Men are FRUSTRATED with Dating.. Here's Why

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00:00 Rant about modern men
02.09 The Dating Problems
03:00 The Role of Content Creators
05:15 How to solve the problem for other men
06:54 The Impact of Negative Comments
07:29 Stop leaving negative comments online
10:18 Stop holding a grunge against women
16:07 The Issue with Online Dating & Validation
19:02 You need to talk to girls in real life
23:52 Society Needs to Solve the Dating Problem
27:13 The Bigger Picture
28:52 Importance of Financial Independence
31:12 The Role of Responsibility
32:25 The Importance of Individual Effort
33:43 The Power of Mental Health
35:03 What to do NOW

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  • @Denmosocial
    @Denmosocial7 ай бұрын

    Calling you guys out in this one. We can all do much better in 2024

  • @vitogenovese7921

    @vitogenovese7921

    7 ай бұрын

    The beginning of your videos are so hilarious 😂😂

  • @You-tips

    @You-tips

    7 ай бұрын

    Hello bro I am thambnail designer

  • @FA9082

    @FA9082

    7 ай бұрын

    Lol for a second there was actually abt to google the Gandhi quote to see if he really said that

  • @shh96-rh3qz

    @shh96-rh3qz

    7 ай бұрын

    I won't improve anything before god removes fear, feelings of cringe, and embarrassment from the universe

  • @manictiger

    @manictiger

    7 ай бұрын

    I'm probably too old to be considered "your target demographic", but my issue is not hostility, and I do have a couple female friends. My problem is trust. "Having a relationship" isn't enough for me. I want what my grandparents had, a life-long bond. No divorce, no heavily abusive fights, maybe some disagreements, maybe one side is a little more dominant than the other, whatever, but it's just not something I see today. I see people happy one year, and -1 mil in debt to a custody battle the next. The statistics reinforce my suspicions, and so, idk. I'm very averse to getting close to anyone. Business was easy. Money is pretty easy. I'm good at math. I'm good at charting. People... People are difficult.

  • @cjwilson777
    @cjwilson7777 ай бұрын

    I think the most important statement that resonated with me was “Save yourself before you save others”. The impact of doing so is very grand, especially if you are a people pleaser. We must walk through the fire in order to get what we most desire. Fight on.

  • @SpartanTaylor

    @SpartanTaylor

    7 ай бұрын

    You CAN do it…but as someone who has succeeded twice, without being the optimal position to do so first, I can agree, it’s super super rough. You can’t pour from an empty cup.

  • @celestialspartan1176
    @celestialspartan11767 ай бұрын

    People need to understand that being in a relationship and getting laid shouldn’t be a priority in life. Getting yourself in a good position in life, mentally, emotionally, physically, financially, should be your MAIN PRIORITY. Everything else should come second.

  • @CommandoMaster

    @CommandoMaster

    7 ай бұрын

    That’s like saying eating shouldn’t be a main priority in life. U need it to survive mate😂

  • @celestialspartan1176

    @celestialspartan1176

    7 ай бұрын

    @@CommandoMaster that falls under the physical aspect. Eat right. Learn new recipes. What you’re saying is that men should only be focused on getting laid. Having that as a priority isn’t healthy. There are consequences to making romance a priority. Desperation is one of them, making idiotic mistakes is another. Focus on making friends first, and see where that path will take you.

  • @rexremedy1733

    @rexremedy1733

    7 ай бұрын

    Good advice the video doesn’t provide you with!

  • @celestialspartan1176

    @celestialspartan1176

    7 ай бұрын

    @@rexremedy1733 it’s advice that my family gave me. Do those things, and everything in life will begin to fall into place. 👍🏻

  • @semenjones3282

    @semenjones3282

    6 ай бұрын

    I’m just tired of being a lonely virgin man

  • @theotherway1639
    @theotherway16397 ай бұрын

    If only all guys would delete their dating apps. Those apps are killing society. The book The Dating App Confessions by Logan Tindell is kinda funny

  • @-WarCriminal-22

    @-WarCriminal-22

    7 ай бұрын

    most of the dating goes in social media nowadays. The future is now, old man

  • @Grassphobic

    @Grassphobic

    6 ай бұрын

    @@-WarCriminal-22 And most people are afraid to have an actual face to face conversation outside of text messaging as a result, and expect instant gratification to where if you don't spark interest in the first message it's immediate ghosting.

  • @jamesgentry13

    @jamesgentry13

    6 ай бұрын

    Modern feminists is killing society too

  • @thalmoragent9344

    @thalmoragent9344

    5 ай бұрын

    Wouldn't solve much 😅

  • @daredevil5072

    @daredevil5072

    2 ай бұрын

    Delete not just dating apps but porn, social media, all that. And no masturbation.

