Stop Overthinking Girls.

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  • @hasankaiser4563
    @hasankaiser4563 Жыл бұрын

    Its pretty easy to talk to them in isolation. But it's actually hard when they're in a mall, or they're in a large group or walking along the street

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    its easier actually when they're with friends. Cause its much safer

  • @hasankaiser4563

    @hasankaiser4563

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial teach us the ways jack. How do you get them all involved

  • @mac6417

    @mac6417

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial no way. If one of them things you’re ugly, they all thinking that. Most can’t think for themselves

  • @pazeros6424

    @pazeros6424

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mac6417 Yes, I can agree with this one.

  • @farhanaditya2647

    @farhanaditya2647

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial That's actually a good point. Didn't think about it that way,

  • @jackmurphy8696
    @jackmurphy8696 Жыл бұрын

    The thing that sets Jack apart from others in this area of content is he gives you real things you can try in conversations that also aren't cringe. I think there is real value to this channel for those that feel stuck.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    only channel actually showing videos out here

  • @jackmurphy8696

    @jackmurphy8696

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial freal no cap

  • @chumbucket6184

    @chumbucket6184

    Жыл бұрын

    Jack has a perfect balding pattern, it's over for me

  • @jackmurphy8696

    @jackmurphy8696

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chumbucket6184 wear a hat that's what I do

  • @woudanborson2778

    @woudanborson2778

    Жыл бұрын

    this guy just feels natural man, I can't even explain it, he's just so chill and casual and that makes it even better than the other guys like todd v etc

  • @LeeEverett1
    @LeeEverett1 Жыл бұрын

    Whenever I'm having a bad day and feeling like I'm too unattractive for women, your videos always lift me up to go out and try again. Then when I get rejected a few more times, the cycle repeats lol.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    keep up the good work bro well motivate you in the discord too

  • @ip96.7.21

    @ip96.7.21

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't let these hoes bring you down man, don't let them discourage you and make you feel insignificant. You know your worth, you're probably a great guy. It's their loss, focus on yourself.

  • @abhimendhe6785

    @abhimendhe6785

    Жыл бұрын

    😂 that's pretty much my story as well 😛

  • @pavek7193

    @pavek7193

    Жыл бұрын

    well gym could make you happier and more attractive 😉

  • @Jedilord882

    @Jedilord882

    10 ай бұрын

    Most women don’t want to be approached in person lol

  • @Denmosocial
    @Denmosocial Жыл бұрын

    Get 1-3+ Dates per week with Girls: www.denmo.social/course 1-1 Dating Coaching Mentorship: www.denmo.social/dating Join 15,000+ other men on Discord: discord.gg/p8kCx3ncb4 1-1 KZread Coaching Mentorship: www.denmo.social/youtube Join my email list to help men: www.denmo.social/newsletter INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/jackdenmo/

  • @dragushcobaj4121

    @dragushcobaj4121

    Жыл бұрын

    Has it been a week already?

  • @xcms2x

    @xcms2x

    Жыл бұрын

    More than a week changed everything

  • @braydenchastain2002

    @braydenchastain2002

    Жыл бұрын

    Right here lmao

  • @MicahPotts

    @MicahPotts

    Жыл бұрын

    You promised the discord link in the top pinned comment bro

  • @jasonelliott9762

    @jasonelliott9762

    Жыл бұрын

    How

  • @thomaseadbhardmcqueen7511
    @thomaseadbhardmcqueen7511 Жыл бұрын

    I'm far from an expert in this, but I feel like a lot of guys fear that elementary school "eww" reaction from women upon them revealing that they're interested. Even though I've been rejected like seven out of eight times, very rarely has a girl seemed awkward or uncomfortable by the fact that I expressed interest. I still remember confessing to my fourth grade crush and just seeing that freaked out look on her face. It was so embarrassing. I don't worry about that anymore because that was eleven years ago. Once you get more practice, you understand that more often than not, they're not gonna feel awkward just because you chatted with them. Put your defenses down and just throw yourself out there. The water's fine.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    keep up the good work homie thanks for sharing

  • @zebra7578

    @zebra7578

    Жыл бұрын

    That "freaked out look" is a biggggggg reason for my anxiety with girls till this day. Some a-hole friends of mine wrote a note to my school crush without my consent, confessing my love to her, and she proceeded to verbally abuse me in class while having the most disgusted look on her face as she tore me down. I'm scared of girls till today, and I'm in my 20s. However I'm gradually getting over it, thankfully

  • @RealHomeRecording

    @RealHomeRecording

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zebra7578 although the fear and anxiety are irrational, it is not uncommon. Fear of rejection is a very real thing and the only way to get over it really is to just talk women up first and then ask for their number second. The unfortunate truth is that if you are lacking in the looks department you will get a lot more rejection from women. I speak from experience on this one as someone who is short and started balding at a pretty young age. I later found out at high school and college reunions that a lot of women liked me but I just didn't have the guts to ask them out. Don't miss out on opportunities like I did!!!!

