Dating Advice From Steve Harvey - Ellen

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The Ellen DeGeneres Show - ''Steve Harvey; Kurt Warner'' (Recorded Feb 12, 2009, WNBC)

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  • @janetramirez4566
    @janetramirez45664 жыл бұрын

    “We’re either playing with you or planning with you.” That is gold!!!!

  • @HarleeGurl

    @HarleeGurl

    4 жыл бұрын

    He cuts right through it! I have his book, actually I got the e-book so I could listen to it when I was driving to and from work or just in the car. It's amazing and hilarious at the same time 😂

  • @zainababbas4826

    @zainababbas4826

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is disgusting

  • @isacece1334

    @isacece1334

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@HarleeGurl is he the narrator?

  • @isacece1334

    @isacece1334

    3 жыл бұрын

    O man...that's true...and scary

  • @dilarafataliyeva2904

    @dilarafataliyeva2904

    3 жыл бұрын

    How to know it

  • @JustineMfulama
    @JustineMfulama5 жыл бұрын

    Crazy this advice was dropped 10 years ago but is still so relevant!

  • @shadowsgate6903

    @shadowsgate6903

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah ENJOY being SINGLE more until last day of your LIFE!

  • @MyVlogTherapy

    @MyVlogTherapy

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yassssss girlll

  • @dr_grayyy

    @dr_grayyy

    4 жыл бұрын

    ukr!

  • @Val-fh8bc

    @Val-fh8bc

    4 жыл бұрын

    That cos men don't change 🤣

  • @joneh9483

    @joneh9483

    4 жыл бұрын

    Men wil always be Men thats why

  • @huckster699
    @huckster69911 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 30 year old man and I have never cheated and what he is saying is true.

  • @Sfw20brinoue

    @Sfw20brinoue

    4 жыл бұрын

    Where you at 😊

  • @deadeyehiki7317

    @deadeyehiki7317

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Sfw20brinoue 7 years in the past

  • @favouredqueenmadollar3485

    @favouredqueenmadollar3485

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Sfw20brinoue 7 years ago...check his comment

  • @ilovemylife2012

    @ilovemylife2012

    3 жыл бұрын

    This comment gave me hope for my life :)

  • @omniasdairy

    @omniasdairy

    2 жыл бұрын

    how do you feel after 9 years now 🧍

  • @GypsyRock
    @GypsyRock5 жыл бұрын

    He’s just a good guy man. I have read and watched a lot about him. Very humble. Came from literally nothing and built his empire and stayed humble and encouraging and funny. Appreciate people like him with great stories

  • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    4 жыл бұрын

    Except for the cheating part...

  • @babyc.3015

    @babyc.3015

    2 жыл бұрын

    Any man can do that, it's what they're built for

  • @davidangermuller4128

    @davidangermuller4128

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@babyc.3015 lol wtf

  • @billionanime1592

    @billionanime1592

    Жыл бұрын

    Am also a good guy

  • @soniairak80

    @soniairak80

    Жыл бұрын

    @@billionanime1592 Lmao

  • @3sweetpeas2luv
    @3sweetpeas2luv5 жыл бұрын

    Everyone is laughing, but he’s telling the truth! Listening with a broken heart!

  • @Interestingchica

    @Interestingchica

    5 жыл бұрын

    Are you feeling better friend?

  • @danielletaylor5103

    @danielletaylor5103

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amanda Tidwell me too .... listening with a broken heart (and I made him wait 90 days) 😂😂😂😂

  • @LegitBitxh

    @LegitBitxh

    4 жыл бұрын

    I just went through a break up about an hour ago. I have this protective mechanism where I just shut down every feeling I had for the person, regardless of how much I loved them and I really loved him but I feel Ok. I thought he would be the one for me but I guess I was wrong. He isn't a bad person at all, he just has a hard time being vulnerable and showing his emotions and I think this is what ended US. I will be alright all I want to do right now is work on myself and be better to welcome the one who's for me. I don't want to make any more mistakes

  • @LegitBitxh

    @LegitBitxh

    4 жыл бұрын

    Forgot to mention I'm a virgin and one thing that I appreciated about him was the fact that he respected that and although he wasn't a virgin he had lived (as in, he slept with a few people before we met🙃 so he was very experienced) he matured enough to the point where he wanted a wife. Someone who wanted sex only after marriage which was music to my ears, even when we were close to doing it he stopped it because he respected me enough to not allow me to make a decision in the heat of a moment, he admitted that he was tempted to just say fuck it and do it because he was very attracted to me, he was turned on every time we hung out but his respect for me prevented him from listening to his needs as a man. He is AMAZING I never thought I'd ever meet a man like him. thought I would have had to convince someone to wait but I felt so blessed that I met him. We talked about the future and he told me that he thinks about different ways he would propose to me and he definitely saw us getting married in the future. I'm a pisces he's a cancer. We thought we were soulmates, he's everything I've ever dreamed of my man to be like but unfortunate, you can't always have what you want or things do not always happen the way you want them to. Was trying to avoid thinking about the positives sides of him because it makes me miss him more but whatever

  • @sairysv8625

    @sairysv8625

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ah yeah. It’s a painful process. Amanda you will be okay xoxo

  • @theChristiantalk
    @theChristiantalk4 жыл бұрын

    Who’s here in nov 2019?

