Do This Before Approaching Girls (Works Every Time)
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@Nilz_2024 Жыл бұрын
Discomfort lasts for the moment, but regret lasts for ever
@Nico-gp7if
2 ай бұрын
that's so true...
@RoBGold700
7 күн бұрын
Agreed 👍🏻
@mannyrodriguez39339 ай бұрын
Approached a girl at my job. She works as a delivery driver and I saw her down at the docks and decided to talk with her a bit. She ended up being pretty nice and very funny. I even asked her to hang out, she rejected me but I walked away feeling good. I at least tried. I could have been afraid to approach, but instead I decided to act on my interest in her. And although she didn’t want to go out, I felt good knowing I have no regrets in just trying.
@Thunderfistboxing
4 ай бұрын
You did the best my friend.Respect.
@jumschess Жыл бұрын
Approached a girl today and talked to her for 20 minutes. I thought she was attractive but I kept the conversation light and friendly at first but as it progressed I was able to tease her from time to time. I think not rushing the interaction and genuinely trying to get to know a person takes the pressure off and stops you worrying about being rejected. Instead of fumbling my words I seemed super relaxed and slow and calm as I just asked her basic questions but if I immediately said that I think she’s cute or something I would’ve fumbled it. You got to build up guys, one step at a time! Highly recommend a low expectation approach for your first one just to get warmed up. And remember to have fun with it! I was having a great time making bad jokes and saying stupid shit :)
@Flo2
Жыл бұрын
Awesome, thank you for sharing your experience!
@Flo2
Жыл бұрын
How did you approach her?
@jumschess
Жыл бұрын
@@Flo2 just sat down at her table at my university cafeteria and made an observation/joke about her bag and then asked her how her day was going making occasional observations about her and asking questions about her life and offering things about me in relation to her answers. Conversation flowed very well and she started asking me questions too!
@Flo2
Жыл бұрын
@@jumschess I love to hear that, keep it up!🙈
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
keep up the good work my man and share your progress in the discord
@joseph93957 Жыл бұрын
Going out with friends is the best. Ur already having a great time and talking a lot. Then talking to the cute girl over there is so much easier. And u have the support of ur buddies. If it's women friends, they may even help u.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
agreed brother
@peter9703
Жыл бұрын
@@Denmosocial but what is when im have no Friends
@themightynonso
Жыл бұрын
@@peter9703your priority should then to be to make friends. Think about it this way: would you want to date a girl who doesn't know how to keep friends? How would she know how to treat you
@HeyMaxIsMyName
Жыл бұрын
It's easier to build state when you're with friends/wingmen
@habsmcj
Жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more lol, once you start out as friends and then find similar interests it gets so much easier
@ratojo4947 Жыл бұрын
Language classes really helps. As a language nerds, I didn't really thought that girls would be more interested in that than guys. But I had classes where the ration was 8 girls to 1 boys. It's a good place to interact, plus you have to practise and do speaking exercises between classmates. Guys, if you like learning languages, don't keep learning it alone, and take a language class in a group.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
well said thanks for sharing brother
@RefalaStas
Жыл бұрын
That's a good one actually.
@darshanpatel.1782
Жыл бұрын
I'm already into it 😩 let's hope it a similar ratio here
@baviation1872
Жыл бұрын
Yess, I’m in a French class and it’s probably 5:1 girls. And we have speaking exercises every day where we need a partner so it’s great to get to know people.
@tonyhendrix2951
Жыл бұрын
Where do you take language classes at?
@Flo2 Жыл бұрын
I am currently into building social skills. Last week I found me in a situation (in university library) where a girl came and sat down on the other side of the table. I wanted to start a conversation with her, cause in my mind i had this thought 'Come on, you want get more socially skilled when it comes to approaching women!'. After quite some minutes I did the thing where I counted to 5 in my head and then just approached her by asking 'what do you study?' We ended up speaking for 30mins, then she got to go (she is around 22, I am 19). I did not ask for her number because I was just pretty happy that we had such a nice conversation. In the end she said 'By the way, my name is Julia. [Yeah I kinda messed it up - we were kinda in a flow so that I was not able to ask for her name] Maybe we'll see each other at some time again!' It was so fun and maked me so happy that I got such a nice conversation just by approaching her! Will do it again soon if I feel like wanting to do it again!
@tassv5909
Жыл бұрын
just go there once a week. looks super undesperate if you only ask her out after the 3rd time you meet.
@Synchronizado
Жыл бұрын
@@tassv5909 Its better to hold your hand if you know you will routinely see that person you want to go out with, its the same advice when approaching girls in the gym, have a nice chat, do your thing, have a nice chat, do your thing, ask what she did in the weekend, suggest to hang out.
@darkrangerl
Жыл бұрын
That's the point having nice conversations, reconising the mental barrier with intent purpose and focuses that's placed above set situation (counting to 5, telling yourself you want to be better with approaching woman, and being more skilled at social interactions) well defined higher purpose that stems from internal goals and ambitions. Well done! What I would add is to 'messed up barrier' change this into ' delibaretly messin with her' and owning it believe me there's where to fun lies not by being happy you messed up :) Cheers keep it up! Good work!
@Flo2
Жыл бұрын
@@darkrangerl Thank you so much for your comment and tips! I really appreciate that! I hope, you have an amazing rest of the day! :)
@lakshaykr246
10 ай бұрын
Maked
@sjlbx Жыл бұрын
When going out I usually talk to female classmates/aquaintances first to get into the rhythm of talking to girls. Helps a lot.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
well said brother
@dustinhernandez8214 Жыл бұрын
Like Rocky said " It ain't about how hard you're hit, it's about how you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward.That's how winning is done" you really helped me visualize it better with the boxing examples. Thank you Denmo.
@rickperez1566 Жыл бұрын
Rejection is more valuable than hope without an end.
@YuraF96 Жыл бұрын
I check these videos to see if I do everything right. What can I say, this guy knows what he’s talking about. Totally agree. Great content!
@Kozak910 Жыл бұрын
Women are HUMANS and treat them like they are dudes in neutral situations and then learn how to flirt etc.. Literally guys just start doing service jobs with women as a coworkers. You are actually learning 3 important skills at once. Dating, small talk and marketing are very similar, remember that
@yeahrightbear888310 ай бұрын
The warm-up is so true. I'm a salesman, and I approach dozens of people a day. But my first couple of approaches for the day suck until I get warmed up. But after the 2nd or 3rd approach, I start crushing, and I don't even think about what I'm going to say or anything. It's all just improvised. But now I'm trying to translate that over to talking to girls. What I have learned through sales is that most people who aren't in sales have no idea about the tricks we use. When I was learning, I was like, No one is going to fall for that, but they do every single time. I've watched my mentor, and he just says the magic words and the customers are literally begging him to take their money. By the way, he's 68 years old and has a 35 year old wife. The dude is magic with words.
@thomaseadbhardmcqueen7511 Жыл бұрын
This is great advice. I've learned that this sort of method can really get my confidence up too. By the time you've talked to a couple strangers, approaching a woman is so much less nerve-wracking. Even if you can approach a woman confidently, it's so much better to practice beforehand so you're more confident, even just the slighest bit moreso. Great vid as always, Jack
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
atta boy keep it up
@sebastiankormnendy2651 Жыл бұрын
HOL UP WHY DID nobody told me that upercuting a girl and draging her in to cave is not a proper way to get women
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
bro now you know!
