Hey guys, I’m a woman. If you want go meet well-rounded single girls, i would suggest going to pottery/painting classes, the dog park, and events in general. I meet lots of friends at these settings and wished I could meet a guy doing stuff I usually do anyway. You could even meet girls to introduce you to their friends. Good luck!

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

good feedback thanks for that

@justgivenofox9543

6 ай бұрын

26M thank you for the suggestions. Dog park is on the list this year and I just got a library card too!! Might try and talk to someone at the library. Just gotta figure out how 🤔

@PainfulGrowth

3 ай бұрын

Hell naw what the fuck is even poetry meet me in the boxing ring instead

@mattg5978

3 ай бұрын

Terrible advice, I majored in art and literally every girl in the classes had a boyfriend or wasn’t into men 😂😩😩

@Ashley-yy3de

3 ай бұрын

You might find a lot of gay of bi girls but it’s way more fun and better than online dating or randomly approaching a woman

Started off my first weekend of 2024 with a few cold approaches after never trying them before (social anxiety stemmed from actually always being around the wrong people who reinforce “bro you have no shot”) and while these first conversations didn’t necessarily get immediate results I gotta say doing this and just talking to new people made my nights out so much more fun than usual and makes me hype for the rest of the year.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

proud of you G keep going

Now you have no excuses. Time to become a Socializer

@z-rex6068

4 ай бұрын

@@FvckEmWeUp Literally.

Yo, that skiing analogy really hit home. Don't focus on the obstacles; focus on the path around the obstacles. As perception-based animals, we have a tendency of running headlong into whatever it is we're looking at. People are so neurotic that they're only looking at their problems and not paying any attention to potential solutions, so they do nothing but fall on their face.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

glad it resonated with you G, thanks for commenting

What I found very useful (I live in a very small town) is apart from going to big cities on the weekend (and 2 times per week I work in the big city in the office, so I have the afternoon before getting the train home) - getting some random leads in my small town during the week and then on one special occasion just instead of going for a "normal second date" invite the girl to a one-time dancing class and generate social proof and work on your dancing skills at the same time, the same works with inviting her to a mma-class, also got to know a very nice girl when I was Thai-boxing in Thailand lol

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

good tips thanks for sharing

I do uber on Saturday nights mostly for fun and it has been the best thing i've done in my life so far to meet people. You need to be really good at talking and entertaining for this to work but once you get used to talking a lot it becomes so easy to the point you'll have people asking for your number for future rides.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

great socializing my dad used to drive limos and he loved it

@lonnielynn9566

4 ай бұрын

You ever hit on girl passengers? Sometimes I do but I'm not sure if that's wrong or not.

Very good video thank you for it. The important thing I miss for is living in a populated area but I try my best to get into it in future to do these things that you can do in the freetime afternoon/evening.

Useful advices, thank you!

Really pracitcal video Denmo! Thanks. Got me motivated🙂. I work as an occipational therapist

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

gotchu bro. hope to see you in socializer one day

exactly what I needed, Jack you are always coming in clutch

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

gotchu homie

right vid right time. working 9-5 since 18, didn't even get to experience hs/college fun. 21 now

@Cookedfrfrfr

5 ай бұрын

Have you managed to find something yet? I'm in the same position as you and I'm just as lonely especially when I'm at home in my own apartment it just kills me inside.

@QUICKFLIX415

5 ай бұрын

@@Cookedfrfrfr i was lucky enough to realize no one is coming to save me. now my first goal is to lose weight and get shredded as everyone says its the first step of starting life and everything gets better from there.

@QUICKFLIX415

5 ай бұрын

@@Cookedfrfrfr i would get shredded first. as going to the gym is mostly starter point of self improvement

@JulianWilliams04

4 ай бұрын

@@CookedfrfrfrCheck it out ❗️

@ValidEarYT

3 ай бұрын

@@Cookedfrfrfrhave you tried talking to people at the gym? You could make friends with them or you could join a club sports team where a lot of like-minded young men would be.

i so much enjoyed ths, am subscribing and liking it

I love your vids man I'm gonna get my bread up and get your course thanks for posting these kind of vids

Thank you for the video! I am a uni student, and would be interested to watch a video about this situation.

nice one denmo

This past year I have lost enough weight to go from being classified as Obese to now slightly overweight according to my BMI after being a bigger guy my whole life. But I also have a pretty wide upper body so I have the upside down dorito body type while still being a bit overweight. I have noticed a huge difference in the way women treat me (smiles, laughs, and jokes etc…) compared to before and this has boosted my confidence a whole lot. What I struggle with is finding bars/coffee shops/whatever places to meet girls since I’ve been a homebody and introvert my whole life up until this point. I don’t have many friends to hang out with/approach girls with and I don’t want to just go to a coffee shop and pretend to do work on my laptop. I will take your advice though and just go for it. 2024 gonna be a great year cause imma make it a great year!