  • @marytheresa9530

    @marytheresa9530

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am

  • @phindileyeni8930

    @phindileyeni8930

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am

  • @theblings1370

    @theblings1370

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @mmadichabamohlabane5613

    @mmadichabamohlabane5613

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am :)

  • @majid8083

    @majid8083

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ketu Charity I am 👋

  • @sophisticatedbadgurl
    @sophisticatedbadgurl15 жыл бұрын

    "Y'all keep talking to each other bout men, and keep swapping stupid information" I HOLLERED!! THAT WAS SO TRUE AND FUNNY!"

  • @kimberleyantoine-williams2620

    @kimberleyantoine-williams2620

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂yes

  • @Wheezy62120

    @Wheezy62120

    4 жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY

  • @Nokss87

    @Nokss87

    2 жыл бұрын

    I read your comment as he said it 😁😁😁

  • @user-po6uq5yw3i
    @user-po6uq5yw3i5 жыл бұрын

    This is such a great book but I think the biggest thing of all is always trust your intuition. Ladies! Your gut feeling is always right about a man 💯%

  • @wendeln92

    @wendeln92

    5 жыл бұрын

    I recently heard comedian say something like, "I think women's intuition is a lie, it doesn't exist (listen to all the women in the audience boo), then he says, "If you have intuition, how come it took so long for you to figure out that I'm an asshole?" You could also say the same things about women, men need to listen to their gut before getting involved with some psycho who is only after his wallet, use you gut and think with the head that is on top of your shoulders. Be very aware of what her intentions for you are. Is she only using you or is she really interested in knowing you and developing something, well at least for a while anyway. My first instinct is ALWAYS, OK, what the hell does she want out of me? See ladies, it works both ways., great huh?

  • @Victoria-gv3qh

    @Victoria-gv3qh

    4 жыл бұрын

    YUSSSSSSS!

  • @BabyTLW

    @BabyTLW

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's the key! Some advice is good, but follow your own intuition 1st

  • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    4 жыл бұрын

    Have a guy friend with you or a woman that doesn't like your type. They'll spot all the flags right off.

  • @manuelmagana728

    @manuelmagana728

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dont agree with this comment. By saying.this you are saying.that your opinion is always right but who's to honestly say that you dont have issues within yourself that are stopping you from seeing a good man

  • @nondumisosibiya5573
    @nondumisosibiya55734 жыл бұрын

    Who is still here with me in July 2019?

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    @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @leesawilson1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Emokiriemi Abednego UTI r

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    @archiiepoo

    4 жыл бұрын

    August 2019 :)

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    @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @ongezwangotana1400

    @ongezwangotana1400

    4 жыл бұрын

    September 2019

  • @sandrat7709
    @sandrat77092 жыл бұрын

    13 years later and his advice is still very true ! 👍

  • @Livelearnapply

    @Livelearnapply

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts .

  • @jrwheeler81
    @jrwheeler812 жыл бұрын

    "Messin' up those flowers, diggin' holes..." LMAO, I LOVE Steve Harvey!!!!!!

  • @MrDream-pt3gf
    @MrDream-pt3gf4 жыл бұрын

    Who is there in January 2020?

  • @missxmarvel

    @missxmarvel

    4 жыл бұрын

    Shut up.

  • @alexismariecruz4693

    @alexismariecruz4693

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's July already

  • @terrancethomas9792

    @terrancethomas9792

    3 жыл бұрын

    Alexis Marie Cruz, September.

  • @johnezepue2334
    @johnezepue23344 жыл бұрын

    Who is here December 2019

  • @MariaDiaz-kk5od

    @MariaDiaz-kk5od

    4 жыл бұрын

    2020 lol

  • @coveredbynobantu6082
    @coveredbynobantu60825 жыл бұрын

    This book actually changed my life.

  • @miraile
    @miraile11 жыл бұрын

    You just basically described why he says hold out 90 days. If a guy can't wait 90 days for you, he's not worth having sex with.

