Break the Trauma Bond in 5 Steps: www.emotionalabuserecovery.com/breaking-the-trauma-bond

It’s also good to know that when you (finally) state that they are not allowed to speak to you in the horrific manner in which they have been, that they will rage like a lunatic, screaming at the top of their lungs, fighting to still be able to speak to you in that way. They are so fucking nuts.

@rosettesionne9139

18 күн бұрын

I was called mentally deranged because I asked them to treat me with respect... So yeah, I can relate.

@Tuebor

18 күн бұрын

@@rosettesionne9139 Oh my gosh…I’m so sorry. It’s so backwards with them. Sometimes I can’t believe just how similar our experiences actually are! It’s like they all have a script. A stupid, useless script, but still a script.

They start to believe their own lies , it’s so funny !!!!! they get so scared once the cover is blown off of them and they exposed for who they really are , it’s hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!!!!!!!

I could write a book about my life with my deceased husband and all the things he did to me.. He's dead and I can't seem to let anyone in my life. I don't want to go thru that hell agai.

The two that most resonated with me were 1) believing his own future-faking lies, and 2) genuinely believing he was the victim of every one of his exes.

So true. I've seen all of that in different narcissists, they're always throwing their rubbish onto others. Never trust them.

The narcissist is definitely their own worst enemy & don’t trust anyone when,in fact,they shouldn’t trust themselves.

@tommcewan7936

18 күн бұрын

A person incapable of trust, is incapable of being trusted; they're afraid you'll eventually betray or abandon them (because they don't believe they deserve any better, a self-fulfilling prophesy) and so always waiting for the opportunity to preempt that by doing it to you first.

Unwilling to put in the effort required to build genuine self esteem (by doing the basics that others are willing to work on, like meditation/prayer, eating right, getting exercise, pursuing goals/hobbies, daily affirmations, etc)… NPD's gain their (fake AF) sense of self worth by crushing/collapsing the self worth of others.

Not just they narcissistic but also they are sadistic too

@Tuebor

24 күн бұрын

Ego-syntonic sadism is a pattern of behavior that is consistent with a person's values, beliefs, and personality. It is a characteristic of malignant narcissism, a severe personality disorder that can have damaging consequences for families and society.

@michiganmymichigan

23 күн бұрын

Too true. 🌲🌴🌳

@Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl

11 күн бұрын

@@Tuebor Very interesting. I have not heard it explained like that before.

@EricPollarrd

11 күн бұрын

Narcissadism 😳

My husband had the nerve to tell me once when I wanted to leave him that my nursing license was half his. He thought since he worked a low paying job while I went to school that he put me through nursing school even though I did all the work and used grants and scholarships to pay tuition. The gall is insane. He also told me i never thanked him for staying with me after my mother died. Say what???!!!

@cc1k435

24 күн бұрын

Don't look for logic from them. Meanwhile, mine prevented me through various means from returning to school at all, so I guess this degree is going to be all mine. 😂❤

@lisademoss9308

23 күн бұрын

I believe it. Mine told me that it was my job to do his school work. Unbelievably I read, figured out what the professor wanted, wrote out every essay, and then typed everything into the computer. 13 hours a day plus cooking and cleaning. He got all of the college credits and got paid each semester which I got none. He then posted all over his Facebook profile that he was a college graduate. Thank God after 21years & surrounded by only his family, last week, I barely got out. I'm now learning about what I was dealing with. I'm so exhausted.