  • @xybersurfer
    @xybersurfer7 ай бұрын

    the problem is not that men need to just shut up and deal with it, as you are suggesting. the problem is that we men are making it difficult for ourselves by simping, which inflates women's ego. you should explicitly be telling men to not simp. that's the solution. pandering to women's inflated ego is not the solution. we control who we give attention

  • @Cerenduil

    @Cerenduil

    7 ай бұрын

    I agree with both man... but lets be honest we have been checking for years on an impossibility within this society to critizice women not even slightly and with good and nice intentions because if you do you are considered a "bad person" which is messed up. We focus on "incels" because deep within we know pride and delusional high standards in women are such a common thing to see that it became "just fine and nothing wrong with it". In other words; we need criticism towards both men and women.

  • @dandaman9009

    @dandaman9009

    6 ай бұрын

    “The problem is not that men need to just shut up and deal with it” is the attitude that left so many men behind in this part of life to begin with. If we keep doing this many more men will delete themselves or become more violent

  • @freakinccdevilleiv380

    @freakinccdevilleiv380

    6 ай бұрын

    🎯This guy is just another pua grifter

  • @xybersurfer

    @xybersurfer

    6 ай бұрын

    @@freakinccdevilleiv380 yeah. you said the words i thought, but didn't want to say. there is a huge conflict of interest going on here

  • @freakinccdevilleiv380

    @freakinccdevilleiv380

    6 ай бұрын

    @@xybersurfer Their points are common sense, not saying it's all useless. But the pattern is that they shame men, flex their own achievements, while hiding all the 'L's, and justify all and any sht sandwich modern vvomen serve as being perfectly normal. Then they present their product for sale.

  • @kulik03
    @kulik037 ай бұрын

    Yes our dads reproduced, but there's a stark difference between getting A girl vs getting a girl we're actually attracted to. I'd venture to say that the reason so many of us are single is because we can't get with girls we actually like + too many negative references

  • @Madchris8828

    @Madchris8828

    7 ай бұрын

    Where I live its actually really hard to find someone who isn't morbidly obese (male or female) kinda narrows the options down a lot too. Time to find a new place to live, tbh. But yeah you need to start dumping the negativity over time. It really doesn't help us.

  • @candles6103

    @candles6103

    7 ай бұрын

    You one of the comments that Denmos been mentioning in his videos 😂. Stop finding excuses and find solutions man

  • @CommandoMaster

    @CommandoMaster

    7 ай бұрын

    Getting an attractive girl in this day and age is nearly impossible for most guys

  • @JohnnyWalkerBlack142

    @JohnnyWalkerBlack142

    7 ай бұрын

    To get a girl you’re attracted to you also need to be attractive to her. It’s personal growth + a numbers game. Become an attractive man. Write down all the qualities your ideal woman would be attracted to and become that version of yourself. Then filter through your options. It only takes a few years to get your shit together. But even in the mean time you will be attractive because women will see that you have a goal in mind. The most unattractive thing is if you are depressed and playing the victim. I mean think about it, you really have nothing to lose. Either go all in and do your best or die trying, but please do not decide to be a loser for the rest of your life. Our entire biology is built around the goal of us reproducing. In a sense, that is our purpose biologically.

  • @kulik03

    @kulik03

    7 ай бұрын

    @@JohnnyWalkerBlack142 not everyone can become more attractive though, we all have a potential and some of us have already maxxed out on it, not giving excuses but simply explaining how the other side feels... when you'v been working on yourself for say 20 years and been told several times that yo'ure unattractive, there's not so much you can do

  • @onlinealias123
    @onlinealias1237 ай бұрын

    My life became significantly better when I stopped escaping my problems and started facing them. It is terrifying at first but when you remember that if you don't take action you'll probably kill yourself from depression and regret, not taking action becomes scarier. Also, taking action and being bold makes you feel like a fucking man, even if you fail sometimes. Just having the balls to approach people, cold call prospects, sell your services in person, get rid of and reject the negative people in your life and make new friends with people you actually like, go skydiving, improve my skills by trying and failing, etc. you'll gain confidence and everything feels more like a game. Your life is your kingdom and you choose where to take it, in spite of fear and failure. I'm 24 and this is the year I actually became a man because I finally took action to get what I always wanted and stopped settling for bullshit (and had more success than I expected)

  • @dealerofdeth
    @dealerofdeth7 ай бұрын

    Self reflection is the chicken noodle soup of men's mental health

  • @KR-xn8xr
    @KR-xn8xr7 ай бұрын

    Here are some tips to all my young bros 1. Focus on yourself first, make yourself happy, mental health etc , then go and find a partner that adds to your hapiness dont think a partner will give you happiness. 2. women are human beings treat them with respect however resepect has to go both ways. Respext yourlsef enough to not simp but give enough affection. 3. Women have always acted the way they do the game hasnt changed replying fast to text, etc.. what has changed in society access to internet social media all these thing together have highly highly blown up womens ego so be careful you select a genuine partner. 4. It is not impossible to date. However, back in our grandads days, it used to be 10% bad apples and 90% good women in today age its the other way around due to point 3. 5. Never lower your standards, talk to girls, and have fun treat them like humans dont try to sleep with them as your main goal. Add more points to all my fellow bros