  • @elizabethrussell5099

    @elizabethrussell5099

    Жыл бұрын

    Already

  • @victortaylor7737

    @victortaylor7737

    Жыл бұрын

    But women still give it to guys sometimes the first time.though now with all the diseases out here,I'd think anyone would know better.

  • @kirk1007

    @kirk1007

    Жыл бұрын

    Honestly if they want you they wait EVEN longer

  • @sirninjaraiden

    @sirninjaraiden

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kirk1007 This was how it was back then. What ruined it is the woman that the guy waited for stepped out, so now guys don't wanna wait as there are men who don't have to

  • @anastasiapena
    @anastasiapena5 жыл бұрын

    Steve is a fucking genius. I cannot believe he spit that much knowledge in 2 seconds. Such an eye opening video

  • @alinas8003

    @alinas8003

    4 жыл бұрын

    His books r so good own teo of them and don't regret buying them

  • @WarpPal

    @WarpPal

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kelli R. Morris You do that with every man you've been with.

  • @kirk1007

    @kirk1007

    Жыл бұрын

    Read the book It is a GEM

  • @yeapeachy4487
    @yeapeachy44874 жыл бұрын

    How he lifts Ellen hands for a high five 😂I love this man

  • @thelittlethings678
    @thelittlethings6784 жыл бұрын

    Steve; "if there wasn't women in this world I wouldn't even bathe" Ellen: "amen brother" *clap* so wholesome this cracked me up

  • @cocochannel3694

    @cocochannel3694

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahhhhhhhhhhhhh

  • @fitnesstransformationclub6611

    @fitnesstransformationclub6611

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂 that part

  • @budgetingstrategies6240

    @budgetingstrategies6240

    Жыл бұрын

    Timestamp pleEASE!? I DESERVE IT

  • @ashalily5
    @ashalily53 жыл бұрын

    My now husband started taking care of me from day one! We met in college right at the end of the year. During the summer I was in NJ and he was in Canada. He let me know right away that he was interested in me and was not playing around. He wanted a girlfriend. Throughout the whole summer we called each other and talked ON THE PHONE. We decided to start being serious with each other on July 9th. soon after, he sent me flowers just because. Then for my birthday on July 30th he sent me Roses and a teddy bear. Then at some other point he sent me an amazon gift card so that I could buy stuff I wanted. It wasn't much bc we were in college but it was the thought that mattered. We have been married for 13 years, together for 15 and have two kids. We are actually better today than we were back in college!

  • @victortaylor7737

    @victortaylor7737

    Жыл бұрын

    Very encouraging uplifting story.im a guy,in a relationship with a woman 10 years my senior,& we are having a blast,so much so a woman 14 years my junior nicknamed us 16&15!we kiss& hug in public& we love it.but I told her it's feelings that count,& we look for ways to please each other.God bless you both!

  • @carolsmart238

    @carolsmart238

    Жыл бұрын

    So happy you found each other! So many of us aren’t so lucky, but it gives us hope for live & happiness! 🙏🏼💕🤗

  • @cathyt144
    @cathyt1445 жыл бұрын

    im 58yrs old. the best advice i can give ladies on dating is this: how a man talks about and treats his mother will tell you everything you need to know. if he disrespects the first woman in his life,the one who gave him life,then thats how hes going to treat all the other women in his life. if possible,watch and listen to him when hes around his mama. dont tell him what youre doing cause he can be faking it to impress you. good luck. i wish someone had told me this when i first started dating.

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    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @DopeBoysofAtlanta

    @DopeBoysofAtlanta

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cathy T this is not true. His mother could’ve treated him bad his whole life. You don’t know everyone’s situation

  • @naijafoodie6205

    @naijafoodie6205

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 really

  • @Cheftabathawycc8018

    @Cheftabathawycc8018

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not true all the time, I fell madly in love with a man, that's 56 yrs.old man. He loves his mom like crazy, hick I love her. He has 7 sisters., he love and adores each woman.....And yet to treat a woman right. No matter what. I have to give it to him, he's smooth with the talk and actions at the begin. Then you name.......Smh.

  • @averythebutterfly

    @averythebutterfly

    4 жыл бұрын

    What about amamas boy. He gets what he wsnts

  • @BlackZethu
    @BlackZethu5 жыл бұрын

    who is still here May 2019

  • @DivinaGesare

    @DivinaGesare

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @mariahk8889

    @mariahk8889

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yuupp

  • @ticiagaobodiwe2590

    @ticiagaobodiwe2590

    5 жыл бұрын

    Princess Zethu Mkhize me ey.i need to get that

  • @lisawright812

    @lisawright812

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @nancyadams4505

    @nancyadams4505

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me.

