The No Contact Rule And The POWER Of Time

The no contact rule has a powerful affect on your ex. But most people go no contact and they're impatient. But when you understand no contact and the power of time, that's when re-attraction starts.
There's one thing you have on your side after a breakup--and that's time. Time heals. And you'll need time when you go no contact. And your ex needs time as well. You may not understand it now, but after this video, you'll truly understand no contact and the power of time.
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  • @CowboyEkim
    @CowboyEkim2 жыл бұрын

    Never Chase , Keep your self respect, Workout & you’ll be amazed at the outcome. They’ll respect you more if you give them space and time to remember all the good things about you .

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    💪🏾

  • @macallpeter2923

    @macallpeter2923

    2 жыл бұрын

    I got my ex back through the help of a powerful man from Florida USA... He'll make your ex come back to you and start begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex and his always good in keeping up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him..

  • @macallpeter2923

    @macallpeter2923

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message him through WhatsApp for help!..

  • @macallpeter2923

    @macallpeter2923

    2 жыл бұрын

    ➕2348137709637⏯️⏯️💕💕???????????????..

  • @YaMainMayne
    @YaMainMayne2 жыл бұрын

    8 months no contact and she came back. Yes I wanted to reach out but, I didn’t. Am I the same person she left? No, I’m more motivated I’ve worked on mental, worked on becoming fit, increased my credit score, moved up to a higher paying position and bought a new car. Did I do that for her? No, I just figured if I wanted to go further in life I had to make changes for myself. I can’t stress this enough. Worry about you. Focus on you. Build for you. Don’t jump into another relationship after the breakup. You’ll only ruin another relationship. I did that. Take your time to focus on the person you have the longest commitment to( you). Even tho she’s back around I won’t let her affect or alter what I’ve started for myself.

  • @monsuratsalami335

    @monsuratsalami335

    2 жыл бұрын

    you can message the great man who helped me bring back my ex after many months of separation

  • @cristylea80

    @cristylea80

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing! So good for you!

  • @n0slava

    @n0slava

    Жыл бұрын

    Whats up mate? She is still arround? 1,5 month no contact in my case… It is hard but i focus on myself!

  • @YaMainMayne

    @YaMainMayne

    Жыл бұрын

    @@n0slava continue making yourself great, stick to making you the greatest person you can ever be. It’s going to get hard, it’s going to get dark, but when you come out of it’s going to feel so great. Yes, she around. We’ve gotten back together and haven’t had any problems.

  • @n0slava

    @n0slava

    Жыл бұрын

    @@YaMainMayne Thanks for the words of support. For me, there is such a strange situation, because everything was like in a fairy tale for the entire duration of the relationship. Great love and fireworks. My girlfriend said she wanted to visit family she hadn't seen for 1.5 years (mom, dad, brother). She is from Ukraine and I am Polish. Her family escaped during the hostilities behind the Crimea on Russian territory. She was supposed to go there for 3 months and come back. After a month, she wrote to me that she would not come back because she wanted to live close to her family...

  • @Redpillsteven
    @Redpillsteven2 жыл бұрын

    It’s been 3 months and yes it did hurt but I realized something men 🤔🤔 they said it’s cheaper to keep her nooo that obviously was a lie😭 it was actually cheaper to leave her 🙏🏾 Uber eats 3 times a day 👎🏾 designer gifts 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️trip to Vegas 👎🏾👎🏾now every paycheck I’m saving 1k it’s actually not that bad men.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love to read this!!

  • @benhartart9487

    @benhartart9487

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same bro since mine left I’m investing half my take home pay into Bitcoin 🤘🏻👟 let’s get it 🪙

  • @everready2903

    @everready2903

    2 жыл бұрын

    Some other guy is down 1k lol

  • @Epsillion70
    @Epsillion702 жыл бұрын

    "Attraction can never be negotiated." Is one of the most profound statements I have ever heard! I myself in the past and a lot of men don't understand this. Because you will know when a woman truly deeply desires you! She will break plans for you and make plans for others!

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very well said.

  • @HolyRollerTV

    @HolyRollerTV

    6 ай бұрын

    of course it can..get your game up and you will have something to negotiate with...but anyway, never go back..especilly after they've put miles on the box clock..

  • @rickcope3226
    @rickcope32262 жыл бұрын

    It is very funny once you really don't care. They start contacting you

  • @jahleelx9270

    @jahleelx9270

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bro facts.

