"Approaching Girls is Creepy"

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  • @Denmosocial
    @Denmosocial Жыл бұрын

    Do you feel creepy when you approach girls?

  • @kku6857

    @kku6857

    Жыл бұрын

    No if I do it regularly. I need to stop being online.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kku6857 well said

  • @williamng6441

    @williamng6441

    Жыл бұрын

    Definitely cuz no one does it these days especially on campus. I even try to make eye contact with women but some of them just roll their eyes when I do it

  • @user-lv8rf9tm1f

    @user-lv8rf9tm1f

    Жыл бұрын

    I guess, its not sexy or aytractive when a guy complains about his life all the time, so internally with high motivation for social contacts, but girls, oh boy) cannot be honest with my feelings when near them. So I decided to work on myself...it could be for ages if I am not stubborn enough

  • @oceanpacific3841

    @oceanpacific3841

    Жыл бұрын

    No it's the natural way

  • @Unidentified4
    @Unidentified4 Жыл бұрын

    Approached two women last week with the direct "I think you're extremely good-looking, that's all I wanted to say, take care" and walking away. The first girl was super nice about it and thanked me, unfortunately the second girl was extremely off put and yelled at me for a good minute, called me a loser, etc. Luckily there was nobody else around to join her. My biggest take away here is that I got arguably the worst possible reaction and it wasn't the end of the world. That's major progress to getting over approach anxiety.

  • @skinnywater1

    @skinnywater1

    Жыл бұрын

    “The worst she can say is no”

  • @arturonavarropovedano2396

    @arturonavarropovedano2396

    Жыл бұрын

    Props yo you, man. I'm still trying yo do It. I get nervous, so i started by complimenting men in a non sexual way, of course. We are gonna make it

  • @mindsetmotivation9124

    @mindsetmotivation9124

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like she had self esteem issues. The second one.

  • @Tommy06289

    @Tommy06289

    Жыл бұрын

    second chick has major issues

  • @ChicagoJ351

    @ChicagoJ351

    Жыл бұрын

    One of the core principles some coaches teach is letting go of the outcome, where you become indifferent to what happens. Make it all a fun process, talking to girls. Don’t let a toxic girl drag you into her frame. Truth is, you did nothing wrong by giving her a compliment. But, something in your delivery or mindset is off most likely. No big deal. Just keep practicing. Perhaps don’t say “extremely good looking” and just say she looks nice. Or better yet, watch denmo approach and use a more indirect approach like he does. Not like the London guys where they use a canned compliment line each time.

  • @richardhoyle8115
    @richardhoyle8115 Жыл бұрын

    Please never change these Melvin Vs Chad intros.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    lmao you like those eh

  • @overexposed8537

    @overexposed8537

    Жыл бұрын

    Nah these intros r shit older was better the reason I stopped watching other ytber is coz of these type of intros

  • @anshitvermaa4291

    @anshitvermaa4291

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Denmosocialdo change em . Too much dopamine.

  • @florinlionte1233

    @florinlionte1233

    Жыл бұрын

    dude memes are gold, i dare you to skip a meme scene in the future

  • @RDC2003

    @RDC2003

    Ай бұрын

    @@Denmosocialthey’re hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @ChadBrahh
    @ChadBrahh Жыл бұрын

    Bro I legit made plans to go to a mall and approach chicks, got haircut and all but the moment it was time to leave I got too nervous and never left. Day's over now but I feel super nervous I haven't spoken to girls outside my gym in over a year, and I don't have any friends so my social anxiety kicked in even before I start

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    bro you in the discord? Our balls will fire you up. We got dudes posting W's everywhere lol

  • @grettirgrattmards2348

    @grettirgrattmards2348

    Жыл бұрын

    I've been escorted out by mall security for approaching and shooting my shot with girls at the mall before. After a fat old guy berates you for harrasing people at "HIS MALL" it should be a clear sign that you're doing something wrong.

  • @HorrorWorldx

    @HorrorWorldx

    Жыл бұрын

    @@grettirgrattmards2348 wtf

  • @oceanpacific3841

    @oceanpacific3841

    Жыл бұрын

    Try again and redeem yourself ,you got this bro

  • @zachbohemian

    @zachbohemian

    Жыл бұрын

    Step 1: make friends Step 2: gain charisma Step 3: approach women. You can get friends anywhere especially with something that involves a hobby

  • @co_conspirator
    @co_conspirator Жыл бұрын

    Making friends/ social competency is the NUMBER ONE most important thing. If you can't do that, working out, self-improvement, income, everything else is useless. Being autistic/aespergers/neuroatypical/having a personality disorder is a death sentence that self-improvement content creators neglect which is a shame considering a large number of people who consume this content probably fall into that camp.

  • @donnyramay2635

    @donnyramay2635

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely. This is the problem that no one is addressing. Men who have no social network or who have Asperger's syndrome always wind up incels even if they're attractive. I happen to be one of those guys.

