19:35 oh yes I had a friend husband pull that crap like oh we bought this house together so it's their house. too, she had key could come in whatever . I told my friend then yay need to move to house thats both of urs
@funmiafinnimustapha8985 күн бұрын
Pls I do I contact you from Nigeria, because I really need you to talk to me and my husband
@CouplesAcademy5 күн бұрын
Here you go couplesacademy.intakeq.com/booking
@cewilliamsable5 күн бұрын
I think the opportunity for a lot of this stuff and a chance to rebuild anything has long past. Hard to communicate with somebody who refuse to talk about it at all. Leaving me to deal with problems I didnt create during a time when I was severely injured and going through a lot. The failure to even show up at all is pretty unforgivable. Im literally just here for the kids... biding my time until Im healed from these 2 spine surgeries from a broken neck. I went through way too much to have to try to fix this too.
@CouplesAcademy5 күн бұрын
So sorry to hear what you're going through. I know it's a lot. But you don't have to do it alone. There is still hope and healing do you both. Maybe it's about now doing something different. Reach out to us couplesacademy.intakeq.com/booking
@GrymeJr8 күн бұрын
Ain’t no damn way, if she brings a child in this world and it’s not mine I’m gone
@ericmc7418 күн бұрын
This is a great video but many of the statements are worded from the assumption that it’s always the man who cheated or sometimes it’s both at different times. For men it’s about manning up but it can be even harder for us because when a woman cheats she didn’t just open her legs. She opened her heart to some degree - most of the time.
@Coolvthemantheicon9 күн бұрын
Thanks!
@CouplesAcademy9 күн бұрын
Thank you brother for your support. Please let me know how we can continue to serve you!
@isaiahhale13769 күн бұрын
How do I contact this man
@antwancollins73259 күн бұрын
Man I needed this guidance months ago
@CouplesAcademy9 күн бұрын
It's never too late. What's your current situation?
@fivebooks849810 күн бұрын
I went to tons of counseling over years. It was absolutely useless. I probably spent $10k on counseling because she thought it was gonna help. She just wanted someone to help her talk me into staying with her. All while she was still withholding the full truth. What can a counselor possibly say that will make anything better? There’s no need to discuss anything until the full truth is on the table. They are always hiding the worst of it. You don’t need a counselor to tell you how to feel. You need all the facts and 100% truth about what happened. Then you can make an informed decision about how you want to proceed. Use that money to get a polygraph test which btw is only about $600 in my area. Make sure you know everything in full. Then you can do what you want with that information. Affairs are horrible and if you really know the details of what they really did you will not want them back. They hide it and say they didn’t want to do it and it was terrible. I thought of you the whole time. I felt pressured to do it. The sex was terrible and he had a tiny penis. All this stuff is lies. They were having a blast with the guy, pursuing him, sending naked photos, taking showers with him and spending the night in his bed, initiating sex with him, taking it in different positions, giving him oral sex, having lots of orgasms, and then once it ran its course and she decided she didn’t want to screw him anymore she wants to come back to you. It’s disgusting.
@basilleavesandhoneybees48311 күн бұрын
Because it is so embarrassing!!!
@user-cf2cc9li4q12 күн бұрын
That couple in the clip…really? She went through all that and stayed…i can’t smh wtf is up with her self love…i would have left him and changed my name and got ghost
@nmorto201313 күн бұрын
I'm getting divorced now. He was awful to me and cheated with his current fiance for years off and on. I wish them well. But you do reap what u sow.
@joanmariz557313 күн бұрын
This is some gobbleDgoop😂
@evelyn28able14 күн бұрын
💯
@jamiebecker379915 күн бұрын
Love this. Id like to get both of yours help.
@michaeloconnor380615 күн бұрын
I am Jamaican. I terminated this video because of the accent of the speaker. I believe everyone should have a voice signature that identifies their ethnicity ie Indian, Chinese, Latin American, Caribbean. Other than that it sounds like P R, or entertainment. I may listen in the future to your content, or try slowing down the speach. Right now I can't.
