justice would be serve.

@idminister

8 ай бұрын

the prosecuter needs to be reported and have their bar status rejected and lose their ability to practice law

@BaeBunni

8 ай бұрын

@@idminister Relax this crap happens all the time. The dude 100% wants to be DA of his state and sending a stupid 19 year old girl looks bad in the public. He just wants it in writing he tried to convince the guy otherwise. If he succeeds then hooray this guy would be great and if Op wants to keep going after the stepdaughter then "Well I tried my best but I have to follow the law" and will just shift blame onto OP and away from himself.

@rainynight02

8 ай бұрын

​@@BaeBunni But never any blame on the ACTUAL criminal in the situation.

Last updates: Some redditor trolled him and sent ONLY food him and his son were allergic to after talking thru dms. apparently he didnt stop prosecuting and he also got a job as a teacher with some bonuses.

@Orange_Swirl

8 ай бұрын

Jesus Christ smh

@piranhaplantX

8 ай бұрын

Honestly, at least they weren't clever enough to have it be food they weren't allergic too with their allergens rubbed all over them.

@petragrandin9497

8 ай бұрын

Who is The op?

@eII_gato

8 ай бұрын

redditors simping for the woman, not surprising

@emycharaa

8 ай бұрын

Omg.. I lost faith in humanity.

Jail time. She thinks that she can steal 15k and be ok. Wake up call😂😂 Go on with the charges

This story hasn't been updated in 9 months for those wondering (on reddit) but he did drip some information about the current events of his life a month after. In short, he got his dream job at a teaching position with a big sign on bonus. He then got blacklisted from a local food pantry, and didn't know where else to go for food (since somehow he still didn't qualify for things like food stamps and rent/cash asssistance despite his situation. Yes, somehow despite his situation he was told that he was not destitute enough to qualify.) A comment suggested he try asking for help from a local church. Based on posts, he doesn't seem to be doing well.

@WholesomeWatermelon

7 ай бұрын

You got his reddit name or a link?

@TheGamersRace

7 ай бұрын

Did the dream job not pay? Why does he need the food pantry if he got a job? Im just curious what's going on with him. If you have his reddit that'd be cool too.

@SetsunaMeiou-SailorPluto

6 ай бұрын

I have been denied assistance before too they do it a lot. They literally denied me despite my disability and having paperwork documenting me being unable to work because of it which is supposed to automatically qualify me. This was my second interview. They told me that I didn't look disabled and that because I had a job history 10 YEARS AGO BEFORE I BECAME DISABLED that there is no reason I can't work. And it doesn't matter if you have documentation proving you have no money left after paying for all of you rent and bills and can't buy food or even gas for your car. They will deny you for that too just because you meet the monthly income. The government doesn't care about you. I've also been denied disability despite documentation from multiple doctors because their doctor they made me see triggered a panic attack and when I had to leave the room to get air because he kept pushing instead he said that because I left I must just not want it bad enough and he didn't see that I was disabled enough. I literally vomited on his floor. The second time I tried applying before getting married my abusive mother who had been given care of me was keeping me from my appointments so I would be stuck in her care. She didn't want me having money because money meant I could leave. The man who I talked to on the phone was yelling at me when I called to try to get an appointment closer and reschedule and explained what my mother was doing and he was just screaming at me that that doesn't matter and if I don't show up I clearly just don't want it or need it that badly. (This was a Pittsburgh location). And the police wouldn't do anything to help me unless she physically hurt me. It took me a long time to get out and where I am. And the government failed me too every single time. These people do not care. A lot of the food pantry people do not care. I have volunteered too to get extra food. They kept the best stuff for themselves as a pat on the back for their good work. And I reported them for it because it was donated specifically for the families going there who needed it. Completely replaced all of the people there and has stricter regulations.

