Shes very unhappy, you can tell the way she keeps defending him but he doesn't do the same for her. He's not walking on eggshells when he talks to her but she is constantly. She needs to open up and be very honest with what she needs in order to truly be happy in her marriage.

“Everything you going through is God preparing you for what you asked God for “ 🔥🔥🔥🔥these words really gave me goosebumps

@YourHighness8888

Жыл бұрын

God brings you together, but it's up to them to make it work.

@YourHighness8888

Жыл бұрын

Relationships are not guaranteed by God.

@robinsonaustin7670

Жыл бұрын

This word caught me for real

@robinsonaustin7670

Жыл бұрын

Quite frankly

Friendship and communication is always the key to a great marriage.

For me I think for any Relationship to be Successful, there needs to be loving Communication & Understanding..

@carolyndelong4737

Жыл бұрын

Ella , amen amen amen !!

One of the few interviews I've seen where the couple seems to be very mature and not foolish like some of these other couples you see out there.

@cindycranford6467

3 ай бұрын

Very proper

Thanks God for letting me find this program. Thanks Steve... May God grant ease and goodness as well as good health. Amin

Uncle Steve, you are indeed on a mission. God Almighty is using you, well done for availing yourself.

What a beautiful and healthy couple. They're so respectful of each other. They seem like they get a long we'll and have a string union. The translations were hilarious

My Ex used to say that all the time and NEVER gave anything and the spontaneous never came to be . He would always say "you made me mad or pissed me off so I just didn't get you anything. ".

@shasma72

5 ай бұрын

Glad he’s an ex now

I just wanted to say I don’t know what you might he going through Or what situation you’re in right now but I no god is there for you and he loves you God bless everyone who came across.🇧🇸❤️Marcia

WOW! I felt like this conversation is for me and my husband. Thank you Steve!

Listening to Steve takes me to learning ,have fun and develop my life experience most of all

Communication is key 🔑 👌🏾 💯 got it!

I agree with Mrs Steve , her days is okay , her birthday is first , just put her feels first.

It’s the issue of having BUILT IN LOVE LANGUAGES yall!! It’s a tough one to conquer. Thank you for bravely putting your hearts out there ❤ we love and appreciate this insightful segment 🙏

Steve Harvey you‘re the best!

Her husband does not look impressed by this conversation 😂

@wendyhestick8514

Жыл бұрын

She keeps apologizing and seems insecure about losing him.

@sweetman5249

11 ай бұрын

Yup he is a good guy

Wow great conversation, I love this couple already 😘, and Thank you to Steve 😍

Thank you Uncle Steve for sharing your wisdom about communicating with your partner. Enjoy your day

Steve was right . I am sure the lady was scared when Steve said “You have been stupid for a while “ her facial expression said it all but I loved how Steve went about it . Although I love spontaneous gifts; I love to be treated special on my birthdays

@ucheiwuajoku1037

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, I saw the expression on the woman's face like, "oops! this will cause a quarrel when we get home". She quickly rose in her husband's defence. And Steve maneuvered his way around it to give him accolades. Lastly, there was Calm

Like "what did you hear". Steve looks sharp and love that he always refers to,Marjorie

People need to get out of their feelings and realize that the world isn’t against them. Take my words for exactly what they say, don’t add your insecurities or chip on your shoulder to them.

9:22 Again, she only asked a simple question. Why he got to be defensive?

@anika14149

Жыл бұрын

It's about time and the understanding of the reader... remember these are messages not verbal questions...

$5 can be a lot if you don't have it/hard times.

A great couple that love each other needs to be friends

Girl please stop... He needs to step up and you are making excuses for him. He is in his EGO. Girl get off those egg shells or you will always be making excuses. None of this is her fault. You need to ask. Girl those egg shells hurt.

I love this show Love from East Africa Burundi 🇧🇮🇧🇮🇧🇮🇧🇮🇧🇮🇧🇮.

