Dating Girls is Actually Really Fun.. Here's Why

All of the reasons you are missing out on life by avoiding girls and not going on dates.
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0:00 Dating Girls is actually really fun
1:22 Not admitting that you need help
2:06 You can change the world
2:52 You haven't solved your girl problem.
5:16 Serious condition
8:44 you're missing out.
9:10 #1: Unpredictability.
10:06 #2: Banter.
11:48 #3: Girls dress up at their absolute best.
11:17 #4: They know you want to SMASH!!
14:35 #5: Getting to experiment.
16:15 #6: The Coolidge effect.
16:30 #7: The Thrill of the unknown.
17:59 #8: The Thrill of the unknown II.
19:17 #9: The Challenge.
21:22 #10: Being desired by an attractive girl.
22:50 The Journey along the way..
23:35 You're not as busy as you think you are.
25:30 The solution
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Why Going On Dates With New Girls Is So Fun
You Need To Go On More Dates.. Here's Why

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  • @jonathan6480
    @jonathan648011 ай бұрын

    I needed this because I caught myself saying, "Dating sucks" and falling into a negative mindset about it.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    here to guide you out of the darkness brother

  • @jaythenihilist4689

    @jaythenihilist4689

    11 ай бұрын

    I don't think it's good for men to mislead each other for the sake of not hurting someone's feelings. Female nature can be an ugly beast sometimes. But women aren't near as evil as many of these Red Pill channels make them out to be. That's why I like Denmo, he's actually trying to be positive about it while also not sugar coating things. If a man wants to go MGTOW once he's older and has had his fill of experiences with women, then I think that's okay. But young men who have never even had a girlfriend before are really doing themselves a disservice by pretending they're not interested in women.

  • @justaemptymall

    @justaemptymall

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@DenmosocialThere's no darkness. Some people don't feel the need. In the end it's subjective whether you succumb to your natural instincts or don't.

  • @dorianburger3300

    @dorianburger3300

    11 ай бұрын

    @@jaythenihilist4689 It really is off putting though. I dont have a problem with talking to people but I dont know shit about how to appear sexually attractive since I never got the chance to do so. I was mostly focused with "getting my life forward" for the last four years. (Im 20 years old). I had one date a month ago, which was a first for me and I also had my first kiss on said date. After that, she texted me she doesnt see us going anywhere and broke of contact. Im really confused still, since I dont know... why she made that decision. I also tried cold approaches with no real success. Im going to classic dance classes soon and uni starts soon again and I really hope that I get a chance to... I dont even know man.

  • @chesster423

    @chesster423

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@jaythenihilist4689 it's simply not worth it.

  • @connorlohse4097
    @connorlohse409711 ай бұрын

    Totally agree. Been encouraging my bros to adopt a similar mindset. If you see dating as a win/loss column or a way to measure worth, you’re going to be sorely disappointed. However, if you see it as an opportunity to dress sharply, try a new spot, and just genuinely get to know someone - it becomes incredibly fun. Not always mind you, some dates are just brick walls. But as you meet more people, you’ll start seeing indicators of what makes a good date. Your preferences will shift. You’ll stop being annoyed or nervous and start looking forward to just having a chat over good drinks and food. And hell, you might even meet someone you actually get along with.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    hell yeah thanks for sharing

  • @fuzzypanda1684

    @fuzzypanda1684

    2 ай бұрын

    That's one possibility. The other is that you'll just become frustrated after getting no results despite improving your physique, your style, your confidence, your charisma etc. What you're describing is getting the expected results that come with putting in the work, but if you put in the work, but don't get any of the results, you can only endure that for so long.

  • @connorlohse4097

    @connorlohse4097

    2 ай бұрын

    @@fuzzypanda1684 I hear you man I really do. There’s no way around feeling like you’re kicking rocks after a certain point. I definitely had like… years of nothing materializing. And it sucked. But that’s also what made me see dating differently. For me the big mental shift was treating the date as an opportunity to explore my city and try all these spots I walked or drove past every day. I love splurging on food and I’m always trying to get better with my cocktail game. So making that a focus made it fun for me, even if I faced total rejection or another flat conversation that went nowhere. I don’t know you at all, and I have no right to assume anything - but I would challenge you a bit on your use of the word “results”. Because, to me, that sounds like you’ve placed an expectation on your dates that can only be fulfilled exteriorly (aka, her actions and her response drives whether or not you get a “result”). I get that, I really do, but maybe sit with that word for a bit. I really believe it’s up to us to generate our own happiness and our own worth. So if she is a total dud of a date, whatever, you’re still extracting fun/value out of your time. Just a thought from a stranger. Good luck to you man. And thank you for striving to make life better and improving yourself - that attitude makes the world around you better.

  • @Lesminster
    @Lesminster11 ай бұрын

    It's easier to say I'm not interested in pussy than "it costs me too much effort and probably I will fail anyway, so my brain doesn't spike excitement for thinking about meeting women, but fear." I've been with a woman long term, then I've met couple other women. And you simply won't convince me at this point it is fun to meet women ;) I know it can be, but I had so many bad experiences with every next person that my brain automatically shuts down whenever there is a girl that looks at me differently. It is so strong mechanism I stopped fighting.

  • @dumaiaff

    @dumaiaff

    10 ай бұрын

    So, umm... do you think that's a bad thing for you? I'm in a similar situation, since I lost my father, I stopped interaction with different people especially women. Maybe I'm just sad idk.

  • @Lesminster

    @Lesminster

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@dumaiaff Depends how you define bad ;) I definitely feel like I am missing something potentially fullfilling. I should probably do something about it like a therapy, but if I had steam or motivation to do something about it then I would probably also have motivation to just keep trying which in itself would be a therapy. Imo if you don't feel like interacting with ppl and you don't have any substitute for it that could cause you to lose interest, then it screams depression.