  • @honkhonk5181

    @honkhonk5181

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zebra7578 Develop a better wit so if another girl ever tries something similar you’ll know you can rip her a new baby hole. Here’s some very related inspirational music kzread.info/dash/bejne/X5lqw8SRnbDXqpc.html

  • @devilsadvocacy

    @devilsadvocacy

    Жыл бұрын

    You're lucky that you rarely get this sort of reaction. For those of us who are neurodivergent, it happens a lot more often

  • @sansum1245
    @sansum1245 Жыл бұрын

    This film literally flew from sky to me. I'm sitting here and ovethinking what to text to the girl I'm meeting this weekend right now and in desperete need to find out how to stop thinking about it. Thank You again Jack.

  • @deniskasperovich8251

    @deniskasperovich8251

    Жыл бұрын

    Why you want to text her?

  • @sansum1245

    @sansum1245

    Жыл бұрын

    @@deniskasperovich8251 Problem solved itself, she texted me first

  • @rubenscheer

    @rubenscheer

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sansum1245 So you still go out with her? :)

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    cheers bro

  • @honkhonk5181

    @honkhonk5181

    Жыл бұрын

    If women were good people you wouldn’t have to worry so hard about texting the wrong thing. It should be as simple as text what you mean and straight to the point. The fact that we have to be so careful of what we text and say indicates how easily offended they are and how easily they scare.

  • @gordan13
    @gordan13 Жыл бұрын

    Overthinking, heart palpitations, fear... it's not a matter of "choice", but in most cases it's about traumas from an earlier age... I think that first of all it is necessary to solve these traumas, a bad self-image. Not in the way that we actually unconsciously seek the "approval" of others by approaching, etc. But by accepting ourselves first of all.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    we gotta accept those traumas and move on brotha

  • @red4405

    @red4405

    Жыл бұрын

    I was really anxious from childhood traumas aswell. But i saw a video somewhere that writing down your feelings actually helps. I started writing in my notes app about how i act and how i think i can fix it and i had so many revelations of why i act the way i do from relating it to past traumas. I suggest anyone to write down their feelings.

  • @domd9837

    @domd9837

    Жыл бұрын

    therapist my guy

  • @schroederluck7984

    @schroederluck7984

    Жыл бұрын

    My good friend had this issue with women in college. Would by visibly shaking talking to any attractive girl. Immersion therapy worked for him. He just forced himself to do it regardless of what happened and within 1 year at college he was good to go and actually going on dates. Sometimes you just gotta face it head on.

  • @honkhonk5181

    @honkhonk5181

    Жыл бұрын

    @@schroederluck7984 That only works if you’re lucky. The shaking nervous guy is very lucky. It could have just as easily been that he creeped out several girls with his nervousness while doing his immersion therapy causing them to gang up and stigmatize him as the campus weirdo who hits on girls. If that happened it would have been literally over for him.

  • @morganfilmfan
    @morganfilmfan Жыл бұрын

    I assume that what you're saying, in a nutshell, is no matter who you are, you're going to get rejected more times than not, that comes with the game, but it's the guys who have the balls to try who win the biggest, at the end of the day! It's a life lesson I've learned! Love the content

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    glad this helped man send it to your friends to help them too

  • @hedaq8152
    @hedaq8152 Жыл бұрын

    Jack these videos are so helpful! Kepp it going

  • @gbky8448
    @gbky8448 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Jack! Funny enough, today I was the laziest as ever, a friend haven't met 3 months invited me to go outside something I don't usually do at these cold times. For some God knows reason I went outside with the boys, walked around the city and coincidentally I met the girl that I was always afraid to talk to (Being frozen like you described... Fuck.) is with someone else. I came back, took it as a lesson to even further boost my confidence, make myself a better person and never miss a chance without overthinking it. Seeing this video after the event that happened today is nothing but a Godsend and thank you so much for this video.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    boom there you go

  • @habsmcj
    @habsmcj Жыл бұрын

    Literally all I said to my crush was “how’s it going”. It’s that simple guys

  • @freshuniversegaming

    @freshuniversegaming

    Жыл бұрын

    And then what?

  • @phillip4107

    @phillip4107

    Жыл бұрын

    Then he woke up

  • @habsmcj

    @habsmcj

    Жыл бұрын

    @@freshuniversegaming and then we just had like a quick 2 minute conversation before heading off to class. There’s nothing fancy to it

  • @habsmcj

    @habsmcj

    Жыл бұрын

    @@UserRobot215 I already have her number. We’ve hung out before

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    this guy gets it

  • @ethan.wroblewski
    @ethan.wroblewski Жыл бұрын

    Been rizzing up this cute librarian when I go study. Listened to what you said in the monk mode, and yes my phone is on black & white I go study at the library rather than my house so I get more done, and I’m not relaxed like the way I’d be at my house, and I get out the house I also listened to what you said in your video about picking up girls at the gym about how you mentioned that if you see her often, build it overtime so with the cute librarian I just been taking it slow, making small talk, and build it up.

