Coach Opus & Coach Tarquez
Coach Opus & Coach Tarquez
Welcome to Black Book Basics, KZread's authority for breakups, relationships, and attraction advice.
This channel is a place for men & women to understand the terrain of breakups, master their emotions, build their confidence, and develop the mindset and lifestyle that is attractive to the opposite sex.
Some of the key topics we discuss include:
• how to get your ex back
• following the no contact rule
• how to effective get over a breakup
• rebound relationships
• how to heal from a breakup
• how to re-attract your ex
• walking away from your ex
• how to get your ex back when you have kids together
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So play them games? Fr fr?
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I walked away from a three-year and a half relationship with a woman July 11, 2024…. She pushed me away I got up grab my stuff walked away.. Took my watch off she gave me for Christmas, smashed on the street and threw it.. drove off. 20 minutes later she text me back… I did not answer three days later she text me back… Her birthday was July 26, 2024.. I never sent her a text, never sent her anything for her birthday… Close my Facebook and my Instagram not because of her I just don’t want to social media no more.. I just want her to see that I stand my ground as a man I have a backbone and I stay in my frame… I’m a beast I’m a tiger🐅… I go to the gym five times a week. I think about myself only the video is awesome guys thank you.
Fuck my ex, so I left her cause my feelings never get addressed and I have custody of my kids and she just had our fourth child, but our relationship has been more off then on but having kids. I kinda feel like it’s been a trauma bond then a loving relationship. All she talks about is how her exs treated her better and all this crap
Fuck my exxxx
I needed the date logic
I wish I watched this 2 week s ago I went nuclear 😂 court order now not allowed near them
I just walked away from a three-year relationship from a woman who I cared about… July 11, 2024… she pushed me away.. I got up grab my things walked out like a man stand my ground. Stay my purpose stay in my abundance I didn’t look back… I took the watch off what she got for Christmas in the trash and drove off… 20 minutes later she text me back I did not respond… two days later she text me back again.. the only thing I said to her was Yep”.. Her birthday is today July 26, 2024… I did not send her anything, or I did not call her or text her… for her birthday… if I did would make me weak… I said I stand my ground as a man, I steam my purpose. I’m not a Simp or chump….🐅
He wanted space, so I've given it. Then asked him to return my stuff but so far ignored. Stupid games.
From my hurtful experience, my girlfriend sabotage the relationship with no sense excuses... she had a rebound who started to date two weeks after breaking up with me. But this guy was totally opposite to me. I don’t have anything against him, but just to give you an idea, this guy was overweight, smoked, eat meat (my ex is vegan), and the fun fact was that he still had pictures of her ex in his social media profile, so probably that guy was neither a healthy person emotionally. It took me around 3 months feeling healed, but it watching videos like yours, reading and understanding about all.her red flags was when I felt a relief.
My ex blocked me after 10 months of no contact ??? Never spoke to her didbt do anythig lol bizzare
Does not contact includes to not view their stories as well and remove them from snap chat so that you can’t see them? Or it’s ok to let them stay and see their stories too?
I can't say f hare only I can say get your money up no you women up
What if they have a son and it’s his birthday coming up but he don’t got a father and he looked up to me as one.
Just come across these guys by accident such a shame on what happened and why they don’t post anymore they was really doing gods work 🙏💙
Awesome video definitely agree with the info in it.
“West Bubble-Fu*k Idaho” lol 😂
Your videos are too long. Need to reduce the timing's or your going to loose viewers
So peep... We have a daughter together.. She's 4.. gonna be 5 in December.. she broke up with me when our daughter was 2-3 months... strung me along for the lonest after that... gave me hope we'd get back together only to choose someone who lives in another country... before we officially stopped having sex 3 years back id be tearing her shit up all the while shes "seeing" this guy... But that was years ago... fast foward... aside from a few interactions here and there theres no more stringing along... no sex in three years... and i want her.. badly... im still in love with her and my hands are tied... shes blocked me on all social sites but wants me to come stay over every now and then.. wants to workout together.. watch movies together... cook together... she'll do things to make me sexually frustrated but wont have sex with me.... and shes still with the guy from another country.. can you guys give me some advice? I need serious help... this breakup broke me. Most of the time i cant control my emotions... i need assistance
Seven months of no contact. I've just got to continue with it for the rest of my life.
What if her birthday is coming up? Should I tell her happy birthday or should I stay in no contact?
Out of sight into mind.
The fucked up part is I love my wife. But she says she wants to be alone. She wants to live in the past. She can’t afford the house we live in. So now I have to worry about that.
I got a question if ex girlfriend friendzone you and ghost you still care about you.does she stll want you back or a deep relationship
FTB!!!my x
" The hey stranger text" I am dying bro! I usually say " We have been strangers, let's jeep it that way".
I blocked my ex bf because I’m sick of him reaching out when he’s in a rebound with a nasty chic he met at the bar and she has oral herpes. He disgusts me.
