As a man, let me tell you, men know what they want. Pack up sis.

@CB-br9jc

4 жыл бұрын

G.A.M.A EXACTLY!

@madslasher18

4 жыл бұрын

FACTS

@michaelwilson939

4 жыл бұрын

Yes we do

@peachbabygyrl

4 жыл бұрын

Thank ya!!

@Abdusshakur215

4 жыл бұрын

100% accurate... She’s a good girl too

"If you gonna ask God for something, you gotta make ready to receive it." well said Steve

@favouredWoman777

3 жыл бұрын

That was a WHOLE WORD right there!!! Where's the offering tray? I wanna put my tithes in there

@aichitoshiki1321

3 жыл бұрын

I gotta remember that advice

@albrat1563

3 жыл бұрын

@@aichitoshiki1321 me too that was a wise one

@gurpreetrayat9210

3 жыл бұрын

It’s an advice his mother gave him. He kept it near and dear to his heart, so he can pass it on. She taught him well. It’s true what he said.

@mercedeswilkins9085

Жыл бұрын

Amen

37 years old, not financially stable and he doesn’t want a title 😳😳😳😳.. run away.

@3ma_lengend

4 жыл бұрын

Why are relationships one sided what does she bring to the table is she stable

@bronzb.1499

3 жыл бұрын

Probably already has a woman

@antoinettejohnson2188

3 жыл бұрын

🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

@3ma_lengend

3 жыл бұрын

@Marly B I agree he should of put a title on the relationship but a lot of women want men to take care of them nothing wrong with that but she has to be down to take care of him when he's down and out women talk about equality they wouldn't do the same thing there waiting on a man to do

@MelaniaRose

3 жыл бұрын

@@3ma_lengend Too risky. When a man becomes financially stable he goes after the woman he really wants.

When I met my man a year ago, he wasn’t making much and was financially unstable but right after we started to date, he changed his job to a better one , trying to pay his debts, and still looking to increase his income .. he is working on getting back to school .. he sat plans and goals that include us .. he never once said that we can’t move forward because of his finances ( with around 30k).. he proposed to me 7 months of our relationship .. it is not a 10 thousands dollar ring but I love it .. even his family said he became a new person.. btw I have never asked him once to change anything in himself for me .. he did it because he loves me .. Girls don’t waste your time chasing and waiting for someone who doesn’t want to be with you or trying hard to be with you

@nosipho4899

2 жыл бұрын

I love this 😀. So happy for you 💗

@TheWilDOn31

2 жыл бұрын

He found something worth fighting for, he found his motivation. ♥

@Savvieyoung

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@bdn6078

Жыл бұрын

That’s the key you never asked him to change or force him to speed up his life

@melvinbarnes6652

Жыл бұрын

@@bdn6078 Nope. the key was he found the women he wanted. Within months a man knows whether or not he is going to marry a woman and he will lock her down QUICKLY. He won't risk losing her to another man. If marriage is what u desire and he hasn't proposed within a year, move on. He don't want you.

Starting over after 6 years is better than wasting another 20 unhappy

@wilrobles9824

4 жыл бұрын

Yes.

@alexandragisellechavez3564

4 жыл бұрын

amen

@santos8737

4 жыл бұрын

But why wait six damn year for a reality check 😂

@Blessedabove

4 жыл бұрын

You said that! 👏💣👏

@misterrex684

4 жыл бұрын

women at that age will need several years to get a new decent partner because most men are at that point in a long term relationship and have families

She already had the answer, but needed validation.. I hope she heeds his advice! 😀

@highlyfavored2434

5 жыл бұрын

It's better to start over and find what you're looking for instead of wasting more time. She has already waited 6 years

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

💯

@defenderofdecency7218

4 жыл бұрын

It is likely she won't listen to Steve and will keep the guy for another some years until she has had it and will call it quits. By then she has wasted some more valuable time.