  • @100samanthamarie
    @100samanthamarie5 жыл бұрын

    Steve Harvey: Cupid! The audience goes wild Steve Harvey: 👀 LOL

  • @iAmAuroraRosa

    @iAmAuroraRosa

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @qamaraporch760

    @qamaraporch760

    5 жыл бұрын

    LMFAOOO OMG

  • @sallyskellington6344

    @sallyskellington6344

    5 жыл бұрын

    Why are they going crazy on the mystery word? Does the audience get a free book? Lol

  • @na0m1fes51

    @na0m1fes51

    4 жыл бұрын

    😍😂😂😂😂

  • @viviannguyen3260

    @viviannguyen3260

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sallyskellington6344 yes, and he didn't know that

  • @kyrareneeLOA
    @kyrareneeLOA5 жыл бұрын

    90 day "probation period" and ask up-front what his intentions are. Yes! Men are either playing with you, or planing with you. Does your guy have a plan with you?!

  • @arethamcadoo6385

    @arethamcadoo6385

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kyra Renee T this is excellently stated Kyra

  • @shiwan45

    @shiwan45

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stop letting men step in your yard wanting to taste your cookies .

  • @captivating50

    @captivating50

    4 жыл бұрын

    After three months he's been with other women. He's suggesting whore mongering. Read the Bible! Why would you want to think like a man. Who the f..k is Steve Harvey the comedian?

  • @kathysmall6303

    @kathysmall6303

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes because fuckboys are always 100 percent honest right? Lol

  • @elenabob4953

    @elenabob4953

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kathysmall6303 Well if they are not, you waste only 90 days.

  • @carolynlogan8011
    @carolynlogan80112 жыл бұрын

    I learned this years ago when recovering from codependency. Never lay down with a man, wait it out. 3 months sounds like a good goal.

  • @erriaelizabeth6382

    @erriaelizabeth6382

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yess I learned this as well!!!! Sometimes we have to learn hard lessons

  • @victortaylor7737

    @victortaylor7737

    Жыл бұрын

    A female should always wait,cause guys really what sex above a lot of things.i want sex from a woman,but what I've learned is that it's far better to have to have a man who has your back,& be there for the long haul,no matter what,but that woman has to do her part by finding out about him& let him know.Steve gave some great advice.

  • @davekooper
    @davekooper10 жыл бұрын

    This man is a genius.

  • @andrenine1216

    @andrenine1216

    6 жыл бұрын

    lol.

  • @africaindabuilding9541

    @africaindabuilding9541

    5 жыл бұрын

    Facts!

  • @lilyvalley5389

    @lilyvalley5389

    5 жыл бұрын

    He is humble down to Earth & he says he isn't smartest, no one is, true, etc but he is pretty smart. I like how he speaks. He is so funny about it.

  • @jewelsokike2712

    @jewelsokike2712

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @falanajerido6939

    @falanajerido6939

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @vickymugambi4816
    @vickymugambi48165 жыл бұрын

    Watching this April 2019

  • @Rita-yb6pk

    @Rita-yb6pk

    5 жыл бұрын

    Watching in May 2019 😂

  • @vickymugambi4816

    @vickymugambi4816

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Rita-yb6pk 😂😂😂

  • @sheilagarner1615
    @sheilagarner161510 жыл бұрын

    Love Steve H. Every woman should have standards. A man should be able to tell a woman his intentions.

  • @limfenyuykinyuy4861

    @limfenyuykinyuy4861

    5 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @athuaytol3346

    @athuaytol3346

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sheila Garner I love you there

  • @Szobiz

    @Szobiz

    5 жыл бұрын

    i doubt woman tell their intentions either

  • @don8668

    @don8668

    5 жыл бұрын

    Women are not faultless when it comes to not revealing intentions. Most women keep a bird in the bush (to take them to dinner and movues if they have not found their dream guy) and continue to shop for something better. Even better most women always have a man waiting in the wings if their main target does not work out.

  • @johnezepue2334

    @johnezepue2334

    4 жыл бұрын

    And women should be ready to find out their true intentions

  • @brittneyikeda2344
    @brittneyikeda23445 жыл бұрын

    His face when the crowd starts cheering at Cupid is hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @rosemarygood7684
    @rosemarygood76845 жыл бұрын

    “We saw you we saw something we wanted and we’re going over there to see how much it’s going to cost to get it”

  • @lauralauren2402

    @lauralauren2402

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤯 Reality mind-blowing

  • @breakergirl47

    @breakergirl47

    Жыл бұрын

    When it’s high cost , they value it and it’s low cost they don’t.

