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@robwinter3183

3 ай бұрын

I gave my email address once...a few days later she emailed me this long message about how cool it was for me to let her make the first move. BTW - it worked out very well for me.

Giving her your number actually works. I can confirm that, tried myself 🙌🏼

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

good man, send your story to my email!

@byza101

4 ай бұрын

Same here, I gave my number to an absolute worldy, framed it as I’m interested in you, can’t go partying with you as doing my own shit, I’m sure a million guys get your number, I’ll give you mine, get in touch if you’re interested… texted me as soon ad I walked away “thanks” and called later that day… anyway ended up having kids with another, but that approach works 100%

@Dluck26

Ай бұрын

@dominik7737 I’ve tried that for nearly a year now.

Ask them for NFTs 🗿

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

hahaha bruh

@Johnadams20760

4 ай бұрын

what is an NFT

@patc2515

4 ай бұрын

Lmao that was awesome

@McK9999

4 ай бұрын

That's amore ❤

@timothyn4699

3 ай бұрын

all men only want one thing

If you give her your number, and she texts you back, she is definitely interested in some way. It works and I’ve tried this before.

Wish I could have had this advice a few hours earlier cause I fumbled the bag so hard w this girl the exact way he’s describing it 😭

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

all good now you know

@arcadehayabusu2295

2 ай бұрын

SAAAAME 😢😢😢

By giving her your number you basically filter out those who only want attention or simply gave you their number without any intentions. Great content as always bro!

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

yup makes life easier

@selfish2.0

5 ай бұрын

I don't give em mines cus I'm not gon call or text em.

@ackerjawaka4742

4 ай бұрын

I used to give them the number for the local police station and yes I did think it was funny 😜

@ch-co9ox

2 ай бұрын

So what happened if the girl is so shy ??

I realized the reason I don’t get girls actually has nothing to do with my looks. I’ve gotten random compliments from different women before. It’s because besides going to work and the gym I stay home all day. I would have nothing for us to do on a date if I asked her out because I don’t ever go out to do anything fun myself

@nolifezay4636

5 ай бұрын

Make up shit then

@daryltracy7949

5 ай бұрын

Relatable😭

@neymar1231

4 ай бұрын

Same

@timothyn4699

3 ай бұрын

sounds like you know what step1 should be

"You never double text from a position of power" There has never been a more true statement than this lol

Facts. I have learned this date-first-then-number trick 7 years ago, and that increases your odds to get a date to like 50% :D

Thank you Jack I appreciate you making these videos, It feels like someone out there actually cares about us men who are struggling with life. Thanks again Jack.

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

all good brotha I help you and then one day the world improves

@chainmanz7476

4 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial thats a nice ass thought process, inspirational mate.

from all content creators with their own "school" worldwide , i have to say that you are the most legit. I can confirm 99% of what you say by my own experience, you are just spiting facts . But the sad thing is that most guys dont understand that those concepts are build and not learned indirectly and they sit inside wondering.

@alexpivniouk8421

5 ай бұрын

real shit

@CapitanFinnart

4 ай бұрын

I can confirm this guy is spitting cap.

@dark_nightwing_xl2797

3 ай бұрын

@@CapitanFinnart😂

This video again proves why you are the only one who cares about people. I mean others care too but they also care for themselves if you know what mean. You definitely have helped me in my dating game. The information you are sharing is priceless. Thank you.

Bro i'm grateful you've put this info on internet, it is pure gold

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

Glad to hear it

I tried the giving girls my number thing for a few years. Last year I switched to taking the girls number first and started having more success with it. Girls don’t take initiative and therefore I missed shots by not texting them first

@hzskillz1721

5 ай бұрын

Exactly

@BWater-yq3jx

4 ай бұрын

Yup. Even if she's interested, she's not gonna text you if other guys are already texting her.

@timothyn4699

3 ай бұрын

that's a large concern, most girls won't initiate, so I have doubts that she would text you first (but, if she does, shows she has interest)

@arcadehayabusu2295

2 ай бұрын

​@timothyn4699 I ain't Gon lie, it depends on what you looking for, cause sometimes, u just gotta let them initiate first to see if that previous conversation sparked them interest.

@stocothedude

2 ай бұрын

@@arcadehayabusu2295exactly

I love how the title of the vid is immediately elaborated with no BS. Good content Denmo. I’m watching in the gym parking lot waiting for gym bro to pull up. 👍🏼

@Denmosocial

4 ай бұрын

atta boy best time to watch vids

This is very valuable. Now that I think of it a lot of interactions with some of my female friends felt strange because I wanted to make sure we do something they enjoy, so I asked them and they didn't have any idea. I think I should ask them something specific first, and then change if necessary.