@klejjxd

23 күн бұрын

Maybe not on the theme, but mine manipulated me so bad, that after he left me alone in the middle of the night at the city centre and after some random guy literally almost raped me and followed me to the door of my apartment and tried to break in (i had to physically fight him while he was trying to undress me) manipulated me so bad that when i told him (what happened after he left me and went to do drugs alone,) while we were at his place and his friend was there too, he basically laughed at me, said he didnt believe me and that i deserved it and made me apologise to him XD i still cant believe that i loved him so much that i forgave him literally everything 🤡

@klejjxd

23 күн бұрын

Damn, i'm reading this again and again and it sounds like ive made it up but since i know your stories are also unbelievable but also true i just know that theyre just some kind of different species (sorry for any mistakes, english is not my first language;))

@malcolmwaddilove1822

22 күн бұрын

They was so difficult to understand? Now,we read them like a book,get thee behind me satan❤️

Love to a narcissist is lust , desire , passion, infatuation, obsession, seduction (coyness and flirtatious) - but in reality none of those is love at all not even intimate love nor romantic love They can mimic intimacy and romance but it’s fake and contrived

They are their own worst enemy

They were wrong. I wasn't a tool for them to have their way with. I am a free person. They don't know me. Thanks, Danish. ❤

@19783008ful

19 күн бұрын

I'm so annoyed with myself for not going out & enjoying music recently & also about 5 other times this yr! & last yr to go sometimes :( being depressed & angry & resentful. It's def not going to happen again! I'm going. It's my life

😳😳They are definitely their own worst enemy!!! The denial causes this and jealousy accelerates it. 🤯🤯🤯🙏🏼

All so true. They're not to be trusted at all. Keep away from them.

Thank you, Danish. In your comment where they say...."You're never going to find anybody like me". My response to this quote in the video.......Yes, I certainly hope not. 🙂

@ijarsaahamiileedhalootatub6175

24 күн бұрын

Even me a say I don't search for person like you 😂😂😂😂😂

@RoseQuartzGemini

18 күн бұрын

Yes!! I remember this exact conversation with my ex 😂

@Babygap25Sweetness

17 күн бұрын

Lol 😆. I always used to say that. That's the point of moving on. Doing better!!!

Yess !! they always blame others for triggering them

"Think the worst and you'll be certain" is the motto that always works with a narcissist.

@cc1k435

24 күн бұрын

😂 Should be put in any contract with them. 😂

@hxbby22x

24 күн бұрын

Omg I thought this yesterday!!! My intuition was telling me something and I was like Nahh no way. Then I remembered there a narcissist and the worst always ends up being right

@a.williams10

24 күн бұрын

@@cc1k435 exactly! As a reminder works wonders. Setting a personalised ringtone for those when you cannot go 'no contact' a sound like "ringing warning alarms 🚨" is recommended as well 😉

@a.williams10

24 күн бұрын

@@cc1k435 @hxbby22x you'll never be wrong when you expect the worst from a narcissist. Never trust them. Keep strong and safe.

I have been traumatized by my narcissistic parents, had relationships with narcissists but I’m so glad I’m learning. I feel stronger and more comfortable and stronger after much therapy. I see the narcissist for who they are. A person with a very fragile ego who only feels better when they put you down. It is not about you. It’s about them. Always. Don’t people please.

A very comprehensive vlog. Whatever you say, goes straight to the heart of survivors who have seen and experienced hell on earth.

@RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose

24 күн бұрын

True. 💯

I know one they believe you should be there and go along with there bs. My dad is like this God forbid you tell these ppl you are putting yourself first today on strike not letting them run me around today mental health day. The anger in their voice you wont play the game is crazy.

@pamelabarone5868

24 күн бұрын

They get angry when you say no and will never leave you to have peace. It goes on and on no responsibilty and blame you. No not today suckers. I have been the scapegoat my whole life. I want no contact with any of them, takers that guilt you to help and will walk over your body in the gutter or the side of the road once the milk everything from you. Once you build yourself back the come back around to pull it again. No thanks

"I don´t know you anymore", he said. It´s incredible how they say words that hurts so much and we can´t perceive listen how really bad are these words. I think we can perceive, because hurt, but we forgive them: one time, twice etc.

Oh I get to experience all of those things daily. How I get away is still an unanswered question just now. Pray and pray and pray.

