How To Attract Girls You Like (Socializer Method)

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How To Socialize With Girls You Like
0:00 My story
1:32 Problem 1: The Pedestal Effect
2:46 Problem 2: We Are Cavemen
4:11 Problem 3: Convenience
5:13 1. Be Confident
6:31 2. Be Enthusiastic
7:48 3. Be Present
9:48 4. Flirting & Banter
11:01 Putting it ALL TOGETHER!
12:20 Examples of challenging her
13:15 Squirrel girl
14:04 MUST WATCH THIS PART
16:17 APPROACH CHALLENGE

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  • @Imma1077
    @Imma10774 ай бұрын

    Key thing for everyone here to note. You will never see her again statistically speaking LIKE NEVER. So why not remove any consequence like looking stupid. Be okay to look stupid and regret is worse. So just go do ya thing my boys.

  • @fiestacrashers

    @fiestacrashers

    4 ай бұрын

    I like this mentality. Thanks for reminding us!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    4 ай бұрын

    well said

  • @ate810

    @ate810

    4 ай бұрын

    Feel that heavy. Saw this girl with an amazing purple cardigan and she was gorgeous in the face. I regret not saying something especially since I had a situational opener, etc. I haven’t seen her since😂

  • @tsuchus

    @tsuchus

    15 күн бұрын

    W

  • @OGCayne
    @OGCayne4 ай бұрын

    I’m an American living in europe and I started cold approaching women using tips from your videos. Bro, I am slaying out here now! I went from not being able to cold approach to now I’m taking two girls to Spain for a holiday.

  • @Volte10

    @Volte10

    3 ай бұрын

    Ma man 😎. Could you spill some beans based on your experience?

  • @t5396

    @t5396

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Volte10probably not. He's full of shit.

  • @thegreatape5774

    @thegreatape5774

    3 ай бұрын

    you just speak english to them straight up i dont approach people in germany for that reason

  • @Denmosocial
    @Denmosocial4 ай бұрын

    The Socializer Method is changing lives boys I believe in you, get out there

  • @user-mf2vx4md8x

    @user-mf2vx4md8x

    4 ай бұрын

    I'm ugly tho....

  • @raxks3663

    @raxks3663

    4 ай бұрын

    Nice old videos of you pulling

  • @anthonylombardo4829
    @anthonylombardo48294 ай бұрын

    Hit the nail in the head. Askd the girl out in middle school in front of everyone and she rejected me. Trying to get my MOJO back ever since. Just did 5 Approaches this week but it's so difficult it's takes me like 5 hours just to do 1. At this point I just want to cut that time down and be able to approach instantly I don't care about results right now. With that said 2 out of the 5 look promising

  • @Volte10

    @Volte10

    3 ай бұрын

    Way to go brother, happy for you. I went tru the same exp mate, it does sucks fk took me some me sometime to get myslef back together

  • @diegolisandror2
    @diegolisandror24 ай бұрын

    "Like a celebrity you treat her, she like a air conditioner will treat you" -Tzu Sun

  • @jakobauger6805

    @jakobauger6805

    Ай бұрын

    Literal Chinese translation 😂

  • @brianceron4010
    @brianceron40104 ай бұрын

    this was edited so well! Hope Denmo really pays them well. They deserve it

  • @VdeValiente
    @VdeValiente4 ай бұрын

    I'm a man of simple tastes, I see denmo and I hit like. Keep up the good content.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    4 ай бұрын

    good man

  • @damenschlebusch3692
    @damenschlebusch36924 ай бұрын

    Denmo I'm so happy, tonight I was at McDonald's waiting for my food and this gorgeous girl my age walked in with her mom and I thought you know what fu*k it I'm gonna go talk to her and give her a compliment and try get her number, and I thought if sje rejects me it's nothing to do with me. So I went up to her and told she's beautiful and her and her mom said thank you so much I just made her day and they started conversation with me and I asked for the number and she had a boyfriend but she thanked me for coming over and talking to her. So we think things are worse than what they actually are. So Guys just shoot your shot✌️

  • @bengalboypaco3140

    @bengalboypaco3140

    4 ай бұрын

    Lol so you gave her free validation and she had a boyfriend 😂

  • @haythamayanmaleck2804

    @haythamayanmaleck2804

    4 ай бұрын

    Keep up that attitude dude! You'll find your "one" soon.. you got this!