  • @ryanexplorer
    @ryanexplorer Жыл бұрын

    Great reminder for me! Been struggling with this as the only relationship I had in the past was because the girl told me she was interested (thru her friend) since then subconsciously I've been waiting for girls to come to me like that when it super rarely happens as you said. I need to take action!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    you got this bro. Good luck

  • @Omarthedemigod
    @Omarthedemigod Жыл бұрын

    Ngl Denmos been helping me with my girl troubles. I’m still on stage 1 lmao, but I’ve gotten a bit better at initiating conversation quicker and letting nervousness go away. Like just an hour ago at work I saw her walk by me at break, I got my ass up and I spoke to her. Didn’t go anywhere cuz I didn’t ask for a date and I technically got her number already but she never responded. Point being I actually got up and spoke to her instantly and it didn’t go horribly wrong. Gotta thank Jack 💪🏿

  • @mojo_giorgio
    @mojo_giorgio Жыл бұрын

    jack u are the real bro, thank u for being a mega supporter for us!!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    here to help

  • @TheJpyne518
    @TheJpyne518 Жыл бұрын

    thanks, i needed this

  • @work90
    @work90 Жыл бұрын

    Jack at it again dropping another banger

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    gotta inspire you lads

  • @kg3658
    @kg3658 Жыл бұрын

    after watching your videos, i have gained a lot more confidence in approaching girls, my only regret i had the last time was not talking this girl for longer as i reliased there was so much more we could have talked about. but that will come with more practice. Cheers Jack!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    all good bro now you know. Go make some moves baby

  • @justinseymour5846
    @justinseymour5846 Жыл бұрын

    Great Video Advice Jack

  • @lihuan9634
    @lihuan9634 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks man..I don't have time now but I will watch all Ur videos when I'm free..❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍

  • @grantglazener7752
    @grantglazener7752 Жыл бұрын

    Love your work bro!

  • @SunsetLights
    @SunsetLights11 ай бұрын

    Hey brother! Been spending these past 2 weeks binge watching these channels after my break up and yesterday I finally manned up and approached 3 women! Great interactions, we laughed I teased and flirted w all three. Two had bf but were very sweet and one texted me she wasn’t ready but overall very proud of myself to finally man up and approach women. Thank you sm for these videos !🤘🏽

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    11 ай бұрын

    thats awesome bro. look forward to you joining my socializer community and sharing W's as you improve

  • @abhimendhe6785
    @abhimendhe6785 Жыл бұрын

    Life changing video Jack bro..May God bless you with all the happiness in the world 😊 "Perfect moment takes place only in movies", you have absolutely killed it bro.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    bless you sir

  • @abhimendhe6785

    @abhimendhe6785

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial just because I waited for the perfect moment, i missed out on thousands of opportunities till date. Anyways bro, just tell me how you recollect yourself mentally immediately moments after a girl behaved cold and then approach the next girl the very next moment.

  • @mirankhacherian9469
    @mirankhacherian9469 Жыл бұрын

    You INSPIRE ME TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN! Your advice HELPS ME SO MUCH

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    glad to hear that bro

  • @Gingerlocks35
    @Gingerlocks35 Жыл бұрын

    Started listening to your videos as I workout, it's definitely helped get me out of my headspace and saying hey to people. Literally would only say the bare minimum before watching your videos. Have been feeling a lot more outgoing and confident after seeing your stuff. So yeah lots of value in these videos.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    atta boy that fires me up

  • @Gingerlocks35

    @Gingerlocks35

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial for sure, sort of just messed up a interaction with someone. but like you said, can't get better at something if you aren't willing go out and fail at it first.

  • @mainstreetsaint36
    @mainstreetsaint36 Жыл бұрын

    This advice could be used for a lot of situations. Overthinking anything can really ruin them.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    absolutely- here to help bro

  • @kholofeloselekane6870
    @kholofeloselekane6870 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you man, you have helped me a lot. I'm no longer shy to speak to women, I'm now confident as ever and that's thanks to you. I'm a black South African 🇿🇦 male in my late 20s by the way.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    cheers brother. Cool name btw

  • @kholofeloselekane6870

    @kholofeloselekane6870

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial thank you it means " hope".