@malcolmwaddilove1822

24 күн бұрын

God is with you,invite him in to your situation❤

@cleocatra9324

24 күн бұрын

God helps those who help themselves, pray and then decide on a plan of action. God may put good people in your oath to help you also.

@kalkhan816

24 күн бұрын

one way that we get helped is thru ppl like Danish, they have overcome their trauma and now are helping us, that's always something to think on as a positive...

@BirdhouseCottage

21 күн бұрын

HE always makes a way of escape! I know this for a fact...simply trust God and He will provide! I know it's scary but God will make a way when it seems there is no way! Praying for you!🙏

These points are all true in my experience. The most vile one imo is that they blame and disdain the person they mistreat for “being a good” or “ not seeing through them”, as if a person who gives people the benefit of the doubt is the bad person. Totally sick and shamelessly degenerate way of thinking.

After the veil lifts…..and the empath hopefully escapes, the realization that the experience has made one stronger it’s possible to see the gift. It takes time. Requires forgiveness. Not forget, forgive. We all see our hero, can we also see our villian? God bless, move on.

Minupulation is the goal. Always tells me that no one else would ever want me

Each of these points are apt for my ex. It just breaks me to realise that I got w a narcissist and I couldn't leave earlier. I am glad I am out of it. May almighty heal everyone who went thru such horrific, miserable phase because of their narc partners. Thankyou, Danish. I am glad that people like you are saving lives by spreading awareness. god bless you!

Every single thing you said resonated with me. It’s very sad to think about others that have gone through the same situation that I have. Thank you so much for this channel because it has really helped me to heal.

Dear Danish, I'll thank you, yet again for your content and for helping me recognize & break free from abuse. I'm much stronger today, because you of YOU! 💯🎉

Whatever the situation is..they are stuck in their weird belief!

@danmurray1143

24 күн бұрын

Yes! Weird beliefs. For reasons I'll never understand, my ex-wife started bragging that she had the ability to "multi-task." So I said, ya, me too. And she would say, "no, you do one thing, then stop to do another, then stop that 2nd thing to go back to the 1st. But I have the ability to 'truely multi-task.' " So I'm like, ok crazy woman, whatever. Nearly everyone alive can multi-task if they try. It's not some unique skill only you have. Then, as the months rolled on, I noticed she would find excuses to bring up multi-tasking when talking to others. Same thing, emphasizing & implying only she had the ability to "truely multi-task." She honestly thought she should win the Nobel Prize in multi-tasking. This insane woman would purposely start like a dozen projects around the house at the same time. She would bounce from room to room doing a minute or two of work. Then off to the next room for a minute or two more. She was spending more time walking around in circles than getting actual work done. 😆 🤣 😂 It was the weirdest thing ever. Then she would get on the phone & brag to someone about all the projects she had going at once. I could hear her saying the same thing to each person she called "Well, I have the ability to TRUELY multi-task. Most people can't TRUELY multi-task." 😆 🤣 😂 What the actual F.....?!?! So, I know what you mean when you say "weird." The whole 16-year marriage was so bizarre!!!

@CodyCole80

23 күн бұрын

Reprobate Minds!!!

I totally identify with always the" bad" person, the one who triggered an out or proportion emotional bs reaction 😂. Narcissists are ridiculous and full of themselves. If it wasn't for them you would never have made it of course, they,ll exaggerate what they do and minimize your part and in the end your st unless you are giving them your full attention. They,re exhausting and they,re everywhere 😐. Thsnk you for sharing ☀️✨

All other's outside of them are always ' wolves ' not any other will hold on to you ' you're to vulnerable ' nobody is gonna stay with you' all other's are ' predators ' :they don't really stand up for you , narcs enable other insultings from other's towards you. That no emotion face they make. Everyone else incl you are crazy except them. Whole world is awful except them. Avoid therapy when actually they need it the most. Once you want out or are out they start to chase like no other. Scary thing... thnx Danish

I didnt see how evil games they play i didnt believe that someone can do this to another person ,after they are done they make sure to stay in life trough anybody .If there is one red flag just leave before they make more damage life is to build our souls and spirit up ,life is doing good to others

I'm sure my narc sister got her supply recently. She was able to disinvite me from my goddaughters wedding. I didn't even know about it for 2 weeks. Same sister who disinvited me from my younger sisters funeral last September. I have resigned myself to the FACT that I have no family. I've always known her to be a vicious, destructive gossip, why should anything be different.

