How To Approach Girls At The Gym

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  • @johnsutcliffe2916
    @johnsutcliffe2916 Жыл бұрын

    This is actually progressive overload in a social setting

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    lmao love the use of that term

  • @opreadumitru1

    @opreadumitru1

    Жыл бұрын

    there is no right way or only way to do anything in life be it dating or business it's about learning time tested principles of normal human interaction that work most of the time

  • @jhonassaid

    @jhonassaid

    Жыл бұрын

    He should've start with that for us Gym rats

  • @nicodemos.

    @nicodemos.

    11 ай бұрын

    HAHAHAHAHA GENIUS

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@jhonassaid hell yeah he should

  • @col_win
    @col_win Жыл бұрын

    Been seein this dime for months now and she's always had headphones on lookin super focused/serious and never seen her talk to anyone. After watching this video and journaling all the reasons i was too scared to approach her, i decided there was nothing to be scared of. So i approached her tonight and she LIT UP. I told her shes always got glowing energy and she was smiling the whole time and told me i had the same vibe and was super eager to give me her name. We talked for maybe 15 seconds before parting ways and probably gonna see her again tomorrow 😎

  • @asaaddsafa

    @asaaddsafa

    9 ай бұрын

    Any updates @col_win ?

  • @paperplate4675

    @paperplate4675

    5 ай бұрын

    Update?

  • @col_win

    @col_win

    5 ай бұрын

    Lmao a lot has happened in 8 months. Turns out that she's just super friendly despite her super serious look. Found out she's got a bf of 5 years. Thankfully I never dropped anything about asking her out or hanging out with a group of friends. I still see her all the time and we're cool. Glad I did it because that was one of the biggest "confidence xp drops" I've gained

  • @dorianlogan449

    @dorianlogan449

    2 ай бұрын

    Bro, you did the right thing and you follow the steps that Video has provided for you. I think the only thing that went wrong is that instead of shooting your shot from day one you took advice from this video and played it safe only to find out, she wasn’t available to begin with which gave you some false hope when you could’ve figured that out from day one if you had just Made the approach and made your intentions clear

  • @carsonnoel5628

    @carsonnoel5628

    Ай бұрын

    @@col_winlmaoo every time

  • @JustQuitBro
    @JustQuitBro10 ай бұрын

    Dude this video is so good! I talked to my gym crush today and she acted like she had been WAITING for me to just say hi, asking me questions when I was trying to bounce out of the conversation LOL. Even if it leads to nothing, proving to myself that I could go talk to a girl I found attractive at the gym makes me feel so much more confident. Appreciate all you do bro, keep it up ✊

  • @phabeondominguez5971

    @phabeondominguez5971

    9 ай бұрын

    What!?? NOICE, give us the play by play on how guy approached her and kicked off the convo

  • @Poetry4Peace

    @Poetry4Peace

    8 ай бұрын

    @@phabeondominguez5971 yas pls

  • @29DarkBoy

    @29DarkBoy

    5 ай бұрын

    @@phabeondominguez5971 Update that story my friend, the world wants to know

  • @gotchaspookedyagaming2396

    @gotchaspookedyagaming2396

    4 ай бұрын

    Damn, ghosted for five months is crazy 😪

  • @jimmymcgill5572

    @jimmymcgill5572

    2 ай бұрын

    What ended up happening?

  • @rturturasu8905
    @rturturasu8905 Жыл бұрын

    Another tip is if you go to a chain gym like LA Fitness you can use multiple gyms for free. So go to the one you don’t go to often if you re gonna make a more direct approach. So if you get rejected you won’t see her again

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    top tier tip right here

  • @_ego11

    @_ego11

    Жыл бұрын

    At that point just cold approach outside

  • @connormcchicken5915

    @connormcchicken5915

    Жыл бұрын

    @@_ego11 yeah but what are the chances the girls outside lift as opposed to.. the gym

  • @jxnior4292

    @jxnior4292

    Жыл бұрын

    @@connormcchicken5915 Why does she even need to lift better if she doesn't

  • @greencrocidile6246

    @greencrocidile6246

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jxnior4292 cause they are finer/fitter and it’s good especially if you share the same fitness passion

  • @feel_with_it
    @feel_with_it Жыл бұрын

    Step 1: Approach the girl - Hi - Honestly, I just wanna to work out Step 2: Unapproach the girl

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    lmaoooo

  • @yeshuaisking1247

    @yeshuaisking1247

    Жыл бұрын

    So you say hi then say you just want to workout ... So you are rejecting her straight away, reverse psychology, I see. Obvs I'm joking, but that could work out, no pun intended.