  • @mranonymous8094
    @mranonymous8094 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks as always jack!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    no worries brother

  • @elvissam1401
    @elvissam1401 Жыл бұрын

    Jack, blessings from Venezuela, keep the good content!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    shoutout to Venezuela

  • @Kadood
    @Kadood Жыл бұрын

    new favorite youtuber, ur so personable i feel like ive known you for years but i started watching you yesterday

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    look forward to making content for you homie

  • @Kadood

    @Kadood

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial thanks jack

  • @szakal1023
    @szakal1023 Жыл бұрын

    You know what? I watched some videos already and today I made progress. I was using Tinder to get dates but it was a waste of time. I got some dates but there wasnt anything exciting in particular. Some of them were rather dull and talk could be weird sometimes Today I went to the shop with motorcycle gear and I met cute, short girl behind the counter. We were vibing all the time, just the two of us (shop was totaly empty). I bought some stuff and before I left I ask for her number and guess what? I got it. I wasnt nervous at all because she was such cute, talkative women and we were totally chilling there. I was somewhat scared of rejection or approach itself but I was just stupid. No regrets after today Thx Denmo

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    THATS MY MAN! give this guy some love

  • @ZuwyFPS

    @ZuwyFPS

    Жыл бұрын

    win

  • @pazeros6424

    @pazeros6424

    Жыл бұрын

    My respect 🤝

  • @viktor2338

    @viktor2338

    Жыл бұрын

    🤗

  • @mister7596
    @mister7596 Жыл бұрын

    just wanted to pop in and say Hi before you become too famous to reply to all these comments, you're a really amazing man giving out true advice to help us men succeed thank you

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    cheers bro thanks for supporting me early on

  • @TheSpecialJ11
    @TheSpecialJ11 Жыл бұрын

    It's so simple it hurts. Literally approach the women, be yourself (and work on making that self a self you like being, that's happy and confident), and if you like each other, keep talking. If you don't, move on.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    now you must act my man

  • @honkhonk5181

    @honkhonk5181

    Жыл бұрын

    Even if you politely move on once you get the message she’s not interested, she’ll still bitch and cry to her friends about the creepy guy she doesn’t know who tried to hit on her. Thus further ruining your chances with them. Girls are very hive minded in this way.

  • @Just_B0red

    @Just_B0red

    Жыл бұрын

    Be yourself if you are good looking, otherwise fake it till you make it.

  • @andrewgonzalez9002

    @andrewgonzalez9002

    Жыл бұрын

    @@honkhonk5181 so you think it’s better to just not even make the attempt ?

  • @honkhonk5181

    @honkhonk5181

    Жыл бұрын

    @@andrewgonzalez9002 depends how much you value your reputation, depends how good looking you are, depends what you’re willing to risk

  • @Serdyi
    @Serdyi Жыл бұрын

    You`Re the Best! Never stop doing These Videos

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    you got it brother

  • @erikundluis8388
    @erikundluis8388 Жыл бұрын

    i'm a damn good strategist when it comes to games or how i plan my life. most of the time it is you wait for a step and get going. on the subject with women, i mostly rush it and leave myself 0 space for time and steps. The worst when you are really close and dude i just need to feel and kiss you. no, at the moment billions of thoughts. what if she doesn't like it and breaks off contact because of it. then let it better be but you can't live like that. So stop thinking about everything great video❤️👌👌👌

  • @mmm-ie5ws
    @mmm-ie5ws Жыл бұрын

    beautiful. Im buying ur course even if I dont need it.

  • @chickenwalkerinstalls7413
    @chickenwalkerinstalls7413 Жыл бұрын

    I have a friend who does this everytime we go approaching during the day in our city. He'll just stall and wait for the "perfect moment" or thing to say but never take the plunge.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    classic

  • @DBD801
    @DBD801 Жыл бұрын

    I’m buying your course next week after the mortgage, I split with my ex wife about 4 years ago. I picked up a few strays here and there but I’m ready for a long term gig. My late teens and early 20’s were spent with my ex wife so I never really got that “experience” with women that I needed I’m hoping your course gives me some tools I can use to my advantage

  • @teamof2
    @teamof2 Жыл бұрын

    watching this video in black and white thanks to you i finally stopped my addiction to computer screens, thank you all your videos are super helpfull

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    no worries bro here to help

  • @tonycarrera69
    @tonycarrera69 Жыл бұрын

    Almost 100K!

  • @kunalyadav7561
    @kunalyadav7561 Жыл бұрын

    I have my phone on black and white since last week . After I saw your video and the main thing is I have not watched Netflix on my phone . Since all is black and white . And I once switched my color back on to send a photo . I mean I never knew colors were so vibrant man 😂. Will continue it and see how it goes and will share maybe after a month or 2 of doing it

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    atta boy keep up the good work

  • @tickleboi6581
    @tickleboi65817 ай бұрын

    "Worst thing that could happen is you get rejected" Yeah, about that. Im gonna need ya to bail me outa jail and pay for my lawyer

  • @Phoenix_is_god

    @Phoenix_is_god

    16 күн бұрын

    Don't worry man I got a shovel. I'm going to get you out of jail

  • @LiterallyNoah1596
    @LiterallyNoah1596 Жыл бұрын

    Remember fellas, there are plenty of fish in the sea

  • @Rakyr
    @Rakyr Жыл бұрын

    JUST SAW YOU HIT 100K! GZ

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    ayyyyyyyyyyyy

  • @chrisfischermentoring
    @chrisfischermentoring Жыл бұрын

    The backpack is a nice touch here Jack.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    i wear backpacks everywhere

  • @officialmoai3107
    @officialmoai3107 Жыл бұрын

    This video kind of reminds me of the song from Cody Johnson “Til’ You Can’t”. What you can take from that song is that you will regret not taking chances that are given to you.