@isaiahyounggod2723
Жыл бұрын
???
@Chernostenmark Жыл бұрын
For me I have no issues talking to strangers (male or female) even as an introvert or female relatives or acquaintances since there is no hidden agenda and I am not trying to attract them. But when it comes to going up to attractive women and pursuing them romantically, that is what I dont know how to do. It is like I shut down and all of a sudden stop being myself because I see her as this otherwordly being, I am not exaggerating here either. That is what it just feels like.
@spijker_
Жыл бұрын
Dont ever put anyone on a pedestal
@mouadrimwind8839
Жыл бұрын
Try to go to settings where people naturally socialize and where you could meet strangers organically like dance classes , language exchange events, it would remove the barrier of speaking to a stranger since you share a common context.
@Proposal12
8 ай бұрын
Approach them like you already know them, as with all those others...no hidden agenda, just simply you being interested in her...
@100-DaysOfRejection Жыл бұрын
I have to say you're a great example of what I want to be in the future. Discover something you can do well. Something that others ask you with help with all the time. Monetize it. And suddenly you're free.
@fogdood6868 Жыл бұрын
I haven't talked to women in my entire life.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
why are you here
@zerzban758
Жыл бұрын
And yr Mum ?
@fogdood6868
Жыл бұрын
@@Denmosocial need practice
@spijker_
Жыл бұрын
@@fogdood6868 well, theres no better practice than trial and error. Go out there man!
@tobiasreaper2605
Жыл бұрын
You can do it man
@BrianWKohls11 ай бұрын
I was sick for the past 7 days so 0 but now that I'm better I'm going to get myself back out there. Thanks for the videos and advice as always denmo!
@Denmosocial Жыл бұрын
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@juicypies4294
Жыл бұрын
me
@alecboss9809
Жыл бұрын
me
@aladinovtepih2679
Жыл бұрын
me
@billyboy4283
Жыл бұрын
me
@PzKpfwTigerIsBest
Жыл бұрын
Naturally
@MrKrusten Жыл бұрын
i have seemingly a dozen different ways to make it easier for me to talk to women but i never ever thought of warming up before it with easier conversations. Thanks
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
all good bro. Share these videos with your friends
@cappuccino-1721 Жыл бұрын
I was having a conversation with a sweet young lady and I walked away from her to hang out with my fiends instead. I haven’t stoped thinking about it since, and it happened almost a year ago. Since then, my game has been down and I haven’t been going out as much. I got a few girls numbers after that but they all wound up ghosting me in the end. I just have to say, that your videos are helping me a lot. What are you saying about rejection and not having confidence is spot on. I’m a handsome guy, but I’m shy because I lack charisma and confidence. I didn’t make a lot of friends in high school or college and the friends I do have don’t go out often. Your videos are helping me out a lot, and I’m hoping to be a better man by the end of this year. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos, it really help’s people like me gain confidence, and handle rejection better. 😊
@x.xdemon01 Жыл бұрын
thank you so much my brother Denmo. I really enjoy watching your videos and I do get a lot of information about women and stuff
@justajames Жыл бұрын
I'm really good at communicating with people, I work at a speciality coffee shop, it's unique because I talk with the client, about anything really, and I try to have a connection, talking with clients actually helped me out on developing my social skills, used to be a Melvin, now I'm a Chad ::)
@orange_turtle34124 ай бұрын
Watching this on my big 25 inch PC monitor rn instead of my phone. Denmo's face is a lot sweatier than it looks on your phone
@amispecial6583 Жыл бұрын
Watching your vedios got the confidence and yesterday i went to a shop,, suddenly a cute girl also came, she was standing beside me waiting for her chance to take somthing and i got in to talk with her telling some jork like it will take more hours to get our grocery items, then she smiled and said yes .., then we got in to a intresting fashion conversation which i m doing ladies fashion clothing page online and finally she said she likes fashion too and gave her number to get cloths from me.., the confidence was came from you denmo..thanks 💗
@zFrostyy. Жыл бұрын
Thanks for helpin out the boys with these social skills vids🙏🏻
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
no worries share em with your mates
@vendingservices8900 Жыл бұрын
I realize what my issue has been. I’ve never had a gf, but I’ve had a lot of dates and had a lot of girls obsessed with me. That was all mostly in HS, because I worked full time throughout school. Your socializing with women in school and work. Now I’m an entrepreneur, so I’m not around them as often. I walked with my buddy to his college class last week. On the way back, I talked to 3 different girls. They were everywhere! Got 1 date without even asking. That’s the thing. You have to make sure your positioning yourself.
@jasongetzify6473 Жыл бұрын
Been rejected but doesn’t really hurt. The top concern is when I fail the conversation in front of everybody even though it shouldn’t be big deal cause they would know me around campus. Also don’t want to come off as a creep and to approach smoothly to probably the 5 second rule to make it less weird. As long as their saying it kindly I’m ok with that. Little by little getting a bit experienced. I fear more if I don’t ever get one to be honest than to get rejected. Sometimes rejection is funny because it’s so predictable like on video or coming up to random people hehe. Anyways hope for the best.
@davidburton4342Ай бұрын
I start with a simple how are you. I read the response, then decide if I want to try. If you see a nice smile, that’s definitely a go. I always have some pre loaded questions or comments to keep a chat going. You can usually avoid rejection by asking if they are married, or have a bf. If they say no, your odds go way up. It’s a tough game, mostly trying to find someone who you think would match up w you. Being in a good mood helps a lot, I think positivity is attractive. I’m 0 wins 13 losses since I have been looking😮. I’m not throwing in the towel yet😊 great video 👍
@emergencyeducationpoint19709 ай бұрын
I’m a newer subscriber, and I do want to say that in my heyday I never had to practice. It was an automatic thing. Rejection wasn’t even considered even when it happened and was rare I would like to think lol but now I’m older age I sure could use some help and appreciate it. I lost my confidence. Thanks man.
@sanjaysayshi Жыл бұрын
Solid video man much appreciated!
@yearofthegarden Жыл бұрын
Amazing job thinking out of the box, as always
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
cheers garden, share it with your friends to help them too
@pwtprojects5610 Жыл бұрын
We (not me) are missing the point, the fact that we have to "study" how to approach a woman is the sign that men are considered like crap by the let's call it modern feminism, there was a time when everyone got married without trouble. So, if a woman dont want to be with me, i just cancel that woman and try with someone else. Single women with dogs is the future, you can see them right now between 30 and 45 years old, pretty women walking by themselves with dogs......the future is dark.
@Unidentified4 Жыл бұрын
Failing is still infinitely times better than not trying at all
@stefan.w979
10 ай бұрын
Well said
@Normabbot27 Жыл бұрын
A lot of men in this comment section think it’s black and white, Chad and Melvin- if you don’t think you have what it takes, embrace the qualities that you do have and then even if you are a Melvin you will be able to get Chad things done. I think no matter what your specific odds of getting a woman are, going out in real life is going to be better than being online.
