The Secret to A Successful Marriage! 💍 II STEVE HARVEY

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Want to know the key 🔑 to having a loving and successful marriage? Steve and four married couples discuss the priceless lessons they’ve learned in their relationships and the incredible bond they’ve built as a result.
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  • @KelzBernard
    @KelzBernard Жыл бұрын

    Me and my wife are newlyweds. Whoever reads this comment, could you please pray for me (Kelsey-Bernard) that I am a Godly husband to my wife. I desire to display the love of God to her and be an example of His love to those who witness our marriage. I want to make it to the 20, 30, 40, 50+ years.

  • @Carol_shirley

    @Carol_shirley

    Жыл бұрын

    I declare in the name of Jesus Christ you are and will continually be a good husband throughout your marriage . Follow the guidance of the Holy Spirit and it shall be well with your marriage.

  • @KelzBernard

    @KelzBernard

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Carol_shirley Thank you sister! ❤️🙏🏽 ❤️

  • @levernedujon6609

    @levernedujon6609

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you bro

  • @maputakamulete2276

    @maputakamulete2276

    Жыл бұрын

    All best. You will make it

  • @camillejames4900

    @camillejames4900

    Жыл бұрын

    May God bless you rooting for your blessing

  • @mrsbrownsugarsweetz
    @mrsbrownsugarsweetz Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I have been together for 14 yrs and we don’t argue. We always discuss everything. If he makes me mad I pray about it then talk to him.

  • @flowforever9084

    @flowforever9084

    Жыл бұрын

    Awesome 👌

  • @aisha2luv464

    @aisha2luv464

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes prayer always change the other person for the better

  • @estherwayua3210

    @estherwayua3210

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @Abbyszedkitchen

    @Abbyszedkitchen

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾

  • @awalker3636

    @awalker3636

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow… that takes discipline

  • @face2faceyouth
    @face2faceyouth Жыл бұрын

    This video should be mandatory for all couples to watch before marriage. Great video. 20 years here!

  • @isabellajones7644

    @isabellajones7644

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi marcus

  • @estherwayua3210

    @estherwayua3210

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful Kid Taking Kenya By Surprise. kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWiGrsmOmLyoaLg.html

  • @ahanachauhan1210

    @ahanachauhan1210

    Жыл бұрын

    Very good Bro !! Go on , respect for your personality

  • @careerscoop5241

    @careerscoop5241

    8 ай бұрын

    simple...b4 marrying....just ask...if i had a million dollars, will i marry the same person....if your answer is ..YES...go ahead marry that person....if no....dont do it...simple.

  • @drcyume
    @drcyume Жыл бұрын

    One thing that is clear from here is that successful marriages are of two people genuinely ready and committed to making it work.

  • @caisey331
    @caisey331 Жыл бұрын

    Saying what you want,no secrets,no agendas and never going to bed mad at each other 👌🏾 great lessons.

  • @estherwayua3210

    @estherwayua3210

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful Kid Taking Kenya By Surprise. kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWiGrsmOmLyoaLg.html

  • @kossynifemigold

    @kossynifemigold

    Жыл бұрын

    That never going to bed mad, that number one thing people should emulate.God it what I say to my self I will do with Help of God. The thing is that we can forgive but we cant forget that's just the truth but whenever we remember the past we just smile.

  • @ahanachauhan1210

    @ahanachauhan1210

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely, true

  • @mariafriedly

    @mariafriedly

    Жыл бұрын

    And it seems so impossible to execute! Some spouse like to maintain the anger for months over any small detail. And that is a killer of the relationship. One month later you don’t even remember what was the topic you were fighting over! But the love is permanently damage for the long duration of the anger

  • @careerscoop5241

    @careerscoop5241

    8 ай бұрын

    simple...b4 marrying....just ask...if i had a million dollars, will i marry the same person....if your answer is ..YES...go ahead marry that person....if no....dont do it...simple.

  • @johnsonfamilyvidsvlogs3745
    @johnsonfamilyvidsvlogs3745 Жыл бұрын

    My hubby and I will be married 34 years next month. It hasn't always been perfect but it's pretty darn close. Putting Jesus first is our Great help 🙏.

  • @joanfrancois9942

    @joanfrancois9942

    Жыл бұрын

    The secret is plenty money and wealth

  • @justice7268

    @justice7268

    Жыл бұрын

    Jesus first always! Amen 🙏

  • @Ms.Poullard

    @Ms.Poullard

    Жыл бұрын

    Glory Hallelujah 🙌🏽

  • @CharCharJars

    @CharCharJars

    Жыл бұрын

    Come on Somebody!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!

  • @JC-du6sn

    @JC-du6sn

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen.Love it.Look up Andrew Wommack's A Better Way To Pray and How To Hear God's Voice series on KZread.Two of the greatest gifts Jesus ever gave me.😇

  • @daphneclarke8694
    @daphneclarke8694 Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I celebrated 61 years anniversary wasn't perfect had some real trying times but thank God for his goodness and his grace that kept us

  • @LEWASTREAT

    @LEWASTREAT

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow... 61years in marriage... That's really awesome... I celebrate you both sir/ma

  • @ST4

    @ST4

    Жыл бұрын

    Glory to GOD. May GOD continue to Bless you and your marriage 🙏🏾

  • @giftoma

    @giftoma

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow. Congratulation

  • @namtrader9674

    @namtrader9674

    Жыл бұрын

    Amazing!!

