Distance from them is the best way to negative people

@ChriztineGamble

Ай бұрын

What if they live with you?

@christelmayer

Ай бұрын

Get affordable psychological help, or leave the person. You will never win with a narcissist!

@DjBonds-ex3iv

27 күн бұрын

❤🎉❤🎉 TRUE ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤

@DjBonds-ex3iv

27 күн бұрын

​@@christelmayer❤🎉 NARCISSIST NEVER TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR ANYTHING.😂🎉😂🎉😂

@DjBonds-ex3iv

27 күн бұрын

GREAT VIDEO 🥰💘💌☄️🌠 SHINE THE LIGHT ON THE TRUTH... ONLY A FEW ARE WORTHY OF A BATTLE 👀😎🎶🎧😇✨😇✨😇✨😘🎁🎇🎁🎇🎁😇💪💪💪💪✍️🙏STEP BACK, GET QUIET, DON'T ARGUE , LEAVE , SAY SERENITY Prayer, GO TO A TWELVE STEPS RECOVERY MEETING, TALK TO A PERSON IN RECOVERY, TALK TO YOUR THERAPY GROUPS, TALK TO A THERAPIST ❤ LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

"The best revenge is to unlike who performed the injury" - Marcus Aurelius

@placebojesus5652

Ай бұрын

Or worse, unsubscribe.

@brianjacob8728

Ай бұрын

the Roman Facebook. who knew...

😊my dad used to say"dont argue with idiots"he was so brilliant ❤

@winstonmatthews2713

2 ай бұрын

❤You know why, 🎋🌾Because you would just be stupid just like them, 🎋🌾

@WhiteBirdMustFly2

2 ай бұрын

Practice Your Stoicism’s, It is logical and while being assertive, one Can Win In Their Game Of Words, while still being kind. Wrestling with Pigs, never worked, as it is foolish, and lowers you to their kinds level. A wise man fights with words, not fists, my Grandpa said.

@dacunomaximino1624

2 ай бұрын

not "brilliant" rather be luck of patience...

@doctokdoes434

Ай бұрын

Another good one is ‘never debate a moron’ or ‘morons shout the loudest’

@Originalwisdom2024

Ай бұрын

Silence is the power that conquers all types of emotions

To argue with a fool makes you a bigger fool. a fool like to prey on your fears, when they are the fearful one. I don't even dignify them. Love this wisdom.💞💞💞

@ursulaschlapbach311

Ай бұрын

Great 🎉❤🎉

@lemostjoyousrenegade

Ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯♥️‼️

@user-xc7zs5jz5t

Ай бұрын

Play fool to catch wise

Limit the amount of time around negative people and male sure there is a clear purpose while in their presence. Stay confident but kind 😇

Anyone that learned and practiced Ancient Greek philosophy has a successful life. Thank you!

controling and acknowledging your emotion is key

@LocNguyen-fc6ct

2 ай бұрын

Would the US and UK governments allow a person of a different nationality and their nationality to run the US and UK governments? Because I am a Russian girl with dual citizenship. I want to run the US and British governments. Who knows the answer? Please give me an answer. Thank you I am a Vietnamese Communist. But I also have US citizenship. Can I run the United States government in Congress. I am a Russian politician. Can I run the US government and the British government?

@Mina.15

Ай бұрын

@@LocNguyen-fc6ctgo ask Joe

_MY BEST WAYS TO FIGHT MY ENEMIES BACK ARE PRAYING THEM. THAT THEY WILL KNOW THE LORD JESUS CHRIST. AMEN. ONLY GOD HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE US ALL._

Learning how to deal with haters is challenging. It pays to learn even if corrupt and bad people think you have lost and they have won. Refuse to play their zero sum games that are rigged against you. Know that you are right, even if haters disrespect you. Realize that many people are driven by misperceptions, delusions, emotions, and not logic. Realize that some people are just impossible and evil and cannot be appeased and look for so called errors to exploit.

@frankie7508

12 күн бұрын

No do not engage, but rather set healthy boundaries.

You can’t perceive life through their eyes if they are pathological narcissist if you aren’t one. Run!