@bronzb.1499

3 жыл бұрын

Probably did not

@sethmorgan833

3 жыл бұрын

She didn't she stayed with the bum

Perfect advice ! I left my husband of 19 years. Nothing was going to change. I was 20 when I married him and left when I was 39. Did not want to be 40 and regret. I remarried when I was 49 and still married to a wonderful man for 18 years. Leave this guy and find a finer guy. 💗💗💗

@SUN-it6rf

Жыл бұрын

@@savithrivenugopal God bless you my dear. You will be very strong and go on with your wonderful life without any regrets. Stay blessed. Praying for you. 🤗🤗🙏🏼🙏🏼

@zayu871

Жыл бұрын

thank u for such a great comment

@SUN-it6rf

Жыл бұрын

@@zayu871 🙏🏼🙏🏼💖💖

@emilykarimikivecu1486

Жыл бұрын

I have been living with a man for 12yrs, we have 2 children with him. He hates to spend even the least amount of time with me except when we are in bed. He can't pay for house rent and always complain I place myself so high ie I take the kids to very expensive school, I should take a cheaper house if I want him to pay. I tried begging him to just pay a portion of the rent and I will pay the rest which he refused. The guy can't buy even food for the family and complain about everything I do not unless I pay for everything without asking him for anything. I have come to a point where I feel leaving him is the only best solution but I don't know what tell my kids.

@kenasssss

Жыл бұрын

@@emilykarimikivecu1486 LEAVE. NOW. Leave in silence, say nothing, simply disappear and make sure your kids are safe. Do not engage in arguments, do not talk to him while alone. Bounce and live your life.

Steve is so right. You give a men 2 options - to treat you right, or leave. Everytime I set those boundaries to some guy I dated, that revealed their true intentions with me. Dear ladies, don't be afraid letting someone leave if it is perfectly right thing to do. As Steve said, some breakups are blessing. It is much healthier to stay single instead of being desperate and investing yourself in guys who are not good for you.

@user-he5fd4bc2e

Жыл бұрын

I would love and respect you for ever beautiful Miljiana

@mlungisimasuku5267

Жыл бұрын

Not it not like their but the fact is I need you as I want to be your man.For the fact of having what always will make me and you happy in truly with the present of God everything we can have.

Steve, your Mom was a very wise woman. I love that story 😊

@anjelaramirez7719

5 жыл бұрын

I loved the story aswell SO TRUE !! 🙄😀😂

@maryluvsmusic9298

5 жыл бұрын

Clara Castillo...at first I was like where is Steve going with this story. But it makes hella sense! I think a lotta women are scared of being alone, starting over & facing reality of the piece of 💩they are currently with & like they story said...u gotta get that old crap outta there 1st! Hope she realizes that she can do better before she gets more invested(having children, marriage & home). But he weak as hell for the no title bs! Where they do dat @ mr 37yr old?? Boy bye 👋🏾 !

@maryluvsmusic9298

4 жыл бұрын

sour airhead, who hurt u sweetie? Lotta hostility in your response. U must be alone. FYI, I’ve been happily married for 20yrs.

I'm broke AF; I decided not to go into a relationship because I ain't ready yet. Stop wasting another man's daughter time. Set that baby free & join us my brother.

@ericharrisgmail

5 жыл бұрын

V33kTOR NG 😂😂

@Thechicagolion

5 жыл бұрын

👍🏼🤣🤣

@Noix009

5 жыл бұрын

Your comment is super hilarious!!!!!!

@thrilla72

5 жыл бұрын

If despite him not being financially ready she still wants him... Why has he not married her!?

@quitecontrary23

5 жыл бұрын

This comment isn't even funny he's being real

That is exactly what she needed! Look at her face beam! I hope she’s happy now ❤

No matter your age, I wish more women would 'get' Steve's advice before investing all these years in such relationships. Sheesh!!

@3ma_lengend

4 жыл бұрын

What are relationship one sided what she bring to the table is she stable

The fact that he don’t like titles speaks volumes! She refer to him as her friend. Read between the lines baby girl. He is not looking to commit period. In so many words he’s making that clear.

@deva190

5 жыл бұрын

Yes. Don't spend years with someone who doesn't want titles unless that's what you want too.

@christenr7365

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly Men who say I don’t like titles usually means some other woman is in the picture She also said they’ve been on and off for a few years as well. She’s a beautiful woman she can find herself a wonderful man. I hope she took Steve’s advice!!!!! And I hope she watches this clip and reads all our comments to help motivate her!

@stausskane3227

5 жыл бұрын

But if I girl ain ready to commit then its it's perfectly fine

@maryluvsmusic9298

5 жыл бұрын

Abdul Manssour...yup, I agree! He is full of it! She betta run honey cause next you gonna be pregnant 🤰🏾& that’s a whole new can of worms! Be with someone that is proud to call u his woman. Don’t settle! People treat u how u allow them to.

@nicolelewis6312

4 жыл бұрын

Sad.🤷‍♀️

Steve’s analogy was for me!!!!! Ouchhhhh

@hearthomepurposewithangeli906

5 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@chinanguyen2260

5 жыл бұрын

Same here !!!!