@SetsunaMeiou-SailorPluto

6 ай бұрын

​@@TheGamersRaceJust because you have a job doesn't mean it pays enough for you to eat. My husband is a teacher. They don't get paid much. His last job at a private school of all places that got ridiculous money in donations and grants from the government every year only paid him a little over 25k a year. And they treated him like garbage. His new position pays better but it's still not enough for us to move out of his parents and I've been denied assistance here too because he makes too much even as a two person household. The government doesn't care. They find any reason they can swing to deny you or even take already existing benefits away. And they put you through hell trying to get them. :/

@TheGamersRace

6 ай бұрын

@@SetsunaMeiou-SailorPluto Well, I mean, it's not a dream job if it's not getting dream pay? Who dreams about being broke...? That's not to hate I just think a dream job would be loaded. And I agree that the government is screwing everyone, not just the disabled, at every opportunity. The system is rigged and it needs a massive reset.

Gawk that, tell that attorney, "That's MY money! I don't give a damn what happens to that thief. Actions have consequences." How dare that prosecutor try to victim shame you!!!

God, if this is real, I hope they pressed charges. No way in hell would I let that slide. 15k?? That's absurd.

@DarkHeartTheEmo

8 ай бұрын

Yeah, also the prosecutor said that he can tell her to pay him back, would be her and what income? Unlike J she never have a job and I highly doubt that her mother can cover those expenses, jail is the only option.

@rainynight02

8 ай бұрын

​@@DarkHeartTheEmo Punishing her aside, it's the only way to OP to save HIMSELF because of what she did to him.

@mrkdavis22

8 ай бұрын

15k in makeup is insane

@thomasjoseph5876

7 ай бұрын

@@DarkHeartTheEmo This is the part that tells me this story is either fake or the OP isn't being honest and truthful with us.

@demonvictim

7 ай бұрын

​@@thomasjoseph5876eh it can be easily real with peoples disrespect for other peoples money. For instance just look at kids and gatcha games spending 100s of dollars in 5 mins. Now switch that with going shopping and living your life on someone you dont give a shits dime. Stealing was step one but her expensive habits mighr also indicate drug use

Imagine commiting first degree fraud over $10k and thinking you can get away with it.

@bricedunn7300

8 ай бұрын

Yeah women are fucking insane

@ccm2059

8 ай бұрын

I really don't get how anyone can even support her and her mom especially when they say the sons almost an adult and blame him don't blame the step daughter who is an actual adult

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami

4 ай бұрын

​@@ccm2059women☕️☕️

@ElleD308

3 ай бұрын

she DID get away with it....

Shes 19 and stole from both you and your son without remorse with the mom sidong with her. Slam the book on that thieving brat. Let her mom get her out of this one as well. Dont take the deal, she wont pay you back, nor will the mom and family. They most likely will run at the small chance just like they used the divorce. They didnt give a damn about you nor your son when yall was almost homeless and humiliated you on fb. Let them dig their hole further. That prosecutor is just guilt tripping you.

I hope he goes through with it, I hope his son is proud of his dad for how hard he worked

For the last update, I would say do press charges. She has ruin your and your son's lifes, it's only fair you do it to her too. And also if you don't she will do it to someone else. If you don't press charges, you will ruin someone else life, and he will press charges anyway. So you may as well press charge and save a life. Also, imagine if she do it again and do it to the wrong guy. He will kill her. By pressing charge you also save her life.

She must pay for her crimes… it’s not petty theft, it’s a felony, who knows how much more she stole prior to this 🤦🏼‍♀️ NTA 100%

no age nor gender should be excluded from these charges, especially if you have no remorse nor see the consequences that made people divorce (at the end better for the husband though) and going almost homeless

The audacity of the prosecutor to say you have some nerve not settling this out of court is INSANITY

Why can't there be more parents like this dad? The situation is awf, but it is so refreshing to hear of a parent that care for and protect their children this vehemently.

This video could be 3-4 minutes shorter without reading the 6 recaps 😂

@lavonnewr

8 ай бұрын

Yup, but But the updates were bouncing around different sibreddits. Guess they were needed in the posts

OP should need to go through with pressing charges. She needs to be held accountable for her actions. As for the prosecutor, sounds almost like they had some sob story from them but the facts and evidence is clear. Filing and history can also be used in this case to show the repeated pattern for the STBX daughter so it should be done. Nothing to think about because if charges are dropped or payment is to be made, then OP wont get paid, and will likely suffer more.