  • @theoDSP

    @theoDSP

    11 ай бұрын

    No hard feelings right? Maybe just say hi to her every other day.

  • @aldairromo

    @aldairromo

    11 ай бұрын

    Step 1 : be chad Step 2 : no more steps needed, she drops her panties right away

  • @Afflictamine

    @Afflictamine

    9 ай бұрын

    Step 1. ask them to spot you, and use a much heavier weight than you normally would

  • @thenoobalorian6523
    @thenoobalorian6523 Жыл бұрын

    Another tip to not make it awkward if she says she has a boyfriend is say something like "no way, we have so much in common!!" I hope it helps

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    underrated line bro

  • @thenoobalorian6523

    @thenoobalorian6523

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial thanks 😂

  • @work90

    @work90

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial what would be your response

  • @PeterSven10

    @PeterSven10

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve done this before except I said it like “oh cool same here” 😂😂😂

  • @thenoobalorian6523

    @thenoobalorian6523

    Жыл бұрын

    @@PeterSven10 🤣I fell like whenever someone says "oh cool..." it just makes it more awkward

  • @boi.i3371
    @boi.i3371 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been watching you for ages and seeing the turn towards self-improvement was the best move u could have done! Great work

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    cheers brother welcome to the new type of content

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    9 ай бұрын

    I haven't 💯

  • @jameswyman3973
    @jameswyman3973 Жыл бұрын

    I made a cold approach exactly how you said not to about a month ago and got rejected with the line "I have a boyfriend". I still don't sleep from that one LMAO.

  • @davidnavarro391

    @davidnavarro391

    Жыл бұрын

    This happened to me once. It was a girl i actually matched on tinder with and even had her snapchat. I never met her in person but then i saw her in the gym and decided to ask her out sometime. She told she had someone. I was so red 😂.

  • @brando3424

    @brando3424

    Жыл бұрын

    nature of the game tbh! If you ask her to spot you or recorrd your. set, that seems like a decent way to ask for her socials in case you @ her on your gym story or something.

  • @theoDSP

    @theoDSP

    11 ай бұрын

    So what? Move on. It's a numbers game. At least be polite and funny. Say something "He must be a really lucky guy then." and say "See you later then". No hard feelings.

  • @GabrielXDrums

    @GabrielXDrums

    8 ай бұрын

    Yeah I always get that, they’re usually with their gfs, don’t listen to the shit in this video. I’ve been going to the same gym for 3 years after moving and NOT ONCE had luck doing this shit, they don’t care.

  • @GabrielXDrums

    @GabrielXDrums

    8 ай бұрын

    @@theoDSP it’s not a numbers game dawg, just leave them alone.

  • @colepennerselect
    @colepennerselect Жыл бұрын

    Been exchanging glances and smiles with a baddie at my gym for the last month or so. Giving me all kinds of choosing signals and I knew it was finally time to approach thanks for the advice Jack worked like a charm! Interested but not sold great mindset.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    amazing brother glad to hear! Please share the whole story with me via email with me to denmosocial@outlook.com

  • @diamondtheif4007

    @diamondtheif4007

    Жыл бұрын

    How'd it go

  • @killculator8124

    @killculator8124

    Жыл бұрын

    update us

  • @meesamkhan4767

    @meesamkhan4767

    Жыл бұрын

    yo how'd it go bro?

  • @thesilentkill7398

    @thesilentkill7398

    Жыл бұрын

    upd

  • @SpotCam
    @SpotCam Жыл бұрын

    A neat little trick to strike up a conversation is when a girl is using a machine you want to use, ask how many sets she has left and if you can jump in, super easy to talk to someone when you are both on the same machine together (great initial way to ask their name and what they do).

  • @BasedinReality1984

    @BasedinReality1984

    Жыл бұрын

    Just make sure she’s not on TikTok 😂

  • @ect301fps

    @ect301fps

    Жыл бұрын

    If you see the tripod, RUN

  • @dan_4531

    @dan_4531

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@ect301fps 😂😂😂

  • @taleseylad1249

    @taleseylad1249

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ect301fps what's the tripod gonna do. . . ban me from tik tok??? i don't even use it

  • @mrbshbsh4122

    @mrbshbsh4122

    Жыл бұрын

    @@taleseylad1249 your gonna be everywhere on social media and nobody will talk to you again 🤣🤣🤣

  • @SpartanLawyer
    @SpartanLawyer Жыл бұрын

    I can't emphasize how incredible your channel is! I've been in a bad headspace for years because other guys and influencers on here have made dating out to be something it doesn't have to be. I basically adopted a super nihilistic mindset towards socializing with most girls as a result but still focused on other dimensions of self-improvement. You've basically shown me on here that you can be a normal guy, have fun with talking to new people, and use a socially-calibrated approach to this whole thing instead of just going straight in and asking girls bluntly if they're interested. Totally relieves the pressure, and it honestly seems doable! Thanks again!