You're the older brother I never had. Thank you Jack👍❤️

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

gotchu brother

True. Gotta hype up the date first. The date that YOU would enjoy. Date = lunch + beach + farmers market. Then see if she's stoked on it. If stoked. Get the number.

@nolifezay4636

5 ай бұрын

But how do I get to that point

@JadensWisdom

4 ай бұрын

@@nolifezay4636by talking to women

@infinity_1486

4 ай бұрын

>see her >be attracted to her >walk up to her >do the initial steps described in the original comment@@nolifezay4636

@NoRockinMansLand

3 ай бұрын

Too much for a first date

This is GOLD. Absolutely right.

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

gotcha brother

Jack just wanted to say you're an absolute killer. Appreciate you

You’re amazing Denmo. Thanks for what you do

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

gotchu brother

You nailed the ending, bro, solid video! New sub

Thanks Jack!!!

Very important video and a very easy thing to forget to do while approaching. Easier said than done and will take a lot of practice to not forget it. Socializer all the way🤘

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

yup

Denmo knows what he's talking about. I saw this video this morning and by the afternoon same day, I got a number from this baddie with a date set up

Love your mission

I never ask for they numbers, social media or nun of that.

You are great man!

Use of the word "bro " was super comforting . Thank you

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

gotchu bro

@alals6794

4 ай бұрын

Must be a generational thing because in the 1980s, 1990s, even 2000's us men used bro only with people we knew well, and not strangers. Dude was fro strangers, or "man", etc

This vid came right on time.Thanks bro

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

gotchu brother

Came across this video and this guy definitely understands women. Am 64 and have been giving women my number for decades rather than asking for theirs. I would say over 80% of the time this has led to sex. I also let them know I am an extremely busy guy but that she seems like an interesting woman that I will make time for. Women in my experience appreciate that.

WHY DIDDNT YOU MAKE THIS VIDEO EARLY MY GUY HOLLYYY YOU COULD'VE HELP ME SAVE MY SELF OMGGG

This actual make sense. Thanks for this tips and tricks, i will try to used

100% testing the "give your number" move gotta grow more BALLZ

Hey denmo I know you for 7 years now, and your videos feel like bigger brother advice for me, good to see u back brother👍🏻

@alals6794

4 ай бұрын

The author has been on KZread for SEVER YEARS.........damn, long time

The reason I don’t like asking a woman on a date before I text her is because if I took her out on a date before we text, then she could ghost me after the date. I will be so mad after I spent money on her. Also, I want to get to know the girl a little bit before I take her on a date because she may do something that’s a turn off to me. For example, she may smoke weed. I’d never date someone that smokes weed so I need to know basic things like that before I take her on a date and spend money on her. Lastly, I don’t like the idea of spending money on a complete stranger. Her texting me back tells me that she’s interested and worth being taken out on a date.

@livelylogan

5 ай бұрын

Bro why would you not date a girl just because she uses cannabis occasionally? That’s wild man

@tyronewilson7890

5 ай бұрын

@@livelylogan I never smoked and no one in my family smokes so I don’t want to bring the into my family. Also that’s a bad sign for a person

@freedomplease3244

5 ай бұрын

Facts

@colbyfroude2941

5 ай бұрын

That’s why you should spent time together before you really try to get romantic with people. Actually learn who the person is.

@whodat1967

5 ай бұрын

​@@colbyfroude2941 Easy way to get emotionally attached to someone too early

Yeah that always happens to me and I always get rejected or ghosted . It doesn’t matter which way the result always ends the same

fun and useful thx man

Damn this is good advice! Thanks!

The first time I gave a girl my number and was friendly about it, she ended up wanting to get my attention more. I didn't understand at the time how I was more successful that way and didn't know the science behind it. Whenever I got a girl's number later on, I got ghosted quite abit.

You are the only one here who is not lying.

w video bro great advice

Balls. This made me chuckle.

I’ve noticed that the most effective form of communication with women is tell them the why/reasoning first then the question/request.

Solid advice

Warm approach is always better than cold approach. 😄

Whatever advice etc, but at the end of the day she is the one who says YES if the time is right. So actually you don't decide the relationship. Let her choose you. But there's the difference if you just running around. About the video topic itself - great overview and info!

@alals6794

4 ай бұрын

Not true....my now wife admitted she wanted to marry me from the start but I only married her after some years of dating.

@nosmokejazwinski6297

Ай бұрын

She doesn’t get to say “YES” if she doesn’t get proposed in the first place. So Nope, she does not decide the relationship/marriage.

It does actually make more sense to give her your number. If she's interested she will reach out.

@BWater-yq3jx

4 ай бұрын

Ehhhh. If she's attractive, other dudes are contacting her. She doesn't need to reach out.