  • @Jedilord882

    @Jedilord882

    6 ай бұрын

    I’m getting rejected by women in my college classes. I am 6’1, lightskin mixed black (think Drake), studying compsci, and my physique is good enough to get me compliments at the gym & on instagram. I have pretty unique hobbies too, if I say so myself. I play piano well, I draw, and I paint. Speaking of Instagram, my account has a decent following (1000) and womem have dm’d and called me hot numerous times virtually and in person. I cannot get a woman to take me seriously in person. The easiest women that should be accessible to a man are literally impossible to allure. Quite literally every man and woman I personally know, who are in relationships, met their others online (either instagram or a dating app). Dating is dead. Atleast in person. I have decent success sliding into dms and on dating apps. I’m 25 and focusing on myself exclusively for the remainder of my life. Social Media & Feminism have basically fractured the human species, and I don’t know if we will recover.

  • @GarrotWire
    @GarrotWire7 ай бұрын

    If there is winners, there will always be losers. Not everyone will be willing or equipped to make it. That’s the ugly truth, we can’t be deluded by confidence. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try it out. We should leave alternative options for those who didn’t make it.

  • @xybersurfer

    @xybersurfer

    7 ай бұрын

    if less of us were simping, then more would make it. just simply talking about "winners and losers" completely misses this point. and it's also the only point i agree with in this video

  • @GarrotWire

    @GarrotWire

    7 ай бұрын

    @@xybersurfer Again, no matter what, there will always be winners and losers. If you seriously think simping is the only problem, I’d suggest digging deeper.

  • @xybersurfer

    @xybersurfer

    7 ай бұрын

    @@GarrotWire where did i deny that there are winners and losers? what other problems are there? "digging deeper" is way too vague

  • @GarrotWire

    @GarrotWire

    7 ай бұрын

    @@xybersurfer Wasn’t really implying that you did, my bad. Simping isn’t the only issue that’s causing the dating problem. I feel like horrible mental health, society’s unrealistic expectations, woke propaganda, and genetics play a huge part of it. Thinking that less simping would do the trick is pretty vague, there’s obviously more to it. Could be missing others..

  • @xybersurfer

    @xybersurfer

    7 ай бұрын

    @@GarrotWire i don't think that less simping is vague. to me it seems very obvious that it enables unrealistic expectations and propaganda. i won't discount that there may be other factors, but nothing else seems as obvious. unrealistic expectations are also what you see when you spoil a child

  • @codered9576
    @codered95766 ай бұрын

    I don't know, I'm 44 years old and only been in two serious relationships and have been single for the last 10 years because I don't want to go through it again. I've been an introvert because of bad relationships. In today's age the risk is not worth taking.

  • @PinacoladaMatthew

    @PinacoladaMatthew

    6 ай бұрын

    Take risks bro, seriously, take a fucking chance

  • @chinomsojohnson8746
    @chinomsojohnson87467 ай бұрын

    You are a blessing to the internet. Merry christmas and I really wish you a successful year ahead.

  • @tc2raven
    @tc2raven7 ай бұрын

    Hey Denmo. About a year ago (in fact a couple days less) I saw your video about the 2023 Monk Mode, and had it not been for your video and had it not been for my discipline and my change of mindset that was stimulated by that sole video, I would've killed myself a while ago or had achieved near to nothing this year, been stuck on the same rut that I had been since 2020 to 2022. I recently rejoined your server to help men that're on the position that I was once initially at, to share my wisdom and my findings this year, and I'm infinitely grateful for what you put together this last year. My gratitude expands beyond that which I can express and now a days I can't be more thankful for your straightforwardness in these videos and how based you are. Once again, thank you Denmo, please don't stop doing what you're doing. Your turtle neck is really cool. - Thomas/Thomashawk (ceo of the asylum)

  • @Giga1337

    @Giga1337

    7 ай бұрын

    hells yeah brudda good to hear

  • @aki1les
    @aki1les7 ай бұрын

    This was a great wake up call. Time to upgrade

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    all good bro, glad it finally woke you up

  • @Favoki
    @Favoki7 ай бұрын

    Modern women aren't really worth a damn tho

  • @rexremedy1733

    @rexremedy1733

    7 ай бұрын

    You are the teacher these men need. Clear, concise, true statements. Thanks! You are the future!