  • @Ronocap
    @Ronocap11 ай бұрын

    This video is legendary, we need more openness and vulnerable content creators like you

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    glad it helped ya G

  • @Eternal_23

    @Eternal_23

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Denmosocial I'm slaying 5 years in a row thanks to you. Videos are fun, informative and straight to the point! You're a living legend at this point 🤜🤛 Keep it up, we all need DENMO!

  • @Fitness_Lorenzo
    @Fitness_Lorenzo11 ай бұрын

    It really is fun. Even when I see red flags during the date and determine that im not gonna be serious; I still have a lot of fun during the date.

  • @PurXion_777
    @PurXion_77710 ай бұрын

    As I keep watching, this dude just gets more zesty by the minute 💀 bro's gonna blow

  • @gage1223
    @gage122310 ай бұрын

    I met a girl a couple days ago who is so much like me and it has been so much fun we hang out until 3am every night doing anything and its the best thing ever. I was super awkward but went up to talk to her and it was such a good decision. It has made me so much more confident with myself and has shown me a new perspective on life.

  • @darkmidnight818

    @darkmidnight818

    8 ай бұрын

    For me, when I talk to a girl, it's never to ask them out unless I'm joking. I've never asked a girl out in person in my life. I've never been on one either. And that's ok.

  • @aidancoetzer6820
    @aidancoetzer682011 ай бұрын

    Been watching your videos since 2020. I was pretty damn lonely and socially awkward. Along with you and a couple of other sources I've transformed into a total rizzard wizard man. Appreciate it🤝

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    love it bro. email me some of your successful dating stories id love to hear more

  • @albinsanthosh-zl7yg

    @albinsanthosh-zl7yg

    11 ай бұрын

    Drop w rizz

  • @Military.FutureUrbanCamo

    @Military.FutureUrbanCamo

    11 ай бұрын

    @@albinsanthosh-zl7ygto me w rizz is 99 percent a waste of time women are just to hard to deal with it seems like it and they are just too damn touchy

  • @Military.FutureUrbanCamo

    @Military.FutureUrbanCamo

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Denmosocial I don't know if I should feel hopeless for myself because I tell the truth of my red flag meaning I ghost women and will not be a partner for long kinda like a f k boy but a good version who leaves women because he is scared of intimacy and also

  • @Military.FutureUrbanCamo

    @Military.FutureUrbanCamo

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Denmosocial i also feel like if I was a police officer is a swamp and their was a indestructible crazy man coming for me and no military or swat is coming I'm basically hopeless and trying to survive and even my best but have those hopeless feelings your channel and videos make me feel hopeless and I hate it because your getting all the women

  • @savvathornnmysteriam9867
    @savvathornnmysteriam986711 ай бұрын

    Btw, I think a video on false accusations and how to get over this fear especially if someone has seen what could happen up close would really help

  • @AR7271

    @AR7271

    11 ай бұрын

    Agreed. The fear of false accusations is something I had back when I was in high school and then going into college. It kept me from asking a lot of women out and I really never understood the dynamic of chatting girls up first and then asking them out. I was a fool for a long time and just would cold-ask girls out and of course get rejected

  • @PalashaGabarra

    @PalashaGabarra

    10 ай бұрын

    I can solve that. Don't think about it. Like you don't think about the fact that you could get hit by a car and die any day.

  • @mrmikepoop2352
    @mrmikepoop235211 ай бұрын

    Bro this video was honestly so entertaining and funny, def need more

  • @mikeyitua7175
    @mikeyitua717511 ай бұрын

    This is one of your best videos to date. Inspiring and entertaining

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    ehhh glad to hear man. do it for comments like this

  • @liquidimprints8724
    @liquidimprints872411 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the reminder bro.

  • @davidmiter9553
    @davidmiter955311 ай бұрын

    Cheers bro keep doin your thing!!👍👌

  • @tobiasrein
    @tobiasrein11 ай бұрын

    Awesome video👏

  • @BeastMode-oz8qc
    @BeastMode-oz8qc9 ай бұрын

    I have social anxiety, and sometimes it's crippling. I agree with what youre saying, when i started finally going out and talking to girls at the age of 25 (yes i lost my virginity before my 26th) i had so many fun experiences with beautiful woman and nice adventurous river walks and concerts. I had learned a lot, there was also plenty of disappointments, but that made me realize how much i still need to grow as a man. That growth is what im obsessed with, to become the man that most women not only want but can connect with. Also after i lost my v card i felt like a king, and walked like one too, its like all of a sudden my social anxiety just dissapeared. I want to chase that high again. Dont quit guys, the ride is scary but so worth it.

  • @AlexSh-xi3kg
    @AlexSh-xi3kg11 ай бұрын

    Thank you bro, you are really helpful 👍

  • @andreas_aqua
    @andreas_aqua11 ай бұрын

    I'm half way of the video, it's so fun bro keep it up

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    haha send it to your mates

  • @bruno3857
    @bruno385711 ай бұрын

    Great film, bro. Thank You

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it

  • @jadenthomas974
    @jadenthomas97411 ай бұрын

    Dating is fun but only with a select few women who 1. Are attractive enough to get your rocks hard and 2. Can hold a conversation about something other than zodiac signs. You’d be surprised how much that limits things…

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    duh

  • @stevenking4617
    @stevenking461711 ай бұрын

    Dude, that intro, where your buddy's talking to someone and you're just standing there... That's literally me WHEN I INTRODUCE TWO OF MY FRIENDS TO EACH OTHER. Just happened at Cedar Point this week. In line for hours, and they just chat it up the whole time. I just rarely have anything to say. And I have less and less to say the older and lonelier I get.