  • @6abriel464

    @6abriel464

    10 ай бұрын

    Couldn’t say it better, crazy how it’s just human psy😅

  • @secondarypemail7181
    @secondarypemail718110 ай бұрын

    As an introvert having step by step guide to talk to someone is just very convinient .Thank you

  • @TreyGoose

    @TreyGoose

    4 ай бұрын

    This video is coo but if you don't try to get a chicks number the first time you might not see her again 🤣🤦you don't know how many times I missed out

  • @OvaXtr3m3
    @OvaXtr3m3 Жыл бұрын

    Jack brother you absolutely nailed it on this! Such a strategic and tactical move. Preciate all the growth content you’ve been pumping out lately man. Phenomenal transition in your KZread career and I’m sure everyone here is 100% for it too🙏🏻

  • @clutch44444
    @clutch44444 Жыл бұрын

    This works like an absolute charm, approached 2 baddies in the gym, no compliments, no number, just talked to them for a bit, and left And it went really really well

  • @krillansavillan
    @krillansavillan Жыл бұрын

    This is triple A content man. It's good to embrace the awkwardness and be able to accept rejections from cold approaches, but play the long game too because it's more often successful (with the added third outcome of a potential friend who's well connected w/ baddies).

  • @mastermindrational1907
    @mastermindrational1907 Жыл бұрын

    This is good advice. The girl gets the hint from you without you being weird about it. If she likes you, she’ll make it easy on you, if she doesn’t, you’ll notice the walls go up but it takes the embarrassment and the sting out of it.

  • @aswinks960
    @aswinks960 Жыл бұрын

    Love the way you animated the scenario never felt so realistic 👍

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    was that spot-on or what

  • @itsDannyGG
    @itsDannyGG Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the videos Denmo💪You’re a huge inspiration! Got 10 girls numbers during Christmas vacation. My confidence has never been this high before. 2023 is gonna be HUGE! 🎉

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    this dude is an absolute animal. Pay your respects in the comments for this weapon

  • @pjscoglio7482

    @pjscoglio7482

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolute beast. How did you do it bro? What was the environment and what did u say to the baddies???

  • @tongobong1

    @tongobong1

    Жыл бұрын

    Daniel, Can you tell us how many dates you got from those 10 phone numbers? Once long time ago I got 9 phone numbers in 3 months approaching 200+ women on the street and I got ZERO dates. I was so disappointed that I never take a phone number unless I get an instant date first.

  • @Denmosocial
    @Denmosocial Жыл бұрын

    Learn how to approach Girls like a G: www.denmo.social/infieldunlocked Get a girlfriend in 5-6 weeks: www.denmo.social/socializer Join 25,000+ other men on Discord: discord.gg/p8kCx3ncb4

  • @rturturasu8905

    @rturturasu8905

    Жыл бұрын

    Which gym do you recommend? I swear most gyms are sausage fests nowadays . And the girls I see all come with their boyfriends to work out

  • @Leowiseone

    @Leowiseone

    Жыл бұрын

    just got back from a badass hard 2 hour gym session I always think I don´t wanna be the starter guy which is not built well and starts talking with chicks, while other guys obviously look better next to you. Now I´m starting to get buffed and starting to be in the "good trained body" class and I think that I´ll try an approach soon.

  • @PessimisticPollyanna

    @PessimisticPollyanna

    Жыл бұрын

    Lost 60lbs since I started to follow the content in April 2022. Granted that was just the video where you climbed a mountain on shrooms lol, but it motivated me to do the same thing with a friend but in Minnesota. That trip is what made me want to do better and then, boom, you started making the change in content at the perfect time lol.

  • @jasonshih3633

    @jasonshih3633

    Жыл бұрын

    tmrw my gym will finally open, cant wait for the new year crowd

  • @multicooldude131

    @multicooldude131

    Жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @aarizsabri5158
    @aarizsabri5158 Жыл бұрын

    Love how you explained every tiny detail and all possible outcomes my man.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    i really want to help everyone bro. So that they can get results. Lots of guys in my discord are sharing stories of this strategy working very effective

  • @kw7814
    @kw7814 Жыл бұрын

    I've decided that I'm just gonna approach girls now without having anything prepared in my mind. The more I think about what to do the more I fuck up. It's so much easier just going with the flow and being grounded in what you say, and that's what gets you results.

  • @GabrielXDrums

    @GabrielXDrums

    8 ай бұрын

    That part. You can’t really rehearse any of this shit.

