The 48 LAWS Of No Contact

If you're following the no contact rule, there are laws you need to be aware of. There are powerful laws that govern the no contact rule after your breakup. And if you break the laws of no contact, it's going to put a strain on healing from the breakup and re-attracting your ex.
We have covered ALL 48 Laws of No Contact in this video. By the time you finish this video and understand each law of no contact, you'll be equipped with every tool to get your ex back or totally let go of your ex for good.
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  • @billytumorenito
    @billytumorenito2 жыл бұрын

    1- Do not break the no contact Rule 2-Do not tell your ex that you won't contact them 3- Do no text your ex 4- Do not DM your ex in Social Media 5- Understand what NC mean= 6- Do not watch their story, no like to post. 7-Do not look at their Pages 8- No drive by 9- Private coaching, Maybe with 3B 10- Do not contact their Family or friend 11- Focus on Healing and self-care 12- Love yourself 13- set the date/ after date 14. Do not go to their Job 15. No friend zone accepted 16. Do not become physical with their new partner 17. keep contact when you have kids, but just talk about them 18. Delete the fucking photos. 19. Do not hate yourself/blame yourself 20. self awareness 21. watch comedies 22. fill the void 23.find new routine 24. NC is not guarantee 25. Avoid BH and Holidays. 26. do not hate WOMEN 27. Give everything back 28. do Not contact the days 29. practice patient 30. Put the bloody fun away 31. GET RID OF SOCIAL MEDIA 32. meditate 33.go out and have fun 34. travel 35. gym 36. learn a martial art 37. realize your worth 38.go out and flirt 39. date when you are ready 40. Journaling 41. do not talk bad about them 42. do not freak up if they do not talk to you or reach you= let it go 43. do not freak out when they reach 44. make them earn you...

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Much appreciated Jose! Thank you!

  • @BasilFJ19
    @BasilFJ192 жыл бұрын

    Remember the drive-by. Don't do it. You will see something you can't unsee.

  • @Marty_Soundwerk

    @Marty_Soundwerk

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true...

  • @urijahfaith2114
    @urijahfaith21142 жыл бұрын

    Only dogs, children & women are loved unconditionally. Men are loved for only what we can provide.--- Chris Rock.

  • @lennymcshits2288

    @lennymcshits2288

    2 жыл бұрын

    Damn. Yes.

  • @pietro8246
    @pietro82462 жыл бұрын

    This is the good stuff! All of these are on point! Follow these rules it will make you a better man!

  • @cbcarlson5008cc
    @cbcarlson5008cc2 жыл бұрын

    Goog God they keep coming out coaches you're both on that "A' game . I've read this book it does help alot , but you have to be able to do it . I can tell most of the ladies and gents here just keep yourself busy . Find your purpose make goals then make more . You achievements in life are a reflection of who you are . Make them stand out . TRUST ME the ex is watching . Make them sweat. Stay thirsty sharks 🦈

  • @malcky9696

    @malcky9696

    2 жыл бұрын

    Cory 🦈💪

  • @aldeanfrancis2444
    @aldeanfrancis24442 жыл бұрын

    Your videos empower me brothers... with every watch I gain strength and clarity and a more positive self image. Keep up the good work it's amazing

  • @newyorke172
    @newyorke1722 жыл бұрын

    That book changed my life!!!

  • @vernondelancy6281
    @vernondelancy62815 ай бұрын

    Good information Fellas

  • @lesliesantiago6058
    @lesliesantiago60582 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys, no contact works I used it to move on and we'll I moved on to bigger and better things .I met a guy that is so amazing were dating and wow I definitely upgraded lol.Im excited to see where this will go taking slow and enjoy every minute of it.Theres no way in hell I would ever entertain my ex ever .😚 Thank you guys for all your videos they truly helped me at my darkest times God bless you two hot amazing men💋💋

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    We’re glad to see comments like this. Thanks Leslie, I hope everything works out with it !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @shawneelawrence8667
    @shawneelawrence86672 жыл бұрын