@233.. Жыл бұрын
0:37 dude😂😂 ur gifted in natural comedy👍🏻
@twiistnutter Жыл бұрын
Saw a previous upload of yours that I really enjoyed, this came up in my recommended, and I laughed so hard at 1:05 I had to instantly subscribe. Can't wait for more content
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
welcome brother, glad I earned your subscription. wont let u down
@jeniapustilnik56710 ай бұрын
Learning to be a social person after years of not being one ,is a hard job indeed. You cant expect years of not being social to go away after you approach a girl or two once or twice a week Also,if you have emotion baggage you need to solve this will always hold you back from reaching your true potential. Get emotionally smart.. unleash you true potential
@rahulshendre7089 Жыл бұрын
I heard this from a video, so he said, just talk to 5 women daily, like ask for directions and leave do little small talk talk and leave immediately over the course of a month you would have talked to over 100 women, now you aren't scared of approaching girls/ women and now you need the momentum , like you said just have a basic conversation with someone to get in the flow nad now you are warmed you
@SamHarborneUncut Жыл бұрын
The analogies are really good actually, great video.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
cheers mate, IMO analogies are the best way to teach people
@Guus115 Жыл бұрын
Inverse the mindset. Go for rejections. Than you wont be dependent on the outcome and be more aloof and in the flow
@rememberushongkong Жыл бұрын
Talking to girls isn't that hard since I am still in school. Have been learning that for years and when I am in a new environment like a class, I try just being myself and chat to people. I start convos with girls, and vice versa. Social is bilateral. Now I am starting online chats with guys and girls that are gonna be my future classmates (I'm out of town for a year and I know them irl) so when I go back, I will be ready to blend into my new environment. After the trials and tribulations, I will def by ready when I am at college.
@bry4n_h Жыл бұрын
Damn Denmo coming with them COMBINATION PUNCHES
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
going for the finish
@taivo57532 ай бұрын
That’s why I always tell every girl I’m just practicing before I asked for their number.👍🏼
@connorallgood092211 ай бұрын
I just need to work on my social skills with people in general. It's always hard for me to keep conversation going with people I don't know well. I just started college and so I'm pushing myself out there, doing a bunch of events to where I know I will have to talk to people and trying to talk as much as I can, but whenever it's outside of an event I feel like I have nothing to talk about, I don't know how to keep the conversation going without it getting akward.
@squistermidward2214 Жыл бұрын
Been watching this channel quite a bit lately. It's cool to see someone go out and do approaches instead of just talking about them. I just got done reading books like The Mystery Method and the Game and realized something. Knowing game is very different from having game. If you don't go out and actually DO approaches, you will never get better because all those Denmo video/Pickup lines are just gonna be stuck back there. Unless you're comfortable, everything you try to say will come out as a jumbled mess. But if you put yourself out there constantly, things will slow down and those lines (or god forbid, your personality) will start to come to mind when you need it. I'm trying to do 20 approaches a day now and while I'm still on that training arc, things like rejection are starting to sting less. Just got to get out in the field and do the work. 😤
@Rolfcast Жыл бұрын
Its been so long without watching one of your videos, glad you're back. I'm 34 and yesterday after jogging and some workout at the park i met a lady she was about 40. I took my time because i was taking sunset pictures. Aprox 10 minutes later i make my approach and it was totally natural and easy going conversation and she's a totally 10, i was just testing myself with a women older than me. Afterwards when i get home, i realized that she's a tv host lol. I congratulated myself, because im like a 6 and the girls i use to attrack they're like 25-29 years old because i look like that age.
@ZeDanseur6 ай бұрын
1. Warm up : talk to people in random situation, for example in a store asking more explanation on something or just calling a friend. You have to warm up your mind and the musles that allow you to talk fluently 2. Talk to 2 to 3 girls a days : the more the practice, the better you will be. take examples of professional fighter, always training and aiming for the right movement so much that it become NATURAL for them 3. Be ready to get HIT and not GIVE UP after. You can lessen the impact by "fighting" someone on your weight class. In flirthing it means starting with an "okayish" girls first, then you'll be able to progress and aim even higher. I did that, and guys, you will discover that in a party as the 5/10 guy, you can be the one banging a girl because you'll will be the confident one whereas the other cute guy are just shy
@Bohomhad Жыл бұрын
This was the video I needed. I have thought about this exact thing over the last week as I was going to approach a girl at the gym but decided against it. I figured I need to go practice talking to some other strangers first, maybe the guys at the gym as even that feels intimidating for me. I’m not sure why I feel so afraid, Denmo you’ve pumped up my tires a bit when explaining that most of the viewers would be 2s 3s or 4s because they don’t go to gym or don’t have their own business. I’m not sure what I would rate myself out of 1-10 but I’m 6’3, have always played sport, have been going to gym consistently for a month and a half, and run my own business. I just need to get my confidence up so it seems that practicing/warming up is the best way to do it
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
bro you are gonna do fine. You're just procrastinating. IF you continue to struggle then I recommend my course
@DBD801 Жыл бұрын
Took the dog to the vet and there was a really cute chick with her cat and we were waiting for about an hour and just talked the whole time had a nice engaging convo and it was super refreshing. But of course I didn’t grab her number and I didn’t see her again 🤦🏼♂️
@aksula-1 Жыл бұрын
Gotta give props to all you guys. Numerous self improvement KZreadrs like yourself. Hamza, How to Beast, etc., in listening and paying very close attention to you guys, I've finally yielded results in my life. I'm getting matches on dating apps more than ever before, and sooner or later, one will show up for a date. It's a numbers game, and rejection only means to move on and try the next one 😎 Sooner or later results will come
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
amazing that you are getting results homie
@v.thelastboyscout2822
11 ай бұрын
Not meaning to discourage you but I wouldn't call this results
@ssalloum11 Жыл бұрын
Landscaping engineering company, got me good hahaha
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
there it is
@johnpunksoul5005 Жыл бұрын
very nice points and video
@victorsamsung2921 Жыл бұрын
I've been approaching women as light-heartedly as possible at my local college (where there are about +15.000 students), the public swimming pool I visit on a weekly basis and down on the street or at the bus/train station. Even older women, like in their 40s and 50s etc. I approach. Just to warm-up as Jack has said. There have been a few times where girls/women were showing clear signs of not being interested in a small talk conversation with me ... and there were other times I was too insecure to follow-up with: _"can I have your phone number and would you like to go out sometime?"_ ... But practice takes time. And I've only been doing it for a couple of months now. Starting from scratch, following the Covid pandemic and mandates etc.
@Hammadkhan-vi4sh7 ай бұрын
I have not talked to a women in my whole fucking life of 17 years😂😂💀
@koumarlumkwana3640 Жыл бұрын
"You just busting each others balls" ayyooo wtf! 😂
@valentyn5322 Жыл бұрын
I actually watched your video yesterday and tried to talk to girl today, she rejected me, because she was busy and hurried up, but I feel amazing and will try again and again until I succeed. English is not my first language, so my second motivation is to learn language, not only picked up her number, if it will be possible, I hope so)
@AmirViews. Жыл бұрын
I was with my mom at the store and it was this cute cashier & I was super nervous but I pushed pasted it make a joke & ask how her day was I felt really good after. This was a few days ago
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
my man. Keep it up
@RetardedSealBro
Жыл бұрын
in front of your mom? damn bro
@AmirViews.
Жыл бұрын
@@RetardedSealBro yea bro I had to
@dalitsobanda8295 Жыл бұрын
Practice makes perfect you got this 😉✌️
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
hell yeah brother
@dimitrisdroubalis8492 Жыл бұрын
I get your point , but it's not about only beING used to talk to stranger and girls , is about learning how to express your interest to the girl you like. I can talk to any people but I have a very difficult time how to express my interest to girls in a way it won't be strange.