  • @SouthernBoi94
    @SouthernBoi9412 жыл бұрын

    That's so true he's either playing with you or planning with you

  • @vietvipp
    @vietvipp10 жыл бұрын

    "amen brother" I'm literally ROFL

  • @HopeUnquenchable
    @HopeUnquenchable4 жыл бұрын

    Ellen: Don’t you let those men step in your yard... Steve: Yeah, messin' up your flowers, diggin' holes... Me: Bouncin’ around in your bushes...

  • @mariegreen2454

    @mariegreen2454

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@theresaandrade8261 ux

  • @lup6974

    @lup6974

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 EXACTLY

  • @captivating50

    @captivating50

    4 жыл бұрын

    Steve's been in weeds and flowers! Lol!

  • @lauralauren2402

    @lauralauren2402

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣

  • @terrancethomas9792

    @terrancethomas9792

    3 жыл бұрын

    Repeatedly, in and out between those bushes.

  • @blondienicole9684
    @blondienicole96845 жыл бұрын

    IDK why but Steve reminds me of a black Dr. Phil

  • @mollyhobiteme4984

    @mollyhobiteme4984

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Blondie Nicole It’s the Bald head and mustache, no doubt.

  • @monicagross5131

    @monicagross5131

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @prunek6840

    @prunek6840

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bold and a beard and smart and great advice! There u go.

  • @captivating50

    @captivating50

    4 жыл бұрын

    No way! He's not that intelligent!

  • @laurenhahn890

    @laurenhahn890

    4 жыл бұрын

    Or maybe dr phil is a white steve harvey

  • @Liz515TN
    @Liz515TN Жыл бұрын

    I own his book and it's absolutely one of the best bits of information I've ever got my hands on!

  • @terrancethomas9792
    @terrancethomas97923 жыл бұрын

    Famous band sung these lines, “Thunder only happens when it’s raining. Players only love you when they’re playing.”

  • @kirk1007

    @kirk1007

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @itumashigo7521
    @itumashigo75214 жыл бұрын

    I remember I asked a guy what his intentions were and he was like, "Wooow I see you like getting straight to the point..." 😂😂😂. I don't know why guys don't expect us to ask them these kind of questions at this time and age.

  • @xermy1648

    @xermy1648

    4 жыл бұрын

    ...because you girls never did in the first place?

  • @lauralauren2402

    @lauralauren2402

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or "I like a woman who knows what she wants!" 🙄😅

  • @crystalthow5533

    @crystalthow5533

    Жыл бұрын

    Guys brain are built different lol

  • @teresacalladine7479

    @teresacalladine7479

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes , tell me about it Say goodbye, if they don't want to know.

  • @shirleycarb132
    @shirleycarb1325 жыл бұрын

    Yes he is actually right but also consider this, don't be a doble standard society. Don't touch or mislead a woman if you have no future plans with her. What comes around comes back around.

  • @don8668

    @don8668

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am actually cool with that as long as women do the same. Do not let me waste my time wining and dining you if you already know you are not interested. Better yet, do not agree to marry me unless you are passionately in love with me.

  • @bettyjtanner

    @bettyjtanner

    4 жыл бұрын

    SAD part is these Players play the Husband role so good even past 90 days & only way to see his true colors is just let his acting play out

  • @twilight2160

    @twilight2160

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @007nadineL

    @007nadineL

    4 жыл бұрын

    A man can and will screw a woman but he sud tell her beforehand he's just looking for fun. It's on him to let her know.

  • @meganmiles4941

    @meganmiles4941

    2 жыл бұрын

    Actions speak louder than words

  • @normafloresperez7697
    @normafloresperez76974 жыл бұрын

    Not only is he funny but he is very smart! God Bless him n his family

  • @kerrywhite5253
    @kerrywhite52535 жыл бұрын

    Ellen is hilarious!!! " don't you let those men step in your yard"!!😂😂😂😂

  • @sportyshonna8435
    @sportyshonna84355 жыл бұрын

    Earth Wind& Fire... Fantasy!!!!y favorite song! I love Steve Harvey 💙

  • @xtallllala1275
    @xtallllala12755 жыл бұрын

    “ if u are a Man U r supposed to meet the standards”

  • @Quintaline
    @Quintaline4 жыл бұрын

    I love this man,he keeps smile on my face.

  • @nosairabs5581

    @nosairabs5581

    4 жыл бұрын

    FOR REAL, I also did get introduced to matty via a comment made by someone and I can boldly say I got my moneys worth, so if you NEED HELP LIKE I DID IN GETTING INFORMATION??? no matter the LOCATION???? then contact Matty via **mattyw193@gmail com** or text or WhatsApp +12402843057 for SUCH SERVICES✅✅✅

  • @susanwest8239
    @susanwest82392 жыл бұрын

    Ellen many many years ago. You gave us a ride home after your performance. I'll never forget this time. You are such a lovely lady. Thank you so much. You touched my heart.