    Practice patience! So true👍🏽👍🏽No social media for me right now

  • @ajayjr7421
    @ajayjr74212 жыл бұрын

    I don’t know what it is but I really get excited every time u guys upload a new video with your great amazing advices n tips! For me honestly 👌🙌 this by far The best KZread channel ever for dating #BlackBookBasics 👍

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bro…. Big ups to you man. We defiantly appreciate comments like this !!! 🙏🏽

  • @rolandr9289
    @rolandr92892 жыл бұрын

    This is gold......absolute gold fellas. Thanks for all you do! The first rule of fight club is.........Dont break no contact!!

  • @lennymcshits2288
    @lennymcshits22882 жыл бұрын

    “K” and “Yup” are ideal responses when necessary.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    😆

  • @IamCoachCourt
    @IamCoachCourt2 жыл бұрын

    That’s a good spin fellas! 💪🏾

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot homie. 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @agbordaniels
    @agbordaniels2 жыл бұрын

    I love the cool 😎 music 🎶 in the background.

  • @billytumorenito
    @billytumorenito2 жыл бұрын

    Guys amazing, thank you so much..

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Jose we appreciate the support man. Thank You !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @troyX
    @troyX2 жыл бұрын

    Hope you two had a good Thanksgiving! I'll watch this one with breakfast tomorrow morning. Good night from France 🦈

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Merci beaucoup!

  • @luvAshleeG23
    @luvAshleeG232 жыл бұрын

    I glad I click on this video because I did like 3 things but hey I went back into no contact it’s been 2 months since the break up I’m confused on something though he watching my stories I be wanna call hem so bad but I’m not and I told hem I love hem after the break up

  • @cheytacpraetoriancomposite3413
    @cheytacpraetoriancomposite34132 жыл бұрын

    64th day NC feeling good, reseting my mind, getting my tatoo projects ready so they are all painted for spring...been buying jordans and shit for my ex now im about to spoil myself with tatoos that i always wanted GAWD DAMN THAT FEELS GOOD

  • @vincentmukes

    @vincentmukes

    2 жыл бұрын

    Buy crypto fam

  • @cheytacpraetoriancomposite3413

    @cheytacpraetoriancomposite3413

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@vincentmukes already did my man thanks for the advice...keep it 100!

  • @TonyRossiImpactGlobal
    @TonyRossiImpactGlobal2 жыл бұрын

    Been 4 months, 7/27 don’t think she’s going to reach out…

  • @tomixmontanaa

    @tomixmontanaa

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bro its not the good mindset…let her go,do no contact because you wanna show her that you got your power back and your respect,let’s say she never comes back,but she will respect you in her head beacuse you strong enough to not reach out to her! Keep it up and be strong bro you got this🙏🏽

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tomixmontanaa having no contact with your ex won't solve the matter on ground,but it will only worsten the whole issue ok

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tomixmontanaa This man helped me also to bring back my ex boyfriend to me in less than 48hours, My ex boyfriend just messaged me that he is missing me so badly that he would like to come back,and I was so surprised , because we had a breakup for 6 good months, but this great spell caster helped me to manifest him back to me.

  • @johnsandoval2245

    @johnsandoval2245

    2 жыл бұрын

    brother the point of no contact is to improve yourself, work on you and level up for you. Relax if they don't reach out its not meant to be. Move on and know that your meant for someone better. Don't let this past make who you are, use it to build yourself up for the better. Stay safe and goodluck.

  • @harrisonayodi1529
    @harrisonayodi15292 жыл бұрын

    You guys just the bomb! Been in NC for 2 weeks now and my ex she texted me yesterday midnight saying she wants her stuff back, then sends another text again like sorry to text you late. Should i reply?

