5 Steps to Staying High Value When He Doesn’t Call Or Text

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  • @diamondblessing3487
    @diamondblessing34872 жыл бұрын

    I am valuable, I am worthy, I deserve to be cherished. I am valuable, I am worthy, I deserve to be cherished. I am valuable, I am worthy, I deserve to be cherished.” Amen

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes you are!

  • @erhunmwunsewisdom7097

    @erhunmwunsewisdom7097

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad to let you know that i have someone who can solve every difficulties in Life

  • @diamondblessing3487

    @diamondblessing3487

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@erhunmwunsewisdom7097 God can

  • @diamondblessing3487

    @diamondblessing3487

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MatthewCoast thanks for the message

  • @wingsofemmanbethacademytv6065

    @wingsofemmanbethacademytv6065

    Жыл бұрын

    Seriously mehn

  • @paisleypeach44
    @paisleypeach442 жыл бұрын

    Note to self: don’t give husband privileges to a man who’s not your husband.

  • @kittycat9994

    @kittycat9994

    Жыл бұрын

    Perfect! Very well said😘

  • @kirstyjones9234

    @kirstyjones9234

    Жыл бұрын

    amen

  • @annismith8575

    @annismith8575

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s a very good point!

  • @lisawhite8718

    @lisawhite8718

    Жыл бұрын

    Married people rhetoric. I know people who are in long term, loving, committed relationships and don't have the papers of the elite status couples.

  • @katjay3125

    @katjay3125

    Жыл бұрын

    Yupppp

  • @findingdori6219
    @findingdori62192 жыл бұрын

    DO NOT REACH OUT TO A GUY IF HE GHOSTED YOU

  • @silvermont331

    @silvermont331

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sodiq Kokolet don’t believe him. When they come back to you is for a needy reason. They want something from you . They play elsewhere and when didn’t go the way they’ve planed always try to come back. Do you need him back for dependency/money/ or for real love? If it’s for real love ❤️ forget it, he doesn’t have real love for you. He is coming back for other reasons. He left you without mercy girl? Better love yourself first. That’s what I’m doing too. Good luck 😉

  • @Claribel42

    @Claribel42

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@silvermont331 😬my ex came back also and I do love that man🥺

  • @marionnjoroge441

    @marionnjoroge441

    2 жыл бұрын

    Iam really trying BT I find myself textin all the tym

  • @findingdori6219

    @findingdori6219

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@marionnjoroge441 refocus your thoughts. Go for a walk, talk to a friend, go shopping, focus on your job or volunteering. It will get better 💜 you got this! Always know your value & add tax!

  • @dm-xz4vh

    @dm-xz4vh

    2 жыл бұрын

    ☝️☝️☝️Hola por cualquier hechizo de amor, comuníquese con este número de arriba y obtendrá resultados en dos días

  • @bekind3050
    @bekind30502 жыл бұрын

    If he doesn't contact you, leave him alone. 🤣 It's hard, but you will move on eventually.

  • @blessbkmn

    @blessbkmn

    2 жыл бұрын

    Always lol and stop stalking his low ass as well.

  • @leahwanjiku5322

    @leahwanjiku5322

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂so true but harsh

  • @angelaberry7501

    @angelaberry7501

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @jessicapeguero1795

    @jessicapeguero1795

    2 жыл бұрын

    true

  • @urantajemimah1557

    @urantajemimah1557

    2 жыл бұрын

    Is really hard.i feel like ending it

  • @sylviarogers8473
    @sylviarogers8473 Жыл бұрын

    It's very simple, he ghosts, he's replaced. No time to waste on wrong one. We do have options as women, so dont stay stuck.

  • @Hgffffffft927

    @Hgffffffft927

    10 ай бұрын

    What about when you have a kid with him and pregnant? It's so hard 😢

  • @KG-ly5fu

    @KG-ly5fu

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Hgffffffft927if he's ghosting you while you're pregnant with his kid he's heartless. You picked the wrong guy.

  • @toniwilson8212
    @toniwilson82122 жыл бұрын

    When a man runs hot & cold , there's another woman involved in his life

  • @Heavenlysky89

    @Heavenlysky89

    Ай бұрын

    Or has kids he's busy with

  • @pamm3284
    @pamm32842 жыл бұрын

    If he doesn’t come back to you, count it all joy!!!