@NoRockinMansLand

3 ай бұрын

Yeah, if she likes you it will be easy. It depends on her attraction to you, this is more so for who are in the grey zone

Cold approach is tough...Either she isn't available or not into you. I think if both are there it doesn't matter what you say.

Good sensible advice

I dont needs girls i need my dreams which is being in the military, firefighting, sewage diver, nutrionalist,great 6 pack in the future,larping in military gear on occasion, security guard all thatt

@selfish2.0

5 ай бұрын

Facts, there's better things than women.

@GR-uc1gq

5 ай бұрын

Right now mine is get shredded, enlisting, get my pilot certs, become a personal trainer,

@BWater-yq3jx

4 ай бұрын

Sewage?

Funny that... I had this kind of situation a few days ago and without ever watching, or knowing that this video exists, I did everything and nothing he said... Like, how did I manage to hit this so perfectly in the middle?

I like date-before-number because, when I was last dating, it wasn't even polite to ask a girl out over text. It was voice call or in-person. Texting a date invite was low-quality, and could lose you the date all on its own.

The advice is so timely, I had a girl come over and I took her number but now I’m stuck in the zone where I can’t come off as too needy now. Appreciate the vid jack

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

no problem bro email me your story

I approached for the 1st time today after years of thinking

Good tips aside...i Love what you did there with the video length bait comment.

@Denmosocial

4 ай бұрын

I already forget what you mean by that haha

@humblewoodcutter3000

3 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial I think you dropped your BALLZ.

Jack you are like my big brother ❤

Bowling--great idea, dude

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

do it man

Give her the option to take my number, bro thats liberating, we all have the puzzle completed, time to act

Balls. Brian from the Netherlands

I know this but many times a „HV man“ does NOT have even IDEA because many other things are going on. I habe 3 soundtracks to finish, the date is the last thing to set in the list. Give me your number , stay available, and i call when i can

Whole thing seems like a phony game. Bad enough you gotta do that in the corporate world.

This all sounds plausible Xcept when I've been the one to give her my number she is able to throw it away later. Putting the option in her hands is like flipping a coin cause she stands to lose nothing. Xman

@tvr419

4 ай бұрын

If she does not text you first then she's not interested. Simple

Balls - I am old and still a bit of a novice, but have long more or less used these techniques (date idea first, and certainly "You take my number"). And, probably because I am old, have never used anything other than Cold (well, Cold-ish) Approach. I have just got to continue working on myself to further improve my results. Cheers.

I do this but every girl still says she has a boyfriend or straight up says she’s not interested lol

This American thing of getting from A to Z on the first interaction really sucks. The best thing is if you get to see each other a few times and build it up.

@BWater-yq3jx

4 ай бұрын

Yeah I've certainly done it, but often it means you're actually making life difficult for yourself. Absolutely lost count of the number of women that weren't up for it straight away, who got keen around the 3rd date. 😉

Balls? I mean, I've always done this, like i always say "want my number?" instead of "give me your number"

For sure❤

Thanks bro! I had a CRAZY night. 🔥Made out with a 10 in the middle of the street, Got 2 girls insta, and went on an amazing date! 😎 Here’s some details since you asked: 1) I’ve been playing electric guitar on the street for months now and this is the first time girls approached me like this. The blondie 10 kissed me on the cheek, went sang a song with us and we started making out (ofc i was being a socializer so held deep eye contact, chatted, good body language, present to the moment and calibrated etc…) and she said i quote “you’re so fucking hot btw” beeest fucking compliment of my life from probably one of the hottest girls ive seen. But some drama happened and couldn’t ask for her number (gotta be quicker) 2) So anyway then some girl appeared sayin “my friend thinks you’re cute wants your ig” i called the girl over calibrated said I’m shy too no worries and started chatting to make her feel comfortable. Like you said in this video right there we set up a date to go to some bar with cool drinks, texted her next day, went on the date, we vibed she turned out to be very cool, kind and like minded, i was surprisingly present and fully myself while leading self amusing and taking the pressure off us. then we went to an arcade bar played games etc… hopefully we’ll get closer over a few more dates, she was very shy when it came to physicality but overall i am very happy feels like i am living life so thanks a lot mann learning from your videos a lot! 😎🙏👊

Thanks for the video Denmo, what camera and mic you use for filming?

Dang this guy is good. He even knows I live in my parents basement.

I basically did exact this strategy and now she's being flakey when I text her about the days we agreed on in person.

@PeterSven10

4 ай бұрын

Sometimes it be like that bro. There’s always other girls out there

@BWater-yq3jx

4 ай бұрын

Yeah just move on.

I agree with the first section,but i dont know about giving her your number...It worked once for me but basicaly i think its my duty to make the first move and make the things work for the first date..