  • @matthews64
    @matthews642 жыл бұрын

    Are there any exception? We separated due to "work commitment" (this sounds like bs to me but that's what she told me) and I haven't contacted her, although she reaches out every now and then. Few days again, she posted a cryptic message (a string of number, but it was the date we separated) and the last time she reached out was on my birthday 3 weeks ago wishing me well

  • @johnorack25
    @johnorack252 жыл бұрын

    Hey, guys. I watch your videos regularly and I've been in NC for 4 months now. I still watch you to do deal with insecurities and anxiety even though I don't think I want her back. In these 4 months I've: Gotten my first tattoo, started building my Branding in social media, I'm better at parkour, I've regained my muscle and confidence; I am alive again. I saw her last night because I reached out for some paperwork for my car(I wasn't ready before) and some action figures I purchased a long time ago. She wanted to hold onto them, and was playing hard to deal with. In short: We ended up talking because she wanted to, she is broken, alone, and desperate. She was caught up smiling at me many times, for no damn reason and even asked me for a hug before I left. I didn't give her hopes or anything. I don't want her to be broken, I want her to be well, just not with me as of now.

  • @davidcoppotelli3957

    @davidcoppotelli3957

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah your All Set.

  • @vincentmukes

    @vincentmukes

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bad move.

  • @TheOnemanr1ot
    @TheOnemanr1ot2 жыл бұрын

    I am approaching one year since I was dumped, not that I'm keeping track but it happened on Christmas, hard to forget. Not much from her but the new guy she was with seemingly dissapeared. I became good friends with her mom, and talk to her to this day. She refuses to accept her daughters decision, I don't really want her back at this point but I think its funny being nice to her mom as its a constant thorn in my exs side. You guys are the best

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    contact this man on WhatsApp, Dr Williams from Africa. He can help you out in bringing her back to you okay,

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    This man helped me also to bring back my ex boyfriend to me in less than 48hours, My ex boyfriend just messaged me that he is missing me so badly that he would like to come back,and I was so surprised , because we had a breakup for 6 good months, but this great spell caster helped me to manifest him back to me.

  • @garrydhillon439
    @garrydhillon4392 жыл бұрын

    I should’ve watched this video before i get harassment charge lol drive by her home was biggest mistake ive done , idk if she will return or not now 😅

  • @DarinDmarkovic1
    @DarinDmarkovic12 жыл бұрын

    Law #1 Pray

  • @DarinDmarkovic1

    @DarinDmarkovic1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yea let me get right on that, actually let me just give you my bank account number and credit card info

  • @yungc9050
    @yungc90502 жыл бұрын

    How do they know if you are not liking there post mane?

  • @jamesdeek7039
    @jamesdeek70392 жыл бұрын

    This is just healthy self awareness.

  • @kakarot9319
    @kakarot93192 жыл бұрын

    What if she's keeping the kid away from me? Should I use this time for no contact to level up while I'm away from the kid? BTW you guys helped me get my ex back summer 2020 with no contact. I should've listened when yall said use no contact to move on lol

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is a tough situation. Because you don’t want to be away from your child. If it does end up going to court I highly recommend reading up on this to stay off child support: www.congress.gov/bill/104th-congress/house-bill/1946?s=1&r=3 No contact could work but just think about the time that you could be missing out on with your child. Opus

  • @kakarot9319

    @kakarot9319

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez bet thanks

  • @XRP-Mill
    @XRP-Mill2 жыл бұрын

    Laws of human nature is awesome by Robert Greene also..

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic book Joe!

  • @rmoreno007
    @rmoreno0072 жыл бұрын

    🐐🐐

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    👊🏾

  • @larrybrown2774
    @larrybrown27742 жыл бұрын

    Just saw law 15

  • @naomiebanzuzi
    @naomiebanzuzi2 жыл бұрын

    😅😅😅😅 you guys are soo funny....the jokes in between 😅😅😅

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    👊🏾

  • @Money-wi6im
    @Money-wi6im2 жыл бұрын

    Lol i created new ig so my ex couldnt see me how i changed, now she found my ig, started to stalking me, she saw every my story, but she dont even follow me lol, and yesterday she called me, i didnt answered but than i called back and she told me that she just called wrong number, lol she just trying to get my attention

  • @TreMelo-kd2or
    @TreMelo-kd2or2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been doing no contact for over 10 months, we have kids and as we come closer to the finality of the divorce I’m having nightmares about her and I’m finding myself having negative thoughts towards her and her family what help can you give me with mastering my emotions?

