A women’s loyalty is tested when her man has nothing A man’s loyalty is tested when he has everything

@chiefalfredbiggie3253

4 жыл бұрын

Yo, so true. I f*@#cks with that statement.

@reginald6643

4 жыл бұрын

Am I the only one to get that I heard Royce DA 5'9 say this

@theleftphalange7588

4 жыл бұрын

PREACH IT BROTHA

@dragonkight64dragonslayer62

4 жыл бұрын

@@johnnormal1422 you're absolutely right I'm living proof

@alialahmad4329

4 жыл бұрын

John Normal it might be or might be not how do u know it wasn't

On the first year of dating, my husband lost his job and got into a depression after being unable to get re-employed. I supported him emotionally and financially for almost a year while he struggle in getting his licence as a registered dialysis nurse (career change). He eventually passed and got a job. Then I had to go back to school later on and he supported me. Now, we both have good paying jobs. Be patient with each other. Building life together does not happen overnight.

@sunny24t

3 жыл бұрын

Respect..

@sandysamuelman9205

3 жыл бұрын

Both have to be committed to the marriage for his to work. Much respect that you both were able to support each other. I married too young didn't know myself or may husband. I didn't even know he has a pretty severe disability undiagnosed he wasn't able to read and comprehend what he was trying to read. He needed to learn NFPA codes in order to keep his job and gain his certifications. I sat reading every code that was required reading ao boring 14 hours of non stop reading codes into a tape recorder so he could listen in his truck while driving to calls. He passed his test first try. I guess he also sold the tapes to friends so they could pass the tests too. Once his carers took off he began cheating feeling like this options were open.

@maylynbayani

3 жыл бұрын

@@sandysamuelman9205 that's sad. They did say that a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything and a woman's when her husband has nothing. But im hoping that the world will bring you happiness. Im a firm believer that kindness is always repaid.

@sandysamuelman9205

3 жыл бұрын

@@maylynbayani I am so much happier without him in my life. To be that young and gullible for the idea of love. I truly do understand why everyone said I was too young. Romeo and Juliet wasn't a love story in the end neither are most young couples. Usually one of not both don't realize what marriage actually is. You love in spite faults of not because of how you feel That is what love really is.

@erowo8767

3 жыл бұрын

@@shivasuresh5957 but why do men always have to let their ego get in the way, i don't mind paying for something if my man can't but why do they think you're trying to upstage them that way, you guys talk about wanting a woman who sticks with her man when he doesn't have money and contributes to bills and all that, but when you actually find a woman that makes good money maybe more than you, you run away cause of your egos.

5 years relationship was very good. Kept telling me how ''I was the one''. We were talking about marriage. Even though she had gained 100lbs and her libido was gone because of her medicines, I still loved her unconditionally. Even helped her pay her gastric bypass. Then I lost my job and my health got worst. She then left me. Now she's lost weight, has met a guy few months later that makes a lot more then me. That one hit deep. Really thought she was the one.

@axcvwy5220

Жыл бұрын

it's okay, look at it from a positive side. you dodged a bullet before marriage..

@driggo912

Жыл бұрын

Somebody once said: "Some people are as long in your life until you learned a specific lesson."

@Someone-qi1rr

Жыл бұрын

That's sadly. Life

i am a woman and i can tell you most of the ladies were not being very honest when answering lol

@Blatt.online

Жыл бұрын

Yha, but every adult knows that deep inside. Why can't they just admit the truth??

@digthewarmth

Жыл бұрын

No they were honest. I was thinking the true answer to the last question is A, but B has happened to my friends and is the truth. Most men want to feel needed and like they're providers and agree with A, and they do resent their women when they feel emasculated and can't live up to A. It's common.

@edwinmurimi5942

Жыл бұрын

and you are surprised. most of the women lie and they have done it so long that their first instinct is to lie. So if I am asked this thing about women steve should just not do it anymore. Let's talk about something like investments or men but not women

@jasminehouston-burns1691

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree. A lot of these questions seem to be answered favorably to the person answering them. Maybe some women/men do have the exact type of problems they claim but that ain't the truth for everybody answering them questions.

@datboi42

Жыл бұрын

@@Blatt.online because it would expose them as not perfect little innocent misunderstood angels who just have to deal with "mutt men" and show that they’re a huge part of the problem

So we “need” women’s approval for everything but if this was reversed women would say we are too controlling

@jorisbonson1990

4 жыл бұрын

Stay single brother

@1_Lando

4 жыл бұрын

Barrier Boy 💯💯💯

@mstwelvedeadlycyns

4 жыл бұрын

@Barrier Boy sex and procreation

@gaijin140

4 жыл бұрын

because it's called hypocrissy. Many women do that without noticing.

@asahmosskmf4639

4 жыл бұрын

@@mstwelvedeadlycyns artificial womb is coming. Im married. Trust me , there is barely any sex and definately no procreation 😂

"I have trust issues because my boyfriend bought an unapproved motorcycle." Your *BOYFRIEND* doesn't need your approval to buy a motorcycle.

@SpikeLanta

3 жыл бұрын

a real man takes what he wants and never let's anyone push him around!!

@tonyjones1560

3 жыл бұрын

I've got a job, live on my own, and can afford to drop $10,000 on a bike? Satan will die of frostbite in hell before I ask for "approval" or "permission" to do... anything.

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

3 жыл бұрын

I had that about a car. Dumped him, still have the HEMI.

@aphilipdent

3 жыл бұрын

Would she ask permission to get a $1000 designer handbag? Doubt it.

@johnowen9349

3 жыл бұрын

@Alina Temnenco Unless they have a shared budget, it doesn't matter if he spent a 100,000. It's his to spend. She's not an authority figure, she's not his money manager, she's his girlfriend.

My husband is currently in a point where he can't support us economically. I luckily got an internship that is paying a stipend and I really believe its only because of our situation that I even got the opportunity. I will support him no matter how long it Will be.

@shashvat.dwivedi

Жыл бұрын

You're a good person Atieno. May you and your husband sail through these tough times together and get all the happiness in life.

@greighenning9091

Жыл бұрын

Good for you! Wishing you the best.

@user-he5fd4bc2e

Жыл бұрын

❤️

@avelaziba9904

Жыл бұрын

keep on supporting him as ur enchor

@josiahbravo1649

Жыл бұрын

Thank you. There’s so much more to a relationship then finances. money can’t buy that emotional connection or sleeping alone or with someone that doesn’t feel the same about that you do for them.

So funny how all them ladies are not being honest lol

@someone-ji2zb

Жыл бұрын

Nope, and most of them never will be. We live in an era where most people don't want to be held accountable for anything.

Women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally.. Men are loved on the condition that they provide something

@rodw.9050

4 жыл бұрын

- Chris Rock

@vincel3266

4 жыл бұрын

BINGO

@jowazup1

4 жыл бұрын

and women are loved on the condition that they look hot. we are both superficial, just in different ways

@don8668

4 жыл бұрын

@@jowazup1 If guys cared so much about hotness, some women would never get married at all.

@jowazup1

4 жыл бұрын

Don some dont

If the scripts were flipped, and a guy said that his wife needs his approval to do stuff, everyone would be up in arms. They're just insecure as hell.

