Why would you guys want someone back who cut on you? When they come back most of the time it's never the same. Most of the time wanting them back is only to satisfy your ego. And a good portion of the time there was never anything wrong with you in the first place. Leave them alone...

@camden336

Жыл бұрын

Facts!

Best thing you can do is to do no contact with an ex. Make them wonder. I’ve ignored 4 messages off mine. She left me for another guy, why should I give her my time.

@jahleelx9270

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

Ya gotta be unreachable after the break-up. After my last situationship I went underground on some "Batman Begins" type sh*t n worked on myself.

My ex knows me like the back of her hand and vice versa. No contact drives women crazy. No Contact brings curiosity and mystery. Good video guys👍

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

That’s what’s up Wayne!

@whiteranger79

2 жыл бұрын

I see what you mean. I try to be cordial but ex block me on everything but one day left a vm telling she was sorry and that she check on me 🤦🏾‍♂️, but still blocked.

@waynesalisbury

2 жыл бұрын

@@whiteranger79 it happens bro. Dont take it personal. I've been wit my girl for 4 years off and on and she put me block a 100 times. It will work out, stay strong

@whiteranger79

2 жыл бұрын

@@waynesalisbury not personal, but confused. It like she is worried about me checking up on her life. What can i do if u have a new man? Nothing!!

@ginzo666

2 жыл бұрын

@@whiteranger79 : Next time she calls ask her out on a date. If she says no, tell her to only call you again if she's interested in going out with you. Then STICK TO YOUR GUNS!

For some ppl their ex is the right person and it took things falling apart to have something better in the long run. For most tho an ex is an ex for a reason. And most often times they come back because they got used by the guy they left for. But of course she will never tell u that. I know it happened to me. I'll just tell all the decent dudes out there don't settle for less. If u were a good dude to your ex and she left then it's on her. And don't even think about taking her back. Her coming back invalidates everything she said and the way she treated you. And at that point she only came back because she got treated the same way she treated u. U can't treat good ppl bad (man or woman) and then just get away with it and live your life. If someone went out of their way to hurt you then they won't get away with it. That's a big reason why ex girlfriends come back. But like I said of course she ain't gonna tell u she got used.

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Good points

@melgray019

2 жыл бұрын

Big Fact's G needed to here that

@babysimz2178

2 жыл бұрын

Some women are not like that.. mine vice versa... good ones get hurt in the long run. Just be patient and allow things flow your way for the better

@jahleelx9270

2 жыл бұрын

@@babysimz2178 I know not every woman is like that. I'm talking about why an ex that mistreated u and took u for granted would come back. Most times it's because of karma. But of course no woman is gonna sit there and tell u the new guy dumped her or cheated on her. Or actually dogged her out and she's only returning because she realizes you were a good guy. And things didn't work out in her favor. The thing is these women know you are before they actually leave and decide to treat u that way. They just want an excuse to test the waters and believe they can do better. It happened to me. But I'm still single and have been for like 13 months.

@hanksoulman9225

2 жыл бұрын

Agree with what you said 100% "If u were a good dude to your ex and she left then dont even think about takin her back." Btw she will most likely dump you again further down the line too. If they doubt you fugggg dem. Plenty of women will not doubt you and only they deserve you.

Silence is golden ✨

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

No doubt 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

My ex broke up with me months ago. I went no contact for 4 months. I worked on myself… GYM 💪, new style, new me..She came back wanting to be together but after one week she changed her mind and left once again saying she was confused and just wanted to be friends because she didn’t know if she loved me anymore but enjoys being together. The second time doesn’t hurt as much and this time I am walking away. No contact forever. No begging or pleading this time!

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Love to hear this TRU 👊🏾

@athomas3082

2 жыл бұрын

same thing here second time she left didnt hurt now im on my shit i move swift now and she calls all the time no answer from me😂😂 she text and stalk my fb page asking bout different women on my page

Big love from Ireland. Getting me through a 8 year relationship breakup that happened 1 month ago. Thanks both🤝

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Much love!