  • @vickyarmistead6435

    @vickyarmistead6435

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @kaursingh8095

    @kaursingh8095

    2 жыл бұрын

    God's protection 🌹

  • @madisond9372

    @madisond9372

    2 жыл бұрын

    Rejection is gods protection i love it

  • @tenajagibson2581

    @tenajagibson2581

    2 жыл бұрын

    💜

  • @vicki-alanarasmussen8544
    @vicki-alanarasmussen85442 жыл бұрын

    If he pulls away - Move On!!! Why the hell would you want to be with a loser.

  • @TT-ud5gf

    @TT-ud5gf

    2 жыл бұрын

    What kind of actions does he do that tell us that he “pulls away”? Are these scenarios considered “pull away”: 1. He ghosts for a few days and back with a “how are you doing?” without telling the reason voluntarily? 2. One hour phone talk once every 2-3 weeks, just text once/twice every few days and sometimes no text. 3. Give various reasons to avoid dating while he has 3 weeks off from work just because of a 3 hours flight distance or “busy” with other tasks.

  • @roseladwig

    @roseladwig

    Жыл бұрын

    It so hard to move on when you love this guy

  • @carolynokul8400

    @carolynokul8400

    Жыл бұрын

    Right

  • @jalissacruz7838
    @jalissacruz7838 Жыл бұрын

    Choose yourself … the man that’s for you , will be your protector and he would never just walk away without communicating because he would care about your feelings

  • @BeccaL2016
    @BeccaL20162 жыл бұрын

    When my dog runs out of the door if I chase him he will run further so I learned I just hide then he will worry then he runs back 😆

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nice one!

  • @dianalereve5402

    @dianalereve5402

    2 жыл бұрын

    😄

  • @SumatraIslandGirl

    @SumatraIslandGirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good one

  • @Jettingred4
    @Jettingred42 жыл бұрын

    Men are hunters..they love a challenge…so just keep on doing you! Go out , take care of yourself, go out with friends , or even go out with someone new! Be the BEST you can be! Back in the day we use to say “ You snooze, you lose”! My friend once said men are like a bus. Don’t fret, another one will be coming along soon enough!” Lol! Never Chase a Guy! I’m 70 and have a lifetime’s experience and trust me gals, don’t “give it away right away, and always look great and smell great! Men are visual creatures! TY Matthew for your constructive advice 😇❤️🙏

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    My pleasure, Stephanie.

  • @dianalereve5402

    @dianalereve5402

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love your advice, Stephanie, thank you 😊

  • @kathykonkle1097

    @kathykonkle1097

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for confirming I am not attractive enough for any man.

  • @ramyams3904

    @ramyams3904

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sir how to know r they really love us

  • @donnapierangeli6216

    @donnapierangeli6216

    2 жыл бұрын

    Stephanie White I agree with every word you wrote. I'm 69;and have a lot of life experience. Don't ever chase a man, because you won't know if he cares. I know it's hard but it's worth it not to chase him.If he cares for you truly cares he will pursue you at his own pace. Men like confident women and esp kind women who can compromise and not criticize in a negative way. Discuss things in a positive way. No one's perfect just do your best and pray Let things go when you can.

  • @mmroz1
    @mmroz12 жыл бұрын

    1. Shift your focus off of the guy, and put it on yourself. It will make yourself feel a lot better. 2. Remember the Queen’s 👑 mantra: “I am valuable. I am worthy. I deserve to be cherished.” Say it 3 times!!! 3. Let him come back to you at his own pace. Treat him like a cat…don’t chase them because they’ll run away! 4. Build abundance of options/connections. If you’re not in a committed relationship- start dating a variety of men (build an orbit of men) so that you’re not dependent on the outcome of a specific guy. 5. Have compassion for yourself. Don’t beat yourself up or feel like you’re not good enough. If some guy isn’t acting right, don’t blame yourself. Build yourself up. Love yourself first and foremost. Take care of your body, mind, and spirit. 6. Think about the life that you want. Think of a bright, loving future. The law of attraction. Meditate on the good feelings.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, Magdalena

  • @elizabethnjoroge3546

    @elizabethnjoroge3546

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great 👍

  • @gerginaovcharova5464

    @gerginaovcharova5464

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ! It is a great mental boost !!!

  • @imeldaeilinger2823

    @imeldaeilinger2823

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi I'm watching from Philippines, thanks for sharing good ideas❤️

  • @maeyrhonamissabea7772

    @maeyrhonamissabea7772

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️ ❤️ GOD bless

  • @kathycougar4597
    @kathycougar45972 жыл бұрын

    If he wants to go, let him. He doesn't want to be with me, he is doing me a favor. Then I will meet someone better suited to me.

