And with all these steps to take..... Have you just considered, that, He's just not that into you?! When something is over sometimes it's just over! Don't waste time on someone that's not giving you play, one thing for sure two thing for certain, a real Man that wants & desires you he will let you know you will know, bottom line! And that advice was free & comes with life experience behind! ❤️

@francescalegrand6257

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Onie !

@glendacarter3201

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@Cheech1111

2 жыл бұрын

Yes as I don’t remember any of this when I met my husband and we dated. Unfortunately I lost him after 27 years and now I’m lost.

@NarnianLady

Жыл бұрын

@Onie Kelley So true.. all these games did not exist back in the day my parents met and were in love w each other. No guessing games. Men also expressed their interest clearly. Today, the guys that openly express they want me have been very clingy unstable ones without boundaries.. who do not ubderstand the word 'NO'.. Otherwise, men tend to be totally distant and avoidant. Not going to pursue anyone, the right man will have the guts.. or I will stay single.

@starr_love6196

Жыл бұрын

Im glad i dont have these problems . My man loves me . We’ve been through A lot not fighting, just things that life throws at people . Nothing keeps us apart . We always stick together .

1. Show interest. 2. The invitation. (Invite him to pursue you, do something).

@carmendominguez7821

4 жыл бұрын

Hi 😭😿💔

@BellaBaby321

4 жыл бұрын

30 minutes could have easily been 5 minutes. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@sheilabrown7898

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks didn't think he ever get to the point

@sheilabrown7898

3 жыл бұрын

.

@alienso28

3 жыл бұрын

What do u mean by invite him to pursue you

I personally feel cell phones make this relationship stuff way to much work.

@user-mk9hv8sl5p

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah we should definitely go back to carrier pigeons 🤡

@NarnianLady

Жыл бұрын

@@user-mk9hv8sl5p maybe the old fashioned snail mail.. back in the day, before internet being widely available, ppl actually wrote real letters to each other.. and forming genuine relationships through correspondence, phone calls, and real life encounters.

O my goodness his video's take forever to get to the point!

@NewWaveGirl30

4 ай бұрын

A lot of people do that on here. It is annoying He does make some good points though

I enjoy your advice... I listen carefully so I can learn and not make stupid mistakes. Keep up the good work Matt.🤗

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Thank you Matt I appreciate the info

Really great idea I like your presentation today to the point

You're awesome Matt! Thank you for all you do! 🙂

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

Thank You for not rushing through this much needed info Matt ✖️🔘✖️🔘💖 Stay Blessed ✖️🔘✖️🔘💖

Hey Matthew! This is Shann from South Carolina! Thank You so much for your unique way of tweaking how to date and converse in this most difficult times.

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@shanncarr9276

Жыл бұрын

@@MatthewCoast so hard to find authenticity anymore Thank You for your part in helping us navigate our way to finding a keeper ❤️

I think we should lean back to allow him to want our company. As long as he's investing in me and I am special

Thank you Matt, always good info and insight. Learning the “ behind the scenes” info on how men think really help me understand better and I’ve grown way more comfortable, confident and compassionate. I don’t panic or overthink now.

Thanks sooo very much for all these amazing sessions🎉🎉🎉🎉very Grateful!!!!!❤️❤️

@MatthewCoast

3 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

🤣 That's a good text. My kitty really misses you, you should come and pet her... and he knows you don't have a cat.

@kelligray1848

Ай бұрын

That’s a cute one. I love to flirt all day in little pieces. He loves it!❤

Hi Mathew!Nice to watch again your video!😊

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

I think this was wonderful and sweet.

I love your channel

Hi Mr.Matt watching here now from Philippines.thanks for sharing .😊

Hi Mathew, nice to listen to you again

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you're here, Juanita

Thank you very much for great advices.🥰🙏😇

Thatz superb❤

Keep doing a good job

Thank you soooooo. Much..

Whatever happened to people just being authentic, nice, and interesting? Is it really necessary to do all these machinations and jump through hoops? How about not being neurotic?

@bobbiellison4315

3 жыл бұрын

No its not necessary except for forcing square pegs into round holes. If you need to have someone with you and dont care if theyre not good for you then you haqve4 to play games. I say no thank you.

@GypsiiSOUL

2 жыл бұрын

@@bobbiellison4315 I agree

@alejandrahuber5928

2 жыл бұрын

I used to think the same you guys are talking about. I thought I’m too old to play games I’m just going to be straight and to the point. I found out very quickly that what this guy is talking about is just the way men are women are just wired these ways. Like it or not. It sucks but it’s facts.

@NarnianLady

Жыл бұрын

@@alejandrahuber5928 actually, being authentic still works .. with some people. I know extraordinary ppl and couples, who may have done it all wrong according to the dating coaches.. but they fell in love, and knew they wanted to be together. Yes, there may have been all that investment .. mutually. It has to be both ways..

Soo much respect thank you

@MatthewCoast

3 жыл бұрын

You are very welcome

First time I watch you seem to know what youre talking about great will help me ...

Hahaha I'll be using My cat misses you .. he'll get a laugh for sure and Yes I do have a cat her name is Ginger ..

Hello Matt I'm from idaho I love your talking enjoy them very interesting

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

Hello Matthew, listening from West Virginia

I'm "five" years too late to seeing this video, but I think it is genious! Kudos to you! Love 💖 this, Matt.

@MatthewCoast

Ай бұрын

Glad you loved it.

Hi loving all your advice...GA

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!

The ones wanting the video to be shorter, you are missing a lot of good points.

