Did all that for years. I changed and worked on my attachment style and I tried all the ways possible to make it work but at the end it still wasn’t good enough for him. I let him go finally. Walked away with my head up high and my dignity. Not settling for breadcrumbs and not sacrificing my emotional health anymore. It’s not me, it’s him. ✌🏼 #goodriddance

@kimgordon3695

3 жыл бұрын

This is a common experience with women and men that attract Narcs (I get it) 💙

@kimgordon3695

3 жыл бұрын

Know your VALUE. stay true & be You

@meganruchwatercolors7186

3 жыл бұрын

I am in it right now and plan on getting out! Up breadcrumbs that's what they do!

@jenniferlorence1950

3 жыл бұрын

Joanna: You Are Right. Sometimes trying too hard makes a girl lose Value in his Eyes. Sometimes is Better to Make Him Work for You.

@keepcreationprocess

3 жыл бұрын

You see, wasted all your time , your money your energy, your life, your broken heart and then at the end, investing in 0 zero, NOTTHINGG.

1. Connect with him on a deep emotional level. 2. Make him feel amazing when you’re around him. 3. Create an emotional range for him - being happy is not the only emotion. Ask questions; What scares him? 4. Be different than the other women he meets. Show different sides of your personality, quirks and all. Develop the behavior of a High Quality Woman. 5.Create space and scarcity, do not smother him, gave him some space to wonder where you are. Stop constantly reaching out. Lean back.

@felicitascunningham9008

2 жыл бұрын

@MG Sol What is the behaviour of a high quality woman?

@cordeliadaniels7737

2 жыл бұрын

Great points.

@naturespleasantries

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@cmlee58

Жыл бұрын

👍Thanks for the list. 🙏

@shirleneyang3350

Жыл бұрын

Those great points, you are the Best. Why he asked my assets ? 5:22

It’s more like “give him the gift of removing your essences”, if you have to play this type of game with him, move on. Let him enjoy life without you. There’s someone out there that will treat you well.

@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou

3 жыл бұрын

It’s not a game lol

@fionam3735

Жыл бұрын

This is hard I’ve been through so much and I thought this time I had it together but he used the push and pull technique he wanted the benefits on his terms and was happy to remain single after two years I can’t keep doing this

@alisonb5921

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy being single & I'm also happy being childfree, too ! I never wanted kids. He never supposedly, had kids, either,(?). He went 'no contact' on me, then he tried to destroy me. He left to be with a low-life woman, (with 2 kids,) She was way beneath me in so many ways ! He & his low value woman, deserve each other! It's been 18 & a months now, since he went no contact. However, he has broken this 'no contact' a few times. But this is only when they're having problems. When it's good between them, he ignores me. I ignore him, too & I avoid him. I know his routine, so I can avoid him. It's a small town here. I'm civil to him, when he does talk to me. This is only because I don't want one of his angry tirades in a public place. I was way too good, decent, kind & high value for him. He's stuck with her. 😄

@joycehawkins5087

10 ай бұрын

I get it👍🏽

@AnitaZulu-qu9vp

9 ай бұрын

Aà

When my man starts telling me about computer stuff I start to feel my brain start to go into a fog. He knows I don't understand what he's saying. I have to constantly remind myself "this is important to him." Over and over. He just wants to show off or just share something that excited him. I do the same with my three year old son "good job awesome sweetie!" My man is really opening up and connecting with me

Love all your advice! You're amazing! Thank you so much!

Hi Matthew, I did your course online and put into action your tips and immediately got results. Leaning back, being patient, and focusing on my feminine energy. That rubber band effect snapped him right back and the connection was even more enjoyable, pulling us closer together.

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

Awesome!

@SR-kg5qu

3 жыл бұрын

Which course ? Would you be kind enough to tell me?

@nancykane8680

2 жыл бұрын

Hi from Northern Ohio, Lake Erie

@sanoberbulsara7776

9 ай бұрын

Which course u did

@sanoberbulsara7776

9 ай бұрын

Which course plse hrlpn

*The idea of making someone miss you can be tempting, but let's remember that true connections are built on honesty and authenticity. Instead of trying to force feelings, let's focus on nurturing a genuine bond through shared experiences and open communication.*

Great advice! I just started leaning back in my relationship and I'm starting to see the benefits of not chasing a man.

@claudiapurcell8687

3 жыл бұрын

I like your approach. Even were depressed, desperate...you send a positive influence.... Thank you.

Hiya " Mathew I just red one of your articles, now I'm here listening. Hoping this will help me get out of this confusing state I'm in at the moment.

Basically taking a deep interest in someone vs trying to reveal everything you are is attractive... of course it is. We all want to be seen internally. Be real comfortable in your own skin, don't manipulate! Be honest with your feelings. Go live your life, there are so many amazing people and adventures before you. Be accepting of others for who they are while seeing and encouraging them to be everything the desire.