@TheTurbonisse

7 ай бұрын

Well done! ! Why cant you pretend to work? No one will know😅

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

proud of you brother

@xXLokoXx_

7 ай бұрын

@@TheTurbonisse just doesn’t feel genuine, like I’m playing a part. I feel like someone would ask me what I’m working on and ill just be like nothing, absolutely nothing… But I guess I just gotta get over that and just do it regardless.

@Chiefsfan98

7 ай бұрын

Dude you sound exactly like me! Congratulations on your weight loss by the way! It definitely has made a difference for me as well. I’m still having a hard time organically meeting someone as well. I also don’t have any single close friends so it’s hard to find someone. Good luck to you brother!

@dna8269

6 ай бұрын

@@xXLokoXx_Just hangout and browse online then, you don’t have to work. No one is going to ask you anyway

Answer: at a restaurant. It works.

@gamerdude4465

7 ай бұрын

Depends which country you're from

@R5RGP

7 ай бұрын

@@gamerdude4465 I’m in a small town in America.

@DiggingDeepVlog

7 ай бұрын

Restaurant, call center, grocery store there’s plenty of opportunities

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

facts, can confirm

@R5RGP

7 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial I was at dinner with the bros the other night and they lost $60 thinking I wouldn’t get a girls number. I used to think I needed to be more into your content, but I’ve actually grown a lot in the last 1.5 years only kind of checking in occasionally. The internet advice may be good, but irl homies know best.

Very helpful video. I wiork at a bakery and meet a lot of people there including many attractive girls I have put to work many of your tips and they work great up to a point. There is a point that I need to get direct ask some of them their number and I hesitate to do it. Scared of what they may respond. I already asked one and she said yes then later when I asked her out she said no but its ok it is still a victory that I did it.

He's telling a WHOLE LOT OF TRUTH on the social media topic

I think this is one of the most useful videos you’ve ever posted. Appreciate this, gonna start applying

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

hell yeah bro, hope you become a socializer

Now this is the video I needed 😂

I work in a grocery store part-time. Working in a grocery store has helped me be more social, however, these videos are helping me a lot more since I'm also a visual learner, mixed with some other learning types.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

good man, if you need extra help with me, join socializer

@berggaming8783

7 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial Thank man, I wish I discovered you sooner. I used to be one of those guys who would watch those videos of modern-day women, and it had a hold on me until I saw one of your videos, and realized how right you are. I've approached more girls in the last few months because of you.

holy shit! you just described what I felt like in 29:30 when i was watching that shit. Appreciate all the things you do Denmo!💪

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

gotchu brother

I work in retail witch is why is mostly try to approach Monday Saturday and Sunday

Mon to Fri during lunch time I would talk to people at the restaurants or go to Starbucks . Sat and Sunday on my day off I will go hard . Places I would go bars, clubs , malls , libraries, train station. Approach atleast 40-50 girls in 2 days . Get their info and start talking to them after coming from work during week days 😉 Do this for solid 3-4 months . Seriously speaking , you won’t be able to decide who to go on a date with . 😅😅 I hope that helps .

@jerichoRoman02

7 ай бұрын

Yeah share the details

I think the main takeaway here is get out the house and talk to women when going about your day to day. What alot of guys seem to not understand is its a numbers game, youre gonna get rejected, alot at first, but you just gotta keep trucking. She could have rejected you for a million different reasons, but really who cares? What matters is you went for what you wanted. Be proud of yourself for doing so. Believe and work on yourself, with cold-approaching (talking to women) being a skill you will get better at with time. The great girls are out there, but youre not gonna meet them on the dating apps, never leaving your home. You will cross paths with her once maybe, in your entire life, so why not just go and talk to her? Theres nothing to lose...

@nuttybutterx4259

4 ай бұрын

I just screen shotted your comment, bro! Thx!