  • @T500cal
    @T500cal2 ай бұрын

    Even getting rejected, you'll feel much better than not asking at all. Just a slight bit of embarrassment, but can't beat the feeling that you did it.

  • @sir.confident
    @sir.confident4 ай бұрын

    Bro, you should've been at the mall with me yesterday (But you live in Canada while I live in Northern VA). I actually used some of your pickup lines, but I would put different spins on them. Sadly I didn't get to pass my number out or at least get any numbers from them. Here's to trying again next time, aye? But as a result of talking to those girls, I became more and more confident as I was doing it. You da man!

  • @user-pd8pr2up1k
    @user-pd8pr2up1k4 ай бұрын

    Had another Date today - it was great (we snuggled at the end ;)) met her with the approach I learned from Denmo!

  • @newuserBviewssecondsago-uz5rw
    @newuserBviewssecondsago-uz5rw4 ай бұрын

    This video is a piece of art.

  • @user-cg9dp6sd1j
    @user-cg9dp6sd1j4 ай бұрын

    Thank you bro very clear and to the point appreciate the guidance. 🤟

  • @user-df9xi1uw8l
    @user-df9xi1uw8l26 күн бұрын

    One of denmos best videos ❤

  • @aryanwaswani2211
    @aryanwaswani22112 ай бұрын

    My guy here is talking about rsd .. most of men dont even know what it is .. but i really like the way you are explaining it

  • @Ferri2378
    @Ferri23784 ай бұрын

    Today I was on a date with two girls at the same time 😂

  • @marcdaniels7233

    @marcdaniels7233

    3 ай бұрын

    Nice my guy

  • @Wolf7742
    @Wolf77424 ай бұрын

    Most of the video is denmo telling you to stop being a b!tch & just approach 😂

  • @maskedman5657

    @maskedman5657

    4 ай бұрын

    And I'm convinced that's not good advice

  • @markrf

    @markrf

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@maskedman5657why?

  • @maskedman5657

    @maskedman5657

    4 ай бұрын

    @@markrf because cold approaching is ineffective

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    4 ай бұрын

    99% of my videos tbh

  • @Jedilord882

    @Jedilord882

    4 ай бұрын

    Waste of time tbh

  • @user-mf2vx4md8x
    @user-mf2vx4md8x4 ай бұрын

    Me watching the whole video takin notes knowing damn well I ain't finna use em 😂

  • @trvgicn1ghts888

    @trvgicn1ghts888

    4 ай бұрын

    Why not?

  • @robertjacobson1362

    @robertjacobson1362

    4 ай бұрын

    It aint worth it bro​@@trvgicn1ghts888

  • @ndmorris14

    @ndmorris14

    4 ай бұрын

    Yeah, why not?

  • @unholydiver1095

    @unholydiver1095

    4 ай бұрын

    Just go do it. Dive right in before you convince yourself not too. Even if you suck at first, you get better. I am treating it like leg day. I dont wanna do it, but I have to, and will feel bad if I skip it later

  • @richos07

    @richos07

    4 ай бұрын

    Theory will only take you so far

  • @seb5587
    @seb55874 ай бұрын

    I deleted my dating app accounts today. No more of that shit. I'm going to meet my next grilfriend irl. No other way now I have to go out and approach.

  • @Jedilord882

    @Jedilord882

    4 ай бұрын

    Goodluck bro lol

  • @tlumaczprzysieglymowynienawisc

    @tlumaczprzysieglymowynienawisc

    3 ай бұрын

    How's going

  • @rqpr4172
    @rqpr41724 ай бұрын

    just did my first ever cold approach yesterday, she was with her 4 other friends, we first met at a cosmetic like store where we made eye contact, she smiled and turned to her friends whispering something, when i go out the store they were there but you know this is my first time, i was such a coward and didnt have the balls to do it, but later we met again, then the same thing happen, she turned to her friends and we just walk pass by, the third encounter was where it finally happened, i saw her again while she is sitting with her friends, i approached her, made a talk, but, she instantly BOWED DOWN! WTF?, she covered her face turned her face to the knee, so i just talked with her other friend asking their ig. so the word "the worst she can say is no" doesnt appeal to me