@juded8530

5 жыл бұрын

You pretty @Chaff LS. I will like to get to know you.

@skyblade1258

5 жыл бұрын

@@MissBehaving888 marriage? What went wrong?

@datsbaykan

5 жыл бұрын

@@skyblade1258 Hun he just changed after marriage and now won't leave or let me leave. He thinks the 18 years I've given isn't enough and wants another chance. The red flags were there i just kept making excuses He just seemed to resent me as if had forced him to marry me and get into debt. İ am not a materialistic person at all. But now I'm trying to divorce as I thought I'd met the perfect man for me until a few days ago. This new guy wow was everything I could ask for. Willing to wait till my divorce was final. Just 4 days ago I found out something worry some about him. I don't think I could ever trust him. And he knows i know but hasn't really made an effort since to convince that he truly does love. That it all wasn't a big game to him. Oh well. It's a big nope from me for both my ex and my potential future partner lol. Unlucky in love am i :(

I’ve been right where she’s at. It was either I would put in another 6 years with a guy who wouldn’t commit with marriage or I walk away. It ripped everything out in me to leave but I knew I deserved better. My man I’m with now proposed in 8 months, we have a house and two cats. Getting married this spring 💕 When someone shows you who they are believe them and don’t try to paint them into something they aren’t.

@theinformedstudent7395

2 жыл бұрын

Wow. This is amazing

@maddieek6865

Жыл бұрын

You give me hope LOL

@sealife22

Жыл бұрын

What if it's you who isn't sure 😢 not him

@harumiayame8586

4 ай бұрын

If it's you, then do not waste his time. It doesn't take multiple years. Clearly he's nice but not want you want. Let him find someone else who wants all of him.

You should have walked away a long time ago.

That is priceless advice. "Get rid of that old car sitting up on cinder blocks."

@outsideworld76

4 жыл бұрын

Hey hey... No man is going to pay full price for used or damaged cars...

Soon as he is comfortable with titles he'll be moving on to someone else.. Don't waste your time honey...

@brooklynforever1990

5 жыл бұрын

Facts

@shewearsmanyhats377

5 жыл бұрын

@Robin D ❤

@shewearsmanyhats377

5 жыл бұрын

@@brooklynforever1990 ❤

@greenessR

5 жыл бұрын

Lol that’s exactly what I was thinking

@shewearsmanyhats377

5 жыл бұрын

@@greenessR ❤

By the end of the first sentence I was already aggravated. A whole six years of your God given life.....I'm tired 😭 P. S: Steve is our online father

Damn I started crying when he was talking about his mother. The teachings our parents give us. We keep them so we can pass them along as we meet people. ♥️ this is how we make our world a better place.

In this case, mr. Steve have a good point!!! She’s woman of certain age and ain’t nobody got time for that. She waited 6!!! Years and he’s not stable in his late 30s... time to move on sorry

@jamesroberts7115

5 жыл бұрын

Anna L I’m stable and doing well but I still haven’t find a stable woman yet 🤔

@S-u-r-e-n

5 жыл бұрын

Hayeeer 💪🇦🇲🇦🇲

@jamesroberts7115

4 жыл бұрын

LadyD I don’t think you got it right because some women have history of bad relationships,When a good man dates these women they can’t stay with a good man it sad

@spazz-ok9nr

4 жыл бұрын

No ma'am ur incorrect about nobody having time for that at that age. Women don't have time for that ...that's y'all's issue not ours. I would employ men to move at their own pace that biological clock isn't ticking in our heads.

@femininityoverfeminism212

4 жыл бұрын

spazz 8469 that’s only partially true. You don’t have a biological clock, but most women in their 20s doesn’t want a substantial age gap. Most women want someone their age to perhaps 5 years older. If a man in his forties wants to date younger women he will find himself with a smaller dating pool. Furthermore, women should never allow themselves to be taken advantage of even if they’re in their early twenties or thirties. It’s not moral for a man to take multiple years from a women’s life without committing.

