I’ve woken up to the terrible way I’ve been acting through my marriage. It’s almost identical to the way this man has explained he acted. I have been a verbal assassin and it’s taken me to long to figure this and I’m close to losing the love of my life. But I’m determined to get my stuff together.

@rickinahmata

7 ай бұрын

By you admitting and acknowledging your faults is a great step in the right direction for resolution. Bravo!! Many people can't do what you have just done. May God bless you and your marriage.

@susaberivan

5 ай бұрын

Let her know exactly this realisation and then act upon it unceasingly - it will work if you prove you’re serious. Good luck ✨

Good gracious I am grateful for stumbling upon this. I saw myself immediately as a verbal assassin and I can not stand that horrible side of myself. I can do so much better than I do now, but lately I just seem to continue ending up in this same space. What's even more pathetic is that I really want to see my man face his challenges and overcome them, but I have watched myself wither into a person I also detest after the resentment kicked in. I need God.

@CisaGP

7 ай бұрын

You wrote exactly how I feel right now .. wow

I like the idea about studying your partner... What you suggested is not only genius, but romantic... The idea of my husband and I being so devoted to each other that we literally document every little thing about the person so that we can fully learn about our partner and understand them on a near scholarly level. Get a PHD in your partner

It takes two willing participants to do this you can’t do this on your own

@IntentionalMarriages

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Ireon, believe it or not I have wives in my Communicate Clearly Course who have been able to impact their marriage by doing the work by themself. It's been incredible to watch!

@SheepDog12b

2 жыл бұрын

100%

Bravo. This is brilliantly put together, very well articulated and 100% spot on. I say that as a marriage therapist with 16 years working with couples.

@CouplesAcademy

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, we really appreciate it! Please continue to tune in, like, and share with others.

This message is so on point I watched it twice just now. I wish the text message at the end was still active… I need the 30 day communication challenge in my marriage.

This video should be the most popular video ever! If every couple watched this, life would be so much easier and better!

@CouplesAcademy

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! We are so glad to hear that you found this video helpful. Please continue to tune in and share with others so they can benefit as well!

Thanks brother, I'm horrible at this. Lord help me!!!

May God provide you with love, respect and understanding for all of those who go through troubles in your marriages and if you are separated from your spouses. Keep the faith. Jesus loves you!

This is what you called learning from your mistakes and moving forward. 😊

@CouplesAcademy

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe!

I think your right on. You always hear one of the most important things for successful marriage is communication . We can communicate all day. But it must be meaningful and effective. I've been married 30 years and still learning things too enhance my marriage.

Both people must want to deeply do this. I implement ways to work on us, I was rededicated to god and my husband wasn’t, I involve biblical principles in my marriage and then some. He isn’t taking the charge to change his side of communication and yet, I’m always self aware of how I come off, reacting, while ensuring him that I’m listening. What’s so crazy is that his effort is Zero. So that means he’s not willing to change and that means he’s not self aware and doesn’t see his lack of husband efforts. But that’s great you too got it right! I’m very happy for y’all. To God give the glory.

This both blessed me and cut me at the same time. So glad I came across this. Going to share with my Husband. Thank you❤

Awesome video Hasani! I agree words can kill you!!

THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY A BLESSING…… Thank You ❤️

This is so good, I can relate to everything that's been said

This was amazing 👏🏾 🙌🏾. I have learned a lot thru this vid

Beautiful message. Thank you

This is a perspective that is wonderful. I like what was said about compromise

This man is a miracle and as soon cere as they come. Saved my relationship and myself.

This is absolutely amazing directly to the veins of love and immotions. God bless you sir

This is very insightful!!

This is amazing thank you so much !!

Far sighted and near sighted differences are real...

I recently discovered a fascinating video on how to prevent communication from becoming a destructive force in marriage. This video provided me with a fresh perspective on the importance of effective communication in a relationship and how to avoid common pitfalls that can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. I was impressed with the practical tips and unique approach presented in the video, and I'm eager to incorporate these ideas into my own relationship to keep it strong and thriving.

Beautifully articulated, so much gems in this presentation!! Thank you!!

@prophetddm

2 жыл бұрын

Getting married outside the light of God is unnecessary.. problem are demons that follow people around so a person can act out of character under demonic influence… Hear more here kzread.info/dash/bejne/iHics7Kmnae7p9Y.html

everything in that paragraph of the book describes what I've been dealing with in my marriage

Great message

Focus in building the union other than fixing the person

Such a great message! Thank you

@CouplesAcademy

Жыл бұрын

It's our pleasure! Please continue to tune in, like, and share with others.

Amazing ..... Thanks ❤️

Thanks for sharing this interesting video ❤❤❤

Amazing I need in my marriage. I feel like I'm losing my husband.

@IntentionalMarriages

2 жыл бұрын

Aww, hang in there and reach out to us to learn about our Communicate Clearly Course, which might help you?

Great information

Whew! I know a verbal assassin. 😬 Kills me a little more each time and he doesn’t understand why it’s so hurtful.

Just listening to this...rich words

I have learned so much from this.

@CouplesAcademy

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, we really appreciate it! Make sure to subscribe and continue tuning in!

Isn't it funny how all such types of videos are spot on but impossible to apply????

Eeeks. Persistence beats resistance. This is something that a former friend used to say all the time. He’s now serving time in jail! This works on yourself, but also works in manners for an abuser! This is a very tight rope to walk. She complained about trying to change each other but in the end his persistence beat her resistance! This is still abuse. The long game of waiting for things to blow over is still something people use today. Feeling is literal. But now is subjective. Today could be great and who knows what brings tomorrow? I think we should think more about tomorrow than what we feel today! Todays feelings could be tomorrow’s heartache!