The DAs don’t want to charge anyone guilty and they don’t care about the victims anymore. Charge that waste of air

@piranhaplantX

8 ай бұрын

Yeah, the prosecutor is definitely worried about the optics of charging a 19 year old girl over anything else. It's a very cynical move because it's an open secret that people would prefer to go soft on younger women.

I know he won't see this but I hope he pressed charges to the fullest and showed proof to the police that the wife lied to the police. This will also get her in trouble. I hope he got to finish high school decently and is doing well. Dang I need the ending to this one. Normally I'm like, "well that situation sucks." but this one touched home for me.

You would not be the jerk for going through with the charges, bury her OP

@rainynight02

8 ай бұрын

Exactly. Only assholes here are the mother and the daughter and everyone defending them

She seriously needs to go to jail!

The law is hilariously bias towards women in the US, if a guy wants to be a goodie two shoes law abiding citizen, they better check their girl hard and cover all their bases. It's sad but men going that route might as well treat their women as they would scammers because if they so much as get even the slightest motivation to screw them over, the law would be completely on their side to do so.

@HollowHusk

8 ай бұрын

yep, female privelege is a thing.

@BaeBunni

8 ай бұрын

It's pretty reasonable explanation. He just doesn't want a blemish on his record. If he is working for the state 100% he wants to be DA and guess what they are elected and their cases are public. You know what your average citizen doesn't want to hear? "Prosecutor gets his kicks off ruining a 19 year old girls life!" He just wants to cover his ass so when it comes up later and asked why he did it he will have it in writing he tried to convince the guy but he kept pressing charges and spin it to something like "I'll always pursue justice" or some crap.

@piranhaplantX

8 ай бұрын

Yeah, unfortunately law has its own politics that pushes prosecutors to be like this. They will flat out avoid cases they think they have a chance of losing, if they can, and they will try to shame people into dropping ones that look bad.

@T3n50r

8 ай бұрын

@@BaeBunni What I don't get is how trying to convince someone to not press charges against a criminal isn't a blemish on its own? She ruined her own life and stole, anything else but consequences for it and definitely suggesting to look the other way towards someone that lost their house due to it would be considered corrupt in my country. THAT would be a problem down the line, why it isn't considered that where you're from is fucked up to me

@BaeBunni

8 ай бұрын

@@T3n50r I already said he likely wants to become DA. If you don't know in the USA DA means District Attorney. They are elected officials like a mayor, senator or president. You know what those positions are right? Well District Attorneys because thy get elected means they are competing with other attorneys to become the District Attorney. If you are still following so everything they have done in their personal life and career will come into question just like literally any other politician. So they like politicians try to avoid potential scandals. I hope this clears it up.

I'm tired of people asking if they're the asshole or being called an asshole because they're being fair. Assholes aren't fair!

No no no NO you cant end it on a cliffhanger like that! Please for the love of god tell me he pressed charges

To your last question. No NTJ, all actions have consequences. This is hers.

OP should definitely proceed with charges, his ex and her family was already going nuclear scorched earth no longer listening to him so they are dead to him. This is just the consequences of K's actions and also fuck the pigs "it's a civil matter".

This is why cheating / betrayal is so screwed up inside relationships. While one spouse is living their lives like everything is ok, the other is plotting and setting up complete destruction for the other. Then when the time comes the law protects the betrayer and makes sure no harm comes to them.

Every female in this situation should go to jail.. period.. these 2 guys got the raw end of this .. the son shouldn't have had to worry ab home an his money.. an their animals!😢 This poor family..❤ shame on those foul ass females!!💯

@falxblade1352

8 ай бұрын

What about maw maw? She did nothing wrong...😢

@emmiehamilton8418

8 ай бұрын

@@falxblade1352 fair enough 🤣 I stand corrected! All females other than Mawmaw 🤙🏻

@lastbard

8 ай бұрын

Justice for mawmaw !!

@emmiehamilton8418

8 ай бұрын

@@lastbard yes she def got falsely accused 🤣 it was 1000% Myy bad 🫶🏻 we love a good Mawmaw around here 💯

She’s getting what she deserved. Pay stupid games, win stupid prizes.