  • @jacquelinekuinensoumbi

    @jacquelinekuinensoumbi

    4 ай бұрын

    It made my day😂😂

  • @bigtaco4362
    @bigtaco43624 ай бұрын

    Loving a girl, having a thought about her in any way is normal, it is natural. the key is, if you are showing her that you are interested in her. express it in a nice way. she should see you as a value. if a good looking girl tells you she likes you, you willl love it. if a ugly girl tells you she likes you, you wont love her back. because while she is showing you that she is interested you are also noticing how she looks like. same way, while she is noticing you like her, she should also be seeing that you are good at expressing your feelings (you are flirty, fun, sexual intention, good at eye contact, smells good and look fresh, rich), this way you are also showing your value to her. its a double game ng a girl, having a thought about her in any way is normal, it is natural. the key is, if you are showing her that you are interested in her. express it in a nice way.

  • @PCP1992
    @PCP19924 ай бұрын

    You're right that it scars you. It's like I used to be more confident about the whole thing. I had a couple of great experiences with girls I met on the street which went all the way... But apart from that the hundreds of humiliating experiences and complete failures and harsh feedback has scarred me and I actually feel less confident than I used to.

  • @unpopularnyash6668
    @unpopularnyash66682 ай бұрын

    I am here and i promise myself to make an effort

  • @DelasVC
    @DelasVC4 ай бұрын

    Very valuable video, Bro! Only concern is that Megan Fox is probably not the best example to have in a video like that 🤣

  • @lazysnipeify
    @lazysnipeify4 ай бұрын

    I wish I had an adult tell me growing up that it isn’t a moral sin to go up and approach a woman like this

  • @nbayern7000
    @nbayern70004 ай бұрын

    Hey Denmo, can you do a finance vid. I am single af and I can barely afford anything living alone with a decent salary. The cost of living is crazy and I'm not even spending money on a woman right now.

  • @marcdaniels7233
    @marcdaniels72333 ай бұрын

    Ya’ll can do it. Just believe.

  • @screen381broad
    @screen381broad4 ай бұрын

    🔥🔥

  • @kamandibrahim
    @kamandibrahim2 ай бұрын

    i love you bro i love you🔥❤‍🔥

  • @DanielMartinez-ht3jg
    @DanielMartinez-ht3jg3 ай бұрын

    I need that deep voice tutoral

  • @Sagefrakrobatik
    @Sagefrakrobatik4 ай бұрын

    I was excited to start going out again, Monday it's supposed to get to 70. But then I got this horrible cold. I'm hoping it goes away soon. Getting sick is the worst

  • @matthewwach7693
    @matthewwach76934 ай бұрын

    Yeooooo denmo any advice for shorter than average dudes out here like under 5'6? Appreciate your videos 👍🏻

  • @maskedman5657

    @maskedman5657

    4 ай бұрын

    Get rich

  • @markrf

    @markrf

    4 ай бұрын

    grow taller

  • @DrMcSpankus

    @DrMcSpankus

    4 ай бұрын

    it's over

  • @jonsincc
    @jonsinccАй бұрын

    i remember this one time i was playing guitar under a bridge drinking a few cold ones with my boy and a dime and her friend came through to take insta ass pics and i made a joke that i was homeless and she was in my living room and she didnt like that at all she dipped out and i kept drinking

  • @TopC333
    @TopC333Ай бұрын

    A lot of you tube videos say be alpha like James Bond & stoic obviously this helps. However you can walk around like James Bond but if you never talk to girls it is so unlikely they will ever know how cool you are. Be able to talk confidently, flirt & tease gets them excited & they love a flirt how could they say no 😝

  • @AdityaSingh-ot8vu
    @AdityaSingh-ot8vu4 ай бұрын

    I can to talk to guys but i am facing difficulty while talking to girls in my gym there is a girls she is cute but i am scared to approach her i am attracted to her i want to start conversation with her but i am scared 😭.

  • @akdarkmagician
    @akdarkmagician4 ай бұрын

    what if i can’t talk to either

  • @saraybestecisi
    @saraybestecisi4 ай бұрын

    Hey Jack. I like your videos, but tell us how much you paid to bring those girls in Jack Denmo t-shirt together at 15:22 😂😂 They are all like “wtf I’m doing here” lol

  • @user-og2wt3le4j
    @user-og2wt3le4j2 ай бұрын

    What was the example in The Beautiful Mind film? The mathematician says the most beautiful women rarely get approached. Something about Choice Theory in economics.