  • @chanshes8477
    @chanshes84774 ай бұрын

    Huge fan, Denmo. Saw lot of your videos and went up trying. So I went up this restobar near my house and there were two girls entering same time. One of them went to counter for billing and was standing behind me, I gave her the place with a nice smile so that she can order while I was paying. She went on to sit with her friend and I went on next seat to them asking if They are going to smoke because I am a non-smoker and wanted to sit here, all politely and with a smiling face. They said it's fine with a little giggling on their face. They were chatting, I sat on my table drinking my tea. After a while she built up a boat from her paper receipt. I thought maybe I can initiate or restart the paused conversation here. I asked her, "excuse me you built a good boat, could you please teach me that too while giving my receipt paper to her? I really l liked it. " And then she replied "You can just keep mine, giving me her boat and asked Why don't you google it" (Shit Test)? And I was like stumped thinking what to say now.... I said Google doesn't give perfect answers so may be a practical would be better, like you could teach me how and where to fold the paper. She replied "she doesn't take classes". And then after a while I said "Ok, no worries What's your name?" She replied politely "Why for? I don't give my name to strangers" while her friend was giggling and then I was like "Okkayy, No Problem" and then I went silent. All this happened while I was smiling, talking politely, kind of bit confident too but was not too loud like "Hey Yo Girls, Whatsupp?" as didn't want to disturb others. However I did not left my place after all that making it more embarrassing and kept sitting there like nothing has happened. Both of them were talking while laughing. Her friend was telling her that I can feel/understand you while she was whispering her something. They left after some time and once they reached the parking she was like looking at me from her bike, I looked at her and then moved my eye from her. They moved afterwards. Only thing I could get from all this was I failed her shit test, maybe I was not confident or witty enough even though I was having a smiling face. I could had said I want your name to look on google for names' build a boat company. Didn't came in mind though. However I will keep trying, may be someday soon I will crack this.

  • @icec1190
    @icec1190 Жыл бұрын

    When you just own your desires and say whatever’s on your mind you’ll get attraction fast. Especially when you stop jerking off 🔑😉. Also, rejection isn’t possible if you’re doing it for yourself having fun being authentic bc that means it just wasnt a match. We all have an internal dating checklist being projected out.

  • @Phayze101
    @Phayze101 Жыл бұрын

    omfg the cs joke got me so deep. I played competetively from 2006 to 2012. fucking legend dude, like a few people get that.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    haha cheers homie

  • @altumish
    @altumish Жыл бұрын

    u helped me approach, now u help me stop overthinking..

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    next I help you find purpose

  • @Gladiux919
    @Gladiux919 Жыл бұрын

    1:50 props for the StarCraft reference

  • @koolaidknickers8831
    @koolaidknickers8831 Жыл бұрын

    hey jack hope youre good

  • @johnmg8201
    @johnmg8201 Жыл бұрын

    I love you dude

  • @SpotCam
    @SpotCam Жыл бұрын

    Legendary Rizz.

  • @BF-eb4xs
    @BF-eb4xs Жыл бұрын

    Something I struggle with. I worry about the convo dying, or running out of shit to say. The small talk essentially. Also don’t wnana randomly approach them… and they think it’s random or weird. Overthinking is an issue. When I did have a perfect opportunity, I bailed as I wasn’t focused. I was busy. She fucking looked at me a smiled… and I blanked her. I was too focused on what I was doing, and no until after I realised I fucked up lol

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    agreed. If you still need help, check out my course homie

  • @tedpierce8885
    @tedpierce8885 Жыл бұрын

    These videos are so much better in black and white

  • @EndritAl
    @EndritAl Жыл бұрын

    Hey this girl you even approached in your old videos.Thats why she was surprised.I think in your other channel.