@kalkhan816

24 күн бұрын

thats not nice at all...she don't want you to feel any joy...

They also have selective amnesia ! My ‘husband’ will be completely rude and yell and accuse me of things I’ve never done and when i tell him what he did was disgusting he looks at me and says he doesn’t know what im talking about. He didn’t say or do anything. It’s infuriating!!!

@cleocatra9324

24 күн бұрын

Film him

@kalkhan816

24 күн бұрын

he's a gaslighter...that's whats pushing your buttons...so unfair to you, you cleary don't deserve this treatment.

🤯🤯🤯🤯Was just reminding myself that denial and delusion has always been at the core of our problems. Thank You for your videos! They are so helpful 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

Thank you for this Danish, very refreshing and invigorating content!! You've certainly cheered me up this morning listening to you, as the narcissist certainly makes you feel everything that went wrong is your fault, and how very unworthy you are to even be existing! You've given me a spring in my step! 🤩🤩🤩👏👏👏🇬🇧

Nice one Danish, I hear you! Keep it coming,such a help to so many people❤

Totally appreciate the context of your most recent videos, this one especially! It's like you're giving us some type of decoder ring, which assists us in the reprograming of our minds! Thank you so much!

Good video as always. All I can say is wow! I told him the day is coming and he is going to see that his whole life was a joke. And he will face his karma with God.

Make sense. She always said how much I changed because I was kind in the beginning.

@Cyzure

24 күн бұрын

Oh my God same

@mr.vargas5648

24 күн бұрын

Thats projektion bro.

@alex.kristoffersen

24 күн бұрын

My dad past away during this time with her and I needed to grief and she hated it. She literally punished me for grieving.

@kalkhan816

24 күн бұрын

u can always go back 2 being kind, there's so many ppl that are lonely out there, there's many ppl sitting in hospitals that don't have visitors, there's ppl everywhere that need you, if you chose to give them a piece of your heart, they'd appreciate it...just don't tell your narc partner

@alex.kristoffersen

23 күн бұрын

@@kalkhan816 thank you. Appreciate it ❤️ We broke up 1 year ago so she won't lnow

I have things he did that will shock you.

@Cyzure

24 күн бұрын

He probably cheated on you with a male

Devil comes to kill steal and destroy, those demons lie to them, they are puppets ! Lord have mercy

@kalkhan816

24 күн бұрын

pray, pray for space away from them, and for help that you can keep your integrity as a Christian in your principles, so they can't spoil that too in your life, pray also for your own strength to be increased, that'll help you.

@JesuisLord

22 күн бұрын

@@kalkhan816 thank you ! You’re right I need to pray for me too ! Lord give us strength in this battle to overcome these attacks through these people , wisdom also in Jesus name amen 🙏

@clintonnagy1662

20 күн бұрын

Very interesting. Maybe that's why my ex gf says she feels like a puppet for everybody?

my narc demon father does black magic on me and my brother and thinks we'll start adoring him. the continuos effects of that horrible black magic have destroyed my little brother and my life completely indeed. but he didnt get what he wanted. he'll get hell for all eternity.

@loganpraetorian

24 күн бұрын

What do you mean black magic?