“He’s uncomfortable with title “ Steve face changed quickly 😂😂

@omopapa

4 жыл бұрын

Mine did too. Smh. I could see the pain on her face while she was talking. 😞

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

😭

My best friend from high school met this guy when she was 24, she spent not 5, not 10 years, but 18 years in love with this guy who never settled down on anything..finally after all those wasted years she moved on continued living her life, working hard, and one day she met a new guy (momma's boy) she spent 5 years dating this unemployed careless guy, she used to pay anytime they went out and finally one day she called me to tell me the good news: the guy finally proposed.. she paid for almost everything for her wedding reception, but she looked so happy at her wedding day that I felt little guilty for being so harsh sometimes about the guy, but only after 6 or 7 months into her marriage the mom's guy kicked her out of the house ( yeap the guy took her to live at his mom's house, with Mom included), the guy continue living with mommy and never tried to go after my friend and live as a couple in their own place. Long story short: she's been waiting on this dude to settle down for a total of 15 years by now...she is 50 years old now and she wasted years and years of her life on men who now are happy married or dating someone else. LADIES believe me this is a real life story.. don't waste time on a man who doesn't wants to commit believe me doesn't worth it. Don't waste your time because that time will never ever came back...

WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE WE GOING TO DO WITHOUT THE STEVE HARVEY SHOW?????? His wisdom, grace, humor, and straightforwardness is so needed when it comes to considering the cost of having a REAL, PURPOSEFUL relationship with someone.

And let the church say Amen!

@3ma_lengend

4 жыл бұрын

What are relationship one sided what she bring to the table is she stable

Sister is GORGEOUS!😍 I hope she will make a wise decision

@voiceofreason4u147

5 жыл бұрын

She WITH his cousin now

@spazz-ok9nr

4 жыл бұрын

@@voiceofreason4u147 in other words he did the right thing

This man has a story for everything 😂

@codyjemison9558

9 ай бұрын

You ever feel like he just pulled it out his ass? 😂😂😂

PREACH! He's speaking truth !!!!! 6 years in, 37 years old and still waiting to be financially stable, not into titles... smh A man claims what is his! No matter if he's broke! If he sees you as a wife material, he will say to the all world you are HIS! Women deserve so much better than some guys like this... I put an ultimatum to an ex boyfriend, I was afraid of doing this because I knew, deep inside, that our relationship will be over. He ran away. He got a new girlfriend the next week. He broke up with her at some point. He tried to get in touch with me less than a year after we broke up. But the thing is, I was so over him. I cried a lot, prayed a lot, and after all this time, I was happy that the universe got rid of this guy from my life. I was working on myself, on my body, on my mental health, on my attitude of gratitude, on my work goals, and so on. Everything happens for a reason. Life doesn't happen to you but for you.

Very good advice Steve. The worst mistake we make in life is to settle. For a partner we know is incompatible, friendships that lack mutual respect, jobs that are beneath our capabilities. It takes internal strength to know when to say enough and walk away.

@dbigtime10bt

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, indeed.

@SpecialKRNB

5 жыл бұрын

I approve this message!

@arianah325

5 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@kendrickhernandez

2 жыл бұрын

Thats deep.

Steve’s like the father I never had. Thank you ❤️ #Gems

@MissBehaving888

5 жыл бұрын

I love him!!!!!!!!!!!

@tebony06

5 жыл бұрын

Miss Behaving Me too! So much Wisdom

@voiceofreason4u147

5 жыл бұрын

Ahhhh baby just don't look for a father in your boyfriend....

@reneemyricks4306

5 жыл бұрын

@@voiceofreason4u147 story of my life

I once dated a man that said, "it takes five years of dating to know..." I'm thinking you are crazy. if you don't know sooner than that you are not for me. After 9 months I knew he was not for me.

My husband was 35 yo when we met with low income. But somehow he manage to purchase a house & decent car. That earn my respect when he proposed again in our 10th date. I always have short relationships. 6 months top. Because I’m not affraid to cut a guy who show incompatibility or red flags. People said that’s my red flag. But I’m married for 14 years now and gone through hell & back together. We’re not perfect, but we still dating 😁 The key is commitment. It’s not have to be about your starting point or current condition. Don’t be afraid to cut someone when they not compatible or show future.

6 years and he can't even call you his girl? 🙄 Sis, miss me with all that. She is way too beautiful to be having some 37 year old boy who can't even call her his girl after nearly a decade. That's insanity. There are plenty of guys who'd be willing to call her their girl after a month or so of dating.

@cookiegirl891

5 жыл бұрын

Christy Louis facts

@willicollins2069

5 жыл бұрын

It is a Fact women enjoy this kind of attitude from a man. If you are a good guy , you don't stand a chance

@makeitcount2985

4 жыл бұрын

That's it he's not a man he's an immature boy, she's wasting her time with him

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

Diddy style.. lol although Diddy even put a title I think..