@phxarizona7201

3 жыл бұрын

Agree thank You ✖️🔘✖️🔘💖

@dianeberania2024

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

I enjoy watching you and listening you talk

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot.

its funny because ive done the cat text before without realizing how effective it was before this and it always worked it's hilarious

@sonyecollins

4 жыл бұрын

Explain

@sandravaught981

9 ай бұрын

@@sonyecollinsr

I really want him to have time for me ❤️ like he use to

I love the cat!!!:)

I would love to know how this works if you were dating someone and then he decided he can’t give you what you want.....but I still have feelings for him and my gut tells me he doesn’t really mean it (he’s scared). How do you start up the conversations again?

My dog does miss him! Would a video of my dog looking for him when I return home be helpful???

Hi I'm watching from Hongkong. .Thank you so much.

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being here, Maricris

I love the cat txt. Lol

I like the cat petting illustration. I think it's very interesting.

Finally I am here Matthew ❤❤❤😇😇😇😘😘😘

🤣🤣🤣🤣 the cat part though.

Joy from New Zealand 👏👏

Love your videos

I love this..

Hi yah 👋 from Sydney, Australia

Hello Matthew 👋 it's good to be here 😊

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Hello there!

I have a childhood friend that grew up with. We became friends after years of not being in contact. I also liked him when we were teenagers but never dated. We live 3hrs. apart .He’s been there for me through a bad marriage. We’ve been calling and texting daily. I told him that I like him now he’s avoiding me. What should I do?

Hello Thank You Matthew

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Warm greetings!

Hello...I really understand...

Very insightful. I would hear and take notes for sure. I am slowly learning how to approach men. Thanks. Would listen again for sure!

Hello from North Carolina!!!

Hi and thank you

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Thank you too.

Hi Matt ♥️

Hi Tess here. From Philippines.

I think with the cat i'd rather be careful 😉 it has a double meaning, hasn't it?

I really would love to hear from you but I’m on a fixed income (disabled) and can’t afford to join but I really need to feel the love he says he has for me cause he & I are both hurting here bc he has expressed his pain

I have a crush on someone at work. We talk a lot about our past relationships and are both just starting on line dating. I know he likes me as a person and respects me. He has said he thinks I’m a strong woman. I think he likes me, but I’m not sure. I said to him “these on line sites don’t seem to have anyone I’m interested in dating, do you think you have a friend that would like me?” And he said he doesn’t have any friends. I’m pretty sure he does have friends. Did he say that because he wants to keep me for himself? Why hasn’t he asked me out? How do I spark his desire to go up from like and respect, I would like to date this man and see what more it could become.

@Carol-wd5hm

4 жыл бұрын

Just let him know you’re into him. Don’t waste time.

@slimhealthybeauty5143

2 жыл бұрын

Why don't u ask him out?

@ARenae1

7 ай бұрын

I need an update lol

Hi from New Zealand 😊

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

Hello!

Hi Matt.😍

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

Hello

Women who carry an air of mystery, men love that. They wanted to find you charming. Think when you find a man enchanting? But so many young women destroy their own allure by being almost confrontational.

What are the two texts?

Hi from Cheri from Wi!!

The cat text was pretty funny. Cool joke.

So what are the two text?

He does make me laugh with his jokes

Hello Matthew 😊

He was the first person to ever hold me while sleeping and never attempted to get in my pants too this melted my heart and has me addicted to him! My birthday is this Friday November 20th and I really want to see him.... how can I get him to come over????

Ok I stay with you Matthew ❤❤❤❤😇😇😇😘😘

Hi Mathew from NZ

Omg it takes you 15 years to get to the point.

OMG that cat text was hilarious!!! 😂

You are funny!

Hey Matt =)

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

Hey Elaina, thanks for visiting me here. XD

NeT flix and chill but I'm not ready to be all clingy but connection sounds normal 👍

Hi from the Philippines

Cat misses you. Omg. Yeah. Naughty. 😈 Lmao

hello from mississauga ontario

I use those text with no training 🤣

What well I do if he ignoring my calls and text, his being so cold now, I don't know what to think,why his being like that lately,his last word is be patience have happy thoughts,

Yes

👋 Matthew God bless 🙏

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

You too!

I tried this a couple of times with men I really liked. They seem to be interested but if I was not contacting them, they were not doing it with me 😞 so I had to quit in order not to chase

Hi from Seoul

If I do all this but he still doesn’t want to commit

Does this stuff really work

All our dates have been only at my place and not in public We were to go out and I was late for this date and that’s when everything changed

@francescalegrand6257

3 жыл бұрын

Melinda, he is bad news ! Say Goodbye !

@dianeberania2024

3 жыл бұрын

Ladies give your date te respect from date #1 don't be late. Try to be 5-10mins early. Show that he is that special to you and that your plan in advance to meet him was worth it.

hello from Canada

.I'd get this all wrong and he'd wonder if I had had other personalities ..

Matt the hook up thing that's going on I like the free love 60s hippies thing only now it's yuppies!

@vianianow21

3 жыл бұрын

Hmm, never thought of it this way

Erica from Mobile, Al!!!

Hi from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 ☺ Dalia

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Hello! Glad you're here.

What is really sad is they those of us who are trying to rescue a much loved marriage long distance and don't have an extra penny don't get to fix anything. He's off being happy

Hello Matt..from Philippines

Hi Fran

Hi from Colorado

Hey Angela from Rochester

Hi from Philippines

Come pet my cat😂😂😂 he might get the wrong message lol