  • @begunbiscuit3212
    @begunbiscuit32127 ай бұрын

    Your like a star pulling me in and changing my course forever

  • @mackcamp1079
    @mackcamp10797 ай бұрын

    This was a great video! Very good

  • @darijusjankauskas5736
    @darijusjankauskas57367 ай бұрын

    100% right. Men have to take responsability of themselves and others. Men need to have boundaries, values and vision. Weak men will bring hard times. Hard times will create strong men. Strong men will bring good times again. We will pull this through. Believe it.

  • @6dark6souls6

    @6dark6souls6

    7 ай бұрын

    thats not what men do they only take responsibility of themselves not others so u can leave

  • @Madchris8828
    @Madchris88287 ай бұрын

    I've made more progress this year than in any other of my life, and it really was just putting my head to the grindstone and working on my issues, be it mental, physical, financial, whatever. Unless you are completely financially incompetent, there are so many ways to improve your financial standing. It's not even funny. Im not where I want to be yet, but I have made leaps and bounds. Gotta say though, went through a pretty rough patch this year and had to dig myself out of it. Also I'm glad that it seems like dudes are starting to try to help each other at least.

  • @JohnnyWalkerBlack142

    @JohnnyWalkerBlack142

    7 ай бұрын

    Don’t be too hard on yourself. Our economy is shit right now and most people are struggling financially. But glad to hear you are making it through

  • @Madchris8828

    @Madchris8828

    7 ай бұрын

    @@JohnnyWalkerBlack142 thank you. It's been tough but at least I am starting to see a far better trajectory for myself. Going this road almost completely alone on self improvement can be a slog at times. Not every day are you going to wake up and have an easy time not giving into your hedonism and time wasting bad habbits

  • @kojarart3184

    @kojarart3184

    6 ай бұрын

    يبغس​@@JohnnyWalkerBlack142

  • @thalmoragent9344

    @thalmoragent9344

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@JohnnyWalkerBlack142 Yeah, rough in many places. Gotta grind very hard these days tbh

  • @mr.c7340
    @mr.c73407 ай бұрын

    Yes. Just Yes. This is what needs to be said. I agree with you man. There are So many other KZread channels pointing out how crazy modern women are and that's it. It's easier to point out the problem, but harder to have solutions. My take away from you, is be accountable for yourself. Actively work on yourself. I think this as well broski. Thanks

  • @user-qx7yw2cv7k

    @user-qx7yw2cv7k

    6 ай бұрын

    Dude I have a gf and this guy is just ignorant. Facts arnt hate. Dude is just willfully ignorant.

  • @emersonhansen3109

    @emersonhansen3109

    6 ай бұрын

    Buddy, this dude has probably talked to thousands of more women than you, no less pulling way more than you could ever do lmao. I think your the only ignorant person here

  • @rayamat01

    @rayamat01

    4 ай бұрын

    I'm 6'4", have a full head of hair, clean cut, attractive face, in decent shape, make 160k a year, I've tried in person and online and even fat girls are rejecting me. I truly am at a loss

  • @JackSparrow-yw3kw
    @JackSparrow-yw3kw7 ай бұрын

    Great Video Denmo

  • @JustBowman
    @JustBowman7 ай бұрын

    Chicken noodle soup... can not stress how important the gym is to your development. I put it off until I was 40, but in the last year, have averaged 5 days a week, feel better, think clearer and have made 50 gym buddies

  • @joshuaholliday648
    @joshuaholliday6486 ай бұрын

    Chicken noodle soup. Bro appreciate you always! Keep staying you and keep staying focus🙏🏾

  • @thehooperpooper4392
    @thehooperpooper43927 ай бұрын

    The character arc from jack denmo to denmo is unreal.

  • @ericreyes3383
    @ericreyes33834 ай бұрын

    Loved this video its a huge eye opener keep up the good work Denmo

  • @omnipotentfish
    @omnipotentfish5 ай бұрын

    That was an extremely positive and inspiring video and more helpful than the other 95% of crap that I get on my feed. Thank you. 👏

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    5 ай бұрын

    no problem man. send the video to your friends!

  • @WhosMatthewH
    @WhosMatthewH7 ай бұрын

    Keep up the good work!

  • @TheGreenAnima
    @TheGreenAnima7 ай бұрын

    If we are going to clean up the comment section, then I propose that people talk about their recent cold approaches, successful or not. No negativity, and community that's actually out there doing the approaches.

  • @raphaeltanguay2955
    @raphaeltanguay29557 ай бұрын

    well me i am trying to fixing men datting problem but we usally dont listen to me so i can't save people who want to stay in the past and date 3d women instead of embracing the futur and date waifu, ai girlfriend and robot girlfriend.

  • @rf-uj5sc

    @rf-uj5sc

    7 ай бұрын

    We don't wanna fuck cartoons bro stop

  • @kenzboard
    @kenzboard6 ай бұрын

    being social and building a proper social circle and even leading it is paramount. you do that, you get social proof and self validation. then the ladies come to you. done.