RIP Opus...
Coaches. What if you blew up her phone after the argument for her disrespectful and monkey branching ways and called her a whole bunch of sh*t. This was a relationship of 5 years. I just finally exploded after reflecting a week after no contact.
Mistake you can’t make. Don’t walk away with spite or anger you’ll end up regretting and self reflecting on your decision like I made. Make sure you do everything in your power to make it work and show your true intentions to her, and if it’s not reciprocated then you have to walk away to gain the respect for yourself back.
She broke me yeah i accept the broke then she fucking angry wtf i deleted my all social media i'm now radio silence i leave it her with new boyfriend
10:30. Thjreats on life or punishment for men breaking families with intention
yo a channal asking you to do vodka shots and smoking king kong fingers for da pain is straight up G
That pause was gangster
miss you Opus
He dumped me and blocked me. After breadcrumbs for 3 years.
What if they dumped you and you are moving on without begging them, but out of no where they come calling you names, calling you s disgrace and so on
She's upset you haven't chased her. She think you never cared because you haven't chased or begged her. Guess what, if you begged, she will brag to her friends about how she got you acting over her. Her friends are not making it any better by cheering on her behavior. It's very vital to know who she hangs with (women have a hard time seeing that misery loves company, even if her friend's are in a relationship of their own). Thats why grandma used to keep everyone out her personal business, especially, her business with her man. Anyways, Instead of your ex stepping out of her pride, and pull up on your doorstep, she rather have a toddler moment (crying on the floor waiting on someone to pick her up). Don't play the friend zone, or the jealousy games. It's crazy how some of us never noticed how immature they are until a breakup. But you have to remember some of these women have been catered to their whole lives, and they can't turn it off. Plus, their other exes have chased them, and probably continue to, so, you have to move differently. She will respect that you haven't blew her phone up. Even if shes prideful, stubborn, etc.. She will eventually break. If you truly love her. PRAY for her and love her from a distance. Like a toddler, they will cry themselves out til they realize no one (mainly you) is coming to pick them up off the floor. Once she does eventually calm down, see if she's ready to have a mature conversation. No extra emotion, just real talk. See if she'll listen to your side of the story and make strides to change as well. We men will do anything to keep the ones we love, but it cant be a one-way street. The cycle will continue, if she doesn't meet you half way, because, if you sneeze wrong she will break up with you again.
@@1dawg243 it's a he actually... I'm a woman
@@maglyntips oh I'm sorry!
@@maglyntips Well he needs to man up and actually speak without emotions. Yea he expected you to be a Lil more down on the situation so he definitely feels like you don't care. But obviously you do or you wouldn't be on here. But send him a simple text letting him know you're only respecting what he asked for. See how he responds. Teach him how to respect you, unless you had did something disgraceful to make him say those things.
@@1dawg243 I did everything I could to save the relationship, he would brag to his friends that he could cheat and I kept forgiving him, he never remember my special days, never bought me gift because I wasn't asking for one but I always expected a thoughtful one. I would walk into his house to see different girls in compromising situations. Guess what he would do? He never said sorry instead he'll ignore me and make me hurt till I be the one to beg for what he did. I decided to leave this last time after 4yrs of going through this with him. He never changed after I gave him chances. Now he's on calling me a loser, telling me I'll never find a faithful man either. I can go on and on...
That'll be wrong doing that if any man does tha.just don't bother u. The first place
F😤 My Ex 🖕🏽
How can anyone keep your kid from you? What are you doing ? Have you filed any paper work
Well I tried working out things when she broke up with me then she was with another dude i just got to the point i wanted her stuff out my garage then i stopped all contact with her just only business to have her belongings out of my garage.. then she went nuts when i blocked her tore my garage up was trying to kick in my door then coming to my job.. at the end of the day we pushed each other away i was able to accept the breakup finally and focus on myself
How are they relationship coaches. Degrees? There is nothing wrong with a man crying and showing his emotions. Behaving like he cares is exactly what women want. Toxic masculinity here folks. You can force someone who is longer with you to dump you because of the behavior.
My ex has a rebound, she broke it off with him after I tried reaching out to her. We were good for around 1 month. She is following her head and not her heart she said. She went to him again because he hasn’t done anything wrong, they are in honeymoon stage atm. Soon she will see his true colors. I’m healing now. I’m taking the right and long way. Any advise??? We dated for 2 1/2 yrs.
Thank you guys. Very helpful
My ex be always following my stories on snap and now she be texting every now and then saying she miss me wtf I don’t pay her no mind and then she go Ghosh again like Wtf I don’t even be hitting her up at all For her to be acting like this what should I do
My ex be always following my stories on snap and now she be texting every now and then saying she miss me wtf I don’t pay her no mind and then she go Ghosh again like Wtf I don’t even be hitting her up at all For her to be acting like this what should I do
These guys know exactly what they talking about
fuck my ex
It's best to move on it's too much energy being used
Does this count even after 6 months post breakup?