  • @Supablonde1
    @Supablonde110 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your lovely comments. My husband does tell me constantly that he loves me,calls me a hundred times a day while he's at work,and is a good husband in every way. If you seriously want a good woman,you must be a good man. So if you speak vulgar for example,you cant really expect your wife not too.Not saying that you're not a good man,but there's an expression, like attracts like. You will attract someone with good values if you yourself have good values,and im sure you do!!!

  • @bezasolange3604
    @bezasolange36045 жыл бұрын

    Watching June 2019. Thank you uncle Steve. I watch you all the time and I always learn something new. Thank you

  • @osh_hoq6217

    @osh_hoq6217

    5 жыл бұрын

    💜💜💜💜

  • @aphroditeg2712
    @aphroditeg27125 жыл бұрын

    Dude can act one way for 90 days, split on the 91st. Look at his actions, judge with a level head and move from there.

  • @rhiyoncegold8087

    @rhiyoncegold8087

    5 жыл бұрын

    Trust me if he acting at some point the real him will come out and 90 days is along wait for players.If you pay attention to the details you will see the red flags.

  • @didiibearr

    @didiibearr

    5 жыл бұрын

    THIS!!!!!

  • @meesamagill1193

    @meesamagill1193

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@rhiyoncegold8087 i once heard steve say 'dont collect red flags'

  • @alinas8003

    @alinas8003

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don't tell him u r waiting 90 days, don't give the playbook so to speak. If he asks just say I'm not ready yet or something like that

  • @alinas8003

    @alinas8003

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Hawa Fuseini I agree that the 90 day rule is stupid

  • @simplehibiscuslife1188
    @simplehibiscuslife11885 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely Love Steve! Listened to him on Oprah’s Master Class and his story is inspiring. I want to leave a legacy behind when I go, like Steve, so my children’s children will remember what I gave them.

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial91376 жыл бұрын

    This is something that each one of us should incorporate in our relationship. It's very helpful to me since I just reconcile with my partner and I don't want to lose him again anymore.

  • @brezzy7788able
    @brezzy7788able4 жыл бұрын

    Who still with me in September 2019

  • @leandrobarrington3459

    @leandrobarrington3459

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me bro

  • @carolinemotaung3377

    @carolinemotaung3377

    4 жыл бұрын

    Still here🙋

  • @aleksandra9404
    @aleksandra94044 жыл бұрын

    2020 and we still need advice from Legend

  • @riley8429
    @riley84295 жыл бұрын

    “..and 6 months later I was COOL with it.”

  • @dahianagalarza
    @dahianagalarza5 жыл бұрын

    Love this two together I wish they make more shows together

  • @cooluterme
    @cooluterme10 жыл бұрын

    Two of my favorite comedians ever!!!

  • @TJ30100
    @TJ301005 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha. I absolutely love this!!! He's so on point! Love his charisma too ❤❤❤

  • @bellaanthony464
    @bellaanthony464 Жыл бұрын

    This was 13 years ago (2009) and Steve looks EXACTLY THE SAME in 2022!!

  • @nalanibrooks216
    @nalanibrooks2165 жыл бұрын

    The Benefit package and the fences really hit home!

  • @shaunnigilmore9391
    @shaunnigilmore93915 жыл бұрын

    Lol Steve is the man he always keep it real at the end of the day we all make mistakes nobody is perfect God gave this man a second chance and I respect Steve for that

  • @AlloftheAbuv
    @AlloftheAbuv12 жыл бұрын

    Love the Ford analogy... He said "If it wasn't women in this world I wouldn't even bathe' LOL

  • @Tshanduko
    @Tshanduko Жыл бұрын

    13 years later am here watching and listening to this

  • @kymberlydavis8030
    @kymberlydavis803010 жыл бұрын

    My daughter bought this book, and she was a waitress/bartender, she took it to the bar with her and would read this book to customers!

  • @81sexislim
    @81sexislim10 жыл бұрын

    Well as far as the 3 month rule go. It really dnt matter cuz a dude can put up a facade for them 3 months then be out after he gets it

  • @don8668

    @don8668

    5 жыл бұрын

    He can even get it from someone else until she is ready. On the flip side, women usually only made that rule for a guy they want to keep or think they can keep. They will still hook up with that super hot guy they see at the club or on vacation (sometimes that same night).