  • @barberbroski
    @barberbroski6 ай бұрын

    Glad I found your channel today. Great advice and I agree. Even if many dudes here aren't willing to accept responsibility.

  • @rexremedy1733
    @rexremedy17337 ай бұрын

    There are 5 hour videos where they tell you what it is actually about in the first minute, and here I am 10 minutes in and still I am not informed about the most basic working hypothesis.

  • @spacepuppy720
    @spacepuppy7202 ай бұрын

    This video is 100% true... I was worried nobody on this whole platform was thinking these thoughts like i have.

  • @thalmoragent9344
    @thalmoragent93445 ай бұрын

    Not everything is in a man's direct control. Sad but true. You can always set yourself up for success, doesn’t mean you'll reach it. I've had goals, which I reached and worked out pretty well, but its not the same for everyone. Not everyone can be on the mountain top together. I think its important to have optimism, as well as a solid step in hard reality. Otherwise... well, it's a dangers life to live.

  • @1werewolf
    @1werewolf7 ай бұрын

    Good video. See wisdom in this one, young skywalker...lol. Men must raise their standards. Doing so makes everyone better.

  • @dxrkskies3872
    @dxrkskies38725 ай бұрын

    I like how your content feels like an older brother getting mad at me and telling me to be better lmaoo

  • @DiggingDeepVlog
    @DiggingDeepVlog7 ай бұрын

    Your point about Onlyfans and saving men is moot theres armies of simps and they grow in numbers daily

  • @rexremedy1733

    @rexremedy1733

    7 ай бұрын

    Yeah. But the crises ahead will take care of that…

  • @joseph93957
    @joseph939577 ай бұрын

    I wonder if you have some skits or something we can get a sneak preview of

  • @andrewrenna6724
    @andrewrenna67246 ай бұрын

    I stopped drinking in November, quit nicotine, and smoking weed. All 3 have improved my finances, health, and energy. I’ve used that money to better my wardrobe. Ive been in the gym in the morning before work. All of this has increased my confidence incredibly. I now spend most night out of my apartment in a public place looking to start conversations. 3 short months of effort and things are drastically better for me and am confident most women would be interested. Thanks for the reminder that this stuff is worth it.

  • @diligenceeke3023
    @diligenceeke30236 ай бұрын

    Why is this guy so funny and calm at the same time and dishing gems while at it? You should be a preacher. Hahaha

  • @user-zx9dj3sy8u
    @user-zx9dj3sy8u7 ай бұрын

    18:09 what video is it from?

  • @ondrejhrton3352
    @ondrejhrton33526 ай бұрын

    These videos should get much bigger attention...

  • @simba720
    @simba7207 ай бұрын

    We can complain all we want, we also can improve all we want. It's rarely gonna be enough for the modern entitled majority of women out there. I look good,take really good care of myself and style, im not rich but I live a comfortable middle class life, got a career(military) , I feel good and confident about myself and approach women but still don't get to play except older women or the overweight ones, I'd rather be alone then lol

  • @rexremedy1733

    @rexremedy1733

    7 ай бұрын

    Good choice! Never compromise your self respect.

  • @Christoph2420
    @Christoph24207 ай бұрын

    this is the wakeup call i´ve needed. Thanks bro! btw. Nice chicken noodle soup!

  • @AlessandroStamatto
    @AlessandroStamatto7 ай бұрын

    Chicken Noodle Soup xD Great perspective. I agree with 98%

  • @couchpotato7124
    @couchpotato71247 ай бұрын

    I've been wanting to know whats your success rate when your asking a girl out on a date? Higher than 50%?

  • @rexremedy1733

    @rexremedy1733

    7 ай бұрын

    14 percent of all marriages work out fine. 86 percent fail. Ruining lives of men, children, and so on. Is this ratio worth the risk to engage with women?

  • @CenationTroop
    @CenationTroop7 ай бұрын

    Denmo in many of your videos, you talk about learning a new skill, starting a business etc. Can you make a video that goes into this in more detail? I would like to learn a new skill that I can use for a side hustle but I just don’t know where to start! A video about this topic would be helpful. I have an interest in photography but I’m not sure if this hobby is something I can realistically make money from as a side hustle

  • @ramalellison9205

    @ramalellison9205

    7 ай бұрын

    theres google

  • @MrMyller

    @MrMyller

    7 ай бұрын

    My question is how do you stop feeling disgusted by women? Like I haven’t even come close to the shit most women have done. Like seeing them as human is one thing but the stuff they’ve done (including my sisters) just makes me sick. I feel like the only answer is to do it yourself so that you bring yourself to that level, but then I would just be disgusted by myself? If women were pure and had high standards and it was hard to get them that would be one thing… but it’s the fact that all those brutal standards come down for the attractive dudes and they behave like whores. Not everyone can make a women behave like that for them, and it’s evident to us that if a woman isn’t behaving like to you, then you’re not here top guy and you should just give up.

