Gives them an excuse to dish out abuse and mistreatment toward others and then act morally righteous

People see through them eventually, God knows who they are, they will die alone.

I always wondered about this. I've known a lot of religious narcs and it always puzzled me why they seemed to have no fear of meeting God in the afterlife for a life review when their legacy was littered with hidden but deliberate cruelty and harm. Sounds like they even think they've got God under control!

@Wakka144

20 күн бұрын

They think they ARE god, so why would they fear themselves?

@coralmccrystal4606

20 күн бұрын

@@Wakka144 True - well true in a deluded way. And yet my younger brother told me my narc mother was afraid of me which if she seriously thought she was God, she wouldn't be. It made no sense at the time but I probably threatened her God complex by thinking for myself.

@phyllischaffin4052

20 күн бұрын

I know. They are going to get a rude awakening.

@amorl4520

18 күн бұрын

They don't believe in God. Nothing for them to believe in .

@dakoderii4221

17 күн бұрын

@@amorl4520 They know deep down. That's why they get so angry when reminded about it. They know judgement day is coming. No one escapes it.

My narc spouse screamed, "Don't tell me what to pray for!" when I asked him to pray for my friend who was going to have surgery. Does that sound off to anyone?

@MrDylanHole

21 күн бұрын

Lol seek help

@deja_1111

21 күн бұрын

Most definitely 😢

@3-DtimeCosmology

20 күн бұрын

Insane

@honeymoonavenue97

20 күн бұрын

My narc dad and mom- both narcs I know I’m so lucky right- so they told me to pray for their wealth and to sign lottery tickets for them because I’m lucky so it will work if I do it. I didn’t do it.

@tammyhollis1519

20 күн бұрын

@@honeymoonavenue97 What a terrible thing for them to do! I'm so sorry.

This is so true. You are on point. Wolf in sheep clothing. Narcissist Christian devil in disguise

@MSSHARIII

20 күн бұрын

They are the worst.

My narcissistic ex friend did the most foul things to other friends & myself, completely abusive & sadistic. I was teaching her about Christianity hoping it would improve her behavior. She flipped those teachings to use as a mask of virtue. Now she’s singing in a church like that makes her righteous. She ain’t fooling me. A demon is a demon, unchanged.

@joseenoel8093

19 күн бұрын

No kidding... My mom even read some psalms, no one visits her nor will attend her funeral (I know cuz I was in charge of it), I fear God but no longer her, thank God!

They recite holy verses against you to blame and shame you.

@dakoderii4221

17 күн бұрын

Satan also twisted scripture out of context. His children do the same. Read the Bible and you'll see the counter to their moves. Quote scripture in the proper context to a fake Christian narc and watch them react like a demon. They HATE the book of Proverbs. What price has a fool for wisdom seeing he has no heart for it?

@Jess-yp9fo

3 күн бұрын

My grandma fr

Narcissists hide behind everything and everyone.

Reminder that “religion” can also be science, the media, money, and/or a political party.

@lorettajoy7275

20 күн бұрын

This is true!

My narcissist used religion, exactly like you portrayed. As a matter of fact, he claimed he was an archangel.- I found out later that he was a convicted felon. Absolutely delusional.

@tammyhollis1519

21 күн бұрын

Did you believe him when he said he was an archangel? That's very strange for him to think that.

@Vickiinthesouth

17 күн бұрын

Mine claims he was "chosen to fall" a demonic angel

No lies have been told here. I have often wondered about this. Their boldness is unbelievable.

Your work is eternal big dog, your a rockstar

I cried so hard while watching this. This video described my narc parents down to the letter. They ruined religion for me. I can't step into ANY religious building without having a breakdown. I can't attend ANY meetings/sermons/etc without breaking down. Their abuse cut me so deep. I wrestle with my religious trauma every day, and the roadblock my mind has put up to protect me. Thank you for helping to relieve some of my guilt Danish.