  • @smoovekidd1097

    @smoovekidd1097

    2 жыл бұрын

    Current situation! I’ve moved on now into a new relationship 🤔

  • @velox_vx
    @velox_vx2 жыл бұрын

    I thought for the past month was to fight and get her back and after watching a bunch of these videos I realized that the break up was a good thing. I liked her a lot she ment a lot to me but if you’re willing to walk away with out making it work they just aren’t worth the time. It just sucks how long it takes to heal. Been hitting the gym more often and picking up hobbies has helped a lot

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

  • @antoniosciara7322

    @antoniosciara7322

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are right Mo. If someone isn't willing to at least put in some effort to resolve differences and walk away, you have to question how much they loved you to begin with. My ex supposedly loved me so much she wanted to have kids, like right now. When I said I wasn't quite ready yet but wanted to take a few months, she walked away, AND wasn't willing to go to counseling with me to resolve it. Said it was too complicated. She went from wanting a family with me to moving out and within about 8 weeks had a new boyfriend. Painful but clearly I didn't mean THAT much to her to begin with.

  • @arielelmejor1
    @arielelmejor12 жыл бұрын

    I appeared you guys man! Its been a rough 3 months but finally getting over this. Now in a better physical, emotional, and mental shape. Its like getting over an addiction.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s definitely like getting over an addiction.

  • @dakenmanos7397

    @dakenmanos7397

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah 8 months for me over it in about 4 months I still watch them though cause they funny asf

  • @jamarsam9217

    @jamarsam9217

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tr

  • @davidallahgod3217

    @davidallahgod3217

    11 ай бұрын

    Ex got me removed from the yard, And I've now been in 2 years of strict zero no contact rule, no calls, no texts, no anything from either side My brother was a snake reporting to my ex about everything i was saying and doing and telling my ex who i was dating etc, in the first 6 months of the break up Working on me as always now Whats your views or advice help on this, if any? Respect

  • @michaeljcox24
    @michaeljcox242 жыл бұрын

    Reality: After 50 days my ex g/f emailed me out of the blue saying we had some good times. I took the time out to show her that I can live without her (which I can) and if she wants me in her life, she's got to be the one who makes the move. Three days later we're meeting up next week and she's messaging me every fives minutes. Men - trust me. You have to get to the point where if they don't come back, you're ok with that. Women don't want to be the focus of your life, that's unattractive. Make sure she knows you care about her, and want her sexually, but don't go emotional on her. She'll be turned off, big time.

  • @NAERRI3

    @NAERRI3

    Жыл бұрын

    I love this comment!

  • @n0slava

    @n0slava

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen! 45 days of no contact and every passing day im stronger and stronger!

  • @officialmr.madness6655

    @officialmr.madness6655

    Жыл бұрын

    u guys together?

  • @n0slava

    @n0slava

    Жыл бұрын

    @@officialmr.madness6655 my ex still not reach out. 74 days of no contact.

  • @michaeljcox24

    @michaeljcox24

    Жыл бұрын

    @@officialmr.madness6655 not anymore dude, no

  • @face2799
    @face27992 жыл бұрын

    It rarely works to get someone back but it’s your only real option if you want to move on

  • @PB-md3nt

    @PB-md3nt

    Жыл бұрын

    It works more than you think. It worked on me gf/exgf/gf/exgf/ etc....Several times.

  • @michaelbozinovski9357
    @michaelbozinovski93572 жыл бұрын

    One month ago today I first commented on one of your posts, about how I walked out on my fiancé. We lived together too..I still have not had any contact by phone call, text message or in person!!! still going strong brothers thank you! No contact forever is the true way to go! I don’t care how pretty they are if you’re not being treated right, have the balls to walk away!

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

  • @jgsupra90-
    @jgsupra90-2 жыл бұрын

    I’m thinking I was the rebound in my situation. But I know there was feelings there at one point. My biggest thing towards the end was being left on read a lot and eventually I walked away. One month today on NC. Staying strong thanks to you guys. 💪

  • @tomgregory3990
    @tomgregory39902 жыл бұрын

    Thank you guys, you have been helping me sleep better at night. You guys are so cool 😎

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s comments like this that keep us motivated. Thank You !!!

