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  @debishaw93553 сағат бұрын

  Had to give up a friendship because of the backhanded compliments and just plain rudeness…

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  @MakuyEmatt5 сағат бұрын

  Mostly people doesn't know how to care,the person, hiw to respect anyone because if the bad influence. I i understand that it depends the parents how to handle the children to be a good childrens,to be a good servant of God not to be liberated. The childrens need to learned how to love pure ,how to be respect to be an educated person.

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  @MakuyEmatt5 сағат бұрын

  People make me a bad ,crazy,, or witch. So i avoiding. For my priority my worship enough for me .People doesn't like me anymore even her in my studio. They dont like im wearing a nice dresses they speaks at my back im just ignoring only.Jelousy behaviors so dangerous and no peace of mind can create a darkness not good to the eyes of God .

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  @baruchmaneke657620 сағат бұрын

  Thank you for your kindness and rich teachings

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  @StoicRealms2 минут бұрын

  Our pleasure!

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  @janetduncan87Күн бұрын

  Lol... My ex SIL said I was jealous of their family!! But mainly her. I cringe at the thought that I let those ppl have any piece of me at all. If I could go back, I set fire to my ass and run.

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  @user-gl6ts1lx6i2 күн бұрын

  I do not deal with idiots

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  @user-gl6ts1lx6i2 күн бұрын

  My x is my enemy

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  @tesssakuma12212 күн бұрын

  thanks for the lect

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  @AngelMelendez-rt8ij3 күн бұрын

  😅a good story inventuer.😅

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  @edgawrysjr3 күн бұрын

  I’m now an expert at spotting backhanded underhanded slaps. I was raised by narcissist parents and my alleged birth dad was also a sociopath. God saved me 🙏🫡❤️🎯

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  @dianaechevarria29273 күн бұрын

  Sun you're not going to believe me but this is what I've been watching wow unbelievable I swear I was going to forward you this stuff. It's about spirituality and stuff like that but this stuff just popped up on my KZread out of nowhere for the past week or so unbelievable. They are right on point

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  @TheOceanMan-xc7qp3 күн бұрын

  i have found complete silence and becoming a ghost to them works best...you can't reason when they are crazy or clearly operating from another agenda

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  @mikestoneking49923 күн бұрын

  with god now its takeing alot of work to do we are both standing strong with it we still have alot of love with us

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  @mikestoneking49923 күн бұрын

  she does its just love overload right now

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  @sr.oskar_alhos4 күн бұрын

  The unique enemy of us is ourselves. Or better saying! The evilness inside us. So, to destroy our enemy is enough to destroy our own evilness. Nothing else!

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  @moongrass2174 күн бұрын

  46 minutes?

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  @leprofesseur10145 күн бұрын

  Just off the time we surround ourselves with fake friends thinking they are genuine..

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  @marysylvie20125 күн бұрын

  No, Even with the skills from the school of stoicism, we can still be fooled and for many, many years. That is the nature of illusion without which we cannot really function. If we were totally aware of everything, we would not move! Se, we are meant to be fooled. It is the human condition to stumble and then to rise again. If we could avoid all problems, what would life be? Extremely boring. Equanimity such as expounded by yoga teachers may be a goal but the end result is just simple passivity and boredom.

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  @arleneoruley68965 күн бұрын

  Great roles & beliefs. Sadly I loyally trusted 2 friends who took my kindness for perfect victim when opportunity arose. After learned my personal info, weaknesses i felt comforted confidentiality had often been exploited. Im lonely, suspicious of anyone now.

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  @sserugoash55706 күн бұрын

  Walking away is the hardest thing but worth it ❤

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  @clintoniasanders13756 күн бұрын

  THE CHEATER WILL SUPPORT WHO HELP THEM CHEAT, BUT SAY THINGS LIKE SO WHAT WE CHEATED BUT WHAT WAS SAID ABOUT CHEATING WAS WRONG.

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  @clintoniasanders13756 күн бұрын

  PAY ATTENTION TO THE ONE WHO SUPPORTS THE EVIL DOER.

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  @carolineramos5596 күн бұрын

  I'm going through this now. It's a new job, and these people don't want me there.