  • @semenjones3282

    @semenjones3282

    6 ай бұрын

    @@ramalellison9205like google will do anything except scam or mislead you

  • @SamTheManSWAG
    @SamTheManSWAG7 ай бұрын

    If I send you an email with a detailed thought, would ya respond?

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    sure G I gotchu

  • @Giga1337
    @Giga13377 ай бұрын

    SPEAR TO THE JUGULAR!

  • @tommyflockman7329
    @tommyflockman73297 ай бұрын

    WHERE DO I GET THE TURTLE NECK SHIRT?

  • @semekiizuio
    @semekiizuio6 ай бұрын

    I think another issue is the constant images of attractive people online is like facade because in reality people dont actually look like that, not average looking people anyway who dont have millions of dollar to burn for plastic surgary skin scare treatments and fancy trendy clothes or filters. Not saying there arent naturally attractive people but I find them kind of rare. So what people want, what people are use to seeing is like a delusion of perfection instead of accepting imperfections as human beings.

  • @Mynamejeff666
    @Mynamejeff6667 ай бұрын

    In the words of Varg Vikernes… “Stop Watching P***”

  • @mgcpratt
    @mgcpratt7 ай бұрын

    it's winter bro when are you gonna bring back the trapper hat, that's what really makes you hot (heat energy)

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    its coming dont worry

  • @jimbobfisher8904
    @jimbobfisher89047 ай бұрын

    1:43 chill😂😂😂

  • @ejesus2387
    @ejesus23876 ай бұрын

    People actually fist bumping their phone’s fawk yeah. 💪😂🤙I admit it, thanks for looking out jack as well as chicken noodle soup, cheers bro 🍻

  • @That_OneGuy46
    @That_OneGuy467 ай бұрын

    Chicken noodle soup? I never really thought about why I watched those videos about people making fun of feminists, I’d just sit there, watch it, and learn nothing. I’ll definitely be blocking any of the channels if they get recommended to me.

  • @zala1
    @zala16 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately I started learning the realties of being man in my early 40s. I have a lot to learn and catching up to do. Will be joining Socializer again. Life is getting shorter and need to take action now.

  • @rexremedy1733
    @rexremedy17337 ай бұрын

    I feel dirty for having this in my recommended video feed. I will make sure it will never appear there again…

  • @lightheart2731
    @lightheart27316 ай бұрын

    Insulted in the first 40 seconds of the first video I watched of this guy, but got me to laugh. I like this guy! On with the rest of the video.

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    6 ай бұрын

    welcome to the family brother

  • @brent2040
    @brent20406 ай бұрын

    We all getting stuck on the ground floor, take the stairs upwards.

  • @33Danso3x
    @33Danso3x7 ай бұрын

    Got me rethinking my life and shit

  • @nnnnnnnnnnchang8900
    @nnnnnnnnnnchang89006 ай бұрын

    the first min of this vid is chaotic 😭

  • @ExploringWithMike69
    @ExploringWithMike694 ай бұрын

    Heres me using a dating app slide left reject each and every single on of them but im out here focusin on the purpose at hand sure i dont at night 8-9 pm

  • @bonhomie6275
    @bonhomie62752 ай бұрын

    I have too long attention spen that I watch your hold video just to kill my times.

  • @Kevinleehiltonjr
    @Kevinleehiltonjr7 ай бұрын

    Acceptance is grand.

  • @rexremedy1733
    @rexremedy17337 ай бұрын

    This is the dumbest video about the topic I have seen so far. And some serious audience hating going on as well. On the other hand, it’s your fault if you watch stuff like that and take it seriously. So anybody watching this unironically: You are part of the problem, and not the solution.

  • @heelmoxley365
    @heelmoxley3656 ай бұрын

    Chicken Noodle Soup Thanks brother.

  • @Larper00
    @Larper006 ай бұрын

    are you romanian ? saw sticker on ur laptop

  • @s.k.8263
    @s.k.82636 ай бұрын

    This dude is really good. What he advises should be the norm, yet for a number of modern reasons it isn't. Of course except from the part about randomly approaching women on the street (don't do it outside of North America, it's an insanely desperate move).

  • @diligenceeke3023

    @diligenceeke3023

    6 ай бұрын

    People speak to people everywhere all over the world.

  • @majesticmythology
    @majesticmythology7 ай бұрын

    I literally have the same turtleneck

  • @candles6103
    @candles61037 ай бұрын

    Id love to see you start making videos on money rather than getting girls but i might be one of the few who prefer that 😂

  • @andyfranks1575
    @andyfranks15757 ай бұрын

    Chicken Noodle Soup. Hey, Denmo. The algorithm keeps feeding me dating schadenfreude. Obviously "not clicking on it" is a solution, but I need something to listen to while I work. How do I retrain youtube to give me something useful?