I'm over 90 days plus now No contact whatsoever. Haven't heard anything. Maybe her rebound is actually successful. Who knows. In any event I'm just glad I've made massive improvements on myself and held my ground. IG has shown my physical improvements. But I'm about to go off the grid for a minute and focus on my business and stay off social media for a few. Stay strong fellas. It gets better.

@LaRueDuConsommateur

2 жыл бұрын

Be patient.

@melgray019

2 жыл бұрын

Inspiration

@mrkeitt

2 жыл бұрын

@@melgray019 Idk what your going thru brody. But as men we have it alot harder post break up. Take it day by day, work out , get into tarot readings ( both your signs ) , and understand this is life. You'll be ok bruh. We're built for this. I wish you all the best. No 🧢

@melgray019

2 жыл бұрын

@@mrkeitt appreciate it man been broke up with my ex for almost a month been rough but I'll be alright...The come back is real...💪🏿

@mrkeitt

2 жыл бұрын

@@melgray019 🙏🏾💪🏽

Focus on self , do not chase ,replace, but please make sure you did the right things in the relationship and I don’t mean have three other mates and doing mad dirt

I want my ex (baby mamma) back and every day I wanna call her and beg for her back... but I call my mom instead of her every single time. it has helped me so much... my mom enjoys it as well

I seen the rebound do more damage in that short period of time than the ex may or had done

My ex ditched more than a year ago. For her ex. I never looked back, she’s blocked on social media, and I never heard from her again otherwise. Who knows? I petition for RN this winter and just finished my associates degree, got in a band, and became a reliable homie and brother to my friends and family. A new girl? It hasn’t been for a lack of options, just no one I’d be interested in. Y’all know those gone fishing metaphors? Well I’m busy sharking. Nuff said. Thanks dudes your videos are solid gold.

always clutch with the uploads guys. doing god’s work out here

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

👊🏾

Woah White & Bright background 🔥 refreshing

I refuse to waste my precious and limited time on conspiring to make someone regret losing me. My healing and moving on is not predicated upon their great. Empower yourself by not worrying about trivial things such as their regret. Live your life on your terms. 💪

good video too watch and learn!!

Like the new background, great content 🦈🤟

Went to sleep early yesterday and woke up to a 🔥 video by the guys! That white background crispy too! Keep the videos comin the sharks need y’all 🦈!

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Much respect C! 👊🏾

Good information guys

Also, she was very angry last time we spoke and I sure as hell don't want her close to me. That negativity, is toxic at best.

Great explanations

I apologize brother not showing up but watched the vid , always awesome. Was little to busy chasing my purpose and achieving my goals , to leave a comment yesterday, but here I am , ladies ND gent these men are spot on Murphy 2.0 you need to be , let her or him look at you in a different lime light , leave it to KARMA to do its job. Brother you are KINGS at this bless to yall both

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Cory. Always love hearing about your progress in this journey! 🦈

@cbcarlson5008cc

2 жыл бұрын

@@opusandtarquez when are yall gonna have another live event

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Very soon! We miss doing them.

I like the new background fellas!

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks man. We were debating on staying black or going with the white. What are ur thought?

@MajorasThirdEye

2 жыл бұрын

@@opusandtarquez hmm. I prefer the black if I had to choose one, but the white looks clean af too. Maybe alternate between the 2? Or maybe choose the background depending on the outfits, like if you're wearing darker colors, go with the white, and vice versa? But either way looks dope! Just keep dropping that fire content fellas! 🦈

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Word, I appreciate it homie !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

She hasn't contacted me in five months, and I her in three months, but she stares holes through me when she sees me, and someone watches my song about her "Erika The Beautiful ❤️" before they go to bed at night and also my most recent book review. She turns 38 today and I 51 tomorrow and I am hoping she will contact me on my birthday if I ignore her's. I'm leaving it in God's hands and time though.

She left me because I didn't validate her enough! I.e. I didn't tell her I love her enough (even though she says I know you love me) and I didn't tell her how amazing she looks enough. She decided to break it off and I haven't reached out since

Great work as always guys. Keep it up

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Cody!

@codycarlson6963

2 жыл бұрын

You guys are some of the best out there. Since her and I split, I started no contact about 2 months ago now and added 8lbs of muscle, lost 45lbs of fat, Been studying on a future Career, shit I actually forget about her more often than not.