  • @APark367
    @APark3674 ай бұрын

    For those who have actually been putting in the work of cold approaching women and know how to do it with a good degree of success, we need a texting guide which is where most of us fumble and mess up our chances

  • @jeroenvdb1782
    @jeroenvdb17824 ай бұрын

    How y'r doing in the contest? Are you in (the first ten) jet?

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    4 ай бұрын

    I won! Might have recorded this before

  • @jeroenvdb1782

    @jeroenvdb1782

    4 ай бұрын

    Great!! I al happy for you. You deserve it and good you van make a new step and improve as well. All the best grt

  • @utdfortreble
    @utdfortreble4 ай бұрын

    Denmo, what is the average amount of dates and approaches needed to get a gf? Have been on 50 dates at least in the last year and im getting sick of it

  • @justnitrix

    @justnitrix

    4 ай бұрын

    Its not about quantity bro its about the quality of the dates and how the date goes and it depends on who your taking on a date

  • @maskedman5657

    @maskedman5657

    4 ай бұрын

    50 dates is incredibly impressive. 😂. You must be spamming a crap ton of approaching. Or using Social media.

  • @raymondqiu8202

    @raymondqiu8202

    4 ай бұрын

    How did you get your 50 dates? Dating apps? I'm struggling to get leads, how did you get them?

  • @justnitrix

    @justnitrix

    3 ай бұрын

    @raymondqiu8202 its pretty simple bro. The best way to find high quality women is by cold approaching them in places like the local park,gym or cafe and just talk to as many of them as you want

  • @raktor_bbx2398
    @raktor_bbx23984 ай бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥

  • @maskedman5657
    @maskedman56574 ай бұрын

    I think the best thing to do if it's a girl you are attracted to is wait to see if she is giving you signals. If she isn't.... Well just move on.

  • @Camroc37

    @Camroc37

    4 ай бұрын

    Me: "Damn she touches me and gives me her attention and flirts with me I think she might like me" also me: "Damn we just made out in my car tonight I think she might like me"

  • @Jedilord882

    @Jedilord882

    4 ай бұрын

    100%.

  • @sohelmalik400
    @sohelmalik4004 ай бұрын

    One day I will meet you denmo in Canada and we will surely have a blast.

  • @igiveyoublue5108
    @igiveyoublue51082 ай бұрын

    i got used by a girl before. I dont know if i want to even try anymore

  • @mgk_moloko
    @mgk_moloko3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @RamzaBeo
    @RamzaBeo4 ай бұрын

    It’s annoying how us men have to worry about “messing it up” I just pursue the women that like me first, it’s a waste to pursue women in these days

  • @radfoo72
    @radfoo724 ай бұрын

    Psychologically, I think one reason I don't want to approach is because I'm an adorer who wants to be adored. Oh the irony. lol

  • @manuelcossyleon4723
    @manuelcossyleon47234 ай бұрын

    What about finding yourself being addicted to women? I have found this to be a problem due to being tempted by another woman once I’ve established a relationship with the other. I have ruined relationships with good women due to not being able to keep myself chill and avoid seeing other females while trying to solidify with one. Idk, maybe this can also be a warning to some because once you figure it out then you can find yourself in a rabbit hole of just screwing up frequently because you can’t seem to find yourself un tempted by other females giving you attention

  • @joeyp1927
    @joeyp1927Ай бұрын

    The reason why it makes zero sense to put women on a pedestal or to worry about rejection is that there are LITERALLY millions of other attractive, dateable women. So, no one is special. And that one girl, or several girls, that reject you? You'll never see them again. Because you're in a sea of millions of women. Look at it that way, and there's no reason to overthink things.