  • @suspiciousstew1169

    @suspiciousstew1169

    Ай бұрын

    This, however the videos are also really good advice too

  • @rakistah4029
    @rakistah4029 Жыл бұрын

    Bro, I love how you teach tips and how to be confident as a person, and also give a scenario and example approaches. Makes it easier to understand what you’re trying to say. Love the videos bro.

  • @officialcailev
    @officialcailev Жыл бұрын

    Literally needed this because of this one girl in my karate class. Not the gym, but very similar. Thanks a lot brother! Maybe you could cover the situation, if there is this one girl but she is in a group or other people are listening. This is were I truly struggle. Anyways, thanks! Will put this to practise very soon ♥

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    same thing applies brother. Glad to hear- share it with your friends too

  • @elisebreton7636

    @elisebreton7636

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol keep us updated

  • @RR-et6zp

    @RR-et6zp

    Жыл бұрын

    then when you go on the date, lead, pass those tests etc

  • @_ego11

    @_ego11

    Жыл бұрын

    Trust me bro. This is the easiest way to pull. I’ve been a taekwondo and kickboxing athlete for years and have switched gyms multiple times. Just make sure you take your time to get to know her and keep it casual. Over a month or two you should be able to feel it out

  • @porterdallenbach1639

    @porterdallenbach1639

    Жыл бұрын

    Get her when she's alone!

  • @unholydiver1095
    @unholydiver10956 ай бұрын

    Great advice on emphasizing being friendly and finding out if she is single or not. Cause even iif she is not single, you can still ge friendly with her and network to get to meet her friends. Never hurts to expand your social circle.

  • @remingtons4607
    @remingtons4607 Жыл бұрын

    Learned this the hard way😂definitely don’t need to rush it at gym

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    send this to all your gym bros so they dont make the same mistake my man

  • @Ze_Chevalier

    @Ze_Chevalier

    Жыл бұрын

    Same bro, I was gonna just give up talking to girls at the gym then I saw this and I might actually try it.

  • @clashfan6502
    @clashfan6502 Жыл бұрын

    Honest to god, this has been the most entertaining and creative starter/intro/story 😂. A++ work

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    ill be doing more homie

  • @mranonymous8094
    @mranonymous8094 Жыл бұрын

    One of my favorite videos you’ve made so far! 🙏🏽 thank you king 👑

  • @jangardel202
    @jangardel2023 ай бұрын

    "You're interested, not sold", very powerful line.

  • @barmanitera
    @barmanitera Жыл бұрын

    Man that's mindblowing quality stuff that doesn't sound weird.Keep up

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    brother I'm here to teach y'all what actually works. Share this with your gym bros

  • @twillthegoat
    @twillthegoat Жыл бұрын

    Great video! You definitely have the experience to kill it in this space. Keep it up!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    here to help you guys! Thanks bro do me a solid share this video with your gym bros

  • @Blox117

    @Blox117

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial not gonna lie, this video isnt good advice. ive talked to plenty of girls like this, never worked lmao

  • @alexflamos8242
    @alexflamos8242 Жыл бұрын

    You continue to reel me in with your video topic/captions love ya!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    glad this helped you brother

  • @kpopgigachad
    @kpopgigachad7 ай бұрын

    Two girls that became BFF's at the gym because you got rejected by both of them is simultaneously hilarious and utterly depressing at the same time.

  • @zihaa8227
    @zihaa8227 Жыл бұрын

    I had the same idea but just couldn't put everything together like you did. Thanks for the video, really needed it.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    I had a hard time learning things in school for the same reason. This is why I help guys like you

  • @erfantaheri1816
    @erfantaheri1816 Жыл бұрын

    bro i say it from my heart, this video was one of your best videos for me, as all the girls that i know are either from the class or the gym, so the situation is literally same. and THANKS GOD i didnt say anything about going out to the girls because i just meet them in fact ( im first year bruh , i literally exited and nervous about the whole shit but hey, we have to live it right ? ) anyways bruh, this was so fawking awesome video 🔥🔥

  • @spicycurry7238
    @spicycurry7238 Жыл бұрын

    the way you outline these steps is simply amazing! yet another banger from denmo. only problem i have is that im small and skinny irl, so I would rather build myself up an attractive body first, because physical attrictiveness is key for a first impression

  • @aidandpolonsky
    @aidandpolonsky Жыл бұрын

    Best gym approach vid I’ve ever seen. Thanks as always

  • @stefanmihaibitai4176
    @stefanmihaibitai4176 Жыл бұрын

    Denmo you're a f....g Top G, I wish I had your stoicism and confidence.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    thanks bro see you in the discord

  • @MilesBrio
    @MilesBrio Жыл бұрын

    This is by far the best video ive seen on this topic, well done 👌

  • @HairyAngus

    @HairyAngus

    5 ай бұрын

    Was just thinking this and I’ve watched a pathetic amount of these videos lol

  • @gabrielhaskins705
    @gabrielhaskins705 Жыл бұрын

    Love this guy, he’s the only one that has helped me become a beast at talking to girls. Sometimes I watch a vid as a primer before going out and I’m twice as on my game. Thanks bro! Keep doing these vids

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    my man. Send me an email lets chat!

