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Hi, I am a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach & a Certified Trauma Specialist. I have created this channel as your Ultimate go-to solution for Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and recovery from Childhood Trauma. On this channel, I will be posting videos to teach you how to move on, recover, heal and not only thrive but also transform into your greatest version possible.
I will help you to dive deep and understand the different facets of narcissistic abuse and the trauma it causes using a humanistic approach; an approach that doesn't degrade you to labels like "codependent" and "People Pleaser". With knowledge, you will also get different tools that you need to heal after narcissistic abuse.
From awareness to resolution, my videos will help you with developing a thorough understanding of, " What you have been through", "How it has affected you as a person" and "How you can use it to transform yourself".
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Make a video on how to live with narcissistic husband and mother in law if you have kids from narcissist husband and can't leave them.
Man I had some crazy dreams when I was with a narcissist, I remember one dream I had I was in my bedroom and this homeless lady broke into the house , I confronted her but she walked away peaceful, but as she was leaving my ex came around the corner and the homeless lady started screaming at her, and then began attacking my ex. At this point I woke up. What I find strange is I had this dream during the love bombing stage, where she was pretending to be a nice person.
I think you just saved my life Danish.
Who gives a fuck if she emasculates you hahah
"Physical presence is love for them." So, being cold , silent, and distant but in the same room is love for her? Spot on on the bare minimum one centimeter supposed to be enough.
They are so good at "Reactive abuse"
Oh boy bf was telling me what to do. I blurted mind your own business. Wow the temper tantrum. When i was almost done with him, I tried holding him accountable for his violent temper for one hour- did you or did you not lose your temper ..I must've said it over 20 times to pin him down. He kept changing the subject like a slimy snake but this time I didn't let go. He finally admitted yes.
They can do any dirty games, they can torture people, use people, they are evil, devil's punishment is in hell, thats all they get
Great
I learned this when i was younger with my narcissistic mother
Don't care
Thank you so much sir
Mine has done this several times, even in front of other people who did not know her! Which I found scary, she didn't care about being found out. The other day (should say my narc moved across the street from me) and I was putting my trash out the front door, I go to close my door and as I'm looking up closing it. There she is in her window, with her hands on her hips and I could see the stare even though she was across the street. It's absolutely terrifying
They will try to kill you as my ex husband tried but again failed. Thank God. John 3:16. I remember a councillor told me to tell him this hurts me. His response was I don't care and smiled. So it gave him more fuel.
This is true when I brought New stuff clothes etc I realize how jealous there Extremely jealous it’s sad to see him sulk & brood . . . .unbelievable
They will never carryout that threat. They love themselves far too much.
All facts 💯 ❤
The man I dated for many years, off/ on,,,, over time, and towards the end, he did THREATEN TO TAKE HIS LIFE.
I can't win, when I'm calm he says I'm cold and have no emotion. If I raise my voice then he says I'm crazy and he doesn't want to argue. He just wants me to accept everything he says no matter what. 😢
Sounds like me. A few clues are about me but I thought they are human and normal like who doesn't like to be appreciated and who likes to be exposed and talked ill about? I don't know any of those losers so It didn't resonate with me. But in the comment section everyone is blaming others and feeling they are the better one is actually narcissistic.
OMG. This is exactly what ex covert narc friend did to me. She was extremely religious and manipulative.
If it’s your sibling or parent, yes. If it’s a friend, move on.
Yes, yes, yes, joint pain!!! Everywhere!! Siatica is way, way worse & my hips are acting up. One even cracks now at certain times?? Wtheck is goin on Danish? And you mentioned menopause. I was having hot flashes every day and night before I left. Then they went away since I've been away. I heard from him and I immediately got hot flashes again. Now my skin is breaking out, hair falling out and i have dark patches on parts of my skin. I'm a mess right now including the unbearable joint pain.... but I'm alive. Hopefully when I unwind all this through therapy, I will find my inner & outer shine again. 🤔💜✌🏽 Blessed 🐝
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Arey baba normal life me bhi sab ese he karte hai iska mtlab sbhi ke sbhi NARCISSISTIC haiii???? Me bhi kabhi kbhi esa ho jati hu KUCH BHI YARRR ... Problem hum me hoti hai hum CODEPENDENT ho jate hai instead of we have to BALANCE OUR EMOTIONS AND HANDEL CALMLY OR give some SPECE in life to everyone to FIGURE OUT YOU AND SITUATIONS 😅😅😅😅
even before marriage, my mother-in-law got my husband into an immoral relationship with another woman and after marriage, when I became pregnant, she got my husband married for the second time, about which I came to know after twenty years! Apart from that, my husband has countless immoral relationships! My husband holds a very big government post and in order to take advantage of it, his mother herself pushes him towards wrongdoings and the whole family helps!! From the beginning my husband told me that he is very hardworking and has no interest in sex. But now I found out that they did it every day! One of his sex partners even committed suicide because he was so controlling! My husband also tried to stop my children's education, despite having so much money, I and my children yearn for everything and live like servants as per the standard of living
Yes, even before marriage, my mother-in-law got my husband into an immoral relationship with another woman and after marriage, when I became pregnant, she got my husband married for the second time, about which I came to know after twenty years! Apart from that, my husband has countless immoral relationships! My husband holds a very big government post and in order to take advantage of it, his mother herself pushes him towards wrongdoings and the whole family helps!! From the beginning my husband told me that he is very hardworking and has no interest in sex. But now I found out that they did it every day! One of his sex partners even committed suicide because he was so controlling! My husband also tried to stop my children's education, despite having so much money, I and my children yearn for everything and live like servants as per the standard of living
Aren’t narcissists that way with all people?
