Hey Steve: What Are My Boyfriend's Intentions?

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A young lady in my audience had a question about her mans intentions, I think you deserve to know what I had to say.
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  • @WhiteTigerLuva80
    @WhiteTigerLuva805 жыл бұрын

    “I mess with you?” That’s something you say to a side piece 🙄 4 yrs? Boy bye!!!!!

  • @hhh2641

    @hhh2641

    5 жыл бұрын

    L Thompson she’s the side piece, but she doesn’t want to acknowledge it.

  • @tinahuttner7280

    @tinahuttner7280

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@hhh2641 that's for dam sure especially if he ain't the old school and tradition type of person when it comes to love and marriage.

  • @daybyday966

    @daybyday966

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bye and bye,🤣

  • @sexyladyakb

    @sexyladyakb

    5 жыл бұрын

    L Thompson okay! He wouldn’t have made it past like month 2

  • @icetray2727

    @icetray2727

    4 жыл бұрын

    She’s just a part of his rotation

  • @brooklynforever1990
    @brooklynforever19905 жыл бұрын

    Four years 🤦 I don't understand these young women not having self worth to recognize the game.

  • @setaBC

    @setaBC

    5 жыл бұрын

    That pipe game

  • @clovers10

    @clovers10

    5 жыл бұрын

    Talk about it

  • @ronni-moniqueshields1216

    @ronni-moniqueshields1216

    5 жыл бұрын

    Funny thing is we as womem have all been played by the game... Now at this point we are old enough to know the difference....but you can't bash her for being in her season for foolishness

  • @travelguide10124

    @travelguide10124

    5 жыл бұрын

    Some young aren’t taught. So can you really blame them?

  • @brianna4791

    @brianna4791

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think it comes from lack of guidance. As a young woman your parent should be teaching you how to properly court and date each other. Some of these people are missing a mother or a father and it really shows in their dating life.

  • @tcalvin4196
    @tcalvin41965 жыл бұрын

    Look here baby stop letting that boy "RENT" you. After 4 YEARS and you still have no clarity of what you are to him, you needed to have left 3 1/2 YEARS ago. Stop "PLAYING" house and move on. You have given him too much time already.

  • @shawnnemo1962

    @shawnnemo1962

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tonya Calvin amen the man deserves wife material from a girlfriend period smh

  • @ItsAKayThing

    @ItsAKayThing

    5 жыл бұрын

    I mean AMEN !!!

  • @ninaleyda2213

    @ninaleyda2213

    5 жыл бұрын

    I agree! 100%

  • @Lalacandoitall357

    @Lalacandoitall357

    5 жыл бұрын

    Preach

  • @SnowFoxParty

    @SnowFoxParty

    5 жыл бұрын

    More like year 1

  • @fae1932
    @fae19325 жыл бұрын

    It's hard to let it go, but once you do. It's the best feeling in the world ✌❤

  • @INFORMATIVESITUATIONS

    @INFORMATIVESITUATIONS

    4 жыл бұрын

    @ FAE 19- ABSOLUTELY!!

  • @thickianaaa2286

    @thickianaaa2286

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @falisabdullahi6985

    @falisabdullahi6985

    3 жыл бұрын

    i tell you that !👏🏾

  • @scooterlovya

    @scooterlovya

    3 жыл бұрын

    The Best!!! FreeeEdom

  • @yollandemwenda4711

    @yollandemwenda4711

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@thickianaaa2286 my

  • @maryanne9927
    @maryanne99275 жыл бұрын

    Why do girls accept to date in the first place without titles?? you're either my boyfriend or just a friend, nothing in between..

  • @tanafoster4072

    @tanafoster4072

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @ChaosAngel667

    @ChaosAngel667

    4 жыл бұрын

    She is not in between, she is in the side.

  • @karenwangari4057

    @karenwangari4057

    4 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @MissSunflower242

    @MissSunflower242

    3 жыл бұрын

    In this "new age" of relationships, titles don't mean anything until years go by and u realize u a side piece or "friends w/ benefits" title offers no REAL benefit. Ur not "needy" ladies if u want confirmation on what the relationship is. IT'S OUR RIGHT

  • @iMsOiNsO

    @iMsOiNsO

    2 жыл бұрын

    There can be an in between. Fuck buddies lol

  • @irockline
    @irockline5 жыл бұрын

    How many times does Steve have to answer the SAME question??? Some ladies will NEVER get it. You have the power to change a man or leave. If he really wants you, he will change. If not then you leave.