My sister was raised exactly like this, to be the poor wittle girl. She's stolen from me when we were kids. I took to heart lessons to be frugal and save money and my parents sought to alleviate me of any savings i had when I had them. Always did. But cause I'm a guy I was "expected to just let it go and not expect to receive the money back". Good on this dad for sticking up for his son, men these days, young men too, need love and support, we don't get enough of it in this world.

That female dog putting you 15k in the hole and your lawyer is upset with you for punishing her?! NTA!!! Stick to your guns OP. She’s grown and she nor her so called mother never once showed remorse for not only stealing from you and your son, but ruining your lives to a near unrepairable degree. She’s proven herself to you time and time again. Let this slide and they’ll continue to walk completely over you until the end of time. Let your lawyer know that. Even if you have scream it to him

@piranhaplantX

8 ай бұрын

The prosecutor is just being cynical, because he's not too happy with the optics of prosecuting a 19 year old girl. It's an open secret that society in general favors going soft on women in these matters. You can see it in how people simultaneously refer to his 17 YO son as an adult/or almost a man vs how they see the 19 YO stepdaughter as a kid.

@comrademars1

8 ай бұрын

@@piranhaplantX ain’t that the accurate truth. Too bad the lawyer cares so much for his image when in reality lawyers are already viewed as scum

I'll pray for justice to be served. My heart breaks for the son and father. You aren't ruining her life, if her actions have life changing consequences, she better get busy learning. She's not going to have a change of heart till far after her earth shakes and crumbles, and if she doesn't even then; prison and throw away the key. We don't need those sorts of predators.

Don't just throw the book at her, throw the whole damn library at her.

Its gonna help her too when she finally realises her actions have consequences.

Put her in jail. She is an adult, she atole from you and your kid. She knows what she's doing, let her pay with jail time.

Ok but y is he surrounded by idiots? Only an idiot would actually side with the perpetrator and say "finders keepers", "why did he hqve that amount anyway", your son is an adult, side with yourr wife."

@xegin1572

8 ай бұрын

They aren't idiots, well they are, but there's bit more than pure stupidity. It seems to be the kind of circle where apparences is all that matter, I've seen and heard of suc things a few times. In that kind of circle, if you don't suck it up to keep up apparences YTA, period. The rest is just them rationalizing why.

@pyromeerkat4641

7 ай бұрын

@@xegin1572 yeah doing shit for apperances is fucking stupid

they were both betrayed, you deserve revenge. that lawyer is an asshole for trying to guilt you out of it after what shes done.

imagine trusting women ☕

Dang.. how broke is he? He can’t afford ANYTHING… should have been looking for another job

Why did this story have to repeat itself a hundred times

NTA. Press the full extent of the law against her. Several fraud charges & theft charges.

Update!

How much should she be allowed to steal from him? I would have reported that DA to the BAR.

I hope he went through with the charges. She deserves what’s coming.

The prosecutor is out of line. She’s shown no remorse, won’t do the right thing and is continuing to commit crimes. It’s not on the victim to settle just because they want less cases to deal with. And by “give him a day to think about it” the prosecuted just basically told him to go away, then come back and change his mind. Yes the charges are serious, that’s exactly why the dads taking it so far

Please for the love of god start linking to posts

I really do hope he went through with the charges

No. No. No! That floozy did identity theft and even stole from her step brother! How dare anyone say “oh you’ll ruin her life”. Boo hoo!!! She can cry about her ACTIONS in jail.

You’d better go through with the charges!!!! Don’t feel bad that ppl pay consequences for their own actions! If you don’t want the consequences then don’t do the actions.

NTA. Your ex stepdaughter needs a HUGE reality check. Don't let her get away with this.

A crime is a crime. The mom probs "talked" to that lawyer in private. Make her a felon. Not your kid. But was your money that was STOLEN.

If this is real i hope K gets annihilated on court. Don't be sorry that actions have consequences, she was more than old enough to know.

Both of those women need jail time. You should absolutely go after your ex step daughter. She made you lose your home, all of your money, and your pets! This IS her karma you wanted for her!

Any cop claiming that theft isn't a crime like the ones in this video need to understand the law. Theft is theft. $400 dollars went missing, stepdaughter went on a shopping spree, there was no actual break in, by process of elimination, either the wife or the stepdaughter stole the money. Cops refused to do their job, that's a lawsuit. Theft is a crime.