@lessismore44 Жыл бұрын
Would highly suggest taking an acting class or improv class really helps if you get nervous when speaking to strangers
@ChicagoJ351 Жыл бұрын
How long did it take before you got comfortable and decent at it? Your super relaxed when approaching. Just wonder what your learning process was like.
@Sh0ckmaster11 ай бұрын
6'7'' guy here. I spend about 15 minutes a day making my approaches (On average, sometimes more if I'm on holiday or there are more people around).
@VFXShawn11 ай бұрын
I found when at a public space to cold approach, talk to a few guys first just to get into the groove of talking to strangers. Guys typically know you aren't trying to pick them up, and a lot of them are just happy to talk to someone, then go talk to girls. Sometimes, a girl will see you talking to a guy, and assume you are friendly, then you can just bounce straight to her.
@ambiven109 ай бұрын
Today I cold approached a girl, didnt get her number, but got her name. Felt so good to approach vs regretting not approaching.
@dylanculani Жыл бұрын
Love the content jack, my question at 11:50 is about you saying to date a couple 4’s or 5’s to get some base level dating experience or confidence before approaching 8/9’s. I love the advice with just talking to other guys or older ladies but dating a woman you know is a “4” I feel like you’re kinda just using her as some experience for personal gain and not actually into her. Sure if you made it clear upfront it was something short term or casual it could work but I’m not sure about long term with something like that. Anyway love the video💯
@thomasbergadano1331 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
no worries man. if it helped you please share it with your friends
@LoverIsaDayy Жыл бұрын
Warming up makes you overthink everything. Just introduce yourself and start a conversation, once you get the number you dip. Don’t complicate it
@josesilva-cr4ix Жыл бұрын
Genius tip, ty very much
@captaindeo9594 Жыл бұрын
More fighter analogies please 🙏🏽👏🏽
@michaelxthunder Жыл бұрын
Hey denmo, what was your personality like in highschool? Were you as charismatic and outgoing as you are now?
@H-TownGamer Жыл бұрын
What I do is repeat my opening line like for example if it’s “ hey I saw you over here looking a bit lonely whats up ” I’ll repeat till I can say it without stuttering then use it later on that day
@Spaccatutto3000 Жыл бұрын
Hey Denmo, very helpful video as always 💪 So, how you doing bro?
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
good bro, how are you
@munawarhabibi6122 Жыл бұрын
perfect analogy right there
@ethan.wroblewski Жыл бұрын
Good Shadowboxing champ 😂🔥
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
lmao thanks G
@johncstory Жыл бұрын
Talking to woman, I don’t know anywhere from 1 to 10, since I talk to cashiers, say hello when walking, and the such
@Mayank-rs7kg Жыл бұрын
0:39 bro I just saw you know how to throw punches and roll
@initiatorhater0688 Жыл бұрын
for men, its an option or choice, voluntary, if they want to learn how to talk to women, get better at interacting with them, not the other way around though
@Jotaro5181 Жыл бұрын
I try to talk to 2 women for the day when I go out!
@robwinter31836 ай бұрын
Practice.... Genius advice
@I.Z.Phooto Жыл бұрын
I don't know about hours, but in the last month I've talked to 7 women who I was attracted to. That's 1.8 or something woman a week. My standards are pretty high and she has to be prettier than all the people around her. My standards are high so I don't make it too far in conversation most of the time, but it's always positive, my intentions are clear, and I'm confident.
@dragushcobaj4121 Жыл бұрын
I talk to women quite a lot because I dance latin and also have female friends but I guess that doesn't count. So about 20 minutes would be the time I believe because I approached some girls at the club.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
thats a great plan brother
@grindingirl758611 ай бұрын
If you have asbergers syndrome, you are constantly arguing with yourself in your head what to do what to say how to act etc because we dont know differences in tonalities, tones, body language, how people feel in general. When I walk by any girl I just freeze up, cannot breathe normally because of overthinking/paralyzing. I envy people like you who are born normal and can do these things without it affecting you. Most autistic young people are ostrazized as creeps because of our different brain wiring causing us to be awkward in social interactions, but in reality we are the most honest straight forward loyal people in the world. However the lack of social training (and/or?) bullying in adolesence when we are supposed to learn these things, cause autistic people to fall out of the social world completely. Those kind of people are the ones who watch your videos most. Because we didn't learn this during our young years. Many boys with autism are bullied, ostrazized from their peers and end up being alone most of the times having to resort to watching videos like this to learn NORMAL things that healthy people learn by default.
@josecarlosramirezdelgado7828Ай бұрын
As a boxing fan, nice analogies!
@MiguelReyesDeveloper10 ай бұрын
Yesterday I was walking in a park and I saw a cute girl with her pet 🐕 She was alone in this big park with a lot of people in the middle of the daylight, so I thought it was a perfect opportunity to talk to her And I started with "that's a cute dog", she sad thank you! And so on, so fort, 30 minutes just flew by and we had fun, we had good chemistry and she was laughing at my silly jokes, we exchanged numbers and we'll see what happens next You can do this, bro 💪🏻
@vanjamasic7384
3 ай бұрын
update?
@MiguelReyesDeveloper
3 ай бұрын
@@vanjamasic7384 didn't reply back, but found another girl and now she's my girlfriend That's part of the process 🗿
@vanjamasic7384
3 ай бұрын
nice
@Abhishek.Sharma1991Ай бұрын
I have been spending about an hour every weekday trying to approach strangers. I have been getting rejections mostly, but I haven’t given up yet, because I understand that it’s skill and it takes practice. Even one good interaction with one person out of 5-6 approaches on a day sets me up to try it again the next day
@brokeboy87 Жыл бұрын
How do you warm up for this type of thing?
@jaidynheadford4092 Жыл бұрын
I Talked to a Couple of Girls in the past 3 Days. But this One Girl at the Gym I have Feelings for and I hadn’t her in Weeks and I had a Chat with her for around Two Minutes.
@giovanniromerodeleon5249 Жыл бұрын
Listen guys. A year ago I was waiting at the bus stop as I did every single day to get back from school, when I suddenly saw the prettiest girl I had ever seen in my city ( I live in a small town). Her friend was waiting for the same bus as me (such a coincidence). While we were waiting we glanced at each other a couple times and I remember thinking, my God, she must be a model or something. The Thing is ,when the bus came her friend hoped on and before I did the girl I liked smiled at me and blushed. When I was at the bus I was her friend taking a seat and I went to the back part of the bus. But just after sitting I thought to my self “I do this every day, why not try something different”. I approached her friend , had a really nice chat with her and got the contact information of the mysterious girl. That was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. The thing is the girl I liked was actually a model from the Netherlands, 2 years older than me and was working as an aupair in my town until the end of the summer. We started chatting and as I got to know her better she told me she was having big trouble with the family she was staying with. She moved to my house and livied with me for the whole summer. We ended up dating and I fell truly in love with her, even tho it was heartbreaking when she left. I hope I can see her this year on summer, and still I can’t really believe we went from glimpsing at each other on a bus stop to telling each other I love you. That’s the benefit that showing some balls for once in your life provide. Just do it, you never know when a model can end up living at your house
@motoworlddd
Жыл бұрын
So she basically used you?