He who rules his will, is stronger than he who rules a city.

@yeswing10

14 күн бұрын

From the Holy Bible

I already know how.. Examine everything.. Always examine what they hide.. My mother's teaching. Take them down quietly. Pick your battle quietly with delay. Everyone has something to hide.. Then sometimes let it ride.. For some.. Hold the tongue.. For some! Not for all.. Using your battles wisely. 👌🏼 🌹 💖 🐦

@riviclaye615

2 ай бұрын

A lot of these tactics will not work with a narcissist. These tactics could put you in harm's way. With a narc: 1. Don't engage AT ALL (if possible) 2. Block/Delete/Ignore 3. Gray rock 4. Run!!!

@revathia5258

Ай бұрын

​@@riviclaye615l

@janedoe8446

9 күн бұрын

@@riviclaye615 Thank you for the reminder!!

Don't fight every battle some just sit back pray hold every word and actions

I love your voice. It sounds so calm and trustworthy ❤

Think before you act,react.

Yes, Right!!! all hard work on our shoulder. To make sure others are OK. We are extremely mature and confident. Runn away from ignorance... don't try to teach them.❤ Don't forgive Egoistic person, they will never change.

Speak calm yet firm

"No man is free who is not master of himself"Epictetus

@Anna_Key

Ай бұрын

I'm glad you spelt that name. The captions wrote Epic Teeters, Epic Tattoos, Epic Teachers. I knew that couldn't be right.

@emaniwright5921

14 күн бұрын

I like Epictetus he was a true jedi master and those words still ring true today!!!!

I don't believe in letting everyone get away with wrong. I like to address it in a way and help them correct it. Especially with customer service or racism. ❤🎉

@randychris5031

Ай бұрын

Exactly bro 😎 some situations need to be dealt with squarely😊

@ChrisKHensley

Ай бұрын

​@randychris5031 I found myself in a work situation where an African American woman made a racist comment about white people in the workplace. I thought about my options. Should I hit her? Well, no. Should I taddle on her? Well, what would the end result be? Instead, I considered maybe this is her own insecurity and it makes her feel more empowered. Surely, it represents her as being more shortsighted. Perhaps it's best to just allow her to keep being her, and not let it bother me. In this dilemma, where I feel like everyone should be able to work in a place without discrimination, I weigh the odds, provide charity to the perpetrator of this disrespect, and end up with the best result.

@user-cw4zv5mn2i

Ай бұрын

Make sure you won't regret it afterwards though

@charlottengobeni606

Ай бұрын

True but I do that with empathy

@stevenweiss2148

16 күн бұрын

The police do not either. That's why you should call the police instead of being charged breaking the law yourself

Sometimes its our ex friends who turn into enemies

@sanelisiwedlamini7142

Ай бұрын

That's why I don't have freinds 😊

@fallonrappaport5270

Ай бұрын

They were always enemies under the guise of friendship

@Clevelandsteamer324

17 күн бұрын

Betrayal never comes from our enemies

@patsiebentley111

10 күн бұрын

That's the worst kind !

True love🩷 Never gives up. Love ♥️,and patience always wins💖

Sometimes a battle fought and lost may not be a loss but a planting of seeds of longer term change in your favor.

I am a student who is learning a lot. I am also applying these skills to my own life. I am sharing Stoicism with my family and friends. We need new knowledge especially about how to use our minds in positive ways. I love these powerful teachings. Thank you. God delivers on time.

@StoicRealms

3 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@user-kb2pd8pi4s

3 ай бұрын

Amen

Its not the surface of what another person is saying..your right, its their depths, what is really going on, behind it all. Thank you 😊

Sometimes I like to win because I don't like wrong motives of others 🙏

I stayed until the end! Gratitude🏁👍🏾

@user-cw4zv5mn2i

Ай бұрын

Make sure you are not altered for bad through the process, it wiser to not stress it too much. Move on when you have to. Change it

Never trust nothing, Always look deeper. Question, Observe that person! They lie. You will know it. Through your question again! Quite battles with silence is a battle to win on how you decide to do it! What hurts them the most! What's taken away from them that they like getting etc.. My mother was a smart teacher.. 👌🏼

I am so much in need of a teacher . I am a willing student, awaiting for my teacher to show themselves. I am desperate and at my lowest which as a result, I am willing to do what ever it takes to master these skills.