@BaseballCards35

8 жыл бұрын

+TraitorByTrade you're absolutely right....It probably wouldn't even air on television.

@staceykersting461

8 жыл бұрын

True, unless one spouse has a bad spending problem and the other's worried about losing the house or an equal disaster The only other thing I can think of is a medical emergency, where one wd be SO concerned about the other being OK. Still don't know why you YT guys are so ready to jump upand holler, "INEQUALITY". Just use a little common sense. For example, I'd be interested if anyone else cs thinl of a time when they'd want a snapchat of their spouse like they were talking about in the video. Let's work tghr.

@diyonnamiller5107

7 жыл бұрын

exactly

@thothheartmaat2833

7 жыл бұрын

we used to understand it was normal for a wife to do what her husband says now she thinks she's smart and gets to make the rules.. that doesn't work..

@patluvsvettes

7 жыл бұрын

Yep! Double standard. That's why as a guy I see no point in getting married. What's a woman bringing to the table that I can't get for myself?

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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The men knew they were lying, that's why they kept booing. Classic!

@efisgpr

7 жыл бұрын

yeah...SO obvious. This is pointless when they'll just lie about every answer.

@marxmanw3877

7 жыл бұрын

actually no they weren't you think that because your not a man

@mikewilliamsjudo6160

7 жыл бұрын

heehee mefunny Smh...shift all the blame why don't ya

@kiararose3499

7 жыл бұрын

heehee mefunny Exactly

@fidelisbekong9954

7 жыл бұрын

@heehee, women don't mind being broke because society puts little to no pressure on them to be providers. Men have been told since back when that they are providers and it makes a man feel really worthless when he can't provide for his family.

I've never seen such a large group of ppl lie simultaneously.

@reneemyricks4306

4 жыл бұрын

I agree

@afrodude4782

4 жыл бұрын

@Toni Gee oh im fully aware. But on this level? It goes to show women are fully aware of their fuckery and are willing to back each other up to not let the secret out. Its like women who claim to not be a feminist, but still reach to grab the benefits that feminism has brought them. Its disingenuous

@Jaslath

4 жыл бұрын

@@afrodude4782 Congress is bigger. Lol.

@nettybm6833

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@jasonasdecker

4 жыл бұрын

That is exactly what I was thinking.

I LOVE being single. All I need is to see this once a year.

I really wish Steve is still doing these shows plus his tv shows. Steve is the real deal and I have major respect for this man. A great man!

@DmanDice

Жыл бұрын

yeah pandering to feminists..

@samuraixyz22

Жыл бұрын

Same here.

@MonumentalDong

Жыл бұрын

Steve literally left his wife and son to pursue his comedy career. great man my ass 😂

@itsyagirlnatasha2158

Жыл бұрын

@@MonumentalDong Nobody is perfect but look at where Steve is now. His family never has to work again.

@MonumentalDong

Жыл бұрын

@@itsyagirlnatasha2158 His kid grew up without a father

I am a grown MAN I don't need anyone to approve of what I am doing, IF the women does NOT trust me then she needs to find someone else.... I know I move on pretty quick when a women thinks she needs to know every single thing I do...

@ChiBoomyBoom

8 жыл бұрын

+stevemccollum2011 I'm going to get some flack for this. But, I agree with you completely. My boyfriend is a grown a*s man. If he wants to use HIS money to buy something go for it. If we are sharing a bank account though, it becomes a 50/50 decision.

@caramelveganprincess6389

8 жыл бұрын

Well, tell us how you really feel! lol I agree with you.

@llgla

8 жыл бұрын

+stevemccollum2011 I understand your point if you're a man who think it through before you purchase something. If you're a man who likes to buy expensive toys out of impulse which you might not be able to afford and would often regret later, what do you expect your girlfriend to do? Let you feel the pain first?

@llgla

8 жыл бұрын

Some couples would agree on a financial goal for their family, say they want a new house, so they create a shared bank account and would hold each other accountable to the percentage of salary put inside per month.

@llgla

8 жыл бұрын

It's called financial planning. Some couples have to be serious in finances otherwise they would spend their salary away on shopping, games, beers, etc. Some couples are poor thus they have to be serious in making sure they have enough for rent and grocery and some savings for rainy days.

“Fellas, if you lose your job, you’re going to lose your girl. She may not leave you the day you lose it but the countdown has begun.” -Chris Rock

@hihaters2004

3 жыл бұрын

100

@gthrusterg2858

3 жыл бұрын

Well, you just might lose your life if you dont have income, how would you buy yourself food?

@ericruiz1036

3 жыл бұрын

Bwaaaahahahaha!!!! 😝😅

@lawlessx9

3 жыл бұрын

Facts..and everyone knows it. Meanwhile a women can lose her job and the guy is just supposed to carry the extra load with no fuss..no complaining..because he loves her right? But if he lost his job you best believe she's already thinking about her options

@marlonmoncrieffe0728

3 жыл бұрын

There was an eye-opening episode of the brilliant sitcom, 'Designing Women,' where one of the very liberal characters is shocked and ashamed that she is no longer attracted to her recently laid-off boyfriend, despite the fact that he picked up all the domestic duties without complaint.

"They don't need your approval." A well-deserved a standing ovation.

Some women say that they would be there regardless, for their husband or long-term boyfriend, but let me ask you this, Had that just been a guy you met? Would you still consider seeing him? despite his financial and emotional hardship? It seems like the only woman that cares about my emotional problems is my own mother

@digthewarmth

Жыл бұрын

No, I wouldn't date a guy if I learned at the start that he isn't financially where I am. It's not worth making him feel ashamed that he can't afford places I want to/normally go to.

@DCD762

Жыл бұрын

@@digthewarmth that's unfortunately where you went wrong. A man proves his loyalty to a woman when he has everything... A woman proves her loyalty to a man when he has nothing... Your choice only shows you are not ready to be in a relationship with a real worthwhile man that will stand by you on good and bad. Only true relationships where money is not the most important survive... Everything else is just waste of time

@AnonymousGuy12

Жыл бұрын

​@@digthewarmth i guess you would be with him happily when he makes more than you😂

so.. basically a man should provide for someone who controls every aspect of his life... yeaahhh.. nah we equal baby

@sosmcs

8 жыл бұрын

#foreversingle #womendonltcontroleveryaspectofamanslife

@Kyosuke700

8 жыл бұрын

that whole thing about man should provide people realize that it takes both people to get the job done instead one person doing the job by them self and another thing u cant really say that all man lash out cause not all man are the same

@ConsiderTheCrows

8 жыл бұрын

When you're an idiot, then she has to take the wheel.

@marishlong7098

8 жыл бұрын

+Bunny Fuffle Nubbles LOL at those women lying. Women who leave men based on finances believe men should provide for them lol. I hear women talk they know it's true lol. I'm one of the few women who married my broke husband out of love. Now that he is a success the same women telling me I was stupid for marrying him are now envious of me lol.

@gr8guy900

8 жыл бұрын

+Sage Hawk would you let your woman take the wheel ? because in here men are pictured as all idiots which is not fair .