@Arel_Kursat2 ай бұрын
I am working as a sales consultant and I talk to women and I also have friends who are female does it count?
@lto_sa4704 Жыл бұрын
Thanks bro😩
@humblewoodcutter30004 ай бұрын
I like Jack. He's fkn funny. He makes me laugh. He makes YOU laugh. And, most importantly, he makes the fine, fine bitches laugh. And that, my friends, is his superpower.
@odawg2024 Жыл бұрын
thank you i need these tips so i can bag this beautiful young woman
@anonymous_g001 Жыл бұрын
Hey Denmo, Are you going to make a video on teenagers who are lonely, giving on making friends and dating entirely, and instead just focusing on starting a business and becoming wealthy, I am starting to consider it being a problem that I want friends and a girlfriend. I am very curious on your views on that.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
ill do more videos on teenagers
@RiotSquad Жыл бұрын
Imagine warming up before you hit a PR
@oliverrouse2593 Жыл бұрын
Besides talking to a co worker that we both got fired. She started to talking to me first. It's been. Weeks to months. Ya. Unless you count buying stuff and girl employees but that was minimal conversation
@BrokenStylo Жыл бұрын
Casual hookups are emotionally and spirituality unfulfilling. I would go so far to say they're straight up damaging to everyone involved. Maybe it's an age thing. I'm 27 and advise the younger fellas to abstain until marriage. I have become a follower of Christ as well. I used to sleep around, drink, party and all that. Form real connections guys. Sex is a sacred act meant to be shared with the love of your life. Women are beautiful and you should certainly approach and connect with them. We unfortunately live in a hookup culture that we ourselves created. Pleasures of the flesh are fun and easy to come by, but they are fleeting. Christ is waiting with open arms. Call upon him and you will have everything you need. In this life and the next. I love Denmo. I was just compelled to say this. God bless you all.
@Thirst4livingwater Жыл бұрын
I talk to girls and I am pretty charming, which took me time to learn, however I don't keep the conversation going. Actually I never keep the conversation going with anyone. And I think that's my problem I feel like I'm a little socially awkward in the sense of missing social cues.
@Jaboukii5 ай бұрын
6:31 Damn .. bro almost let me fall for him a second ago
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Discomfort lasts for the moment, but regret lasts for ever
@Nico-gp7if
2 ай бұрын
that's so true...
@RoBGold700
7 күн бұрын
Agreed 👍🏻
Approached a girl at my job. She works as a delivery driver and I saw her down at the docks and decided to talk with her a bit. She ended up being pretty nice and very funny. I even asked her to hang out, she rejected me but I walked away feeling good. I at least tried. I could have been afraid to approach, but instead I decided to act on my interest in her. And although she didn’t want to go out, I felt good knowing I have no regrets in just trying.
@Thunderfistboxing
4 ай бұрын
You did the best my friend.Respect.
Approached a girl today and talked to her for 20 minutes. I thought she was attractive but I kept the conversation light and friendly at first but as it progressed I was able to tease her from time to time. I think not rushing the interaction and genuinely trying to get to know a person takes the pressure off and stops you worrying about being rejected. Instead of fumbling my words I seemed super relaxed and slow and calm as I just asked her basic questions but if I immediately said that I think she’s cute or something I would’ve fumbled it. You got to build up guys, one step at a time! Highly recommend a low expectation approach for your first one just to get warmed up. And remember to have fun with it! I was having a great time making bad jokes and saying stupid shit :)
@Flo2
Жыл бұрын
Awesome, thank you for sharing your experience!
@Flo2
Жыл бұрын
How did you approach her?
@jumschess
Жыл бұрын
@@Flo2 just sat down at her table at my university cafeteria and made an observation/joke about her bag and then asked her how her day was going making occasional observations about her and asking questions about her life and offering things about me in relation to her answers. Conversation flowed very well and she started asking me questions too!
@Flo2
Жыл бұрын
@@jumschess I love to hear that, keep it up!🙈
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
keep up the good work my man and share your progress in the discord
Going out with friends is the best. Ur already having a great time and talking a lot. Then talking to the cute girl over there is so much easier. And u have the support of ur buddies. If it's women friends, they may even help u.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
agreed brother
@peter9703
Жыл бұрын
@@Denmosocial but what is when im have no Friends
@themightynonso
Жыл бұрын
@@peter9703your priority should then to be to make friends. Think about it this way: would you want to date a girl who doesn't know how to keep friends? How would she know how to treat you
@HeyMaxIsMyName
Жыл бұрын
It's easier to build state when you're with friends/wingmen
@habsmcj
Жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more lol, once you start out as friends and then find similar interests it gets so much easier
Language classes really helps. As a language nerds, I didn't really thought that girls would be more interested in that than guys. But I had classes where the ration was 8 girls to 1 boys. It's a good place to interact, plus you have to practise and do speaking exercises between classmates. Guys, if you like learning languages, don't keep learning it alone, and take a language class in a group.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
well said thanks for sharing brother
@RefalaStas
Жыл бұрын
That's a good one actually.
@darshanpatel.1782
Жыл бұрын
I'm already into it 😩 let's hope it a similar ratio here
@baviation1872
Жыл бұрын
Yess, I’m in a French class and it’s probably 5:1 girls. And we have speaking exercises every day where we need a partner so it’s great to get to know people.
@tonyhendrix2951
Жыл бұрын
Where do you take language classes at?
I am currently into building social skills. Last week I found me in a situation (in university library) where a girl came and sat down on the other side of the table. I wanted to start a conversation with her, cause in my mind i had this thought 'Come on, you want get more socially skilled when it comes to approaching women!'. After quite some minutes I did the thing where I counted to 5 in my head and then just approached her by asking 'what do you study?' We ended up speaking for 30mins, then she got to go (she is around 22, I am 19). I did not ask for her number because I was just pretty happy that we had such a nice conversation. In the end she said 'By the way, my name is Julia. [Yeah I kinda messed it up - we were kinda in a flow so that I was not able to ask for her name] Maybe we'll see each other at some time again!' It was so fun and maked me so happy that I got such a nice conversation just by approaching her! Will do it again soon if I feel like wanting to do it again!
@tassv5909
Жыл бұрын
just go there once a week. looks super undesperate if you only ask her out after the 3rd time you meet.
@Synchronizado
Жыл бұрын
@@tassv5909 Its better to hold your hand if you know you will routinely see that person you want to go out with, its the same advice when approaching girls in the gym, have a nice chat, do your thing, have a nice chat, do your thing, ask what she did in the weekend, suggest to hang out.
@darkrangerl
Жыл бұрын
That's the point having nice conversations, reconising the mental barrier with intent purpose and focuses that's placed above set situation (counting to 5, telling yourself you want to be better with approaching woman, and being more skilled at social interactions) well defined higher purpose that stems from internal goals and ambitions. Well done! What I would add is to 'messed up barrier' change this into ' delibaretly messin with her' and owning it believe me there's where to fun lies not by being happy you messed up :) Cheers keep it up! Good work!
@Flo2
Жыл бұрын
@@darkrangerl Thank you so much for your comment and tips! I really appreciate that! I hope, you have an amazing rest of the day! :)
@lakshaykr246
10 ай бұрын
Maked
When going out I usually talk to female classmates/aquaintances first to get into the rhythm of talking to girls. Helps a lot.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
well said brother
Like Rocky said " It ain't about how hard you're hit, it's about how you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward.That's how winning is done" you really helped me visualize it better with the boxing examples. Thank you Denmo.