Get the girl and then the number.

If she doesn't text you back then she isn't attracted enough, it's that simple. You play the numbers game, you naturally get better at talking to women. Everything else becomes far easier. And as always, looks play a significant factor

Sometimes we don’t want to share things that work but I doubt we’ll ever see the same girl. The first text I always send later after getting the number. “I found this number in a bathroom stall it said call for a good time” Works ever time. None of that “Hey” shiit lol

@ViltrumiteIsRite99

5 ай бұрын

Hahahah, huh? What was the reaction to that tho?

@BWater-yq3jx

4 ай бұрын

That's actually not bad, lol.

Yes this is a very important technique and it works . False time constraint + this. What annoys me is how These angels 😇 fall for techniques! It is so uncreative , i have to run a routine and remember to never quote Hegel. Gonna try another and better challenge than being an automat

@LearnCompositionOnline

5 ай бұрын

Walks also never works, and Instagram. But the contrary does. Despicable beings

@LearnCompositionOnline

5 ай бұрын

I know this but many times a „HV man“ does NOT have even IDEA because many other things are going on. I habe 3 soundtracks to finish, the date is the last thing to set in the list. Give me your number , stay available, and i call when i can

Perfect video

I noticed something , the girl you wre talkingto around the 4.30 mark i swearing a pretty nearly matching shirt to yours lol

Fresh & Fit podcast baby!

Priceless value for you all, if you used something and got results I want you to email me your story

@LifeWisdomTV

5 ай бұрын

I’ll see if I can make you proud this semester

Don't ask numbers, ask social media

Look at these, these are nice eh!!!

I always imagine girls screaming or being super offended or doing something horrifying if i approach so im 21 and never in my life approached girl nor had a girlfriend 🤦‍♂🤦‍♂

@PeterSven10

4 ай бұрын

This almost sounds like a phobia or something, and you might benefit from talking to a therapist about this. Just trying to help a fellow bro 🤜🏽🤛🏽

Reads title. Let me stop you right there…I ask ‘em if they wanna get my number instead 😏

I’ve seen that girl in the thumbnail in a pranksters video before… I think it was either Steven shapiro’s or Juan’s from That Was Epic

Your approach videos keep it 100, r they real? Cuz if not isnt recording the girl w out her knowing a lil iffy?

Interesting. I've heard mystery should be there too, if you're upfront about the date the initial mystery isn't there?

@PeterSven10

4 ай бұрын

I think you misinterpreted it lol

Jeez I wish I didn't have to work so damn late. It's hard finding chicks at 20 working like this. Ik you made a whole ass video abt it but fuck 💀😂😂

00:27 🚪 Approach, attract, and initiate conversation with women before asking for their number. 01:51 📅 Set up a specific date idea before asking for a girl's phone number. 03:02 📱 Ask the girl to take your number instead of asking for hers to prevent flakes and ghosting. 07:00 💬 Let the girl start the conversation by asking her to take your number, creating engagement.

Ask them for their life savings..if the don't give it to you they're not interested

Gotta have "BALLS!"

I didn't used to be forgettable, based on my dating life pre-marriage. But I've clearly completely forgotten how to flirt. But the low quality of women over 30 honestly makes learning again seem like a waste of time. Every available woman over 30 is fat, or a divorced mom, or thinks being a boss-babe makes her attractive. Or worse yet, she's a combo of those.

bawls

Balls, definitely balls I always did that

Also what are your thoughts about dating in Sutton and the surrounding areas like Pefferlaw?

@AZITHEMLGPRO

5 ай бұрын

Tf😂

Stop chasing girls. Ignore them and focus on yourself. They will come themselves

@Mysterious-Night

5 ай бұрын

They will come themselves 😂

@Denmosocial

5 ай бұрын

this guy clicked a video just to type this and thinks he's making a point

@gintoki_sakata__

5 ай бұрын

😂.. "They'll come themselves" Come back to reality

@LukeGilroy

5 ай бұрын

“Ignore them and focus on yourself” What part of yourself are you working on? If you improve your material wellbeing and physical fitness BUT you don’t work on your social skills you’re actually NEGLECTING yourself in a different way.

@jimbobfisher8904

5 ай бұрын

Let them waste their money, resources and mental sanity by simping and doing anything in life for a f*ckin womens validation honestly pathetic and weak lol😂 they don’t have other shit in life together but they think “hey I get bitches so I’m good “😂

:40 exactly what happened to me yesterday

good point, but still low game ...

@jaydenniemi

4 ай бұрын

wdym??

@aiLoveE

4 ай бұрын

@@jaydenniemi listen to coach eo, and u will understand ;-)

Yeahhh that still doesn't work all the time. I tried that one time. She ended up bringing her friend on the cofee date.