  • @Kcolaneri1
    @Kcolaneri1 Жыл бұрын

    Here’s a thought - when you go out with someone and you have a nice connection and it makes you both feel good then, pursue it. I am really tired of all these games.

  • @jennifercox1098
    @jennifercox10982 жыл бұрын

    Yup ! Get busy and don’t keep on thinking about him . Just work and be busy . Don’t keep texting .

  • @maryparsons9890
    @maryparsons98902 жыл бұрын

    Haha I go out and enjoy my day! Ignore him and don’t text him! Don’t answer his call .

  • @maryparsons9890

    @maryparsons9890

    2 жыл бұрын

    I deserve better than being ignored !

  • @strix_aliana
    @strix_aliana Жыл бұрын

    If I texted or called and didn’t hear back, I simply wouldn’t reach out again. 90% of the time, that got ‘em to text or call eventually within a week or so lol. But by then I realized I didn’t really want him that much anyway. If simply not harassing him with texts and calls persuaded him to “like” me again, it just wasn’t the right connection.

  • @Freespirit_survivor
    @Freespirit_survivor2 жыл бұрын

    NEVER NEVER NEVER chase ANYONE. Don’t dog after people, don’t push yourself where you are not welcomed!!!

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing!!

  • @victoriadaoana7114
    @victoriadaoana71142 жыл бұрын

    That is why women should meet a lots of highly or great men.Don't focus in one man only.Meet a lots of men and let them do their job and chase you.And don't involve yourself too emotionally to them if you are not sure at all.Relax and be happy.And study them and be smart.Love yourself first and respect yourself.Eat and sleep 8- 9 hrs.it makes you skin beautiful and radiant.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, Victoria.

  • @TT-ud5gf

    @TT-ud5gf

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve heard that it’s very hard to find highly great men from online dating site. Most of them look for “short term”.

  • @vickysharp202

    @vickysharp202

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TT-ud5gf very very hard..most of them aren't really serious

  • @Susie.wemove
    @Susie.wemove2 жыл бұрын

    Don't give your more to get your less. Love is unconditional

  • @thandicandy5452

    @thandicandy5452

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for your words. True love is indeed unconditional!

  • @tenajagibson2581

    @tenajagibson2581

    2 жыл бұрын

    💜

  • @judygraessle7358
    @judygraessle73582 жыл бұрын

    Don't wear yourself out going after what doesn't belong to you.

  • @elainedixey8024

    @elainedixey8024

    2 жыл бұрын

    It

  • @sakifaaolugbemidede9082

    @sakifaaolugbemidede9082

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hear you Sir

  • @naveenqureshi5200

    @naveenqureshi5200

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good advice. Thanks

  • @carolynokul8400

    @carolynokul8400

    Жыл бұрын

    Right

  • @hingreddiniz5835
    @hingreddiniz58352 жыл бұрын

    Don't reach out at all cut his as off! That's what a high value women does 😁

  • @tc7605
    @tc76052 жыл бұрын

    Just happened to me and yep it’s a head trip forsure…… it’s not normal to have someone add confusion like that. Closing the door on this one.

  • @erhunmwunsewisdom7097

    @erhunmwunsewisdom7097

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad to let you know that i have someone who can solve every difficulties in Life

  • @tamarastarnes5803
    @tamarastarnes58032 жыл бұрын

    Go where your celebrated not tolerated....💫💃🏼❤️

  • @lalaacosta4818
    @lalaacosta4818 Жыл бұрын

    The one thing you said in this that was so important (to me personally) was how a guy will still let you pour into them, even though they don't want you in that way. It's similar to the lesson I recently learned about how some guys will sleep with a woman even though he's not attracted to her- only because "something" is better than "nothing". These are game changers for me, and really puts into perspective what I have been doing wrong all this time, but more so, what I definitely will no longer tolerate.

  • @marlinasamuel45

    @marlinasamuel45

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi lala I feel the same way The part when you say a guy will sleep with you even though there's no feelings there Literally just to meet his needs, It hurts my soul right this very minute the realisation of Has made me feel.. Well I can only Limit myself as to what I really wanna say But that realisation is very painful.

  • @maggiebailey779

    @maggiebailey779

    Жыл бұрын

    Definitely Lala. Unfortunately when men know you like them, they will often go on ego trips - they will string you along, and pretend to be interested when they are not, because they are enjoying the attention. That has happened to me a few times, so now I am much more cautious about letting men know I am attracted to them. That's another thing they frequently do, that type of game-playing, lapping up the attention, besides using women for sex who they don't really like.

