I'm 66 and just lost my husband of 48 years. We had a beautiful relationship and want it again but wow men have changed and need help to find true love again with no friggin games.

@patriciaearley4177

4 жыл бұрын

Barb,I hear you dear! It's different today for sure you will get there😉

@cyndistiff4108

4 жыл бұрын

I find that by our age so many men our age can be very set in their way or have been taken advantage of that they are scared or lose interest in dating!

@bernieoconnell5515

3 жыл бұрын

@@cyndistiff4108 or else they running after 20 yr olds.

@lindsey361

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing I wish you all the best

@wendyhogan4416

2 жыл бұрын

@@ilenek.5428 I believe she was saying she "lost" her husband not that he left her???

I love the statement " never put a question mark when a man puts a period"

"Physical intimacy with you is sacred and limited to a man that earns it. A deep connection and exclusivity are prerequisites" Love that! ❤

@jogratitude1908

4 жыл бұрын

The access to my body is sacred and limited. Love it !

@anitamatthews-hess4826

4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree

@cozettem8226

4 жыл бұрын

I agree too bad no man out there willing to work for it except the unattractive ones who cant get it elsewhere lol.

@diplomatgirl171

4 жыл бұрын

Judy Jack-Burton good luck waiting for that.

@judyjb2305

4 жыл бұрын

@@diplomatgirl171 Know what you want and go for that

I hate hookup culture. I guess some people like it but I’d feel used and tossed away This was an awesome video, extremely helpful

@bluwater1496

4 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way

@chinarose6056

3 жыл бұрын

If you put yourself in that position then you will feel used and tossed away. JUST SAY NO!

I am so done trying. If someone loves you they need to show it. I don't chase no man. I am me not changing and if he comes back so be it if not that means never meant to be

I'm seeing more hookups than actually going out on dates. They take you out for a meet and greet for drinks. Talk about having sex instead of getting to know you.

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

I'll do a video on screening men here soon which should help you.

@jamilgotcher5456

4 жыл бұрын

Make them take you to lunch, not drinks. A day date.

@melodietaulman4774

4 жыл бұрын

@@MatthewCoast Looking forward to it

@patriciaearley4177

4 жыл бұрын

Melody,this is my experience,they see what they can get away with mostly the bare minimum unfortunately 😯🤔🤯🤐

@melodietaulman4774

4 жыл бұрын

@@patriciaearley4177Men are visionary so I watch what I wear on the first date to weed out the hookups. I had one creepy guy say that I'm dressed from head to toe 😂

I absolutely love your KZread videos Matthew, they’ve helped me to grow in dating and relationships. They have also helped me heal and grow within myself. Thank you xx

Love you Matt, You make alot of sense. Had to giggle at some of these questions .Your common sense and wisdom is a breath of fresh air 💞

You’re awesome Matthew, thank you for everything!❤️

Love your style and your advise on personal power. Subscribed!

Even though the title is nothing we want to hear about, it s totally necessary that we learn and accept it as real

South Carolina is here! I help my patients and all this helps me help other ladies. Thank you. It also helps me. This helps me understand some of the mistakes I made so I do not do again. Thanks

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching, Juanita.

Great advice Matt. Thanks for sharing.

Set boundaries with him as you would with a friend and actually everybody else! Sets a solid n comfortable foundation for your relationship to progress. Thank you, Matthew.

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Much welcome!

@sitmengchue4077

2 жыл бұрын

@@MatthewCoast Cheers, Matt. HAPPY NEW YEAR. Wishing you radiant health n prosperity in the Year of the Tiger!

Matthew, Thank You for sharing your insights. From New Jersey

This is what exactly have happened. I became an option while he was my priority.

@blossom6235

4 жыл бұрын

i hope, you dump his ass

@jogratitude1908

4 жыл бұрын

Grace Jegels , I think of him as a learning tool. I started dating and didn't know how men think. I have done what Matt said not to do . That was before I found this channel. I see the relationship as a lesson .

Wonderful relationship info Thank you SO much

If a guy wants to text every week, find yourself a man who is ready for a relationship.

I just discovered Mathew Coast, and I appreciate his wise, practical advice.

I bring my happiness to the relationship, I don’t find it there! Thanks for the affirmation!♥️

Great advice you give! Thanks!!!

Hey Mat, good to see ya😏 great info. Im a giver at heart and learning with whom I can be this way, tks. Yer the best ! 🤩

Hi Matthew! I’m watching from Greenvillle NC. I enjoy all your videos! 😊👍

I worked as a creative consultant for a movie star for a very long time . You have “star” charisma. Hard to think you have not been offered film contracts by big agents . Maybe you have . Dunno . However, your charm alone has made me a fan. Your insightful talent about what makes for harmonious relationships is a great plus.. ( Goes without saying ...!)