  • @denzeltracy
    @denzeltracy Жыл бұрын

    really solid and important advice, and yet another great skit keep it up Denmo

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    here to help you my man

  • @dariosz21
    @dariosz21 Жыл бұрын

    The exciting thing is... I've been watching your vids recently, and just met a cutie at the gym, and you know I complimented her, had a small talk and said "yeah, that's what I wanted to say, see ya!" and went on my business... and now I see this vid, and done the exact thing what you said. Brilliant! I have a plan now, thanks, Jack.

  • @theworldisimmense

    @theworldisimmense

    Жыл бұрын

    Sure but most likely that same girl knows a bunch of guys from that gym and hugs them and shit

  • @dariosz21

    @dariosz21

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theworldisimmense Keep your heads up big guy

  • @nikhilroy563
    @nikhilroy563 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome video! Love the content you produce to help me be more confident. You should do a video of talking to girls at the gym. That would be a great video idea to see this method visually in a video.

  • @jtbcoaching
    @jtbcoaching Жыл бұрын

    Love your content bro. Really informative and funny at the same time. You just earned another sub.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    thanks bro glad I earned it. See you in the discord

  • @dartagnanwalker54
    @dartagnanwalker54 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this advice, I work at a gym as a janitor but I just wanted to work there for the free membership. I’ve recently started seeing this girl come in and work out, she’s so fine and everyone that’s working out try to get her attention but I’m the type of guy to mind my own business. I have the confidence but I wanted to know the right way to approach.

  • @Caesar__99
    @Caesar__99 Жыл бұрын

    Wild cause idk where I learned this from but this is what I tell people. People say never to ask women out in the gym but I swear they just don’t know how to do it. This is great, and very simple.

  • @benaslapinskas5107
    @benaslapinskas5107 Жыл бұрын

    Best video about approaching women on the internet! I recommended it to all my single friends.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    You're the best! you better share it with all your friends now

  • @yearofthegarden
    @yearofthegarden Жыл бұрын

    This is probably the best dating advice I've heard. It's more of a formula to create a situation of long term attraction instead of being hot for a hook up. I don't usually date years at a time, because I suss out what I'm dealing with in my local area, and this video pretty much describes my methodology as to how I figure out the broads I'm dealing with, as I am a leader within a community and I cannot be banging every broad around, while it would attract more potential, it would also divulge into in house drama.

  • @danielbush
    @danielbush Жыл бұрын

    The Melvin clips at the beginning of these videos are what I live for, so good

  • @mattfenimore99
    @mattfenimore99 Жыл бұрын

    Here to support my homie jack, can't wait for the new Melvin in a couple weeks man 😂😂

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    no more melvins in 2023

  • @corsaird2142
    @corsaird2142 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Denmo you honestly made me super excited to try this out cause I’ll be going to a new gym when I transfer schools

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    glad to hear bro share the results in our discord too

  • @Ritter556
    @Ritter556 Жыл бұрын

    Yo this is top tier real life advice. Finding girls with similar interests and making moves is next level

  • @I.Z.Phooto
    @I.Z.Phooto Жыл бұрын

    The gym I go to, I rarely see the same person twice and I've been going there a few months now. I love this method you're talking about and I have gone up and talked to young women without trying to get their number, just to have the interaction with a attractive young women, but haven't seen them since. Disappointing because I've left interactions where I can tell they want more, saying things like, "I'll see you around." Or "It was nice meeting you" and then there's that look in their eye I'm sure you're familiar with

  • @TheHamburgler123

    @TheHamburgler123

    Ай бұрын

    Do you go at the same time every day? At my gym it's almost always the same people during the same hours I'm there.

  • @I.Z.Phooto

    @I.Z.Phooto

    24 күн бұрын

    @@TheHamburgler123 No I do not...

  • @ShshahHxhsjs

    @ShshahHxhsjs

    14 күн бұрын

    ​@@I.Z.Phootocongrats, you played yourself

  • @JohnC-jv8su
    @JohnC-jv8su Жыл бұрын

    Gotta build a report, this advice is perfect for the gym, schools, work, and places Yk you’ll see her again. Cold approaching is only good for when you know u won’t see her again

  • @symboIiq
    @symboIiq4 ай бұрын

    This is golden advice.