Funny thing is, i work security at my job and that gives me some leverage to meet girls, because predominantly girls of all ages shop there. Only issue for me really is not coming off creepy to them and risking my job, but i pretty much have an idea on how to talk to them. It's just that little bit a fear that crawls back every now and then. I think it's a good thing in hindsight though, considering my job is to keep them safe, so i just keep that in mind when interacting with them. It makes me more aware of my words and how they'd perceive me. Other than that, i try to approach outside on my off days. Thanks Denmo for your advice.

Thanks denmo, I just got a really good job, but I work 9-10 hours a day 5-6 days a week sometimes. I never had a problem actually talking and interacting with women, but the hardest thing for me was finding women that I would date.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

you find them by meeting the ones you dont want to. they are out there but you need to spend several hours per week meeting them, til you find the right one

@brunobautista6316

7 ай бұрын

​@@Denmosocialso... approaching girls I'm not interested to is a good strategy, then?

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

@@brunobautista6316 absolutely, make some friends. Also, how many hours a week are you approaching? Should be atleast 2-3 hours

@zaxhooligan847

7 ай бұрын

I guess I should have clarified, not necessarily women I would date, but more of women in my age rage. I run into women older or younger than me (by a lot) all the time but rarely women around my age.

I work 4pm to midnight. Gymnos closed after work and the annoying part about gym before work is balancing the time to lift, sauna, and shower.

12 years ago was working 9-to-5. The only relationship I could sustain was occasional one-night stands. I quit my job after a fight with my manager and went on working at a restaurant washing dishes. It was a temp job but there were also people who work there temporarily. That's where I met my current wife. Quitting 9to5 to wash dishes was the best thing I've ever done.

Hello bro, may I ask what kind of business are you into? I hear that you're an entrepreneur but what do you exactly do? Greetings from argentina bro

What would you do if you work night shift 8pm to 6:30 am 4 days a week?

You got good biceps bro

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

thanks so do you king

I used to be so anxious while talking to girls, but after watching your videos for a while today I just went up to girl and said: hi I saw you over there and I think your cute. And I took her Ig. It gets easier when you do it.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

my man proud of you

I work in finance in NYC and I literally have no time besides the weekend. My M-F consists of the gym at 5:30am, get to work at 8am, and work straight through until 9-10pm. What do I do?

Bro I had the absolute worst day after new years eve. Went to see my ex and let’s just say it was a shitty mistake. So I was like ‘’Ok fuck this’’ so I wrote down a list on how I could beat that depression as fast as possible, and one of those things was cold approach. It’s hard for me, so that’s why I had to do it. I ended up approaching 8 cute girls last week and it’s only the 8th. Feel great again and inspired! Thanks Denmo!

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

you got this bro. see you inside socializer

@HateBear-real

11 күн бұрын

Never go back to an ex, bro. Leave the trash at the curb.

He said, if you have a girlfriend then use all that time you were spending finding her, into your business. Point: This is why when people are in committed relationships can focus on their “business, career”.

What Mui thui.. what classes.... Im cycling on full downpour to work here in Netherlands... and cycling sweaty from work on full downpour back to my workers hotel in the forest. Closest small city is 8 kilometers in one direction and closest small village with a supermarket is like 3 kilometers away.

I work 9-5 at a mall so that’s like the best way I know how lol. Or if it’s the weekend, if I go shopping, that’s the time. To me, there really isn’t an excuse

I like the video man I honestly do , but I’m an electrician. I work 6-2:30 and I’m home by 3:30 since I have an hour commute. Most days I’m completely drained after work and cannot fathom the thought of doing anything else but rotting in my bed after a long day on site. I’m 28 and I don’t have the energy to go out after work like when I was in my early 20s . I hate being lonely and not having a significant other.

What can you do if you work a mix of 8 hour to 16 hour shifts and you don't have weekends off?

I´m not sure about talking to girls at the gym, there are tons of girls on the internet who complain about that exact thing and say it ruins their whole experience when strangers try to approach them there.

@hairyballs089

7 ай бұрын

Women are liars. They love attention, I would bet my life that a good portion go for the attention.

can you do a video where you get into how introverts go through all this stuff and how extroverts go ?

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

i go deep into that in my socializer program

I have tried to talk to several women this week and all I get is “no thanks”, or “go away” or the lovely “f off”. And all I’m doing is cold approaching nicely. I’m watching less trying more but over 2023 I didn’t get one date. Even with warm approaches at work functions. It’s getting so demoralising it’s hard to keep going.

@dannymorrison137

7 ай бұрын

Keep it up g

@Brendan-05

7 ай бұрын

I’ve got two more weeks of holidays to go. I’ve just had an early gym session and once I’ve cleaned up, I’m going out all day to try Denmo tips.