  • @Celadil
    @Celadil4 ай бұрын

    I will watch this video before every date now , this cracks me up like crazy lmao

  • @RDC2003
    @RDC200311 ай бұрын

    i got anhilated by a girl who we talked for 5 days and she told me 'i did something wrong' but never told me what and unadded. moved on but ngl she did wreck me for 15 minutes

  • @Badboyifier

    @Badboyifier

    11 ай бұрын

    :D good attitude, so you got over her eventually

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    all good my G

  • @RDC2003

    @RDC2003

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Denmosocial thx bro it just kinda made me pissed at these girls who play men for fun

  • @Badboyifier

    @Badboyifier

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@RDC2003 Men are leaders, girls are followers if it switched up then everything slowly but surely gets worse and worse

  • @joshspiker

    @joshspiker

    11 ай бұрын

    @@RDC2003 You spent too much time talking to her. The idea is to get her to meet you in person. The bulk of the conversation should be focused on setting up the in-person date.

  • @RX-Dracula
    @RX-Dracula8 ай бұрын

    Denmo im happy to find one of your videos beacuse of that i have become what i wanted i had this regret where everytime I get the chance to talk to her i would just look at her. Yesterday i saw her and I talked to her it was great but she already have a boyfriend then i talked to this girl im happy bro i only started watching u 2weeks ago and now we're gonna have a date tomorrow so happy that i walked up to her and talked to her. Thank you denmo i wouldnt be here if i had never clicked on one of your videos im glad that i have found your videos thanks again:)

  • @Donnld
    @Donnld11 ай бұрын

    whenever you are excited the same chemical process takes place as when you are nervous, so basically the only difference between nervousness and excitement is the things you think and if you can convince yourself that you are excited about your job interview because you might actually get the job rather than being nervous about it completely changes the situation same thing applies to girls (yes im a virgin lmao)

  • @Pdrock2001
    @Pdrock200111 ай бұрын

    Didn’t know that jack would seamlessly transition from a prank you tuber to be a big bro life coach on YT . Pretty amazing character growth imo .

  • @elad-hadad55
    @elad-hadad5511 ай бұрын

    This video is awesome 👌 👏 ❤

  • @LuisLozano-do9bb
    @LuisLozano-do9bb11 ай бұрын

    Jack denmo alway grinding for us!

  • @cheekguardian1378

    @cheekguardian1378

    11 ай бұрын

    📸📸📸

  • @prestonmccoy7097
    @prestonmccoy709711 ай бұрын

    I loved this vid, man. I still think I’ll die alone and without kids, but I enjoyed it lol. I’m in the need to work-on-myself-before-I-do anything phase btw.

  • @tieguyscollectibles9767
    @tieguyscollectibles97674 ай бұрын

    I always found that inviting women into the stuff I'm already doing has 0 negative effects

  • @jsnow808
    @jsnow80811 ай бұрын

    Thank you Jack

  • @momojones3744
    @momojones374411 ай бұрын

    I’m 40 going on 41 never had a girlfriend nothing doesn’t bother me anymore

  • @darkmidnight818

    @darkmidnight818

    8 ай бұрын

    Thats good

  • @jonnyblaze6153
    @jonnyblaze615311 ай бұрын

    Denmo again a great video to answer your question what is holding me now specific back is my religion. I date to find my wife a hard challenge but i see it as a motivation 💪 Some of my other friends are hooking up and they did not know i am still a virgin but yeah it's the journey a long the way to make experiences, i unintentionally got a girls number out of nowhere for example, but to hook up is not for me. I tell my friends to stop because they are believing in God but are sining it hurts me for them then they feel sad and i stop but they're still doing one it :c but that is something else. Thank you always getting some advice from your videos don't comment always but now i was feeling like that ❤

  • @WebSoak
    @WebSoak11 ай бұрын

    I took your advice, date went well, then I woke up.

  • @xorry77
    @xorry7710 ай бұрын

    Dating is fun but it can also be a waste of time depending. Dating a girl who texts and calls you every hour of the day with nothing interesting or important to talk about IS NOT. Very annoying and made me question if it was even worth it. 2/3 relationships I’ve been in she came off as shy and quiet, then 2 weeks in it’s like I’m the damn Apple help line. Every minor issue or inconvenience and I’m getting a phone call. Don’t rush into a relationship make sure she’s not crazy first. all I have to say

  • @Bat_OfGotham
    @Bat_OfGotham11 ай бұрын

    Best video ever

  • @erayozdemir1392
    @erayozdemir139211 ай бұрын

    l'm that person you mentioned towards the end of the video who is mentally fked up, not making any money and is in bad shape. l watch your videos to get inspired, not to try and date someone. l had a troubling childhood with a mental condition called selective mutism. You can't imagine how hard it is for me to speak, let alone flirt with a girl in real life. I also have a couple other mental issues going on that make dating impossible. Even though i'm unable to date anyone, I won't try to pretend like dating sucks. it doesn't.. It's just our mind trying to create an excuse so that we feel comfortable living miserable lives without intimacy. i've been there before. Thank you for the content, Denmo.

  • @softlyspokensounds2001

    @softlyspokensounds2001

    11 ай бұрын

    As a kid I also had selective mutism (ages 7 - 12), and then after that I became arguably weirder and began to fake my voice (obnoxiously high pitched) around my classmates while speaking normal to my friends outside of school. Same shit, unfortunate social circumstances very early in life and then again when I was roughly 14. I'm now 22 y/o, physically I've managed to switch my life around, and although I have plenty of friends now I still struggle with bad social anxiety around strangers, especially women. I'd probably be dead if I didn't start working out early in life. It's interesting how much these experiences shape who we become...