  • @badmantad
    @badmantad2 жыл бұрын

    In the gym right now training and listening to you guys.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @hairstonjr_5337

    @hairstonjr_5337

    2 жыл бұрын

    I do the same. No music but videos and podcasts about growth and self improvement

  • @antilaw9911
    @antilaw99112 жыл бұрын

    You guys are awesome! Love watching your videos

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Much appreciated!

  • @keepfighting0221
    @keepfighting02212 жыл бұрын

    Listen to you guys while I'm working out. Really appreciate what you do and the style in how you do it. Much love and keep these videos coming!

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for supporting the channel Ryan 🦈💪🏽💪🏽

  • @poemsjones4184
    @poemsjones41842 жыл бұрын

    Just Move on Take it from me! If it didn’t work out it’s for a reason. I realize if you broke up with that person , is because of disrespect or being taken for granted keep it moving. The inedible will happen

  • @AStark-dn6yh
    @AStark-dn6yh2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this. I'm doing no contact, but... I've been wasting time, watching get your ex back videos, playing Dark Souls, drinking beer and sleeping in. Best video yet. I greatly appreciate you guys for making it.. Imma go pull my head out of my ass now!

  • @AStark-dn6yh

    @AStark-dn6yh

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@loisobinna5600 I can get her back myself thank you.

  • @willfade7994
    @willfade79942 жыл бұрын

    No contact also works when someone you’re involved with isn’t treating you right or giving you the attention you deserve. It’s a good test and it works! If they really care about you, they will notice your absence! I chased a guy hard for some time but he blew me off a lot. So I went silent. No more texts, I went silent on social media, etc., and within 3-4 days, he text to see if I was ok! Sadly, the guy doesn’t treat me right. He seems to value me more when he has to chase me, but he always eventually comes back to me.

  • @isajudd2184
    @isajudd21842 жыл бұрын

    Perfect timing! When are you guys bringing the livestreams back?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    The livestreams are coming very soon!

  • @crash7098
    @crash70982 жыл бұрын

    Your vids keep me motivated!

  • @Redpillsteven

    @Redpillsteven

    2 жыл бұрын

    Watch ALL their videos bro you won’t regret it 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Much appreciated brothers!

  • @sithlord926
    @sithlord9262 жыл бұрын

    After NC for a few months at least, you shouldn't even want them back. That's just going backasswards lol.

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

  • @andrewhudson7092

    @andrewhudson7092

    Жыл бұрын

    💯💯

  • @paulvolpone4245
    @paulvolpone42452 жыл бұрын

    You 2 have been such a great inspiration to me and so many hurting people. Thank you

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Naw man, we definitely appreciate your support and comments like this. Comments like this is what keeps us pushing !!! Thank You !!! 🙏🏽

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

  • @jamarsam9217
    @jamarsam92172 жыл бұрын

    Got to love theses two

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow. Thank you Jamar.

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

  • @manmen4715
    @manmen47152 жыл бұрын

    5 months and my ex is still with the rebound, we were 5 years toghether

  • @user-ow8mh4ls8y

    @user-ow8mh4ls8y

    2 жыл бұрын

    Try changing yourself…physically and mentally…workout eat healthy,don’t just sit around waiting for her to come back.Memories will run through your mind but think about all the bad times and how she left you…date other girls and eventually you’ll get over her…you’re worth it

  • @jram5263
    @jram52632 жыл бұрын

    8:24 hit different. Appreciate it guys.

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

  • @darrellao5101
    @darrellao51012 жыл бұрын

    You two saving my ass right now bro 🤣 I’m feeling good.

  • @ikr2377
    @ikr23772 жыл бұрын

    You guys are common sense

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Mo Bi

  • @Aywhatyoudoing
    @Aywhatyoudoing2 жыл бұрын

    how does this work when she still got things to get from your house after deciding to move out? she’s coming next week to get more stuff the last bit of stuff like mattress and her animals. she chose to break up, Not to mention we got the same friend group. Im on the come up already financially so that’s my distraction. i’ve been doing NC since she moved. she’s been watching my snapchat’s and instagram stories but I haven’t watched any of hers.

  • @billytumorenito
    @billytumorenito2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for helping to go from Beta to a fucking alpha, I’m on the way , here with a fuckign broken heart !!! But learning from you like if I am making a career in the university !!!! Thank you from this one !!! I’ll Be better !!!! Hello from Berlín !Germany !!