@deja_1111

21 күн бұрын

Girl me too! Let me count the ways,we almost divorced over religion. I am still triggered .

@heyoldman2003

21 күн бұрын

just keep the Faith . people will always let you down

@christinalw19

20 күн бұрын

Did your parents keep you from your best friend? Don’t worry about buildings and groups. Focus on Jesus. NO ONE has gone through worse than He did. Remember that. 🙏🏼🤍🦅

@LadyGoddessSephiroth

20 күн бұрын

@@christinalw19 Telling me someone else had it worse is really invalidating. That doesn't make me feel better.

@louisasmiles

20 күн бұрын

Im similar. Really struggle to walk into a Church. I still talk to God though and we're rebuilding our friendship. Hes really patient and super happy im opening up a bit more. So, still bring Him with you and include Him in whatever youre doing. My favourite place is the cemetery. Full of people who dont abuse you. They just walk around, mingling and chilling. Yeps the ghosts lol. God comes with me and the dogs. Lol​@@LadyGoddessSephiroth

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. times 100 !! For many people who had withdrawn for "church"... because of narcissistic "church people"....THANK YOU!

Narcissts are like Pharisees in the Bible. All show. A performance. A self love lifestyle.

@Kat-dd7ln

19 күн бұрын

Mathew 7:21-23

Narcs also like the idea about selfrigtiousness and isolating the object - being the ministry of truth, punishments, fanatizm and all the bad sides of some religions. This blind worshiping in isolation, absence of critical evaluation, passing over responsibility.. A good topic!

This touches my soul deeply. Thank you, love your videos!

I think the most important point about the religiosity of a narcissist is: they seek power physically and metaphysically. They want to make sure that they haven’t left any stone unturned. By being religious and superstitious in other ways, they increase their chances of being given power. It’s not that they believe in something, it’s that they can believe anything. Anything that could give them more power. I say this as a Christian.

I have been searching for this topic thank you!

Danish you the Best man I've seen in many many years. I love you with all my heart and hope the second half of your life blasts away the first half. . You have helped and straightened out so many abused minds on here it's so beautiful and so are you. Your authentic and true

Religion is the cherry on top with narcs, great video explaining the situation. 🌻

And why do they love money so much? I was thinking money is power and they love power. But can we get your perspective on this topic please.

@2L82Sk8Bye

21 күн бұрын

What they love is other peoples money and having power over other peoples money.

I can't tell you how horrifyingly accurate this is on a personal experience level. Saddens me even another single human being went through such an identical scenerio. 😟

Because they can weaponize it and say “I’m your dad you have to honor me” like no.

You are completely right.

This resonates so fkn much. My narc father was deeply a religious yet an alchoholic. I found it so weird how he didn't give a damn about the Hindu sense of morality, yet claims to be a devout Hindu. I remember being really curious about religious philosphy(from all religions across the globe) yet he never was, despite claiming to be religious. He would often fake to my mom about going to the temple, and come back home drunk and the a long fight would follow on. Thanks for the enlightenment, senor!

Most narcs I have encountered don't use religion but there are those who definitely do. Have you ever watched prosperity preachers asking for money?

@jilll4649

20 күн бұрын

Oh yeah! Salvation is free BUT God needs your money to prosper you. Basically pay for someone to lie to you. Most religions in USA are 501c corporations run like a business under government rule manual to get tax free money.

@cleocatra9324

18 күн бұрын

You gotta watch Robert Tilton of only for entertainment. He’s a hoot.