  • @disaffectedmale

    @disaffectedmale

    Жыл бұрын

    50 years old, no friends, no job, no social circle but I do have Asperger's so yay. Hermit-life for me. I can barely buy groceries. Haven't been more than a half mile form my house in a year. I'm pretty easy on the eye too but I may as well be 10 stone over weight and covered in acne.

  • @mareksv1947

    @mareksv1947

    Жыл бұрын

    true, I think I might have aespergers. All my life was thinking that every one are weird when they acted on and took emotions into count when making decision. Don't understand how people make conversation about topics that they don't care about, didn't make any sense to me. Turned out, that I'm the weird one😂. It is hard to talk to strangers, because I don't care about what they have to say. We have noting common. It take me about year to make a friend, don't really get how I even got mine😅I don't even contact them, same with my family members. I might call closest ones in 2-3 months if I haven't seen them. Now when I know about aespergers, I try to make more initiative to meet them.

  • @Jedilord882

    @Jedilord882

    8 ай бұрын

    @@donnyramay2635same lol it’s borderline pointless

  • @tx6723

    @tx6723

    8 ай бұрын

    @@donnyramay2635yea and I’m also Latino brown idk i feel that has added to some of my rejections idk how to fix that

  • @ezragaim2130
    @ezragaim2130 Жыл бұрын

    So glad I followed you bro. Really put a more positive light into these topics compared to most these dating coaches. Brings the right energy and message.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    appreciate that bro. If it helps you then share it with your mates

  • @sebastijan5894
    @sebastijan5894 Жыл бұрын

    There are cultural differences to consider as well. US/Canada culture is quite extroverted, but for example Northern Europe (Finland, Sweden etc.) is extremely introverted. People literally never talk to strangers, approaching girls is considered extremely creepy. The men there almost never approach women. However, there is a flip side to that, some girls do like getting approached (because they never do get approached so you really do stick out) and then it is usually foreign guys who snatch up many women because they have a different mindset. Literally all Finnish and Swedish women I personally know have a foreign boyfriend/husband.

  • @grettirgrattmards2348

    @grettirgrattmards2348

    Жыл бұрын

    This right here! I live in Iceland and girls absolutely do not want to be cold approached. Warm approach or Tinder only. I don't think Denmo realizes that Americans are exceptionally extroverted compared to many European cultures. Which is why I like to strike up conversations with American tourists that come here. They're mostly always up for quick chat while Germans tourists I've met for example are closed books, avoidant and answer in single words to questions.

  • @nevojae511

    @nevojae511

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, daygame would be odd even in Western EU - Germany, Austria etc. But bars and nightclubs are a possibility

  • @stoizm

    @stoizm

    Жыл бұрын

    okey ı'm coming finland ahahahah. bro you have really sweet girls in finland/sweden. ı'm in turkey and me and my friends just approaching girls for fun and they're not even good looking but we still approach to them. because we really sick off the waiting for repond on dm or tinder ect. you have to make it normal to approaching girls on street or coffe shops. believe me if you and your friends start to doing that it's gonna become more normal thing in 1 or 2 years and people are gonna used to it. I think ı don't have to say you should work on your career,apperance,social skills and lifestyle after this video

  • @Xerekaengolidoradequiabo3000

    @Xerekaengolidoradequiabo3000

    Жыл бұрын

    @@grettirgrattmards2348 in Brazil cold approach is rule! I think that north americans, latin-americans and southern europeans are more extrovert than other cultures (At least that’s what I experienced)

  • @Xerekaengolidoradequiabo3000

    @Xerekaengolidoradequiabo3000

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve was thinking what social life is like in scandinavia, I think my expectations were right.

  • @thean9ryrussian621
    @thean9ryrussian621 Жыл бұрын

    Your videos are great man! My confidence is growing and my ability to talk to strangers and have good conversations is getting better because you’ve helped my mindset. I’m glad I found your channel, keep up the good work

  • @jackmurphy8696
    @jackmurphy8696 Жыл бұрын

    The downward spiral after rejection is real. I had about 3 or 4 attractive women approach me when I was 21 but as I got older and got rejected more you start to just get creepier and creepier. I mean being less attractive is also considered creepier it's unfortunate but true, but my behavior has also changed into a self fulfilling prophecy. This further compounds the issue. Your body might even start expressing uglier characteristics from your mind thinking that all the time.

  • @ren1643

    @ren1643

    10 ай бұрын

    The trick to socializing is unlearning and letting go. Every rejection spikes fear, fear creates tension, tension is unnerving. It’s all a mental game. Let go of it all, let your body and voice relax. Don’t try to look cool, don’t assume you look weird. Just be real.

  • @wolfgangmozart888

    @wolfgangmozart888

    10 ай бұрын

    "your body might even start expressing uglier characteristics from your mind thinking that all the time" SO TRUE! Self fulfilling prophecies are real. We have to be careful about what we think.

  • @wolfgangmozart888

    @wolfgangmozart888

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@ren1643awesome advice!