  • @larryqueen

    @larryqueen

    Жыл бұрын

    Woowwwwww

  • @sweetov5
    @sweetov5 Жыл бұрын

    Biggest mistake people make BEFORE getting married... not spending enough time alone to figure out who you are. Have your own likes and dislikes. You need to be happy on your own. You do not need another person all the time to be happy. Some people get married and are way too clingy. We all need space... especially in a marriage. Stay busy ladies... let that man miss you. If he needs you all the time and doesnt allow you to have time time yourself that's a red flag of someone who is possesive.

  • @intentionalgreatness

    @intentionalgreatness

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes let him miss you and enjoy your own "me time". I say that all the time!

  • @YourHighness8888

    @YourHighness8888

    Жыл бұрын

    This is a good tropic to discuss, the biggest mistake Steve Harvey make was whenever he sees a red flag he just ignored it.

  • @YourHighness8888

    @YourHighness8888

    Жыл бұрын

    Not a good idea, I'm a man, I will find someone else to spend time with me.

  • @YourHighness8888

    @YourHighness8888

    Жыл бұрын

    My advice for you would be "stay single" if you want to spend time alone.

  • @michelle-zd2nc

    @michelle-zd2nc

    Жыл бұрын

    @@YourHighness8888 I think she just means you don't have to be together every minute. If your partner is away ex: work, out of town or where ever, then you will be ok until they return.

  • @ashley8373
    @ashley8373 Жыл бұрын

    As a 24 year old who's getting ready to say "I do soon." I feel blessed by these good examples.

  • @andrewr.2114

    @andrewr.2114

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless hope you two are together for ever

  • @xKouture

    @xKouture

    Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations ❤️.

  • @myworld8125

    @myworld8125

    Жыл бұрын

    Blessings in your union dear one❤️

  • @biirakemigisaolivia5997

    @biirakemigisaolivia5997

    Жыл бұрын

    me too en congs my dia

  • @luchypius3620

    @luchypius3620

    Жыл бұрын

    May God see u and yours through. Giving you all the beautiful things marriage has to offer

  • @MyWayWendy
    @MyWayWendy Жыл бұрын

    "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person" : Mignon McLaughlin..

  • @alaaal-torabi2982

    @alaaal-torabi2982

    Жыл бұрын

    I never knew that a successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with Ella. WTH

  • @estherwayua3210

    @estherwayua3210

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @raqi3425
    @raqi3425 Жыл бұрын

    There is no secret. You must keep GOD in your marriage and let HIM lead, guide and direct your marriage. #33years

  • @hotmail906

    @hotmail906

    Жыл бұрын

    If only Jesus guides and leads ur couple , you ,you will do what ? 😂😂 u will stay there doing nothing? Hhhhhh

  • @serious7179

    @serious7179

    Жыл бұрын

    And that right there is the secret to happiness into a great marriage. God has to be part of your marriage.

  • @RealUgochukwu_Obioha
    @RealUgochukwu_Obioha Жыл бұрын

    The biggest note I'm taking away is "everyone you're attracted to, you're not compatible with" 🔥

  • @n.m6249

    @n.m6249

    Жыл бұрын

    That hit me deep as well

  • @blomobloom9639

    @blomobloom9639

    Жыл бұрын

    True

  • @teresagreene9679

    @teresagreene9679

    Жыл бұрын

    Agree

  • @jwh648

    @jwh648

    Жыл бұрын

    Real talk

  • @mariafriedly

    @mariafriedly

    Жыл бұрын

    Once you are married it doesn’t matter anymore if you are compatible or not. You are married and you need to make it work

  • @fatuumahmed588
    @fatuumahmed588 Жыл бұрын

    " Everybody you attracted to you aint compatible with. Cause it look good to you, don't mean it's going be good to you." Love this.

  • @pocahontas6381

    @pocahontas6381

    Жыл бұрын

    🙁. I know but that ones I’m not attracted too usual be okay guys but the problem is I’m not physically attracted to them 😟

  • @thisiswhoiam102
    @thisiswhoiam102 Жыл бұрын

    I always say dating is a "job interview," engagement is the "training", and marriage is the "JOB"

  • @lillianndinda8046

    @lillianndinda8046

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 💯 💯

  • @tamarsharogers-brisibe4511

    @tamarsharogers-brisibe4511

    Жыл бұрын

    I like this

  • @horlenesmith7904

    @horlenesmith7904

    Жыл бұрын

    That's so true 👍

  • @lilianrwegayula9950

    @lilianrwegayula9950

    Жыл бұрын

    Sure

  • @fasikademelash4638

    @fasikademelash4638

    Жыл бұрын

    And divorce is getting fired 😅

  • @blessingmunyaradzi1552
    @blessingmunyaradzi1552 Жыл бұрын

    I'm not yet in marriage but lm taking advantage of this platform to learn and prepare myself to be a better husband..thumbs up..NO to lies,be truthful and currently working on anger issues .