Very important & powerful information! In retrospect, this is what i now realize looking back on my life: From childhood, one side of my extended family had many extreme narcissists. They were highly religious and judgmental and even involved in starting a church years earlier. As a teen i was brought into a (different) cultish religion by my parents and this church was run by a preacher who was harmfully narcissistic. verbally & emotionally abusive, and i stayed only because of being convinced that exact message was the only way to avoid a terrible eternity. After several years, i felt broken mentally before finally getting out. During my time in that church, i was pushed into a long-time relationship with a dangerous covert narc and as a result had many years of DV, while they pretended to be a "fine upstanding citizen" and active in different churches. Escaping that, ended up with yet another religious narc, grandiose, who was also highly abusive. Today am becoming educated about narcissism and am free of such relationships! I am also happily spiritual, instead of religious.

This video is packed with truth! I have met quite a few of these types. My ex husband is now passed away but I met him in church and he lived a very dark double life that was kept hidden but since he knew scriptures he seemed so godly. His favorite scripture he would say to me....SUBMIT! For me I am grateful to be out of that nightmare and here now enjoying watching your videos! Thank you for your validation Danish!

What resonated the most was your comment about narcissists creating their own definitions. My husband was mostly pretty indifferent to church-his involvement always centered around working in the sound booth, to which he dedicated untold hours. But when he discovered Pentecostalism, a light turned on for him. He was now able to bring his narcissistic against-ness through that means. I was not comfortable with those beliefs after careful research. But he clung to them in a way I had never seen him do in 45 years. Instead of wanting to preserve our relationship, he clings to what makes him feel good. He will not allow any discussion about it, or examine the truth for himself. And it all happened around that tactic of redefining Truth. Thank you so much for bringing this to light!

when i said i wanted a divorce from my narcissistic spouse many said , God hates divorce… i told my counselor that . she said God hates abuse more.. so the next time a family or friend said God hates divorce ( which is probably true) i said yes but he hates abuse more ….. thst shut them up FAST .. i’m just so glad it’s over. no more livin in a minefield 👍🏼. thank you Danish .. i didn’t see your signature on this one 🤷🏼‍♂️. i hope it’s not a copy

@Jess-yp9fo

3 күн бұрын

Don’t ever let anyone shame you for getting a divorce from insane people smh

Actually, my narc demon father hated me practising religion. Except of course "honor thy father" 😂😂 But I do remember how he used to tell us to repeat the prayer after him. Not the written prayer but his spoken prayer and you could make out he's not in it but just using the prayer to stage himself. And I remember him complaining about me using a religious greeting just because my mothers family uses that greeting. Also, I remember him teaching me a prayer which is considered very important in my religion but later on I learned the correct prayer and there was a mispronounciation in the way he taught me. I dont if it was intentional or not but everyone in religion knows that mispronoucing that one prayer is serious and blasphemeous. Its weird how he used to teach me when I was small but later on he got furious when I actually developed a natural keenness in religion and prayer. Whatever was going on in his head, he was a demon and detested real religiousity and spirituality. When he could stage himself as a teacher, it was fine but when I started learning on my own and the correct way, he got mad and started shaming me for it. And btw, today I can make out narcissists by the way someone SEEKS reward, appreciation, attention etc. Because I myself have become so introvert in the sense that I want nothing from any person. I only want from God. If God loves me, its love. If He rewards me, its a reward. I literally dont care what ppl think anymore. But everything narcissists do is staged to get from others. Like beggars standing there with a begging bowl. I know my attitude isnt normal or healthy but I can see the extreme opposite in narcissists. They go on and on explaining their POV, their version of a story, keep talking and talking until the other person is too tired to listen or contradict. I just leave everything to God, if God wants to save me, He'll prompt me or inspire me. I'm never ever gonna run behind ppl or feel bad that someone has a wrong impression of me.

Has anyone noticed danish is also looking better with time ? Everyone please take care of yourself! Let the narcissist see how each of their planning failed .