@spazz-ok9nr

4 жыл бұрын

And u will still find a way to disrespect them and call them a boy. I applaud the man for sticking to script something alot of women simply can't do

37 and not financially stable?!?! 37 and not into titles?? This fool has some serious growing up to do and you need to run sis!!

@Footballer85749

5 жыл бұрын

This would be assuming shes telling the truth. Again one side of the story, if shes not happy just leave dont see why asking Steve on National TV is a part of the equation

@Footballer85749

5 жыл бұрын

@@leemahay6742 relating does not equate to truth. But when it is all said and done she is staying in a situation she doesn't want to yet it's the guys fault..laughable.

@stausskane3227

5 жыл бұрын

But if a girl is 37 and not financially stable then its fine

@jamesroberts7115

5 жыл бұрын

Jenny Musa nah I can’t relate to this guy that not a grown man yet

@Briwiththebighair

5 жыл бұрын

RealBlessed I’m not assuming anything. My comment is based solely off the video. If she believes he is not stable based off her mentality and experiences then that’s all that matters. Everything is based on perception and that’s hers. She is the one dating him so if she feels that way there’s a reason. So as stated that’s ridiculous!

His mom seems wise. I loved that story. 🙌🏼 And sometimes the thing that you don't wanna do, is the thing that you need to do.

Steve is so good with his stories! He puts it all in perspective and clarifies to perfection!

37 years old and he is not financial stable yet!!!! either he a loser or he is just not that into you, girl move on .

@Chutney1luv

5 жыл бұрын

That sounds about right! He's middle age! Half way to retirement! I'd keep my legs closed on this one!! 😏😒😏😒

@JohnJohn-jm9oi

5 жыл бұрын

And I bet all you ladies here in your 30,s are financially stable

@malibuice650

5 жыл бұрын

You dont know his situation as to why hes not financially stable. Job loss, disability, debt, and you flat out call him a loser. That's the problem with you women these days. You expect a man to give you absolutely everything and you do/give nothing in return. Have fun being single with that mindset.

@DeAndreTJ

5 жыл бұрын

@@malibuice650 Right. I've seen a lot of women in their 40's and 50's who are heavily indebted living paycheck to paycheck while dating.

@nofybn7794

5 жыл бұрын

@@malibuice650 Wrong. We give far FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR FAR MORE. THERE IS NO REASON. Women have more hardship then men. Men can get a job far more easily, make far more and get a promotion far more easily as well.

Preach!!!! Forget the title "uncle Steve" you "Daddy Steve"!!! That right there was the truth! #lifelessons

@loriwhitbord9860

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

I've experienced both sides of men: turning the world upside down for a woman they love and also letting them wait and hope for years for who knows what reasons. When a man wants you, he will make sure you know!

That's was a good one!! "He is in the driveway , on blocks!" Gotta get prepared for your blessing. 🙌🙌

Steve's mama must have been an amazing beautiful woman! Steve is carrying on for her. God bless you Steve.

I really need to hear this. This is my present situation, I'm so tired of waiting on this man to gain his financial independence. Tired of taking up his slack. Rather to be single and not feeling burden down.

@malabeyes8090

5 жыл бұрын

Its my current situation too i want to end it but my heart keeps stoping me to do it

@yaishathomas796

5 жыл бұрын

@@malabeyes8090 my heart has been like this for awhile. My heart telling me one thing and my mind saying something else. I loan this man over $250,000 towards his business. I support this man emotionally and all the "ally" you can think of and it's like I'm still not doing anything.

@malabeyes8090

5 жыл бұрын

@@yaishathomas796 no you did enaugh you didn support him emotionally but also financially i think you r a sweat hearted lady and you deserve better don't blame yourself u did ur best now he has to reward you by him doing his best to you

@yaishathomas796

5 жыл бұрын

@@malabeyes8090 I'm psychologically drain. You just be strong in whatsoever decision you choose and don't loose yourself like what happening to me now

@maryolie9585

5 жыл бұрын

@@malabeyes8090, same here. But one day soon, I'll leave him for good... I'm almost there!

I'm in tears ,cause it sounds like Steve was talking directly to me

37 years old + don't like being called a boyfriend = he's a player man child Betcha he's got a side kick or more than one This girl deserves better

@spazz-ok9nr

4 жыл бұрын

What did she describe in this clip that would lead u to think she deserves anything ? What has she earned ?

@spazz-ok9nr

2 жыл бұрын

@The Chard N Nay Show is airing out private relationship business basic respect? U can tell all day what she should be given...I asked what did she earn ?