  • @ahz6907

    @ahz6907

    Жыл бұрын

    Goodluck

  • @nawezajossardprosper8785

    @nawezajossardprosper8785

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too mate

  • @malehlohonolo8463

    @malehlohonolo8463

    Жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @Celebstea___

    @Celebstea___

    Жыл бұрын

    Goodluck

  • @xKouture

    @xKouture

    Жыл бұрын

    Best of luck to you

  • @lisaingram785
    @lisaingram785 Жыл бұрын

    Love the no secrets, no lies, communication, willingness to compromise, having a mindset of serving, loyalty, respect, appreciating one another, always be teachable and so on and so forth

  • @estherwayua3210

    @estherwayua3210

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful Kid Taking Kenya By Surprise. kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWiGrsmOmLyoaLg.html

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Жыл бұрын

    Before you get married Put everything on the table No secrets First talk about Faith Let me hear what you believe about God Talk about money Talk about family Talk about everything NO SECRETS NO BIG BLOW UP

  • @damiphilip4286

    @damiphilip4286

    Жыл бұрын

    Hmmmm. I have had uncountable talks! All positive responses, with attitude that are completely opposite 4 months down... I have learnt to keep my mouth shut, eyes and ears open... Pay attention to the actions, talk is cheap 💯

  • @jessyjonas4988

    @jessyjonas4988

    Жыл бұрын

    @@damiphilip4286 pay attention to the action talk is cheap 💯

  • @msgailz01

    @msgailz01

    Жыл бұрын

    100% agree

  • @rvail136
    @rvail136 Жыл бұрын

    I like about how these couples don't talk over one another... Even if they sound like they're going interrupt...they do it politely.

  • @starfireprincess

    @starfireprincess

    6 ай бұрын

    Because cameras

  • @eboniclarke177
    @eboniclarke177 Жыл бұрын

    I ask my husband questions that would normally cause arguments and we discuss them honestly. No attitude, no feelings, just an objective honest discussion.

  • @rebeccacasey9419
    @rebeccacasey9419 Жыл бұрын

    I love my family or was my family before my divorce but it's okay, I will be fine . Am going through early stages of divorce right now, but I will try and be myself

  • @alvarezvanessa2248

    @alvarezvanessa2248

    Жыл бұрын

    Be strong my Love it's ain't easy trust me I've been there and what helped me was my intuition and I acted aright. Made some connections with people with value and one was exceptional, she open my eyes her name is *Kara Daly Sherman* cheer up ❤️

  • @rebeccacasey9419

    @rebeccacasey9419

    Жыл бұрын

    @@alvarezvanessa2248 Thanks so much ❤️ this is comforting, although I got a good share of money but I don't know exactly what I should do, I am actually a mother of 2 ATM and I love them so much and want the best for my kids, and I will love to get in contact with your comforter too Kara, how can I?

  • @grachirussel1805

    @grachirussel1805

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rebeccacasey9419 is that how bad he treated you? What happened what did you do to him in the first place but still so sorry 😐

  • @alvarezvanessa2248

    @alvarezvanessa2248

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rebeccacasey9419 Yes sure Kara can be more than a friend, you can chat her up Anything you wanna know about family, investment and advice she is definitely the one Bunny 🐰. Just say hi on

  • @alvarezvanessa2248

    @alvarezvanessa2248

    Жыл бұрын

    *Instagram*

  • @KamisKisses
    @KamisKisses Жыл бұрын

    We made a promise never to give up on each other. We had so many changes in the 1st year of marriage including undiagnosed health problems. Our rules: always respect each other, there is no topic off limits, be gentle and intentional with feedback, always give each other space to settle down before discussing the issues and most importantly we check in with each other everyday because it's the little things that can breed resentment. Be honest and choose to be adults and not maliciously petty

  • @estherwayua3210

    @estherwayua3210

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful Kid Taking Kenya By Surprise. kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWiGrsmOmLyoaLg.html

  • @Mamabear_of2
    @Mamabear_of2 Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I have been together for about 15 years and married for 10. We just went to the court house and got married. We both knew we wanted to be together and knew we wanted to be life long partners. We still had obstacles to over come and lots of learning of one another. I used to always have an issue talking to him, and I used too always hold onto things. We would start a fight and all of a sudden I’m still mad about something from months or a year ago. We had to both learn how to grow and to let things go! Today we have two beautiful kids, and we are stronger than ever! We are one another’s best friends!

  • @estherwayua3210

    @estherwayua3210

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful Kid Taking Kenya By Surprise. kzread.info/dash/bejne/hWiGrsmOmLyoaLg.html

  • @safiyyahsulaiman7420

    @safiyyahsulaiman7420

    Жыл бұрын

    That's really beautiful, that's how you learn and grow as a couple.

  • @ahanachauhan1210

    @ahanachauhan1210

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely beautiful!!! RESPECT mam

  • @reubenanthony5479

    @reubenanthony5479

    7 ай бұрын

    Being best friends before getting married helps to reduce the misunderstanding and issues one will face in marriage. Being friends will always birth understanding, trust and will help you let go of things or issues that may want to pop up in the nearest future. You made a good decision to become besties ma'am. God bless your home.