💯 percent hit on the point because I am living with one
My narcissistic sister boasted volunteering to be treasurer at her church. But it was most likely so she could see how much others tithed.
This is more than true!They never love their children ! They just see them as an object that ruins thei commodity!They live just for themselves and nobody else !
Exactly
Old me....panics..oh no...I'm sorry. New me...oh well that's sad. See ya! I'm awake now and know the play book.
Who the hell are you ?
Oh, who would like to go and hold that poor narcissist's hand
Thats how they steal your talent. They point it out to you and abuse what naturally given to you and when you exhausted they will say you are finished, never mind they have no talent like this..
BAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAAAAAA🤣🤣🤣🤣OMG!!!!! I put it on loop🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💜💜💜💜💜💜✌🏽Thankx for that🤣im still crackin up...
🎉🎉🎉Oni biraju svoje mete,Ali super empati su pogresne mete😊❤❤❤
Him: "You are the best. The most generous. Most kind. Genius.." Also, him: "I want to see you get angry" Me: "No, you don't" 👹
This is certainly no laughing matter. Not sure of your motivations to post private letters online? There is absolutely no way for the audience to know if this is in fact from a real narcissists projecting it all. And a lot of times things between people aren't that black and white. Either way those are clearly communicated things that aren't laughable. Copedendency is toxic and controlling as well, as bad as narcissists are, victims also have significant amount of traits and issues to work on. And if you grew up with narcissistic parents you pick up some degree of narcissism either way. And say this from experience, it takes many years of diligent work to heal yourself. People prob shouldn't be coaching others until they really have fully integrated their childhood and overcome their realtional/attachment woundings.
Easy way to distinguish victim aspects in us from narcissistic aspects is that the former continuously question themselves while the latter immediately deflect, project.
For years I didn’t realise he was lying because I was so in love with him for a long time. When I finally opened my eyes to his ways I figured out his lies took the form of grandiose stories about his life and what he accomplished/could do in the present. He always had a hero/saviour complex and his stories reflected that. Even earlier this year when he ended up in hospital due to potential life ending high blood pressure (hypertension) he couldn’t help himself. His comments: “Oh the nurses all love me and look up to me because I helped one with advice about her finances.” But he’s on govt disability payments because he can’t work any more and he has no savings or other income. “The head doctor tried to kill me because he prescribed two medications with bad interactions. I Googled it and told the nurse because she didn’t know. All the nurses and junior doctors are scared of him but I protected them by arguing with the doctor and then took the medication my own way.” Of course he didn’t lodge a complaint with the hospital or the state authorities because he didn’t want the other staff to lose their jobs. The list of outrageous statements continued and I was rolling my eyes back in my head so hard I nearly fell over multiple times. If I ever have cause to be in his presence I just assume every word that comes out of his mouth is a lie. It saves time.
You have to protect yourself from becoming sick physically and mentally from their sick, twisted , subtle use and abuse. The first thing you need to do is accept they're NOT GOING TO CHANGE EXCEPT TO GET WORSE. Forget trying to please them to get any true love or meaningful relationship with them. They'll throw you occasional bread crumbs of kindness to try to keep you serving them but the moment they have your affection they start the devaluing abuse again. Tell them nothing! Let actions without verbal explanation speak for you. Be as mind manipulating as they are. Be happy and independent, explain NOTHING, ASK FOR NOTHING, TELL THEM NOTHING. Plants wither without water. Anything that shows them your upset will be used against you because they want you upset! Anything you say about being unhappy with them will be make them blame you and project all their BS on you! If you can't leave them physically for whatever reason, all you can do is leave them mentally and emotionally. Beware because they get worse as they get older or elderly. Thanks for your videos Danish , they're direct and so so true.
You literally described to a T my husband & definitely the whole reason why he married me, you nailed it completely.
On point....
I think it's their paradox. Being alone triggers their narcissism. They are still alone even with 100 flying monkeys The worst is destroying memories. When you can't be with someone whom you can't be yourself.
These scary pple hate peace.
It's like you describe my narc
All out of the blue I was in the bathroom and I got hot water on me and screamed outch and he ask what happened to you. I was shocked and went to see if that was him asking that or if I was delusional. It was him and I asked him what was that you never ever ask if j hurt myself and he said he waz just wondering. I think he loved my outch and the fact I was hurt . Crazy experience from a "dead" person.
No kissing. Nothing open mouth. No bonding. No rubbing. They never say yes when you're initiating it.
I am an accident baby. Mom never wanted me. never let me do anything fun, and let my family abuse me often. I joined the Army when I was turned 17, to escape the inevitable doom of where my life was headed. All the males in my family were either dead or in jail. The recruiter told her that he would wait until I was 18 before taking me if she signed the consent. She tried her best for 11 months to sabotage my departure, with countless guilt and bs. Didn't work. My mom was mad because she knew she couldn't control me any more. When I left, she threw away all my stuff, collections clothes everything. Then she wondered why I never wrote or called after finding out. After two years of blissful living without her chaos, she called the Red Cross and tracked me down just to start her narc shit up again. Much more happened but I'll spare you. I have to confess, and I hate admitting it, I am glad she is gone from this world.