@rahulm2827

24 күн бұрын

@@loganpraetorian i mean black magic. in my country unfortunately there are a lot of ppl who do all sorts of these weird things. and the sad part is: some things do work. i was about 25 or 30 when i woke up to the fact that all the things going wrong in my life and my brothers life arent normal. so many weird things happened, so many obstacles, so many disputes etc. then i slowly realized that something is wrong. i accuse my narc demon father of doing black magic. and i know for 100% that ppl dont believe me. either they dont believe me or they dont understand the seriousness of the effects. but i can tell from my fathers behaviour and his motives that he is behind all this. and i know that praying helps me to reduce the effects. in my country such black magicians advertise their horrible skills on TV. its a common thing to see. and i needed so much time to realize whats going on because i am not familiar with these things. and besides the effects, the worst thing is explaining this entire thing to ppl. even my best friends dont believe me or underestimate the effects. all the things the demon did in front of my eyes were evil enough. additionally he's been ordering someone to do black magic on us. if i wont be able to prove to my family and the world what he did, there still is God who is witnessing everything.

@rahulm2827

24 күн бұрын

@@loganpraetorian i mean black magic. in my country unfortunately there are a lot of ppl who do all sorts of these weird things. and the sad part is: some things do work. i was about 25 or 30 when i woke up to the fact that all the things going wrong in my life and my brothers life arent normal. so many weird things happened, so many obstacles, so many disputes etc. then i slowly realized that something is wrong. i accuse my narc demon father of doing black magic. and i know for 100% that ppl dont believe me. either they dont believe me or they dont understand the seriousness of the effects. but i can tell from my fathers behaviour and his motives that he is behind all this. and i know that praying helps me to reduce the effects. in my country such black magicians advertise their horrible skills on TV. its a common thing to see. and i needed so much time to realize whats going on because i am not familiar with these things. and besides the effects, the worst thing is explaining this entire thing to ppl. even my best friends dont believe me or underestimate the effects. all the things the demon did in front of my eyes were evil enough. additionally he's been ordering someone to do black magic on us. if i wont be able to prove to my family and the world what he did, there still is God who is witnessing everything.

@rahulm2827

24 күн бұрын

i mean black magic. in my country unfortunately there are a lot of ppl who do all sorts of these weird things. and the sad part is: some things do work. i was about 25 or 30 when i woke up to the fact that all the things going wrong in my life and my brothers life arent normal. so many weird things happened, so many obstacles, so many disputes etc. then i slowly realized that something is wrong. i accuse my narc demon father of doing black magic. and i know for 100% that ppl dont believe me. either they dont believe me or they dont understand the seriousness of the effects. but i can tell from my fathers behaviour and his motives that he is behind all this. and i know that praying helps me to reduce the effects. in my country such black magicians advertise their horrible skills on TV. its a common thing to see. and i needed so much time to realize whats going on because i am not familiar with these things. and besides the effects, the worst thing is explaining this entire thing to ppl. even my best friends dont believe me or underestimate the effects. all the things the demon did in front of my eyes were evil enough. additionally he's been ordering someone to do black magic on us. if i wont be able to prove to my family and the world what he did, there still is God who is witnessing everything.

@rahulm2827

24 күн бұрын

@Loganpraetorian i mean black magic. in my country unfortunately there are a lot of ppl who do all sorts of these weird things. and the sad part is: some things do work. i was about 25 or 30 when i woke up to the fact that all the things going wrong in my life and my brothers life arent normal. so many weird things happened, so many obstacles, so many disputes etc. then i slowly realized that something is wrong. i accuse my narc demon father of doing black magic. and i know for 100% that ppl dont believe me. either they dont believe me or they dont understand the seriousness of the effects. but i can tell from my fathers behaviour and his motives that he is behind all this. and i know that praying helps me to reduce the effects. in my country such black magicians advertise their horrible skills on TV. its a common thing to see. and i needed so much time to realize whats going on because i am not familiar with these things. and besides the effects, the worst thing is explaining this entire thing to ppl. even my best friends dont believe me or underestimate the effects. all the things the demon did in front of my eyes were evil enough. additionally he's been ordering someone to do black magic on us. if i wont be able to prove to my family and the world what he did, there still is God who is witnessing everything.