  • @lalaacosta4818

    @lalaacosta4818

    Жыл бұрын

    @@maggiebailey779 it's just part of the many reasons why I don't date. Besides the fact that I really can't find anyone anyway.

  • @maggiebailey779

    @maggiebailey779

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lalaacosta4818 Nor me! Dating really has become hard these days hasn't it? I can't find anyone either. But I live in hope....

  • @deewils381
    @deewils3812 жыл бұрын

    I Am Valuable, I Am Worthy, I Deserve to Be Cherished. I Am Valuable, I Am Worthy, I Deserve to Be Cherished. I Am Worthy, I Am Valuable, I Deserve to Be Cherished. Amen. 💝💝💝

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes you are!

  • @nat2040

    @nat2040

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes you are !! Now move on

  • @deewils381

    @deewils381

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nat2040 🦋💐💖🌟

  • @vx4535
    @vx45352 жыл бұрын

    He kept coming back, then disappear again. Vicious cycle, so I blocked him. Definitely his loss whether he sees it that way or not.

  • @courtneys7436
    @courtneys74362 жыл бұрын

    My philosophy when I start not caring on the guy I’m talking to & interested in & he’s not 100% in… I lose focus on him and start focusing on myself. Valued. Worthy. And Cherished.

  • @LookTwice2
    @LookTwice22 жыл бұрын

    I know I deserve better I know my value I learn from my mistakes And I use my experience when I come in same situation

  • @jackpetersen7545

    @jackpetersen7545

    2 жыл бұрын

    Eva Dahlen,You only deserves a good man !

  • @LookTwice2

    @LookTwice2

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jackpetersen7545 Thank you ☺️

  • @sacred_alchemy
    @sacred_alchemy Жыл бұрын

    I am valuable, I am worthy, I deserve to be cherished. I am valuable, I am worthy, I deserve to be cherished. I am valuable, I am worthy, I deserve to be cherished. ❤ ❤ ❤

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes you are!

  • @yusimarrero9428
    @yusimarrero94282 жыл бұрын

    We sometimes ignored the red flags and then we get hurt ..

  • @nancycrane8924
    @nancycrane89242 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this today, I put myself down for too long. Thank you

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @b.d.w.777
    @b.d.w.7772 жыл бұрын

    I am valuable, I am worthy, I deserve to be cherished. I am the Queen❤

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯!

  • @ireneluo2985
    @ireneluo29852 жыл бұрын

    Been seeing this guy only 4 times, was friend introduced us. She thinks we should be good matches. But he never approached me first. He kissed me on the last met and afterwards he suddenly turned off and told me we live differently and because of the cultural differences won't work. I stopped approach and talk him since then. Because no matter how much I like him. I have to love myself first.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, Irene!

  • @FeonaLeeJones
    @FeonaLeeJones2 жыл бұрын

    I think an important thing to address is also are we using relationships as distractions from being alone? I was going from one relationship to another and attracting the same dynamics which were very unhealthy. And I was also very codependent. I’m taking a break from relationships for at least a year to really just be alone with myself and be OK with sad. I realize that getting in another relationship would be another distraction from feeling the emotions in my heart.

  • @northstar4851

    @northstar4851

    2 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree! I'm dating a few nice men with no sex on the table, just to be objective. I see everything with such clarity and self awareness just by taking a step back!

  • @missk7145

    @missk7145

    2 жыл бұрын

    Right on!! Great 💡 idea. Makes sense

  • @virglow

    @virglow

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is where I’m at ❤️ good luck!

  • @joysynmonds9082

    @joysynmonds9082

    2 жыл бұрын

    I believe that we all need a two-year gap away from home (after college), and find out who you really are! Only then are you prepared to deal with adult relationships in the right way.

  • @lonibennett6124

    @lonibennett6124

    2 жыл бұрын

    Trying to do the same 🙏

  • @Samranajan
    @Samranajan Жыл бұрын

    Smiling...in thanks Matthew, I get it and feels all about keeping perspective! You're so right about focussing on feeling love, building connection and abundance... I so appreciate hearing this today!