Danish , Your the best

Thank you for sharing your positive vibes and your beautiful soul with us as always

This is spot on. My experience or realization of a narcissistic relationship is super new! And your video validates so many of my emotions and feelings. Specially in the Indian in law context and how a narcissist mother in law has selfishly ruined our otherwise joyful home/family

How narcissist occurs at the beginning. The Buddha quote watch your vision and behavior it will become our character. Life is like a permanent movie that can not be erase. "SELF-ESTEEM" is a philosophy not just a word it the way of living. That's what happen when they choose selfish over self-esteem. We can prevent our children not to have these narcissist traits. Self-esteem goes a long way. Self-esteem align with moral and integrity.

@donovangray4246

20 күн бұрын

I find it interesting that some Narcissists in religious circles will condemn a person who is LGBTQ and say they are morally right while cheating on their own spouses. It makes me laugh. I know more morally aware Gay/Trans people than I do straight Christian people.

Hello, I am here just to thank you from core of my heart. I am married with a narcissist man who lives with his narcissist mother in a narcissist cult family. I am living with them since last eleven years. You can imagine what I suffered. I dint know the term "narcissist" or anything about it. I was questioning myself what I did wrong and there was no answer. After eleven long years of suffering finally I know what's going on. All thanks to you. I am really really greatful to you. You have no idea how much you helped me. My eyes are getting wet while I am writing this "thank you" note to you. I dont you will read it or not. But still I want to thank you. You are an angle in my life. Your videos seem like answers of my prayers to God. I am so greatful to you for enlighting me. THANK YOU ❤️

💯 Agreed danish my x husband using religion as mask and shield but not a practicing it they using it abusive people

Imagine all the money collected on Sundays was spent on helping the poor and needy. Think how much better this world would be. Instead of listening to a sermon and music for an hour that hour was spent helping others. ❤️🙌🙏

@VgVi13

20 күн бұрын

And their churches and temples used to house the homeless.

Sir a short video of female narcissist with prime source supply relation type

Thank you

Totally what both my exes did! “I’ll change! I’ll go to church with you!” 🤦🏼‍♀️

One of the best things I learned as a Christian was that religion is not God and God is not religion. It allows you to filter out a lot of the types who attempt to use the word of God to justify their machinations.

Love your videos Danish . You have brought so much clarity into my lif and how to deal with narssists .

Mine use patriarchy and any of one religious view about polygamous marriage to mistreated me and cheated with 3 different women and child from each women. And he said I'm too greedy to claimed him alone for myself, he said I should stop complaining at least he will always stay with me. Unbelievable

My narcissistic father after losing all of his supply, turned to a Christian addiction church. He now leads recovery and claims to have healed from alcoholism. All fake, all lies, yet the church leaders and followers have been eating it up for about 5 years, give or take a couple. I do not envy those people trying to recover under such toxic guidance. I also had a narcissistic partner use politics in a similar light. Thankfully the world of politics is much wiser than most religious communities (in my experience, no hate to religious people or groups!), so I'm more confident my ex's career will crash and never recover. People deserve better guidance and representation than narcissists.

Mathew 7:21-23. 21 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ 23 And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’

My ex said: I am sorry I prayed for you to live when you were going through cancer treatment. It was his prayers that saved me!

Very True you see them in church services you're like Wow😮 is this the same person.

So true. The fear of hell is a huge threat and they are the self appointed teacher.

True, mine ONLY provided in a job, career nothing more

My ex narcissist friend claims to be religious but couldn't recite the ten commandments, even though he goes to church most Sundays. Going to church is a way to delay his chronic drinking for a few hours. Very sad and pathetic. He is also a compulsive liar and thief.

@Jess-yp9fo

3 күн бұрын

Smh hopefully he learns. If it’s one thing I’ve learned is that God can change ANYONE fr and that everyone is on their own journey. Sometimes it takes something hella drastic

@rickyrickardo8347

3 күн бұрын

@@Jess-yp9fo He's been through it all and it's all been self afflicted. I have no sympathy for him as he's become nastier with age. I am now free and clear of his act.

Hi my name is klarissa, this video resonates with me. About everything that you talked about in the video today. And how narcissists believe they can never make any kind of mistakes. Love the video

Their Facebook will be all about God. They act like they are a Saint, but at home, everyone is walking on eggshells. They are going off on everyone.