  • @zipporahp.30

    @zipporahp.30

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ira Jr Women shouldn’t have to “change” the man in the first place.

  • @irockline

    @irockline

    5 жыл бұрын

    Zip P they should not have to change a man. Unfortunately a lot of times men pursue a woman and aren’t mentally ready to be with anyone. A lot of the women asking these types of questions allow men to fully dictate the nature of the relationship. That is not right. And ladies need to realize their voice and power

  • @kaypkayp

    @kaypkayp

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ladies DO NOT Listen To This Advice! You CAN NOT Change A Man! Or Any Other Human For That Matter! People Only Change When They Are Really And Willing To Change For Themselves. So If You Don’t Like The Package... Keep It Moving! Don’t Wait On Anyone To Change. You’re Wasting Your Time!

  • @charanelbubb3806

    @charanelbubb3806

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jeez thank you, like they never get the hint in the relationship.

  • @girllygirl30

    @girllygirl30

    5 жыл бұрын

    AMEN!!!

  • @Nicki1969able
    @Nicki1969able5 жыл бұрын

    Wait.... WHAT!???? 4 YEARS...? No ma'am..... he is NOT the one.

  • @blvxkgxld4319

    @blvxkgxld4319

    5 жыл бұрын

    These days who is the one?? with an avg.of 10 woman-1 man and that's a low avg some places 21 to 1 and social media involved..and not including the gay men now its more woman than that for 1 man

  • @Nicki1969able

    @Nicki1969able

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@blvxkgxld4319 Agreed.... the 'One' can be anyone who is more than willing to be loyal in the midst of the abundance of choices. Just be honest enough to say 'I do not want a relationship'

  • @blvxkgxld4319

    @blvxkgxld4319

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Nicki1969able I Agree QUEEN...but thank about the statistics and actually finding that one and not the one for a min. we talking for the rest of your time as u exist as a human and beyond.. I feel that's true real unconditional love with a soulmate...MEANING FOREVER TIME...THAT'S WHAT WE ALL ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING THAT LASTS BEYOND THIS EXISTENCE...WHERE OUR ENERGIES CAN CONNECT ON ANOTHER FIELD OF EXISTENCE....

  • @blvxkgxld4319

    @blvxkgxld4319

    5 жыл бұрын

    I subscribed to your channel too..

  • @Nicki1969able

    @Nicki1969able

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@blvxkgxld4319 AWESOME 😁💋

  • @ZaynahGreenfield
    @ZaynahGreenfield5 жыл бұрын

    Dont let some fool waste your life!! Time is precious..

  • @rashardstallworth9240

    @rashardstallworth9240

    5 жыл бұрын

    How you know she ain't wasting his time?

  • @tianamiller6820

    @tianamiller6820

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@rashardstallworth9240 he would have left her alone if that were the case

  • @sammybee1929

    @sammybee1929

    5 жыл бұрын

    +Rashard Stallworth Is that even possible - with a real man?

  • @rashardstallworth9240

    @rashardstallworth9240

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@tianamiller6820 How many kids does she have? Does she work? Is she faithful? How does she spend her $? Does she flash on him when shes angry? You dont know any of that so alll the male bashing ridiculous. All we know from what she said, if shes being honest, is she chose an unavailable man. "She Chose". Wasnt forced into it. Lots of men and women chose topass up good people looking for serious relationships for unavailable people and then get mad with the unavailable person. Its ridiculous. He could be focused on his carrer and not looking for anything serious. He could be married, there are a lot of people dating other folks spouses. She needs to take responsibility for her own life and go get what she wants but amost likely if shes attracted to unavailable guys she'll probably go and get another unavailable dude and be saying the same thing about him. We all choose what we have.

  • @lordoffrog2354

    @lordoffrog2354

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tianna Miller maybe he’s fucking her and that’s it lol

  • @butyoucancallmesam
    @butyoucancallmesam5 жыл бұрын

    The audience answered for Steve 😂

  • @lexiscarr20

    @lexiscarr20

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @xyzpanther5487
    @xyzpanther54875 жыл бұрын

    How do you see someone for four years!?

  • @maasz5587

    @maasz5587

    5 жыл бұрын

    Like how

  • @EveryDayPray

    @EveryDayPray

    5 жыл бұрын

    I just asked the same question out loud.

  • @noonelikeyou13

    @noonelikeyou13

    5 жыл бұрын

    xyz panther i actually had to pause for a second when she said it .. 4 years ? That’s undergrad right there . And for those who did undergrad y’all know you can’t be undecided for too long ..gotta pick a major .. a title or something..