@ggrace113316 күн бұрын
This is why I don’t believe staying together is wise. Grieve the loss of your obliterated marriage, process the devastation with a seasoned counselor that is a good fit, and heal yourself. Healing takes a long time, but it is critical to your ability to move forward to someone new without dragging this devastation into your new, healthy relationship. No matter how you think you love your betrayer, the betrayer set off the bomb that destroyed you. They don’t get a do-over. They need help, but not through you. Not with you. That’s like the uncle or cousin who molested your daughter being told she has to stay around him every day so he can make amends, and your daughter and uncle/cousin could or should try to build a new relationship together. That’s sick. Right? IF, and it’s a humongous IF, after you’ve been apart for a few years and have done the massive amount of work needed for your own individual recoveries, you come together again and slowly, slowly take time to build a new relationship with guided professional help, MAYBE then you can remarry and have a happy, safe, passionate and HEALTHY marriage this time because of all you’ve learned, and how you’ve healed and grown. But I’ve seen thousands of couples say the betrayed spouse triggers, floods, and spirals for decades down the road! If staying together after all the recovery work together still has this periodic misery and heartache for both of you, it doesn’t sound like a healthy plan.
@ConnieBuagas18 күн бұрын
Thanks
@esthercomice18 күн бұрын
This helped me so much ❤
@cristinavetsch346819 күн бұрын
Porto, Portugal 🇵🇹
@krvera0119 күн бұрын
Thank you 😢
@JudahTribe-lt3ur21 күн бұрын
Fight? For a marriage as a man? What?? A woman, a wife sis supposed to be a pillow of Rest, not stress. If she don’t want to be that to you, let her go with the quickness.
@cireepresley633421 күн бұрын
This is my point big bro after you do all that at what point do you need security as a man.
@yellowlac23 күн бұрын
💎 Good stuff!!
@BD-jy1pn23 күн бұрын
I’m struggling so much in my marriage right now, especially on. this front. I found out my husband was looking at half naked women on Instagram, and even though he promised to never do it again, he refuses to give me any access to his social media or even his cell phone. I told him we should both mutually do this, but he says that this is not necessary and that it’s me trying to control him. I have been married for over 20 years and I don’t even know what I wanna do anymore with my life. 😢💔
@tiwannajackson69820 күн бұрын
Sadly, Im going through the same thing with my spouse. We’ve been married for nearly 14yrs. I tried us sharing passwords & he stated the same thing, its unnecessary, and I should “trust him” but we’re currently seeking counseling now🙏🏽
@BD-jy1pn8 күн бұрын
@@tiwannajackson698 I do wish you the best in your counseling. I’ve given up at the moment. No energy left.
@m_jay523 күн бұрын
If you're married don't ever go and meet up with the opposite sex alone!
@JudahTribe-lt3ur23 күн бұрын
A 30 day sex fast? Hahahha!! Yeah, well the wife can do that and the husband can get sex elsewhere. No damn man, unless he’s sick or a super simp, is waiting 30 days to have sex with his wife
@cewilliamsable24 күн бұрын
When they show you who they are, BELIEVE THEM!
@lindamogab835224 күн бұрын
Incredible information!
@florencemorgan267426 күн бұрын
GOOD BEHAVIOR, AND TRUELY BECOMING THE PERSON YOU ARE GOING TO BE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. YOUR BEHAVIOR HAS TO REFLECT THE CHANGE AS WELL AS REMORSE AND REPENTANCE FOR YOUR PAST BEHAVIOR TOWARDS YOUR SPOUSE. YOUR SPOUSE MAY CHOOSE TO FORGIVE YOU, DO NOT THINK THAT MEANS SHE WILL FORGET EVERYTHING.
@cewilliamsable26 күн бұрын
Women dont apologize, they are the absolute worst when it comes to apologies.
@Teeko25327 күн бұрын
Wife of 12 years had an affair and seems very indifferent and like she could care less. I packed my stuff and left, she is just sad her “good girl image” is now exposed, and also how it affected our daughter. She’s a compulsive liar but I’m glad she cheated. She always accused me of cheating and I now see she was just projecting. I tried to lead my family with prayer and Bible studies but she was just impossible to please or communicate with. I prayed hard for the Holy Spirit to show me if she was cheating and he answered my prayer two weeks later.