  • @jackmurphy8696

    @jackmurphy8696

    10 ай бұрын

    @@wolfgangmozart888 Got caught up in a few of the self fulfilling prophecies in my early 20's and now I'm trying to recover mentally. Hopefully I can fix this before 30 and accomplish something.

  • @jackmurphy8696

    @jackmurphy8696

    8 ай бұрын

    @@thealiminop7571 facts

  • @djskie1
    @djskie1 Жыл бұрын

    What helped me: stop being worried about being creepy. Just normal reaction. The more you are in those uncomfortable situations talking to girls you like the more you feel relaxed

  • @joshuaortiz2031

    @joshuaortiz2031

    10 ай бұрын

    I embrace being creepy. Some women actually like that and those are the women I go for because they are freaks in bed. There are two kinds of creepy the weak, timid, scared type and the serial killer type and many women have a thing for the latter. It's worked for me when I stare and give them a smile the joker would be proud of. If you're confident about being creepy it could actually work.

  • @ren1643

    @ren1643

    10 ай бұрын

    It’s all about letting go. Don’t try to look cool, don’t be afraid of being creepy, don’t assume you’re being weird. Just be real. Be the real you, let go of all that tension and worry. That is literally the only wall in your way. It’s not about confidence, the perfect thing to says to say. It’s just letting go and speaking. When your mind is elsewhere it’s hard to find things to say. Just focus on the conversation. Bring yourself to it. Not a facade, because those are hard to maintain.

  • @wolfgangmozart888

    @wolfgangmozart888

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@joshuaortiz2031lol that's curious. How do these women look like?

  • @joshuaortiz2031

    @joshuaortiz2031

    10 ай бұрын

    @@wolfgangmozart888 they are usually super hot bisexual goth chicks that dress in black and like to watch horror movies with me. It's perfect. Even serial killers in prison get love letters and marriage proposals from women because that dangerous type of creepy attracts some fucked up girls. They are the best lays ever. I'm also a musician so that also helps.

  • @kbirdw7645
    @kbirdw7645 Жыл бұрын

    Love the way you lay out all the basic principles and pitfalls to avoid. Personally late to the dating game due to some bad personal circumstances, but your advice and demonstrations are giving me lots of valuable info for avoiding problems down the line. Thanks for your work.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    no worries bro. See you in the discord!

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster Жыл бұрын

    Develop your social skills by interacting with more women. Always look back on your interactions and figure out what you're doing wrong, and where u can improve on.

  • @chrismartin1463
    @chrismartin14639 ай бұрын

    I like that point you made about how people go to the internet for their dopamine fix when you got to think that it started and was created in the real world. So many people are distracted by social media, video games and stuff for some dopamine hits when they need to get out or start lifting weights or something.

  • @geraldthebusdriver3491
    @geraldthebusdriver3491 Жыл бұрын

    @Denmo, I just got done watching this video. You have encouraged me to change my mind. Things haven’t been easy for me this year, yes I feel I am a very social person. It’s just very limited down for me being only 19 years old, like I would be more than happy to go try to talk to a few women at the bar even those who have boyfriends just for the hell of it. But unfortunately I can’t because of the age, I would go out and try to join a club of hobbies I am interested in but I have a very busy life with me being in Trade and work outside of that. I also think the weather makes a significant difference like if it’s cold and shitty outside, that also makes my mood like that because I noticed when it was beautiful outside. I talked to 3 beautiful girls in one day without a single care in the world, most likely Seasonal Effect Disorder. I have a gym membership and workout at least 2-3 times a week, I work at my local grocery store. But will get a different job as a Welder with me being in Trade School. In the meantime, there is a place for people my age to hang out and meet people so sometime I am going to go down there and put myself out there. I will say I have very bad habits of reading and watching all those videos and articles, of why men don’t approach women anymore or why they don’t talk to them at work anymore. I will say that is a very awful and degrading habit that I have and it’s very hard to break, but I am doing the best I can. Sometimes things haven’t been easy for me, but I am really trying my best. I did actually manage to get one girl to actually go on a date with me this year, but she liked me for a week and that being my first time. That really hit me like a Train I don't think that helped either. It just made me feel really shitty for a long time that I managed a woman to like me for a week then wanted nothing to do with me, so that kind of fueled the fire for me. But I finally got back up like a week ago. Anyways, in regard to this I will try to keep my hopes up and keep trying. Thank you and have a nice day.

  • @willislangerhansel2382
    @willislangerhansel2382 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome vid dude, love your mindset and approach and thanks for helping us creeps!

  • @maxchiassonart8869
    @maxchiassonart886910 ай бұрын

    Thanks for these videos!Much appreciated!! Motivating me to unplug from this matrix!!!