  • @andreas_aqua
    @andreas_aqua Жыл бұрын

    He's Canadian, he shows euros 5:15 , All of us in Europe , he has us covered too, respect

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    canada baby

  • @TonyMcKinney03
    @TonyMcKinney03 Жыл бұрын

    2:00 got me dying bro💀

  • @TheRisingSunPodcast
    @TheRisingSunPodcast Жыл бұрын

    Thank you I needed this🤙🏼🫡🍒

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    you got it homie

  • @mattia2377
    @mattia2377 Жыл бұрын

    my problem is that most of the times I don't feel like talking to girls even if I know I wouldn't be rejected. Yesterday I was at a party, the girlfriend of a friend of mine told me there were like 3 girls interested in me, especially 1, and she was also pretty, but I still did nothing and I don't know why

  • @luc6284

    @luc6284

    Жыл бұрын

    I can really relate to this. I'm known as the guy who rejects almost everyone just because he doesn't care about girls all that much. When I have a crush I will obsess over them though. Actually, I obsess over them so much that I fuck up my moves on them even if they liked me back. Perhaps approaching girls I don't have a crush on isn't such a bad idea, even if it is just to get more comfortable with girls and dating in general.

  • @bobbyhill2438
    @bobbyhill2438 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing Video Denmo!! I'm picking up what you're putting down. *But...* Where do I find settings to bump into woman? The only place I go to that has woman are grocery stores lol. (Could work!) Highschool was great for meeting others, but now I'm at a loss for locations. 🤷

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    coffee shops, restaurants, libraries, bookstores, festivals

  • @bobbyhill2438

    @bobbyhill2438

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial Speedy and solid response, thanks!! 👍🌟

  • @honkhonk5181

    @honkhonk5181

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Denmosocial how many chances do you get to talk to talk to women in those places before the staff starts catching onto the reason you’re there and ban you? All it takes is one girl to claim you made her uncomfortable to get kicked out and trespassed from the property. They will do this even if all you did was make a simple harmless mistake. It’s ironic how you say to not overthink things and just go for it when not thinking things through ahead of time is exactly what makes you end up saying something stupid and getting kicked out.

  • @Emilmoolin
    @Emilmoolin Жыл бұрын

    100k by the end of the week!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    lets goooooooo

  • @TheNicholasCarlson
    @TheNicholasCarlson Жыл бұрын

    Not going to overthink anymore

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    my man

  • @cottonlarry8470
    @cottonlarry8470 Жыл бұрын

    One big problem...I am 5'6"...no chance for me it seems

  • @xxiii262
    @xxiii262 Жыл бұрын

    Denmo it’s day 2 of the black and white screen challenge and my sleep already improved by 30 mins and I’m more motivated to do assignments at school

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    absolute legend

  • @swahilayplays

    @swahilayplays

    Жыл бұрын

    what’s that challenge?

  • @ilcondottierocartografo6770

    @ilcondottierocartografo6770

    Жыл бұрын

    Niceee

  • @HorrorWorldx
    @HorrorWorldx Жыл бұрын

    The only video on how to pick up girls that actually made me laugh. lmao gg

  • @JCB16328
    @JCB16328 Жыл бұрын

    1:59 why did I laugh so hard at this 😂😭

  • @zFrostyy.
    @zFrostyy. Жыл бұрын

    BANGER 100k by the end of the week??? I believe it will happen :)

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    ROAD TO 100

  • @frenchfriez1027
    @frenchfriez1027 Жыл бұрын

    Yo! What are your thoughts on improv classes ? Thinking of taking some to get out of my head. What’s the value of that? Would it help?

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    highly recommend them bro

  • @ericw9825
    @ericw98253 ай бұрын

    thx

  • @eastonsaccount
    @eastonsaccount Жыл бұрын

    What they are wearing pick up line is goated

  • @yun6co9ain6
    @yun6co9ain6 Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, my boy, I just did it! I was a little bit nervous but anyway I got her number) In that moment of going to approaching her I stopped thinking about what should I say, just go, boys

  • @Jonathan-co6eh
    @Jonathan-co6eh Жыл бұрын

    Just like Top Gun Maverick "Don't think, just do" hahaha

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    well said brother

  • @dpqfrequency
    @dpqfrequency Жыл бұрын

    aight bro im gonna head out next time its raining to walk along as many bus stops I can find as long as it rains. matter fact im gonna do it even without rain and act like its raining

  • @contaejus
    @contaejus2 ай бұрын

    two girl's numbers today boys

  • @nolimitsfgmmr2762
    @nolimitsfgmmr2762 Жыл бұрын

    That black dot at the top...

  • @saurabhnegi4517
    @saurabhnegi4517 Жыл бұрын

    like ths for denmo

  • @honkhonk5181
    @honkhonk5181 Жыл бұрын

    7:39 you grossly underestimate the sheer power of female disgust for guys they perceive as suboptimal. Chicks would literally rather soak in heavy rain than get within umbrella range of a guy they aren’t attracted to. She knows he’ll bother her by trying to strike up a conversation.

  • @ilcondottierocartografo6770

    @ilcondottierocartografo6770

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you sure about that bro

  • @Linkolite

    @Linkolite

    Жыл бұрын

    You sound like a total defeatist.