  • @erayozdemir1392

    @erayozdemir1392

    11 ай бұрын

    @@softlyspokensounds2001 l'm also 22 but my mutism lasted for 7 years. 7 years of hell took a toll on my mind. l literally have no friends in real life. l'm a social failure. İ wish i'd recieved the right treatment for selective mutism when i was a kid. I have developed severe depression as well.

  • @ridethathorse2111
    @ridethathorse211111 ай бұрын

    95% of my dates went really well... most women I think are cool as long as you can make them laugh

  • @tyronewilson7890

    @tyronewilson7890

    11 ай бұрын

    How do you make them laugh?

  • @ridethathorse2111

    @ridethathorse2111

    11 ай бұрын

    @@tyronewilson7890 just be silly

  • @tyronewilson7890

    @tyronewilson7890

    11 ай бұрын

    @@ridethathorse2111 bet

  • @ridethathorse2111

    @ridethathorse2111

    11 ай бұрын

    @@tyronewilson7890 what bet?

  • @Blackpill149

    @Blackpill149

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@ridethathorse2111how to be silly?

  • @dalitsobanda8295
    @dalitsobanda829511 ай бұрын

    After getting into NOFAP I've noticed some kind of change with how i view women lately i don't have any of these really deep sexual desires to view women in a skewed kind of way trust me i really don't wanna go back to that depressing rut of making me feel like having sex will make me feel whole not that i don't still these sexual desires but holding on to my seed has literally started changing brain on how i view sex trust me guy's i know it's hard to get off of the hub believe me even just 3 to 4 days straight really just feels different my biggest worry is that i might slip up again but I'll keep going know you can make it too brother's i believe in you carry on with you're NOFAP journey am strong, stay strong brothers too you gaht this🙏

  • @SallaryfprDNP

    @SallaryfprDNP

    11 ай бұрын

    Dont have fear of slipping up its destroying that purpose, embrace the fear and do nofap out of deep motivation and if you feel like doing it, do it, just not to porn and nit 1st thing in the morning but after youve achieved something that day

  • @dalitsobanda8295

    @dalitsobanda8295

    11 ай бұрын

    @@SallaryfprDNP Thanks mate🙏

  • @justluna1656
    @justluna165611 ай бұрын

    Been going through a breakup recovery period, but I’m starting to think it might be that time to date again.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    you got this bro. see you in socializer

  • @DMrKunst2

    @DMrKunst2

    11 ай бұрын

    Just happened to me Tuesday :(

  • @ismaelhall3990
    @ismaelhall399011 ай бұрын

    Life should be an adventure

  • @wolfgangkranek376
    @wolfgangkranek37611 ай бұрын

    Dating is fun and satisfying. At the end of a date I always ask, if she wants to split. If the girl says no, then I let her pay for everything. After all, I don't need to have sex every day, but I have to eat every day.

  • @andersonm6493
    @andersonm649311 ай бұрын

    Im fat at the moment but im losing weight(60lbs lost at the moment) so i have no confidence to go and talk to a girl but I just hope that when Im fit I would implement all your advices.

  • @simplyluke1584
    @simplyluke158411 ай бұрын

    I struggle knowing what to say half the time as I am autistic & struggle with social interaction

  • @user-zz7or4cx2i
    @user-zz7or4cx2i11 ай бұрын

    I just did my first cold approach today. I have been watching and learning so much from ur videos but had never done a cold approach. Got her number and to follow me on ig. Going to meet her in one week. You gave me the confidence to actually do it and everytime it was worth it, had anxienty at the beginning. Thank you so much for improving my social skills and life, i really like listening to you, keep it up with those great videos! Already joined Socializer :)

  • @скриптослав
    @скриптослав11 ай бұрын

    you talk about all these things that you like in a date, but when I go on a date, these things are not there, and therefore I had the idea that I was not good enough and that I needed to work on myself, after which I did not go on dates for a year and spent all the time self-development and I improved myself, but now when I went on a date again everything was the same as before, probably the point is that dating is a skill that needs to be developed separately from everything else and at first it will be difficult, but then when I get more experienced all these things will appear in my dates

  • @simoneracioppa5733

    @simoneracioppa5733

    10 ай бұрын

    And maybe you don't realize that everything that 🤡 in the video said about dating doesn't exist because some people like to sell lies to other people.

  • @CoolCatProductions-365
    @CoolCatProductions-36511 ай бұрын

    Denmo releasing a very helpful video on my birthday. I can’t ask for a better present besides seeing Oppenheimer😂.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    happy birthday

  • @simon1685
    @simon168511 ай бұрын

    Hi Denmo, allow me to reccomend you a very good book, its about the thing you were talking at 6:00 ,it's very interesting book and it changed the way I look at life, the books name is Molecule of More by Daniel Z. Lieberman and Michael E. Long.

  • @baconking1160
    @baconking116011 ай бұрын

    As, guy that has a hot gf, and porsche 911. I do credit this channel with some of my success. Ngl gents nice cars really do attract women greatly.