You gave him the best gift that you could give.... Your time! Sadly you can't get that back as Steve said "ask yourself do you want to continue another six years of this?!" I myself was in same situation and sadly took me a while to leave it hurt but it was best and I got something even better out of it a blessing I've been wanting for the longest...a man who claimed me and wanted me and swooped me up before anyone else could and put a ring on my finger! thank God I let go and got something better I been praying for the longest. Your a beautiful woman there is a guy out there who'll see your worth and will swoop you up as well and you'll be happy that you let go for better 😊🌸

@cnsummers4086

5 жыл бұрын

Amen!! 👏

@KPITGangsta

5 жыл бұрын

He meant to say your youth and your beauty instead of time. Plus, you can't ever tell what she's been doing or done to him beforehand. Better to keep hopping while securing bags and blaming bad guys.

@spazz-ok9nr

4 жыл бұрын

Is he not giving her his time ? O don't understand this mentality that somehow her time is more valuable than his ?

How you’re with someone for 6 years and that’s your “friend”? This guy needs to stop playing games. Whatever his situation is, he needs to work on that first then when everything is in order, now he can start dating.

@justkartis1398

5 жыл бұрын

Max Charpentier Exactly!!

@BluDrop5

5 жыл бұрын

They're probably having sex...

@Footballer85749

5 жыл бұрын

People are so quick to blame the dude and he hasn't even spoken it's just her word versus nothing. Read between the lines people. He has likely told her the deal and she has accepted it but reluctantly, but is looking for anyway to change it. why do you think she is on the show asking Steve for advice?

@tinychamberz

5 жыл бұрын

@@Footballer85749 exactly. People will do things you allow them to do.

@acharich

4 жыл бұрын

@@BluDrop5 🎯🎯🎯

I’ve seen this before, Uncle Steve’s advice is on point! Also...men who are financially unstable tend to be proud and often stubborn even when their circumstance doesn’t allow. They will let golden opportunities. I think men must step in and help advise eachother...maybe they can understand each other better. 💛

I can relate to this message in so many ways so i always return to hear it again. Steve Harvey's a genius at delivering‼

Damn she is very beautiful and cute edit:I ve never got223 likes on youtube before thx guys

@anthonyhineson9755

5 жыл бұрын

Fact!!!!!!

@tmston2

5 жыл бұрын

she straight

@MegaCadette55

5 жыл бұрын

Your edit😂😭 u re like famous famous now😂

@laurasmith2157

5 жыл бұрын

very pretty

@shelsparkle2691

5 жыл бұрын

322

Sis , I said the same thing and invested 23 years for nothing. The only thing I am proud of, out of that relationship, is the child I now have. Love Steve's response. Well said

@lavernplunkett2995

5 жыл бұрын

Girl same here 17 years and a son

@Pacifica74

2 жыл бұрын

Me too. 23 years. Feel humiliated.

Amen, say it again Steve. Many individuals need to hear this.

I showed this to my “boyfriend” and we broke up 3 days later. Not sure if i was the old car to him, but he was definitely the old raggedy pos on blocks for me. Needless to say, I’ll take some time to heal and go get me a new car! Thanks Steve.

@outsideworld76

4 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately you will never be a new car either.

This young lady gave this man 6 yrs of her life and hasn't gotten the return on the investment she's made. She should cut her losses and move on because he figures as long as she's willing to keep the status quo, he sees no reason to change it. He hasn't in 6 yrs. After 3 yrs she should have had a clue.

@thecurator2626

5 жыл бұрын

3 months is long enough

@sabaande

5 жыл бұрын

@@thecurator2626 Exactly ...3-6 mths...all while dating other men too until you narrow down to the one who is serious about you.

@fayepatrice1672

5 жыл бұрын

3 months getting to know him without officially dating. Another 3-6 months dating exclusively. After that, I tell him what I expect from a relationship and he has to be able to tell me what his plans are. If those plans don’t involve marriage in the future, I am gone. The first time I did this, we continued dating for 2 years until I moved away for work and we broke up. The second time I did this, I got my husband. Men aren’t mind readers. I believe in being honest about you want and willing to walk away if they can’t give you that.

@thecurator2626

5 жыл бұрын

I told my husband day one what I required of and from him. He married me before 6 months passed. 9 years going strong. Stop letting these bs men waste your time. Stop tiptoeing around what you want. If you want it, require it. If he doesn't rise to the occasion, he wasn't for you. There are other fish in this big ass pond.

@stausskane3227

5 жыл бұрын

But yet if it were a girl in that situation then it's perfectly ok

I wish these guests had ig pages. I have a job she dont have to wait 6 more seconds.lol.