Rejection is more valuable than hope without an end.
I check these videos to see if I do everything right. What can I say, this guy knows what he’s talking about. Totally agree. Great content!
Women are HUMANS and treat them like they are dudes in neutral situations and then learn how to flirt etc.. Literally guys just start doing service jobs with women as a coworkers. You are actually learning 3 important skills at once. Dating, small talk and marketing are very similar, remember that
The warm-up is so true. I'm a salesman, and I approach dozens of people a day. But my first couple of approaches for the day suck until I get warmed up. But after the 2nd or 3rd approach, I start crushing, and I don't even think about what I'm going to say or anything. It's all just improvised. But now I'm trying to translate that over to talking to girls. What I have learned through sales is that most people who aren't in sales have no idea about the tricks we use. When I was learning, I was like, No one is going to fall for that, but they do every single time. I've watched my mentor, and he just says the magic words and the customers are literally begging him to take their money. By the way, he's 68 years old and has a 35 year old wife. The dude is magic with words.
This is great advice. I've learned that this sort of method can really get my confidence up too. By the time you've talked to a couple strangers, approaching a woman is so much less nerve-wracking. Even if you can approach a woman confidently, it's so much better to practice beforehand so you're more confident, even just the slighest bit moreso. Great vid as always, Jack
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
atta boy keep it up
HOL UP WHY DID nobody told me that upercuting a girl and draging her in to cave is not a proper way to get women
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
bro now you know!
@isaiahyounggod2723
Жыл бұрын
???
For me I have no issues talking to strangers (male or female) even as an introvert or female relatives or acquaintances since there is no hidden agenda and I am not trying to attract them. But when it comes to going up to attractive women and pursuing them romantically, that is what I dont know how to do. It is like I shut down and all of a sudden stop being myself because I see her as this otherwordly being, I am not exaggerating here either. That is what it just feels like.
@spijker_
Жыл бұрын
Dont ever put anyone on a pedestal
@mouadrimwind8839
Жыл бұрын
Try to go to settings where people naturally socialize and where you could meet strangers organically like dance classes , language exchange events, it would remove the barrier of speaking to a stranger since you share a common context.
@Proposal12
8 ай бұрын
Approach them like you already know them, as with all those others...no hidden agenda, just simply you being interested in her...
I have to say you're a great example of what I want to be in the future. Discover something you can do well. Something that others ask you with help with all the time. Monetize it. And suddenly you're free.
I haven't talked to women in my entire life.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
why are you here
@zerzban758
Жыл бұрын
And yr Mum ?
@fogdood6868
Жыл бұрын
@@Denmosocial need practice
@spijker_
Жыл бұрын
@@fogdood6868 well, theres no better practice than trial and error. Go out there man!
@tobiasreaper2605
Жыл бұрын
You can do it man
I was sick for the past 7 days so 0 but now that I'm better I'm going to get myself back out there. Thanks for the videos and advice as always denmo!
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@juicypies4294
Жыл бұрын
me
@alecboss9809
Жыл бұрын
me
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Жыл бұрын
me
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Жыл бұрын
me
@PzKpfwTigerIsBest
Жыл бұрын
Naturally
i have seemingly a dozen different ways to make it easier for me to talk to women but i never ever thought of warming up before it with easier conversations. Thanks
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
all good bro. Share these videos with your friends
I was having a conversation with a sweet young lady and I walked away from her to hang out with my fiends instead. I haven’t stoped thinking about it since, and it happened almost a year ago. Since then, my game has been down and I haven’t been going out as much. I got a few girls numbers after that but they all wound up ghosting me in the end. I just have to say, that your videos are helping me a lot. What are you saying about rejection and not having confidence is spot on. I’m a handsome guy, but I’m shy because I lack charisma and confidence. I didn’t make a lot of friends in high school or college and the friends I do have don’t go out often. Your videos are helping me out a lot, and I’m hoping to be a better man by the end of this year. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos, it really help’s people like me gain confidence, and handle rejection better. 😊
thank you so much my brother Denmo. I really enjoy watching your videos and I do get a lot of information about women and stuff
I'm really good at communicating with people, I work at a speciality coffee shop, it's unique because I talk with the client, about anything really, and I try to have a connection, talking with clients actually helped me out on developing my social skills, used to be a Melvin, now I'm a Chad ::)
Watching this on my big 25 inch PC monitor rn instead of my phone. Denmo's face is a lot sweatier than it looks on your phone
Watching your vedios got the confidence and yesterday i went to a shop,, suddenly a cute girl also came, she was standing beside me waiting for her chance to take somthing and i got in to talk with her telling some jork like it will take more hours to get our grocery items, then she smiled and said yes .., then we got in to a intresting fashion conversation which i m doing ladies fashion clothing page online and finally she said she likes fashion too and gave her number to get cloths from me.., the confidence was came from you denmo..thanks 💗
Thanks for helpin out the boys with these social skills vids🙏🏻
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
no worries share em with your mates
I realize what my issue has been. I’ve never had a gf, but I’ve had a lot of dates and had a lot of girls obsessed with me. That was all mostly in HS, because I worked full time throughout school. Your socializing with women in school and work. Now I’m an entrepreneur, so I’m not around them as often. I walked with my buddy to his college class last week. On the way back, I talked to 3 different girls. They were everywhere! Got 1 date without even asking. That’s the thing. You have to make sure your positioning yourself.
Been rejected but doesn’t really hurt. The top concern is when I fail the conversation in front of everybody even though it shouldn’t be big deal cause they would know me around campus. Also don’t want to come off as a creep and to approach smoothly to probably the 5 second rule to make it less weird. As long as their saying it kindly I’m ok with that. Little by little getting a bit experienced. I fear more if I don’t ever get one to be honest than to get rejected. Sometimes rejection is funny because it’s so predictable like on video or coming up to random people hehe. Anyways hope for the best.
I start with a simple how are you. I read the response, then decide if I want to try. If you see a nice smile, that’s definitely a go. I always have some pre loaded questions or comments to keep a chat going. You can usually avoid rejection by asking if they are married, or have a bf. If they say no, your odds go way up. It’s a tough game, mostly trying to find someone who you think would match up w you. Being in a good mood helps a lot, I think positivity is attractive. I’m 0 wins 13 losses since I have been looking😮. I’m not throwing in the towel yet😊 great video 👍
I’m a newer subscriber, and I do want to say that in my heyday I never had to practice. It was an automatic thing. Rejection wasn’t even considered even when it happened and was rare I would like to think lol but now I’m older age I sure could use some help and appreciate it. I lost my confidence. Thanks man.
Solid video man much appreciated!
Amazing job thinking out of the box, as always
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
cheers garden, share it with your friends to help them too
We (not me) are missing the point, the fact that we have to "study" how to approach a woman is the sign that men are considered like crap by the let's call it modern feminism, there was a time when everyone got married without trouble. So, if a woman dont want to be with me, i just cancel that woman and try with someone else. Single women with dogs is the future, you can see them right now between 30 and 45 years old, pretty women walking by themselves with dogs......the future is dark.