Control issues. Respect is needed. Not perfectionism.

Steve ur a man+ thank u,keep helping & shining

He is not stupid. I like that as well, when I least expect it. I am with him!

I think their marriage is in trouble?? She is dealing with a man who is trying to find himself and he is in his Ego..

@lesegonkoana8463

3 ай бұрын

Agreed. He seems short fused and lacks EQ

My BD is six days before Christmas and I feel the same way as well. Two different days, don't attach them

This goes to show that we all insert subtext into people's words to us (not just women) and therefore sometimes we have to work in opposition of how we feel because it may just be our individual perspective that's making something look bad to us... They have little disagreements which can be fixed by 1- acknowledging if thats actually what the person said or if its my interpretation of what they said and 2 - if it's my interpretation, asking for clarity in a nice/solution-orientated way.

Thanks Steve, so much!!!

Love your analysis

Thank you sir

This man needs to drop his ego a little bit

Caribbean upbringing is the best; the culture, morals and standards

Dad’s always overlook things 🤦🏽‍♀️

Great show today!

They are mature and good people. I like them. Good luck

Rashid looking so stressed out

God bless

That’s right.

That’s why txting sucks and always better to go old school: call or talk in person

I must admit people such as steve harvey are made for purpose is not that much schooled nor spiritual but he seems to get things very right at simplicity ....GOD is preparing you for what you have asked HIM for.... many hate the process including me often times we questions GOD's intent during the interval

I’m happy for them that they have a good marriage, I wish the problems they have would have been my only problem in my marriage, but sadly being married to a narc for 16 years with 2 kids, my problems are way worse…

The gift thing...if he won't give her that, he's not loving.

Caribbean stand up!!!

2:32 😂😂😂😂😂😂

8:25 She was just asking a question. What’s the issue?

@gregorypayton486

Жыл бұрын

It’s not the question… it’s the perception of what the question implies. It’s akin to asking an overweight person struggling to lose weight how’s the diet going. Additionally, certain circumstances for men can create a feeling of being inept(ex. not being able to provide for his family). Questioning a man’s actions can be perceived as passive aggressive emasculation.

@brendah4773

Жыл бұрын

@@gregorypayton486 I get what you saying. However, in any body’s defense, she was simply asking a question, that didn’t warrant to become defensive

@gregorypayton486

Жыл бұрын

@@brendah4773 depends… and it didn’t say he became defensive. It said how he received what she said.

@amaragrace94

Жыл бұрын

@@gregorypayton486 I definitely hear you. I think people just gotta be more empathetic and imagine how they'd feel if roles were reversed. That and checking in with the "what I heard you say is..." to prevent and correct hurt from misunderstandings. It's a very effective communication/therapy technique.

Being in to relationship or marriage with out financially can cause big problems.and some time depends on the person you get in to relationship. Is not every woman will work with you till things get better , some lady u will not get any sex . No hugs ,no kisses . They just ignore you. Some ladys lock down on you . When this happens,this raise a lot of alarms in the thoughts of the man . This is what I being through. I have being lock out . I feel bad because If I don't do this now ,are because am in financial situation,you lock me out ,

Great show

My nephew loved beef jerky. We always knew even at 2,3 and 4 that he had had it because his breath would peel the bark off a tree, so Steve yes some four-year-olds specially if they're eating beef jerky, their breath is RANK..

High percentage of men behave the same live alone urs is 38 even my younger cousins when you live them on their own to do house chores high chance they will be busy playing P .S not what you ordered . if u are facing financial crisis l believe one should focus on important things eg basic needs presents 🎁 will come later give what you can afford don't struggle to give a car and you can only afford a bicycle Live Within your means

Rashidi is me 100%

Love ya Steve but I'm checkin you on that: had a beautiful home, lost it from a bipolar husband. The man I ended up with now, divorced and 12 yrs later same bunch of crap. God didn't have a dang thing to do with any of it...