  • @aslynnecaron4100
    @aslynnecaron41002 жыл бұрын

    Real love isn’t a “GAME” never should anyone have to beg for true LOVE… rather than self sabotaging, create your life. Have beautiful adventures. Love your self to LIFE. How they treat you is how they feel About them selves.. Many are loving their selves to DEATH…

  • @arganteofavalon
    @arganteofavalon2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for pointing me into the right direction again.... it is all about vibration before the manifestation... What you focus on grows! I teach this myself and still sometimes I forget. Very helpful to hear it again from someone else. You are right on spot! Bright Blessings!

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @mistykaikai
    @mistykaikai2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this advice. It's so helpful and makes me feel much better about him distancing from me. I like the idea of encompassing yourself with the feeling of love in your life, and drawing upon that. And looking for ways to care for myself, and not neglecting my self. All of your ideas make so much sense and after feeling so sad when he stopped being in touch, I find that listening to your advice gives me a sense of relief and inspiration.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @janetgibson6066
    @janetgibson60662 жыл бұрын

    I’ve watched a lot of these types of videos, and I really appreciate your message! I love how this is not about bashing either gender , but more on being aware and caring for ones own emotional and mental state while coping in a positive way with the ups n down of relationships. Thank you!!

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad to here that, Janet. Thank you too!

  • @ebonybliss6504
    @ebonybliss65042 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir. I needed to hear this. He said he needed space and so many things are going on in his life and this made him broke up with me. But im healing daily. Thanks for your word. I've accepted if he comes back it was meant to be and if not I'll be fine.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    My pleasure, Ebony.

  • @arianne1148

    @arianne1148

    Жыл бұрын

    😢

  • @rosemarieizzo4343

    @rosemarieizzo4343

    Жыл бұрын

    I love your show thank you so much it helped me how I was feeling thank you again

  • @missk7145
    @missk71452 жыл бұрын

    I totally got THAT part especially. So true. Have compassion for yourself. Do you as the saying goes.. Prayer, looking at all the good, gratitude journal... Look about to a hobby... Work... Housework.. Bake a favorite dish SO MUCH TO DO!!! TIME FLIES!!!

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, Miss K

  • @missk7145

    @missk7145

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MatthewCoast you are welcome. Thank you for such encouraging and informative talks.

  • @amastelle
    @amastelle Жыл бұрын

    True. It's less about what happens to us, and more about how we react / respond to what happened. Great suggestions for either moving on or attracting him back. Either way, realizing your worth will help. 💖

  • @gensalva3780
    @gensalva37802 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! It’s really a big help for me right now❤️

  • @heidiyacine1405
    @heidiyacine14052 жыл бұрын

    I’m in love with myself first and foremost!! Lots of love from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello there, Heidi!

  • @marymcneill5666

    @marymcneill5666

    2 жыл бұрын

    @HeidiYacine Hey, also from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @jeandodd1473

    @jeandodd1473

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@marymcneill5666 ji from wales england

  • @jenniferdesjardins287
    @jenniferdesjardins2872 жыл бұрын

    Best advice I have ever heard in my life!!! Thank you 😊

  • @poochplace9511
    @poochplace95112 жыл бұрын

    I've watched many videos on this topic, but this one was the one that I resonated with me the most!!! Thank you so much!

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're very much welcome, Pooch!

  • @liwliwatayamen9303
    @liwliwatayamen93032 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Matthew! Your advices really helps me a lot. Amazing!

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Happy to hear that!

  • @judygraessle7358
    @judygraessle73582 жыл бұрын

    You are right where you are supposed to be, with those who are in your life and experiences what you are supposed to be experiencing.

  • @faizakangoor
    @faizakangoor2 жыл бұрын

    I am valuable, i am worthy, i deserve to be cherished. Oh yesssssssss hundred per cent dear. Agree absolutely. Thank you.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful!

  • @bethshaferman6712
    @bethshaferman67122 жыл бұрын

    This was gold. And you are right - I have no care in the world when I get reflexology or pedicures for instance 😍. You really have a gift of explaining so perfectly to understand . Lots of others go around it and it gets confusing lol. Thank you!!! 🙏🏼 (also, you lookin 👀even more handsome in this one)

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome, Beth!

  • @stanzindojay4836

    @stanzindojay4836

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @sandradaeschler6620
    @sandradaeschler66202 жыл бұрын

    Good Sunday Morning Matt! Your the best with your caring advice and God bless you!!

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate that!

  • @NotUrAverage786
    @NotUrAverage7862 жыл бұрын

    Matthew Coast, such wonderful advice delivered in an honest and engaging way! ☺️🙌💗

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad!