  • @BraziliansDid911
    @BraziliansDid91111 ай бұрын

    Bro the last half I was dying at your descriptions of chicks lmfaooo

  • @Military.FutureUrbanCamo
    @Military.FutureUrbanCamo11 ай бұрын

    I don't trust myself dating because I would betray her and ghost her within a day or even a couple weeks or months because of thoughts that she might take my money behind my back and manipulate me but I know to stand my ground and never let anyone push me or anything

  • @Military.FutureUrbanCamo

    @Military.FutureUrbanCamo

    11 ай бұрын

    I have a side of me that has no emotional availability after awhile and might not care about u all of a sudden

  • @pillspotions3464
    @pillspotions346411 ай бұрын

    There is this girl I started talking to but I just don't know how to keep a conversation going...I feel like I should tell her directly that I want her instead of beating around the bush

  • @peterryl5845
    @peterryl584511 ай бұрын

    I’ve been on bunch of dates recently and felt exhausted after all. This video is so refreshing! Thank you!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    you got this bro. hope to see you in Socializer

  • @fuzzypanda1684

    @fuzzypanda1684

    2 ай бұрын

    We're all happy for you, it must be nice to be living life on "Normal" difficulty, where you actually get the results that you deserve from the work you've put in.

  • @Kristopher-ge7zc
    @Kristopher-ge7zc11 ай бұрын

    Being single is the way to be. A man should focus on his mental, physical and financial health. Skip the relationships.

  • @mateopetit1745

    @mateopetit1745

    11 ай бұрын

    wrong, your body will remind you in different ways that you need this social connection, when you have a small amount of support of others, life can go a long way.

  • @kevl9609
    @kevl960911 ай бұрын

    Fax Fax Facts all the way

  • @kaigorodaki
    @kaigorodaki11 ай бұрын

    Thumbnail>>>

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    glad you like it homie

  • @uzumakigoku5098
    @uzumakigoku5098Ай бұрын

    I used to be stoic and want to be a monk and be single forever. But that's a choice. If I want to have a family, I just don't sit there and meditate and be stoic and don't care about the world. I must take action talk to that girl, talk to women, talk to guys, talk to anybody and be socialize and not be hermit crab all the time. Sometimes its good to be hermit if everything goes wrong but in extreme it will makes me antisocial and forget to socialize.

  • @vlazarus124
    @vlazarus12411 ай бұрын

    W video😂 had a laugh

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    lmao cheers

  • @_edweezy
    @_edweezy11 ай бұрын

    You’re the older bro we all wish we had Brodie.

  • @Dan0rioN
    @Dan0rioN11 ай бұрын

    I've tried.. Outcome always leads to the same conclusion.. I can take it or leave it

  • @grandfathernurgle2840

    @grandfathernurgle2840

    11 ай бұрын

    Yeah, if you have to be convinced something is fun; is it really that fun?

  • @Your_Boy_Dimes
    @Your_Boy_Dimes11 ай бұрын

    hey Jack, I was wondering if you could make a video about exes? I know you’re a busy man but I’d love to hear your stance on it

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    join my community you can ask me questions via Q&A each week! plus learn how to get a new gf

  • @user-cg6zu5ev1w
    @user-cg6zu5ev1w11 ай бұрын

    What would you do as someone who lives at home at 18? I could approach girls when I'm out like at the gym and stuff but it could be hard to take her home. On the other hand it's not weird to live at home while I'm still in high school so I suppose she wouldn't expect me to have my own place either. Should I just date girls from my HS or what?

  • @trvgicn1ghts888

    @trvgicn1ghts888

    11 ай бұрын

    Sounds like you got some shit to figure out first

  • @marvin2678

    @marvin2678

    11 ай бұрын

    youre american ? so whats wrong with brining home a girl or are you just interested in hookups ? just date her in public a few times and maybe bring her home at some points and let her meet your oparents

  • @user-cg6zu5ev1w

    @user-cg6zu5ev1w

    11 ай бұрын

    @@trvgicn1ghts888 I'm not sure what there is to figure out. I'm 18 in high school and living at home while running my own business on my free time. I haven't dated before since I've been focused on my business but I want to start so I don't fall too far behind. So I'm not sure what I should "figure out" first. Not really weird to live at home at 18, I'm just wondering how I would do it.

  • @tomcekeu

    @tomcekeu

    11 ай бұрын

    @@user-cg6zu5ev1wdont date at that age bro

  • @rxz1

    @rxz1

    11 ай бұрын

    @@user-cg6zu5ev1w Don't listen to trolls, they think at 18 you instantly need to have your own house and earn six figures. Hell, moving out asap is mostly only common in USA.

  • @larryvilla6869
    @larryvilla686911 ай бұрын

    Going on my first legit date today. Hope it goes well

  • @yuyo2033

    @yuyo2033

    11 ай бұрын

    Hey man, good luck, and hopefully you smash brotha jaja jk but always can happen to the best of us 😅🎉

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    you got this bro. keep us posted

  • @larryvilla6869

    @larryvilla6869

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Denmosocial got the most bomb sushi in the city and then went back home with her. Was a good night for your boy

  • @S1baar
    @S1baar11 ай бұрын

    this video was too funny

  • @karthikpavan8837
    @karthikpavan883711 ай бұрын

    Hey Denmo. I appreciate what you're doing for young men. It's not an excuse but, I noticed through my own trial and errors that I do have a disadvantage of being brown, with an indian accent, not very thick like on sitcoms but a little noticeable. My only options are brown girls and rarely someone who's into 'Indian culture ' fetish thing. Do you think there's a way around it. And I'm not trying to use it as an excuse, I'm in Canada, and I want to diversify my dating pool. Any suggestions?

  • @juanpablo4831
    @juanpablo483111 ай бұрын

    I like dating but i hate the feeling of it going to end and having to restart

  • @mustbecome

    @mustbecome

    11 ай бұрын

    Totally agree man. But when you work on yourself and you are confident about your future, you will attract the right person.Keep self improving and everything will work itself out for you

  • @homiefizzle5260

    @homiefizzle5260

    11 ай бұрын

    No need to think about the end before things even start, just be in the moment, whatever happens, happens.

