You can't win a girl over thru texting but u can easily lose one

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

Fire quote

@florida7778

Жыл бұрын

Risky texts are sometimes too risky

@theoneandonlyCQ

Жыл бұрын

@@florida7778 I have mastered the dark arts of the risky text and even I know things can get toooo risky

@reborngreatnesss5712

Жыл бұрын

That’s why I prefer a girl to call not texting

@DeusHex

Жыл бұрын

Just happened to Me lol

Omfg someone finally put it into words! I always found it odd that I be tryna create human interaction through text. I’m more energetic and less awkward in person than on text and this video finally says why. Rather approach and get rejected than ghosted. Can’t ghost me in person 😂

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

bro its so simple everyone is overthinking it

@RobBrightBeast

Жыл бұрын

A wise younger man once said, quite recently too. If they like me well f*ck, and if they don't they'll leave me alone." Brought me so much peace and easier to move on

@theglobalswede760

Жыл бұрын

I'm awesome at texting though, got 2 girls in 1 year, yeah they were from different countries and I would never meet them... but still 😂😂

@DaColoniza

Жыл бұрын

@@theglobalswede760nobody flirts better than a chick who knows you aren’t around

It's official. Denmo must be protected at all costs

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

freeze me in a block of ice eh

@olivertaveras9896

Жыл бұрын

You heard em boys. he's too much of a Chad to freeze his own body. Even though he could with pure will.

@Mardini7v

Жыл бұрын

​@@DenmosocialI'm married so I don't have dating problems but i totally agree with you, Back when i was dating i didn't text at all even when i wanted to set a date i would call her directly, Then in person give strong impression make her crave meeting me again thats it, I think texting somehow takes away some of your aura as a man making you both on a same level at least that's how i feel what do you think?

Manz is making comically creative intros, giving practical advice AND interacts with his fan base… you’re hitting 1mill subs by the end of the year mark my words. Very kind of you to replenish the braincells we lost with those drunken interview responses, keep it going boss

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

bro we are grinding our balls off trying to check every box here. Please share it with your mates get them in here too

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@kingking8162

Жыл бұрын

Me

@foxerik2480

Жыл бұрын

Im on black and white since October

@mously6413

Жыл бұрын

I DO SIR!

@gkkanda958

Жыл бұрын

How do you know

@cleancount

Жыл бұрын

Haha, actually when im looking around after youtube im wondering why are all so colourful, its weird

Thanks for this video man. I've wasted too much time in my early 20s on dating apps and texting. So many hours when I was just texting and the women only wanted a text-buddy rather than hang out. Right now I'm just focused on improving myself and not wasting time and money on dating apps with no ROI. I'm excited to get your dating course down the line too but rn got to focus on finances and fitness first.

This is one of those things where it is so damn simple to figure out yet easily overcomplicated and overthought. And the worst part is some of these "content creators" are preying on the Melvins and purposely making it far more complicated that it needs to be. Sure, some of their advice is helpful, but it's obvious they just keep them in this feedback loop of hell and keep them coming back to their content. I appreciate all you've been doing Denmo and telling it how it really is. Not necessarily with texting women and setting up dates, but with a lot of other things that the modern young man needs help in. We need more people like you in this world.

You perfectly encompassed the situation I've encountered lately and that I was denying myself from acknowledging. At least now I understand it. Thank you Denmo.

Texting game isn't for guys. It's a battlefield where we have the disadvantage. Girls will have 10 other guys who they could text, and this makes it so much harder. Focus on IRL approaches to build attraction, rather than text.

@M.Jspeaks

Жыл бұрын

Fr

@rasheemthebestfirstone3274

Жыл бұрын

Facts

Guys gotta understand there's 1,000 different ways to mess things up by text and a handful of ways to get it right. Don't risk it!

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

love the way you said that

This is literally what happened to me when I was 15-20 years, I dont really need this advices nowadays but I enjoy learning that I was so wrong about how to approach women.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

fair enough G share it w/ your friends who do need it

I feel like this channel's new format is way better than the last one. Having mostly motivational vids to help us young men be more confident while also at the same time going back to your roots and sprinkling in some classic talking to girls vids. You're not just sticking to one script and instead playing with two worlds at the same time thus reaching far more people very quickly.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

mixing it up to help you lads

It’s crazy how I thought about this, then I come on KZread and Denmos made a great video about it. Thanks for the self improvement content!

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

boom here to help you homie

These intros are amazing man don't stop doing them 🤣

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

if you think so do me a solid and share it with your mates haha if it gets views ill keep doing em

I feel like this is one of, if not the best pieces of advice I’ve gotten on this topic in years and years of videos. Great, honest advice!