If a woman leaves because of struggles happening, YOU DODGED A BULLET

@dincerekin

3 жыл бұрын

getting divorce raped is dodging a bullet? dayum

@HN-bv7li

3 жыл бұрын

paying child support is not dodging a bullet bro

@gabrialblast2007

3 жыл бұрын

@@HN-bv7li 1. What they hell are you talking about? 2. If he has to pay you child support, then by all means, I hope he's not your man. Not being relationship with a woman like that, he 10 times dodged a bullet.

I was in two different relationships where as soon as she felt that I wasn't as successful in my career as I should have been, she was out. No lashing out required.

The questions aren’t given the opportunity to be honestly answered. The answers are framed.

"Oh you don't have money no more? F*** this I'm gonna find another person to leech off of!"

@efisgpr

7 жыл бұрын

yep...the actual truth

@jlewsd

7 жыл бұрын

this is unfortunately how majority of women think

@LVCWHITEBOY

7 жыл бұрын

lmfao amen

@vanaphill2454

7 жыл бұрын

No, it's "Oh you don't have money no more? Well I can't pay for you and me. Later.

@TheBangTV

7 жыл бұрын

Leeches! LOL.

My ex left me when I had lost everything lol. After several years and building several successful businesses, she popped right in my DM's asking how I was doing and asked to meet up again. What a parasite.

@praisedsnake907

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you met up with her and stuck her with a bill

@DrCalviny

2 жыл бұрын

@@praisedsnake907 Hahhahaha would have been great, Douchey but great.

@misteromega5354

2 жыл бұрын

Hey man congrats. Its good to hear your doing better after that BS. Its better to just stay single honestly. We are viewed as nothing more than a bank in todays age. Hope things are going well

@faismasterx

2 жыл бұрын

​@@DrCalviny It ain't douchey when someone truly deserves it.

@DrCalviny

2 жыл бұрын

@@misteromega5354 yeah, understood. I'm married now with someone who thought I was broke for 3 years yet stuck with me.

I could honestly say that my step-dad getting laid off from his career (and not being able to get back in even 10 years yes later) killed my parent’s marriage (or at least that’s what started it)

Women are financially very capable today

@redclover7105

Жыл бұрын

true

@leo-wr6do

Жыл бұрын

Very true....but still won't reach for the check or a utility bill.

@sadmanrafi5503

Жыл бұрын

and still they can;t stop running. Might aswell buy them a trademill

And people wonder why many men are afraid to get married.

@deenadream

4 жыл бұрын

FA S understood

@bestfly8558

4 жыл бұрын

Its a good thing less and less people get married at all. Be free.

@truongthuylan1990

4 жыл бұрын

FA S Because women today don't want to marry men. Do you think women want to get married?

@imrickjamesbitch6574

4 жыл бұрын

Lan Phạm thị Uhh yes. But y’all don’t want a marriage, just a wedding.

@drenee1416

4 жыл бұрын

@@imrickjamesbitch6574 .. now this is true for a lot of women.

I'm a girl and I know damn well these women only picked the answer that would not make them look so bad, all their answers put blame on the guys . That's what people do though

@williamharrison2757

7 жыл бұрын

Both b and c are essential the same answer. If someone finds themselves reacting this way in a situation the should walk away because it's already over

@Yahreshohn

7 жыл бұрын

That's what women do :)

@motina10

6 жыл бұрын

William Harrison, For both questions. One is what their reaction is(untrustworthy/loser), and the other answer is their rationalization of the situation (he needs my approval/he is upset). And their rationalization does not make the situation any better. Needing approval is condescending, and saying he gets upset is invalidating.

@giopuriromano98

6 жыл бұрын

"That's what women do tough"

@liandel

6 жыл бұрын

Men have died and still are dying so they dont break their ethics. From prisons to even protecting their home. Its something women do and somehow feel ok when they trash the very core of human nature

Steve has a great way of understanding human psychology

And this is why I decided to stay single after my last relationship

Ever notice in a relationship how the money she makes is HER money, But the money you make is OUR money?

@josephhage9377

3 жыл бұрын

That is the women’s creed They live and die by it

@chottabeamm

3 жыл бұрын

I smell lenin lurking in the corner

@metallboy25

3 жыл бұрын

Only if you let her. My girl pays half of everything, rent, food, bills even gas. I told her right from the start, " I do not date freeloaders. If you want to be with me, you have to pull your weight."

@Jay-og4yb

3 жыл бұрын

@@metallboy25 and whether they believe it or not... Your gfs going to love you forever because that's acting like a boss

@juainott5281

3 жыл бұрын

Same for the relationship, it's not our relationship its HER relationship. A sheila thinks and acts like that, you should run.

Most of the survey the women are lying.

@salmanesultane3482

7 жыл бұрын

Women lie all the time ; this is Mother Nature to survive at best .

@TheBangTV

7 жыл бұрын

LOL.

@efisgpr

7 жыл бұрын

Most times in LIFE lmao.. .

@Dres_Anatomy

7 жыл бұрын

Hell Yea! Women ALWAYS make themselves sound practical & simple. Lies

@sim6699

7 жыл бұрын

I agree

"In sickness and health. For richer or poorer." So soon they forget.

@mark9294

Жыл бұрын

Yep. Took her only a couple of months

As men, we are wired to play egoistic and providers ...

"you lash out at us" = playing the victim

@nickelhunter3129

6 жыл бұрын

Just look at the questions, it's obvious that they were pushing towards a certain answer.

40% of women said "you become a loser" "a guy must provide" that is insanely high and concerning.... 40% of women basically want to be taken care of like princess not work stay home.. If ur gonna say housewife is a job well its not its a privilege if ur man comes one day and tells u he wants to be a stay home dad and take of the kids would u be ok with it.... there u go.

@Kyosuke700

8 жыл бұрын

to me i dont think stay at home is like a job at all reason y is because your not being told what to do for 7 hours straight

@nofybn7794

8 жыл бұрын

+Takashi please, women don't want to. It's because of men who have made it that way since the beginning. Women are not taken care of like princess, women do all the housework yet don't get any reward of the house.

@jamesrandles6514

8 жыл бұрын

+samantha wilson I know a few women who have basically do no work around the house. They'll clean clothes every once in a while but they don't know how to cook they are to lazy to even clean there own house. So what i'm saying is don't complain if you have to stay home and clean all day if you don't want to do that you be the breadwinner. You need to do something in the relationship it takes two to run a relationship.

@nofybn7794

8 жыл бұрын

James Randles That doesn't mean that most women don't do any work. Sorry. Most women do A LOT of work around the house.

@jamesrandles6514

8 жыл бұрын

samantha wilson That's not the point. The point is don't complain about your role in the relationship if you decided to be a house wife then you do normal house wife things like looking after the house. Meanwhile the breadwinner goes and makes money. Not that difficult to understand

When I got my first job my mom made me give her all my money, as she said I owed her for raising me. If I didn't pay her she would have kicked me out, she wouldn't even let me have a phone even though I had to pay her and my sister's phone bill. I tried to move in with friends but I had no money even though I had a job. This is common with black moms, I had a few friends who's moms did the same thing, it makes us realize why our dads left.