  • @G_Pill
    @G_Pill Жыл бұрын

    I've loved the turn you've made with your content. I used to watch you in high school, your pranks made me laugh, hard.

  • @HelloWorld_Coding364
    @HelloWorld_Coding364 Жыл бұрын

    I love your mindset and ways Denmo, nice video. (This actually let us guys keep the gym membership while doing that, I see it as win-win)

  • @donaidtrump3385
    @donaidtrump3385 Жыл бұрын

    Beginner - 100 approaches Master - 1,000 approaches Elite Pro - 10,000 approaches ... you get the point :)

  • @michaelt1545
    @michaelt1545 Жыл бұрын

    Another thing that I found to really work is if they are using a certain piece of gym equipment that you use, just go up and ask them how many more sets they have and after they answer just say okay cool no rush and then after just throw in a real quick btw my names such and such and she says her name and then shake hands and thats it. Easy first interaction

  • @santinocarmona2992
    @santinocarmona2992 Жыл бұрын

    hey jack l ve been watching videos everyday for ages and seeing the turn towards self improvement you are the best move but have done great work

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    no worries bro glad you like it

  • @koshka02
    @koshka02 Жыл бұрын

    This is solid advice actually. Good shit man, subscribed

  • @Luke_Grenoble
    @Luke_Grenoble Жыл бұрын

    Super great advice for anytime you're going to be seeing someone regularly

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    haha this video aint out yet but hell yeah

  • @adrian14752
    @adrian14752 Жыл бұрын

    slow building investments pay off. i love this vid thank you, ive been trying to think of how to pull this off for a year now and i think this is so clearly doable

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    glad to hear brother! Post your progress in the discord btw

  • @TheRoddie16
    @TheRoddie16 Жыл бұрын

    This is actually the most straightforward advice I've ever since. I can't believe how much i overthink these things

  • @danielmelo1181
    @danielmelo1181 Жыл бұрын

    My new favorite channel!

  • @alexgreen1823
    @alexgreen1823 Жыл бұрын

    I don't doubt this guy's knowledge but I will say never expect to run into a girl again. Every time I expected a second opportunity it never came. You only have one chance

  • @erfantaheri1816
    @erfantaheri1816 Жыл бұрын

    bruh your the guy i needed the whole time

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    here to help man. Get the course if you need more help & share this video with your friends aswell to help them

  • @officialthomasjames

    @officialthomasjames

    Жыл бұрын

    Pause

  • @A.I.P519
    @A.I.P519Ай бұрын

    @Denmo, the other tip that you forgot to mention is to NOT bother the girls while they’re doing their work out or just staring at them in a creepy way because it will make them feel uncomfortable. It will be better to approach a girl whenever they’re just standing around or just standing there being on their phones. If you do end up staring at a girl and if she stares at you, then it will be better to smile and wave at the person where it won’t make the girl feel uncomfortable that much. But anyways, thank you for giving out those tips!

  • @pedrogrego
    @pedrogrego Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this piece of advice Denmo. Really helpful brotha

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    no worries brother share it with your gym bros

  • @Alen1984
    @Alen1984 Жыл бұрын

    I will add this. As much as it seems cool what you just said, you gotta remember many girls don’t go to gym every day, sometimes they change hours, we change hours, sometimes in order to talk to the same girl 3 times it might pass few weeks or more for you guys to bump to each other 3 times and talk, than she might be working out with the gf which complicates things. Than if you wait for 3-4 weeks to talk to her 3 times things get cold and you miss the train. So yeah if you get eye contact and signals from the girl and you go approach and ask for number is not that bad of idea and you are not an idiot.

  • @sixpains1635

    @sixpains1635

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for that dude lol. I took the risk and failed but the way I see it is,is she would have said no anyway even if I played the long game if she didnt find me initially attractive. Id rather crash and burn right away than delay the inevitable. Is it possible that It wouldve went my way,yes,but I didnt want to play the long game for the reason you mentioned as well;I see this girl like 1 time a week if that.

  • @Alen1984

    @Alen1984

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sixpains1635 you only lost if you didn’t try! You always win when you make a move. I regret only times when I chickened out.

  • @fatygalonenuno9315

    @fatygalonenuno9315

    11 ай бұрын

    nah you just can't expect people to always have the same time schedule as you, that's just luck, don't get desperate about that

  • @Ak-47ram
    @Ak-47ram Жыл бұрын

    This is solid advice. Even tho I’m completely against the idea of approaching women in any way no matter how hard you try to convince me I’m simply not gonna even think about doing it. I can see this working for guys increasing their chances a bit. Good stuff

  • @Involent

    @Involent

    8 ай бұрын

    I’m really confused. If you are against approaching women, what is your strategy? Wait for them to approach you?