A girl once approach to me on a coffee in Germany, happened exactly as you picture it. My level of confidence went out of this world

This is why once you meet a girl and get her number, your first goal should be getting to hang out with the girl. There’s more of an emotional connection between the two of you and is way easier than texting since texting is a sort of complicated puzzle in my opinion

That is exactely what I needed to hear after clearing a number and setting date... and then feeling weird cause this was all of texting. We are far too much in casual texting. Just do the logistics and leave the rest for personal interactions! 🎉

This video is specifically made for me.... I've been acting like melvin for some days now...and needed this video for realisation... thankyou man

I love these chad and melvin intros keep doing them

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

share it with your friends and ill keep doing them

dude your videos are amazing and the upload schedule is perfect too! Keep it up and I'm sure that you'd get popular

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

thanks bro share it with your friends to help us grow

So legit bro! I've been watching all these other dating gurus trying to figure out how to text properly for months now 🤣. But you have simplified and cleared it all up for me. 😎🤙🏽

I also see texting as a little cowardly. Calling and hearing each others voice is x10's better than a text. And if this is a girl at school or work? Asking them in person is always, ALWAYS the best. 4 points for text. 8 points for calling 10 for asking in person. 10 points for calling if this is a stranger you met where you know your never going to see them again unless you call.

Damn dude you respond to every comment eh what a legend. I'm recently out of a long relationship and in my mid 30s now, appreciate your vids man and deleted all the dating apps. Gotta find some top tier people to get around to get the right mindset for success

👍👏🏼👏🏼. Best advice so far.

Great video man! I was wondering if you could make a video on how to not take rejection or ghosting personally and good ways to handle it. Keep up the great work!

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

good way to look at it.. ill do a video on that

Jack these animations are getting better and better💀💀

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

lmao share it with your boys get them in here and ill make more

Brooo those animated skits at the start are sooo good lmfao 😂

You leveled up your content bro. Honestly just commenting because I think the days of being able to capture ur attention via comment easily is coming to an end

Dude this videos was MIND BLOWING to me! THANK YOU FOR THIS INFORMATION🙏🙏🙏

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

share it with your friends Dara! appreciate you G

I’ve been refusing to play the “game” of texting for as long as I can remember. I simply will not do it. Love the vid man. Killin it.

Those intros are like hamza's but also funny as fawk, keep doin man! I see 1 mln subs at the end of the year here

Another banger. You’ve done it again my friend. 💪

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

thanks bro send it to your friends!

The sound effects man! 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

I actually said this to someone yesterday 😮 if the girl likes me as it is texting her beyond practical reasons is pointless. I’d go so far as to say if I see her on a regular basis I almost don’t even need her contact depending on the situation

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

this video is for you brother

Thanks, really useful!

Ngl this has motivated me to pursue my dream of being a feminist underwater basket weaver

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

same bro lets do it together. once I graduate landscape engineering

Wow working hard on these videos I see you 😁

Great video, Jack! 👊 To me a rule of thumb is: talk like a normal human being and don’t be a creep.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

I agree homie well said

This definitely transcends dating. So many of my web design clients are trying to figure out how to boost their conversion rates by 0.25% or something when they don't even have 100 people seeing their website a month. People be trying to optimize something that isn't even really there

Lol that’s totally me. I have notifications turned off so I have the anticipation of getting new messages. So I check every 10 minutes or so. Crazy addiction to validation. Worse than drugs. The worst part is most girls I don’t been like. I just want to feel accepted

I stopped texting girls, such a game-changer. I’m focused on my grind right now, but I’m only talking to girls in person💯

Intro shiii was too funny dude 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Toooo funneeee 😢

Man you should have a billion subs bro with these animations with the snoop dog music cracks me the fuck up 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

LMAO you picked up on the snoop

*Texting is like you can talk but instead you choose to communicate in sign language.*

I now hate texting more than ever. Unless, it's people I can't meet in a short period of time, such as friends in other states or just far away, I rarely text.

Damn 100k already congrats

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

road to 200k baby

Hi denmo just like to say keep the good work and also for the advice in your videos from a young man who lives in and is from Scotland. The question? I have is why is your social masterclass course to help other young guys/men improve both their dating and social life when it comes to approaching girls/ women in public only available to purchase in us currency and not made available in any other countries outside of the United States of America for example uk/United kingdom Britain because there is probably more young guys/men like myself who are struggling to attract women especially with modern dating that could use the helpful advice that is covered in your course.

Intro is funny as hell lmao

The next hamza but not hamza coming by! Great shit as always man, keep the good work.

great video

I'd say if you want big results, you gotta call the girl to make plans for a date, it shows your confidence and you can spark some attraction also. You can't do that with texting, thats why I never text a girl a lot.

@chriscox1535

Жыл бұрын

I notice that every time I text a girl they put me on read on fb Instagram and messenger. Should I call the girl next time I meet a new girl come along ?