  • @juanpablo4831

    @juanpablo4831

    11 ай бұрын

    @@homiefizzle5260 no yeah ofc amd I don’t regret any of my relationships am just tired of it ending so am not dating till am little older because i want something real and i feel like i lose bit of me every time i commit and it goes to bad ending lol

  • @darkmidnight818

    @darkmidnight818

    8 ай бұрын

    So whats the point.

  • @tym5583
    @tym558311 ай бұрын

    Fun yes, but these girls today will also have a rotation and leave u in an instant and are the MOST self centered EVER. also yeah been trying and feel completely ugly af and invisable. Trying to improve tho

  • @evmarekaj
    @evmarekaj11 ай бұрын

    Bruh most of your stuff makes sense but is never as well timed as this for me lol. I just met this chick last thursday at the bouldering chick after i decided to talk to her and ended up getting her number. Now I got her up for another bouldering session in 2 days. I'm thinking man, its been a while since a girl/young women had me thinking about her like this. Im just not exactly sure how to approach this since its been a while. Damn i just realized what i need to do next😂 thanks for helping me solve my own questions.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    you got this bro. hope to see you in socializer

  • @evmarekaj

    @evmarekaj

    11 ай бұрын

    @Denmosocial lol I don't really do creator things due to the stupidly high prices. I'll check it out to see what it is and appreciate the offer, though. Personally, my issue with girls is more due to my intentional obliviousness and lack of initiative in sexual implications as I wasn't focused on it. After speaking to this girl (and a few others in this past year), I realized that I just need to take the opportunity as it isn't hard to catch one's attention even as a 5'3 24 yr old.

  • @stoopid_roofer6447
    @stoopid_roofer644711 ай бұрын

    No. Im a roofer. I enjoy my time up there. Because i have honed my craft over the years. It brings me joy when the client is just speechless, when they watch me perform my craft. My order of operations is efficient, and I can orchastrate a crew of men. Im VERY good at what I do!. I am ALWAYS C,C, and C.!!! I am FOCUSED, PRINCIPALED, I am very stringent on safety. DON'T DO WHAT I DO! lol! It took a long time to get like this!. Today i had a young man and his dad helping me, that young man learned ALOT in one day! I took the time to teach him! Im VERY specific in what I teach! Im a demanding asshole, but I'm pretty strict about being SAFE FIRST, then being EFFICIENT! make every move count! He was AMAZING by the process!!! I simply took the time to how to teach him, with PATIENCE! how to set up a pic, how to strap it down, how to cut a shingle book, how to properly set shingles if you are working with 2 people. One on the gun, and the handler feeding. I didn't get frustrated with him. Because I had to learn as well. sometimes i forget how I know this stuff!... lol! Ive just been doing it for so long, it's instinct! He's 16. And he's hooked! I know people think that roofers are just a bunch of idiots, but that's NOT true!. We do have a bad reputation! We are GRUMPY! I'll give you that one! Because its a serious life or death job! One wrong step, and you are dead. You have to be FOCUSED! Take the time to teach this generation! Roofing is a VERY rewarding job, and craft! You will learn hammer skills! I tell newbies to sleep with that thing! Flip it, toss it, catch it...a 20oz Estwing is the most essential tool you will EVER OWN as a man. You will ALWAYS find work! And if you hone your craft? The possibilities are ENDLESS! Get yourself a LEGIT tool belt, leather CLC or McGuire-Nichols 2 strap belt, CLC or McGuire-Nichols pouch, and a hammer holder. The pouch will go on your left side, the hammer on your right. In your pouch, at the top pocket is going to be the SWANSON speed square, the next pocket down is your tin snips, Wiss snips, either red or yellow. Preferably red, you'll figure out why. The " bag" is for your "consumables" roofing nails, drywall screws, 12 commons, etc. The little pocket on the left side of your pouch is for 99e hook blade. The other side is going to the 10-499 , sharing a pencil. For a tape measure, a classic 25' Stanley. Which will hook on your belt off center of your right back hip. Calkbox will go in that final bottom pocket of your bag! BLUE chalk! Red is PERMANENT!. and there you go!

  • @seekingfreedom9020
    @seekingfreedom902011 ай бұрын

    Damn dude looking sharp in the thumbnail, no homo

  • @AxelaGaming
    @AxelaGaming11 ай бұрын

    Never in my mind would i imagine going from, watching ur funny prank vidoes. Listening to Conors stupid ass laugh, til actually listen to you speaking some truth on to me. Thank you

  • @louisavt5971
    @louisavt597111 ай бұрын

    Dating guys is fun too x) being with someone is the best experience in life in my view :p

  • @DanielZ1337TM
    @DanielZ1337TM11 ай бұрын

    The reason why I don't date or even want to try to hook up or whatever is because I have (had?) a disease called Peyronie's and other things for 3 years now. First 2.5 years every doctor said nothing was wrong, kept getting worse. Now I've lost like 2-4 cm, a lot of girth, looking very pale, bruises, can't get an erection AT ALL etc... Don't know what being horny feels like anymore, as well as morning wood, having a sex drive, the "want" of something intimate. Completely checked out and closed off and I don't know what to do about it. The doctors aren't even doing anything... Keep getting neglected and I'm so lost and destroyed