  • @MegaCadette55

    @MegaCadette55

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@noonelikeyou13 lmfao I like the way u put it.u my dear, are a genius!

  • @xyzpanther5487

    @xyzpanther5487

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@noonelikeyou13 exactly

  • @BelindaJoy
    @BelindaJoy5 жыл бұрын

    ABSOLUTELY! He told her she means nothing to him, he is literally messing with her mind, body and soul. If a man runs from labels and commitment, as a woman with self pride, YOU should run for the nearest exit. Period.

  • @autobotdiva9268

    @autobotdiva9268

    5 жыл бұрын

    Belinda Joy Agreed. She can still mess with him but take the emotions out of it

  • @deedeemoore6096

    @deedeemoore6096

    5 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely !! Run like she is in a marathon 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃 and block his number and never answer my door for him never again

  • @haroldbolling4311

    @haroldbolling4311

    5 жыл бұрын

    He didn't do anything wrong tho... Seems like from the start they didn't discuss what each require from them. What they want with a partner.. They just went on in with no question... When she finally asks the question... He tells her straight up. He tells in an ungentle way but he keeps it 💯.. Its ahite just to want sex.. But before anybody do anything gotta make sure they want the same exact thing.. She ain't do that. Their relationship is a misunderstanding...

  • @KoolAidSquirt

    @KoolAidSquirt

    5 жыл бұрын

    Correction: She has ALLOWED him to mess with her mind, soul, and emotions.

  • @malaikaking5550

    @malaikaking5550

    2 жыл бұрын

    So accurate.

  • @SpeakUpWorld
    @SpeakUpWorld5 жыл бұрын

    4 years and you don't know. He doing what you letting him do

  • @perisndirangu1018
    @perisndirangu10185 жыл бұрын

    I have learnt a lot from watching ... steve Harvey ...... he said a man willl change ... for only ..one women ... and if ain’t ..you ... then move ...on ..simple ..

  • @ericstewart517

    @ericstewart517

    5 жыл бұрын

    Which of Steve's 3 WIVES did HE change for???? Just curious..... A schmuck gets a mic and all of a sudden he's a guru..... It's easy to 'pimp' a bunch of nonsense to make women feel good no matter what.... Oprah retired....Bernie Mack died so Steve slide right into a void in the market, good for him...but he's 'hustling' female emotions to 'da 🏦, period. Dr. Phil, Denzel even Snoop Dog can give STAYING with a woman advice with more cred than Harvey c'mon now ppl😒

  • @zeepack

    @zeepack

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ericstewart517 I can tell you from personal experience. It's easier to give a sound advice than than to take your own sound advice. Emotions can get in the way of making the right choices even when you know what they are. Sometimes you need someone else help you make those choices even if they themselves did not make them. Steve probably did not have someone who could guide him. I am not defending him. I only see him on KZread. All I am saying is that you should not dismiss a good advice regardless of its source. As you gain power it gets lonelier and it's harder to seek help. Successful people have the most skeletons in their closets.

  • @haroldbolling4311

    @haroldbolling4311

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@zeepack He said he wasn't the same man he was back then... When he got daughters.. He wanted to make sure when the time is right they have the right man for them... Maybe Margie Harvey is that woman he finally changed for...

  • @SheniceSays214

    @SheniceSays214

    5 жыл бұрын

    Eric Stewart I get what you’re saying but does say some valid things.

  • @nkosinathiemmanuelmolefe2721

    @nkosinathiemmanuelmolefe2721

    5 жыл бұрын

    Why does it always have to be the man who has to change?

  • @dedrahbell2075
    @dedrahbell20755 жыл бұрын

    Friends with benefits

  • @t.5021

    @t.5021

    5 жыл бұрын

    Exactly...& He sounds like an ass.

  • @t.5021

    @t.5021

    5 жыл бұрын

    He was only in it for the sex. Sis needs to drop the zero.

  • @dedrahbell2075

    @dedrahbell2075

    5 жыл бұрын

    Right T. Banks and so many women fall victim to waiting on a man to give them a title

  • @aa-jm7js

    @aa-jm7js

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dedrah. 3 years though...? She wasted 3 years on a relationship she doesn't even want with the guy...being too hopeful. 😟

  • @DCD4Ever

    @DCD4Ever

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yea, but if she's in it for this long, then she has to take personal accountability on her part too! I mean, she didn't have a problem with this for the past 3 1/2 years. Why now?

