I'm going to try staring in peoples eyes more and utter less words. The pregnant pause, the looking at my watch. "Ill get back to you", and don't. Change my phone number with the first time they jump or try to jump my boundary. My peace is number 1.

No contact. They never change

@freedomutopuia

2 ай бұрын

Exactly this ... Unfortunately ...

@chessmaster2649

2 ай бұрын

I am 49 years old am just now fully accepting the truth of your statement.

@chrisdanclair3389

2 ай бұрын

Dam right 🙌🏾💯💯💯

@tammyfitzgerald5336

2 ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@catherinewindsor1654

2 ай бұрын

SO true!

Ignore toxic people at all gave me a power over them!!! Make them feel little and unimportant!! ❤Love your videos, how I wish I get round this video before I even know this kind of Pest of Societies.

@StoicRealms

Ай бұрын

Yes! Thank you!

@CelesteDeVonne7258

Ай бұрын

Applause! 🎉 On Point! ☝️

Hell NO never again!

Great content, as usual. When Stoics engage others it's suggested not to act in a selfish or ego-driven manner while some would even speculate that avoiding evil is also a worthy goal when engaging the sensibilities of difficult people. Pushing people one way or another has built-in risks that can be completely unknown, even with the best intentions.

@miachevais4154

2 ай бұрын

Interesting..and I can understand that.

@CelesteDeVonne7258

Ай бұрын

💯 Agree! Alcoholics are the "worst manipulative jerk offs" they feel so "entitled" 🤨

What happens when you don’t have supportive people. What happens when the narcissist is your “wife”, who you share 2 young kids with and don’t want to lose your family? The answer can be expensive!

@mightywarrior3498

Ай бұрын

I’m here for answers too. My child’s father (whom I’m still in a relationship with) deems me to be a narcissist and KNOW DAMN WELL IT AINT ME…what shall I do??

@leticianunez6647

Ай бұрын

Leave, it is better for your children. Get help from a therapist

@oozziehalifa4435

13 күн бұрын

@@leticianunez6647 that’s the easy answer. Step up the wisdom B!

@tammyfitzgerald5336

10 күн бұрын

We destroying the kids sad

Go no contact, they try to get attention. When you ignore them, get on with your life, they find ways of tormenting you to get attention. Spray weedkiller over plants, take parcels from your doorstep, take bird food from your bird feeders. Neighbours make strange noises that annoy you, such as low bass sounds. Leave them on when they are out. Wake you at night with sounds that come from a speaker on their side of the wall or ceiling. What is a person being pursued by the narcissist meant to do?

I feel that in my relationship the narcissist the one that truly has abused me with his words throughout time the one had the one who has Honestly made me question my own judgments making myself think that I'm the narcissist and I'm the manipulator he's so well trained on being a narcissist I feel as if I've become like him

When I go no contact, I’m accused of being a narcissist doing a narcissistic dump. What is it discard? That’s the word accusing me of doing a discard makes me just like them.

It seems like I'm under constant scrutiny talked about hollering finger pointing im trying hard to keep silently as of now I have no support using doesn't help constantly. judge God made us equal gave all I could for twenty years im sandy I'm hurting and Im angry I do have boundaries 😢

I had to watch this one. You know the saddest thing about certain people vis they eventually kill the goose that lays the golden egg. Not because they're stupid, but because they're disconnected. And they're often the most courageous, intelligent people! That's why arguing with them often is impossible and they bring out your aggressive side. My boyfriend's ex twice attacked him with a knife. The 2nd time he was lucky to live. To his credit he refused to give evidence to put his ex away, because of the children. But he's something else.I must need this *ucking challenge!😂

Wonderful advice. Thank you.

@StoicRealms

2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

Biggest narcissist. Is my older brother . I have my own fab shop. , plus another shop he wanted to split rent on . I help him doung metal work for him . Nothing in return . Hasnt paid his rent share for months yet thinks he has most authority over it , complain my sons truck is in the way . Yet his shit is always in the way , and i pay employees to move his shit around to access my stock some times . He wants wants wants , and take take take . When i get upset. Or bring it up . To start the unfairness of this deal. He cant understand why im angry? . Yet if ut was the other way around . I would never get away with it

Run and learn so you call em out ❤❤❤❤

Thanks for the information 🙂👍

Thank you ❤❤

THANK YOU

I have a narcissistic sister.

@arnelevans4803

18 күн бұрын

I do too

yes!

I learned how to be calm. But he just takes more advantage of me . And prolongs the not paying rent and get more shit for free . Takes what ever he wants when hes here

Nice

I thought this was how to deal with a narcissist, not what a narcissist. I’m looking for how to deal with someone who is one.

I did

I pray for my ex wife narcissist to regain sanity only to go insane from normality.

Sir my wife is a narcisissist she made my life hell , she has ruined my life physically , mentally , spirituality and financially , i am totally broken , I am suffering alone and excepting my death .

@Herr_Brechmann

Ай бұрын

You won't die, you are worth being loved don't let yourself get gaslit into suicide because someone else hates himself and can't heal

@Mel-ou2jg

Ай бұрын

It hurts very much. You never deserved that. Love yourself.

I’ve been punished I done with this foolishness

Narcissists run for office.

I have nothing to do with your hierarchy, and never will

Thay r evil.mine is .after 20years I left.theirs so much to say but I can’t say all of it.i don’t have time.all i can say is run run like hell.

Pretend the person was out government

You must be a narcissist by just wanting to punish one. Is this a subliminal You needing punishment?

@miachevais4154

2 ай бұрын

Haha you could be right!

@chessmaster2649

2 ай бұрын

I believe that was intended as a click bait statement.

@Prishtinka

2 ай бұрын

Maybe, borderline.

@wendyshannon6949

Ай бұрын

When you have been through the pain of one, you won't care anymore

Too much emphases on professional help. Real strength is doing it on our own.