@mauritaschut8466

3 ай бұрын

I understand where you are coming from but something to remember is that when we are desperate for anything, it opens the door to all kinds of charlatans and con artists who will happily take advantage of our desperation. Desperation is the opposite of stoicism. However, I empathize with being very thirsty for knowledge and understanding, and that drive and desire can be the perfect catalyst to learn and incorporate really useful ideas, knowledge, and wisdom. Do you meditate? Not that you have to, of course, but it's a really great place to really ground yourself and start getting in touch with your own higher wisdom. The more you adopt it as a daily practice, the more everything starts to make more sense, and you start seeing yourself and the world from a whole new, amazing perspective. And absolutely, start learning from experienced, wise teachers that walk the talk, while also always checking in with your own intuition. There are a lot of resources online, you do not NEED a "guru" these days like we did in the past because there is a plethora of information at our disposal and we can so easily look up questions we have and find GOOD answers that RESONATE with us. Be open, curious, and eager to learn while retaining healthy skepticism. I have found many great teachers online, including on KZread, whether from this Era or those who have passed over, and they have helped me a lot. But just because I respect and appreciate them and their opinions does not mean I just accept everything they say. I always keep in touch with my higher wisdom through meditation, which really helps me weed out stuff that doesn't resonate. (And if u aren't a meditator and want to learn, a great place to start is with guided meditations; Brian Scott's meditations are among my favorite on YT, but there r a lot of other really great options) Aaron Abke's "Mind Science" series is great for all things to do with understanding and dealing with our ego. Michael Singer is an older guy whose written some well-known, life changing books (like the Untethered Soul) and he has a great podcast on YT. Oh man, there's so many, it just depends what your cup of tea is. If i started a list, i dont know where it'd end!There are teachers from every different Era, from all around the world, and whether you read their stuff, listen to audio books of their writings/works (if u cant buy them, there r lots for free on YT) or they have podcasts/shows, you have lots of free access and lots of perspectives. As you go along, you realize that the really good ones have a lot in common, just different ways of expressing their thoughts and different things they focus on. Just remember, you don't have to learn it all in a week, a month, or a year. You will happily spend the rest of your life learning, just like they did/do. That's what brings wisdom. I'm sorry for the long rant, I hope it was at least a little bit helpful.☺️🙏💫 Have a wonderful day🌞

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3 ай бұрын

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@DesireeDore

3 ай бұрын

My teacher once told me: when you're looking for a teacher, stop. Because it is wasteful to look outside of yourself for guidance. You and those who work on your behalf (guides, guardians, ancestors, angels, ect) are the best teachers you could have. * When you're looking outside, you ignore the inside. You are Creator. You are Spirit experiencing humanity. Every drop of wisdom you desire is already yours. You just have to tune in and let go of doubt. Find validation within yourself. Learn to honor what resonates with you and works against you. Tap in and listen. And if you're still looking for a teacher, I would recommend the Four Agreements if you haven't read it already. Most of my teachers I've never met in person, but their role in my life is no less great than those I have! Many blessings. 🩶

@DesireeDore

3 ай бұрын

BTW the teacher that gave that advice... and I didn't realize this till after I wrote the comment... is named Carol Rogers. Thought that was a really cool synchronicity. 🎉

In times of doubt and uncertainty, lean on God's promises. He is faithful to His word and will sustain you through every trial. Take courage, for He is with you always. Amen.

@daliahpitter2737

Ай бұрын

❤❤❤ facts

@mbrilliB

12 күн бұрын

Amen

@davemojarra4734

7 күн бұрын

Do you have evidence for your assertions?

The message is very good. Using AI to read the text with all the pronunciation errors tends to cheapen the delivery as the listener is being drawn to the mistakes, rather than concentrating on the lesson.