Thanks for this video. You are my fave dating coach! Hopefully i dont so most of these things anymore, but the texting thing....... i do like to chat and can be prone to geting hung up on response times 🤦‍♀️🙈

Thanks for the great advice. Hi Matt. I'm from Louisiana.

Hi Matt, I am from molalla,Oregon and I like the videos that you have too. God bless you always too..

Ladies! LISTEN TO THIS MAN, HE KNOWS HIS STUFF 👍 😁

Wooow thank you this is so realistic and meaningful

Hi Matthew:)* Jacalyn from Massachusetts♡*:) Im excited about all your advice & I'm learning things I was never taught in my life..it is a slow process for me.. but I am getting what your teaching... Your the best in all your advice!!! Thank you

Absolutely to the point. Thanks

Hi from Cape Town in South Africa. Thank you for the good advice

Matthew, you are just amazing. Thank you

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

I get it awesome God bless you hun!

You are the best adviser. So wish I knew this info long time.

@MatthewCoast

5 ай бұрын

I appreciate that! Happy to help.

Wow my eyes open wide my mouth dropped because I do these things and didn't know am doing something wrong omg this is new for me

Thank you for your good a message u wake me up this way because im crazy to take care of my special person to me , now i learn because or your advice. Keep it up and keep safe ! Goodbless you always .

@MatthewCoast

3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

Thank you so much Mathew I love to listen to you advice dating coach hopefully.This is really touched my heart . Church will done that was really great.

Amazing advice. Thank you so much.

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

You are welcome!

You’re awesome Coach Matthew thank you .I get it!

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Hi, Evelyn. You're so welcome!

This is a really good topic

Hi Matt, I get what you are saying. I just need to apply it.

Hey Matthew, It's really great to hear your advice from Dhaka,Bangladesh. I am facing certain issues and I listen to you. I feel so good and inspiring after hearing your words. You became an internet digital friend to me. Thanks for your advice. I get it. Sometimes I mess up again and again. But I follow your words too. Good wishes and love from Kamalika,Dhaka,Bangladesh.Stay Safe and Healthy.

@MatthewCoast

3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to know that. Thank you very much.

Another amazing video from Matt! 🙂 Hahaha.... Loved this analogy with the pool situation. Yup, I was there. I am mature but at times I feel like I am a student who fails more than being victorious. At this moment I am healing and preparing for next year. It will be amazing!

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

A good year is coming for you!

@aleksandrakora

4 жыл бұрын

@@MatthewCoast aww, thank you so much, Matt! Happy & successful capricorn 2020! Yay! 😁

Great advice. Thank you.

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Nice suggestion,Nice advice

Thanks for the great advice

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Thank you very much Matt , much obliged ❤️❤️❤️👩

@MatthewCoast

4 ай бұрын

You are welcome.

Matt I enjoyed your advise so much

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

So glad!

Men aren’t watching YT vids on how to find true love... why are we turning ourselves inside out to capture their fleeting attention??

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

Of course men watch YT videos on how to find true love... here's a friend of mine's channel who teaches such things and he has over 800k subs! kzread.info

@gdeshae

4 жыл бұрын

Matthew Coast - Relationship Advice hmmm I stand corrected... that’s nice to know 😉

@starshake8998

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Anytime I see a young "bro" relationship coach listing all of these meticulous and IMPOSSIBLE TO EXECUTE do's and don't's, I just say, "screw this," stop the video and turn my attention to something productive that has NOTHING to do with dating. When there's a combination of mild to moderately chauvinistic and insulting descriptions of the way women behave alongside the never-ending list of "be excited but not too excited, unpredictable but not crazy, open but mysterious, authentic but not overfunctioning, etc. etc. etc.", that's when I tune out. This is not expert advice. This is just an average guy's point of view on all the ideal things he and his friends would like women to do in order to make falling in love easy and perfect for men. Then that unquestioned mansplanation is tied up and presented in a pretty bow so it looks like support. It's basically the same old patriarchal tune with updated lyrics. Here's a pro tip from me to all of the bro coaches out there: If you want women to be less neurotic, stop telling them everything men do is indirectly their fault but that they *could* fix it if they subtly and skillfully altered every single behavior that they have. 🙄

@hdunaway110

3 жыл бұрын

If their attention is fleeting then they aren’t into you. Communication is a learned behavior. Men and women think vastly different. He’s just explaining common behavior from women from a mans perspective. His videos are geared towards women who are looking to improve their communication with men.

Ur common sense and wisdom is amazing and I certainly have bags of both x ..thanku

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome.

12:18 Access to your body is limited. Physical intimacy, access to your body, those kinds of photos, is sacred and limited to a man who has earned it. Before getting intimate you want to know what of relationship he's looking for, exclusivity, and a deep personal connection.