  • @caseyodonnell55
    @caseyodonnell555 ай бұрын

    thanks dad

  • @VestigeFinder
    @VestigeFinder7 ай бұрын

    nah lol imma keep playing video games and staying at home while society collapses. i still workout tho cause its great regardless of women

  • @EricTheOvercomer4
    @EricTheOvercomer47 ай бұрын

    Thanks

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    all good brother i gotchu

  • @benjaminfandetti23
    @benjaminfandetti237 ай бұрын

    Chicken noodle soup but hold the soup cause I’m trying to get big in the gym

  • @brysonw2952
    @brysonw29526 ай бұрын

    If this video was 10 minutes long I might watch it …

  • @magnusburnouf661
    @magnusburnouf6617 ай бұрын

    I relly like your 30 second of your video, your speaking a lot of truth, i'm 37 years old, just left my job 5 month ago, first because of accident I had on my knee and after tried do dating and focusing on bad thing and I was not doing much except negativity.

  • @lyrikiletrife95
    @lyrikiletrife956 ай бұрын

    @Denmosocial thats why I made a video about why all these KZreadrs giving you life advice dont actually care about you tbh your probably the only real one actually helping everyone who watches your videos thats pretty rare cause most KZreadrs who drop videos only do it for content thats it they dont do it for you to help solve your problem in life

  • @clockworkmello
    @clockworkmello7 ай бұрын

    Chicken noodles soup gang you already know what time it is we on it 36:31

  • @BenJi2DxD
    @BenJi2DxD7 ай бұрын

    Why are you insulting your audience? So we can feel bad and buy your product or...what?

  • @rexremedy1733

    @rexremedy1733

    7 ай бұрын

    Because the audience is so pathetic that it actually improves video metrics.

  • @twixxtro
    @twixxtro7 ай бұрын

    real thumbnail

  • @Denmosocial

    @Denmosocial

    7 ай бұрын

    real avatar

  • @Szpareq

    @Szpareq

    7 ай бұрын

    He's literally me

  • @MM33_
    @MM33_7 ай бұрын

    I don't agree with downing men for understanding the nature of wmn. We are hard wired to care for wmn and children and if there's a virus in the system, you definitely need to know. Understand. Reset and Re-strategize. For ex, Will Smith, Jonathan Majors, etc

  • @robf8805
    @robf88057 ай бұрын

    35:55 more than I could have ever realized

  • @Jorcuis_
    @Jorcuis_7 ай бұрын

    Chicken noodle soup. I hate the fact I'm still a virgin at 24.... what a waste of years. Didn't want to socialize, go to parties, etc... Just play videogames... And my friends say I'm handsome, and I'm 6ft2. BUT the BIG problem is I have Vitiligo. So, all these years were like I didn't want anyone to see me, thinking no girls will ever like me, so I stayed playing videogames all day, all my middle school, high school, and early 20s...... I was interested in Self-Improvement and entrepreneurship since 14-15, but I just procrastinated every single year 'till now, and I have this huge regret of not having done anything. I just want to be at the same pace as everyone, and experience multiple youth love with young girls, not settle for girls of my age who already "have had their fun" and are starting to leave their best physicaly attractive years.... And seeing I'm 24, a girl of 18 or 19 is starting to be a big age gap....

  • @JT_16

    @JT_16

    7 ай бұрын

    I’m scared of that happening to me, I get scared of talking to girls and I’m the only 18 year old I know that hasent had a girl show interest in let alone a GF. I’ve been self improving for almost a year now tho

  • @byron9630

    @byron9630

    7 ай бұрын

    Bro just have fun

  • @TheGreenAnima

    @TheGreenAnima

    7 ай бұрын

    Start with socializing, doing cold approaches. The confidence gained from that will transform all other areas of your life. It's the best dopamine hit.

  • @brunobautista6316
    @brunobautista63167 ай бұрын

    I made an approach today. It failed. Later on, a guy just started talking to me about an incident that just happened on the bus, he left, a girl took place, exchanged some looks and she asked my about what time it was. Werid thing is: she *had* her cellphone in her hands, screen just shut off. I smiled at her and told hee "you don't like these?" while shaking my own phone, but showing her the time on my clock (the one you carry on your wrist, I dunno how you call them in English). She blushed a bit, and we had the most amazing conversation for the next 30min. The lesson I learned today is that people out there is still up to meet someone out there and not only IG and social media, is just that most of the people is not used to it, but the moment they see you are a chill person and you like to vibe there with people talking about random things, they suddenly are more open to it!