  • @icetray2727
    @icetray27275 жыл бұрын

    “I mess with you” means that you’re just apart of the rotation

  • @marieabner
    @marieabner5 жыл бұрын

    She's the side chick.

  • @fromspace7

    @fromspace7

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oooooh you might be right...didn't think of that

  • @metsl1870

    @metsl1870

    5 жыл бұрын

    most likely

  • @trevalbrown1881

    @trevalbrown1881

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes she is

  • @ramonpeters9608

    @ramonpeters9608

    5 жыл бұрын

    My first thought. She has no idea lolol

  • @helenntlokwana2652
    @helenntlokwana26525 жыл бұрын

    Exactly, no boyfriend after college "You're my man, I'm your woman"

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e

    @user-zx5xw4yw2e

    5 жыл бұрын

    There's no difference. If u aren't his fiance or wife you don't really have a label. Yep, That's the truth.

  • @helenntlokwana2652

    @helenntlokwana2652

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@raymondjames3755 😂😂😂👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

  • @MegaCadette55

    @MegaCadette55

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@user-zx5xw4yw2e u ain't lying

  • @TechWithShon
    @TechWithShon5 жыл бұрын

    She's not gon do anything steve said except for asking

  • @tommywilliams8170

    @tommywilliams8170

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tonic Shondlani Yep. She has allow for it to go on for to long. At this point it will be hard for her to get away. She is in to deep. I hope she finds the mind set she needs to move on.

  • @brooklynforever1990

    @brooklynforever1990

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sad but true

  • @austinoladoye6691

    @austinoladoye6691

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's like you read my mind!!😱

  • @alfrancis8

    @alfrancis8

    5 жыл бұрын

    He should bring her on the show and set her up on some dates, just to break her cycle.

  • @movingon2081

    @movingon2081

    5 жыл бұрын

    Alison Francis yes sounds great

  • @Mzmissy215
    @Mzmissy2155 жыл бұрын

    "I mess w/ u" is about as straight and honest of an answer a young dumb guy will give. He told her basically all she is to him is someone to mess around with, nothing more or else it woulda changed way before 4 damn yrs

  • @KimontheWeb
    @KimontheWeb5 жыл бұрын

    He’s using her as a time filler to meet his physical needs until he find someone he really wants to be with. She shouldn’t let him if that’s not what she’s looking for. If she wants a real relationship, she should love herself enough to leave him so she can be available for someone who is also seeking a true relationship and not just a sexship.

  • @MJ-sl4fj
    @MJ-sl4fj5 жыл бұрын

    She not listening to anything Mr. Steve is saying, she's just going to keep putting out because they have "great chemistry" SMH

  • @Simplyolivia1000
    @Simplyolivia10005 жыл бұрын

    He's not that into you

  • @bgntjohnson
    @bgntjohnson5 жыл бұрын

    Even total strangers have good chemistry (in bed)... that still doesn't mean that he's serious. That's just called lust and sex. As soon as you get up, he's already over it. As long as you allow it, he's coming back for more. Love yourself and believe God for someone that's going to love you, empower you, respect you, value you, honor you, love himself, love and honor God.

  • @4cistasonly897

    @4cistasonly897

    5 жыл бұрын

    Brenda J hell , even outside of sex, I can have good chemistry /convo with someone ( a stranger that may be heading home to his family)🚗

  • @bgntjohnson

    @bgntjohnson

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@4cistasonly897 That is very true.

  • @brooklynforever1990

    @brooklynforever1990

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yup she's confusing attraction with relationship potential. Meanwhile he is showing and telling her exactly what it is a "mess". 🤷

  • @fromspace7

    @fromspace7

    5 жыл бұрын

    AMEN! Preach!!

  • @fromspace7

    @fromspace7

    5 жыл бұрын

    ...and COMMIT to you!

  • @fa89ko
    @fa89ko5 жыл бұрын

    A lot of people these days are not even boyfriends and girlfriends..they wanna live without a title .. So girl leave this man and find a better one ..a man treats you the way you allow him to treat you

  • @lvncsr6166

    @lvncsr6166

    5 жыл бұрын

    Better yet, let the right man find you.

  • @rikanejose2611

    @rikanejose2611

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Chad Payne Well if she's not girlfriend material why stay with her and lead her on? Would you want a woman to lead you on and lie to you?

  • @rashardstallworth9240

    @rashardstallworth9240

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@rikanejose2611 You just heard one side of the story. Plus you have no idea what type of person she is.