I love this guy... thank you ❤❤

I love your videos and advice. From Southern Cal.

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

Very good advice . Let him chase you ! I get it ! I give thumbs up/likes all videos. From NYC

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Marilyn!

i love your work

Women need to start dating multiple men at once; just don't sleep with them. The one who acts right and behaves himself, with a ring in hand, wins! Sick of this sh*t. They're playing games with women all around the globe. Smh......I mean, just look at the comments and where the women are from. I'm from Florida.

You are great, your advise helps me a lot, from the Philippines

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Happy to hear that!

I love this video ! :)

I found you so helpful and wise.

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Amna

How to show you’re interested so they don’t give up yet not be desperate or needy giving room for them to chase? Thank you

I get it and I am still working on it!

Listening from Zambia..... Amazing

Matthew you are cracking me up thank you for this laugh I needed it! My first name means Sunshine in Chinese and I am watching this from Austin TX

@MatthewCoast

8 ай бұрын

Glad to have you here!

Why is it so difficult if any man needs all that walk away period. Stay alone it sounds like he’s to much work for me. He can go to the next victim because I am victorious.

Hello, lisa from Birmingham ive wacthed a few videos.

@lisacross5375

4 жыл бұрын

If u have soul&heart joined but he finds it hard to open up he told me he loves me

Hi..Matthew..am from Malaysia ..good advice...tq..

I get it. Thanks Matthew!😀

@MatthewCoast

4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Thanks Matt ur awesome 👏 ❤

@MatthewCoast

Ай бұрын

You're so welcome!

Hi Matt, I'm from Croatia and I love to listen to your advises. You re great 😊

Hi Matt, Thanks for your support! I do find it hard to get over the guy who just disappears... and where do you suggest meeting men other than online, especially during Covid?

I get it!! Tks..

Exactly correct! Thats what I do now that Im finally single and free after 20 years and no dating or relationship yet! just messaging with some men on a dating site POF.

@sunnyclouds1372

4 жыл бұрын

Be careful of POF lots of narcissist on that site

Hi Matt: Great advice! I am Donna from Jamaica, W.I

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Hello there!

Hi Matt 🎉🎉🎉You are sooo right 🎉🎉🎉🎉not only a boyfriend but husbands too 🎉🎉🎉🎉

I totally get it. Also u good.

I am a serial dater by nature...A few close calls..Inviting 2 guys to the same event...lol I was a teenager and am still somewhat like that :)

I GET IT. All the way from Chicago, IL.

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Pleasure to have you here, Mildred

Hi Matthew,watching you from Kuwait city

Hi, from Missouri !!!

I can't with these questions and comments 😩

I get you! Thanks! Nice to hear a mans point of view. Most important!

Hello from New Mexico

Nice❤

I get it thanks

Greetings from Seychelles, great video, Thankyou so much . Does this works for marriage also. After being married for 10 yrs, I feel men pulls away and take love for granted. How to win him back?

@shonaboris6832

4 жыл бұрын

He need to win you back stay strong and speak assertively. Do what make you happy to love yourself.

Listening from Jamaica West Indies

@Mrs.T305

4 жыл бұрын

The men there suck. I'm so sick of them

I really get it.

Hey from New Mexico! Peace out

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being here, Marti

I get it.

Over texting and calling are not good overall. I prefer meeting up once a week in the beginning a and texting mainly for that purpose 👌

Watching from Wisconsin

I get it !!!!

Hi from NYC! 👋🏽

@MatthewCoast

3 ай бұрын

Hello there!

And if a man can’t offer me reassurance then he’s not the one. There is a difference between being needy and wanting someone who will show up when they need to. Yes being happy in yourself first always. Not relying on someone else. But saying a man doesn’t want to work for a relationship? Then telling women to make them work for it? How does that work?

I get it!

If someone hasn’t responded or reached out in 24 hours and that’s a change in communication style from what the two of you have been having, that’s odd and something is up, period. People or constantly connected to their phones on a daily basis so sorry, unless you said you were gonna be taking a phone break or something like that if you’re seeing someone and are interested in them, you wouldn’t not respond for 24 hours.

Beautiful advice because I think am too free handy to men

Hi..Mattew I'm from Pennsauken NJ

@cjsmomom

4 жыл бұрын

Wow I grew up near there 🙂

Hi just wondering how do I know if the man that you met online is moving too fast and wanted to do thing for me and wanting to always want to stay over and stay over night when we haven’t even meet each other in person I know he said that he really likes me and he cares about me but he kept asking me if he cAn come over watch movies and he will bring some snack or my favorite food and stay over I honest not really comfortable about that idea so how can I tell him without pushing him away since I also like him?