They think they are God and God can do no wrong.

Mine claimed that she never lies and absolutely HATES liars, zero tolerance for lying. Lol. There is this character from a movie called Knives Out and the girl vomits Everytime she lies and she would say how that girl is so similar to her 🤣😭 You can't make this stuff up.

@Moonlightsaphire111

19 күн бұрын

She's satans sister 😂

Eye opener, I realised m living with narcissist. He said I am near to ideal, you have changed, you are the root cause of all this shit going on, my goodness

It's really taxing to deal with them in court . We have 2 kids. He abused and cut us off.. I literally had to run from him to save my sanity and protect kids from having such horrifying experiences.. but now I'm being blamed for breaking the marriage and being selfish asking for kids maintenance ..he knows I have figured it out and would never take the risk of going back.. so he saying he wants us back.. it's a big fat lie .. how do I deal with this silent monster..

Yep had that one tons of times. “You’re not the person u were at the start.” I used to say but YOU changed before I did. I’m merely reacting to your sudden unexplained evil. She had very little to say back 😂

I saw my egg donor the other day - she and my sister were doing shopping or whatever ... and for a split second I realized how tired and old they were, how insanely lonely. These two unemployed women, with no friends, no family, nobody to help around the house, nothing but their unyielding "we are better than everyone" attitude, hollow as a shell. They saw me and I thought, I wonder if mom is starting to realize it was a mistake to have mistreated the shy 'ugly' daughter? Well ... let's hope it was worth it for them.

Thank you doctor, God bless from Italy.

Too many people in my life do all five of these and I get symptoms of being sick when they do these things. Then I have to stay away from them to feel better. I noticed I have acne on face from having so much trauma bonding in my nervous system still being there. When I notice acne developing on my face when I don’t know a person and I have that same feelings from narcissistic people in my life I go home to calm down because I am afraid of “ freezing “, nothing scarier than not being able to move when having anxiety and fear. Still getting counseling though. If you aren’t in counseling get counseling to heal.

Thank you Danish. You truly answered my question ‘why does my ex narc friend avoid me like the plague. And treats my kids like they have a disease? Why can’t she be civilized for our kids? Your answer she’s found someone else to replace me with and I couldn’t fulfill all her demands. I really thought of warning her new supply. But I didn’t do it. I wish two years ago someone had warned me for her. Thing is, this person is so happy to be her friend that I end up looking like a negative person and frankly I’m not willing to have more issues with her. The hardest part was to have to explain to kids why they’re coach/friends were being nasty to them after two years of close friendship. Do you have any advice on that Danish? First I thought ‘what a curse, but now I’m looking at the silver lining. My girls, aged 8,8 & 10 now know that kind of people exist. They were masks. And I hope by explaining this to them they avoid these kind of people in the future.

Damn... Lately when I watch these videos, I'm starting to think everyone is kind of a narcissist. Myself included.

She had me convinced I was a narcissist and it turns out nope, she is.

Once your eyes become fully open, you realize they are the smallest people you will ever encounter in your lifetime.

Spot on!

My ex told me my niceness wasn't nice to him. He said I offered him food but never asked him what he wanted. ( We weren't even together when he said this ) like i'm offered you food but you want me to make EXACTLY what you want. huh??? I cleaned his place since I stayed at his parents at the time, payed rent with my own room and again said i was using this to manipulate him. like i didn't even ask for anything... once i realize nothing i do will make him trust me or believe me. i simply stopped. Now he has roaches, etc

Mine told me he had never in all his life done anything to be sorry for. This man was sixty five at the time.

@cleocatra9324

24 күн бұрын

That’s because they don’t feel guilt or remorse.