@CommandoMaster

7 ай бұрын

That's most guys experience. Most girls are gonna pretend to be nice to ur face, then give u a fake number, or ghost u afterwards if u get her number. It's pretty demoralizing for guys trying to approach and date girls in the US nowadays. Girls have too many options, very high standards, and don't give AF about u, a random stranger trying to get to know her or take her out on a date.

@lorebringers

3 ай бұрын

@@Brendan-05any update chief?

I work in an oilfield, 2 weeks on/off. It's really hard nowadays to approach any girl out there considering I'm an immigrant to Canada and my English is not good. I'm trying here and there though, but it's really hard. The anxiety when you say something and people ask twice what you mean. Sucks. And plus what I realized when as a foreigner you approach girls on the streets it's safety issue, automatically you're considered suspicious and creepy. Don't know honestly what to do with this. But will try again.

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

save up some money over the next 2-3 years, re-invest into learning an online skill, get a remote job, move somewhere different with lower cost of living but more laidback lifestyle

Good luck doing this in Boston

@gocardinals8887

4 ай бұрын

Why?

I used to be so popular when I was a teenager bro. After high school, my life became very repetitive. I live in the same house since I was a kid, I didn’t go to college and I work in a call center. I’m genuinely afraid of talking to women from my hometown because I feel like they’ll expect certain things and attitudes. I grew up in a relatively rich area, but I’m not rich at all. So women my age are with dudes with money and hanging out in expensive places and shit. I’m more attractive than the average man and I still feel very insecure about myself.

@chrissung520

7 ай бұрын

Felt this to the T this where I’m at

@chesster423

7 ай бұрын

When you are attractive, women expect you to be "perfect" like smart, confident, funny and you know yourself you are not perfect but just gifted a handsome face. Women get turned off immediately when they found you are a socially awkward/weird person. Most "unattractive people" can't relate to this though. People say having a beautiful face is a gift... but it's also a curse at the same time since people will expect more out of you. If you don't meet the expectations, then you are nothing to them but just a beautiful face.

@ElFknKronos10

7 ай бұрын

@@chesster423 this is very true. This has always been my experience. I have had the most beautiful women throw themselves at me and then get turned off bc I was not the fuckboy they probably expected.

@Cookedfrfrfr

7 ай бұрын

@@ElFknKronos10 Wow that is relatable.

@JoblessJoshua

3 ай бұрын

grass is greener on the other side. I can't relate and I can never understand because being a sub5, I'm completely invisible to women. I've maybe had 2 opportunities to go after girls (that I thought were interested) my whole life but I was always busy or I never noticed the opportunity, until weeks after the encounter

mid shift boi checkin in. met one girl who came in and thought I was hot. we hooked up but she kinda avoidant idk why. I put it down too we had a great night.

🔥🔥🔥

How about some advice for people who work two 4-12s and three 11:30-8s

Denmo, you are goddamn right 👍

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

gotchu brother

Sup brah

I need a guide for the opposite. I have a job that has no consistency for time and weeks of working 50-60hrs.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

join socializer

I don't get weekends off. My options are basically only the apps since nobody parties on a Monday

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

you can still meet people in-person on a monday brother, during the daytime and early evening

@Colehike

6 ай бұрын

@Denmosocial I tried daygame, not any success. I need some kind of party or event which takes place on a Monday or Tuesday night. I also have chronic back pain so forcing myself to go out on weekends after work would leave me no energy for work the next day

@KashTheTorontoMan

3 ай бұрын

It’s just a numbers game, I realized this when, the dude at home making excuses is missing out while the dude outside talking to any girl anywhere. Literally you walk outside and even the girls you don’t find attractive still speak to them for practice. A dude doing 20-30 cold approaches in a weekend beats out the dude swiping right 30 times.

One thing ive learned is there's no such thing as a valid excuse. If you think "I don't have enough time to meet girls because im too busy", then you don't have enough discipline to create opportunities. Everyone has at least a small window of free time, but they use it to satisfy other things they value more. If you want to meet girls bad enough, you would spend your days off doing that, or better yet, meet them AT your 9-5. Unless you work by yourself, there's always a female customer or co-worker you can meet.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

agreed bro. So you gonna start meeting girls and making friends?