@joyfullyyours748028 күн бұрын
This is what I’m going through now and it hurts sooo bad because I don’t have any children yet 🙏and my “husband” got another woman pregnant. We have a long distance marriage and the woman goes to his church where he is… I don’t know what to do
@MimiWinfrey-i4e26 күн бұрын
You should be grateful It's easier to divorce him since you don't have his kids
@cewilliamsable29 күн бұрын
I had a slip and fall and severely injured my spine and nervous system. I broke my neck, but managed to not damage the spinal cord itself, but smashed my foramen into the nerve root, which caused me to loose the use of my arms and have emergency surgery to restore function with a year and a half recovery time and a second surgery after that with another year + recovery. They ended up removing a portion of my spine. During that time my wife decided to start doing happy hours with coworkers and going to the gym. While out she would stop answering the phone and wouldnt text back. Basically ignored me and our kids and come back drunk. Went through her phone after dealing with her disappearing acts and found out that there was a rumor about her sleeping with people at her job. All of a sudden she doesnt remember, doesnt know and doesnt want to talk about it.lie after lie, gaslighting and a bunch of bs... I'm completely fed up!!!!! I have 1 month left in recovery from my second surgery and Im ready to leave. The worst part is she did all this while I was healing from my first surgery and dealing with suicidal ideation and it hurts me unbelievably to this day. After having the feeling of being trapped in my body, I did make an attempt to end it by taking 17 pills which caused internal bleeding. My surgeon called the police on me because of it. I have nobody to talk to, no resources for therapy and I've been trying to heal mentally from this all on my own in addition to trying to heal physically. I won't be 100%, but it's something. I dont even know if I can be helped at all. Suicide is still on my heart.
@troym.reaves5935Ай бұрын
lol hell naww, why would I even let my wife confront my mistress or vice Versa, my mistress will always be anonymous until my wife finds out, if She ever finds out, like the video tho bro
@tishatarayАй бұрын
Good vid
@cewilliamsableАй бұрын
The friendship and marriage go hand and hand, if you ruin the marriage you also ruin the friendship. And I dont talk to people Im generally not friends with. When a spouse chooses their friends over their marriage the message is clear, time to end it.
@gregrising3668Ай бұрын
Wish you could keep your politics out of this. Trump has some major flaws, but so does biden , Clinton, and your hero Barack. Throwing your politics where it does not belong only puts your honesty and bias in question.
@Ministry_withTeeАй бұрын
❤❤❤
@user-jw1bl4hq9jАй бұрын
MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT BE BASED ON THE PHYSICAL ONLY ….THE GOALS ARE IMPORTANT …THE MONEY ARE IMPORTANT ….
@simplyme7711Ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you!
@edicobusinesssolutions9631Ай бұрын
We were married 20 years, had an affair while we were married with young girls in their 20's. He was abusive towards me emotionally. He threatened me with divorce so often. I eventually signer it. Since then he blocked me on all corners and remarried to one of his mistresses. I'm not sure he feels any pain because we don't talk since our divorce. Our kids are suffering. He took them away from me. I believe he divorced me because I was unemployed for five years. I have forgiven him.
@lindamogab8352Ай бұрын
GREAT SERIES!!!!
@KarenSchaefАй бұрын
I lost the video did it drop off?
@dja-juicepowersourceproduc2887Ай бұрын
Nice
@MrJfortheElohimАй бұрын
True to the core. We are taught a lot of lies from the past generation.
@faith4667Ай бұрын
Hasaani this is amazing seen some of my fault that subconsciously I think contributed to my hubbys infidelity. Thanks for speaking truth and facts. Love from UK to you and ur lovely wife Danielle❤
@judylewis3149Ай бұрын
I recently begun listening to you! I recently found Couples Academy and Goodness, you speak volumes to me! I’ve searched for something like this for over a year! Thank you God for these videos! My heart has needed these! Thank you Couples Academy! It’s as if you’re speaking directly to me and our situation! Just, thank you!
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19:35 oh yes I had a friend husband pull that crap like oh we bought this house together so it's their house. too, she had key could come in whatever . I told my friend then yay need to move to house thats both of urs
Pls I do I contact you from Nigeria, because I really need you to talk to me and my husband
Here you go couplesacademy.intakeq.com/booking
I think the opportunity for a lot of this stuff and a chance to rebuild anything has long past. Hard to communicate with somebody who refuse to talk about it at all. Leaving me to deal with problems I didnt create during a time when I was severely injured and going through a lot. The failure to even show up at all is pretty unforgivable. Im literally just here for the kids... biding my time until Im healed from these 2 spine surgeries from a broken neck. I went through way too much to have to try to fix this too.
So sorry to hear what you're going through. I know it's a lot. But you don't have to do it alone. There is still hope and healing do you both. Maybe it's about now doing something different. Reach out to us couplesacademy.intakeq.com/booking
Ain’t no damn way, if she brings a child in this world and it’s not mine I’m gone
This is a great video but many of the statements are worded from the assumption that it’s always the man who cheated or sometimes it’s both at different times. For men it’s about manning up but it can be even harder for us because when a woman cheats she didn’t just open her legs. She opened her heart to some degree - most of the time.