@LaTeeTee0125

5 жыл бұрын

I hear that well GO AHEAD!!!👍🏽

@Brwniee95

5 жыл бұрын

Hope she sees this!! 🙌🏾

@loriwhitbord9860

5 жыл бұрын

I hope she read these comments.

@hearthomepurposewithangeli906

5 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@f.-j.j.5738

5 жыл бұрын

Liking so she can see it...

Steve’s mom was a very thoughtful lady! What a great analogy...

Steve's stories are golden teaching for all people no matter the financial life but he always love to give from his own life experience for us to learn. He is 62 I think a man with that history must something to say for the young to learn. God bless Steve and his family forever. Great example.

Good teaching sir.I better clear my driveway

37????...He ain't tryna get married at all. He almost 40 years old. If he wanted to get married he would have proposed by now. A person who wants to do something goes and does it. A person who doesn't wan't to something just doesn't do it.

@patrickananas1999

4 жыл бұрын

Why would a man marry a woman in this one-sided court system?

@spazz-ok9nr

4 жыл бұрын

Is there a date on marriage that I'm unaware of ?

@Phantom6lack

4 жыл бұрын

Ms. Rae marriage doesn’t benefit men.

Get him TOWED OUT for $15!!! 😩🤣🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽

Aaww you’re mom was a wise woman. God bless her soul. I don’t know why but as you were telling your story about your mother I started crying. Mamas are always right. We need to hear them out. And sir you’re pretty wise too. Thanks for sharing your stories. 🙂 I do learn a lot. 💕

Steve Harvey is one of smartest man. God bless that man

@jamestuck90

5 жыл бұрын

No, hes just wise.

Man !!! Stevie a living legend 💯 obviously his mama was legend too 🙏🙌

"I call him my friend because he's uncomfortable with titles" And that right there is the exact latitude and longitude at which he had you effed up 😐

Felt this on a spiritual level

Man I understand her pain. Trust yourself girl and move forward

I teared up watching this. Bless you Mr. Harvey.

I love Steve. Here is a true inspiration. He always has some wise words to teach.

Steve always has a way of making sense of any situation.

Is she living with him?!! Don’t live with a man before he puts a ring on it. 💍💍 It’s hard, but it’s worth the wait to live by yourself or with a roommate compared to shacking up with a man and fearing that he won’t put a ring on it.

@AltNova

4 жыл бұрын

Why do all women want to rush into marriage? Just seems like a scam to me

@Vu7kan_

4 жыл бұрын

Nova personally I don’t see the point in marriage and before I continue, I am only 19 but too me it just seems like a title, too me you don’t have to get married and you can still have the same love and connection as a couple who is married

@AltNova

4 жыл бұрын

@@Vu7kan_ ikr its weird people think they cant truly love eachother without getting married

@ShesooBreezy

4 жыл бұрын

Nova and Dusty, well I don’t see the reason to support a man during their darkest times. I don’t see the reason to help a man pay his rent, bills, groceries, and help keep a roof over his head if he loses his job and be his morale support. This all the great things a wife does that friends or family might not do!! Wife is there to help support her husband financially and emotionally. I’d be damned to be a woman that is doing wifely things but still has a title of a girlfriend and no ring!! Try finding a woman that’ll put up with that bull crap for years without marriage cause she’ll leave if she has to wait for her ring!!

@AltNova

4 жыл бұрын

@@ShesooBreezy Its not doing wifely things its being a morally good human being and partner. Just because you arent married to someone doesnt mean you cant love and support them jesus christ. You would really be willing to ditch your boyfriend because he didnt give you a goddamn ring and contract? Just hideous.

Thank you Steve Harvey! It's time! Out with the old In with the new

Got me in my car like "👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 ( slow clap) that applies to all areas of life not just dating. I felt that 😫😊

Dude Steve always make some good old school stories that relatable. Man good job.

If a man can’t give you a position move on. Don’t be scared of fear to start over plus you still young girl. Remember men can do some things that women would never get away with.

1:18 You can tell a lot of women in the audience felt that in their spirit. We;ve all been there.

Her outfit and smile are amazing. Hopefully she gets her ‘new car’.

@paralegalkc

4 жыл бұрын

Jemimah Ngu a new one with hydrolics

this one touch me to the core. I'm in the same situation... Thanks Steve!

Alot a women going be waiting for a long time.....