Asking the Holy Spirit to bribe my tongue and shut my mouth. This is good teaching, on time for me. I am eighty and still learning. Love Forgiveness is my passion; people place, things and myself. Sending ❤😮😇🎁

All disputes are imbedded in competition which lives in the Ego. Allowing the awareness to first realize the effects of the any disputes may give the best results and peace empowers.

Excellent advice for a lifetime practice. Thanks Sir for wisdom truthful invaluable quotes

@StoicRealms

9 сағат бұрын

Very welcome

It`s so good to know that although we may have better technology than societies in the past, there have always been people who were struggling with the same personal conflicts as we do today. Even thousands of years ago, some people were incredibly intelligent and wise, and their incredible findings are still echoing through time, waiting to be heard and put to use. Nothing is as captivating as the enigmatic psychology of every single fellow man. Everyone's inner life has its own unique fingerprint.

@user-oz8wx5gi5j

5 күн бұрын

That's not true. They've actually dumbed down society on purpose.

❤thanks for sharing your knowledge and words of wisdom which will help us in our everyday lives it's much appreciated.

@StoicRealms

2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome

❤😂🎉 never argued, listened to how my needs and dreams never matter, silent responses avoided a punch in the face, then did what I wanted joined with my children. In hindsight never had family fun. Remaining childlike joining in their curiosity I taught how to! Recovering and healing many wounds. Process got me in zombie rx drug fog, because I was vulnerable. I never bought into pop culture. BREATH and SMILE they don't get me let alone understand. Light dimmers gone ❤

You’re wife so lucky to have you because your voice so wise😊 Terimakasih 🇮🇩

@StoicRealms

2 ай бұрын

Thank you! 😃

Thanks!

@StoicRealms

9 сағат бұрын

Welcome!

These 13 ways are really cool and amazing. I will apply it in the future. Thanks for sharing. 😀

Thank you for this information 🙏🏻

@StoicRealms

Ай бұрын

My pleasure

Thanks for sharing. Numbers 12 and 13 so inspire. 🙏💕

@StoicRealms

3 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

COOPERATIVE EFFECT FOR COMMON GOAL❤❤❤❤❤

When someone asks me what I think about..........fill in the blank........I just say I have NO OPINION. Shuts them right up. Of course, I have an opinion, but it's none of their business!

@goldineperdon2076

2 ай бұрын

Lesson of acute insight.😅

How about the offender/enemy is the one who is so calm and relax?

Listening is essential the best way to learn and understand how to solve problems. Thank for your gold advice.🙏🙏🙏

@StoicRealms

2 ай бұрын

My pleasure

I was also told if you show out in that spot you will get corrected in that same spot, so be careful. Everyone doesn't have your same teaching We mostly behave according to how we had to survive in a certain environment. So, coming from the hood, you had to be very firm so no person could think they would run over you or get you in trouble. So, being a leader meant this at times . If you hit me, I will hit you back to get you off of me. Only in certain situations don't But when you are dealing with the enemy, you can't show signs of fear. Not where I am from, you will get eating alive. So change according to your environment 💪🏽😇💗However don't go around doing bad do good.

@notagain779

Ай бұрын

@sheilacarter3806, This is interesting from the perspective of gun violence in some big cities. I was once on a jury, where a man from the hood was on the stand, accused of murder. He started to explain how it was necessary to have a gun. To my surprise, the judge let him speak for quite a long time, and asked him questions about the culture of the hood. His answers were enlightening, and gave all of us on the jury a perspective we hadn't considered. He basically felt he couldn't trust ANYONE. He was scared all the time. Very vigilant. He looked and acted dangerous, he said, because he felt he had no choice. I thought, wow, he has courage to say all of this stuff when there were many people from the hood in the courtroom as observers of the case. It was a very interesting but complicated case, involving a number of people trying to pass the "hot" smoking gun off, to pin the murder on another guy. I was glad the judge encouraged him to speak.

Self mastery.......Place no one above you........unconditional self love........

@user-cw4zv5mn2i

Ай бұрын

In christianity self love is a sin especially over God. Love God and seek solutions

Does this work if you are up against a narcissist?

I am ready Sir ❤

Practical tips have been given... Excellent ..