  • @theironson1043
    @theironson1043 Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate the positive vibes, coming from a guy that also approaches real women in the real world very often, generally speaking women aren't attracted to guys who ain't getting none, they tend to go after guys who are already smashing, they have a sixth sense for it and it is a death sentence if they are ever convinced no ones checking for u, here's the thing, u don't actually have to have a woman but u make d&&m sure she doesn't know that, its like poker. Other thing is u cant worry about being creepy, if ur not their kind of hot ur automatically gonna get judged harsher, some of them will be gentle but most have huge ego's just how it is. Some will crucify you and think nothing of it, if I could give advice to a random guy, I'd say have a friend whose good w/women who goes with you at first so u can get feedback that'll keep u leveled out during the process so u dont chicken out or get jaded, going lone wolf style is hard cause you will feel quite low at times, sometimes u will feel like you're on top of the world and u wont be able to contain your joy. There's nothing like that green light u get from a chick that is 100% down.

  • @PlayingWithFireChannel
    @PlayingWithFireChannel Жыл бұрын

    So true!

  • @misterxrd
    @misterxrd Жыл бұрын

    My man I wish you all the best with this new channel of yours dude

  • @Producedbylevithomas
    @Producedbylevithomas Жыл бұрын

    thanks for posting this brother

  • @coryparris9726
    @coryparris9726 Жыл бұрын

    Hey keep fighting the good fight denmo! Thanks for the vid

  • @picklesillumanti1467
    @picklesillumanti1467 Жыл бұрын

    Appreciate you always keeping it real

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    here to help G

  • @jtr5540
    @jtr5540 Жыл бұрын

    it’s getting worse as a teen because the confidence thing ofc doesn’t work with all girls online because nowadays if ur 16,17,18 all girls are on snap and insta and all that and they get constant validation from everywhere. it’s easy to stand out and ofc not everyone is going to like u. it can be draining trying to do all the internet bs. i prefer talking irl which is why i try to set up a time to meet up and understandably most of them think that’s weird. this will not work for my generation, things will change for the worst unfortunately.

  • @qasimimtiaz9668

    @qasimimtiaz9668

    Жыл бұрын

    women prefer older guys

  • @wewybeats
    @wewybeats Жыл бұрын

    you are helping me for real for real

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    if these help you please send em to your friends my man

  • @kemal_alp
    @kemal_alp Жыл бұрын

    I'm 6"4 and good looking but petrified of approaching women. I'm going to join the discord and solve this issue.

  • @SJTheGiant

    @SJTheGiant

    Жыл бұрын

    dawg just go do it. The noyl way to lose that fear and get better at it is by simply approaching more women often

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    lots of dudes like this. incels hate the idea this exists

  • @BloodyHeck

    @BloodyHeck

    Жыл бұрын

    If you've got the added bonus of being high statis, rich and ripped, you're pretty much a Chad and can do whatever you want.

  • @josheves438

    @josheves438

    9 ай бұрын

    Try ultimate man project you need good outter game

  • @masterwerneck

    @masterwerneck

    4 ай бұрын

    ​​@@Denmosocialkinda of he already has the foot-on-the-door but refuses to enters it.

  • @prithvirajkhokale8866
    @prithvirajkhokale8866 Жыл бұрын

    Denmo the goat. I thought you were a chad back then but after I quit social media and just came back it seems your even more chadder now

  • @johnkakuk
    @johnkakuk Жыл бұрын

    I didn’t go five continuous seconds without laughing during that intro 😂😂😂 Well done 👏🏻

  • @vniization
    @vniization Жыл бұрын

    Looks like the algorithm didn't like this one video

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    this video isnt out yet bro ;)

  • @vniization

    @vniization

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh ok, I see

  • @timreichofficial

    @timreichofficial

    Жыл бұрын

    How tf did he comment

  • @krxmtik

    @krxmtik

    Жыл бұрын

    lmfao how did u get the link?

  • @connorrussell6693

    @connorrussell6693

    Жыл бұрын

    how tf he get the link

  • @AB-yr2eo
    @AB-yr2eo Жыл бұрын

    Love your channel bro

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    thanks man you share these with your mates?

  • @nicksparks7257
    @nicksparks7257 Жыл бұрын

    Bro! When you mentioned "difference in value" - this really hit me hard because I see it all the time. Can you expand on this a bit more, how do you shift that value perception besides the usual body language, confidence, physical shape etc?

  • @lukedorey6705
    @lukedorey6705 Жыл бұрын

    What an amazing video, that was brilliant

  • @filmicninja
    @filmicninja Жыл бұрын

    I approach a girl yesterday for the first time after watching your videos and I was so Confidence and I succeed🤣🤣🤣🔥, I'm on a role now to approach girls everytime to be more Confident, thanks man

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    absolute legend. share your story in the discord bro!

  • @jonofthedawnn
    @jonofthedawnn Жыл бұрын

    Good shit bro

  • @harrowdrut6316
    @harrowdrut6316 Жыл бұрын

    Calling me out when you described staring at girls when they’re not looking and then looking away. I always hesitate just long enough that I feel like I’m already creepy and now I can’t approach them.