@jeremiahbryant123

9 ай бұрын

Yea calling is good too, but a lot of times she will just ignore your call too. Most women don’t know how to keep conversation. She may pick up the phone cause the number isn’t saved and she curious who tf is calling

Love your new self improvement videos denmo been watching you since 2018! Any chance you watch Hamza as well?

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

atta boy! I don't watch hamza but some of his videos on his 2nd channel are great

I always forget to text my neighbors wife back, and that makes her chase me more. Weird

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

LMAO this comment got me

Jack, you are great in making video contents. You're so expert at speaking on camera, like, the words you tell to us are really understandable. Might someday you'll also make a video how to speak greatly in front of camera? 😃 Anyway, thanks Jack, greetings from Southeast Asia, Indonesia.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

will do brother. I heard Bali is nice btw

@rasheemthebestfirstone3274

Жыл бұрын

He practiced n became more confident

your skin is looking good Jack

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

not as good as yours bro

Made an effort, invested time and money, created a really good profile with good pictures and bio, got a decent amount of matches with some good looking girls, started chatting a few messages with some of them. The pattern I always saw: They quickly started to loose interest, had to wait longer for their responses, no matter how fun, smart or interesting I was, i was always strugling to get some info that could posible lead me to know her a little better, the conversations always lead to a halt, to the point of never being able to set up an actual date. Why? Because i'm not the only one talking to them, I am just one of dozens of guys competing for her attention. She is just effortlessly getting energy, attention, selfesteem-boosters comming from people behind a screen she don't care about. I mean, why would she care? she doesn't even know me, 6 pictures and a pharagraph is nothing to know someone. Denmo youre 100% right, the time and effort wasted could have been better used in some cold approaches actually meeting each other , with better chances to date.

Man, the edit and the actuality is unreal. This is very identical to what I believe is going on. And I can say that being in both ends of the spectrum...

Make big balls approach great again

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

lmao what

This is the best intro yet

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

share it with your friends bro and ill make more lol

Ahahahahahhaha, man those intros is so freaking good!!!!

I just don't like to text. I rather meet people face to face and talk with them.

This some solid advice fosho

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

ayo share it with your boys

Guys... Your purpose and goals are first, girls are on the side, a bonus to your life!

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

booooooooooooooooom

@sanjinsegan3720

Жыл бұрын

Bro replies faster than my parents 💀 appreciate that bro

Hey Jack! Nice video man. I love when you remind me how lame I am.. i commented like 2 weeks ago on another video that i was about to go out and talk to girls, and i'm pround to say that i actually didn't. Been trying to get a date on dating apps for like a year now and i still didn't manage😆 Edit #1 - Btw. is that the romanian flag? Edit #2 - I'm on dating apps because i moved to Germany and i don't speak german. It feels a bit awkward to approach someone when i know there's a pretty high change that the person doesn't speak english. Can someone offer some pieces of advice?

Like the story telling

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

its based on a true story bro

Idk if you see this but if you do, you should make a video on decluttering. Because you can't focus on your goals if you have hundreds of downloaded videos on KZread or many other messes that need to be fixed. I am on self-improvement but a big road blocking is the many notes and screenshots i have that I need to write down. And because of that i can't focus on self-improvement.

Only reason I text my girl is cause she texts me first. I realized years ago that texting is trash when I bagged 3 beautiful women just a few months apart and pretty much had them obsessed within the 1 or 2 latenight calls. Of course if you have a boring personality it’ll be less effective but there’s an undeniable difference between faceless, voiceless text bubbles vs on the phone where you can put on “the voice” laugh together, get her to open up more and show her your personality

Hey denmo, a question about Instagram: I've uninstalled Instagram for "monk mode", but, is it ok to use it to increase social visibility, "influence" and grow my "social network" meeting new people? I mean, without getting distracted or some shit, only for the purpose of getting more visibility. You know, the more people you meet the more opportunities

Love the story before hand 😂

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

definitely a true story

Why u always have to be right u like know everything about social life and i’m so happy to found u and apply my life

Denmo goated

This is fucking hilarious! Great video man

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

cheers man share it with your boys

Didn't expect to see 1stman on here😂

I liked for the coffee pour mid video. Shit was sweet. That's the kind of content I subscribed for.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

good man glad you passed

@DiddleDangle

Жыл бұрын

@@Denmosocial double espresso got me through it clean and simple

That intro was a roller coaster

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

if it entertained you share it with your boys lmao i wanna do bigger budget versions of these

That's why I just watch them from in their house

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

lmao bruh cmon

@jatterhog

Жыл бұрын

@@Denmosocial MAX DOPAMINE

@jatterhog

Жыл бұрын

When running from the police at least…

@ayomrwhiteigotdrip6235

Жыл бұрын

Dammit Melvin

denmo the goat

5:30 I've gone on several dates the past few weeks, (four girls, to be exact) some of them second and third dates, and the girls are generally unwilling to go back to my place or to hers despite agreeing to keep going out and actively chatting me up between dates. Is it supposed to be this slow? Am I doing something wrong? Yes, we've kissed. Yes, I do kino on them. Two of them told me they want to take things slow. So this point 5:30 is pretty much saying you go out on date #1 and smash right away and leave a good first impression in the bedroom? I must be doing something terribly wrong then. I'm genuinely confused. Btw, I'm in Mexico, not the US or Canada. I'm guessing things also work out differently over there?