Thank you...I appreciated your thoughts. U r so super awesome. From Phoenix; AZ😉👍

Following from the Philippines. Hello! Thank you Matt for the very great eye opener! I will remember everything for my advantage. God bless you and love ones.🙏🙏🙏

Thank you 🙏🏻 for all this information you’re great! Miami

Hello, I'm from Phillipines nice show I appreciated it very much; this is Maura.

HI HELLO MATHEW COAST, I AM RAQUEL ROMUALDO FROM RIZAL CAGAYAN VALLEY, YOUR VLOGS IS A VERY NICE AND I LOVE WATCHING IT. I FEEL HAPPY ABOUT IT. OK JUST CONTINUE MAKING OTHER PEOPLE HAPPY .

Hi Matt listening from Texas, really enjoyed you and your advice!!

Only recently found your Video's and really helpful on some tips when it comes to guys like me and this guy from work have been flirting with each other since May even if it's racing each other along the riverbank at the end of work, challenging each other fitness-wise even though he's more fit, he's encouraged me to get back into shape and he would smile every time i was around, even told me to go and see him at his other place of work as a bouncer and opened up to me what happened as a kid. I did eventually open to him how i feel and he just shut down on me avoiding me.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

Awesome advice Love it!!

Thank you for the love, Matthew! You're improving lives. Blessings from Austin 🔥

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

Very interesting! Viewing here in sunny Umatilla, Florida about one hour from Daytona Beach. Great information, thank you!

Hello Matthew ! I'm from Quebec, Canada ! Very interesting ! Thanks ! Isa.

I really love your advice it's working thanks a lot Matt you the best 👍

Thank you for saving so many women's lives. I wish everyone was like you matt

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome, Jin!

Hello I am check your channel from California very interesting to see it , thank you I am learning. To apply to my marriage I Get It !

Hi Mathew, I thank you for your programs. It has helped me tremendously in my new relationship.

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful! I am always happy to help, Juanita

Hi Mathew I’m hearing your from Greece 🇬🇷 you are amazing coach your advises are accurate and clear 👌😀

Love you and Helena 💜💜💜💜 you both have educated me so much on the differences between masculine and feminine energy and how men have different love needs than women do. I no longer pursue any man instead I lean back and allow him to pursue me and I receive his attention using my feminine energy , I let the men text and call me I reply and answer to show I am interested in them pursuing me But I do not initiate the contact 90 percent of the time

Hi Mat! Glad to be here! Chicago

I love that part when you did that little hand motion dance when answering if the techniques work over chat. 😂You’ve got a fun personality man. You give great advice!

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

You always give good advice, I love it, and you are not boring to watch, watching from Artesia, California.

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Thank you Matt. ❤ I’m enjoying your videos .very informative . To apply in the future when in a relationship ☺️💕

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful!

The movie "Ghost" did that to me.Watched it &cried everytime,but Never got sick of it.

You are delightful to listen to !

Hello. I am watching from Cameroon. Thanks a lot👌

I rarely say this but your advice is like, brilliant. THANKS lol

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@ramonaedwards5338

5 жыл бұрын

It really is

Your soo good on how u explained all the ways

You’re my Hitch 🌀💙🌀 Love Helena 2 🌈

you sounds clear and you have a gentle sweet voice! I like that! ♥️😊

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the compliment, Antonette 😊

Victoria from Queens, New York.I loved your r relationship advice.Youre the best!!!

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Victoria!

Matt, all youve said are all true and effective based on my experience

Love you Matthew . Thank you .

I am and do by nature all that you said. I never think hard , it comes naturally to me. So no wonder guys can’t ever forget me. They miss me madly all the time. I am humbled.

@kristinehansen4105

2 жыл бұрын

I'm the same. Men are crazy about friendly, polite, emotionally unavalible and sexually unavalible beautiful women. How ironic lol

From Puerto Rico ~ interesting; for female of all ages ! Married , divorced, widows, and specially the young! Some women loose their mate interest! Because «we» don't understand , the male psychology ! But, I refuse to play the mind games, they know was going on !!! I rather listen to this type of advices!!! Encouraging anyone , is much better ! Understanding the limits !!! I'm a counselor!!! I agree fully with what you are exposing !!!!

@christinethompson3282

3 жыл бұрын

You are really helping me. Thank you.

I like the way you share this experienced in our livelife

Hi Carol from Canada. Lv your topic.

Hello Matt !!! Nice to see you again !!!❤️❤️

@MatthewCoast

3 ай бұрын

Hey there! Glad you're here.

Listening intently from both San Fiego, CA and in Texas

Hi... I enjoy your tips. And from Trinidad.