  • @grindingirl7586
    @grindingirl7586 Жыл бұрын

    >see hot girl at gym >she is about to to abs crunch >i go to the machine next to her ask if theres room to workout next to her >she says nothing, doesnt look at me, finishes her set and leaves this is what having autism is like

  • @Gabriel-us3ok
    @Gabriel-us3ok Жыл бұрын

    “Morph into a cockroach” I love it😂

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    lmao dont you hate when that happens

  • @danielstatler954

    @danielstatler954

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm cockroach niiiick! Maybe idk

  • @albertalu4583
    @albertalu4583 Жыл бұрын

    Man I see you're getting shadow banned, but keep it up bro you're videos are great and very helpful, don't be discouraged.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    all good we got this. do me a solid share em with your mates to help our movement

  • @Landon_Hughes
    @Landon_Hughes Жыл бұрын

    I love these stories about Melvin at the beginning of your videos😂

  • @rickyfast64
    @rickyfast6410 ай бұрын

    I love that you said the internet is for lonely people. That makes so much sense. That helps my mentality with haters online 👌

  • @crystalseed.422.4
    @crystalseed.422.4 Жыл бұрын

    You’re the best Denma

  • @latexlieutenant
    @latexlieutenant Жыл бұрын

    dude these intro videos are iconic 😂

  • @eastonsaccount
    @eastonsaccount Жыл бұрын

    You see lads the only way to get a girl is too… approach her at some point

  • @jinzom2600
    @jinzom26008 ай бұрын

    "Like a FUCKING Melvin" After working with a piece of shit who's name is Melvin, this is perfect

  • @simonomisimonomis

    @simonomisimonomis

    7 ай бұрын

    hahahaha

  • @BusinessWolf1
    @BusinessWolf1 Жыл бұрын

    There was a chat about this topic in the discord on a voice channel. And that's all I'm gonna say about that. Certainly interesting topic.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    voice chat is goated

  • @miterbox9491
    @miterbox9491 Жыл бұрын

    This intro is absolutely hilarious 😂😆😂

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    send it to your mates bro easiest way to get them to watch more is make em laugh

  • @ifeelhalfnaked484
    @ifeelhalfnaked484 Жыл бұрын

    I remember on last Halloween, I approached 2 girls in a neighbourhood mall. 1 of them agreed to be asked out after a crap 2 min convo and eventually we became medium term fwb and of course she earns more and look better than me, stop giving yourself excuses bro!

  • @davidjite999

    @davidjite999

    Жыл бұрын

    W

  • @420exp8

    @420exp8

    11 ай бұрын

    yo big win

  • @user-hd6zy3zw1y
    @user-hd6zy3zw1y Жыл бұрын

    So what do I do if I stutter for real like I have it. It’s hard to heard that stuttering is bad when flirting or talking to someone when you have it without being anxious or nervous

  • @victormwangi8024
    @victormwangi8024 Жыл бұрын

    What I can say is that ever since I started watching ur videos... I can say thanks.... Am trying my best to change my lifestyle.... I've been an introvert, struggling with masturbating, being on phone for long time... Whenever I have free time, I try my best to meet up with new people

  • @mostafizurrahman2694
    @mostafizurrahman2694 Жыл бұрын

    I can't watch this video without buffering. And I blame you for that. 😭

  • @ryanwelles6323
    @ryanwelles632310 күн бұрын

    Trying this thing once a day over the summer semester. Going to one girl in a starbucks area and tell them they are pretty and ask for their number.

  • @iPlay_Violin
    @iPlay_Violin Жыл бұрын

    @denmo what do you think about like " I am a little anxious to talk to anyone right now ..like don't know in what way to talk to them and do you know a way to organise your thoughts? If I can know these things like in what way to talk ( boundaries ) ..i have been staying mostly at home since pandemic so my communication skills are not good. Do reply please .

  • @1495978707
    @149597870710 ай бұрын

    Something that I once read or heard on some pick up artist video or subreddit or something is that you can and should practice talking to anyone. Not just cute girls. Chat up the cashier, the old lady at the bus stop, whoever. Have fun with it. You go over something along these lines in your vid “How to never run out of things to say to girls”, that you need to stop the dopamine drip so that you find enjoyment in simply living. And I want to add to that that the dopamine drip *kills* curiosity. And having conversations with people is easy when you’re genuinely curious, and see the people around you going through their lives as well.

  • @johnpolese6575
    @johnpolese6575 Жыл бұрын

    The issue I have is that I hear many of my female co-workers who complain about all the guys who hit on them. I also see women on the internet writing about how they don’t want to be approached in public and make an effort to make themselves look unapproachable so strange men don’t talk to them. Just seeing this makes me not want to try at all, because I don’t want to be that “weird guy” approaching them. I guess the only way that it is acceptable to meet women is in social situations where you both happen to be at the same gathering, through mutual friends, or online.