Failing is still infinitely times better than not trying at all
@stefan.w979
10 ай бұрын
Well said
A lot of men in this comment section think it’s black and white, Chad and Melvin- if you don’t think you have what it takes, embrace the qualities that you do have and then even if you are a Melvin you will be able to get Chad things done. I think no matter what your specific odds of getting a woman are, going out in real life is going to be better than being online.
0:37 dude😂😂 ur gifted in natural comedy👍🏻
Saw a previous upload of yours that I really enjoyed, this came up in my recommended, and I laughed so hard at 1:05 I had to instantly subscribe. Can't wait for more content
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
welcome brother, glad I earned your subscription. wont let u down
Learning to be a social person after years of not being one ,is a hard job indeed. You cant expect years of not being social to go away after you approach a girl or two once or twice a week Also,if you have emotion baggage you need to solve this will always hold you back from reaching your true potential. Get emotionally smart.. unleash you true potential
I heard this from a video, so he said, just talk to 5 women daily, like ask for directions and leave do little small talk talk and leave immediately over the course of a month you would have talked to over 100 women, now you aren't scared of approaching girls/ women and now you need the momentum , like you said just have a basic conversation with someone to get in the flow nad now you are warmed you
The analogies are really good actually, great video.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
cheers mate, IMO analogies are the best way to teach people
Inverse the mindset. Go for rejections. Than you wont be dependent on the outcome and be more aloof and in the flow
Talking to girls isn't that hard since I am still in school. Have been learning that for years and when I am in a new environment like a class, I try just being myself and chat to people. I start convos with girls, and vice versa. Social is bilateral. Now I am starting online chats with guys and girls that are gonna be my future classmates (I'm out of town for a year and I know them irl) so when I go back, I will be ready to blend into my new environment. After the trials and tribulations, I will def by ready when I am at college.
Damn Denmo coming with them COMBINATION PUNCHES
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
going for the finish
That’s why I always tell every girl I’m just practicing before I asked for their number.👍🏼
I just need to work on my social skills with people in general. It's always hard for me to keep conversation going with people I don't know well. I just started college and so I'm pushing myself out there, doing a bunch of events to where I know I will have to talk to people and trying to talk as much as I can, but whenever it's outside of an event I feel like I have nothing to talk about, I don't know how to keep the conversation going without it getting akward.
Been watching this channel quite a bit lately. It's cool to see someone go out and do approaches instead of just talking about them. I just got done reading books like The Mystery Method and the Game and realized something. Knowing game is very different from having game. If you don't go out and actually DO approaches, you will never get better because all those Denmo video/Pickup lines are just gonna be stuck back there. Unless you're comfortable, everything you try to say will come out as a jumbled mess. But if you put yourself out there constantly, things will slow down and those lines (or god forbid, your personality) will start to come to mind when you need it. I'm trying to do 20 approaches a day now and while I'm still on that training arc, things like rejection are starting to sting less. Just got to get out in the field and do the work. 😤
Its been so long without watching one of your videos, glad you're back. I'm 34 and yesterday after jogging and some workout at the park i met a lady she was about 40. I took my time because i was taking sunset pictures. Aprox 10 minutes later i make my approach and it was totally natural and easy going conversation and she's a totally 10, i was just testing myself with a women older than me. Afterwards when i get home, i realized that she's a tv host lol. I congratulated myself, because im like a 6 and the girls i use to attrack they're like 25-29 years old because i look like that age.
1. Warm up : talk to people in random situation, for example in a store asking more explanation on something or just calling a friend. You have to warm up your mind and the musles that allow you to talk fluently 2. Talk to 2 to 3 girls a days : the more the practice, the better you will be. take examples of professional fighter, always training and aiming for the right movement so much that it become NATURAL for them 3. Be ready to get HIT and not GIVE UP after. You can lessen the impact by "fighting" someone on your weight class. In flirthing it means starting with an "okayish" girls first, then you'll be able to progress and aim even higher. I did that, and guys, you will discover that in a party as the 5/10 guy, you can be the one banging a girl because you'll will be the confident one whereas the other cute guy are just shy
This was the video I needed. I have thought about this exact thing over the last week as I was going to approach a girl at the gym but decided against it. I figured I need to go practice talking to some other strangers first, maybe the guys at the gym as even that feels intimidating for me. I’m not sure why I feel so afraid, Denmo you’ve pumped up my tires a bit when explaining that most of the viewers would be 2s 3s or 4s because they don’t go to gym or don’t have their own business. I’m not sure what I would rate myself out of 1-10 but I’m 6’3, have always played sport, have been going to gym consistently for a month and a half, and run my own business. I just need to get my confidence up so it seems that practicing/warming up is the best way to do it
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
bro you are gonna do fine. You're just procrastinating. IF you continue to struggle then I recommend my course
Took the dog to the vet and there was a really cute chick with her cat and we were waiting for about an hour and just talked the whole time had a nice engaging convo and it was super refreshing. But of course I didn’t grab her number and I didn’t see her again 🤦🏼♂️
Gotta give props to all you guys. Numerous self improvement KZreadrs like yourself. Hamza, How to Beast, etc., in listening and paying very close attention to you guys, I've finally yielded results in my life. I'm getting matches on dating apps more than ever before, and sooner or later, one will show up for a date. It's a numbers game, and rejection only means to move on and try the next one 😎 Sooner or later results will come
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
amazing that you are getting results homie
@v.thelastboyscout2822
11 ай бұрын
Not meaning to discourage you but I wouldn't call this results
Landscaping engineering company, got me good hahaha
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
there it is
very nice points and video
I've been approaching women as light-heartedly as possible at my local college (where there are about +15.000 students), the public swimming pool I visit on a weekly basis and down on the street or at the bus/train station. Even older women, like in their 40s and 50s etc. I approach. Just to warm-up as Jack has said. There have been a few times where girls/women were showing clear signs of not being interested in a small talk conversation with me ... and there were other times I was too insecure to follow-up with: _"can I have your phone number and would you like to go out sometime?"_ ... But practice takes time. And I've only been doing it for a couple of months now. Starting from scratch, following the Covid pandemic and mandates etc.
I have not talked to a women in my whole fucking life of 17 years😂😂💀
"You just busting each others balls" ayyooo wtf! 😂
I actually watched your video yesterday and tried to talk to girl today, she rejected me, because she was busy and hurried up, but I feel amazing and will try again and again until I succeed. English is not my first language, so my second motivation is to learn language, not only picked up her number, if it will be possible, I hope so)
I was with my mom at the store and it was this cute cashier & I was super nervous but I pushed pasted it make a joke & ask how her day was I felt really good after. This was a few days ago
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
my man. Keep it up
@RetardedSealBro
Жыл бұрын
in front of your mom? damn bro
@AmirViews.
Жыл бұрын
@@RetardedSealBro yea bro I had to
Practice makes perfect you got this 😉✌️
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
hell yeah brother
I get your point , but it's not about only beING used to talk to stranger and girls , is about learning how to express your interest to the girl you like. I can talk to any people but I have a very difficult time how to express my interest to girls in a way it won't be strange.
Would highly suggest taking an acting class or improv class really helps if you get nervous when speaking to strangers
How long did it take before you got comfortable and decent at it? Your super relaxed when approaching. Just wonder what your learning process was like.
6'7'' guy here. I spend about 15 minutes a day making my approaches (On average, sometimes more if I'm on holiday or there are more people around).