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s our pleasure Jose! Much love!

  • @girlsclub353
    @girlsclub3532 жыл бұрын

    I need some good books on healing and motivation my self to get through the breakup if u have any guys

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Anything by Tony Robbins. And The Obstacle Is The Way by Ryan Holiday.

  • @TreMelo-kd2or
    @TreMelo-kd2or2 жыл бұрын

    Listen to these guys, so what if she comes back become Murphy 3.0, heal, work on yourself.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Murphy 3.0 🙌🏽 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @mrmarcusdmorgan
    @mrmarcusdmorgan2 жыл бұрын

    💪🏽🦈

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    🦈🦈

  • @corieliverpool5059
    @corieliverpool50592 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys i have been going dark for almost weeks of no contact. My ex-girlfriend has been reaching out to me through texting.

  • @leeemufasgmailcom

    @leeemufasgmailcom

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..

  • @leslittle9112
    @leslittle91122 жыл бұрын

    What if we talked seven months and dated some, but it's now been almost seven months since I have heard from her? Seven is the number of completion, so I figure our relationship was seven months and came to completion, and maybe the period of no contact is completed at seven months, I pray that in Jesus name, amen!

  • @armenk3776
    @armenk37762 жыл бұрын

    hey guys my girl of 3.5 years left me, will no contact still work if i proposed the 30-60 days of no contact because she kept texting me after the breakup ? i told her she needs to work on herself and take time to get complete clarity because she said she missed me and i said no to sex unless we are in a relationship , will the no contact still work if she knows about it?

  • @ohajigospel1391

    @ohajigospel1391

    2 жыл бұрын

    you can message the great man who helped me bring back my ex after many months of separation

  • @HolyRollerTV
    @HolyRollerTV6 ай бұрын

    never go back, dudes...

  • @Adien737
    @Adien7372 жыл бұрын

    Broke up 4 days back. The minute she said she wants to break up, I left and since then no contact. It’s been 4 days we still follow each other on Instagram. Today she posted picture of just normal view from her room window. What does that mean ? She moved on ? Doesn’t care anymore?

  • @leeemufasgmailcom

    @leeemufasgmailcom

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..

  • @leratoseretsi5603
    @leratoseretsi5603 Жыл бұрын

    If you keep breaking her heart,she leaves, you get her back,she will hurt you. women need to be tired to leave u ....im not referring to when she dumps you because she wants some attention, im talking about when she has had enough,getting her back will surely not end well...she will hurt you back....

  • @4star405
    @4star4052 жыл бұрын

    how can you imply the no contact rule with children involved

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    We had a few people ask us that recently. We’re gonna talk about that in an upcoming video. Try not to talk to her about anything but the children for the time being.

  • @leratoseretsi5603
    @leratoseretsi5603 Жыл бұрын

    If your relationship wasnt healthy, its best to let go without expecting reconciliation........it will stop the vicious cycle of reconciliation that leads to wasted years.

  • @Kingsquidd6
    @Kingsquidd62 жыл бұрын

    My ex screenshotted my Snapchat story yesterday, and we haven’t talked in 2 months since she told me she didn’t want to talk to me anymore I haven’t called her, texted her or anything why is she screenshotting my Snapchat stories is she starting to miss me?

  • @gagerdrg

    @gagerdrg

    2 жыл бұрын

    She’s basically trying to get a reaction out of you. Just ignore it.

  • @gagerdrg

    @gagerdrg

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just wait for her to text you. That’s how you know she misses you.

  • @goodtasteofmusic5735
    @goodtasteofmusic57352 жыл бұрын

    Need advice…. Had a relationship of almost 8 years, she broke up with me (lots of discussions, sometimes talked bad to each other)… i made the mistake of writing her a letter after 3 weeks of no talking, she reaffirmed her decision to me… now im starting to work on myself (no contact rule) but i dont know if its to late because of the letter i gaved her…. Is it still possible she might come back in a while if im improving myself?

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @gagerdrg

    @gagerdrg

    2 жыл бұрын

    She may or may not. either way work on yourself. Some exes come back and some don’t. Just keep working on yourself. Stop caring. Don’t text her cut contact

  • @louiecruz3197
    @louiecruz31972 жыл бұрын

    I live with my ex wife and we have 2 children she has moved on.. she kept on sending me text messages and pictures until the other day I told her why does she keep sending me messages? I told her to not hit me up unless it’s an emergency that has to do with the kids.. was I wrong for telling her not to text me? How can I do no contact while living with her?