  • @EldritchPursuit

    @EldritchPursuit

    11 ай бұрын

    Bro, please hear me out. This is going to sound crazy and you are undoubtedly going to scoff but still you should consider it. What if your condition is a blessing in disguise? Given this point in history it makes sense if you think about it. 1. Interacting with whammen is very risky these days even if you are a gigachad because of false accusations/ social media victim culture/ weapinized court system ECT . 2. Whammen are incapable of love, they hop on a endless line of penises ( the cock carousel 🎠🐓) they chase pleasure,like a hedonistic ship load of pirates that just pulled into port...but they love no one and even if you are a Chad and you manage to take one to bed for a few minutes of pleasure, all you are getting out of the deal is a CROTCH SPASM. There's no such thing as romance anymore my brother. 3. With all the afore mentioned disgusting behavior, STDs are on the rise... and they are mutating ☣️ 4. Even if was wrong ( I'm not) this would still be the worst time in the history of the world to get married or have kids. Things are bad and getting worse, economic collapse, authoritarianism, starvation, war ....I don't know about you but I don't want to be the guy pushing a stroller on the set of a post apocalypse movie , fighting gangs for baby formula and clean drinking water. 5. Nine out of ten men I know in a serious relationship or married ARE MISERABLE and the ones that aren't are still not as happy as the single guys. Freedom is AWESOME 😎 If you want to explore the world with me and learn how to survive in it ( and maybe find some cryptids) then please subscribe. Cheers bro!🍻

  • @jlambuth
    @jlambuth11 ай бұрын

    I invite you to come to Texas. Trust me: not a lot of women are working out or watching what they eat.

  • @deonburk
    @deonburk10 ай бұрын

    Lmaoooo love this. “Yea man you shaved your balls! Hell ya!”

  • @im.braylen
    @im.braylen11 ай бұрын

    I wish i didnt stop wearing my invisalign and i started working out earlier if i did both of those id be in a much better place rn

  • @jaspergabriels8933
    @jaspergabriels89339 ай бұрын

    i better not say this to my mom she enver understanded me.. even when i wanted to take coaching i told her but she wanted to kick me out of the house lol

  • @mannycalavera1848
    @mannycalavera184811 ай бұрын

    I used to go out every week and approach random girls at clubs and other places like you said. I did that for 2 years in a row cause I was confident at that time, however, I never managed to get a single date or hook up, which made me give up afterwards and start focusing on myself. Now, it's been 10 years since I approached a girl for the last time and I still don't know what to do to make it work. So my question is: is it normal to spend 2 years of your life hitting on girls and still don't get any results at all?

  • @nextanvil3346

    @nextanvil3346

    11 ай бұрын

    I mean, how did they react towards you? How's ur physical shape?

  • @mannycalavera1848

    @mannycalavera1848

    11 ай бұрын

    @@nextanvil3346 I can't even remember properly, some were harsh, some just ignored me and some just talked a bit for being polite then left. Nothing beyond that. I'm slim.

  • @mannycalavera1848

    @mannycalavera1848

    11 ай бұрын

    @@nextanvil3346 But I never managed to have a conversation like the guy from this channel does where the girls laugh and show so much interest in return. I see that as magic, really.

  • @wagner9527

    @wagner9527

    11 ай бұрын

    But what happened bro? Did always get friendzoned?

  • @mannycalavera1848

    @mannycalavera1848

    11 ай бұрын

    @@wagner9527 yes, if they weren't strangers.

  • @gagag96
    @gagag9611 ай бұрын

    “You take a look at the gold, it’s in my hands, woah” 😅😂 “a week later there’s my gold 😏” 😂😂

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    lmaoo

  • @LeeEverett1
    @LeeEverett111 ай бұрын

    Hey Jack, any advice/opinion on why I keep getting ghosted after dates? I'll go on dates with these cute girls and have a great fun time with them, almost everytime we end up making out or having sex. Then I'll never hear from them again. I'll usually send a follow up that I had fun and to do it again soon but hear nothing back. It's frustrating lol.

  • @harryhein3991

    @harryhein3991

    10 ай бұрын

    anything weird about your body? used to have the same problem from being severely underweight but hiding it with clothes.

  • @simoneracioppa5733

    @simoneracioppa5733

    10 ай бұрын

    They just wanted to hook up

  • @alexreyes1371

    @alexreyes1371

    13 күн бұрын

    maybe not good s-x, try getting feedback during s-x on how to do it right

  • @johndong4754
    @johndong475411 ай бұрын

    Hey everyone, this may be a dumb question, but i want to ask it anyways. i live in a small town, where there arent many attractive women to talk to, and i want to move to a bigger city. However, im having a lot of trouble finding a job. ive applied to hundreds of positions in bigger cities, but have received no offers yet. how can i go about approaching women? or should i completely focus on getting a job in a big city and then talk to women there?

  • @wagner9527

    @wagner9527

    11 ай бұрын

    Are there no cities nearby yours? they might be good place, specially if you are afraid ofbeing rejected and having to face the girl over and over again at the grocery store lol

  • @johndong4754

    @johndong4754

    11 ай бұрын

    @@wagner9527 There are, but the nearest one is about an hour away. is it worth driving there every week to talk to women?

  • @wagner9527

    @wagner9527

    11 ай бұрын

    @@johndong4754 Well, until you got an opportunitty is the only option, if I would you I'd trying to find sth interesting to do there, watch a sport, play a sport, taking a guitar couse, whatever, then you will have an excuse to force you to go there. But even without excuse if you go and spend the afternoon practing talking to women is already great.

  • @johndong4754

    @johndong4754

    11 ай бұрын

    @@wagner9527 Thank you! I've actually already been playing sports and practicing guitar where I live, so I dont think I can use those things to convince myself to go to the bigger city 😂 It's annoying though because I really do want to talk to more women but by the time the weekend rolls around, I'm so tired because my weeks are always so busy

  • @Jus-Too-Smoove
    @Jus-Too-Smoove11 ай бұрын

    I wanna be a Denmomo

  • @anthonymichaels257
    @anthonymichaels25711 ай бұрын

    So Fun. You spend your hard earned money and time, while she assesses how much money you make and what you can do for her. Then maybe you can touch her on the shoulder without her calling the cops.