I found when at a public space to cold approach, talk to a few guys first just to get into the groove of talking to strangers. Guys typically know you aren't trying to pick them up, and a lot of them are just happy to talk to someone, then go talk to girls. Sometimes, a girl will see you talking to a guy, and assume you are friendly, then you can just bounce straight to her.
Today I cold approached a girl, didnt get her number, but got her name. Felt so good to approach vs regretting not approaching.
Love the content jack, my question at 11:50 is about you saying to date a couple 4’s or 5’s to get some base level dating experience or confidence before approaching 8/9’s. I love the advice with just talking to other guys or older ladies but dating a woman you know is a “4” I feel like you’re kinda just using her as some experience for personal gain and not actually into her. Sure if you made it clear upfront it was something short term or casual it could work but I’m not sure about long term with something like that. Anyway love the video💯
Thank you for this video.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
no worries man. if it helped you please share it with your friends
Warming up makes you overthink everything. Just introduce yourself and start a conversation, once you get the number you dip. Don’t complicate it
Genius tip, ty very much
More fighter analogies please 🙏🏽👏🏽
Hey denmo, what was your personality like in highschool? Were you as charismatic and outgoing as you are now?
What I do is repeat my opening line like for example if it’s “ hey I saw you over here looking a bit lonely whats up ” I’ll repeat till I can say it without stuttering then use it later on that day
Hey Denmo, very helpful video as always 💪 So, how you doing bro?
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
good bro, how are you
perfect analogy right there
Good Shadowboxing champ 😂🔥
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
lmao thanks G
Talking to woman, I don’t know anywhere from 1 to 10, since I talk to cashiers, say hello when walking, and the such
0:39 bro I just saw you know how to throw punches and roll
for men, its an option or choice, voluntary, if they want to learn how to talk to women, get better at interacting with them, not the other way around though
I try to talk to 2 women for the day when I go out!
Practice.... Genius advice
I don't know about hours, but in the last month I've talked to 7 women who I was attracted to. That's 1.8 or something woman a week. My standards are pretty high and she has to be prettier than all the people around her. My standards are high so I don't make it too far in conversation most of the time, but it's always positive, my intentions are clear, and I'm confident.
I talk to women quite a lot because I dance latin and also have female friends but I guess that doesn't count. So about 20 minutes would be the time I believe because I approached some girls at the club.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
thats a great plan brother
If you have asbergers syndrome, you are constantly arguing with yourself in your head what to do what to say how to act etc because we dont know differences in tonalities, tones, body language, how people feel in general. When I walk by any girl I just freeze up, cannot breathe normally because of overthinking/paralyzing. I envy people like you who are born normal and can do these things without it affecting you. Most autistic young people are ostrazized as creeps because of our different brain wiring causing us to be awkward in social interactions, but in reality we are the most honest straight forward loyal people in the world. However the lack of social training (and/or?) bullying in adolesence when we are supposed to learn these things, cause autistic people to fall out of the social world completely. Those kind of people are the ones who watch your videos most. Because we didn't learn this during our young years. Many boys with autism are bullied, ostrazized from their peers and end up being alone most of the times having to resort to watching videos like this to learn NORMAL things that healthy people learn by default.
As a boxing fan, nice analogies!
Yesterday I was walking in a park and I saw a cute girl with her pet 🐕 She was alone in this big park with a lot of people in the middle of the daylight, so I thought it was a perfect opportunity to talk to her And I started with "that's a cute dog", she sad thank you! And so on, so fort, 30 minutes just flew by and we had fun, we had good chemistry and she was laughing at my silly jokes, we exchanged numbers and we'll see what happens next You can do this, bro 💪🏻
@vanjamasic7384
3 ай бұрын
update?
@MiguelReyesDeveloper
3 ай бұрын
@@vanjamasic7384 didn't reply back, but found another girl and now she's my girlfriend That's part of the process 🗿
@vanjamasic7384
3 ай бұрын
nice
I have been spending about an hour every weekday trying to approach strangers. I have been getting rejections mostly, but I haven’t given up yet, because I understand that it’s skill and it takes practice. Even one good interaction with one person out of 5-6 approaches on a day sets me up to try it again the next day
How do you warm up for this type of thing?
I Talked to a Couple of Girls in the past 3 Days. But this One Girl at the Gym I have Feelings for and I hadn’t her in Weeks and I had a Chat with her for around Two Minutes.
Listen guys. A year ago I was waiting at the bus stop as I did every single day to get back from school, when I suddenly saw the prettiest girl I had ever seen in my city ( I live in a small town). Her friend was waiting for the same bus as me (such a coincidence). While we were waiting we glanced at each other a couple times and I remember thinking, my God, she must be a model or something. The Thing is ,when the bus came her friend hoped on and before I did the girl I liked smiled at me and blushed. When I was at the bus I was her friend taking a seat and I went to the back part of the bus. But just after sitting I thought to my self “I do this every day, why not try something different”. I approached her friend , had a really nice chat with her and got the contact information of the mysterious girl. That was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. The thing is the girl I liked was actually a model from the Netherlands, 2 years older than me and was working as an aupair in my town until the end of the summer. We started chatting and as I got to know her better she told me she was having big trouble with the family she was staying with. She moved to my house and livied with me for the whole summer. We ended up dating and I fell truly in love with her, even tho it was heartbreaking when she left. I hope I can see her this year on summer, and still I can’t really believe we went from glimpsing at each other on a bus stop to telling each other I love you. That’s the benefit that showing some balls for once in your life provide. Just do it, you never know when a model can end up living at your house
@motoworlddd
Жыл бұрын
So she basically used you?
I am working as a sales consultant and I talk to women and I also have friends who are female does it count?
Thanks bro😩
I like Jack. He's fkn funny. He makes me laugh. He makes YOU laugh. And, most importantly, he makes the fine, fine bitches laugh. And that, my friends, is his superpower.
thank you i need these tips so i can bag this beautiful young woman
Hey Denmo, Are you going to make a video on teenagers who are lonely, giving on making friends and dating entirely, and instead just focusing on starting a business and becoming wealthy, I am starting to consider it being a problem that I want friends and a girlfriend. I am very curious on your views on that.
@Denmosocial
Жыл бұрын
ill do more videos on teenagers
Imagine warming up before you hit a PR
Besides talking to a co worker that we both got fired. She started to talking to me first. It's been. Weeks to months. Ya. Unless you count buying stuff and girl employees but that was minimal conversation
Casual hookups are emotionally and spirituality unfulfilling. I would go so far to say they're straight up damaging to everyone involved. Maybe it's an age thing. I'm 27 and advise the younger fellas to abstain until marriage. I have become a follower of Christ as well. I used to sleep around, drink, party and all that. Form real connections guys. Sex is a sacred act meant to be shared with the love of your life. Women are beautiful and you should certainly approach and connect with them. We unfortunately live in a hookup culture that we ourselves created. Pleasures of the flesh are fun and easy to come by, but they are fleeting. Christ is waiting with open arms. Call upon him and you will have everything you need. In this life and the next. I love Denmo. I was just compelled to say this. God bless you all.
I talk to girls and I am pretty charming, which took me time to learn, however I don't keep the conversation going. Actually I never keep the conversation going with anyone. And I think that's my problem I feel like I'm a little socially awkward in the sense of missing social cues.
6:31 Damn .. bro almost let me fall for him a second ago
Salespeople don't work on me. 😂