When my husband lost his job I stayed...but he is a habitual job loss. So many times he had good job and self sabotaged. His mental health needs help...but if he's not willing to do what is necessary he will repeat it. I've supported him by returning back to work, homeschooled our children, went to counseling with him and he still hasn't gotten it together. 15 years later, I'm out. It's not on me or the kids...he's almost 50 and won't stop the train wreck. We have 4 small kids.

@Opal5674

Жыл бұрын

Well Inwoukdnt have kept having babies with a man that could get his crap together. Never understood why women do that. When I realized after my first child my ex was like your soon to be ex I locked down my uterus with an IUD. That being said good for you for finally leaving. 👏 It's so completely disappointing that these grown men from 25 to 50+ can't get their crap together and adult Oh ya my ex at 40 now says he's a woman so isn't that just a fine example for our soon to be going through puberty son

@loveoneanother133

Жыл бұрын

@@Opal5674 wow. Be strong. I will pray for yall.

@Peglegkickboxer

Жыл бұрын

You were with him for at least 15 years knowing this and decided to have kids with him? Now you bail because it's convenient for you and you plan to destroy the lives of your kids? Plus you're probably going to take everything from him and demand child support (or he goes to jail), and you women wonder why men don't want to get married. You're what's wrong with society.

@Opal5674

Жыл бұрын

@@Peglegkickboxer Lmao she just said he didn't work for 15 years and she's been the one supporting him. What do you think he has that's actually his for her to take and what makes you think losing a usless deadbeat thay won't work is going to destroy kids lives lmao. Men think just gracing a family with his presence is enough. If she was looking for convenient she would have left long ago. She gave him too many chances already.

@Peglegkickboxer

Жыл бұрын

@@Opal5674 her paragraph isn't clear if he's been on and off the jobs for 15 years or jobless for 15 years. If he has been jobless for 15 years then that's even worse, why would she have kids with a jobless guy, especially if it's so bad that she has to go back to work. If not that he must be making good money for her not have to work while he was bouncing from job to job, then there's more to this story. Clearly there's not thought for the children just two selfish "parents".

“only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally,” whereas “a man is only loved under the condition that he provide something" - Chris Rock

@rithwiksingh3156

3 жыл бұрын

Lol that's why i hate kids.

@formidablefoe157

3 жыл бұрын

@@rithwiksingh3156 yeah

@catarina81

3 жыл бұрын

not really, if a woman gets fat the guy will dump her

@DanielDouglas555

3 жыл бұрын

@@assi4237 according to who? You? LMAO.

@DanielDouglas555

3 жыл бұрын

@@assi4237 show me the stats to back up your claim.

“To approve of what you’re doing” its either a lie or a nicer way to say they dont trust you

@lonewaer

4 жыл бұрын

The answers to B and C can basically be clumped together. Just those who answer B own up to that, because it is exactly that, and those who answered C are lying. Why do they want to give their approval if not because they don't trust their guy ? It's exactly why.

@gabrialblast2007

4 жыл бұрын

FACTS!!!

@Deb_deCoder

4 жыл бұрын

Guys do not marry a woman. Go MGTOW. For all of the great Big John's MGTOW videos go to : www.bitchute.com/channel/DmlvhGJ48LNg/

@APsupportsTerrorism

4 жыл бұрын

There's a hidden element to C. They think any moment a guy isn't hustling, he's failing them. See the original topic of the discussion... she wants the $$$ and status, and too often we're just a vehicle to accomplish that. The type that freaks out if your hobbies aren't "constructive" to the bank account. Or answer "nothing" next time she asks what you're doing... they hate that... nothing ? nothing !? You could be working her honey-do list... We just slave labor... and they ain't even loyal.

@jaemane1

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

A real man’s purpose is to provide for his family. When he finds himself in a situation where he is struggling, in his mind he is failing you. This more often than not is where most men become vulnerable and weak and look to their partner for support. But that support rarely ever comes. The moment you show any sign of weakness or lack of being able to facilitate a womens dreams you are done. She already looking for the next man, if she doesn’t already have one ready to sub into the game.

Funny story. I've been married for 4 years now, and I supported my wife totally for the entirety of our marriage. She didn't had to work at all, I paid for everything. She decided to study, so I paid for that as well. Now she just started working, and even thought she's no making tons a money, she receives a rent allowance from her job to cover rent as a tax-free money deal. She asked me for the rental agreement we have so she could prove she was paying rent to access the benefit. This money gets deposited directly to her bank account. I honestly thought she was going to pay for the rent, now that I am struggling a bit with work. After she asked for the document, she said she was going to pay half of the rent only. I still pay for all bills, groceries and all else. 😂

@nwadazieizuchukwu4917

Жыл бұрын

I think u have to sit her down and let her see reasons why she should pay the rent, selfishness grows if u continue feeding it or curtail it. Dnt wait until ure down to realise this. My opinion though

@HoneyBunny.

Жыл бұрын

You need to let her know how this situation makes you feel. Lay it on her like you did here. If you guys are married, then she shouldn't have a problem with helping you out financially, ESPECIALLY if she WANTED to work, and you supported her in her dream financially and otherwise so she could have the good job she got in the first place.

@Tarron_Innovative_World

6 ай бұрын

It baffles me why relationships are so difficult. Getting the right relationship is always so difficult for reasons I don't know. If a lady is selfless, the guy may be selfish and vice versa. If you are lucky to have a good partner please don't joke with it.

A woman once told me she was looking for love, I said they make movies for that

@graciousharry7580

3 жыл бұрын

So you think women only want money

@blakenorman6281

3 жыл бұрын

Ok nice guy

@qvCELESTIAL

3 жыл бұрын

10/10

@stephaniep1761

3 жыл бұрын

A man once told me he needed sex. I told him they make porn for that.

@brownie6933

3 жыл бұрын

@@graciousharry7580 most of them do

If men ran from women with financial problems damn near all of us would be single

@condew6103

5 жыл бұрын

I have herd from at least 3 buddies how they paid off her credit card debt when they married. That's like a $30,000 financial gain for her on day one. Do they take that into account when they divorce, that he came in with savings and she came in with debt? No, she still expects half of everything, maybe more.

@salemsaberhagen8390

5 жыл бұрын

they also need to take into account the time she spent under a roof he provided basically how just like how a hotel would have cost for the amount of time she lived there, if anything it should be the woman that owes the man in these situations.

@r3sianon975

5 жыл бұрын

Damn truth

@denergized7993

5 жыл бұрын

Karina Peters, won't have sex? Wow! using sex as a weapon and power tool. Withholding sex as a form of punishment because of reduced earnings whereas the man can't buy her what she wants. Notice, I didn't say what she needs.

@denergized7993

5 жыл бұрын

Karina Peters does that truly justify lesbianism?

This is very very correct when a man is not where he wants to be financially he feels ashamed and he may lash out or not be his best emotionally. My daughter I didn’t go to her dress fitting for her wedding.I’m having a lot of health issues , and a lot of pain and I’m financially struggling temporarily thank God because I’m not able to work as much as I would like I told her I feel ashamed I’m not where I want to be .I feel like I don’t have anything to offer you. I can’t even help financially. She said mom I just wanted you there I told her please don’t take it personal I am in a bad place , in a lot of pain,and I isolate and take a step back so I don’t make everybody else around me miserable. I can relate to how men feel when they’re not where they want to be financially.