  • @xKouture
    @xKouture Жыл бұрын

    Watching this after going through a breakup hurts💔💔 . These couples look really happy I hope they continue to prosper ❤️

  • @ayeeshahm9078

    @ayeeshahm9078

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry about that. I pray you heal and find your forever person

  • @xKouture

    @xKouture

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ayeeshahm9078 thank you so much ❤️

  • @zikhonagaleni3818

    @zikhonagaleni3818

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ayeeshahm9078 Girrrrl, I'm with you, but our men will find us, don't worry. 💕

  • @trynatural23

    @trynatural23

    Жыл бұрын

    Don’t allow the pain to dwell. Use this as a manifestation tool to design the life/love you desire❤

  • @thegracefullwoman9725

    @thegracefullwoman9725

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless you and heal your heart

  • @cassieblack1776
    @cassieblack1776 Жыл бұрын

    I just got married at 33 . We have known each other sense I was 13 . We dated And he proposed and I said no the first time. We split and now we’re together and married. Communication is everything! Honestly.

  • @Taylorand

    @Taylorand

    9 ай бұрын

    Oh I understand

  • @temitopeadun
    @temitopeadun Жыл бұрын

    "Everyone attracted to you are not compatible with u" "BCS they look good to you doesn't mean they will be good to you " 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @ismailmaeen8111
    @ismailmaeen8111 Жыл бұрын

    These couples are giving some treasure advice... One of the best honestly ❤️❤️

  • @sarahrean7174

    @sarahrean7174

    Жыл бұрын

    it's not gonna work for evrybody though because after many years of crap they understand by themselves

  • @ismailmaeen8111

    @ismailmaeen8111

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sarahrean7174 If they understood that late they wouldn't have been together for 40+ or even 20+ ... Strong fundamental means strong building

  • @YourHighness8888

    @YourHighness8888

    Жыл бұрын

    There's always ups and downs in a marriage, they're only telling the good part.😂

  • @ismailmaeen8111

    @ismailmaeen8111

    Жыл бұрын

    @@YourHighness8888 Of course they are and as long as you are picking up the good base of it you can at least try to use it and it may workout... doing is so different from just talking

  • @YourHighness8888

    @YourHighness8888

    Жыл бұрын

    How about telling your spouse, sorry 😔 "I slept with who and who" Don't ever tell this to your spouse.

  • @jabulanisena6288
    @jabulanisena6288 Жыл бұрын

    "Alot of people say I do but what they really mean is I will try"and when they are hit with the reality they backoff

  • @misskaykay1856
    @misskaykay1856 Жыл бұрын

    Caprice is very talkative 😂😂😂.. she’s so beautiful though

  • @blubberbooty
    @blubberbooty Жыл бұрын

    My wife and have been married 36 years! We got married in Hawaii (we live in Ohio) then we went back 30 years later for our 30th anniversary. That was 6 years ago! My tip is, if your wife leaves you, go with her!

  • @diananyawanda1950

    @diananyawanda1950

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds funny but true. Till death do us part.

  • @thomasagorhom1139

    @thomasagorhom1139

    Жыл бұрын

    Does it not matter where she leaves to? ....lol

  • @blubberbooty

    @blubberbooty

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thomasagorhom1139 ha! No! And if she moves in with another man, you sleep on the couch! LOL!

  • @gilbertmuthoka
    @gilbertmuthoka Жыл бұрын

    This is so awesome. The show should be casted in all TV stations. Thanks Steve. Watching all the way from Kenya 🇰🇪.

  • @lillianndinda8046

    @lillianndinda8046

    Жыл бұрын

    Awesome mwana a mwaitu

  • @kameroncarr5878
    @kameroncarr5878 Жыл бұрын

    All the comments are so helpful, my mind is not in a good place right now as I was just told from my wife that she wants a separation..if you all could pray for my marriage

  • @isabellajones7644

    @isabellajones7644

    Жыл бұрын

    It's definitely gonna be fine.....

  • @isabellajones7644

    @isabellajones7644

    Жыл бұрын

    Stay strong.. life got alot of great stuff

  • @neliamagumula2911

    @neliamagumula2911

    Жыл бұрын

    Are u guys ok

  • @PRJohn-mz1je
    @PRJohn-mz1je Жыл бұрын

    For a long lasting marriage...it's all about Trust, understanding, Love, loyalty and communication. Once you have these all will be ok. Was married for 37 yrs till death do us part. I'm a widow now at the age of 59...my beloved husband my best friend passed away 4 years ago of diabetic complications...I missed him dearly 😭💔.

  • @johnsonjay1159

    @johnsonjay1159

    Жыл бұрын

    Be strong, he is always with you

  • @ceceliadiaz8989

    @ceceliadiaz8989

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss, you all will always be joined together spiritually 🙏❤

  • @jasmainjasmain2906
    @jasmainjasmain2906 Жыл бұрын

    My biggest mistake was marrying after only 3 mths of knowing the person... highly recommend waiting at least a yr seeing the person is in all aspects of his/her life along with premarital counseling to learn conflict resolution skills. And discuss things that matters to you... kids, religion, finances (current debts, expectations, and how it will be jointly managed). Also do a background chk... later found out my ex (stbxh) also went to jail for domestic violence before me and that info wouldn't saved me... life goes on... may your journey end in happiness.