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  @inezrosario2264 күн бұрын

  Oh my. Reminds me of a young man who came to work at my company. Definitely talented and ambitious. But within 4 days of his hire, I saw a shift in his demeanor. I took the leap, asked him to come into my office, closed the door and asked him why he seemed unhappy. He indicated that he felt he was being ignored and not moving into his position as quickly as anticipated, and felt it was because of his race. I knew that was not the reason, that in fact, of all the new hires, he was recognized as the one with the most potential and drive. I begged him to have patience, new hires never move up the ranks as fast as he would. Plans were to fast track him. But he had to believe in himself, not allow years of discrimination to ruin this great opportunity. He listened to me. And within 6 months he was working to his potential and beyond. Some of those people at your new job may feel intimidated by you, but by sticking it out with unshakable self esteem, they may come to respect you. Respect is far more lasting than being liked for superfluous reasons.

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  @margsme67184 күн бұрын

  So sorry …this is a true test but they may be doing a childish initiation test but remember you don’t need their validation you were hired for a reason you will be advanced and never have to see them again if you can rise above their jealousy. Hang in there.

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  @hhrrkk683620 сағат бұрын

  Shift your thinking. God doesn’t want you there and that’s why it won’t work out. He has something better for you, be happy about that and believe it wholeheartedly beloved ❤

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  @user-kv1hy3vu1k7 сағат бұрын

  It can really hurt

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  @gwensdailyactivities63056 күн бұрын

  I wish you provide more example. Like a video of how an argument is truly solved.

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  @starboardquest10056 күн бұрын

  Don’t forget those whose goal is to make you jealous. When you express your Jealousy they are happy because that was their goal to begin with. To make you jealous and then bask in it.

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  @goddessoflove1884 күн бұрын

  That one ☝🏼

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  @janetduncan87Күн бұрын

  My late ex tried to make me jealous all of the time. I'm not sure if I was jealous or just ticked off that he was trying. I went on a lot of trips with him, and wish I had taken full advantage of it. I didn't.

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  @mrwaterschoot56176 күн бұрын

  a different thought. we had a mjor project with tight timelines and estaned programming work was very tight . the bosses solution was hiring outside condultants . i was a group of consultants. some good an some not so mcuch. on guy on the team of consultants was a feke news programmer that was a clueless programmer and fahed hours worked and over timr hours rhat hr did not work. h i had suspicions and it was a concern for other hardworking consultants hathat i felt i trust. i was whistle l blower and nmenntion to my bosss with the hard facts. yje consultant was fired and his consulting firm .rebated money to my company. when out team of company and consultants on yhe project at my parenrs house. a mall thanks for helping competing the project. theree were some folks from out of dtate homes that like my invitation that the brought a bottle of yheir favorite alchoholix beverage to toast a succesful completion of a tough project on thime a a mixemiteam of individual that became friend an coworkers in difficult times. that was some 35 years ago

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  @mrwaterschoot56176 күн бұрын

  a abarbed complmebt an an inserce xomplimebt is a backeards insi ult. i have been passed over earned in my mind a pdevered promotion whit deserved pay increases. on amajor cst srandard program of newer solutions . for part costing standards. rhe design required 2 400 hundred level part table. at the time a one the rhden technolgies did not work because of memorys ad a born ptonlem solver . i voluntrrtrf my uncomprnsated time to lidten to the problem. i apploemz problem doving and wotked out a valid solution with an indezed problem. itf a part hald less than 400 sub psrts or machining operations . when it had to handle nmotr than 500 cost operation. thing got lost. i suspexted an index pointer out of sync. the souurce team said no way. as the projrct eas way bebind .. i said thar it was my best educated guess. i had no reason to find anything else . i threw my hands up. test my solution. if it works then zou are done. if it dails then we have a differt ptoblem to solve. . .on. sort cut my suggested fix. i do not recall a thank you or anor a trinket reward. not that i expet anything. but a sincere thank you would have been nice .

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  @robynmoore78477 күн бұрын

  I have two sisters that are not speaking to me now. One I know is a very envious & jealous person. The other just never liked her family since childhood. I have tried to be a sister to both. I think envy & jealousy is the core problem.

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  @rubenlindo9574 күн бұрын

  Other sibling may even steal from you

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  @edgawrysjr3 күн бұрын

  My entire birth family died not shell to me. God Removed those self serving people one by one until I was alone. It was only then could I could rebuild myself into who I was always meant to be. 🙏😎🥳

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  @user-mg2kf7dt9g5 сағат бұрын

  My sister did nothing with her life so she expected me to help her financially which I did from the bottom of my heart no questions asked. However, I woke up and realized that my sister was using me, there was nothing wrong with her physically or mentally. Her envy and jealousy was so obvious and overwhelming, toxic really. I cut ties with her and I noticed I have lost my desired to help her, I don’t want her in my life anymore…done!