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    having no contact with your ex won't solve the matter on ground,but it will only worsten the whole issue ok

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    This man helped me also to bring back my ex boyfriend to me in less than 48hours, My ex boyfriend just messaged me that he is missing me so badly that he would like to come back,and I was so surprised , because we had a breakup for 6 good months, but this great spell caster helped me to manifest him back to me.

  • @ErikisOfficial
    @ErikisOfficial2 жыл бұрын

    When you're light skin you don't have to worry about doing "no contact"...........they always come back 😐 -Light Skin Council 😄

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Team light skin for life !!! 🤟🏽 -Opus-

  • @TvrkishOutlaw

    @TvrkishOutlaw

    2 жыл бұрын

    #TeamLightSkin 😆 🤙

  • @ErikisOfficial

    @ErikisOfficial

    2 жыл бұрын

    😄

  • @vincentmukes

    @vincentmukes

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @crackinlackin6189
    @crackinlackin61892 жыл бұрын

    no contact or respond for two years the moment she dumps me. SO yo I am gone! but i havent heard from her anyway

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    contact this man on WhatsApp, Dr Williams from Africa. He can help you out in bringing her back to you okay,

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    This man helped me also to bring back my ex boyfriend to me in less than 48hours, My ex boyfriend just messaged me that he is missing me so badly that he would like to come back,and I was so surprised , because we had a breakup for 6 good months, but this great spell caster helped me to manifest him back to me.

  • @jobenelson
    @jobenelson2 жыл бұрын

    My 5 months relationship has come to and end,she was my coworker we didn't hang out yet,but we have some handful of memories together,she dumped me saying she seen no efforts from my side, and probably she might have found a guy who gives her attention,so no contact will work in my case?

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    having no contact with your ex won't solve the matter on ground,but it will only worsten the whole issue ok

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    contact this man on WhatsApp, Dr Williams from Africa. He can help you out in bringing her back to you okay,

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    This man helped me also to bring back my ex boyfriend to me in less than 48hours, My ex boyfriend just messaged me that he is missing me so badly that he would like to come back,and I was so surprised , because we had a breakup for 6 good months, but this great spell caster helped me to manifest him back to me.

  • @quitestrength9143
    @quitestrength91432 жыл бұрын

    Why my text me saying happy thanksgiving after 6 months of no contact?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😎

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Because you showed your strength, and now she knows what she’s missing out on…

  • @Gbe349
    @Gbe349 Жыл бұрын

    Rip opus

  • @quitestrength9143
    @quitestrength91432 жыл бұрын

    Ex**

  • @christindell6893
    @christindell68932 жыл бұрын

    That good ol boys 2 men 🤣🤣🤣🤣 what if when you asked them to come get their stuff they said just leave it and we'll see what happens like what does that translate into lol

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Take it at face value

  • @randomvideos3674
    @randomvideos36742 жыл бұрын

    I I havetoo go by her house she lives on my property i water the plants and maintain the yard

  • @danielbran5830

    @danielbran5830

    2 жыл бұрын

    He can help you

  • @danielbran5830

    @danielbran5830

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can't believe it my ex is back

  • @danielbran5830

    @danielbran5830

    2 жыл бұрын

    What saap him

  • @brianlittlepage6808
    @brianlittlepage68082 жыл бұрын

    What about if she reaches out but it's only the talk crap?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Don’t let it get to you. Just be cool and charming… But why would you even talk to someone if all they do is talk crap?

  • @brianlittlepage6808

    @brianlittlepage6808

    2 жыл бұрын

    Honestly it starts as talking crap then it subsidies. She is very hot and cold. I weather the storm looking for the calm.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s because you’re allowing it.