  • @BabyTLW

    @BabyTLW

    4 жыл бұрын

    Truth! Happened before

  • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    4 жыл бұрын

    If you don't know where he is for a fact, you don't WANT to know where he is.

  • @DieynabaNduwayo

    @DieynabaNduwayo

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactely

  • @kimpatterson1318

    @kimpatterson1318

    3 жыл бұрын

    But if women pay attention, I'm talkin really pay attention we know who that guy is. I got my feelings hurt alot but it works. Well for me at least and I didn't half ass the process which is where women fuck up. But if u wanna keep crying ur eyes out over a no good piece of trash that's your fault

  • @xtallllala1275
    @xtallllala12755 жыл бұрын

    “ how high the bar is and how much it cost to get there “

  • @19BlueOcean95
    @19BlueOcean9511 жыл бұрын

    "my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard and their like it's better than yours" Thats what came to my mind when Ellen said don't let them boys in your yard :P

  • @thejazzi1780
    @thejazzi17804 жыл бұрын

    Watched Friday, Nov.22,2019 and this is prevalent today like it was yesterday!😍

  • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    4 жыл бұрын

    You mean "relevant." Not prevalent.

  • @skyler807
    @skyler80713 жыл бұрын

    Boy I am happy my fence was high!!! I waited to find a man that was willing to work and climb to my high standards...

  • @skyybleu3220

    @skyybleu3220

    2 жыл бұрын

    Can u give pointers?... also.. what would u do if your bf/child's father cheated with his sons mother?

  • @Trelli28
    @Trelli2814 жыл бұрын

    his insight is EXPERIENCE and OBSERVATION. Not all men possess that ability. Also, he has not claim to be an expert on relationships. He tells women how men behave and why they behave the way they do. SIMPLE

  • @BeautifulDreamerK
    @BeautifulDreamerK11 жыл бұрын

    The story he says in the beginning is true. It happened to me. I felt disrespected with how he spoke and had this gut feeling that I deserved more. So I made it clear to him that that was what I was looking for and I didn't want to waste my time with someone who speaks that way to me (one time offender but still) so I ended it. He definitely changed his act (which I wasn't expecting) and I've never seen a man work so hard for me... happily. :)

  • @jackieb4608

    @jackieb4608

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this ❤ Just wondering if you are still with him?

  • @BeautifulDreamerK

    @BeautifulDreamerK

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jackieb4608 thanks for your comment! I forgot I wrote this 10 years ago! Yes, we are happily married 🥰 Steve is right on the money. Old fashioned works and you gotta be very straightforward with men.

  • @jackieb4608

    @jackieb4608

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BeautifulDreamerK Oh, wow! That’s amazing 🥰 I’m so happy for you. I guess men can really change for a woman they want. I would’ve seen that as a red flag, but I guess if we address something, and they change it, they really want to make it work. Cheers to ya

  • @dr_grayyy
    @dr_grayyy4 жыл бұрын

    Who's still here in October 2019. 10 years on the advice's still RELEVANT! Steve's pants still killing me though. Lol

  • @vilmawilliams2428
    @vilmawilliams24285 жыл бұрын

    We LOVE our Steve🌹😍❤ He's amazing!!!!😍😍

  • @virgobae4899
    @virgobae48994 жыл бұрын

    Well said 🙌 Thank you so much as I needed to hear this!!! Definitely resonates with me and making a lot of changes while single so when the time comes I know. Thanks, Steve!

  • @malikmalik1141
    @malikmalik11416 жыл бұрын

    Steve is real and un-cut

  • @Angelic-tt8qt
    @Angelic-tt8qt5 жыл бұрын

    Amazing 😁, the book is so awesome! I love Steve Harvey's personality, and true words lol.

  • @ms.capricorn4540
    @ms.capricorn4540 Жыл бұрын

    Shout out to the Libras, Capricorns and Aquarians. Honest communication!

  • @LetsCatchYourDream
    @LetsCatchYourDream11 жыл бұрын

    Playing with you? OR PLANNING with you? Which is it? Which do you want?

  • @francieodendahl9351

    @francieodendahl9351

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cynthia McCrea Bo

  • @godiyatanze4786
    @godiyatanze47864 жыл бұрын

    Steve has always been an inspiration to me. Thank you for being a success....

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy56654 жыл бұрын

    I have both of Steve Harvey's books. Read the first one. I will reread it again!!!!

  • @Mandinko23
    @Mandinko2313 жыл бұрын

    i love steve harvey, he is sooo honest, and just plain simple.

  • @Saf_Shares
    @Saf_Shares Жыл бұрын

    His reactions after each segment was hilarious. The real deal Steve.