  • @DarrellGrainger
    @DarrellGrainger Жыл бұрын

    I've had a few girlfriends and married once. I wasn't completely honest when we started dating. I wanted to be the best person I could. After decades of failed relationships and a divorce I realized I should be my authentic self. I start off slow and let my date see the good side. But after a few dates, when I decide to be exclusive, I start letting her know the bad side. Now I just tell her things that come to mind. Sometimes it is something most people like. Sometimes it is something most people dislike. But if she doesn't like the honest, authentic me then i want to know before we get married. I want her to do the same for me. If I feel she is hiding anything and she isn't okay with telling me and losing me then I'd leave her.

  • @MyVlogTherapy

    @MyVlogTherapy

    Жыл бұрын

    Just curious why you don’t tell the bad side while dating, instead of waiting until your exclusive? Seems its best to be 💯 real from jump.

  • @DarrellGrainger

    @DarrellGrainger

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MyVlogTherapy I don't want to scare someone off with all negative at first. I usually want to have 3 to 4 dates before I want to start talking about my negatives. I suspect my timeline is different from most people. I will have maybe 4 dates before being exclusive. Within usually 1 or 2 dates I can see reasons I don't want to date someone. If I can't see any reason to stop dating you after 3 or 4 dates then I'll give you 100% of my focus and stop dating anyone else, i.e. exclusive. So for me, we go on 1 or 2 dates. If either of us see red flags, we part ways. If we seem compatible, we might go on 1 or 2 more dates. At this point, I will be exclusive with her. We will then get to know everything about each other. It might take months but during that time, if I really like you and see nothing I can't live with, we keep dating. Essentially, I like to focus on one person at a time. I know most people like to date multiple people but I don't. If we've had a few dates and I think there is potential, I work on us and stay exclusive. Until there is a deal breaker, I do not date anyone else. And if there is a deal breaker, I let you know and we agree to go our separate ways.

  • @zraj3433

    @zraj3433

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you work on your bad sides/ red flags/negatives? Why would you not want to improve yourself?

  • @DarrellGrainger

    @DarrellGrainger

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zraj3433 I do work on my red flags. I agree with you that you always want to improve yourself. I am constantly working on my financial, mental and physical health. I didn't word things correctly. When I said "red flags" it included things that another person might see as a red flag but that is not a red flag for me. Different people will have different values. I prefer to be on time or early for important events. If you hate this about me and feel it is fine to be fashionably late, this would be a red flag to me. There are probably hundreds of little things which could expose values I disagree with. The big ones like politics, religion, kids, family, money, etc. should be talked about right away. Essentially, I will tell a woman I'm dating my core values right away. I actually put my core value in my online dating profile so women won't swipe right on me. Bottom line, if a red flag for you might be normal for me. In that case, I'm not going to change. If it is something which is preventing me from loving myself then I'm going to work on it.

  • @isabellajones7644

    @isabellajones7644

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi darrell

  • @moonspace-6587
    @moonspace-6587 Жыл бұрын

    I have struggled in my marriage for six years going to seven. As I write this, I am in my daughter's room following a difficult two days. Please pray for me if you are reading this 🙏

  • @shawanamrhodes
    @shawanamrhodes Жыл бұрын

    I love the older couple. Wisdom speaking... Good advice from the other couples, as well.

  • @alaaal-torabi2982
    @alaaal-torabi2982 Жыл бұрын

    I want a successful marriage 😌 I came here after i find the successful marriage. I saw that i am a famous. 😻

  • @darbazali1321

    @darbazali1321

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too.

  • @YourHighness8888

    @YourHighness8888

    Жыл бұрын

    Tell them who you slept with in the past 🤣

  • @lillianndinda8046

    @lillianndinda8046

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too,I want a successful marriege

  • @laurenkidd1102

    @laurenkidd1102

    Жыл бұрын

    I pray you find it someday.

  • @oneilfarquharson-ifearthel3253

    @oneilfarquharson-ifearthel3253

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too....because I dont believe in divorce at all...I believe in forever until I die....

  • @mercy_c7526
    @mercy_c7526 Жыл бұрын

    Everything is so true. Wish everyone watching this learns something. I'm just grateful i have watched this clip, so phenomenal. ❤️❤️

  • @EdnasHouse
    @EdnasHouse Жыл бұрын

    Anyone who is reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, overthinking and doubt exit you mind. May peace and calmness fill your life 💕

  • @abdul-rahmansudaismohammed3699
    @abdul-rahmansudaismohammed3699 Жыл бұрын

    Wow, I just forward a link to my girlfriend to watch the video. We share a lot together and I believe this piece of saying from the marriage moguls is going to strengthen our relationship and marriage life. In Sha Allah.

  • @victorkolo5142
    @victorkolo5142 Жыл бұрын

    When you're dating you're dating that person's representative; when you get married you marry that person real self...

  • @jackie1540

    @jackie1540

    Жыл бұрын

    When I got married, the representative was so far from the real self; I had to get out of there fast, sad but true.