  • @rayane--21pilots8

    @rayane--21pilots8

    6 ай бұрын

    let him be bro hell realise he messed up@@Involent

  • @i_Gotcha_
    @i_Gotcha_ Жыл бұрын

    Yo Jack! Your content just reach my feed! It’s been a minute since I’ve seen your stuff on here since Taking the Virgin to the club vids. Glad you’re making ways to feeds again. 🙏🏻

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    welcome back bro!

  • @tugromsland
    @tugromsland Жыл бұрын

    i like your video quality very professional jack 👊🏻

  • @lukej5265
    @lukej5265 Жыл бұрын

    Its generally is a better idea to go indirect at the gym if you have the option. Although, this is assuming that you guys will most likely see each other again. Your schedules may not always line up, or you or her don't go to the gym that frequently. Its not really like a class where you know for sure when/where they will appear again.

  • @fuzzypanda1684

    @fuzzypanda1684

    10 ай бұрын

    It's honestly best to just not engage in places where you'll see her again. There's a 99% chance she'll be disinterested, then you get to deal with the awkwardness afterwards. Unless you're at the level where they switch gym or change schedules just to avoid you, but you have to be pretty advanced to get that.

  • @lukej5265

    @lukej5265

    10 ай бұрын

    @@fuzzypanda1684 Well that rules out a lot of scenarios. When you say "advanced" did you really mean bad or awful? Since an advanced guy usually shouldn't be getting that kind of response.

  • @fuzzypanda1684

    @fuzzypanda1684

    10 ай бұрын

    @@lukej5265 Lol, by "advanced", I meant really good at turning girls off so much that they change gyms. It was a joke...sorta.

  • @andrewarmstrong9084
    @andrewarmstrong9084 Жыл бұрын

    4:00 5:20 Step 3 6:30 Step 4,5, & 6

  • @kuzyalakomkin567
    @kuzyalakomkin567 Жыл бұрын

    Alrigh maan, so much effort into animation. I will hit the like button, you haven't convinced me yet to subscribe.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    ill be back in your algorithm in a few days see you then

  • @jackrendak7065
    @jackrendak7065 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing video man thank you

  • @investigativechannel7698
    @investigativechannel7698 Жыл бұрын

    That animation made my day HAHAHA 🤣

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    glad that made you laugh homie lmao

  • @Omarthedemigod
    @Omarthedemigod Жыл бұрын

    I definitely messed up lol. Cuz I’ve been cold approaching at my gym for the first time ever these last two months. I don’t do it everyday cuz one, I’m no longe desperate for a gf and two I legit just wanna get shit done. I’ve literally made the mistake of calling her cute and putting her on the spot. I didn’t even realize how bad that was lmao, but it was my first time so errors are to be made. I did get a girls number, but she flaked on me for some reason. Now that I’ve watched this I actually see the errors I made and feel confident to do better next time. So thanks brodie 🙏🏿

  • @Mulaswrld
    @Mulaswrld8 ай бұрын

    I had my volume up full blast like I do with podcasts, I did not know this was so unhinged. I love it 😢

  • @shaktalks
    @shaktalks Жыл бұрын

    This was a fun one! Thanks bro

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    no worries man. Send it to your gym bros

  • @abacaxinera
    @abacaxinera Жыл бұрын

    This is so funny to watch as a girl like bruv u guys are so motivated to ask us out

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    lmao would this approach make sense to you as a girl?

  • @Ze_Chevalier

    @Ze_Chevalier

    Жыл бұрын

    Ikr, why the heck are us men so motivated, such a mystery...

  • @Blox117

    @Blox117

    Жыл бұрын

    we are only motivated to ask out the cute ones, my apologies

  • @worscohli

    @worscohli

    Жыл бұрын

    have u seen yall? 🥵😮‍💨

  • @TamerLance
    @TamerLance Жыл бұрын

    Seperate shout-out on how funny the animation was🤣🤣🤣

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    glad you like the comedy skits

  • @milochamp1586
    @milochamp1586 Жыл бұрын

    Man, this is the ultimate guide Jack. But many guys fail in this because soon as they see the girl talking to another guy in a flirty way, they rush the process and ruin their reputation by asking her out. They go for the kill. The key is multiple leads + Patience even in business.