@JSkitt

7 ай бұрын

@Denmosocial Absolutely. There's only one way to get better at it

@6dark6souls6

6 ай бұрын

I don't meet women at my job cus thats how u get fired my free time is me doing what I wanna do

@Jedilord882

6 ай бұрын

Full time college student & I have a job at 25 I just don’t have time lol

@realnapster1522

5 ай бұрын

Recipe for disaster in the age of metoo. You will get fired real quick 😅

Denmo, why not start a matchmaking agency?

@CommandoMaster

7 ай бұрын

Because it doesn't work. Look at dating apps - top guys get all the girls, most guys get nothing.

If you are going to work nights, make sure you work overnights that way you do actually have evenings and nights to do stuff. Also you could find a place where you work less nights but more hours the nights you work, that would be tremendous. I personally work 2-10:30 and done with it it sucks. plus want to work something that makes more money, I do think key is getting 9-5 tbh but working lesser days or overnights is a fine substitute for those that will never do 9-5 corporate bs. Also want to add from another video GET OUT OF YOUR HOMETOWN I went back in 2020 and worst thing I ever did, and my state is very expensive(NJ) and being near NYC doesn’t benefit me I don’t go there, I’m looking to move to a city but not a major one so I actually can live and enjoy going there and go about taking it more serious with making new friends/new environment/and in person approach I’m done with social media and any online stuff. Thank you Denmo you are the best! Says the 30 Y/O millennial who wishes I did things way differently 10 years or so ago but better late then never.

Just work and video games for me till im retired, then i will start dating.

Damn chicken factory denmo lol

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

bro it was a grind lol

itsoverfordenmocells

If you're just wanting random hookups...cash your check in 100s and 20s, go to a bar, pick one out, catch her at the bar, pull out your stack to pay for your drink, then make eye contact with her, start a convo. Before I started my business and started making real money that's how I did it. Good luck guys

@aarrynz9721

6 ай бұрын

Why can't use a debit card instead?

@SocietyofIdiocracy

6 ай бұрын

@@aarrynz9721 Chicks are visual ppl...they see the stack, they think you got money like that. The advice is for dudes with regular jobs not making a lot of cash

@Marvcinematic

6 ай бұрын

Thx I’ll give it a try im in a horrible drought rn this my last resort 💯

@SocietyofIdiocracy

6 ай бұрын

@@Marvcinematic Good luck man, it does work. Just make sure your social skills are decent when you do get her attention at the bar. Talk about her, compliment her, blah blah blah...rando chicks love talking about them lol. So indulge them and get laid...and be confident

@papaAJ88

Ай бұрын

Keep your heads on a swivel before and as you're leaving the bar though. Flashing a stack of cash could easily get you the wrong type of attention.

I have a question good sir, so for me, I’m actually confident enough to walk up to women easily (of course it’s still stressful but certainly doable and enjoyable) BUT I struggle with having the motivation to, because, I have in my head this negative idea women. I think it’s due to social media and the current expansion of masculinity, so now I think so negatively about them (prideful, entitled, rude etc) it’s hard to get myself to even care enough. What do I do? 😊 thank you!!

I would say it’s almost impossible to meet girls in the street while walking😏

First of all, I'm 16. And I know this video isn't really aimed at me, but I also have a similar timetable (school + extracurricular activities). And I do wanna try cold approaching girls, but I'm insecure about my age. Like i don't wanna go up to somone who looks my age and turns out they're like 19. Maybe this is a bad mindset idk, so this is what I need help with. (Sry for commenting on yt ik there is dc, pls don't hate lol)

@CommandoMaster

7 ай бұрын

Go to a mall and meet 16 yo girls that just hang around doing nothing

I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game. I get annoyed when people say go see a therapist because it's not like a therapist can reset my life or have me start my life all over again. I spoke in a few other guys who feel the same way in regards to being forever angry and upset, sad, over never having had a girlfriend until later than normal, until late in life. Probably because guys and men to learn and know all of these skills, all of these social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way or have a certain lifestyle, have a certain body, certain income, and more than that which I either don't know or forgot. Women are pretty much basically all set for just being born and just existing. Because being pretty and beautiful is not a skill and it doesn't require any learning, it's not a behavior that takes training. It just really feels me with anger and rage whenever people and Society have the mindset or still think men have it better than women do in dating or just human mating in general. I'll never forget what one guy said and this only added fuel to fire in regards to my anger and rage about the cards on dealt with for being born male. "Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together" Let's just say that pissed me off even further, got me so mad, that its no appropriate for me to say what was going through my mind when i read that comment that pissed me off even further. Yes I know there's no such thing as fairness but I'm not afraid to admit that over the years in my life I've hated being born a guy or I just feel that it is unfair being born a man. Yes I'm aware there's no such thing as fairness, I just get very angry and enraged whenever people and Society still think men have it better than women do.