@melaninbotswana2474

Жыл бұрын

And for the most part especially for men that's the time they really get a lot of disrespect from society as a whole 💯 am currently in that situation and I have really taken a distance from people am alone for the most part even when am with my fiance am alone because she doesn't get it ,when ever I get a little I will always prioritize buying something in the house than let's say go to the barber to cut my hair because as a man your dignity and respect you only get it on condition that you can provide 💯 the love you get for the most part always seems like is based on conditions

May God always bless your mother Mr. Steve You are such an incredible man, all I wish I could become

I did security in a bar. Woman like men with money period.

@afisemenaborevlaka48

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe the women who go to bars. 😁

@Jez2008UK

5 жыл бұрын

Bro', those are hookers.

@jeffrosko6322

5 жыл бұрын

Hue hefner had parents gladly giving their daughters away. Probably was cause he was a really nice guy.

@marcilk7534

5 жыл бұрын

I don’t. But I also don’t generally hang out at bars since I don’t drink.

@biobelewilliam-west1310

5 жыл бұрын

Jez2008UK hookers are very thirsty and cheaper than a “girlfriend” or “wife”🥃🍷🍸🏦💵💵💳💰💰💵💎

Asking women about relationship advice is like asking a blind man to describe colors

@mrvideosound7693

6 жыл бұрын

Iuo Masou lol

@balqeesal_khwaitem3653

6 жыл бұрын

Iuo Masou no one can give anyone advice. When it comes to relationships everyone have to fugr out what beast for them.

@jetaddict420

5 жыл бұрын

@Codec Pryme amen

@mirandastyles89

5 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@nofybn7794

5 жыл бұрын

SEXIST and wrong. It's the other way around.

Love the way Steve is handling the forum. Lovely!

These Episodes are fantastic

every single one of those guys said in their head "thats a lie".

@dustinhenderson6434

4 жыл бұрын

You can see the second guys body language go "wtf that doesn't even make sense" after the womens answers appeared.

@BrokTheLoneWolf

4 жыл бұрын

Obviously

@tearealdavis2212

4 жыл бұрын

Both b and c for me

@ranip7644

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a woman and even I will admit that was a lie. It's both A and C.

Those women literally chose the most politically correct answer. Shoulda hooked em all up on poligraphs.

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp

3 жыл бұрын

I would love to see a show like that. Both sexes strapped to polygraphs.

@andrewbradley3305

3 жыл бұрын

This show is the biggest proof that you can trust men to tell you the truth but never women

@curtisbrearley1111

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@rainbowreaper4801

3 жыл бұрын

@@andrewbradley3305 Well that's not sexist at all... 😂

@andrewbradley3305

3 жыл бұрын

@@rainbowreaper4801 That’s female language. It’s not sexism or anything like that. It’s the truth

Been married twice. 15 years first one 10 the second. Always made good money, first wife did work but said it was because she wanted to. I didn't want her to but eventually gave in. She eventually 'met someone' on the job and split with him leaving me with our son to care for. Seven years later I met another woman who was a bit younger but never married and no kids. She never had to work and avoided it like plague. About 8-9 years in SHE 'met someone' online on the computer and left to run off with that guy. Both their relationships crashed after and I got the I'm so sorry phone calls but I had moved on. Doubt I'll re-marry. But after all of it I have this observation to share: A woman is like a passenger on a ship (the man) on the deep ocean. She may jump onto another passing ship but she will rarely to never jump off in the middle of the ocean.

@ladymarrero617

Жыл бұрын

Wow, Sorry to hear that. My husband and I are traditional people. Old school of the sort. I'm a homemaker and gave up nursing to care, nurture, and support my husband and our children. It has its UPS and downs. One thing I can say whatever money I brought in was "Ours" not mine. I guess some modern women do not understand what it means to let a man be a man, and women need to be women. Smh. I don't know. I pray you will meet a woman who is very very different from the last two.

@loveoneanother133

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Have you thought of any signs that mightve been present before marrying that you ignored?

@ntvypr4820

Жыл бұрын

@@ladymarrero617 Thank you for that. I thought my first wife and I (15 years) were the old school type too. In those days (early 80's) everyone we knew was a two paycheck family. Like I said though I did not want her to work I wanted the thing I grew up with, guy goes to work woman takes care of the house and kids. But about 2 years in she started saying she was bored. And after her kinda beating on me like that a few months I gave in. She had a standing offer of a job since we married as a secretary. So she went. BTW whatever we made was always "our' money. I always brought my check home and gave it to her and I understood MY check went first to pay the bills. She held the checkbook and I just got one when I needed it. We had a son at the three year mark but by the time she'd been working 8-9 years I started hearing the opposite: I'm tired, I don't want to get up at 6 am etc. So I began to get things set up so she could just come home. a year or so later her side squeeze on that job got fired. he was just a dolt that worked on a loading dock. I was a deputy sheriff at this point and came home from night shift and half the house was gone. Couldn't live without him she said. I had never failed, never did her wrong, did not drink smoke or run around and never went to bars and stuff. Always just came home. Took me 7 years to meet another but it crashed because of the internet. One thing I noticed both of them worried themselves sick about what they were afraid I was doing the first five years or so. By the time they figured out I really wasn't up to anything that's when they started going wrong. Thanks for your thoughts but I don't think I can do all that again. Good luck to yours. When Marriage works it's the greatest thing on earth.

@ntvypr4820

Жыл бұрын

@@loveoneanother133 Yeah, they were both gorgeous. Ever hear of the old Dr. Hook song "When you're in love with a Beautiful woman"? Well the axiom is true. You have to watch everyone else because they are constantly getting hit on from the outside. If it goes on long enough I think they wonder if something is better elsewhere. The first one, I NEVER thought she'd do such a thing. The second grew up about 17 years after me so she came from the more current generation and I have to say they are freer than the ones I grew up with. I guess it was inevitable. Not a shrink but I think a lot of women have this internal clock that tells them they have like from 18-33 or so to sell to the highest bidder. And even if the other offer is not necessarily better by 28-29 they start to think is this all there is? And jump. All I know is I never abused, hurt or cheated on either. All I ever wanted was to be happily married. I loved being married. When it works its a gift from God. Thank you for your comment.

@loveoneanother133

Жыл бұрын

@@ntvypr4820 hmmm. Interesting theory.. Thanks for sharing. Sorry about the troubles youve gone through... I hope you find someone that loves you equally, if you are still in pursuit of being married..

One of the best videos that I've watched. Thank you for the insights

i would rather be single than have some woman who only loves me when im doing good.

@johndavis6719

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@princejiminofbusan9209

3 жыл бұрын

A broke man should not date and also men have standards so let us have them too

@gammaphoenix5893

3 жыл бұрын

@@princejiminofbusan9209 Yes we have standards. But they are not as demanding as yours are. We just want someone that is physically normal and cares about her own health and wouldn't leave me when I am at my worst. If you leave your man when he is going through a financial crisis. You don't deserve him when he is back stronger than ever.