Thanks!
Thank you brother for your support. Please let me know how we can continue to serve you!
How do I contact this man
Man I needed this guidance months ago
It's never too late. What's your current situation?
I went to tons of counseling over years. It was absolutely useless. I probably spent $10k on counseling because she thought it was gonna help. She just wanted someone to help her talk me into staying with her. All while she was still withholding the full truth. What can a counselor possibly say that will make anything better? There’s no need to discuss anything until the full truth is on the table. They are always hiding the worst of it. You don’t need a counselor to tell you how to feel. You need all the facts and 100% truth about what happened. Then you can make an informed decision about how you want to proceed. Use that money to get a polygraph test which btw is only about $600 in my area. Make sure you know everything in full. Then you can do what you want with that information. Affairs are horrible and if you really know the details of what they really did you will not want them back. They hide it and say they didn’t want to do it and it was terrible. I thought of you the whole time. I felt pressured to do it. The sex was terrible and he had a tiny penis. All this stuff is lies. They were having a blast with the guy, pursuing him, sending naked photos, taking showers with him and spending the night in his bed, initiating sex with him, taking it in different positions, giving him oral sex, having lots of orgasms, and then once it ran its course and she decided she didn’t want to screw him anymore she wants to come back to you. It’s disgusting.
Because it is so embarrassing!!!
That couple in the clip…really? She went through all that and stayed…i can’t smh wtf is up with her self love…i would have left him and changed my name and got ghost
I'm getting divorced now. He was awful to me and cheated with his current fiance for years off and on. I wish them well. But you do reap what u sow.
This is some gobbleDgoop😂
💯
Love this. Id like to get both of yours help.
I am Jamaican. I terminated this video because of the accent of the speaker. I believe everyone should have a voice signature that identifies their ethnicity ie Indian, Chinese, Latin American, Caribbean. Other than that it sounds like P R, or entertainment. I may listen in the future to your content, or try slowing down the speach. Right now I can't.
This is why I don’t believe staying together is wise. Grieve the loss of your obliterated marriage, process the devastation with a seasoned counselor that is a good fit, and heal yourself. Healing takes a long time, but it is critical to your ability to move forward to someone new without dragging this devastation into your new, healthy relationship. No matter how you think you love your betrayer, the betrayer set off the bomb that destroyed you. They don’t get a do-over. They need help, but not through you. Not with you. That’s like the uncle or cousin who molested your daughter being told she has to stay around him every day so he can make amends, and your daughter and uncle/cousin could or should try to build a new relationship together. That’s sick. Right? IF, and it’s a humongous IF, after you’ve been apart for a few years and have done the massive amount of work needed for your own individual recoveries, you come together again and slowly, slowly take time to build a new relationship with guided professional help, MAYBE then you can remarry and have a happy, safe, passionate and HEALTHY marriage this time because of all you’ve learned, and how you’ve healed and grown. But I’ve seen thousands of couples say the betrayed spouse triggers, floods, and spirals for decades down the road! If staying together after all the recovery work together still has this periodic misery and heartache for both of you, it doesn’t sound like a healthy plan.
Thanks
This helped me so much ❤
Porto, Portugal 🇵🇹
Thank you 😢
Fight? For a marriage as a man? What?? A woman, a wife sis supposed to be a pillow of Rest, not stress. If she don’t want to be that to you, let her go with the quickness.
This is my point big bro after you do all that at what point do you need security as a man.
💎 Good stuff!!
I’m struggling so much in my marriage right now, especially on. this front. I found out my husband was looking at half naked women on Instagram, and even though he promised to never do it again, he refuses to give me any access to his social media or even his cell phone. I told him we should both mutually do this, but he says that this is not necessary and that it’s me trying to control him. I have been married for over 20 years and I don’t even know what I wanna do anymore with my life. 😢💔
Sadly, Im going through the same thing with my spouse. We’ve been married for nearly 14yrs. I tried us sharing passwords & he stated the same thing, its unnecessary, and I should “trust him” but we’re currently seeking counseling now🙏🏽
@@tiwannajackson698 I do wish you the best in your counseling. I’ve given up at the moment. No energy left.
If you're married don't ever go and meet up with the opposite sex alone!