  • @gracewangare8966
    @gracewangare8966 Жыл бұрын

    This has taught me conflicts are normal in a relationship it's how you handle it with love 🥰

  • @elizabethabimbola4719
    @elizabethabimbola4719 Жыл бұрын

    Steve thanks alot for this. Thanks to the amazing couples you brought on the show.

  • @lateefadewumi8601
    @lateefadewumi86017 ай бұрын

    Great video and great couples and a great discuss. always the best.

  • @mickeylove5897
    @mickeylove5897 Жыл бұрын

    All I am hearing is communication, respectfully, n disagree respectfully❤

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 Жыл бұрын

    Some great couples with great wisdom, thank you for your pearls. Steve Harvey bless

  • @rachellebrown2411
    @rachellebrown2411 Жыл бұрын

    “Put everything on the table” Amen

  • @LadyKT7232
    @LadyKT7232 Жыл бұрын

    Great clip! Continue most like it. It is so needed!

  • @eulal8809
    @eulal8809 Жыл бұрын

    I strongly agree that couples must watch this before marriage and married must watch this to resolve conflicts. Very helpful video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SteveMK
    @SteveMK Жыл бұрын

    This is a heavy duty talk. Just in time.

  • @jaidenchuwa6055
    @jaidenchuwa60559 ай бұрын

    Steve you're life changer for bringing this, I appreciate you

  • @tonya592
    @tonya592 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this. Need more shows like this.

  • @annieportier3584
    @annieportier3584 Жыл бұрын

    Really enjoyed this segment. Very informative!

  • @carlettethomas5252
    @carlettethomas5252 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely awesome 💯. Thanks for sharing this episode. Very helpful and inspiring ✨ love this ❤❤❤❤

  • @chrisadamsgh7819
    @chrisadamsgh7819 Жыл бұрын

    best video i've ever watched my whole entire life. Great lessons learnt from here!!...kudos to Steve and his team!...God richly bless you all!🙏

  • @britanniabrown644
    @britanniabrown644 Жыл бұрын

    Thankful for this 🙏🥺

  • @stephie7015
    @stephie7015 Жыл бұрын

    Well, people bring up the past when the issues from the past are still unresolved and haunting.

  • @sisds
    @sisds Жыл бұрын

    I think it’s important not to too attached to the person you are dating cos it makes harder to leave him/her when you see the red flags. You tend to justify and rationalise those points.

  • @YourHighness8888

    @YourHighness8888

    Жыл бұрын

    Then what's the point of dating?

  • @zhamasworld3084

    @zhamasworld3084

    Жыл бұрын

    So very true, cause I use to do it as well.

  • @sisds

    @sisds

    Жыл бұрын

    @@YourHighness8888 It means get to know each other. It doesn’t have to end in a commitment if you realise he/she is not the one for you. Becoming emotionally attached to the other make things overlook. Either you won’t see the red flags or you rationalise them.

  • @YourHighness8888

    @YourHighness8888

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sisds So you're not serious from the beginning.

  • @sisds

    @sisds

    Жыл бұрын

    @@YourHighness8888 I’m serious in finding out he’s the right one but I need to have room to fall out in case I have to. I did the opposite and got married to him but I couldn’t take it anymore when he started controlling me, trying to isolate me from my family and try to manipulate me to have access to my finances. I later realised I saw the red flags before marriage but I ignored them. I’ve learnt the lesson hard way. I won’t let my heart totally fall in to the person until I feel I’m safe and comfortable. Every mistake is a lesson learned.

  • @soar1091
    @soar1091 Жыл бұрын

    Great show. Biggest point that stood out.. "alot of ppl say I Do but mean I'll try"

  • @robbyefulghum2038
    @robbyefulghum2038 Жыл бұрын

    This segment was so good...thanks to Steve Harvey and the four amazing couples...👍🏽

  • @zoefornoff8884
    @zoefornoff8884 Жыл бұрын

    I would recommend taking the same time you spend planning your wedding day, which often amounts to many months of preparation, to planning your actual marriage. I have been with my husband for almost 20 years now and those questions of where to live, how many kids, which denomination to follow, finances, buying a house or not, career planning and so on and so forth are crucial. As are rules of communication, how to spend your spare time, how to deal with your in-laws etc. etc. Unfortunately, many young brides devote their time mainly to picking out the wedding dress and the cake and many young grooms cannot be bothered - they are forgiven, but I strongly believe this should be practised going into the biggest deal of your lives. Many people who get married for a second time will then take these matters much more seriously as those above mentioned issues, if not addressed prior and left unresolved, may have led to marriage breakups.

  • @ezarra6347
    @ezarra6347 Жыл бұрын

    A good marriage long last when the couple lives as a friend each other....

  • @olaoluwaokewole1615
    @olaoluwaokewole1615 Жыл бұрын

    This is awesome!!! Spot on.

  • @maputakamulete2276
    @maputakamulete2276 Жыл бұрын

    Great lessons. Thank you Steve and lovely couples ❤

  • @francessregione5111
    @francessregione5111 Жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU. I'm not married yet and all the advice given here are helpful. I know now what I need to do when my time comes. BTW, love your shows.