@lorebringers

3 ай бұрын

You are depressed. Go see a psychiatrist and thank me later.

Is this guy related to Alex hormozi? Lol 1:19

If denim cut out the fluff and repetition he’d be my favorite KZread channel

Imma be realistic with u guys. Unless ur tall, good looking, funny, charming and extremely charismatic with way above avg social skills - doing a few approaches a week ain't gonna get u anywhere with girls. Girls will be nice to u, give u their number, but later ghost u or make excuses why they're busy and can't go out with u. This applies to girls u meet anywhere, whether that be coffee shops, events, dance class, gym, whatever etc. It takes 100s to 1000s of approaches to get success depending on how u look and ur luck. So be prepared to do approaches and running the "numbers game" like it's another job.

@Colehike

6 ай бұрын

I'm all those things but I'm bald. I often wear a beanie and cry at night about my hairloss

Cold approaching on the street has a low ROI on time and effort. As soon as you say something they have their guard up out of safety concerns, because we are complete strangers. How to work around that?

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

sounds like you're not a socializer buddy

@harry37414

7 ай бұрын

I guess you need to work on maximising your looks as well. The first impression is very important

@PSR91

7 ай бұрын

@@harry37414 thanks, I am working on my appearance. In the gym at this moment 💪🏾

27:05 - 27:26 This was for me. lol Thanks

What about the cute barista that make your coffee every morning? You see them all the time

I think the best way to meet a girl is to try to look good. Dress nice and take care yourself, have your money house in order so you have the confidence.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

how many girls have you met in the last 2 weeks?

@MrGoodsalesman

7 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial truth be told where I work there a lot of girls. This is the same place where you use to make videos. But they are young. So it just friendly, but I find it that it really random. You can walk to the store and meet a girl.

Hey Denmo, do you plan to have children?

What if i work 6-7?

It is very difficult if not impossible to approach women at the gym.

@CommandoMaster

7 ай бұрын

I've done it before, it's not impossible, but once again like approaching a girl anywhere, she might act nice to ur face, then ghost u later if u get her number.

@dna8269

6 ай бұрын

@@CommandoMasterdude you are literally everywhere trying to spread your misery. Stop that shit and get better instead of

I like this idea of utilizing your time. HOWEVER, I live in Sweden where people are very cautious about speaking to randoms. I have done daygame approaches before, but you instantly get seen as a wierdo if you approach women during the day. How do you overcome that? There is also a huge safety concern for women with random guys. You make it sound way too easy IMO

@Ynkno

7 ай бұрын

do it

@Jedilord882

6 ай бұрын

Approaching random women doesn’t work

@S3aCa1mRa1n

5 ай бұрын

Ask her a question like directions then go from there make small talk and if she’s into it close

PIZZA delivery. nobody else at my job hangs outside of work, ive tried. i have no friends or acquantances. i moved right after finishing high school, so i dont even have that to branch off from. im autistic and have really bad social anxiety. people tell me i come off as a fucking serial killer when i talk to people. i just dont know what to do 99% of the time so i just observe and imitate others and hope it works. i cant socialize for shit. its all fake as fuck and everybody can tell.

@CommandoMaster

7 ай бұрын

Just try ur best. Memorize a routine u can just say, and when u see a girl u like, just go up to her and say those lines. It can just be as simple as "Hey my name is____, I though u were cute. What's ur name? How's ur day?, etc. ask her some questions, then be let's grab a coffee sometime when ur free.

@CommandoMaster

7 ай бұрын

Best places to approach girls - malls, campus, streets that are busy

@sleetskate

6 ай бұрын

@@CommandoMaster if i did that id get arrested for harassment

Anyone else have the problem of close to 0 cool people living or attractive girls in your hometown? Driving an hour to the closest city is a huge investment with no promise of Anything

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

sounds like you need to relocate to somewhere better brother. Can you afford to move out?

@1m2a3t4t5

7 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial Thanks for the reply man. Work in a high paying factory and own my house (mid 20s still). Guess I can only just continue working with what I have and take things more seriously for now.

@1m2a3t4t5

7 ай бұрын

btw I think we would both really enjoy talking to eachother actually. Think we could both gain insights. Nearly feels like Im watching myself in your videos sometimes haha.

I need to say it again: Thanks for fixing this generation bro 💪

I got plenty of dates from online dating apps, the dates didn't go anywhere though.