  • @baki577

    @baki577

    Жыл бұрын

    Bro

  • @Johnnyboybravo
    @Johnnyboybravo Жыл бұрын

    I just can't hold a conversation. It's like, I can observe and pick something... but I can't think of what to say...

  • @Ampwich

    @Ampwich

    10 ай бұрын

    Same...

  • @What-gb6vk
    @What-gb6vk Жыл бұрын

    Hello Jack, a while ago I commented and asked you if there is any hope for short guys like me. Well, I got a lot of motivation from your videos and decided to get out of my comfort zone, so not only did I go and talk to a girl, but I wanted to really test myself so I went for a girl that's like 4 inches taller than me, and guess what? She wants to go out on a date with me tomorrow.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    BROOO! GOTTA KEEP THE BOYS IN THE DISCORD POSTED

  • @timothylalrinawmakhiangte8753
    @timothylalrinawmakhiangte87532 ай бұрын

    so, i have no problems getting the number and such, but its the keeping her interest part that i fuck things up, i recently identified that IRL i talk a bit too much, and also that i also fuck things up over text so i try to avoid texting, but i really don't know how to tease properly, i think i always tend to make the tease stale or a bit offensive? please help. (Also, my community is still a bit more on the conservative side and people don't sleep around and it is very shunned, alchohol is prohibited as well, and the common mindset is that you cant really rush into a relationship so most of the advice i get online needs to get watered down a bit as well)

  • @STREEEEEET
    @STREEEEEET Жыл бұрын

    Overthinking is an attempt to control the outcome of a conversation. Don't be manipulative, just walk to a girl and say whatever you WANT to say when you had the thought to go talk to her and let the outcome be whatever. Just keep in mind that people are generally busy during daytime so don't take to long., go direct to the point. " _Hi, you're really cute. I'm Mark btw, what's your name...._ " Then just go from there. Notice that most people run out of things to say because while the person is talking they are not really paying attention, they are thinking what to say next., so it's helpful if you adopt a really curious mindset and show real interest on what the person is telling you.

  • @xboxer214
    @xboxer214 Жыл бұрын

    If women really wanted to meet a guy, they could go up to guys and have such an easy time. The reason they dont is they don't want to give up the advantage they have, they have the high ground, they can sit back, let guys put in all the work, just to say either yes or no.

  • @honkhonk5181
    @honkhonk5181 Жыл бұрын

    When people see you stopping walking girls on the sidewalk to chat them up, what’s your advice for guys who every single time they try that the girl looks visibly uncomfortable or refuses to stop at all or even speeds up? That’s the reality for most of us.

  • @ericc8475

    @ericc8475

    Жыл бұрын

    Let them walk away

  • @honkhonk5181

    @honkhonk5181

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ericc8475 Jack doesn’t let them walk away until he’s damn well finished. He keeps talking to them. How do you make them stay?

  • @viktor2338

    @viktor2338

    Жыл бұрын

    @@honkhonk5181 I thin it is better to approach girls for example in coffee, Park or other place where they are not in hurry

  • @yungmentalproblems

    @yungmentalproblems

    Жыл бұрын

    Be taller and more attractive... Duh...

  • @honkhonk5181

    @honkhonk5181

    Жыл бұрын

    @@viktor2338 If you talk to one or more girl unsuccessfully in a coffee shop they will complain about the weird guy to the managers or owners and then you aren’t allowed back. That’s how that works.

  • @milchtute8419
    @milchtute8419 Жыл бұрын

    Im a german guy. What means "weekend girlfriend" ? Google say thats like only meet for sex, but if we in germeny say in the first minutes we only want to meet for sex that would be a deal brealer because its very crude

  • @thorodinson6649

    @thorodinson6649

    Жыл бұрын

    Seemed off to me too as a native speaker, but im from canada. Maybe in his area its a more normal phrase.

  • @Linkolite

    @Linkolite

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m not familiar with the phrase as an American but we have what’s called “hookups” here or “one night stand” which is like a girlfriend for one night you know? I actually think it’s pretty crude universally, I’m 23 and I’ve never had a one night stand I’ve spoken to all the women I hooked up with for more than a week lol I would be embarrassed to treat anyone like that.

  • @DanielRodriguez-cr8ns

    @DanielRodriguez-cr8ns

    2 ай бұрын

    Eine Freundin nur für das Wochenende!

  • @21youngun
    @21youngun Жыл бұрын

    Coming up to women is just like a sales pitch .

  • @harms5527
    @harms55274 ай бұрын

    this man is so funny XD

  • @613will
    @613will Жыл бұрын

    the rizzler

  • @cryptotrading6946
    @cryptotrading6946 Жыл бұрын

    yes man

  • @nateone6632
    @nateone6632 Жыл бұрын

    God that fan of yours was killing you on camera, you handled that so well. I assume he's a fan and will learn his lesson seeing himself on cam

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    guy messed up lol

  • @digdogi1509
    @digdogi1509 Жыл бұрын

    i love you bro

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    love you too G

  • @cameronfoster5838
    @cameronfoster5838 Жыл бұрын

    Wow never this early!