  • @prncessbaby16

    @prncessbaby16

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yea when I was dating my husband, he asked to be my boyfriend, he never said "we're just kicking it" but he also told me before our first date that he was looking for something serious anyway and if I wasn't, then he didn't have time to play games.

  • @duygua1286

    @duygua1286

    5 жыл бұрын

    Agree!

  • @juicyfruit4709
    @juicyfruit47095 жыл бұрын

    If he shut down move on. To someone else that knows what he wants. Girl do not waste no more time on him. Be like a ghost. You are right Steve keeping it real.

  • @shemab2639
    @shemab26395 жыл бұрын

    I think she already knew the answer to that question. 😦😞

  • @perisndirangu1018
    @perisndirangu10185 жыл бұрын

    I felt really sorry .. for these girl .... most women in her shoes .... I have been at these exact situation ... and I decided .. I better be a lone than have a guy who wasting ... my energy and my time ......

  • @F.H.

    @F.H.

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same thing w me.

  • @nexilic5555

    @nexilic5555

    4 жыл бұрын

    .......yes............agreed................,..............

  • @mskreme76
    @mskreme765 жыл бұрын

    Steve went straight to the point. I've noticed that many of the questions the ladies ask is about the same thing. Steve gives them the same answer but in a different way. Bottom line is that we as ladies have to stop settling for anyone just to have a relationship, and not be afraid to wait on God for the special man He has for each of us. That may mean being by ourselves for a season, as God prepares us for His best. We may be alone for a brief minute and have to wait, but it will be well worth it!

  • @godslittlegirl

    @godslittlegirl

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen sister!

  • @ronkeoyelana4192

    @ronkeoyelana4192

    10 ай бұрын

    You nailed it sis.

  • @skel760

    @skel760

    10 ай бұрын

    What does “God” have to do with it. Why doesn’t God keep women away from these users, these disrespectful, selfish men? Why doesn’t he stop these jerks from messing with other humans? But he will “send” you the right one. 🙄 I guess he lock and chooses who he “blesses”

  • @pinza1993
    @pinza19935 жыл бұрын

    As soon as she said “i’ve been seeing this guy for 4 years, I started shaking my head thinking “aw lawd here it goes” 😂

  • @tanafoster4072

    @tanafoster4072

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmao me too!

  • @meowkris
    @meowkris5 жыл бұрын

    Girl he is playing around. 4 years? Nope.

  • @jolainedecoste4686

    @jolainedecoste4686

    5 жыл бұрын

    She's playing too!!!

  • @trevalbrown1881

    @trevalbrown1881

    5 жыл бұрын

    Y man are playing a round with all this good girls i want a good girl and can not rind enery

  • @tanafoster4072

    @tanafoster4072

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! Absolutely not....

  • @summersdiary7
    @summersdiary75 жыл бұрын

    Umm didn’t the guy already answer her question by telling her “I mess with you”. Smh

  • @marskeins
    @marskeins5 жыл бұрын

    He shuts down after you tell him how you feel. And you been together for four years. There's a old movie out called he's just not that into you. And well he's just not you're a convenience to him.

  • @wombatgirl598
    @wombatgirl5985 жыл бұрын

    A label must be known, if he does not label you as his gf then leave. If he really wants you he will make you his gf. 4 years is a long time being confused.❤️

  • @camillegoode8222
    @camillegoode82225 жыл бұрын

    Hopefully she listened to Steve and did not call or go running to the non existing boyfriend.

  • @jayburnham3994
    @jayburnham39945 жыл бұрын

    She was definitely told what their relationship is but is in denial. 4 years come on

  • @claudineb777
    @claudineb7773 жыл бұрын

    “I am going to be over here. When you are ready, you can come over here. I may still be there or I might not.” 👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😃

  • @NBaBall3r26
    @NBaBall3r265 жыл бұрын

    Hes a immature, playing games & she allowed it. A real man gives a title for the relationship. I can only imagine how he introduces her to some of his friends & family, & how she feels about it @ that moment.

  • @relaxinginpeace1310

    @relaxinginpeace1310

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's IF she's been introduced to the other people in his life. Probably haven't

  • @evelynmahoney3992

    @evelynmahoney3992

    11 ай бұрын

    u got good chemistry wht is that...n u askin him abt relationship wht u want too?.. u stringin him too..not all on him..think for self

  • @uchechionyeachu8899
    @uchechionyeachu88995 жыл бұрын

    I like how Steve went from 1year to 6 months to 90 days😂😂😂

  • @amyhall4099

    @amyhall4099

    Жыл бұрын

    Show these non-stop

  • @melissa5463
    @melissa54634 жыл бұрын

    How could you “mess with someone” for 4 YEARS?! 4 years?! That’s crazy! Who wastes four years with any man who doesn’t say that you’re his girlfriend ... I don’t understand girls like this like c’mon 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @susandahlseide1438
    @susandahlseide14385 жыл бұрын

    Even the simplest job has a title. Dating is time limited. It expires at six months. If it’s not going anywhere then you go somewhere.