Exactly! Thanks, Danish 🙏🏻

This is sooooo true!😮

So true... Every part is True.

Hi Danish... Thanks of your videos.. somewhat eye opener ❤❤.. Much Love❤.. by the way you look very handsome 🤗

Religion makes me sad

@godsire6217

20 күн бұрын

Religion makes me cringe.

@rosrocks3

17 күн бұрын

Christianity is like being in a relationship with a narcsissist!

Theres this very close friend to my man, who he considers to be his own brother....this brother like friend was going through bad time regards to his pregnant wife and child..situation was about loosing the new born or the Newmother... My man was very very affected by this and kept mentioning his this often feeling helpless about the situation..one day I said let us both pray for him that both the mom and yet to be born baby to be health and fine and post birth of the infant we(both of us) would walk barefoot to temple (mannat most commonly done in India). My man got totally annoyed with this idea and fought with me even ended up linking a relationship interest from me towards this so called brother... It's been more than a year n a half this incident happened n I have stopped thinking much or responding this way when ever my man says something is wrong with some one we know.. I don't even express prayers now due to the fear of unwanted fights etc... I do not understand the Behavior.. Just know this is not going to change.. Is anyone aware of this behavior n reasons??

Justifying evil with religion. Very relevant - Reminds me of a certain ethno-state’s entire strategy to justify its atrocities!!!!

So fucking true..very very high correlation..it's all around the USA at least

I used to know a narcissist that used to say "God told me..."when God clearly did not tell them anything. They thought this would give what they said authority and also to try to prove they were close to God when they clearly were not.

Oh yes and how dare I leave them! We took vows “in sickness and in health! Till death till we part!” But…yet they are the ones running the streets and screwing around committing adultry🤦🏼‍♀️

My mother acts like she is trying to be the weakest, most miserable sinner in order to get Jesus to pay attention to her. She said once “I love Jesus so much, it’s almost romantic.” I knew then that she is a very sick person. So grandiose, behold the bride of Christ.

Very good.

Which is hilarious because their ENTIRE personality consists of at least 5 of the 7 deadly sins, and they break these sins every single day with flying colors 😂. Still pray for these lost souls because it isn’t worth having anger, misery, and/or hatred in your heart that will speed up your death process. You reap what you sow and god deal’s with them accordingly. Theres a 99.9% chance that they won’t be entering the pearly gates when it’s all set and done so don’t beat yourself up 😁. Stay strong folks!

Yes or blatantly ignore the parts of the religion where it clearly says how they are to behave. Like they might focus on your submission and clearly ignore the following verse that says love and don’t be bitter towards your wives and don’t provoke your children. Don’t cover your wife with the cloak of violence.

@GodsChosenMekAmoR

20 күн бұрын

THIS ONEEEEE SMH

My gf who is believe is like this got drunk and tried emasculate me and threatens to off her self and calls me abusive and other untrue stuff tbh I’ve said bad things but Im said sorry for it and she said she doesn’t forgive me and now she has threatened to off herself again now I’m just stuck here so I think I need to just offer therapy and move on with life

Religious fundamentalism is political, politics is government, governing is slavery, slavery is religious fundamentalism.

I call it the “God mask.”

3rd times a charm so malignant covert mom married again and his last name was Christian, hilarious, I said I can't see them saying "Mrs. Christian, telephone call for Mrs. Christian! She's back to her maiden name. Off to Newfoundland soon chasing after icebergs sometimes staying with crazy pays off (but don't count on it).