@justinyoderallison5998

Жыл бұрын

Sorry about that I hope you move forward happily,nice to meet you can we be pretty friends here?

He screams red flag to me

@lesegonkoana8463

3 ай бұрын

Me too

@ShutUpAndBump

3 ай бұрын

You are the red flag! That man just wanna be appreciated and to have peace!

Women stop defending him. Let's be clear. He need to honor her. Let go of the Ego. He need to get something for her Birthday... I know for sure I will not be able to let that go. I celebrate me on every Bday and anyone I am with will get the memo. It doesn't matter what you believe. Love your woman that is her love language.

Getting your hair done for a couple hundred bucks NOT a gift girl, he had you looking extra lovely I'm sure! You best be thankful because hard times is actually affording the $5 gift only!!!

@FF-fd4tm

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I’m like he spent that much money on her hair she should be HAPPY. Material things mean nothing!

@aieshadaniels6104

Жыл бұрын

@@FF-fd4tm Exactly there is a difference of being born surrounded by Caribbean waters it keeps you grounded and vitalizes humbleness! So many couples wish they had that $100 bucks to feed their kids much less do something nice!

@aieshadaniels6104

Жыл бұрын

@@FF-fd4tm I'm a Caribbean Queen that lived in Brooklyn for a while. There are just different mindsets I've learned but couples should be reaching for the same wave length or someone going to get wiped out!

@FF-fd4tm

Жыл бұрын

@@aieshadaniels6104 exactly. If she don’t stop this I wouldn’t be surprise if they end up divorcing. He looks 😣

Please speak out and help The Christians in Nigeria 🇳🇬 🙏

❤😂

She is too damm petty.. you got a great Caribbean man be thankful

Mr Harvey I know you love your country music if you want some fantastic in my opinion artist you might be interested in My personal favorite Alan Jackson and George Jones. Your best wishes Andrew Ryan.

she's not materialistic but she wants something from him even if it cost $5... lol.. ok

She seems a little Older than Him, She is thinking like a older or Just Matured Some seems like in a way.

@katrinadixon6500

Жыл бұрын

Men Have feelings too though, Delivery is Important. The Holy Spirit helps me to communicate Gentle even through text. If I let the Holy Spirit Guide me

I'm a woman and she got on my nerves. 🤦🏽

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nothing for her bday , i can’t accept that you know every year her bday is coming , he could have cooked for her, anything to make her feel special. It sounds like they need a solid financial plan.

A lot of times it's now what you say. It's how you say it. It's not what you ask. It's how you ask it. A woman should be mature enough to know when to do without. If y'all facing hard times financially it's no fair to expect a gift. At a specific time.

Does she talk to him while raising her hands like that???

A loving husband a beautifull couple. But this is so me I am like the wife don't need much just the taught but do think of me and also the texting for the kid 🙋‍♀️

Any Trinis here thinking this brother is one of us??

First one watch this video

Rashidi on point, he ain't doing nothing wrong.

am the second 😂

Is it me or is all the criticism coming from her side? I think this is a great opportunity for us to learn the lesson of how not to treat a good man who is also a good partner.

@aaronhall7862

7 ай бұрын

Facts.. she knew they had a hardship.. he spent HUNDREDS of dollars on your hair and got stuff for their son and you mad he ain't spend $5 on you. Though you're not materialistic? Lol get out of here

Sigma male...

When I am in an argument, I don’t have time to play “he said, she said”

Rasheed this is America culture bro. And they created the idea of making “pagan holidays” important but all other black cultures get the spontaneity with “pleasantries” and it’s based on inconsistent financial standings due to poverty but it’s not “weird”, in my opinion.. Steve is rich now and forgot the rules of economic instability so we can’t all follow his guidelines. 🤔😎😍

She is doing too much and will drive him away and crazy

He's too young for him

The women only needs respect and give chance to talk with you thats the best solution about relation

Why women have to compare themselves if they don't get something for birthday? And be jealous when the other one gets something. Yes she is wrong for being pissed over a nonsense, she should grow out of it when she was 9. You should be appreciative of him coming home, be financially and emotionally supportive and generous and loving spontaneously. Consider yourself the luckiest on the planet cause a bunch of women don't see that in their daily life and thank God that you do.