  • @grettirgrattmards2348

    @grettirgrattmards2348

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts. Girls today want to be in full control of how and when men approach them. There's a time and a place for everything. Loads of videos on KZread already with street interviews where a guy asks random girls how and when they'd like to be approached. Most common thing you hear is "at the bar or club when im out" but most will rather answer where NOT to approach them and that list is so fucking long I couldn't fit half of it in a KZread comment. Here are some examples where to NOT approach girls: *In the gym *at the grocery store *when she's walking her dog *when she's working *when she has headphones in *when she's with friends *when she's with her parents *when she's on campus walking to class *when she's shopping *when she's browsing for books *when she's doing errands *when she's not in full makeup *when she's not dressed up *when she's waiting in a waiting room (at the DMV for example) I could go on. Some of these I can see their point of view, others are kinda silly.

  • @bengalboypaco3140

    @bengalboypaco3140

    Жыл бұрын

    @Nicholas Clay no matter how you sugat coat it they already know what you want its not worth approaching strangers

  • @AlexRodriguez-ng6bb

    @AlexRodriguez-ng6bb

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @AJBuddha

    @AJBuddha

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea true but a house party is different than the gym or gas station so it’s considered more creepy in some settings & not creepy in other settings

  • @HealthyGuitarPlayer

    @HealthyGuitarPlayer

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@bengalboypaco3140if you just want to meet a nice women thats not a bad thing

  • @mr.jds-_-
    @mr.jds-_- Жыл бұрын

    I approach women a lot. I have a..."You've got nothing to lose" mentally. It's not creepy. They feel very comfortable around me... For a while... Until they realize that I'm a pretty talkative and laid back person. They get turned off pretty fast when I give them too much attention and stuff. Most of the times when I'm around women in a room especially if it's super quiet... I feel very weirded out and uncomfortable, so I'll start conversations to be comfortable. So in my case it's not being creepy... It's being too laid back and talkative. I have a girlfriend already so I don't come across being thirsty and stuff so that's why sometimes although I talk a lot, they get engaged in the Convo. Literally... my girlfriend said that before we got together, she didn't talk to me for a bit because I talked too much 😂 well we know how that went. She gave into it, found me hilarious and great to be around and now we're together 3yrs now. So maybe it's not such a bad thing.

  • @BaconSlayer69

    @BaconSlayer69

    Жыл бұрын

    Girls are idiots for that give ‘em attention ur desperate ignore em they chase u lol 😂

  • @LoganSnyder
    @LoganSnyder Жыл бұрын

    In the past I would rarely go out, only to the gym where I never talked to anyone or once every two months with friends where I never talked to anyone but them. Changing that now and gonna start being social alone and hopefully can talk to a nice girl but if not that's cool too 💪💪

  • @AscendedStark
    @AscendedStark2 ай бұрын

    00:40 Although now, I'm a Proud *"Cockroach"* in the Skool community (free version) 😜 Great job on the program bro ! 😊

  • @N57Icarus
    @N57Icarus Жыл бұрын

    the best thing i found out for me is when you just feel comfortable in your own skin. like leaning back in your own living room and enjoying the moment. in the real world it can be anywhere. be it in a café, in a bar or in the queue in the middle of a supermarket. if you respect yourself, love yourself, pay attention to your clothes, what does your figure and generally things that put a smile on your face, you develop in the same breath in a natural way and white an attraction that the ladies world out there and usually makes you appear attractive in their eyes. so it's all about your own well-being.

  • @ChimkenRiceNuggy
    @ChimkenRiceNuggy Жыл бұрын

    When I was in high school, I used to be self-assured. I have become more of a shy person now. I'm unemployed and just want to end my life because many people find me to be strange and creepy at work.

  • @luckypickle9027

    @luckypickle9027

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey man, it’s going to be okay. I’m sure you’re just in your own head. Anxiety often leads to false delusions. The best thing about being at the bottom is that there is no other place to go than up! Much love my man, you got this

  • @josephdennis-h8c
    @josephdennis-h8c Жыл бұрын

    approaching girls isn't creepy it's how you approach them.

  • @paccawacca4069

    @paccawacca4069

    Жыл бұрын

    Girls just say its creepy to keep the betas at bay. Shit test.

  • @Fitness_Lorenzo
    @Fitness_Lorenzo Жыл бұрын

    Watches denmo to hear Aauuuggghhhh , Ugggghhhhh, 💀 intros are funny as hell.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    lmao dat moan

  • @thomaseadbhardmcqueen7511
    @thomaseadbhardmcqueen7511 Жыл бұрын

    I'm sure a lot of Melvins are gonna have a hard time accepting what you're saying here, but there's a lot of truth to it. Some tend to think that girls finding unattractive guys creepy is a double standard, but if something is off-putting, then people want to avoid it. I don't blame women for wanting to avoid men who they find odd, and if you clearly lack inner confidence, why should *they* feel confident about you? Great stuff as always, Jack.