@mdmohiuddin6488

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks kings great advice

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

That’s amazing to hear!

I like all Ur vids😍

My ex is sneaky she comes at me after 2 days of NC saying my face is swollen going to hospital. 🤦 knowing I'll care.. ugh.

Yo, make a video on what it means when she asks “are you mad at me?”

I was working 3 jobs. That made me unattractive.

Low contact also being you work in the same building as her. And see her in passing.

Nice background, I’m assuming new studio ?

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

We just switched backgrounds. Glad you like it

Breakup day 86, NC day 60...she still has our pics on social media, still posts profile pics wearing things that I gave her, hasn't pushed for me to get the rest of my things from the house (still has the engagement ring too), got a new phone and phone number(but gave me the new number), is still friends on FB with my family, and has sent a couple of "indirect-direct" texts to me during NC. I'm just trying to figure out if it means anything...or if it's just wishful thinking on my part.

@markytv3578

2 жыл бұрын

Just continue doing no contact until she submits.

@davidlee6117

2 жыл бұрын

Stay no contact to draw her out the shadows!

@onyeaborcatherinechiom6733

2 жыл бұрын

➕₁₃₀₄₇₁₄₇₆₅₁??????

The only time I contacted her was the day after she broke up with me to get my tools back so I could work on my car. Told her to leave it on my porch lmao

The thing is. Why would I want back someone that dogged me out after 20 year marriage.

@aidefrank1384

2 жыл бұрын

I can recommend you a man who can help you

@aidefrank1384

2 жыл бұрын

WhatsApp him

@melgray019

2 жыл бұрын

Damn sorry to hear that

@aidefrank1384

2 жыл бұрын

@@melgray019 ok

@wilfridjoseph6172

2 жыл бұрын

Damn 20yr marriage

How do go no contact when your ex lives in the house with you and your child.

I was used by my ex girlfriend, broken hearted. Should i go no contact her.

I am panicking. I kind of don't want her back. I got my inbox full of cuties asking about me and man, that feels good.

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Nice !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

My ex left me 3 weeks ago after 4 years and got into a rebound. I am devastated. I’ve been in no contact with her for the last 6 days, mainly because she just stopped answering me. I did a little bit of begging, pleading, and stalking for the first week of the break up, then just trying to get closure the second week. Now I’m in No Contact. It’s the worst.

@BxJerseyShorefan

2 жыл бұрын

6 days is nothing, it gets brutal

@melgray019

2 жыл бұрын

Hang in there.. Just improve yourself you deserve it she'll will regret it.

@Alexfieldmusicofficial

2 жыл бұрын

Stay strong king

@MM-nl3ff

2 жыл бұрын

How are you holding up brother?

@cacingcau3773

2 жыл бұрын

sorry to hear that keep moving on be better version of yourself and you will attracting better options in the future 👍 been there done that

She used to comment on my shiny smooth bald head when things were great. So now after she broke up, i know she still notices my bald head and trimmed weight, just doesnt want to flirt.

I was just thinking about you guys ❤️

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching Shanon 🤟🏾

@shanonneely

2 жыл бұрын

@@opusandtarquez wouldn’t miss it 😉

@dencalland183

2 жыл бұрын

Translation…Opus has you hot under the collar!

@shanonneely

2 жыл бұрын

@@dencalland183 hahahahaha you’ve got that right lol

@dencalland183

2 жыл бұрын

Wonder if you could be the woman to break G####ans spell on him. 😂.

I look 100x better, mo money, plenty of money women out there. I’m busy. Good luck w your coworker

does this apply aswell if that girl isnt your ex but u were close to a relationship and suddently she went distant and took you for granted.

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

There’s nuances to that, but it definitely applies.

@chrisds3484

2 жыл бұрын

@@opusandtarquez well we still talked for few weeks, meeted up twice, showed i care for her... but now its the 2nd day im walking away in silence, so maybe she' used to it that im always starting a convo with her but im gonna stick to no contact now

I Facebook posted a baby doll look a like of her with me at a make out spot last week 😂!