@kalkhan816

24 күн бұрын

omf...this one is too blind!! how can a person never have done anything they're not sorry for? we're all human, we all make mistakes and sometimes those mistakes are costly...what are blind man

@cleocatra9324

24 күн бұрын

@@kalkhan816 maybe he simply did everything on purpose and idk, was floating over his wrong doings??

Mistreatment can also mean when someone is successful without their help. When you are happy on your own. If you had a history of turning to them for advice I think some felt this would go on until you die. Then, instead of being happy that you were able to finally stand on your own and find success and happiness the shock at how nasty they become!

All of the mentioned criteria!

Bang on

All you say is absolutely true

Generally, I'm skeptical of anyone who believes anything that goes against common sense and my judgment/intuition. Throw in that I like to be informed and double-check the info I've researched, like watching a video on narcissism. I'm usually prepared. I do admit to having weaknesses, and I like to give everyone a chance. The last one in particular gets me in trouble... 😆

Danish, Can you do a video about narcs pouting if they don’t get their way?

All 5 of these beliefs fit my ex narcissist to a tee! 🤯

My narcissistic friend also believed - she was the best girlfriend for her boyfriend (and that he could find no better; he would come back if he dated around). I heard her say so on multiple occasions.

I know now that my youngest daughter (34)is a narcissist. She told everyone that i mistreated her which i didn't. Some people like my brother and sister in law did believe her in the beginning. Now i understand that she finds it mistreatment when i didn't give in to her. But there is more. She just got a babygirl which she let not see me telling that she needs to defend her against me.

Fuck , this is like a horror story …😮😮

@mr.vargas5648

24 күн бұрын

They are indees nightmare fuel.

Chasing something that never brings them satisfaction is not narcissism...it's addiction. It can be in form of alcohol, drugs, sex, a number of addictions.

Very relatable Danish

Sheesh alone is my comfort zone. Healed is when you understand why you are where you are. Acceptance is the only tool we have towards others. Acceptance is freeing yourself from the weight of the unknowns regrets guilt ect.. now you are free to rise above and move forward. Learn who you are and what trips you up. It is your power, only yours and it can't be taken. You must weld that power to grow strong yet pliable. People let their minds run the show based on their momentary feelings. That is a bad blueprint.

My Narc father once said, “I don’t care if he lives or dies!” when I got my stroke three weeks ago. Then he turned around and claimed he didn’t say what he did. He LOVES to play the victim and loves hogging the attention, and hates it when someone else “takes the attention”.

Way too many "Narc's around!",Beware and Protect yourselves,get out asap? God Bless and Protect!🙏💜🙏❤️

hai coach all of them i went through namber 5 wost worst

Thx to awareness monthbro

When my wife asked for a divorce, i asked her to be honest and tell me why she is filing. I was paying 100% of the bills. She never had a job. She said I don't remind her of her father. I did not know how to answer. She pays 100% of her own bills now.

💯 truth

My husband told me that if i left, I would regret it in the future, that one day I when I am more mature I would look back and see how lucky i was to have him.

Please can you talk about spiritual narcissism

Ohh danish same dialogue how many times he told.. How could you this much accurate🎉

The ONLY people to ever love the narcissist is an interrogating officer or the FBI agent . I can't help it, I worked too many years along side with law enforcement to pretend I don't know them .😂

Whatever she/he puts in her/his mental and/or physical 'interior' of Self, becomes her/he in the end and she/he will 'showcase' it on their 'exteriors (ie: behaviours, vocalisms, interactions, endeavors, etc.)' but every second is a chance to change (omce recognition is politely acknowledged), as there are 86,400 seconds per day w/o demand, force, pressure, and/or control - stress free both ways, within the journey, on the 2-way highway called Life). *Edit: hopefully, Respect is eqUal both ways... eqUal say, eqUal do. eqUal be, eqUal yoU! *Note: the letter 'u' is capitalized and/or emphasized, due to the importance of yoU, the reader, viewer, hUman-being, eqUal!