  • @eraniahoward8303

    @eraniahoward8303

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes ? I like this guy ? But only a week every time he saw me he hug me but I’m waiting him to ask my number but it did happen so I myself gave him my number and saying call me if your not busy and he answer me yes but until now ? We never be seeing ? I don’t know ?

  • @lorraineb.4698

    @lorraineb.4698

    11 ай бұрын

    Yes, a nice way about him. You feel the empathy and kindness. Seems sensible advice he gives. Very Uplifting

  • @amandavictoriasewell7393
    @amandavictoriasewell73932 жыл бұрын

    Perfect advice! I'm doing all of the above. Lots of abundance, and a large orbit of men! Loving myself is hard - but I'm trying. The guy is behaving really badly right now. Pulled away after a very close relationship with me. Thank you for all this brilliant advice .

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amanda, you're very welcome!

  • @sabrinaszabo9355

    @sabrinaszabo9355

    8 ай бұрын

    Sorry for that. I think the fear is of us thinking it was true and then it dissolving. But I guess if I think of it for the experience itself that it was authentic, anything other than being in the experience is asking for attachment which leads to suffering. I had a nice experience where I felt seen and understood and I will leave it at that

  • @camuyana
    @camuyana2 жыл бұрын

    Learning quite a bit. Haven't had any bad dating experience because I am not dating anybody and will not do so until after my divorce in November.

  • @sarahreflex
    @sarahreflex2 жыл бұрын

    So true any time I’ve got lost and forgotten to keep all my options&connections open = relationship over! Covid has been a disaster in that way! Now I’m going to learn to invest in me no matter where the world is at 💚

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your response, Sarah!

  • @northstar4851

    @northstar4851

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly the thing to do!

  • @staywellandstrong4199
    @staywellandstrong41992 жыл бұрын

    Feeling of love - visualizing how being treated well throughout your life - and laughing, strengthens the questionable moments.

  • @Kristina-zc6xe
    @Kristina-zc6xe Жыл бұрын

    "Built yourself up, love yourself". ❤️ Thank you so much.💚

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    Жыл бұрын

    Most welcome, Kristina!

  • @kvanessasevilla3650
    @kvanessasevilla36502 жыл бұрын

    Matt first Thanks for your advices coming form a smart guy like you ! I can only said I have learn so much from you and how amazing different woman and man are ! Been high Value woman should be a part of your life single or not , so when the right man come along he will value you , for what you already are !

  • @fadlansmith920

    @fadlansmith920

    2 жыл бұрын

    What if a good man fights for a girl it's hard enough but she doesn't see it and doesn't appreciate it?

  • @raphaelafeldmann2217
    @raphaelafeldmann22172 жыл бұрын

    I get it 🙏🏼Focus on loving in self life 🙏🏼

  • @marytt9604
    @marytt96042 жыл бұрын

    I am connecting myself with my own soul. It is so relaxing than bothering him. Whatever you say how men are. I can see how he is. I only hear his excuses all the times. I stopped being a people pleaser. No more expecting anything. It feels good. Now that am into a stubborn chapter. It is not that I am demotivating myself but I don't see myself that new relationship will help me to trust another person. I am just fed up with same stories that keeps repeating with wrong men😶. Self=loving Worth=living than being with anyone! Thank you for your best advices❤

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing and you're most welcome, Mary.

  • @marytt9604

    @marytt9604

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MatthewCoast You're very much welcome🦋🦋

  • @nakabiriramlah1871

    @nakabiriramlah1871

    2 жыл бұрын

    Indeed You can be happy on your own

  • @margieballew1486

    @margieballew1486

    2 жыл бұрын

    Seems the older you get the harder it is to find someone that is honest and not playing games. I have been scammed on dating site so it is hard for me to take anyone serious anymore. Where are all the truly honest, sincere men that aren’t playing games?

  • @shanncarr9276
    @shanncarr9276 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Matthew! Thank You so much for such valuable input ! You have put a light on things in such a unique way. I’ve never heard anyone put this common situation in such a remarkable way! I really needed to hear this this moment. I’ve experiencing an empty feeling after not being spoken to or text in over 5 weeks. And we both seemed to have hit it off from A to Z from the very beginning. It really hurts when a guy shows all his feelings- and even falls in love. Then silences with no apparent reason. Your live stream was revealed to me at the perfect time. And I thank you for letting me see things through different eyes! Blessings to you! I truly believe what is meant to be will be. And sometimes it’s not the way we think or felt it would be.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    Жыл бұрын

    You're very welcome.