  • @MommyE0709
    @MommyE07095 жыл бұрын

    Four years is too long to not know what's going on with that relationship. I would have left a long time ago. Life is short and I agree with Steve that after college you too old to be like we just kicking it.

  • @girlygirlwoman
    @girlygirlwoman5 жыл бұрын

    THAT WAS EXCELLENT!!! I'm SO GLAD Steve said that about after college.

  • @titana80
    @titana804 жыл бұрын

    that big laugh when Steve says, 'he messed with you' makes me feel so bad for this sister. 4 years of your life! That laugh is a laugh of hurt and shame...oh no!

  • @ineedhoez
    @ineedhoez3 жыл бұрын

    If he aint your man, he doesn't get to touch your body. Old school says you have to wait for marriage. Why? BC it weeds out the trash.

  • @jonathandavidpatterson6643
    @jonathandavidpatterson66435 жыл бұрын

    This is the part where they show kills me. If a woman is halfway dating a guy for 4 years then he is half of the problem, then she is the other. Society needs to stop thinking it's always a man's mess. For 4 years, it was everybody's mess.

  • @amarie1852
    @amarie18525 жыл бұрын

    Girl I just got out of dealing w a guy like this. But only 6 months

  • @fromspace7

    @fromspace7

    5 жыл бұрын

    You had more brains than her! Congrats :)

  • @DCD4Ever

    @DCD4Ever

    5 жыл бұрын

    At least you took accountability at the right moment. Since she, on the other hand, waited for 4 years to realize this, she knew *EXACTLY* what she signed up for, and got what she deserved. It takes a while, but it sure as hell doesn't take *THAT LONG* to figure out what the other person's intentions are.

  • @deedeemoore6096

    @deedeemoore6096

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am so happy you Dodge that bullet and sent his ass down the river 👉👉👉🌊🌊🌊 I'm so proud of you for having love for yourself and knowing your value and no longer wasting time wit somebody that is not wanting commitment

  • @BlackTrendX

    @BlackTrendX

    5 жыл бұрын

    Alex Burgess you’re a beautiful woman who deserves a better man

  • @yvonnesishuwa7500

    @yvonnesishuwa7500

    5 жыл бұрын

    You are smart lol

  • @MsLovication
    @MsLovication5 жыл бұрын

    You don't even have to ask him again, just leave. This guy messed with you, played you, disrespected you, and you will ask him: what is this???? NO! RUN!

  • @Shayvideos1
    @Shayvideos15 жыл бұрын

    I've realized that men can have that same" chemistry" with several other women at the same timw too..so I'm looking past chemistry..I'm looking at consistency and assurance.

  • @lovelyhope2664

    @lovelyhope2664

    2 жыл бұрын

    They can live a double life perfectly unnoticeable!

  • @mariekiraly100
    @mariekiraly1005 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had all this advice when I was younger. I was totally clueless. TOTALLY.

  • @tashaluna4505
    @tashaluna45055 жыл бұрын

    That's why l love Steve show learning.

  • @shantamiller5956
    @shantamiller59565 жыл бұрын

    Uncle Steve, you give the best advice!!! GOD BLESS YOU!

  • @sharonwhite8568
    @sharonwhite8568 Жыл бұрын

    Love you! Thanks for your advice and inspiration!

  • @alinaserrano6816
    @alinaserrano68164 жыл бұрын

    I effin love Harvey, wish I had someone like him around when I was putting up with all these loser's thinking that's what love was.

  • @caseyjolly8
    @caseyjolly85 жыл бұрын

    True! Some people in relationship like forever. Stop wasting your time. Is either the guy don't love u or u don't love the guy or something just not clicking

  • @salt2420
    @salt24204 жыл бұрын

    Steve is the Father I need in my life right now

  • @yungace9255
    @yungace92555 жыл бұрын

    Your 👑 wisdom is extremely high Mr. Harvey, You sir, should have Your Own, personal, boss management show to continue with this amazing advice You give. Love, great blessings and respect from the UK 🇬🇧 🦋 🙏🏾 🦋

  • @faithshaya3713
    @faithshaya37135 жыл бұрын

    Ummm girl run, I don’t think she need to be asking anymore, he clearly told her “we are messing “ the next time you ask him he will tell u what u wanna hear just to make you stay and before you know it its 10 years already. I think she should move on and forget about him.