  • @uchennachibueze6772

    @uchennachibueze6772

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello pretty lady you look stunning I must confess... I feel lucky running into a beautiful angel such as yourself on here ☺ 😘 and please forgive me if I bumped into your privacy, I just couldn't help it cos your beauty is so charming ☺🌹💋😘😍

  • @ShortCakeBrat2422
    @ShortCakeBrat2422 Жыл бұрын

    It’s the dishwasher argument for me. 🤣 it’s my way and it’s the right way. I can teach you! Lmao

  • @helenannleeshung9028
    @helenannleeshung9028 Жыл бұрын

    This was so educational ❤️ Thank you Steve

  • @benjaminbenjamin8219
    @benjaminbenjamin821910 ай бұрын

    One of the best videos I've ever watched on YT. So helpful.

  • @blessingaghatise6517
    @blessingaghatise6517 Жыл бұрын

    Great conversation 👌 👏 👍 🙌 😊 ❤

  • @crystalnelson1775
    @crystalnelson1775 Жыл бұрын

    Putting God 1st in every thing you serving, praying and work together as a team and team is about 2 or more person or people working together allowing God to guides us froward with him covering in your union and business with blessings . Without God None of us would be successful and be living in and on this world 🌍

  • @chana1692
    @chana1692 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome wisdom from all of the couples! Thank you uncle, Steve, and all.

  • @rebonemonareng4201

    @rebonemonareng4201

    Жыл бұрын

    So much wisdom but can I ask for an advice my partner and I have been together more than six years,he has a daughter my stepdaughter,he wants to marry but I feel I do not want to because he doesn't communicate with me when he does things for his daughter like when she comes for holidays and some finances he used I always get a suprise,I just feel he sideline me ,it's like hey the child is mine stay away.the daughter is very disrespectful towards me,she will pass me without greeting,get in our room also with asking,when she is asked by her dad about the behavior she will say she didn't see me knowing very well that she did see me,so when I talk to my partner he respond by saying he didn't see her doing those things but I mean she won't do those things round her dad so I just feel like no to his proposal I do not want to be with someone who is always taking his child side,he doesn't discipline or punish her a whole 15 year old but he keeps saying she is a child and I must be patient with her.

  • @yvroser902
    @yvroser902 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this marriage conversation

  • @pawannatak7909
    @pawannatak7909 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Steve, thank you so much for the beautiful experiences, I'll make every single day my best day. I'm engaged 💍 ☺️

  • @a_83567
    @a_83567 Жыл бұрын

    This video was perfect timing. I was watching a video about someone that is getting ready to be proposed to and she was saying she hasn’t fully told her partner how much she makes because she’s scared he’ll be insecure and I think that woman needs to see this video. How can you marry someone without telling them all the things that will be crucial to the marriage?

  • @allthingsnu4673
    @allthingsnu4673 Жыл бұрын

    There's much wisdom in this video!

  • @mytriton54
    @mytriton54 Жыл бұрын

    This is a GREAT video!!! People should heed ALL of this advice.

  • @laquetaworley4791
    @laquetaworley4791 Жыл бұрын

    Oooo I absolutely love 💓 this episode 💞 I really appreciate particular 1 Right here, Right now this is on point for me 👰🤵

  • @andrewr.2114
    @andrewr.2114 Жыл бұрын

    Hello Mr. Harvey I just want to say thank you. Thank you for all these years of laughs advice and every thing. This past week I have been sick as a bastard your show is the only thing that I enjoy watching. So thank you Mr. Harvey have a wonderful day sir.

  • @isabellajones7644

    @isabellajones7644

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Jimmy

  • @isabellajones7644

    @isabellajones7644

    Жыл бұрын

    Would love to be your friend

  • @helenhines9883
    @helenhines9883 Жыл бұрын

    I love this topic it needs to be seen and heard.👏🏾👌🏾

  • @lafemmeniketta1406
    @lafemmeniketta1406 Жыл бұрын

    This is GREAT advise..love it..congrats guy

  • @pr_gucci3604
    @pr_gucci3604 Жыл бұрын

    Yes Sir, you hit the nail right on its head. I do just the same but most people think I am an idiot. But this makes me happy. Avoid conflicts are the best idea if you are looking for life longdivity and happiness.

  • @JuniorMaxwell
    @JuniorMaxwell Жыл бұрын

    Good lessons

  • @5thdimensionliving727
    @5thdimensionliving727 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing couples 🙏🙏 thank you so much for sharing some valuable insights which I will hold dear 👍

  • @mbuankengbeza2247
    @mbuankengbeza2247 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Steve for the great Panel and the discussion. It has given me more clarity...

  • @TheChande
    @TheChande Жыл бұрын

    Very good advise. Thanks. I’ve been married for a year now, i needed this

  • @beautifulbutterfly2046
    @beautifulbutterfly2046 Жыл бұрын

    My husband was a good man but couldn’t control his tongue when he got angry. What broke our marriage was when he said ‘you are a woman who can not satisfy a man’. That was the end. We got separated after 12 years of marriage and then I went for a divorce. I could never forgive those words until he passed away…. All men should know that ‘happy wife is happy life’.