For them religion is a facade to trap others financially - easiest victims are relatives. My great-grandmother entrusted her properties to her son-in-law to manage it for she was illiterate. She assumed he was trustworthy because he looked religious and educated. Turned out to be a great betrayer who sold most of her properties without her knowing with the lies of 'expensive tax' and the need to feed his 11 children for he was unemployed. Turned out that none of his children graduated, all are still living in rentals and are fighting in the courts amongst themselves over inheritance. Its been over a year now, and should this be prolonged, possibly they all will go bankrupt in paying off legal fees as their never ending disputed still continue on courts till this day. Karma indeed.

They not only abuse you , but abuse the rules of the Bible to suit their needs .

Seriously it's so hard to understand I Don't understand if he is suffering from narcissism, borderline personality disorder?depression?black magic??evil eyes?? Even doctors can't help me !! I am lost I don't understand who I am leaving with?someone who's so nice best husband ever??who need my help now because he'sin depression!!!or a monster??who's knows everything!!!!

@deja_1111

21 күн бұрын

I been there too with my spouse. It is spiritual warfare, borderline personality disorder, and bipolar. Medication is required for the narc. Stay strong✨

@NoorAlanoor-vn7fi

21 күн бұрын

@@deja_1111 yeah since 8 years trying everything even meditation I just don't understand if he knows about him or he doesn't know anything because whenever I try to talk to him he keeps changing what ever he said.

My narc husband loves to use scripture about respect even though he doesn't have respect for me or the marriage. Then he talks about his role as my head, but does nothing close to leading our home. He loves when ppl say he's wise, but doesn't live by The Word at aaaaallllll!!! It has caused me to question my faith. He has his own interpretations of the scripture, and rejects anybody else's interpretation. He claims he is a godly man, and I don't know how to submit.

My ex wife got her New passion in going to every events of church, she is playing a Christian puritan character whereas she s done awful things to me and toward the child's, she behaves as a poor wounded bird to get attention of the Christian fellows, they are starting doing things for her in believing they just give help, but I know her, she does not care about religion, she is jealous, and hateful, very aggressive, and lie a lot in private life

@zandatee

20 күн бұрын

So right..

#JusticeforMicaMiller

@GodsChosenMekAmoR

20 күн бұрын

YESSSS!!!!

Religion is taught. Spirituality is within, something you just know, not taught.

I just want to know why I have become so tolerant to physical pain even after leaving him? I keep worsening my physical pain. I work, exercise when i need to rest. I avoid my pain and continue my daily routine. But when the pain worsen then only I go to visit a doctor. My doctor drawn my attention to this that why do I avoid my pain and keep it worsening.

I love God. Does that mean i'm a narc? Yet, i warched your other vid giving examples of a survivor of barc abuse, and all 5 applied to me... so i'm worried now. But i'm not giving up on God, as He has allowed me to forgive and let go.

My mom loved religión we used to fight about It , she was a buddist and im a catholic.

Look at the government leaders in Texas and Florida for prime examples of this.

They are devils

The narcs i know .....always say i worship God in their own way. Yeah i see!😂

My cheating narcisstic husband would say he would never cheat swear to God I’ll put my hand on a bible after all he wants to go to heaven Yea Okay!!

And the Lord said Peter; I can see your house from here - Roger Waters

They are always playing God 🤞🏾

These ppl live in Hell smh my grandma stayed using a scripture to justify me being emotionally and psychologically abused by HER covert narc daughter and first grand child. Smh

When they speak about God i think they act like they personal are the one only their actions shows oposite

They think they are god lol 😅

Sounds like Zionism

@tammyhollis1519

21 күн бұрын

You don't know what zionism is. Stop blaspheming.

@fadiel-turk5654

21 күн бұрын

@@tammyhollis1519 let’s hear it

Practices religion but NEVER follows the intended word!! What Blasphemy!!😳the Bible is called “The Good Book” for a reason🤷🏽‍♀️

Explains Israel. Free 🇵🇸

I call those ' church goers ' i believe in God and avoid church, very bad experiences ive had. They slam you with scripture unrighteous Out of context. I respect others views they DON'T. ❤

Same prayer 🙏 fake