  • @Sheygo09
    @Sheygo096 ай бұрын

    The story at the beginning of the video was funny af 😂😂🤣

  • @solclipse2205
    @solclipse2205 Жыл бұрын

    7:24 had me dead 💀

  • @gamalielramirez9697
    @gamalielramirez9697 Жыл бұрын

    This guys animations are fucking hilarious

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    if you like this share it with your mates lmao

  • @devilsadvocacy
    @devilsadvocacy Жыл бұрын

    10:03 I do this a lot, as I am on the autism spectrum and have a lot of trouble holding eye contact

  • @LionSleepKing5
    @LionSleepKing5 Жыл бұрын

    id rather be a creep than a loner. Change my mind

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    facts

  • @HorrorWorldx

    @HorrorWorldx

    Жыл бұрын

    fair enough

  • @viktor2338

    @viktor2338

    Жыл бұрын

    - sigma rule

  • @danjenkins21

    @danjenkins21

    Жыл бұрын

    I'd rather be a loner.

  • @Ultrawide_Gameplays_Channel

    @Ultrawide_Gameplays_Channel

    Жыл бұрын

    @@danjenkins21 Me too.

  • @KarismaKing
    @KarismaKing2 ай бұрын

    Agreed 💪. the one caviot as one dating coach to another, people complaining online or worrying online. Reality is a lot different if you actually interact with it. Makes it a lot easier to have a strong frame of reality. Men get bunched up into a bunch of tribes with no real world experience with women let alone people because the idea of rejection is terrifying. Creating false realities getting reinforced by the group dynamic. The blind leading the blind.

  • @shantanupoddar1831
    @shantanupoddar1831 Жыл бұрын

    You are doing job👍

  • @kevinmsingh2730
    @kevinmsingh2730 Жыл бұрын

    Nice info

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    thanks mate share it to your friends

  • @kevinmsingh2730

    @kevinmsingh2730

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial i would if I had any :)

  • @itsyaboyjz2605
    @itsyaboyjz26058 ай бұрын

    Does your course have career options

  • @1495978707
    @149597870710 ай бұрын

    6:40 I have, no joke, seen clips of women freaking out cuz a guy tried to talk to them. It’s rare, but it does happen. That said, the message to take away is that you shouldn’t worry about being perceived as creepy if you’re confident in yourself that what you’re doing is not creepy. Think logically. Should a reasonable person feel unsafe because you tried to talk to them while waiting for the bus (as an example)? Don’t psych yourself out because there are rare mentally unwell women out there. If you ever encounter it, just leave. It’s that easy. If you leave or back off the moment she rejects, you’re not being a creep. And if she’s a dick about you acting like a normal well adjusted social person, it’s her that’s being anti-social, and you shouldn’t care what she thinks, just move on.

  • @johngauntt2323
    @johngauntt23237 күн бұрын

    That theme. When Chad comes in. That’s fuckin Gamagori’s theme from Kill La Kill. GoriLLA. Holy shit.

  • @shxwty0
    @shxwty0 Жыл бұрын

    in india, if you approach a woman and try to talk to a female stranger, you will be considered a creep (90% of the time)

  • @yaboikillermemestar5665

    @yaboikillermemestar5665

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah in India this might not be something you can do

  • @WolfManThoughts

    @WolfManThoughts

    Жыл бұрын

    In India, all men are treated like shit. Which is why most of the men don't even work on self-improving themselves. Also in India dating is dead, i don't think it even existed. Which is why you cant even approach a women and try to become friends with them. Even making friendship with women is considered creepy.

  • @grettirgrattmards2348

    @grettirgrattmards2348

    Жыл бұрын

    Indian girls are on another level of hypergamous feministic high horse from my observations. From what I've seen most think dating an Indian guy is beneath them and want a tall white guy for vanity and status.

  • @yaboikillermemestar5665

    @yaboikillermemestar5665

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Military.FutureUrbanCamo Yeah but in different cultures there's different ways to go about it. In India it's a lot easier to meet women in college, working, or through family members. Also the possibility of arranged marriage means pretty much anyone can find someone. In the rich parts of India, you can probabyly go to bars and clubs and talk to women you don't know. Taking to randos in India isn't recommended because people think you're either trying to scam them or stall them enough to pickpocket them. The culture is just different and not conducive to cold approaching.

  • @yaboikillermemestar5665

    @yaboikillermemestar5665

    Жыл бұрын

    @@grettirgrattmards2348 That's only in the US

  • @neoreign
    @neoreign Жыл бұрын

    The moral of the story is, this summer, get rid of your dopamine addiction. Me included. I promised myself and made a list of activities I'll be doing this spring/summer. By the time next winter rolls in, I won't be on these areas.

  • @lime_68
    @lime_68 Жыл бұрын

    I am spending time mostly outside(alone) but I feel irritated if someone talks to me when I am in park, in nature and etc. But not freaking out, I understand that humans are social creatures. Man, idk why I watch these videos.