@ryanj357

3 жыл бұрын

@@princejiminofbusan9209 Marriage is a vow. Till love do us part, for better or for worse, for RICHER OR FOR POOR. It's in the marriage laws and It's what you sign up for. If all you care about is money then you belong to the streets.

@bibinthomas5282

3 жыл бұрын

@@princejiminofbusan9209 for ur knowledge,we wouldn't fkin care if u aren't pretty

The men are grumbling because unless you helped him earn that $10 grand that he just spent on a motorcycle, then you have absolutely NO right to complain about it.

@bpaige12

6 жыл бұрын

patluvsvettes exactly chicks feel all your money is hers and her money is hers

@cornellgreen3692

5 жыл бұрын

bpaige12 They have the same mentality: What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine. They want to come off the streets and do nothing and still think that they deserve what amounts to a Super Bowl ring. No thanks: I'll make like Pete Carroll and pass.

wow Steve is really doing a marvelous job at advocating for the men in their weakest. not all men are capable of conveying what they really feel. Thanks a lot steve for your amazing support.

Everyone wants equality till it comes to pay bills. All genders are equal till it comes to sharing responsibilities. Black is everyone's favorite color till it comes to the skin.

so he needs her permission to buy something with his hard earned money? That right there is the problem

@dougdimmadomeownerofthedim2918

6 жыл бұрын

Who said it was all his money? Even it was spending recklessly is not ideal regardless of the gender.

@Pinky_Piie

6 жыл бұрын

ツNo Face well if it IS his money he can spend it however he likes and the women should then have to ask for permission instead. It’s like women think they own your money when they really don’t

@dougdimmadomeownerofthedim2918

6 жыл бұрын

Imersiion Yeah he could, however, if HIS spending is reckless then it's only fair for his spouse to confront him. No different than gambling issues.

@Pinky_Piie

6 жыл бұрын

ツNo Face oh ye I get the bit about him going overboard on the spending even if it’s his money but I’d still say she would need to ask permission to get some money from him

@dougdimmadomeownerofthedim2918

6 жыл бұрын

Imersiion I don't think she ever said she was borrowing money from him, but if that was the case and they weren't sharing then yah she should ask for permission.

looks like we know who is too controlling in most relationship , dumb lady said he bought a $10,000 Toy 1. whose money was it ? defintely wasn't her's 2. Women use the word "Toy" as a tactic to shame us men for buying the things we like , she sure won't mind if he bought her a $10,000 diamond ring .

@christiantroy90210

4 жыл бұрын

100%

@Stupid33

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@capitalt348

3 жыл бұрын

And she used the word "Unauthorized". Unauthorized by who - her?

@lawlessx9

3 жыл бұрын

@@capitalt348 sounds like she thought she had total control of HIS money

@capitalt348

3 жыл бұрын

@@lawlessx9 Thought and believed. His fault too for giving her those ideas, though

I'm normally the type that won't comment at such; But honestly this whole show and way things were broken down is a 100% for me, plus Mr Steve Harvey can be said to be a genius at the way he understands and explains out these men's characters/attributes. They should do much more of this... God bless!

Wow! I'll try, especially the part of saying no to somethings. Thanks Jessy for this

This was so damn funny every time the men went ‘BOOOOOOO’ It was so funny bc they knew the women were lying.

@Stupid33

3 жыл бұрын

@8balln8 killingu65 5 percent tho? Its actually more often than not.

Why do women hate us for having a simple life with a sofa a tv a fridge and a console

@davidbolha

3 жыл бұрын

& 20 TB of 720p pr0n. 😂😎 You forgot that.

@funnyvalentine601

3 жыл бұрын

David Bolha yeah i did

@Haseeb10008

3 жыл бұрын

Bcoz that bitchs love money and materials

@Michael1234567860

3 жыл бұрын

Because it’s impossible to satisfy the average woman. Women hate just how little it takes for us to be happy

@judybash9393

3 жыл бұрын

They don't like to see us happy

Thank god my wife is a loyal piece of diamond 🙏

Kudos Steve for nailing down both the questions.

I put my ex to the test and she failed. I just acted like I had no money for about a month or so and we broke up.

@sparkleprizm199

7 жыл бұрын

that's clever

@jakkrit6910

6 жыл бұрын

Every man should do this atlest once 🙋🙋

@ashonzayfulton7371

6 жыл бұрын

Mafasa Almafasa basically

@awesome9174

6 жыл бұрын

Scarly Al Bloushi Let me know how that goes lol

@awesome9174

6 жыл бұрын

Scarly Al Bloushi lol good. She's a keeper!

The next question should have been.. Why do women lie so much ?

@Gumbier_Than

7 жыл бұрын

Nikhil Sharma Like how some men lie to get a woman into bed?

@Gumbier_Than

7 жыл бұрын

Not this one.

@tanyabanks1918

7 жыл бұрын

Nikhil Sharma hahaha

@bhaskarmaity2890

6 жыл бұрын

Because they are women.

@andreasrasmussen6362

6 жыл бұрын

Nikhil i lie a shitton more than my girl lol, its individual.

Thank you. Thank you uncle Steve.

I came for the second guy from TikTok because that video cut out right before I could get a answer. Im glad I came because that answer is the truth. Steve is a man of wisdom

I had financial problems and I left my wife after 20 years of marriage, because she was the financial problems. She always telling me I never made enough No matter how much I made or how many hours I worked. I gave her all my love and all my money and she couldn't respect it. Now I raise my 2 teenage kids all by myself With out any assistance from her, she's a dead beat. She didn't even call her kids on Christmas. Now I have plenty of money in the bank. I bought me a nice red challenge super bee and a lifted 4 door Jeep Rubicon and I can afford everything now without her controlling my finances. Also I live in a bigger nicer house And my kids are very happy. They have everything they need and a lot of what they want. She was my financial problem I should left her years ago. "MGTOW" I will never let another woman rest her toothbrush in my house ever again!

@northern_moss

5 жыл бұрын

@mike Kins Man, ... I think you're richer than most guys made out. Even if you didn't turn out to earn a solid income... you got your kids. Way to get it done brother.

@mikekins6545

5 жыл бұрын

@@northern_moss tks. You're right.

@don8668

5 жыл бұрын

It is called addition by subtraction.

@c0cochan3l29

5 жыл бұрын

Mike Kins as a woman I’m saying I’m proud of you

@matthewgaines10

5 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't make it with this woman 20 days; forget about 20 years. I don't know why you would do this to yourself.

I'm sorry but 71%of these ladies are alone with no Damm person next to them in bed

@antonchigur4299

7 жыл бұрын

They're holding out for superman because they got 10 plus 'like'(s) on their ig selfies and overvalued their worth; it's now up their next to the queen of England

@robbiewilliams8184

7 жыл бұрын

ya right lol

@rickyw9920

7 жыл бұрын

Reаlly Hоt Girls => twitter.com/3b983e530ca72d9e4/status/801992405775826944 Whу dо wоmeееn run whеn mеn have finаnсiаl prоblеms SТЕVE HARVЕY

@ChaoticButterfly

7 жыл бұрын

Oh, many of them probably do. Some of them may, in fact, be married, in which case "I" becomes "WE," and the guy needs to actually take into account things that affect the "US" and the home more than just "him."