Every point describes my EX 😆

Tooo bad they are missing a really deep self-realization! Could be a human "real deep experience!" Big personal loss for them!

👌 Dot , Pin Point Accurate . 👌 👌 👌👌 .

The man I was seeing always said what does love have to do with it.

Just right

My narcissist sabotages every job she finds by starting a war with her colleagues or supervisor or both. She can't play well in the sandbox no matter how good the money and benefits are. Her personal life is even worse than her professional life. She is unable to overlook any slight, no matter what might be at stake. Right at all times, evermore enraged, lusting for revenge, full of poison, yet convinced she is the victim, she is capable of the most heinous and appalling acts. She lacks natural affection. Always talking so loudly so as to call as much attention to herself in public, she believes others enjoy her words. I shutter and cringe. There is such peace when she goes away for a while. I don't know how or why a person wants to live with such a venomous approach to others.

All this time I’ve been thinking she is the narc as she displays all the characteristics and she is really seeking to destroy me but as I look deeper I’m realising that I have also displayed these characteristics, is that possible? Can a victim become an abuser? I definitely don’t feel like a victim or that she has successfully made me feel like I’m the problem I just think sometimes it’s complexed especially when two people share identical upbringing

@rhilliardqdmi

24 күн бұрын

Self reflection and admitting to your own failings is good if you follow through with moving forward from it. Look into the issues that are common with people who were raised by narcs. Not everyone who has narcissistic tendencies is a narcissist. Not everyone who is selfish or self absorbed is a narcissist. A toxic relationship doesn't always have a narcissist at the center of it. It doesn't have to have one for someone to decide they are better off without that relationship. Take the time to heal and discover oneself away from bad relationships without having to blame shift. Take ownership of what you can work on yourself. There is power in realizing you can make better life choices and then actively doing the work of making better choices.

@dieubrandicarreira6322

24 күн бұрын

@@rhilliardqdmiI appreciate that, noted, God Bless you🙏🏾

@reneegardner2286

20 күн бұрын

You could be the narc or the victim only you would know

Oho 😢 so my husband is a narcissist 😢 that's why he treats me these ways... 😢

So...what happens when 2 narcissists come together?

@reneegardner2286

20 күн бұрын

Think Kim and Kanye

All of the above

I all of it

I had a "friend" that told me during a technical argument that : IF I DON'T UNDERSTAND SOMETHING..IT'S NOT WORTH LEARNING ABOUT IT.. IT'S NOT IMPORTANT!!!... He actually said that... I don't bother him very much anymore... 🐺

The narc I am married to said he could resolve the Ukraine war. I said get on a plane and get over there and tell them. Unbelievable.

@user-os4so4uz1m

21 күн бұрын

Time to Divorce!

@debrabrookham6670

18 күн бұрын

Mine who is in his forties said he could be a doctor if he decided to be one. He could challenge some of the tests. Always, the smartest person in the room that is until you asked for help with something.

@user-os4so4uz1m

16 күн бұрын

@@debrabrookham6670 Leave know it all's well behind you

All 5... lol

🔥

Water and air signs are narcissists for sure - water signs a tad bit more so than air

@josetu8237

24 күн бұрын

Said like a true fire sign. 😅 Narrow minded head strong egotist.

@Cyzure

24 күн бұрын

Picies and Scorpios for sure

@StarrSun

24 күн бұрын

@@Cyzure it's all 3 for me, I have a scorpio sister, a cancer ex and a pisces friend and they have all become verbally violent the pisces and scorpio were even physically violent its literally like you cannot say no to them. Their desire and thirst for lust and power is relentless. They don't care about loving anyone yet they want adoration and validation from everyone. I guess that's their form of "love". They also want loyalty and obedience.

@user-os4so4uz1m

21 күн бұрын

Check the Chinese horror -scope for narcissists and oxes are the worst

Sounds like the israeli state

@lindac2554

24 күн бұрын

Not at all I've seen you on other sites