Thanks ❤.

Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us ❤

@StoicRealms

2 ай бұрын

My pleasure 😊

@user-pf3ht3tc6r

5 күн бұрын

It's good advice to always learn about ourselves because sometimes anger hurt humiliation takes over before we can understand what's happening

This is excellent guidance, in a nutshell, stay calm and unemotional, determine why a person feels the way they do and foster a team approach toward a resolution. But I would disagree with the title of this video, you shouldn't want to destroy anyone, and anyone you would consider an enemy is someone who has such character flaws that there could never be any meaningful and lasting resolution....with these people just quietly walk away.

@peggylittle1979

2 ай бұрын

I thought the same thing when forwarding this video to friends. I told them to ignore the title and just listen to the message because there is nothing menacing in it. On reflection, I think the enemy being destroyed here is one's own self, when one is seeking revenge and/or angrily jumping to conclusions. I happily saw this program 3 days ago and used its advice not only to delve into my past to understand my grievances but helped my angry and perplexed daughter begin to look into her own, and now after decades of mistrust I think we have begun to try to understand and better communicate.

So much to learn. I think im late learning this strategies but so thnkful that ive been following yiu now. And make great difference to response in a very intellectual manner.

@StoicRealms

Ай бұрын

Great to hear!

I noticed that much of this is taught in scripture. One thing that stands out though is the lack of glory due to god . A great assessment of national theology perhaps but would need the light of the word of god to interpret rightly. Thank you for this friend, learned much

@MG-ot2yr

2 ай бұрын

That's because religions basically hijack good virtues and reassigns their source to a god, rather than a natural characteristic of the evolved human psychology. The main problem with this misconception is the adherent doesn't develop an inner moral conscience on the basis of empathy, compassion, sympathy and a sense of fairness, instead is motivated by fear of punishment and reward in the afterlife. It can also have tragic negative impacts when scripture is misused to motivate an otherwise good person to do evil things.

@shampersaud2763

2 ай бұрын

@MG , All these wisdom came from GOD ,AND GUIDED INTO HOLY SCRIPTURES.....WHETHER YOU BELIEVE OR NOT....

@Etj1313

2 ай бұрын

@@shampersaud2763Nope God isn’t real! The all caps, clearly shows us your not paying attention to the video. Lol

@msoliver101ify

2 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing. Great point.

@violetagabutan2811

Ай бұрын

Thank you! I've learned so much.

Super🎉...amazing inspiration. Thank you for the kind words of motivation.

@StoicRealms

2 ай бұрын

Most welcome 😊

@tonyoffofficiel9200

2 ай бұрын

​@@StoicRealmsooôôļļķķķ

Thank you

Thankyou I am facing this problem I don't know why❤

Big thanks to the channel owner for such an amazing video! Understanding how to manage our emotions is truly the key to success in life.

@StoicRealms

Ай бұрын

Our pleasure!

Thanks for the help ,Thanks for the time, Thanks for your wisdom

@StoicRealms

10 күн бұрын

My pleasure!

You did it again

As human nature, the opponent always want to win the disagreement and he will become hostile if he is insulted. I highly appreciate the lesson that rather than trying to win the disagreement, let's try to find a solution

Exactly 😊

Thank you ❤

@StoicRealms

Ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

I wish our world leaders today learn, at least some of this timeless, Stoicism wisdom in order to overcome the divide and to create a bridge of understanding. If they, at least, seek comprehension rather than dominant, world would be much safer place to live. "Not me, but us"...This, life-vital stoic's technique, should be taught in our schools instead of brainwashing stupidity.

Wht there might not mean that we do not need any conflict - we only have to learn to get along with it, for avoiding bigger conflicts.

Very wise!