@JeanClaud3

7 ай бұрын

That's because dating apps are used by women to get attention and validation. Try meeting them in real life your results will be different and the quality of women you meet will be superior for sure.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

hence why you should meet people irl

@dna8269

6 ай бұрын

@@JeanClaud3completely disagree. Women are the same everywhere dude

I used to go to the gym hardcore every second day through my 20's and I can tell you there are plenty of really attractive girls there but they don't want to be talked to, their guards are up at the gym. I tried going to bars and coffee shops too but its like 10 dudes and 2 females so its lots of competition, sometimes no girls at all just a bunch of solo dudes hanging out looking nervous lol. I have a large circle of friends but its like 30 dudes and maybe 5 dudes that bring their gf's around so it often feels like a waste of time hanging out with them for the purpose of meeting girls. I think it must be a Canada thing, there are just way more dudes coming here for work than girls so the ratio is way off and the competition is steep.

@bmfs348

7 ай бұрын

Bruh fr I'm in Canada too and I thought I was going crazy with how difficult it is here. By no means impossible but it definitely feels like the opportunities just aren't that common

@MikeDwamz

7 ай бұрын

All I see is excuse, excuse, excuse. Where's the go-getter attitude?

@carston855

7 ай бұрын

@@MikeDwamz Oh I haven't given up hope completely, when you spent lots of time on self improvement you hit walls where the work you have to do doesn't seem worth it you know? like I really don't want to travel overseas to find love, I like my friends and job and family here. With bodybuilding I hit my natural limit so I would have to take steroids to continue, and that's not worth it to me. With earning money I make enough to support myself and a family if I had one so why wear out my body with even more work you know? I still have some things to try out with women like being the douchebag bad boy but I'm having a really hard time acting that way around people, I know its what women want but its really un natural to me. Another thing is Canada is about 50% east Indian people now because our government is going crazy with the immigration and their women really don't seem to go for white guys, I'm trying to chat them up and find ways to break that barrier but it feels like trying to punch through a brick wall you know? Feels like a colossal amount of effort to get a mediocre reward you know? I always think I must be doing something wrong making it too hard on myself is why I watch videos like these to try and find easier ways.

@bmfs348

7 ай бұрын

@@carston855 I hear you brother, good that you aren't giving up hope. Even with all the immigration there are still a lot of white girls in Canada (assuming that's who you are interested in).

@MikeDwamz

7 ай бұрын

@@carston855 Gotta break up your writing with paragraphs brother. Yeah I feel you there. I'm the same with the douchebag side of things. Funny thing is I'm naturally quite rude but I like to be nice to people. Right now, I'm trying out being less concerned about being so nice. Gotta be willing to make people uncomfortable. Figure out what the East Indian girls like with white dudes and you'll be good. Maybe work on your fashion, your ability to sexualize, being a better speaker. If that's the case, you're focusing on the wrong things. The #1 thing for getting women really is social skills. Then #2. the ability to sexualize while socializing.

No lie: I'm a Lego lover and its soooo easy to meet cute girls at the Lego store nowadays. So far, I met tens of them. I don't go to nightclubs or bars. So looking for girls there is simply out of the question. I go to coffee shops and meet women there when I have time. I don’t want to be the next main antagonist of the TikTok show called Gym Creeps. So I stay away from girls in the gym. But I be at the gym like crazy (trying to lose the stomach fat).

@Cookedfrfrfr

7 ай бұрын

That's crazy man. I like Lego as well but we don't have a Lego Store in my city sadly. Might have to move to do this but this sounds like the dream. Are the girls you meet also AFOLs?

@sir.confident

7 ай бұрын

​@@Cookedfrfrfr The ones I continue the convos with are AFOLs. I got all their numbers. Some of them are on social media. But the latest one I boned with so well because we both are town builders. Her and I plan to go and watch a Lego competition this Friday. The other girls I met at the Lego store were either employees or gift givers.

here is my work schedule at logistics: Monday /// waking up at 3 for a shift from 6 till 15 ---OR--- Getting ready from 10 for the shift from 15 till 23 Tuesday /// waking up at 3 for a shift from 6 till 15 ---OR--- Getting ready from 10 for the shift from 15 till 23 Wednesday /// waking up at 3 for a shift from 6 till 15 ---OR--- Getting ready from 10 for the shift from 15 till 23 Thursday /// waking up at 3 for a shift from 6 till 15 ---OR--- Getting ready from 10 for the shift from 15 till 23 Friday /// free but reserved for washing and drying clothes, shopping and possibly a solitary joy ride or going to my rock bar if its not rainy Saturday /// waking up at 5 for shift at 8 till 17 and then Im too tired for anything else Sunday /// Free but need to clean the apartment.. feeling like going for a ride but usually have no energy for anything or trying to find ways to make money online.. which usually ends up in stress eating and falling asleep. &repeat

How come you don’t wear your earrings anymore

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

kept getting knocked out in sparring lol

@jimbobfisher8904

7 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial damn, ya them bending in your ear is no fun forsure.