  • @JonahH513
    @JonahH51311 ай бұрын

    “AND NOW I HAVE A CAT!” Had to say it fr

  • @user-lv8rf9tm1f
    @user-lv8rf9tm1f Жыл бұрын

    10:20 nice catch man, check yourself for spiderman superpowers

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    ayyyyyyyyyyy

  • @gankdalfthedank9855
    @gankdalfthedank98558 ай бұрын

    They want you to think it's creepy so that everyone only does online dating, they can keep raking in cash and women can continue to only pick the top 1% on the apps (and why wouldn't they if given then option). Crazy

  • @Normabbot27
    @Normabbot27 Жыл бұрын

    Bro’s cat straight up look like a lion 👑

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    thing is vicious

  • @Orangienblue
    @Orangienblue Жыл бұрын

    You always mention about how to talk clearly without stuttering, but i have a lisp and stutter and don’t really know how to stop it.

  • @Greg-yu4ij
    @Greg-yu4ij Жыл бұрын

    My uncle is 5’3” and is the coolest cat. I should pick his brain and publish that shit before we completely lose his generation

  • @jfer8152
    @jfer8152 Жыл бұрын

    I drew my Snapchat code on my receipt for the waitress and left my number just in case it didn’t work. It worked, she texted me the next day but I failed spectacularly 😅😂. But it worked!

  • @BaconSlayer69

    @BaconSlayer69

    Жыл бұрын

    What did u do man

  • @cameronfoster5838
    @cameronfoster5838 Жыл бұрын

    Wow never this early!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    guy is always early

  • @9837ali
    @9837ali Жыл бұрын

    Where's the shirt from dude

  • @CaptainFALKEN
    @CaptainFALKEN10 ай бұрын

    I'm a 5'2, mega handsome, almost charismatic 26 year old guy. Nothing that can't be improved for sure.

  • @jasonj3843
    @jasonj384327 күн бұрын

    I'm 6'3" 225 in shape and good looking. I've always been successful with women overall, but just recently started cold approaching. All of the women so far have been receptive and I got a few numbers. Getting defeated tho because even though I got the numbers and we've have texted a few times, I'm getting ghosted. I'm beginning to think that these women weren't single when I got their numbers.

  • @quixilver6177
    @quixilver6177 Жыл бұрын

    I love the Doom Chad music😂

  • @j.d.saltyboi5426
    @j.d.saltyboi5426 Жыл бұрын

    Your cat looks like a tiger bruh, top notch👏🏻

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    thing is an animal eh

  • @xAfroMetalHead1990x
    @xAfroMetalHead1990x Жыл бұрын

    Can’t get rejected or be called creepy if you don’t approach at all

  • @OverRule1
    @OverRule1 Жыл бұрын

    I wouldn't say I'm creepy but I say my biggest problem is eye contact. I'm trying to catch myself and be more aware because I tend to look off or look at people's faces in general instead of directly in their eyes

  • @scooticery

    @scooticery

    Жыл бұрын

    eye contact is not easy homie. but ive beded women, many, so just shot ur shot my man....

  • @BWater-yq3jx

    @BWater-yq3jx

    Жыл бұрын

    That's actually fine. Looking near the eyes feels like eye contact to the other person. Similar to reading the autocue next to a TV camera

  • @ryanduffy5301
    @ryanduffy530110 ай бұрын

    10:18 lol

  • @Producedbylevithomas
    @Producedbylevithomas Жыл бұрын

    "like a fuckin melvin" hahahahaha

  • @miterbox9491
    @miterbox9491 Жыл бұрын

    1:17 that felt personal.

  • @jaspergabriels8933
    @jaspergabriels8933 Жыл бұрын

    everytime when i approach girls on the streets they got totally a red face?? what does it actually mean.. is it good or bad lol

  • @rebrandftw
    @rebrandftw Жыл бұрын

    I saw this comment from another video: ''A man of today has to work 10 x as hard as grandad had to for a women 20 x less than grandmom!'' The problem is women always have a better option, no matter how hard you work! You become a king and when you fall of your throne she most likely will find a new king! That is the definition of Hypergamy!

  • @gabrielguyenot3960
    @gabrielguyenot396011 ай бұрын

    Depends how you approach them. It is if you're a stranger randomly showing up to 'put moves' on them. First, because you don't know anything about them, and they know nothing about you. Second, they hear compliments from thirsty guys a million times a day. Better to actually get to know them by involving yourself in hobbies/work situations where you do have something to talk about, and through familiarity flirt through banter. In other words, treat them like a human and actually get to know them.

  • @TheNicksta72
    @TheNicksta72 Жыл бұрын

    10:18 lights got personal beef 😤

  • @Redranger99
    @Redranger99 Жыл бұрын

    You said exactly what my dad told me.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    he was right

  • @h35biznez
    @h35biznez Жыл бұрын

    Melvin went hunting XD

  • @bobbyrebholz2183
    @bobbyrebholz21836 ай бұрын

    The higher up a man puts a female on a pedestal, the farther down she has to look to see the man.