  • @UmitTunes
    @UmitTunes11 ай бұрын

    8:11 Denmo once said:

  • @bladerbubbly4448
    @bladerbubbly444810 ай бұрын

    A little confused about the, "go out and date someone once a week" thing. How do you date a girl one week, but then date another the next week? Do you have to tell her beforehand that this is only a fling? or are you literally breaking up with women week after week just to date again the next. Sorry if this is dumb question lol.

  • @andreas_aqua
    @andreas_aqua11 ай бұрын

    Everyone just keeps telling me I should do things with my life yeah I do but I want to live too , and you know when you have all that pressure from the job, you don't even want to hang out after because you're really burned out you just want to chill at home cause all of the pressure you create inside your head , I should do this I should do that I should act like this like that, it's fucked up man and then here you come and say just be excited, and I've forgotten about that feeling being excited because I was too busy being stressed, instead I should be excited, thanks mate

  • @junibuggaming671
    @junibuggaming67111 ай бұрын

    Wish I watched this 3 hours ago

  • @kingkimi8758
    @kingkimi875811 ай бұрын

    Dude your channel is a fucking goldmine

  • @andrewdonnelly6778
    @andrewdonnelly677810 ай бұрын

    Yeah I’d love to find out for myself how much fun dating is. Unfortunately, whenever I talk to women, they never have a problem carrying out a conversation with me, but then when it comes time to ask them on a date, they’re not interested in going on a date with me. I like to say I have a 100% success rate when it comes to talking to women but a 0% success rate when it comes to women actually wanting more than a 1 off conversation 🙄

  • @simoneracioppa5733

    @simoneracioppa5733

    10 ай бұрын

    SO WHY EVEN TALKING TO THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE AND WASTING TIME!!!

  • @DONVOMONEY
    @DONVOMONEY11 ай бұрын

    Bro this shit had me rolling in a starbucks just now. I look like a lunatic

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    lmao glad you enjoyed it

  • @fuzzypanda1684
    @fuzzypanda16842 ай бұрын

    I wish people would stop acting like improving your appearance, confidence and charisma will for sure improve your results with women. Because while that might be true for most guys, there exist those few unlucky guys who despite spending years building a physique like an IG fitness influencer and developing a level of confidence and charisma that lets them effortlessly approach girls and get them smiling and giggling in no time, still get disinterest or rejection in the end. As one of those guys, it's infuriating to get no interest from girls despite busting your ass to have a physique like Thor and the charisma of Tony Stark, then watch videos like this that say if you just try a little you'll get results.

  • @acdragonrider
    @acdragonrider11 ай бұрын

    Lol I’m shit at talking to anyone actually aside from old people. I’m awkward with friends too. On the other hand, I feel comfortable with elderly people and people my parents age.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    you've been subscribed here 7 months bro... sounds like whatever your doing isn't working. Sounds like you need to join Socializer lol

  • @Saitamaa847

    @Saitamaa847

    11 ай бұрын

    I would say you're probably more mature than people your age, and that's why you tend to spend more time with people older than you

  • @acdragonrider

    @acdragonrider

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Saitamaa847 I do feel that way a lot of the time. Even in eighth grade, for instance, where I felt isolated, I wouldn’t hang out with kids my grade. I’d gravitate to kids grades above me.

  • @mleszzor6866

    @mleszzor6866

    11 ай бұрын

    @@acdragonrider I had the same thing in high school as well.

  • @Me-eb3wv

    @Me-eb3wv

    11 ай бұрын

    Get yourself a milf!

  • @eyanosasioux9575
    @eyanosasioux957511 ай бұрын

    This is a man’s world but it wouldn’t be nothing without a women or girls love.

  • @JamesBond-hm3bw
    @JamesBond-hm3bw11 ай бұрын

    What is your body count Jack? 😉

  • @snakeeyes20a
    @snakeeyes20a11 ай бұрын

    Dating sucks haven't bothered in years

  • @IronRomanian89
    @IronRomanian899 ай бұрын

    Hi Jack. I'm an unemployed university student who wants to meet girls and have a relationship. Can I date girls even if I don't have a job? Also, what should I talk about with a girl?

  • @chumminthecarnerd
    @chumminthecarnerd11 ай бұрын

    what if I'm hooking up to actually date. also like not f**k or what ever. I mean I'm not even 20 yet so idk if I should be thinking abt f**king.

  • @robnelson6545

    @robnelson6545

    11 ай бұрын

    I agree. You should focus on establishing yourself to be able to start a family some day. Don’t waste your life literally f*cking around.

  • @frankjennings4489
    @frankjennings448911 ай бұрын

    Denmo found his female doppelganger to use in that thumbnail lol

  • @EricHartung2
    @EricHartung211 ай бұрын

    I’ve had sex with beautiful women and it ruined me and now I’m waiting until marriage. I’m like the exact opposite of Jack lol

  • @jamesiyer4937

    @jamesiyer4937

    10 ай бұрын

    Oh and I feel so bad for you lol

  • @AdityaSingh-ot8vu
    @AdityaSingh-ot8vu11 ай бұрын

    Jack you are looking handsome in thumbnail in suit 🔥🔥. Whi is the girl sitting next to you

  • @vishalanand1759
    @vishalanand175911 ай бұрын

    Hey Jack denmo I really want to meet you in 2024. I want to be friend and learn a lot from you.