  • @dgpowell
    @dgpowell3 жыл бұрын

    That's right Uncle Steve. Been there, done that! You were ABSOLUTELY correct in ur answer.

  • @anngillead9643
    @anngillead96435 жыл бұрын

    Mr Harvey is such an intelligent well established man I have learned a lot from him like a man treats you how you allow him to I wish as a young lady my dad thought me half of these things Mr Harvey knows I really love you SIR your family are blessed to have you in there life

  • @unexpectedvixen5685
    @unexpectedvixen56853 жыл бұрын

    Run girl! RUN!!!

  • @lindseyj9357
    @lindseyj93574 жыл бұрын

    She’s beautiful and clearly an intelligent girl. Sis, you deserve BETTER! Don’t let him waste your precious time!

  • @ronlawray1563
    @ronlawray15633 жыл бұрын

    You date a guy for 4 years and whenever you ask him where this is going, he clams up? If you don't know the answer, you DON'T WANT to know it...He has answered your question with his REFUSAL to discuss it...The next move is up to you or nothing will change!

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty13 жыл бұрын

    4 years 🤯! He might have a whole wife and a little Jerome or Fiance somewhere.

  • @marymesk577

    @marymesk577

    2 жыл бұрын

    little jerome lolllllllllll

  • @lourdeangelotsingh609
    @lourdeangelotsingh6095 жыл бұрын

    Great advice Mr. Harvey👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @mangoz330
    @mangoz3305 жыл бұрын

    Everything sounds better when Steve says it!

  • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
    @sunshinesunflowerz16475 жыл бұрын

    I agree Steve, and I’ve asked this same question.

  • @tingbatuuka7278
    @tingbatuuka72785 жыл бұрын

    Yes.got the POINT

  • @JOYELLE93
    @JOYELLE935 жыл бұрын

    I love what Steve days about boyfriends and girlfriends. I think it's weird to be saying that once you're a certain age, too.

  • @ermexik8
    @ermexik84 жыл бұрын

    Best vid advice of all , to confront life head on, thanks Mr Steve

  • @Kitchywac
    @Kitchywac5 жыл бұрын

    That Boyy know some relationships & gives great advice 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽. Just like an ex addict talking to one still out there.

  • @Chasiraw

    @Chasiraw

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kitchywac YEP!!

  • @rhyno8644
    @rhyno86445 жыл бұрын

    How does she not get it after 4 years?

  • @jolainedecoste4686

    @jolainedecoste4686

    5 жыл бұрын

    Because she's dumb!!!

  • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479

    @dr.dermixgirlmd7479

    5 жыл бұрын

    It’s a lot harder to see the picture when you’re in the frame. Don’t be so hard on her, even I can see her situation but can’t/won’t get out of mine.

  • @whitneyrideout4553

    @whitneyrideout4553

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah and probably gives her signals that she's looking for to keep her on the string

  • @TowerofAboveandBelow

    @TowerofAboveandBelow

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because she was just messing with him too.

  • @jupiterbibi1398
    @jupiterbibi13985 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your advice ❤️❤️❤️

  • @msprayerwarrior6904
    @msprayerwarrior69045 жыл бұрын

    He's wasting ur time. I would have been left him. At this point in ur relationship he should have proposed to u by now

  • @lordoffrog2354

    @lordoffrog2354

    5 жыл бұрын

    ms prayer warrior why doesn’t she propose

  • @Jonathan-wj6uh

    @Jonathan-wj6uh

    5 жыл бұрын

    Talk about entitlement for someone to say "You shud propose to me in 4 years"

  • @whitneyrideout4553

    @whitneyrideout4553

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Jonathan-wj6uh Do you feel entitled to get all the benefits from a woman for FOUR YEARS without giving her the respect of the title, your commitment and declaration of love? If so, you are one selfish idiot

  • @fromspace7
    @fromspace75 жыл бұрын

    Solid advice!! Steve is the man :)

  • @alyssabesa5958
    @alyssabesa59585 жыл бұрын

    Amen! Well said, Steve. 😀

  • @lovingfiona6889
    @lovingfiona68895 жыл бұрын

    real talk,thank you

  • @michelewilliams5131
    @michelewilliams51315 жыл бұрын

    Oh I so hope she listened!