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's work I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,......

  • @armenk3776
    @armenk37762 жыл бұрын

    hey guys my girl of 3.5 years left me, will no contact still work if i proposed the 30-60 days of no contact because she kept texting me after the breakup ? i told her she needs to work on herself and take time to get complete clarity because she said she missed me and i said no to sex unless we are in a relationship?

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

  • @malcky9696
    @malcky96962 жыл бұрын

    🦈💪

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    🦈🦈

  • @mariosolis9319
    @mariosolis93192 жыл бұрын

    Good day Sr I'm from Philippines. I had a girlfriend in more than 3yers but I have an issue trust and anger. When I'm anger I speak bad words to him so she decided to break up with me last May. She block me in all of our contacts FB, messenger,IG and Tiktok. In the first 2 months I have been desferate to contact her and that was not good because her cousin say that she was stress because of me so I stop to contact him days has pass in Sept she greet me in my Birthday and I so her that month to and she so me to but she was with another guy so I think she had a boyfriend. I look them from the distance and it's really hurt. Till now I focusing in my self improvement. Please notice my comment and help me. Thanks and more power to your Channel. 🙂 God bless.

  • @monsuratsalami335

    @monsuratsalami335

    2 жыл бұрын

    you can message the great man who helped me bring back my ex after many months of separation

  • @mariosolis9319

    @mariosolis9319

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@monsuratsalami335 how?

  • @mariosolis9319

    @mariosolis9319

    2 жыл бұрын

    @AISHA KABIR LABO how to message him?

  • @miabailey2798
    @miabailey2798 Жыл бұрын

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  • @GHSTRDR1975
    @GHSTRDR19752 жыл бұрын

    I've only just broken up with my gf of 11years ive been trying to do no contact but we have 2 businesses and a kid together ive limited contact which resulted in her starting to see someone else but tells me hes not as involved as I think I feel ive lost my mojo. we was going to get married at Xmas. So how do I get her & my family back

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

  • @zoepaterson8785

    @zoepaterson8785

    2 жыл бұрын

    Any update? Hope you're ok

  • @GHSTRDR1975

    @GHSTRDR1975

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@zoepaterson8785 didnt end well everytime we start being civil and talking she starts seeing someone new and goes back to start again but she still asks me for money to buy her cars and etc & pulls its for the kids. I've started seeing her in another light I do still love her but its slowly getting me back

  • @xdxxx4437
    @xdxxx44372 жыл бұрын

    Ex just contacted after 1 week of no contact about random stuff, should i respond or ignore?

  • @kuy9314

    @kuy9314

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely ignore. This is just the beginning. Whenever you give in they will reach out like once a week just to see if you will respond. They get validation even with a 1 word reply of you.

  • @become-undeniable

    @become-undeniable

    2 жыл бұрын

    RESPOND! Do not ignore her if she reaches out to you... otherwise she will not reach out again because people especially girls do not like getting rejected twice. If you want her back then respond cool and casually her messaging you is a sign that she’s already cracked and is being pulled towards you so don’t push her back.

  • @kuy9314

    @kuy9314

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@become-undeniable 🧢. My ex is double texting me came to the point I had to delete her. Responding to bs texts doesn’t show that you respect yourself.

  • @Damien3x6

    @Damien3x6

    2 жыл бұрын

    Don't ignore!!! Just be casual and polite.

  • @miami7446

    @miami7446

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kuy9314 Agreed. If she's not willing to chase up after you if you don't respond, well you never missed out on anything because she wasn't serious. I love these guys but art of love is best for texting; don't respond unless anything serious. Being polite is NOT going to bring a girl back, trust me, I am a girl. Women simply do not want a nice guy. My ex boyfriend and I have been in contact for almost a year with no changes of wantting to get back together, yes he's said he misses me but that doesn't mean they want to get back together. I wish I could go back and not respond to anything he just sent. Don't make my mistake - you *will*regret it. You will also come to a point where you will start to realise you deserve better than any text they think they can send you and will know they wil get a response.