Relationship between husband and wife is a two person circles to make it work, don't let a third party involved. Even God can't help you.

@Bkrunz

Жыл бұрын

Lol if God can't help my marriage I don't want it

@YourHighness8888

Жыл бұрын

@@Bkrunz Then you have to learn how to live alone. LMAO! 🤣

@YourHighness8888

Жыл бұрын

@@Bkrunz God brings you together but it's up to you to make it work, relationship are not guaranteed.

@sadagathajiyeva5

Жыл бұрын

God can't come and fix your issues. Otherwise where will be test? This life is a test. God gave mind and free will so you can find your way out in any given situation

@YourHighness8888

Жыл бұрын

@@sadagathajiyeva5 That's what I'm trying to say.

Can't stand greedy self centered wives, um hair done he just said financial issues appreciate what you have and who you have death is real sister. Women can work to. 💜

Harvey is so full of it by degrading the man instead of providing constructive feedback. This is no way to be an elder in the community?

Steve, I was disappointed when you acted like toothbrushing is unimportant! If the habit is not established and maintained by both parents, there will be hell to pay in the teen years. Most boys do not like brushing their teeth so, if his father does not help him in a pleasant way, it makes things worse. PVEL.

I thought she was his mother, first of all ...... And also she has double standards because she says she "doesn't want anything" because he's a good husband ...... then goes on to bemoan the fact that he didn't buy her something! This is heading for the divorce courts, sorry.

I completely disagree. obligatory gifting is useless and means NOTHING it is just like saying I love you, just to hear it back. This man has a pure heart. he IS a GIVING man! She meant to send it to her husband, no doubt about it. This woman is passive aggressive and demanding. when ANYONE makes a situation about what they get in stead of what they can give it makes me sick. The very first time I met my mother-in-law, we had a nice dinner, talked etc. when it came time to wrap it up and leave, she said "i like you AND I also like perks ( i have a buck or two and it is obvious). I instantly replied to her " Just because you just said that you have guaranteed that you will never receive any from me" I haven't given her one single "perk" since that very day. and I never will. greedy entitled people make my stomach turn. My wife gets to spend up to and including 20 bucks on her mother for gifting.

@fayepatrice1672

Жыл бұрын

It means nothing TO YOU. When you love someone, their perspective should matter. If it's important to your partner, it should be important to you. And disrespecting and mistreating her mother indefinitely for one thoughtless remark reflects more poorly on you than your MIL. You should be ashamed but instead you are bragging. I don't know how your wife puts up with you.

@amaragrace94

Жыл бұрын

@@fayepatrice1672 🙌🙌🙌

The wife sounds overbearing. Gosh she needs to back off. I would never text or ask my husband if he washed and brushed our children teeth. He is loving caring and responsible father. Sometimes you need to stop being too controlling as a female

Sorry, but she's petty with high expectations beyond her means & she is absolutely materialistic. That's what he's not saying because he's a discrete husband. A marriage is bet 2 not 3, sister inlaw out. It's never a good idea to bring a 3rd party into the marriage bed. Child care, hmmm...Does she want a hubby or a nanny? She married a man...not a boy.

She too bossy and they need to divorced

@kimoybrown9206

Жыл бұрын

Why would you say they need to divorced? This is something they can work on pray on

@sorrywhoareyou887

Жыл бұрын

@@kimoybrown9206 exactly people advise divorce for the smallest things .

@SultryNeoSoul

Жыл бұрын

Why do they need to be divorced when they clearly love each other and this is something they can work on? ❤

Love from Pakistan dear