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  @NatashaMcferren7 күн бұрын

  I love this, however ,please use more words that people can understand so I can get out fully what is intended ..I am missing so much bc you are using too many words that I do not understand...ty

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  @stevemitchell53897 күн бұрын

  Narcissists run for office.

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  @valeriehayes55557 күн бұрын

  There is pain in change - but it is well worth it.

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  @ctrockstar71687 күн бұрын

  You will never win. Just get away and stay away.

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  @frankie75088 күн бұрын

  And one more important point. Lower your expectations for people around you, especially in including relatives and significant others. I know of several people who have never experienced a female in their life, including their own mother, aunt's, sisters, spous(es), and female friends who were NOT jealous and angry were not to be found. It will be very difficult to find a female person who follows stoic and true Christian principles. This person says there are none out there. Perhaps he is right.

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  @frankie75088 күн бұрын

  Two observations that should be included of people that seek and will do harm because of their jealousy and anger towards others. And one should always be on guard. These people are not mentioned in the video. But I give the wisdom freely based upon decades of knowledge and experience. Always be on guard with family members including parents as well as neighbors. And and do as Saint Paul suggests which is to test everyone and everything. And if you do I am confident that you will find both members of these groups including parents who will be jealous and angry towards you because of accomplishments that you have achieved in your life. Thank you for an excellent video and I continue to do my best to follow stoicism in daily living.

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  @udyandas6 күн бұрын

  Thank you very much. Am personally the only son and issue of my parents. But my parents were jealous of me. My mother supported my late father always, about his miserly ways to supply as much as minimum money can be given for my physical, mental and academic developments. Though, they themselves spet money on silly matters for own comforts. Not only this, they would spend money repeatedly for rich, corrupt and jealous of me relatives, friends, neighbours and acquaintances. While, right from my childhood days, have been helping them in completing their household chores. Inever perhaps said ' No ' to them, for doing any work. My mother will never ask help for accomplishing any work from my father, but only fr. me. My father, while will go outside and often criticize me falsely. If suppose, my clothes became a little untidy due to my defendimg of myself from my class - room bullies at school, my Mom will 1 st ask me , what happened? I would just ans. shortly, ' Had a defensive fight with 1 or 2 boys '. At that time, it was all over but the moment , my Papa came to house from his outdoor duty of a Railway Dr., my Mother will immediately complain against me. And not elaborately that I fought for my own protection. Immediately, after hearing from my mom, my Father would start beating me bkack and blue by his slippers, belt ir an aluminium - scale. This happened 3 or 4 times. This is just but only an example , of how I was cheated, harassed, exploited and insulted only inside my home. That too, by my own parents, and sometimes before others like, servants and neighbours. Today, my Mama is of 85 years ( now widow) n am a man of 54 years. But of long torturous life in home, just like a jail, my future is ruined. Hve. passed only 11 th class but, never could pass 12 th board( taking Maths - Sc. gp. ) and could never increase my height from my present ht. of 5 ft . and 1 inch. My career, physique and future had been ruined by these 2 villains. My case is very rare. For the 1st time, I came to know from your comment in my cell, such things do happen , not only in India, but also outside. Few parents are there in this world, who are actually and secretly jealous of their children or child. Anyway, my hearty Thanks to You. Everything is God's will. But one must try hard again n again for acheiving success. Good day all.

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  @tinaleigh32734 күн бұрын

  My mom admitted she was jealous of me & I cut her a$$ off. It finally told me why she treated me like I was her enemy.

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  @kendylawrence5818 күн бұрын

  Anyone here who can help me sponsor my children? I’m at the verge of giving up in life. Nothing is moving for me, I’m stuck and feel like dying. I’m in Kenya Nairobi

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  @chiwonisomandishona4617 күн бұрын

  How old are your children? Where is the mother? Are you working?

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  @cliffmahoney39496 күн бұрын

  Scammer

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  @jeannettebosma53115 күн бұрын

  God is hearing you. Ask for help and He will not disappoint you.

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  @ramaat27315 күн бұрын

  ​@cliffmahoney3949 right . Imagine spelling your own city wrong Nairobi

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  @kendylawrence5814 күн бұрын

  @@ramaat2731 typo error…and what exactly is it that I’m scamming?

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  @Rich1168 күн бұрын

  this info came from the original source the kemite........honor to the originals

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  @baybramillion92638 күн бұрын

  where are these people? im in Victoria BC Canada 🎉 i read coments where are today's stoic people? reply in each if the clips you listen to😂 wish there was Facebook page.