Mathew you are so Amazing I been following you since I found your page ❤️

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Awww.. thank you so much ❤️

@gypsymorrison5308

2 жыл бұрын

I been dating this guy for couple of times,, he seems so attracted to me ,, he keeps saying I have a beautiful smile ,, I wonder if he knows I wear Dentures should I tell him ,, Lol 😂

Not part of the live chat sadly But, I get it. My man is incredible and we connect on an emotional level and we are amazingly compatible. And we are OLD! I AM A SOLID 66 AND HE IS A YOUNG 64. WE HAVE TALKED ON THE PHONE FOR OVER 2 YEARS SEVERAL TIMES A WEEK and we know each other quite well. For some reason we inately knew how to treat each other with many of your techniques without having heard of you or your text messages, and the things I hear you say now, are reinforcing our relationship concepts. He always tells me he misses me and loves me and I know he tells me the truth. Thank you for your advice and help. You and Helena are a wonderful find for me. Karen is watching you from Phoenix, AZ.

@cjennings6179

5 жыл бұрын

Congratulations. I'm happy 4 you 2!!! 👍💐🏆

Hi.. 3 o'clock in the morning.... Athens, Greece

hey buddy, I like your style! I'm one of your subscriber! God bless you! ♥️

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for subbing, Antonette!

Love takes time to develop. Friendship must COME FIRST STEP. LEARNING Tolerance & PATIENCE. GOOD SENSE. LEVEL-HEADED. ) Be CAREFUL. Do not LET HIM CONTROL U. BE WARE of MANIPULATION from him. Be AWARE OF TOXIC WORDS. HURTFUL Words. Intoxicating CONTROL Forced. Be ware bitter hearted. Resentful feelings. Rebounders. New & yet OLD HABITS die hard. Anger. Insecurities. Ex made his life miserable. Poor me. He or she NOT HEALED. CLEAN UP!!😃 👌👌👌 Get aid ?

Hei im Irene.I like this video is very instructive .I need your help, hw to do it. .Warm greetings from Norway.

Hi i just found you, I subscribed I liked this video, im from Australia❤

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for subscribing & warm welcome to you, Rowi

Hi I'm a new subscriber from Philippines.

Hello from Canada!! ❤️

Hi< Im a new subscriber from London

You are amazing thank you 😁

Hi from island girl. Just discovered your program I am married and find your advice beneficial to improving my relationship with my husband. Thank you.

@MatthewCoast

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome, thanks for sharing!

Great advice. Linda from CA

I love this Matt. Thank you for these helpful hints. I have an amazing young man, he tells me he misses me all the time. He loves our conversations and we just naturally talk about everything. But he attends a University and I really don't know what he hopes to accomplish when he finally graduates. So this advice has stirred me to dig deeper and ask deeper questions

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to help, Loretta.

Hi farah from Houston good stuff

U are awesome Matthew.u are wise.

I'm from Philippines.Watching from Dubai.

Thanks Matthew your amazing

Hi Mathew my first time seeing your video I'm from Ontario Canada

He wait for me to text him in the morning as he dont want to wake me up. He will text me immediately and while he is doing something at work he will let me know by opening his cam while he worked. He is so sweet.hahaha love it

I don't even have someone to love and I'm watching this-

New here, from Los Angeles, greetings, positivity and Desires granted to All seeing this!!❤️❤️

Greetingz from The Netherlans 🇱🇺👋

22:50 🤣 🤣🤣 i really love watching your coaching Matt

@nellylim5332

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed

Great idea

Hello from Houston Texas USA

Hello its my first time with you. Thank you

Pauls Valley Oklahoma I "lift" my guy up everyday. He loves it and thanks me constantly

All these steps should go both ways

Hi! Watching from Italy 😊

Hello - I am watching you from London- UK

Hey Matt! Cincinnati kid here too 👌🏽

Hello from Ontario Canada!

Hi love your videos I'm from Surrey in England

Hello love ur video from Ghana

Hello Matt! watching here from philippines! 😊

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

Hello there!

Hi Mathew, I am from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 I live in the City of Chicago. I started to follow you and I have too say you are amazing. I have my story 😀 but I may have too write a long page. I am doing what you say as a woman and trying for him to fall in love with me. I get great compliments that I am a amazing woman and more. I respect him and show him my love. Again, you are amazing. I thank you so much 🙂

Why can't everyone just be honest and straightforward in this game. Everyone is so scared of getting hurt again so everything is a strategy or formula. Why can't it just be simpler and less complicated?

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

You can be honest and straightforward. And you should.

Hello Matt I'm from Las Vegas, ,Nv. I get it but I'm in love but he ghost me or ignore me after a disagreement. So I'm done. I can't do this if he never comes around or call or text. I'm leaving him alone after 6 months. I don't understand if he misses me and talking to someone else. I'm not going to call him

Thanks from Canada

Hello from Russia. Thanks a lot!

Hello. I am from New York Just begin watching 👍🏻

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and let me know your thoughts 😊

Hello from beautiful Finland 🇫🇮❤️

Hello I like your videos thank you.

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Hello 👋 listening from Missouri here. 😊

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Hello there!

Thank you... i get it, and you are adorable

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Hi Matt, I am watching from Morganton, North Carolina

@MatthewCoast

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

Hello from Santa Cruz, California

I Get It!!💯

Halo I'm from south africa cape town thank you very much

Hello 👋 I am watching this video from Canada 🇨🇦 Calgary

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!