  • @jaydeebulje4493
    @jaydeebulje449324 күн бұрын

    love< love< love steve< he"s every girls" bestie

  • @EAUGUSTA1
    @EAUGUSTA15 жыл бұрын

    Right on Steve!!👍

  • @thetruthhurt1794
    @thetruthhurt17945 жыл бұрын

    So girl do you have a man or are you his sidechick. We just messing around for 4 yrs. What a waste. Girl what is your 5 year plan for a relationship?

  • @phillipswatson3452
    @phillipswatson34525 жыл бұрын

    WOMEN STOP GIVING MEN EZ PASS ...TURNING A BLIND...MAKING EXCUSING...ETC. ETC. & COMPLAINING 😿SMDH😿

  • @Star-vg7ix
    @Star-vg7ix4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Steve

  • @Bricunningham619
    @Bricunningham6195 жыл бұрын

    A men will do as much as you allow !!! No time for games

  • @tomswill9189
    @tomswill91895 жыл бұрын

    Great Advice.

  • @akaza7874
    @akaza78745 жыл бұрын

    Steve said it all!!

  • @jonathanmatthews4774
    @jonathanmatthews47745 жыл бұрын

    Steve is on point.

  • @Nicole-fl8gv
    @Nicole-fl8gv2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏

  • @animal_life_
    @animal_life_5 жыл бұрын

    Steve always answering this same question o women we need to rise above our emotions and think about ourselves these men keep making a fool of us..smh🙄

  • @aliceyahgiteh8312
    @aliceyahgiteh83124 жыл бұрын

    Was shocked when I heard 4years. Gracious goodness. We all need to know it position in each other's life and where we are heading to.

  • @coolmoe3289
    @coolmoe32895 жыл бұрын

    She said he's beating It up good..😂🤣 Apparently she likes the Mess that's She's in..

  • @margaretwince2748
    @margaretwince27483 жыл бұрын

    Excellant advice.

  • @revmick48
    @revmick485 жыл бұрын

    Steve nailed it on this one!

  • @butimarealist007
    @butimarealist0075 жыл бұрын

    He's been hurt bad and now he's overly cautious about his own decisions! I've been in this same situation for 6 yrs now but I've always giving her a choice to pursue something more permanent

  • @GetTheGrandFunkOut
    @GetTheGrandFunkOut5 жыл бұрын

    How do you know someone you don't _know?_ "I've known him for four years, but I don't know how he'll react to this or I don't know what he'll think if I say this...!" When _are_ women going to start thinking and stop letting their men friends play them for _complete fools for hire?_

  • @tanafoster4072

    @tanafoster4072

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol I'm done!

  • @tanafoster4072

    @tanafoster4072

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! And speak up for what you want out of your relationship! Stooop giving men that control over your future....

  • @thatsright.2827
    @thatsright.28275 жыл бұрын

    That's right!!

  • @secondopinion53
    @secondopinion535 жыл бұрын

    I've been their.. And I'm a Man!!! Over 4 years... I was ready to Lock it Down!! I feel you Steve..

  • @ritediva86
    @ritediva865 жыл бұрын

    wow I went through the same thing

  • @Mayfloweralways
    @Mayfloweralways3 жыл бұрын

    To anyone in any length of relationship, I’ve learned this in my life- if you start talking about the relationship, and he shuts you down? He sees himself as in control and he has no worries of losing you. He knows he’s calling the shots. By shutting down, he’s taking total control of the relationship. Basically, you will stay at his leisure and he doesn’t care about losing you. Not just guys, people play that games. Saying nothing gives them power because you’re left guessing. Someone that wants you, doesn’t want you to guess. In this case, he said it. He’s only messing with her. Time to go.

  • @rosrychaplet
    @rosrychaplet5 жыл бұрын

    Walk away

  • @rashardstallworth9240

    @rashardstallworth9240

    5 жыл бұрын

    If she had better options should have been moved on

  • @chocolatenikki

    @chocolatenikki

    5 жыл бұрын

    Rashard Stallworth How do you know she doesn’t have better options?? She’s too emotionally and mentally attached, that’s why she hasn’t left.

  • @deedeemoore6096

    @deedeemoore6096

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes I agree walk away and never look back and never go back

  • @captainmarvelous1221
    @captainmarvelous12215 жыл бұрын

    My intentions for dating is time is not valuable so you better off not wasting and just work yourself and then you'll find the right person that is for you and no one else

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