@philtube1ful

7 жыл бұрын

hey paula , I'll bet YOU do not sleep alone, cutie.

I just love Steve’s wisdom

@golfgood456

Жыл бұрын

Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

I think many times men absolutely do lash out when they are struggling financially and that absolutely can be the reason moreso than the finances for why they leave. But some women absolutely leave a man because of the financial situation. My father dated my stepmom for over 2 years before they got married. After 6 months of dating, the company she worked for folded and she struggled to find work again. My father helped her pay her bills but after a couple months, the money just wasn't there. Shed gone through her savings and my father was a single dad with 3 kids to take care of. So when she got an eviction notice, he was like you know what, why don't you move in? The kids love you, I love you and it'd be nice to have a woman in the house again not just for me but my kids, my daughter especially. So she moved in and for the next year, my dad provided for all of us while she struggled to find work. She got a couple jobs that didn't last very long because they either were too many hours for too little pay or, one time, her boss was an A-hole. But eventually, she landed a fantastic job with a great company. They ended up getting married shortly after in a beach destination wedding that my father paid for, not only for all of us and the wedding costs, but he also paid for several of her family members and friends who could not afford the trip. Which, cool, if you have a destination wedding then you should be willing to pay for a couple rooms and travel for some of your close relatives that are tight on money. But she was the one that wanted this wedding and he was happy to do this. Well, they are married for 6 years and everything is great. And then my dad got sick and it disabled him to where he couldn't work like he used to. By this point, my stepmother was the second highest boss in her company right under the owner. Money wasn't an issue, they were able to handle it. He tried to continue working full time but he suffered a severe relapse and that was it. He started applying for disability but that takes a long time, especially for a man in his mid 40s. So all of the sudden, she was the only person working and making money. Well, long story short, she got more and more stingy, she tried to refuse to have a normal Christmas even though they could easily afford it so my dad went and got himself a job just so he could give us kids a normal Christmas, she started staying out at bars all night and eventually, she left. And no, my father was not snapping at her, he actually started doing all the housework, the yardwork, took care of everything to where all she had to do was work, come home and eat a hot meal ready for her on the table every night. But when she left, she had the nerve to suggest my father was faking the severity of his disability (the man had only 55% lung function) and taking advantage of HER...I love her still, she was the woman who helped raise me from the time I was 8 til I was 18. But that really changed everybody's relationship with, and opinion of, her except for maybe her father and the few people she could convince that she wasnt the problem. She even tried to take my father's house that he bought with his dead wife (my mother), took half of everything in the house when much of it was actually my mother's stuff and make no mistake, she didn't pay a single mortgage payment until the last few months of their relationship and certainly didn't pay for nothing except her own vehicle. My father died about 10 years after their divorce and it was hard for me to forgive her. But I have seen firsthand men that snap on women when they aren't the breadwinner so I know this isn't always the case.

@erickkwanga1314

Жыл бұрын

Sorry for what you have been through. Your story has touched my heart so much

Why do ladies lose interest when men struggle financially? -> Because those men generate no *interest*.

@purebloodirishman9389

6 жыл бұрын

Brill

@moonshine9964

6 жыл бұрын

MGTOW Monk BOSS STATEMENT

@dominicnarorrga9089

6 жыл бұрын

MGTOW Monk thug life

@triplenaruto1

6 жыл бұрын

Can't use a man with no money

@mynameisbob7059

6 жыл бұрын

Men debate women rebate

Women who leave their man due to finances, all that mattered to them was materialistic things. At some point my husband had just £10 in the bank, did I leave him, no ofcourse not. I supported him in everything and every decision. After a couple of months things got better, his situation changed. Years later we now have our own home and a wonderful baby. If anything goes wrong again, I am down for my man.

@esiom8810

5 жыл бұрын

He caught a good one.

@JakeGuitarMusic

5 жыл бұрын

You’re a good wife. Even during hard times, you are looking out for your husband. I want a wife like you some day 😃😃.

@kenyattamiles3226

5 жыл бұрын

I salute you!

@keithhinchcliffe4377

5 жыл бұрын

are you built like the other Salma? sorry ...

@kledmohd4230

5 жыл бұрын

People in general are sympathetic and patient with the ones they love. In case of betrayal due to finance issues, it could be due to lack of love. Also, financial stability is something that attracts female instincts, just like how beauty attracts male. So people acting on their instincts and not being patient would end up betraying the ones they love or once loved.

“Many of my ex’s haven’t made the right decisions when I wasn’t around” If I have to make a decision that doesn’t involve you in any way, then it’s none of your business and I can make my own decisions.

Thank God Steve isn't getting canceled 🙏🏼

Remember, dont marry for looks, they fade.Dont marry for money it can be lost.

@storres9198

5 жыл бұрын

Then marry for what?

@storres9198

5 жыл бұрын

Lol

@harriette-paulaosakwe598

5 жыл бұрын

Love. The good qualities the person possesses. Loyalty. Care. A kind and good heart

@northern_moss

5 жыл бұрын

Just don't.

@harriette-paulaosakwe598

5 жыл бұрын

d3thron3d why won't people marry? It's like one of the things that should be done. I know sometimes people get hurt in the process, but still

Ain't no more love! Only a never-ending search for stability!!!!

@eternalyfeful

6 жыл бұрын

WHB JR...Sad but true.

@ryndonjalandoni2319

6 жыл бұрын

WHB JR dats what i think 2. Wen d priority is money... there s higher probability that wen dats gone, dey'd run..

@wtfwrongwithyou5222

6 жыл бұрын

Ryndon Jalandoni But you shouldn't be seeking a relationship as a grown ass person and not be stable.

@sunnyjim1355

6 жыл бұрын

Love is just a Medieval concept that now only children get hooked on, as mythical as Santa Claus. But women continue to either truely believe in it (they never emotionally grow up) or they use it as entrapment. All healthy, mature relationships are built as a civil partnership - there is no place for 'love'. Respect, yes, love, no.

@ibetternotseeyousimp556

6 жыл бұрын

Love is an illusion. If you want to experience True love get a dog. They're man's best friend. When it come to women it's Mutual business

Steve such events are amazing to show facts and let me say it even with me as a Middle Eastern man with different culture your answers still representing me as a person who is struggling with problems and I understand exactly what you have just said. Appreciate your words man.

Steve handled this really really well. 👍

'We need to approve of what you are doing' 71%! wow. since when did being someones girlfriend turn into being someones mother lol. I can never imagine a man asking me what I'm doing and telling me to prove it with a photo or a quick FaceTime, how can you actually open your mouth to ask that lol. And to the whole over 50% say when a man's financial busted he lashes out at us that's why we run away. I don't agree with that. As my dad would say 'a woman's loyalty is tested when a man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything'. Great food for thought in this video though x

@fiercephoenix4389

8 жыл бұрын

+Zee Cee Not only are you 100% spot on, your dad's statement is profound and is exactly how a lot of guys feel. If my 'partner' isn't going to be there when things get rough, why should they get to share in the fruits of my prosperity when things are going well?

