11 WAYS how KINDNESS can have NEGATIVE effects on your LIFE | Marcus Aurelius STOICISM
11 WAYS how KINDNESS can have NEGATIVE effects on your LIFE | Marcus Aurelius STOICISM
🔍 Discover the profound teachings of Marcus Aurelius and Stoicism, uncovering 11 ways in which excessive kindness may inadvertently lead to negative effects on your life. Join us on a journey of self-awareness and practical Stoic wisdom as we explore the delicate balance between kindness and personal well-being. Embark on a thoughtful exploration of Marcus Aurelius's wisdom and Stoic teachings, unraveling the potential downsides of unbridled kindness.
🌟 In this video, we cover:
✅ Learn to say no when necessary.
✅ Foster independence in your relationships.
✅ Maintain emotional equilibrium while helping others.
✅ Sometimes, kindness requires firmness.
✅ Ensure your well-being before aiding others.
✅ Recognize the difference between sacrifice and self-sabotage.
✅ Empower others to take charge of their lives.
✅ Focus on those who reciprocate kindness.
✅ Foster skills and resilience in others.
✅ Be mindful of where you invest your emotional energy.
✅ Cultivate calmness in the face of challenges.
🌟 Join us on this introspective journey as we integrate Stoic insights into actionable wisdom for finding balance between kindness and personal well-being.
🔍 Here's what you'll learn:
00:00 - Intro
01:07 - 1. Misplaced Kindness.
04:02 - 2. Enabling Behavior.
07:24 - 3. Ignored Boundaries.
10:17 - 4. Self-Sacrifice at a Cost.
13:11 - 5. Blind Trust and Betrayal.
16:28 - 6. Exploited Generosity.
20:10 - 7. Misunderstood Motives.
23:35 - 8. Unwanted Interventions.
26:38 - 9. Guilt Tripping and Manipulation.
29:53 - 10. Unrealistic Expectations.
33:21 - 11. Cultural Dissonance.
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Yes I have been v v kind to people and then have found that I have been exploited. It is amazing what people will do.I have spent time with people at all 'levels' of society and then found my genary been taken down the path.I am actually bored with kind of dynamic.I have learnt to not share my personal details with anyone. I no longer put trust in people that are not competent in understanding. I do not have time in eg confiding with people who actually have an interest in white acting. I am v v compassionate however there are strong boundaries.Words of experience .Silence is often better than share in stories for ill gain.
@blessedbeyondmeasure7504
5 ай бұрын
My same experience
Wow!! Great examples!!! Thank you for sharing, summarizing and applying so much wisdom into our daily living. Wish everyone could understand the value of your teachings!!!
@StoicRealms
5 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
Wow, now I understand the meaning of Compassion ❤
Tks. much.
Im more silent now a days
@blessedbeyondmeasure7504
5 ай бұрын
I too. It is the best way
I Love this station Lenora young Savannah Georgia
Thank You
@StoicRealms
5 ай бұрын
You're welcome
I have discovered that it is fine to be kind to some . But, to be indifferent to many others
yeah in my own so called existence I'm tired of being nice cuz no matter what one does they always end up getting f*cked !!!!!!! though I'm still nice to certain people just because that's who I am I know in myself personally I have changed but not for the better , I use to be a people person once long long ago but now that's all changed ever since an ex parent betrayed me behind my back , oh i'm not feeling sorry for myself , nawww i'm just not caring about it any more it's like now i have a I don't care attitude now , as Joker once said in one of his Joker quotes , I'm not heartless , I've just learned how to use my heart less. and i quite like this Stoicism teaching. this is like just up my alley :) . love ya man.
@matthewnelson9809
3 ай бұрын
is that right right maybe you shpould be into some one my type they fit my personality only im not aviaable i onbly ment they do to my type. fyi i prefer females in there late twentyu arounf my age most women my age are about tro be berron andi plan to makre my mom a semi family with me on the side they arwe the type that like to take direction and let you plan fot plain and stanard wirth resirised plat ifthat paink kind
@matthewnelson9809
3 ай бұрын
you remind me of a voda by picture
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It's 444 on the clock ✌️♥️😄
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but of course Forgiveness is always a must for me personally but it doesn't mean that I personally will continue to tolerate any down playing of my feelings and thoughts and Spiritual beliefs , Be careful what you tolerate your teaching people how to treat you. - from the Joker quotes.
Stoic af ftw up in dis bish lol I can haz +1 10/10 would follow into battle. This, weed, and paradoxical intention, assist BIG in my seeking a insouciant default mode when attempting my negotiations alongside this volatile mortal coil of horror
All good deeds are supposed to be rewarded by God and not people in the ultimate. You please God most of all when you are kind. If youre not kind,you do not live up to humanity's purpose of displaying the Image of God. You are darkness without kindness.