  • @xybersurfer

    @xybersurfer

    7 ай бұрын

    i guess i will just wait for a girl to ask me the time... yeah "great" plan

  • @semekiizuio

    @semekiizuio

    6 ай бұрын

    I hope she said, nah im lazy af and wanted to come talk to you 😂

  • @tom-vx1lp
    @tom-vx1lp6 ай бұрын

    youre well evolved for your age

  • @HH-bc2nz
    @HH-bc2nz7 ай бұрын

    My boy, do some research before your speak. Alexander Grace has a happy family and they already have a kid... He is not bashing on women, he is protecting guys from the 90% of damaged women and gives advice how to find the healthy feminine 10% of girls who are wife material... Not everybody is incel and hating on women. Women are amazing if they did the work, if they eat healthy, exercise, if they learn about human behavior, if they learn to have inner confidence instead of chasing outside validation. We are looking for these girls for long term and avoiding the rest.

  • @rexremedy1733

    @rexremedy1733

    7 ай бұрын

    So if all of those 10 percent are finding a match, what about the remaining 90 percent that are left? Doesn’t that decrease chances on the long run?

  • @ericgilliam9902
    @ericgilliam99027 ай бұрын

    MGTOW for life

  • @Vfl666

    @Vfl666

    7 ай бұрын

    Mstow

  • @lthecomprmiser883
    @lthecomprmiser8837 ай бұрын

    Great point misleading misguiding teenage boys

  • @starborn6239
    @starborn62397 ай бұрын

    When the hell did Gandhi say that LMAO

  • @TheGreenAnima

    @TheGreenAnima

    7 ай бұрын

    It's legit, I recently read it in a fortune cookie

  • @starborn6239

    @starborn6239

    7 ай бұрын

    @@TheGreenAnima XDDD WHATTT

  • @Giga1337
    @Giga13377 ай бұрын

    ah 2nd place, so close!

  • @dominiks.
    @dominiks.7 ай бұрын

    Spam approaching is not good

  • @albertodeulofeu5277
    @albertodeulofeu52774 ай бұрын

    11:10 I have tons of experience with women. Most of the things you hear in this space is true. Period.

  • @user-le9zv1zz9p
    @user-le9zv1zz9p7 ай бұрын

    What are some good ways that a 14 yr old can make good money

  • @tjwithanak7517

    @tjwithanak7517

    7 ай бұрын

    Jesus man. Be a Kid!

  • @Pluttarch

    @Pluttarch

    7 ай бұрын

    I was your age to and tried to start a Business. I regret it. Please just focus on yourself, be a kid.

  • @user-le9zv1zz9p

    @user-le9zv1zz9p

    7 ай бұрын

    Thankyou for telling me this you are probably right that someone at 14 should enjoy childhood but even then earning money at a young age for some reason feels beneficial

  • @Pluttarch

    @Pluttarch

    7 ай бұрын

    @@user-le9zv1zz9p You can have a little side hustle, but try to focus on other things. Getting good friends, trying to figure out what sport you like, get a girlfriend for a while. Have a good time. Do something stupid. Things you do with 14. You have enough time later for a real Business when you found out what you are good at.

  • @Mr1Broke1Acid
    @Mr1Broke1Acid6 ай бұрын

    There is no fixing this problem. George Carlin said "If you think there's a solution, you're part of the problem." That being said, fuck all of the shitty advice on dating. Everyone needs to just get over the girlfriend/boyfriend or whatever bullshit they want today. Everyone is and can be an island. Just do shit yourself. You don't need ANYONE. I have been alone my entire life and not once did I ever need some dumb bitch weighing me down.

  • @roronoarell4470

    @roronoarell4470

    6 ай бұрын

    You sound so hurt

  • @Mr1Broke1Acid

    @Mr1Broke1Acid

    6 ай бұрын

    @@roronoarell4470 Never been hurt. No idea what it feels like.

  • @roronoarell4470

    @roronoarell4470

    6 ай бұрын

    @@Mr1Broke1Acid ok

  • @user-pc2hk1qk6o
    @user-pc2hk1qk6o5 ай бұрын

    Yea, I'm a pretty social guy with girls for a 15-year-old... I'm sort of different from the other boys who were all literal monkeys...I'm calmer and don't run on the tables. So, I didn't vibe, with a majority of the boys in my class except a few but i could talk to all the girls without issue, now seeing this, these guys who stay in their little circle and don't talk to girls started calling me a simp... I had to be cautious not to go over and talk to the girls (who i only viewed as friends) all the time cuz if i was not careful, I'd come under fire from these pretend sigma incels.

  • @quekZo95

    @quekZo95

    2 ай бұрын

    Ok simp

  • @jamesgentry13
    @jamesgentry136 ай бұрын

    Dating is not easy what a joke

  • @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm
    @ShoaibKhan-bz5qm7 ай бұрын

    3:37 that wouldn't sell haha

  • @AfroLatinoJG
    @AfroLatinoJG7 ай бұрын

    This guy kills me when he goes dummy 😚🍆😂