  • @larrybrown2774
    @larrybrown27742 жыл бұрын

    I've broken a lot of these rules out of fear. My wife not coming back. Took 10 months of heartache to get the picture. She's gone.

  • @larrybrown2774

    @larrybrown2774

    2 жыл бұрын

    She's gone man. She gotta whole other dude and we still on paper. In a whole new relationship. Got this dude buying my children Christmas gifts. They've met.

  • @danielbran5830

    @danielbran5830

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@larrybrown2774 I got help from Dr fred he helped me

  • @danielbran5830

    @danielbran5830

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can't believe it my ex is back

  • @danielbran5830

    @danielbran5830

    2 жыл бұрын

    He can also help you with love spell to get her

  • @danielbran5830

    @danielbran5830

    2 жыл бұрын

    What saap him

  • @lennymcshits2288
    @lennymcshits22882 жыл бұрын

    9 might be difficult for me. I’m friends with her brother.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    I will definitely stay away from talking about her to her brother. He might slip up and tell her whatever you say to him.

  • @lennymcshits2288

    @lennymcshits2288

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez He doesn’t like her. They’re pretty alienated, much for the same reasons.

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lennymcshits2288yeah! You're correct, having no contact with your ex won't solve the matter on ground,but it will only worsten the whole issue ok

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lennymcshits2288 contact this man on WhatsApp, Dr Williams from Africa. He can help you out in bringing her back to you okay,

  • @debbyryan9283

    @debbyryan9283

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lennymcshits2288 This man helped me also to bring back my ex boyfriend to me in less than 48hours, My ex boyfriend just messaged me that he is missing me so badly that he would like to come back,and I was so surprised , because we had a breakup for 6 good months, but this great spell caster helped me to manifest him back to me.

  • @yungc9050
    @yungc90502 жыл бұрын

    Nothing was wrong with the relationship. It was a two month relationship and everything was going well the week before the breakup she told me I was sexy AF when we went to a comedy prom concert. A week later she just apruptly broke up with me through a text. I dont understand what happened she ghosted me. That's cold mane!

  • @davidhall6464

    @davidhall6464

    2 жыл бұрын

    You might have been a rebound maybe?

  • @yungc9050

    @yungc9050

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@davidhall6464 I don't know. If that's so then that's cold mane. The only way she's communicating with me is email. She blocked me when I call her. Goes to voice mail and unfriend me on ig. She is giving me excuse after excuse to justify this breakup.

  • @davidhall6464

    @davidhall6464

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@yungc9050 im sorry to hear you're being treated this way. We've all had this kind of treatment at some point by our ex's. Sounds to me like your ex is seeing someone else. It would explain their behaviour and coldness. Although I hope I'm wrong.

  • @yungc9050

    @yungc9050

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@davidhall6464 me too mane

  • @Candleowen

    @Candleowen

    2 жыл бұрын

    You gotta stop saying mane, first. Second of all, you were probably a rebound brother. Lastly, she without a doubt is seeing someone else. Take it as a learning experience my man

  • @leonjohnsonjr3331
    @leonjohnsonjr33312 жыл бұрын

    I erase her # and unfriend her...SO i know i won't do no contact

  • @larrybrown2774
    @larrybrown27742 жыл бұрын

    Well unfortunately I have to be in contact for our children. Other than that. After 10 months. I quit.

  • @malcky9696
    @malcky96962 жыл бұрын

    🦈✊

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Malcky what up! 🦈

  • @malcky9696

    @malcky9696

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez hey guys feeling great. Hope your both well 💪🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @davidhall6464

    @davidhall6464

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@malcky9696 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @malcky9696

    @malcky9696

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@davidhall6464 hey bro 👋

  • @engpaademla6177
    @engpaademla61772 жыл бұрын

    I just blocked her..and walk away..

  • @danielbran5830

    @danielbran5830

    2 жыл бұрын

    I got help from Dr fred he helped me

  • @danielbran5830

    @danielbran5830

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can't believe it my ex is back

  • @danielbran5830

    @danielbran5830

    2 жыл бұрын

    What sap him