@elisebreton7636

Жыл бұрын

I was saying you most be very lucky till you said your in Mexico, in the US it doesn’t happen,girls think they are the price! They bail you on dates

@HarbingerH

Жыл бұрын

@@elisebreton7636 For real, I lived in the US for a number of years and only managed to go on about 6 dates. None of them led absolutely anywhere. My question now is, am I doing something wrong for not banging these chicks on the first, second, third date?

i dont like texting at all. im 35 this year and prefer speaking in real life. texting turns into a mind game when you see the text has been read and dont get reply or do i reply too soon i cant see the expression on face to see genuine reaction to what i said. im seeing a thai massage owner and i said this and they agreed the way we interact socially is awkward.

@LearnCompositionOnline

5 ай бұрын

Exactly. Me too

the best bro ever

100 percent on point. Though I did have a woman I was dating tell me why I didn't call her every single day 🤣. Cause I'm busy lol. I'll see u in real life. She thought I wasn't interested. But I still mostly use it for logistics.

so many youtubers try to say “you create/kill attraction through texting” thanks for getting to the root of the problem.

I gave up trying to text girls a while ago. I just focus on myself now.

Lately on tinder Im just like what’s up and then try to plan the date right away. It’s been great weeding out the flakes

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

simple life eh

@daveesaucedo1792

Жыл бұрын

@@Denmosocial yeah man haha we’re Chads not melvins 🔥

Wow never this early!

Wise words from a wise man

Do you make the slurping sound effects

Hi all, my name is David, and...I used to be a Melvin 😭 In all seriousness, getting over the fear of rejection and approaching baddies in real life is a big goal of mine in 2023. Even though I have a video on my channel about why Tinder is a hellscape (but why you should use it anyway), being out in real life and talking to women really is unmatched. Even outside of meeting women, being unafraid of talking to strangers just might lead to a more fulfilling life.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

we are all melvins at some point brother

@davidsamuelson-mementovivere

Жыл бұрын

@@Denmosocial the first step of transcending melvinism is admission

My fellow Brothers..Don't Just Watch Denmo Videos But Go Out And Apply What you have learned

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

100%

simple answer just make the first impression good enough so that she is interested in you and use texting for communication

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

BOOM this guy gets it

@rahulshendre7089

Жыл бұрын

@@Denmosocial thanks for replying bro :)

Yo Jack, I was at a party event just about half an hour ago I made new friends but unfortunately there was no girl that was single and interested in me. I think I talked a little bit too much and abt boring topics can you make a video on how to make conversations interesting?

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

if you struggle with conversations I recommend my course specifically if you have deeper issues

@melonday3211

Жыл бұрын

@@Denmosocial i will consider it thanks

Hamza just quit so you are the leader of the new mens revolution, keep on grinding man.

I broke a 3 years pause of texting. Just sms directly. Because my employer wanted me on whatsapp and now there is a woman i dated that i could reach out only via WhatsApp. Any idea on how to corner her into “phone only “?

don’t even need to watch the video, the first part of the title tells me what i should do 💯

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

this guy gets it. Send it to your friends tho

The wojak intros are getting better and better!

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

the stories are starting to get complex

its funny, I'm not even the target audience for this video, but it is true so all you Melvin's out there follow this mans advice

I'm not trying to make excuses, I just have two questions. First: I know, for most people, age doesn't even come to mind as an insecurity, but I think I'm too young (15) and I don't want to approach girls who are like 17 or 18, but you cannot really tell what their age is so yeah. Second: should I try to date girls from my school. If you approach a stranger, the worst thing that can happen is they reject you. Ok, but in school, if they reject you, it's going to be kinda awkward. You'll see eachother every day and they may tell other people and I don't know if I should worry about this or if I'm just making this up in my head. Thanks for any replies!

@justinmonk3522

Жыл бұрын

Join clubs then make friends with girls, that way you build up your social value

What if it’s a girl from my job and she lives to far, I hadn’t have the opportunity to go to where she lives, we have text some couple of times but that’s it, I know that to make her attracted to me we have to meet, but how is it that some other guys get girls attracted from texting without even meeting?? They get their interest but texting and the girl is who wants to meet them, how does that happen????

text boys instead