  • @smasithole5513
    @smasithole5513 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for taking your valuable time to share with us such words of encouragement and wisdom. I have learned a lot and I am growing day by day 🌸

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    Жыл бұрын

    My pleasure!

  • @nancykane8680
    @nancykane86802 жыл бұрын

    I do get it. . Life goes on, live it + enjoy it

  • @usomexmartin220
    @usomexmartin2202 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Matthew i needed to hear this

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're most welcome

  • @lorettapage4054
    @lorettapage4054 Жыл бұрын

    Matthew I'm so happy I watched your video..I'm going to start loving on myself. Secondly, I realize I was going to text this man who is on and off texting and seeing me. Thanks for this wake up call. I'm not going to chase after him. I almost did ...

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful! You're welcome.

  • @Cocobelle96
    @Cocobelle962 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Matthew. Women love you for what you do for them

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Welcome, Coco Belle! Always a pleasure to help.

  • @alanaprem4118
    @alanaprem41182 жыл бұрын

    This is the first time I’ve come across you and the first video of yours I’ve watched. I love everything you’ve said. After taking a 2 year break from dating after a toxic relationship, I did a lot of work and healing on myself but have found myself in an unexpected situationship with a man who keeps ghosting me, comes on strong, disappears etc, and was about to fall back into bad patterns of chasing, but then watched this and now know not to bother lol. My inbox is full of men who actually pursue me so why am I only interested in the one who isn’t? Looks like I’ve got more work to do. Thanks for the reminder and wisdom :)

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Welcome aboard, Alana. So glad you are here.

  • @deemac6318

    @deemac6318

    Жыл бұрын

    My same exact story. He keeps shutting down and coming back. 4-5 times in under 2 years. I blamed it on because he was hurt broken after a bad break up like me but I can't do it anymore.

  • @nanajama4537

    @nanajama4537

    Жыл бұрын

    Move on period. If a man is not consistent and has you questioning where you stand, he is not interested or he is not emotionally capable of loving you the way you deserve to be loved. Either way, you must keep pushing forward & drop him. Don’t fall for it.

  • @bernadettealsola6704
    @bernadettealsola67042 жыл бұрын

    It's happening twice on me ... It's really hurt 😢😢😢 I question my self why he do that to me,,,, prayer is the best cure🙏🙏🙏I moved on and ,,Life must go on... Whatever happens,,,,, watching from Philippines 🇵🇭

  • @patriciaholloway

    @patriciaholloway

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel your pain. I'm going through it right now with my male friend. I'm in love with him but we're not speaking at this time. It's hard to let go and move on when you're still in love with them. I wonder why he seems to think so poorly of me. I wish you peace and love 🙏💐

  • @faizakangoor
    @faizakangoor2 жыл бұрын

    Love your videos from France. Thank you so much dear. Always very well said. Be blessed.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glad you like them! Thank you so much.

  • @blessedamooti1371
    @blessedamooti1371 Жыл бұрын

    I love the explanation 😍💕 Well done

  • @chitownrxgirl
    @chitownrxgirl2 жыл бұрын

    I am valuable. I am worthy. I deserve to be cherished❤️

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes you are!

  • @Claribel42
    @Claribel422 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for giving a sample of how to love ourselves 🙏

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥰

  • @mastulanankabirwa6699

    @mastulanankabirwa6699

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello

  • @MarCariB
    @MarCariB2 жыл бұрын

    Do u have private consulting ? Love ur videos ! U create real conexión with that Q & A at the end of the video ;)

  • @purijogarcia2963
    @purijogarcia2963 Жыл бұрын

    I get it! Thank you for your suggestions. I will start valuing myself and get to a place ... “I am valuable, I am worthy, and I deserve yo be cherished” because I love myself.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    Жыл бұрын

    You got this, Puri

  • @mariannemcguff3755
    @mariannemcguff37552 жыл бұрын

    Hi Matt I’m watching from Overland Park Kansas! Thanks for your great videos! You’re sense of humor is great!

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the kind words!

  • @Princess15732
    @Princess157322 жыл бұрын

    Video Summary: 1. shift your focus (have your life and hobbies) 2. Remember the Queen Mantra, change your thoughts and don't question your worth. Say I'm valuable, i'm worthy, I deserve to be cherished (say this 3 times) 3. let him come back to you at his time/pace 4. build abundance of connection (have other men in your circle) 5. have compassion for yourself for ex. think of times when you felt loved (don't feel that you're not good enough) 6.