@franklinbrandon5283

5 жыл бұрын

Haha FACTS!!! WE AIN'T MARRYING NO MORE

@rebecca4829

5 жыл бұрын

@@franklinbrandon5283 Some women will still find marriage material men.

@franklinbrandon5283

5 жыл бұрын

rebecca yeah maybe one woman out of 100!!!

@rebecca4829

5 жыл бұрын

@@franklinbrandon5283 Then that means majority of dudes are trash....?

@franklinbrandon5283

5 жыл бұрын

rebecca haha nah that means all most all women AREN'T WORTH investing in...

I love this response from Steve!! I agree 100 percent

That story is everything 😭💞 it's solving all my problems

Wow. This was cracking advice. If you ask god for something you gotta make room to receive it. Felt that

Steve you betta PREACH!! Young Lady, he’s just not that into you! He’s into titles, just not with you. Pick up your mat and Run 🏃🏾‍♀️ You are worth so much more! You’ve waited 6 yrs too long..Best Wishes to you, there is someone out there in the world looking for you.

@cnsummers4086

5 жыл бұрын

Amen! 👏

‘Make ready to receive’ Amen! 😊🙌🏽

@stephaniestephanie4545

5 жыл бұрын

Yes Yes Yes!!

What a great mama so wise!

You betta SPEAK Steve! That Steve got some preach in Him! He know he be on point!

That's some heartbreaking truth right there!👏👏👏

Honey when they get stability forget about him! They drop you like hot potato

@deva190

5 жыл бұрын

Yep. He will be on to the next one thinking he's making an upgrade.

@joyjoy449

5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. That's why she needs to leave him and level up, find herself a stable one who'll marry her.

@shawntal.665

5 жыл бұрын

Yes they will. Believe me i know

@KPITGangsta

5 жыл бұрын

Jump on to the next one and then collect the bag before jumping on the next one until you can't find anymore good men Girl, get what you deserve and everything owed to you, for real, LOL.

@helloearth11

4 жыл бұрын

It's because you think being the same girl would help you attrackt different kinds of men, when in reality you get the same guy in a different skin. Don't ever blame someone else for something in your life you have control over.

So real. Steve, your mother was a wise woman. Thanks. Blessings. Franny P.

Thank you uncle Steve this means a lot to me this message is for me ..🙏🙏

6 YEARS?!?!?! Girl PLEASE!!! These women be killing me!!! I’m gone after 2!!! I’m gone much sooner than 2 if you can’t give me a title and be exclusive!!! Why is Steve’s advice not common sense???? This is so sad 😞

@lindarenee2198

5 жыл бұрын

Because if common sense was so common, everybody would have it.

@bluewave3417

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it shouldn't take 6 years to figure out. After a couple of years of nothing she should have hit the door. He's a joke for stringing her along. But she has to take some responsibility as well. Six years is a long time.

@highlyfavored2434

5 жыл бұрын

2? 6 months is enough to know if he sees a future with me

@fattysl26

5 жыл бұрын

It took me 9 months to ditch a guy who was trying that level of foolishness

@shakinapunter2854

5 жыл бұрын

Preach ButterFlyy Gyrl’s World!!!! I know my worth!!💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾

Wow, I love this message and I love the way Steve delivers them. He's got that old wisdom.

That was A word #Preach 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I definitely enjoyed the message from his anecdote!!!

I know Steve is making light of the issue but that is an important principle in growth, you've got to get rid of the old to make room for the new - it work for clothes, cars and spouses.

Steve nailed it!

Lady.. ✌ to this guy

This is a great life lesson 🙏🏼 not just relationships

Jesus spoke to me through this video!!!!! Thank you Uncle Steve!!!

Not comfortable with titles = you are not his wife material... Run lady run lady..!!! Hey Steve 👋🏾 please bring her back and find her a fine man

HEY STEVE IM A HUGE FAN OF YOUR HEY STEVE SEGMENT.... SINCE I MISS IT DURING THE DAY I WATCH IT ON KZread BEFORE I GO TO SLEEP ....AND JUST WANTED TO LET U KNOW THAT MY DRIVEWAY HAS BEEN CLEARED UP FOR 5MONTHS AND NOT PLANNING ON LETTING NO ONE PARK IN IT ANY TIME SOON MEANWHILE I GOT MYSELF A BUS PASS AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE TIL IM READY TO GET A NEW RIDE .... U HAVE HELPED ME IN SO MANY WAYS ESPECIALLY IN MY LOVE LIFE THANK YOU I APPRECIATE IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART 😁😁😁😁

I needed to hear that today