  • @echozhao2679
    @echozhao26794 жыл бұрын

    Still here November 2019

  • @stratonchallenga1185
    @stratonchallenga11854 жыл бұрын

    We need more of this ......

  • @alethahoward5199
    @alethahoward51995 жыл бұрын

    Steve u are just the kinda of advisor any couples would love to have.... U speak about the social n spiritual side of the relationship

  • @soni1109
    @soni11095 жыл бұрын

    Best Advices ever... Thank you Steve...😍

  • @sammie23breezy13
    @sammie23breezy134 жыл бұрын

    Who here February 2020 lurking ? ❤

  • @JennaMaBob
    @JennaMaBob Жыл бұрын

    Haha Steve's face when the bells ring! Hahah. Love it

  • @yaniqueduhaney1370
    @yaniqueduhaney13704 жыл бұрын

    Who is still here in October 2919

  • @josephamunime1215

    @josephamunime1215

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me Hahahahaha....crazy

  • @thankgodndukwu1041

    @thankgodndukwu1041

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm here

  • @yaniqueduhaney1370

    @yaniqueduhaney1370

    4 жыл бұрын

    Aww 😉 be good now everyone

  • @Azaniyaworld

    @Azaniyaworld

    4 жыл бұрын

    yanique duhaney I am

  • @olgasa6943

    @olgasa6943

    4 жыл бұрын

    2919????what did I miss???

  • @jacquelinemcabee2978
    @jacquelinemcabee29785 жыл бұрын

    Love myself some Steve Harvey shows & advice

  • @sunnydays4flwrs
    @sunnydays4flwrs12 жыл бұрын

    Ellen said,"Amen brother." Loved that!!!

  • @christianahorsfall4899
    @christianahorsfall48992 жыл бұрын

    Thanks papito your words are appreciated

  • @debbyalicia733
    @debbyalicia7335 жыл бұрын

    Yess even he’s a humorous person, but actually all he said are true! I couldn’t agree more

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial5 жыл бұрын

    That's what men do when they're truly interested and genuinely have feelings for you.

  • @Dalit_Ray
    @Dalit_Ray4 жыл бұрын

    "Amen bro" got me so much🤣🤣🤣💯

  • @lakeshawilson2140
    @lakeshawilson21404 жыл бұрын

    I got to say Steve Harvey you tell it like it is have a blessed day God bless you and your family😊💯

  • @myrnadavis2409
    @myrnadavis24094 жыл бұрын

    If your standard is to wait until marriage then that is what he has to meet You're either valuable and worth it to him or you're not In the meantime I haven't lost anything

  • @bosslady2002

    @bosslady2002

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen to that comment

  • @saquoiag
    @saquoiag5 жыл бұрын

    Still laughing in 2019! Steve was so confused when he said the mystery word LOL

  • @glorianelson1839
    @glorianelson18394 жыл бұрын

    Who is still here in 2019??

  • @nosairabs5581

    @nosairabs5581

    4 жыл бұрын

    FOR REAL, I also did get introduced to matty via a comment made by someone and I can boldly say I got my moneys worth, so if you NEED HELP LIKE I DID IN GETTING INFORMATION??? no matter the LOCATION???? then contact Matty via **mattyw193@gmail com** or text or WhatsApp +12402843057 for SUCH SERVICES✅✅✅

  • @jeonrabi4497
    @jeonrabi44975 жыл бұрын

    I need more of this😂😂

  • @TampaSingles
    @TampaSingles10 жыл бұрын

    Steve Harvey tells it how it is! Great information for women

  • @tanakinskywalker7089

    @tanakinskywalker7089

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don’t believe him. His advice will keep you single and unhappy

  • @milachyc88
    @milachyc885 жыл бұрын

    We don’t know how men think because men are not honest even if we ask them . They twist information however favors them, that’s why us women don’t know. I didn’t read your book but you give great advice from videos I was watching . Smart talk!

  • @laquandaeley7702

    @laquandaeley7702

    5 жыл бұрын

    milachyc88 laossoswelwow

  • @truthexposed839

    @truthexposed839

    5 жыл бұрын

    milachyc88 observe behavior and then the pieces will fall in place.

  • @don8668

    @don8668

    5 жыл бұрын

    And women are honest?

  • @louid8

    @louid8

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@don8668 yes we are

  • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do a background and serious reconnaissance. Do what you have to do. Got cameras now you can't even SEE. Your house, you can rig it up as you want. I stf would.

  • @princessingrid6209
    @princessingrid62095 жыл бұрын

    I love Steve Harvey God bless him

  • @LadrhynBexxSoundHealer
    @LadrhynBexxSoundHealer4 жыл бұрын

    such great advice! thanks for this

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