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    this guy showed up

  • @derekbarddal9194
    @derekbarddal9194 Жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome jack! Keep fawkin

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    my mannn

  • @Buffbassist69
    @Buffbassist69 Жыл бұрын

    For me, most of the times when my brain is fogged up, that is the time when I see most girls. And on those days I'm kinda prepared and have this thought in mind to approach girls or do this do that, on those days I don't find any😂

  • @TheJack6966
    @TheJack6966 Жыл бұрын

    I like how denmo will do something so cringy i have to pause the video multiple times and still get the girl. Crazy.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    I sacrifice myself to help you guys

  • @TheworldaccordingtoJake
    @TheworldaccordingtoJake5 ай бұрын

    “There you are!” “Do I know you?” “No, but there you are!” Boom ice broken

  • @Mslthordos
    @Mslthordos Жыл бұрын

    Yeah bro I’m just gonna walk up to that girl in my class I’ve been procrastinating it for way too long

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    Жыл бұрын

    WE GOT THIS BOYS

  • @pazeros6424

    @pazeros6424

    Жыл бұрын

    Let us know how did it go

  • @viktor2338

    @viktor2338

    Жыл бұрын

    How it did go

  • @Mslthordos

    @Mslthordos

    Жыл бұрын

    @@viktor2338 I don’t have class again till tommorow since it was the weekend

  • @whimsabo
    @whimsabo Жыл бұрын

    Man I'm so bad at conversations Jack what do I do whenever I try to have a convo it just ends up in awkward silence it goes a lil bit here and there but it gets fd up I fumble them bags all the time...can you recommend some go to phrases and vocal stuff so it doesn't ends up in awkward silences

  • @unlxck3255

    @unlxck3255

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you have anything on your mind you would LIKE to say but you're too shy to?

  • @whimsabo

    @whimsabo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@unlxck3255 no that's the thing when I talk to people I can't process any kind of information in my head to talk to or keep the convo going I'll run out of words, vocabularies ideas

  • @joemacdougall9205

    @joemacdougall9205

    Жыл бұрын

    I think most guys have been in the same situation. I know it sounds unhelpful but you can start levelling the skill when you realise the consequences for making mistakes are essentially nothing. It won't be comfortable but it will get better.

  • @unlxck3255

    @unlxck3255

    Жыл бұрын

    @@whimsabo I had that to. You surely have moments where all of a sudden you have topics you could talk about, right? Pull out your phone and write them down immediately. Now, when you first approach a girl, you do not have to talk about anything. You mostly only need the confidence to go up to a girl at all. Keep it simple, randomly say „Hey, how are you?“ Then after talking about how you guys are, tell her that you think she looks good today and ask her out for a drink. If she rejects you, look around. You will see alot of other girls in that location alone, now imagine how many more you will see in the next hour. You see so many girls, one of them will definetly go out with you. If your hair looks good, if you have good style and if you work out, you have a 100% chance for someone to say yes. Getting rejected is nothing. You will never see that person again and if yes, just ignore her, who cares? Now, if you have your date, look at the notes with all the topics you wrote down. Try to remember 2 or 3 of them and have the courage to actually bring them up. Ask her where she is from, WALK WITH HER!! Sitting is boring. Walk with her through a mall or something and do fun activities. Go into a clothes shop, try on stuff etc… Ask her what her fav meal is. If she says „Pizza“ for example you say „i will take you out to a pizza place one day“ for example. Good luck bro, life goes on. If you think you look bad, look at what girls find attractive through insta posts etc. Maybe go on „cozyfits._“ or „fashionfever“ on instagram and steal some of the outfits or take inspiration. Start going to the gym as well. If you are a girl, im sorry for assuming you are a boy, but most of these things apply to boys aswell, even tho boys are way more easier to go out with. Good luck bro or sis :) EDIT: And the most important thing: Regretting not talking to that girl or boy later on is way worse than getting rejected. After getting rejected you will atleast be now able to tell yourself honestly "i was confident and i approached her, thats all that matters now, everything else was out of my control"

  • @imb4928

    @imb4928

    Жыл бұрын

    One piece of advice that i can say is to use your surroundings to your advantage. So if there is like a food truck, you can be like, " That food truck over there looks sick. Have you been to any food trucks recently?.....Oh, cool, what's your favorite type of food....etc." Another example, if you are at a park, you could say, "There is something so relaxing about being at a park at this time. Maybe it's the colors or the or the lack of technology around. What do you normally do/where do you normally go to relax?" Your conversation can range from scenery to the clothing someone is wearing. The sky is the limit. Be creative.

  • @rahul.9882
    @rahul.9882 Жыл бұрын

    3.06😂😂