😮 true advices

Nice video

@StoicRealms

3 ай бұрын

Thanks

What if all of this doesn’t work? If only agreeing with them, having empathy and you are left with blame and shame? I statements do not work because they are done, with their demands and leave you insulted, while they are unwilling to hear you? What if they respond with “I’m sorry, that You Feel That Way”. “I don’t want to talk about it any more”, as soon as they finish talking, and you would like to respond, but are cut off by their unwillingness to hear anything you would like to say, except that you agree with them about everything that they say… My therapist and best friend, say it’s toxic for you with her only allowing her children to mediate. Letting go will need to happen, so I left unpaid and unheard by her. I forgave and don’t feel bad. I feel freed. 😊

@faridahusna2163

2 ай бұрын

You've broken my ribs😂😂😂

Thanks ❤👍

@StoicRealms

Ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

Amazing content bro!

@StoicRealms

10 күн бұрын

Appreciate it!

CALM , CLARITY, LOVE, PEACE ☮️, UNDERSTANDING, EMPATHY ❤❤❤❤❤4/16/2024 🎧

Motivational uplifting

All conflict is with the self...........Others are a reflection of that conflict......everyone is you......being reflected back to you.......

What is that? Who is my enemy? Google? Microsoft? Some A.I. mob? Dare I? It reminds me of winter soup a bit of everything but not really anything. I'm done learning, you win.

In the war of ego the loser always win

@lovelocity28

2 ай бұрын

This is different. My perspective says the person with the stronger sense of self/ego will win the battle but still be apologetic.

The first scenario (be a fly on the wall) is very powerful. When heated debates occur it can become surreal anyway, take it to your advantage, be the proverbial fly on the wall. Get out of your body ride above and observe the complete scene. Listen to what is being said and review what you had said. Many times it all seems pointless or even comical. You now have the upper hand. Keep calm and now slowly and calmly act. Time is playing tricks on you and trust it is in hyper speed. Pause and remember doing nothing is often the very most powerful response. You are your own hero or champion, do not become concerned about what your antagonistic opponent thinks, consider how you will respond and how it aligns with your higher self, respecting virtue. There are bystanders and you are now speculating on how they are judging you? You can start to hear their thoughts? NONSENSE it is all a nasty game in your head, years of pre programming defending your crazy illogical ego. Stay calm do nothing walk away, or do something you are compelled to do ONLY after you are fully convinced your actions are universally beneficial. This does not include vanity by looking better than the other/s. It does include clear headed analysis, like the derogatory letter you say on for a day then decided not to send. Moments of nervous intensity and anger will come and they are a good time to do nothing, why? Because you are not at your best. Please be well! MarkMannM2

❤❤❤❤😂😂ONE MORE DAY STALKING! MY PHONE CLOWNS

Imagine how we have regressed as humanity from Stoicism to Wokism.

@frankie7508

12 күн бұрын

The real question is why? And it's my guess that it's because the public school system here in the united states has been infiltrated with communist and socialists.

@pamulahwilliams1744

9 күн бұрын

Respectfully, and the sad part is there are many who think they're woke by their interpretation and they still are not...woke...that is.😪

Exactly

He who controls his tongue controls his destiny! For a tongue can both build and destroys a nation!

Do we have any book that shares this wisdom?

Agree to disagree helps, I have found

Patience is important

❤ Nice topic and so necessary. Can you please give examples? ❤

@StoicRealms

2 ай бұрын

Yes, sure

I have read this in the bible conquering yourself, your anger is not a wise person. Angry person is a fool, so it means rage and anger can really be conquered. Delaying anger and not responding is the best solution especially when your life is in danger, really you can only compromise. Your bestfriend is yourself in any given situation.

🤞♥️this my live stoic me😊

You are the way only the way wake up 👀too sleep forever

Yes works the same today. The king only had to tell the torch holders the pitchfork people want them.

Nice

@StoicRealms

10 күн бұрын

Thanks

SHARED VALUES IN RECOVERY IN TWELVE STEPS PROGRAMS

Great info, but i feel like the AI voice is PURPOSELY mispronouncing many words😅

Am interested

Ask questions and thoroughly look over them. Ask again etc.. 👌🏼

@StoicRealms

3 ай бұрын

Good idea!

I would indeed like to know to destroy everything in existence without a fight because everything is an enemy.

Ppl need to be told why let them get away wgen they kie and harm others ? Stand up for yourself in a bice way if it doesn't work call the law the protect us

❤

Real Goon don't get in heated debates move silent

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