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  @napoleonokwumabaf82078 күн бұрын

  These fighting my family marine kingdom,arinze ezeanyache ,ifeanyi olele,delamb onyebuchi,onyebuchi onwuemelia,kenechukwu onwuemelia,chimezie initiated wigwe,souyum makenish,jemy nsuma,jalo,chinwe ajumobi,chinelo iwenofu,and kollie garwu,fire prayers.

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  @stephr98598 күн бұрын

  I had poor boundaries and married a psychopath. Now, my two adult kids identify with him and have scapegoated me. Hardest thing to walk away. Also 100percent necessary. They would just be taking sick pleasure in harming me.

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  @ruthreuter98138 күн бұрын

  He asked me to be exclusive. Showed me his world. Introduced me to his beautiful daughters. The day after, he back tracked on being exclusive. I left and left him a note saying goodby. I felt betrayed, abandoned. How could he introduce me to his family, but not know if he wanted to be with me. I had a change of heart and asked if we could continue and he refuses to speak with me. I know I hurt him by leaving, but he also broke my heart. He refuses to give me a second chance. I am heartbroken. 💔

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  @jeannedouglas99129 күн бұрын

  Curious how stoicism philosophy disregards the birth families or the birth tree and all such envy and jealousy within such small family systems and subsequent harmful actions. A free ride by blood to use and abuse? V

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  @user-ic9yw2qw9s9 күн бұрын

  Death is the only freedom from this shit show called life. Influenced and controlled by others who are much more devious and evil than you can imagine. So much for gods love and protection

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  @WisdomIsMineee9 күн бұрын

  The most important bit is missed ..that is don't argue with idiots ..u can't woke up a guy who is acting like sleeping ..either destroy your enemy or stay away fro them but never compromise with fools

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  @user26z269 күн бұрын

  Thank you so much for sharing. I could learn lots.

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  @StoicRealms8 күн бұрын

  You are so welcome!

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  @NoiRosales9 күн бұрын

  You know maski ano pa gawin ko mag Isa la g ako maski ano pa ang isabi ko totoo di yan paniwalaan,

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  @baybramillion92638 күн бұрын

  I believe you ❤

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  @kalibudlakou8 күн бұрын

  Jis ba yo vag bébé.

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  @michealwatts61079 күн бұрын

  Awesome. Great timing. I needed to hear this today.

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  @sylviaguenther-zc9lg9 күн бұрын

  Me too✌️🦋

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  @StoicRealms8 күн бұрын

  So glad!

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  @armiebarr7259 күн бұрын

  I learned to calm by listening what life challenges, prepared to improved my life.

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  @doremifasolatido-ro7zs9 күн бұрын

  my husband always says no to me it's late to know that he's kinda insecure of the success i could achieve i thought he's trustworthy but i was wrong now im living in depression and miserable life.

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  @baybramillion92638 күн бұрын

  well don't be insecure like he was... believe in yourself ❤

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  @thefarmersdaughter82358 күн бұрын

  Why should you be depressed because of him. Make new plans and do them!

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  @moniquesleyser6897 күн бұрын

  And leave and live for yourself!

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  @robynmoore78477 күн бұрын

  Very sad 😭.. I was married 30 plus years. My spouse passed away. I don't want to get tangled again. Even though I had a good marriage. Men are not like they used to be.The world is in a bad shape. I will stay to myself.

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  @Canadian-DP6 күн бұрын

  Have your own life. Do not cling to your husband for support. One day he may not be there and you will be forced to thrive on your own.

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  @OSTARAEB49 күн бұрын

  I had a “friend” now passed that I came to realize his disdain and envy for me. He would rarely look at me and shift his gaze away and never compliment me if I achieved something. I came to believe he was NPD and had self-loathing.

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  @kalibudlakou8 күн бұрын

  Silent treatment…. I am doing that as we speak

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  @OSTARAEB47 күн бұрын

  @@kalibudlakou that’s what I should’ve done but this was years ago before I had any education on personality disorders. I’d call him and knew he was home but engaged in other “phone lines” which apparently were more important than me. I eventually expressed my years of irritation in an email with ended a twenty-five year “friendship” I realize never was. In retrospect, I believe he was NPD and his friend called me to say he passed in his sleep in 2019. Yes, silent treatment and slowly disengage and at some point they’ll realize what’s going on. If they truly valued your friendship, they wouldn’t have treated you in such a bad, abusive manner.

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  @Canadian-DP6 күн бұрын

  Sometimes a person cannot look into your eyes because they have been bullied. A person who deals with contempt learns to be critical.

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  @edgawrysjr3 күн бұрын

  Glad you realize it now thanks for sharing that🎉