  • @ennediend2865

    @ennediend2865

    2 жыл бұрын

    Merci ! 👍 Always nice 😌

  • @yvetromanroman7443

    @yvetromanroman7443

    2 жыл бұрын

    "WISDOM" "WISDOM" "WISDOM" GOD BLESS YOU VERY MUCH, YOU ARE AN HONEST MAN, AMEN!!!!!!@!!!!!!

  • @redhead6360
    @redhead63602 жыл бұрын

    Moving on. I deserve more than him.

  • @bezzerbear
    @bezzerbear2 жыл бұрын

    Lol “I’ve run after a cat” 🤣🤣 your sense of humor is awesome 😆😊

  • @wandah7389
    @wandah73892 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your good advice. It’s really help me.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're so welcome!

  • @berthasams5211
    @berthasams5211 Жыл бұрын

    I feel good about myself more now that I heard your advice. Thanks 😊

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful, Bertha!

  • @loveiseverything8711
    @loveiseverything87112 жыл бұрын

    I wouldn’t give a bat 🦇 in hell: I would move on. When people don’t want you move on don’t think so negatively about the time you may have wasted so that you could find your Mr. who actually deserve you.

  • @whitneymoore3794
    @whitneymoore37942 жыл бұрын

    Pretty good info. Like a therapy session🥰 but I know these things. Just hearing this confirmed it.

  • @gbemielizabeth8720
    @gbemielizabeth8720 Жыл бұрын

    Matthew you are doing a great work here. God bless you

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @teresaolofson8187
    @teresaolofson81872 жыл бұрын

    Shift Your Focus What you Focus on you Feel and what you Feel you Receive

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing this, Teresa

  • @katemoffitt1641
    @katemoffitt1641 Жыл бұрын

    Assume if they say “I love u” or “You’re the love of my life”… that they will vanish the next day. This just happened to me & I’ve known him 30 years.

  • @margaretmc4707

    @margaretmc4707

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh my! That is upsetting

  • @mrs.tanyaacevedo5382
    @mrs.tanyaacevedo53822 жыл бұрын

    So true, I start doing the focus on me.

  • @victoriacaropreso1506
    @victoriacaropreso1506 Жыл бұрын

    Love your straight shooter advice 🙏🏼🙌

  • @adepejuadeshile7646
    @adepejuadeshile76462 жыл бұрын

    From Nigeria. Happy connecting to Ur program now. Just what l have been passing through recently. Learnt a lot.thanks

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful!

  • @hirutnegash5819
    @hirutnegash58192 жыл бұрын

    Funny I couldn’t stop laughing at the ‘running after a cat’😂😄😄

  • @lizzymike3377
    @lizzymike33772 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful piece, really helpful

  • @hellengitahi8979
    @hellengitahi89792 жыл бұрын

    Just came across this video . Thank you so much for sharing. Loved it ..Queens mantra -“ I am Valuable , I am worthy, I deserve to be cherished! “ ✅✅✅✅

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful!

  • @carolynreed451
    @carolynreed4512 жыл бұрын

    I'm here watching.an keeping my faith strong.most likely grab my bible to read .amen haleluya.

  • @ms.gurrola5232
    @ms.gurrola52322 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏 This was so helpful! 🥰😍😌

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're most welcome

  • @samanthajoelle5511
    @samanthajoelle5511 Жыл бұрын

    I love how you talk. Thank you for wisdom and insight ❤

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate that! Thank you, Samantha

  • @lavellenoble5373
    @lavellenoble53732 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your valuable information❗️You have given me a positive way to deal with myself first; which will be beneficial when I am back in touch with this relatively new gentleman in my life❣️👍 I plan to continue listening to your presentations‼️👍🤗

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are welcome, LaVelle

  • @bjsmith8824
    @bjsmith88242 жыл бұрын

    I get it. Such great advice ❤️

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad!

  • @patriciabrown8660
    @patriciabrown86602 жыл бұрын

    Hi Matthew! I love this video. Love the concept of spreading love and sending out love. I need a little help with spreading love to others.

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for being here, Patricia!

  • @rachelhunter5049
    @rachelhunter50492 жыл бұрын

    Watching from New Zealand and enjoying the advice, thank you 🙏

  • @MatthewCoast

    @MatthewCoast

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are welcome, Rachel

  • @denisevalenzuela3960
    @denisevalenzuela3960 Жыл бұрын

    I get it!! Thank u so much for this...I soo needed this..💗

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