  • @banglamedico
    @banglamedico4 ай бұрын

    Thanks brother for your advice, I had impressed a Russian girl, right after following your advice, Thankyou once again ❤️❤️❤️

  • @austingray6885
    @austingray6885 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve approached two girls at the gym before and it seemed like they didn’t want to talk to me so I just ended the conversation and moved on. But now when we’re both at the gym and I’m doing my workout I catch them checking me out or trying to get in my view 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @MapleMario67
    @MapleMario67 Жыл бұрын

    Imagine being lucid enough to make eye contact while on enough pre workout to kill a horse

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    lmfaoooo

  • @officialthomasjames

    @officialthomasjames

    Жыл бұрын

    Bro that’s on the money 😂 Im locked in on preworkout

  • @nicksayan8631
    @nicksayan8631 Жыл бұрын

    The intro is always amazing

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    glad you found it funny brother

  • @nakarvindh629
    @nakarvindh6295 ай бұрын

    Good stuff mate! I can see why this would work.

  • @jkennett3192
    @jkennett3192 Жыл бұрын

    Bro the beginning of the video had me laughing 😂 whoever made that video deserves a raise 🤣 But seriously I love your content and am striving to be a much more social person and make new friends!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    my animator is a beast ill share that with him

  • @kaloyankolev9804

    @kaloyankolev9804

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial I thought you were your own editor?

  • @nickbarbosa21
    @nickbarbosa21 Жыл бұрын

    These animations are getting too wild 🤣

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    tryna make you laugh so hard you send this video to your friends

  • @proddanyy
    @proddanyy Жыл бұрын

    i been seeing this girl walk by the skatepark i skate at all the time, and I feel like I could apply this format to her since everytime I skate I see her walk by atleast 2-3 times with her dog, Thank you Denmo.

  • @SKOChuck
    @SKOChuck2 ай бұрын

    great advice and a funny start)

  • @Problem-mattic
    @Problem-mattic Жыл бұрын

    That animation was way too funny

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    thanks bro share this video with your friends and ill do more

  • @Catthepunk
    @Catthepunk Жыл бұрын

    Your storytelling is hilarious 😂

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    glad you enjoy it homie

  • @Catthepunk

    @Catthepunk

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial 👑

  • @victorgpa
    @victorgpa11 ай бұрын

    i love you duude, youre helping me alot!! thanks

  • @heywire132
    @heywire132 Жыл бұрын

    I just tried this strategy, ligit worked. God bless you jack

  • @Showdownxlm
    @Showdownxlm Жыл бұрын

    I have tried both cold approach and slow approach multiple times and i can confirm the suggestions from the video, the slow approach works better and is just safer todo. Cold approach def. creates an akward environment when it fails. However, its highly dependend if you know you gonna see her again or not. Ideally (especially if you go at fixed times) create a social environment, so be friends with the other guys and also the ugly girls if they are there regularly. Its just more natural when you already talk and on top of that talk to her. Took me a while to figure this out. One thing bothers me though, iam quite a buffed dude (natural competitor) and girls seemed to be quite intimidated when i walk up in a stringer. Outside of the gym, they would admire it, inside i feel like its almost better to take a t-shirt on before walking over lol.

  • @LeeEverett1
    @LeeEverett1 Жыл бұрын

    These were some good tips. I've been a regular 6 days a week at my gym for a few years now and practically everyone recognizes me and knows I work hard. For the past month I've been seeing this girl who's also been working hard consistently and she's currently my gym crush. She walks past me sometimes but always has her head down avoiding eye contact, makes me wonder if she's shy or it's intentional. I'm definitely going to follow what you said and just introduce myself and get her name, then get us in a talking stage. I'll update you guys.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    cant wait for you to share your results in our discord my man

  • @yashg2283

    @yashg2283

    Жыл бұрын

    Any update bro? Reply when you follow this...

  • @footsurebobcat1135

    @footsurebobcat1135

    Жыл бұрын

    Tell us what happened bro😢

  • @johxxxxx

    @johxxxxx

    Жыл бұрын

    update :) ?

  • @keithwashere100

    @keithwashere100

    Жыл бұрын

    👀👀 The people are waiting

  • @zevo8293
    @zevo8293Ай бұрын

    Great advice homie

  • @TurnLemons2Lemonade_
    @TurnLemons2Lemonade_4 ай бұрын

    Woman here. One time a guy waved at me at the gym as he left. I smiled back and then I never saw him again. I really wished he had just walked over and said hi. I would’ve made it really obvious that I was interested & would have personally felt comfortable giving him my number. This advice is good if you know you see them all the time, though, or want to take a low risk approach, but you may want to talk to men and women instead of just that one person you’re attracted to so it feels easier.

  • @youngfinance6319

    @youngfinance6319

    2 ай бұрын

    Yea but once he would text you wouldnt respond. Reason why lot of guys dont bother