  • @vitogenovese7921
    @vitogenovese79214 ай бұрын

    Wassup denmo

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    4 ай бұрын

    sup vito

  • @roostzak
    @roostzak3 ай бұрын

    Bro there is not 1mil girls this girl is the only one at my school I think she gave me sign to come talk to her but I’m a pus and I regret it now I think she had moved on 😅

  • @Edword317
    @Edword3174 ай бұрын

    Some dudes act shy like females when u talk to them 😂 And we’re not monkeys 😂, we were created in the image of God (Real Evidence) Ayooo chill 🤫, I’m not perfect 😂

  • @JoJoRogain
    @JoJoRogain4 ай бұрын

    Automatic like, good looking out

  • @igiveyoublue5108
    @igiveyoublue51082 ай бұрын

    bro this wont work im unattractive and I am not tall

  • @heyguys69420

    @heyguys69420

    Ай бұрын

    looks max fix your hair

  • @Kunal.Tripathi
    @Kunal.Tripathi4 ай бұрын

    Cheat Codes 😅 Denmo

  • @jacksonprust9919
    @jacksonprust99194 ай бұрын

    Just not giving a fuck anymore I know how it always will end

  • @ChrisLyon567
    @ChrisLyon5674 ай бұрын

    Women reject me every time I try to ask them out. I've been single 31 years. I"ve never had a girlfriend, i've never once taken a girl on a simple date. . I have been convinced for years I will never experience dating/being in a relationship. i'm at the MGTOW status. I'm done with women. tired of wasting my time and energy with them.

  • @goon6932

    @goon6932

    4 ай бұрын

    Still your here, wasting your time & energy on a video about women 😂😂

  • @VincentStevenStudio

    @VincentStevenStudio

    4 ай бұрын

    Don't give up, bro. Build your confidence. Take care of yourself first. I thought the same when I was younger. I was a shy, skinny guy who thought was just average looking and would get no girls. One day, I decided I was going to change all that. Over the years, I built myself up. I worked out, I gained muscle, I groomed myself well, and I dressed better. I presented myself the way I wanted to be perceived. As well as personality. Chin up, speaking clearly and loudly with confidence. Almost instantly, I noticed women paying more attention to me. To the point that I've had women approach me and ask me out themselves. Ive even become the gossip of co-workers, I notice them whisper to each other about me. Not to brag but that made me realize I'm more attractive than I thought. It's that mindset that gives me the confidence. KNOWING I'm attractive in turn makes me attractive. So what I'm trying to say is, work on yourself first. You're probably more attractive than you think, and if not, you have the power change that. Don't give up bro.

  • @ChrisLyon567

    @ChrisLyon567

    4 ай бұрын

    @@VincentStevenStudio I've got stuff I am working on, I go to the gym 5 days a week, I've been doing that since 2020. I've tried all the dressing better and all that and still no result. I've got a decent paying job with good benefits. I might not be making a 6 figure salary right now but i'm working towards that. I'm just done with women. now days they just have unrealistic expectations.

  • @nobodysperfect06

    @nobodysperfect06

    4 ай бұрын

    Another angry reminder on how men are more likely than women are to reach a decade like this and to have always been alone and single

  • @maskedman5657

    @maskedman5657

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@ChrisLyon567How much you make a year? And how much you got saved?

  • @totoma3297
    @totoma32974 ай бұрын

    “Everyone in your bloodline has been successful” tfw ur Indian parents got an arranged marriage

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    4 ай бұрын

    thats still success buddy

  • @subhramchakraborty6017
    @subhramchakraborty60173 ай бұрын

    like a girl who works 50 m away from our office campus but we dont know each other ,she boards metro from same place i board , few days back i approched her , i sat in left side of her, i started conversations, about the city , restaurants, scenic beauties available there , her interest regarding some specific areas, but could not tease her much as we are in crowded metro , conversations continued for 30 min , she was communicating with a few words only , after we got down i dint feel to ask for her number as she was engaging enough during conversations, may be she is an introvert , she was saying 2/3 words answers only , i left saying bye, After 10,12 days, i approached her again , asked to join me tomorrow in metro on our way to the office as our office in the same location, she at 1st said "ok" , then i said" How would I contact you?" And i was about ask her number , within 2 seconds, she said she wont come to office for a week r more, i took a breath and left . What is your opinion regarding her behavior?

  • @donaldbishop5320
    @donaldbishop53204 ай бұрын

    “MGTOW” !!!!!!!

  • @kaaamil109
    @kaaamil1094 ай бұрын

    Yoo mate, what's your e-mail?

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    4 ай бұрын

    check description

  • @sexaccess7155
    @sexaccess71553 ай бұрын

    Any body know the names of the films shown in the vid, look interesting but i don't know most of the the actors😢😅