  • @billytumorenito
    @billytumorenito2 жыл бұрын

    Guys a question so if she ask you for space cause she doesn’t want to be with you anymore and she wants to date other dudes !!! So should you wait till she reaches you ? If she ever does it? I doubt it but that is my question ? So You don’t text her at all not even a call ?

  • @JihadBunnydick

    @JihadBunnydick

    2 жыл бұрын

    No!

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone to love or (SP) attracted to you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Wilson,he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Dr Wilson Always keep with his words, I will advise you to seek his help thanks

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @samsonmusasaul432

    @samsonmusasaul432

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

  • @gagerdrg

    @gagerdrg

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup just leave her. Let her regret. Cut the damn chord and she will chase you. My ex did the same shit and FaceTimed me at the gym to say I want to break up with you. So I started to work out fully.

  • @kimberlyann2582
    @kimberlyann25822 жыл бұрын

    I don’t believe this works after they have already started sleeping with other people. Men are easily distracted once they have something new and shiny to look at. No contact is just really for that persons peace of mind not to really get anything back.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    We have numerous clients that would say different. But I can agree it is definitely good for peace of mind as well.

  • @IamCoachCourt
    @IamCoachCourt2 жыл бұрын

    🦈 🦈

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    🦈🦈

  • @jacekbil
    @jacekbil2 жыл бұрын

    Guys how to get ex I got rid off?

  • @jacekbil

    @jacekbil

    2 жыл бұрын

    I just dumped my ex and want to know how to get her back lol

  • @leratoseretsi5603

    @leratoseretsi5603

    11 ай бұрын

    Apologize

  • @jamesdeek7039
    @jamesdeek70392 жыл бұрын

    She left me 2 months ago. I tried to re-establish attraction. Dan bacons approach. Didn't work. We were together for 5 years and had a magnificent relationship. She used the cliche lines when she left initially(I changed, I want to be with women, oh we grew apart etc). Then when I called her out on it she blame shifted and gaslit me saying I was emotionally abusive all those 5 years. I adored that woman. I gave her my 100. I was a blessing to her. She couldn't move forward without having a boogeyman. Guess it's me

  • @nathantrujillo471

    @nathantrujillo471

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sounds pretty scummy of her. Hopefully it will dawn on her some day.

  • @jamesdeek7039

    @jamesdeek7039

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nathantrujillo471 who knows. I've seen how it happens a lot. Women need a villain to justify their own actions, they don't take accountability for things. I was a blessing to her, her family loved me. Cooked for her, tried getting her on a good routine so she didn't sleep all day and get depressed, massaged her, always built her up even when she was self deprecating on her flaws. But now my love goes to myself and christ. No woman deserves what I gave again

  • @JihadBunnydick

    @JihadBunnydick

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jamesdeek7039 Damn she was bi?

  • @jamesdeek7039

    @jamesdeek7039

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JihadBunnydick yeah. But that was just an excuse she gave. She lied and blame shifted and gaslit me. I'll never know why she left , why she sees me as a monster. I'll never have closure

  • @zoepaterson8785

    @zoepaterson8785

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you now?

  • @jkfhjgg6909
    @jkfhjgg69092 жыл бұрын

    Should you ever reach out? Been 4.5 months. Feel like there’s nothing to lose at this point

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    And what would your expectation be?

  • @mateotesei
    @mateotesei2 жыл бұрын

    I deleted my gf ig during no contact. Opinions?

  • @mrmarcusdmorgan

    @mrmarcusdmorgan

    2 жыл бұрын

    That could be good. In her eyes she might think that your just butt hurt about the break up, but I can understand if emotionally you don’t wanna see her and the stuff she’s doing and that being the reason why you deleted her. Social Media is a big mind fuzz and can be used to hurt the ex. It really depends on why you did it really.

  • @mateotesei

    @mateotesei

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mrmarcusdmorgan exactly. I deleted her because I need to move on from this.Can’t move on if my ig is constantly full of her pictures.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with Jack, and it’s definitely a good idea to delete her if that’s the case. Opus

  • @mateotesei

    @mateotesei

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez and if I want to get her back?

  • @jahleelx9270

    @jahleelx9270

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mateotesei move on. Eventually they all come back around.

  • @clipz4430
    @clipz44302 жыл бұрын

    Stealing Coach Lees titles how lovely

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    No one owns a title.

  • @clipz4430

    @clipz4430

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez Thank you for not denying it, I appreciate that.