I’m working on me version 2.0 Celebrating 70lbs lost today since March. Keepin on with the grind channelling my inner David Goggins 😂 Keep up the good work gents!!! 👊🏻🔥

Bro you just described my ex, funky, pjs round the house stinky breathe 😵‍💫😅😅sept the hair she spent $$$$ on having great platinum blonde hair

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Wow

@darlingobrizi2202

2 жыл бұрын

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together contact him now 💢💢💢

@darlingobrizi2202

2 жыл бұрын

Hello it's work's I can't believe he is a great man whatsapp Dr Stephen now for help ✅✅✅

@darlingobrizi2202

2 жыл бұрын

whatsAzpp him for☝️now????

No contact with people she knows At all

Bring back the quivering lip gentlemen

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao it’s coming 😂

Have no regrets and take revenge on your old self by becoming what you envision yourself to be! Get that 🍞 in a major way and never look back. The world is your oyster!!!!!

I exercise the no contact and it is driving her crazy she keeps reaching out for all types of dumb shit it's to the point I had to block her I'm sure that is killing her even more..but hey...that's what happens when you slide off on people and try to come bacc..after watching the narcissist video it's clear thats exactly what she is

Was with a girl for 3 years. She left me and told me she needed to fix herself cuz she had anger issues. She said i took her for granted but she is lying to herself. We havent spoke for like 10 days. How long should i wait? Do i contact her even if she was the one who left me? Btw she told me i had the best sex/llve making ways. So i don't see her looking for somebody else for that.

@jahleelx9270

2 жыл бұрын

Move on. That's the only thing u can do. Of course they will blame everything on u when they leave as if they were perfect in the relationship and don't have behaviors that you kept putting up with but u still decided to stay and work with her right? Trust me bro if a woman leaves that means another woman is on the way. Heal. Learn the lesson. Find another female that will appreciate u for u. That's how it works. And she'll try to get u back but more often than not by then it will be too late.

@kenettrivera8168

2 жыл бұрын

@@jahleelx9270 yes i tried to give her 1 last chance so she can make up her mind. But i guess she wants me to learn a lesson and then she will come back? Maybe. I offered to help. But she called me a leech and that she gave me all of her attention and that i would just take and take. But idk man. It sucks. But so far i have become a stronger and cold person. I lost weight been in the gym for 2 months. My school work is on top of my class. Idk why she said she felt happier without a man now because she never felt happy without depending on someone.

@kenettrivera8168

2 жыл бұрын

@@jahleelx9270 btw she blocked me on everything. She told me to leave her alone.

@jahleelx9270

2 жыл бұрын

@@kenettrivera8168 then do just that. And move on. Trust me bro the hardest part isn't dealing with how she treated you. The hardest part is letting go of her forever. Take 3-6 months alone to heal and then try your best to move on. That's all u can do. That's what I did and I'm a lot better and stronger because of it. Eventually as well u get over it and don't even care anymore and strangley enough that's when they come back.

@jahleelx9270

2 жыл бұрын

@@kenettrivera8168 I don't even have a new girl yet but I'm over that situation. Took me a good 5-6 months tho.

My ex is going through it. The new person didnt work out. I am with someone else. She left the state to start over (because i told the entire area she cheated) If she ever wants to reconnect ill invite her over for a date....she can meet my new girl and get the fuck out. Stay toxic kings

How about she left you for someone else what can you do kings?

@jahleelx9270

2 жыл бұрын

Move on. Don't take her back if she comes back.

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Walk away and don’t look back.

@mdmohiuddin6488

2 жыл бұрын

@@opusandtarquez thanks kings

@mdmohiuddin6488

2 жыл бұрын

@@jahleelx9270 thanks brother

@Ty_ThatGuy

2 жыл бұрын

Give her back to the streets. If she can't see/ appreciate your worth, she doesn't deserve you. Never settle!

I've lost 52 lbs since meeting her.

@mrmarcusdmorgan

2 жыл бұрын

Dope !!!

@leslittle9112

2 жыл бұрын

@@mrmarcusdmorgan low carbs, counting calories, swimming laps.

Prefer the black background chaps

@opusandtarquez

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the feedback Sunny

@bartzeegers3663

2 жыл бұрын

Me Two 😂