  • @thomasagorhom1139

    @thomasagorhom1139

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy wife is not always happy life ma'am! I think society forgets that a lot of wives are happy with that saying while their husbands are going through hell emotionally. How about we try the other way and happy husband happy life and then find a common ground to exist. If most men in marriage want to take the demeaning words their wives use on them, a lot, and I mean a lot of marriages would be gone. Marriage is about two imperfect human beings with flaws committing to live together in forgiveness and falling in love everyday of their lives. No one is and will ever be perfect.

  • @oliverjoel5901

    @oliverjoel5901

    Жыл бұрын

    I believe you ALSO do offend God almighty and ask for forgiveness?

  • @kalom6133

    @kalom6133

    Жыл бұрын

    You have forgiveness issues

  • @nunuflower5915

    @nunuflower5915

    Жыл бұрын

    i have had enough words shared by my husband were now we are so toxic eachother,we call eachother words that after the argument am extremely exhausted and i honestly dont know why am even still here,am scared what society will say and my baby to grow without her father😩,i can feel am losing myself

  • @Kissima6789
    @Kissima6789 Жыл бұрын

    One the best Steve videos ever

  • @uchechiugwu6778
    @uchechiugwu6778 Жыл бұрын

    Wow Thank you for this

  • @abdosaid2222
    @abdosaid2222 Жыл бұрын

    Steve this is a very good topic. This type of discussion about maraage is not only good for American but all over the world. Steve thanks for bringing this topic.

  • @sissykuey917
    @sissykuey917 Жыл бұрын

    I have watched this video soo many times and nothing else comes close to it. ❤️❤️

  • @uchennachibueze6772

    @uchennachibueze6772

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello pretty lady you look stunning I must confess... I feel lucky running into a beautiful angel such as yourself on here ☺ 😘 and please forgive me if I bumped into your privacy, I just couldn't help it cos your beauty is so charming ☺🌹💋😘😍

  • @dulanjalamendis542
    @dulanjalamendis542 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mr Steve , the video is very helpful

  • @nathansodja
    @nathansodja9 ай бұрын

    We need more talkshows like this

  • @michelleyota7899
    @michelleyota7899 Жыл бұрын

    Last week I decided not to kiss my husband goodbye and wish him a wonderful day like I usually do. I woke up mad at him because I felt ignored on the bed; I didn't get to sleep in his arms or make love to him like I wanted to because he was tired and slept off. He went to bed early and didn't even kiss me good night so I told myself if he doesn't want to kiss me at night, why should I kiss him in the morning? Sounds silly right? He tried to kiss me but I avoided it and he said: "What's wrong baby? Don't you know that I may leave and not come back? This may be the last time you're seeing me you know." I felt so bad and ran to him outside and kissed him passionately. Never leave angry or with an unresolved problem. This is a very interesting video. I love everything they said.

  • @AdekunleLawal
    @AdekunleLawal Жыл бұрын

    This better to watch that all the modern day garbage that makes Marriage look awful. You get what you focus on. Thanks to all the lovely couples. ❤

  • @lisatutler-jones5992

    @lisatutler-jones5992

    Жыл бұрын

    "You get what you focus on" 🙌🏾 Indeed!!

  • @Dominiquebroom
    @Dominiquebroom Жыл бұрын

    Yes love this!

  • @LifeHacks_Central
    @LifeHacks_Central11 ай бұрын

    Wow, this video really hit home for me! Hearing Steve and these amazing couples share their secrets to a successful marriage was incredibly inspiring. It's clear that love, trust, and open communication are the keys to building a strong and lasting bond. I'll definitely be implementing these lessons in my own marriage. Thanks for sharing!"

  • @augustayarteh633
    @augustayarteh633 Жыл бұрын

    Mr. Harvey you are so dynamic to your personalities. That teaching is for some of us to work on it. The young lady in the red ♥️ said the right thing . In their relationship they don't bring up old talked in their arguments. In any relationships couples don't need to bring old stuff that have past. I personally don't go over a spill milk. The milk that has been spill it has alreadyspill When lover discover this true they will not have any problems in their relationship. Don that advice is some how hard to tell your partners about the man or woman that they slept with, that one is not easy to confessed to your partners. It takes the grace of God to relate it to each other. Mr. Karen said it takes the grace of God for the will of God to be done in their martial home. Nice story discussion. Mr. Harvey to married to the wrong person is like lifting burdens on your head. Some partners sounds so negative to each other. Some are positive that you will ever remain to live your life for them. Nice discussion show

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 Жыл бұрын

    This was so good❤️

  • @uchennachibueze6772

    @uchennachibueze6772

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello pretty lady you look stunning I must confess... I feel lucky running into a beautiful angel such as yourself on here ☺ 😘 and please forgive me if I bumped into your privacy, I just couldn't help it cos your beauty is so charming ☺🌹💋😘😍

  • @davidgutierrez6023
    @davidgutierrez6023 Жыл бұрын

    This was great! Good wisdom learned here today.

  • @stephanieduncan7840
    @stephanieduncan7840 Жыл бұрын

    Wisdom, knowledge and experience, very powerful and deep, thank you all...

  • @thomsonsmith4815

    @thomsonsmith4815

    Жыл бұрын

    How are you doing today?

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