I truly love this video this is so good, packed with loving information,you two are truly great wonderful trechers❤

@prophetddm

2 жыл бұрын

Getting married outside the light of God is unnecessary.. problem are demons that follow people around so a person can act out of character under demonic influence… Hear more here kzread.info/dash/bejne/iHics7Kmnae7p9Y.html

I really love this. Thank you so much!

Great information Thank you for sharing this! I was even inspired to start my own Christian communication channel 🙏🏾

This was so good!

Good 👍

Just say yes

Very good

@prophetddm

2 жыл бұрын

Getting married outside the light of God is unnecessary.. problem are demons that follow people around so a person can act out of character under demonic influence… Hear more here kzread.info/dash/bejne/iHics7Kmnae7p9Y.html

Dang he was talkin to me when it came to the whole Policy of Radical Honesty. I do allat wrong 😂 wow. Other points hit home too tho.

@CouplesAcademy

Жыл бұрын

We are glad you were able to take something from this video! Thanks for watching and don't forget to subscribe.

I’m def a verbal assassin

Definitely an issue avoider

I am seeing this for the first time. Everything you said is so accurate. Is the offer still available?

@CouplesAcademy

Жыл бұрын

Please schedule a Discovery Call today so that we may assist! couplesacademy.intakeq.com/booking

These two married on looks, mutual attraction and Church.

Greetings and thank you. We sent text but haven’t received any response. Is the challenge still available? My wife and I could definitely benefit. Thank you again.

Will the communication challenge be happening again anytime soon?

Where can I purchase The Audacity of marriage book

🔥🔥🔥

I find it hard to communicate with my girlfriend. Sometimes going out for a meal together is uncomfortable because we both just sit there in silence even tho we both just had fun at the water park before hand. I want to hear from actual people who have had bad communication and then managed to turn it around. Need a bit of hope

@IntentionalMarriages

2 жыл бұрын

Raising my hand over here! We really struggled to communicate early on. I shut down and wouldn't talk for days, sometimes weeks and my husband was more the verbal fighter. It took us years to learn how to use the tools to overcome these obstacles. Now we love paying it forward!

@patriciaadamson8711

5 ай бұрын

@@IntentionalMarriages My husband and I are in this boat, I really don’t care anymore and just am at the point I don’t care what happens to our marriage. Relationships really aren’t worth the effort. It’s all so pointless

@IntentionalMarriages

5 ай бұрын

@@patriciaadamson8711when a relationship hits the apathy stage it’s very difficult to turn it back around but if there’s any hope, there’s plenty of skills you can implement to restore your marriage. Here for you, if interested.

Nov. 8, 2023, i viewed this video on Communication. Towards the end you gave text info of how to acquire a 30 day challenge on communication. I tried using it unsuccessfully. However, I’d love to have the download if possible. Any direction as to how I can get a copy?

Wondering if you still have 30 day challenge available ?

What if you are outside of the US

If one person is always wrong? How do you work through always being wrong?

@jeorjitakornu

Жыл бұрын

I don't believe one person can constantly be wrong each time, rather the other partner has a problem admiting their wrong. Being the first to apologise doesn't mean you are wrong, it only means you choose peace rather than strife.

i wiil be better

Couples academy I'm interested in the email because I'm from Australia. I can't txt from Australia please send me more information please 🙏

@markoivanovic433

3 жыл бұрын

Kudos for the Video! Sorry for chiming in, I would love your thoughts. Have you heard about - Mahorrla Guard Marriage Method (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is an awesome one off product for Saving Your Marriage without the headache. Ive heard some decent things about it and my friend after a lifetime of fighting got amazing results with it.

What if you’re husband talks too much? Just not to you!

@healingwithhanifa5984

2 жыл бұрын

like mine lol dude don't listen at all

9:30 10:17 12:54 18:15

What about when the husband is faithful, the wife cheats and then shuts down due to the husbands response/reaction?

@BeardGawd88

3 жыл бұрын

ouch.

@josephllinas417

3 жыл бұрын

Run

@ms.psmith1391

2 жыл бұрын

Seek couples counseling

@exceptional04

Жыл бұрын

@@ms.psmith1391 won’t help! They will only side with the one doing wrong..

That number doesn’t work 😩

The number does not work

Why you does share Gospel to every one, So I does too?

@asifmuniruniverse7732

Жыл бұрын

Cominication are different things but I stand on my faith without shaking

M

@prophetddm

2 жыл бұрын

Getting married outside the light of God is unnecessary.. problem are demons that follow people around so a person can act out of character under demonic influence… Hear more here kzread.info/dash/bejne/iHics7Kmnae7p9Y.html

I just stumbled across this video and Im blessed already 10mins into it. Please help me,Im going to be just a year into my marriage by January,but there's no peace nor excitement,my husband is the verbal assasin,always raining negative words on our marriage since we got wadded,he's the talkative type and loves to keep intouch with what happened/is happening around the world currently,and Im trying to adjust by watching the news and videos to be able to have something to discuss when we talk,because he's in the US and I'm in Africa,but it seems like nothing to him,he calls the marriage a failed marriage,a mistake and all the negativities you can imagine,though this is his third marriage,and our marriage is at the verge of tearing apart,sometimes I feel like just letting it go,because Im truly unhappy,please what do I do.

Worse than ted talks

Tips for Marital Conflict - How We Stop Yelling and Start Laughing Again kzread.info/dash/bejne/e5euu9OliLTcY7A.html

Hello I've tried sending the text to 33444, but it would not go through.

Great message