The lie i tell myself is im too old to be cold approaching women in public at 33. Recovering from a divorce construction worker tell me im a pussy.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

nah bro you're fine. you got this. join my socializer community if you need more help

@Jedilord882

6 ай бұрын

You are too old 😂

@marvin60000

5 ай бұрын

You’re a construction worker recovering from a divorce. That’s definitely not what I would call a “pussy”. Also you’re not too old, maybe 50+ would be too old but you’re good. Best of luck.

@Headedhome27

5 ай бұрын

@@marvin60000 thanks bro best of luck in your fight too

Guys have been going out and trying to meet females in public for ages with little to no results simply because women don’t find them attractive. My advice to guys who wants to go out in public and meet females, just make sure above average in the looks department.

what about "game" for older guys?

@CommandoMaster

7 ай бұрын

Go to Colombia

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

I recommend joining my private community Socializer

@bennybenny7382

7 ай бұрын

@@CommandoMaster I am 31, and I am not doing that travel BS. I live in the UK and love it here

@FinnCh979

6 ай бұрын

@@bennybenny7382then get stuck lol. There are some problems that have no solution doesnt mattee you like or not. Maybe you are lucky. But cant say the same to many other guys like you. Who knows? Maybe some one will be lucky but not you. I rather get out and I did.

If you have to schedule these, you dont have other things to do sry

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

lmao what

Dude.. Denmo..... make these videos shorter... like 5 min or less... with bullet points in the vide, in the description and in a downlaodable PDF. Some of us cant have 30 minutes to watch one video when we have like 20 videos to watch, remember and apply the information. You are digressing and explaining and giving too many of the back story instead of just leaving us with the steps and the bullet points and let us apply it right away.

im just gonna stick to the escorts to save time. Jack, I respect what you do nonetheless

@remekbrat

7 ай бұрын

I got addicted to one of them. These hoes can really fuck well, and fuk with Your head as well. So be careful. You can lose a lot off $$ in the process. Working on ourselves seems like the best option for a long run. Even if it's escorts You will choose, You still need to be able to afford them.without it affecting Your life.

@greencrocidile6246

7 ай бұрын

Down bad squad

@MikeDwamz

7 ай бұрын

You saving time, but you losing yourself

@misterjay4347

7 ай бұрын

@@MikeDwamzif you remove the need for validation, he’s actually right. The time save and overall cost save is immense

@MikeDwamz

7 ай бұрын

@@misterjay4347 I agree partly. Where I disagree is that you don't have the same motivation for self-improvement. Me trying to get women built up my social skills, my fashion, my grooming, my money etc. You become better by chasing what women prefer.

Oh no not the luke warm, “algorithm is the source of all your problems, not women” take

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

whats your excuse brother

@aitothechamp7263

7 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial any guys valid excuse rn would be the pool of modern women being terrible. Lacking character. It takes two parties to have a meaningful connection, romance is dead but feminism killed it

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

@@aitothechamp7263 I agree theres definitely lots of undateable women but same with undateable men. Also theres plenty of normal women bro you'll meet them if you leave your house lol internet is not real life

Why do people listen to this guy

“Sketchy”

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

yessirrrr

Unpopular opinion: The first mistake is trying to “get girls” while working a 9-5.. Focus on your mission kings 💯 Females will always be around .

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

this is for guys who have enough brain cells to balance both at the same time

@CCxKiller13

7 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial video is for simps white boy.

This guy is obsessed with meeting girls 😂

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

not me, but you for clicking this video clearly

Issue is loneliness. Never in my life has a women abated loneliness. I can be very detrimental for men to think women are the answer. I love women but I know their place. They are really about 3 things. Status, consumption, and entertainment.

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naaah.. all this "getting a woman & friends" thing is for humans..... Id prefer meeting aliens at this point.. even that wouldnt be that interesting I think.

Hell nah

just take a shower bro