@ZiggysCorner

8 жыл бұрын

Thank you Mr Fierce :-) and in response to your statement i can say that the media doesn't help. It always tends to portray the woman that was there when the man had nothing as the first to go when the money comes. Which is indirectly telling women not to waste time investing in men who are up and coming because your loyalty will never be rewarded, which is a shame as that's not always the case.

@peaj4812

7 жыл бұрын

Zee Cee Thank you for being an awesome woman and human being you said what all of us guys needed to hear, that there are still level headed woman out there.

@wesnorthcutt639

6 жыл бұрын

my mind just got blown...

@michaelweston1042

6 жыл бұрын

"As my dad would say 'a woman's loyalty is tested when a man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything". Your dad is very smart and so are you. When I got sick I got the boot so I know first hand how true the wisdom of this statement is.

This is BS...when i was struggling financially id never lash out and they'd still leave...I think they were making up stuff just to try and not look bad

@slothop7541

6 жыл бұрын

SmokedOutSam your right bro it’s called being selfish

@don8668

5 жыл бұрын

I think most of the men do not lash out. If they do lash out, it is only after being nagged and questioned to death.

@kermitdafrog8

5 жыл бұрын

Of course it was all just man shaming.

@don8668

5 жыл бұрын

I do not buy the explanation the women are giving either. I think it is just a convenient excuse to make the women not look as bad for leaving a man when he struggles financially.

@kermitdafrog8

5 жыл бұрын

Don that is all it is. And the first answer was actually another way to not look bad for not trusting the man. They don't trust him to make wise choices.

Interesting topic, and comments about relationships.

Best answer steve

“You did a lot for me in the past” “But you haven’t done much for me lately” - my old lady

@Pastor_Sempa

3 жыл бұрын

really, they remember that? It's all about *what have you done for me lately*

@black_rifles_matter

3 жыл бұрын

And that will never go away

@daviedood2503

2 жыл бұрын

Janet Jackson song "what have u done for me LATELY" even she divorced her man and got 500 million out of him. The chick I was with 13 yrs decided to just split. 8 months out now. I asked her about this new personality she's been displaying bc it's fn weird. Where's the person she showed me before. That says I'M 100% REAL, THIS IS MEEE, WHAT U SEE IS WHAT U GET ...where they at.. She says " in don't care about that, that was then this is now, I'm not that person" from the horses mouth, they invented a whole person to get my attention and to retain it..pathetic and sad.

@Neddie2k

2 жыл бұрын

@@daviedood2503 Lol, when you see a lady in make-up and weaves, ask what else is she hiding.

@burst_ch.

2 жыл бұрын

And you better believe they have that one argument from months ago memorized right when they need it.

actually its because women love money and not you. she never liked you it was always what you have to provide.

@heaty007

7 жыл бұрын

When I wrote this message 3 months ago I put my then gf to the money test. I literaly acted like I had no money. I think I gave her 20 bucks in 2 months and she lost it offcourse. and dumped me yesterday. So I dont believe you can have a real partnership with a woman because the terms are pretty one sided.

@cuervothorn3947

6 жыл бұрын

It's a good thing you learned this way instead of the hard way.

@nathanwoodruff9422

6 жыл бұрын

You would have lost everything if you had married her.

@nathanwoodruff9422

6 жыл бұрын

+noah overton I feel for you man. If there was something that I could do for you I would.

@moonshine9964

6 жыл бұрын

noah overton You will overcome stay strong God always delivers

Harvey you have given a very candid answer to that last question. I love that answer

Really puts things into perspective. We 'lash out' not because you're willing to financially support us,but because you're not giving us the opportunity to try and figure something out for ourselves. Men don't do well with taking handouts without earning what we got. That's just how we're made.

So it's normal, funny even when you control your husband but it's abusive when your husband control you? Shouldn't it be abusive either way?

@davidbolha

3 жыл бұрын

Welcum to the matriarchy. 😎

@alexthao11

3 жыл бұрын

Women logic 101

@Konghammer1

3 жыл бұрын

You will never in a million years get a woman to admit it to you either. They always change the subject, or cluck so loud you can't talk anymore, or my personal favorite: it was done to girls so now we get to do it to men. Like that mindset has EVER made things better...

@realamericannegro977

3 жыл бұрын

That's what the dating game has always been about anyway. Them escaping their roles.

@black_rifles_matter

3 жыл бұрын

Bingo!

The problem is women lie when they answer these questions

@Tyler_W

6 жыл бұрын

Globox822 maybe not even consciously. A lot of them probably just have no self awareness and don't do any self reflection, something that isn't promoted in society in general.

@Globox822

6 жыл бұрын

Tyler Worsham true

@blaze78

5 жыл бұрын

Half of them are lying through there teeth on this. They want to know if there man is cheating cause of the type of friends they may have or individuals they hang out with. And for financies, if the man had money in the beginning to provide and all of a sudden a hame changer habppens and he losses, if not all, half of his income, they tend to start drifting cause they were use to that lifestyle and only think of that. Now I'm not saying all women are like that but you have a good number that are and it is shameful.

@peacefreedom4930

5 жыл бұрын

Globox822 I think Steve Harvey set this up so he could give those prepared answers.

@at5286

5 жыл бұрын

Tyler Worsham and men dont?

Real talk

I love you Steve. I love your show. God bless you

I have a great wife...! We've been together for 11 years and we have gone through allot. I have lost my job once and she stud by me, I went to school to have a better career and she stud by me, she wanted to work and I stud by her, I even picked her up at 1am for 2 years and bought her a car. In the end everything we both worked hard for has rewarded us greatly and now we are financially stable and connected like one. She decided to be a stay home mom and a provide for my family, not one complaint.. I know if I fall she will be beside me and pick me up as I will do the same for her.

@joemurphy9549

3 жыл бұрын

That is a great story. Thank you for sharing. All the best .....

@lucario8040

3 жыл бұрын

You found gold among dirt brother .

@donnivhenbrooks4981

3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad to see a comment like this on this video. I’m happy for y’all. Many more years together to y’all.

@tonyjones1560

3 жыл бұрын

I got laid off nine days before my wedding date, and when I told my then-fiancee and asked her what she wanted to do it was, "I'm taking you to Vegas for our honeymoon, so you can go to The Strip and see the old mobster casinos." That was 14 years ago. If she'd run, I'd have understood. She didn't. I won't soon forget that.

@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391

3 жыл бұрын

It seems like you both deserve one another, both decent people - which is probably what brought you together. thankyou for sharing you experience.

"I've had a lot of long term relationships" Well if that isn't a red flag already, I don't know what is

@sadieg3264

5 жыл бұрын

😆😆😆😆I thought the same thing

@commonsensedatcom

4 жыл бұрын

Shes 106 years old

@altovisemiller9900

4 жыл бұрын

Mu thoughts exactly!

@abitofeverythingbynastassi6273

4 жыл бұрын

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩😂

@ajinomoto5788

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO

Steve I must say those were good and fair answers towards the men. Thanks

Us the men being ashamed is true, also telling the truth to your lady you don’t and bring down our Igor for her to support , I think 🤔 is the BEST WAY TO TACKLE THIS ISSUE. Thanks to all the ladies and men who participated. Love ❤️ daddy Steve abundant blessings