A 30 day sex fast? Hahahha!! Yeah, well the wife can do that and the husband can get sex elsewhere. No damn man, unless he’s sick or a super simp, is waiting 30 days to have sex with his wife
When they show you who they are, BELIEVE THEM!
Incredible information!
GOOD BEHAVIOR, AND TRUELY BECOMING THE PERSON YOU ARE GOING TO BE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. YOUR BEHAVIOR HAS TO REFLECT THE CHANGE AS WELL AS REMORSE AND REPENTANCE FOR YOUR PAST BEHAVIOR TOWARDS YOUR SPOUSE. YOUR SPOUSE MAY CHOOSE TO FORGIVE YOU, DO NOT THINK THAT MEANS SHE WILL FORGET EVERYTHING.
Women dont apologize, they are the absolute worst when it comes to apologies.
Wife of 12 years had an affair and seems very indifferent and like she could care less. I packed my stuff and left, she is just sad her “good girl image” is now exposed, and also how it affected our daughter. She’s a compulsive liar but I’m glad she cheated. She always accused me of cheating and I now see she was just projecting. I tried to lead my family with prayer and Bible studies but she was just impossible to please or communicate with. I prayed hard for the Holy Spirit to show me if she was cheating and he answered my prayer two weeks later.
This is what I’m going through now and it hurts sooo bad because I don’t have any children yet 🙏and my “husband” got another woman pregnant. We have a long distance marriage and the woman goes to his church where he is… I don’t know what to do
You should be grateful It's easier to divorce him since you don't have his kids
I had a slip and fall and severely injured my spine and nervous system. I broke my neck, but managed to not damage the spinal cord itself, but smashed my foramen into the nerve root, which caused me to loose the use of my arms and have emergency surgery to restore function with a year and a half recovery time and a second surgery after that with another year + recovery. They ended up removing a portion of my spine. During that time my wife decided to start doing happy hours with coworkers and going to the gym. While out she would stop answering the phone and wouldnt text back. Basically ignored me and our kids and come back drunk. Went through her phone after dealing with her disappearing acts and found out that there was a rumor about her sleeping with people at her job. All of a sudden she doesnt remember, doesnt know and doesnt want to talk about it.lie after lie, gaslighting and a bunch of bs... I'm completely fed up!!!!! I have 1 month left in recovery from my second surgery and Im ready to leave. The worst part is she did all this while I was healing from my first surgery and dealing with suicidal ideation and it hurts me unbelievably to this day. After having the feeling of being trapped in my body, I did make an attempt to end it by taking 17 pills which caused internal bleeding. My surgeon called the police on me because of it. I have nobody to talk to, no resources for therapy and I've been trying to heal mentally from this all on my own in addition to trying to heal physically. I won't be 100%, but it's something. I dont even know if I can be helped at all. Suicide is still on my heart.
lol hell naww, why would I even let my wife confront my mistress or vice Versa, my mistress will always be anonymous until my wife finds out, if She ever finds out, like the video tho bro
Good vid
The friendship and marriage go hand and hand, if you ruin the marriage you also ruin the friendship. And I dont talk to people Im generally not friends with. When a spouse chooses their friends over their marriage the message is clear, time to end it.
Wish you could keep your politics out of this. Trump has some major flaws, but so does biden , Clinton, and your hero Barack. Throwing your politics where it does not belong only puts your honesty and bias in question.
❤❤❤
MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT BE BASED ON THE PHYSICAL ONLY ….THE GOALS ARE IMPORTANT …THE MONEY ARE IMPORTANT ….
Wow! Thank you!
We were married 20 years, had an affair while we were married with young girls in their 20's. He was abusive towards me emotionally. He threatened me with divorce so often. I eventually signer it. Since then he blocked me on all corners and remarried to one of his mistresses. I'm not sure he feels any pain because we don't talk since our divorce. Our kids are suffering. He took them away from me. I believe he divorced me because I was unemployed for five years. I have forgiven him.
GREAT SERIES!!!!
I lost the video did it drop off?
Nice
True to the core. We are taught a lot of lies from the past generation.
Hasaani this is amazing seen some of my fault that subconsciously I think contributed to my hubbys infidelity. Thanks for speaking truth and facts. Love from UK to you and ur lovely wife Danielle❤
I recently begun listening to you! I recently found Couples Academy and Goodness, you speak volumes to me! I’ve searched for something like this for over a year! Thank you God for these videos! My heart has needed these! Thank you Couples Academy! It’s as if you’re speaking directly to me and our situation! Just, thank you!