@rykkihart5966

4 ай бұрын

If he had better camera footage, he could press charges, but since the footage only caught her foot going in the son's room, there's no actual evidence that OP could use and that's the sad part. Our justice system requires direct evidence to prosecute, and since the stepmother lied for her daughter about the money, OP and his son only had circumstantial evidence. It's a sad situation altogether. I sure hope he did go through with the fraud case and teaches her a lesson.

I remember this post. Added this video to my "reasons not to date" pile, though...

OP sounds like a great parent fr

You shoulda said “I don’t need a day to Think, she is a criminal and stole thousands from me”

Op should press charges. She they both will not do the right thing have no regards for the people they hurt.

Poor guy paid dearly for trusting his family, also 400 bucks is like a semester worth of college here lol

She committed theft twice before committing fraud, what possible reason would anybody think this isn't the start of a pattern of behavior that will not end until it ruins her life. She will never stop. The only reason she stopped at 15k was because se lost the ability to commit more identity theft and fraud. The next victim would always be around the corner.

I hope she got arrested.

Hope they’re doing well, hope the daughter is behind bars

Oh that would never fly in my house, send her yo jail.

Press charges to the max...

Prosecutor needs to be checked out, WTF

K would be unalived if I had to give up my pets. Giving up pets is more times then not a death sentence to them. So why would a worthless thief get to live in my book? Hell no.

It's called "equality" for a reason. Equal benefits, equal consequences...send her to the joint.

So it's bad he's protecting his son, but it's okay that she's doing the same for her thief of a daughter ?

Where is this reddit post? I want to answer this guy. He needs to press charges, this isn't just about punishing the witch, this is about saving his and his son's future. I hope he won't let anyone deter him.

What actual 🤬... Why is he being bullied by the prosecutor for pressing charges?

Get strapped. And blam blam the ex, her brat, and any family of hers that support her. When the justice system fails. Then punishment must be dished out by the individual.

Once upon a time before identity theft had a name, I had 15,000 dollars in debt at the ripe old age of twelve in FLORIDA where I had never been in my entire twelve years. Thanks, mom.

It would make you the jerk if you let what happened to you happen to someone else

You need to. Dont be held accountable for her criminal behavior

If someone tried burning me for 15k, you bet I'm seeking justice.

God, stories like this are so common, and it proves that the justice is sexist it's ridicule

You need to put them both in Jail.

That prosecutor sucks at their job.

Time to get a bank account for the boy.

People saying the kid should man up as a rite of passage and just be okay with being robbed by family, are imo the kind of ppl who would rob their family

Theft is theft fraud is fraud she is a criminal and has to be punished

No update?

"WIBTA if-" NO FUCKING DO IT

Damn some people so selfish and ugly 😓 I hope step sister gets very bad karma for what she did. The son deserves his money back as he’s worked hard for that money and it was for an important occasion.

Don't you all just love the world we live in nowadays?

Nah man, she deserves worse

i looked for his posts he got a job as a teacher and is currently banned from a food pantry because he didn't want rotten food and was trying to throw it away

//"Why does he get to have all the money?" WTF Our society keeps producing people at every level of society, rich, middle class, working class, who have this ridiculously high level of entitlement.

J came back with that heat about the "unseasoned cafeteria food"

Lowkey think the mom is sleeping with the prosecutor if hes saying a 19 year old is a child.

Did people who criticize OP expect him to side with his thieving ex-wife and ex-stepdaughter. Also, it's his room. The place should have to be where his belongings safe.

19 is old enough to know what that stealing money is bad, old enough to know what credit card and identity fraud is. If they let her go, she'll never learn, and it'll escalate until one day she starts harming ppl physically or becomes a scammer or large scale identity thieve

Stealing is illegal, at the very least you should feel safe in your home. You should be able to trust your family in your home not to steal from you. Four hundred dollars is a lot of money you can't overlook that. Saying he is 17 years old and almost a man, so. She is 19 years old and an adult so she should know stealing is wrong.

I hope there's an update soon and that the horrendous stepdaughter goes to jail.