This. Is. How. You. Prevent. Child. Sexual. Abuse. You notice the signs. You get them help. If they stay violent, you keep them locked up. THIS SAVES LIVES.

@chaysethebadger

3 жыл бұрын

YES! This needs to be the standard. Not "it's a family matter so were gonna sweep it under the rug" I know all too well how that turns out.

@Texan-mx5ct

3 жыл бұрын

They didn’t notice but they did get help

@littlefarmhouse3953

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah like I’ve got mad respect for these parents!!!

@littlefarmhouse3953

3 жыл бұрын

Isaiah I am so shocked that he came forward and asked his parents for help, I think that means that there is some hope for him. I hope he doesn’t remain sick

@Texan-mx5ct

3 жыл бұрын

Angelique Davis if he stays self aware he will probably come close to snapping but turn himself in every time

this is his STEPMOM.. incredible woman

@Taylor-jv5od

3 жыл бұрын

I just saw that too I'm wondering where his real mom is and if she is connected to the reason why he is behaving like this??

@kithalie

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏼

@IluvAmerica

3 жыл бұрын

No she’s not

@Salma-pm4kt

3 жыл бұрын

Puddintang Gnatniddup it’s really inhuman to make stories up of something so delicate just for attention

@lillik820

3 жыл бұрын

@@puddintanggnatniddup7619 actually only around 3% of rape allegations and such are false so you would be wrong there. And in america at least 1 out of every 6 women has been molested so it's not really an uncommon occurrance.

Calling her a step mother is an insult. She is his mom. Look at what she's doing. Everything and anything she can do to help him. This woman is a pillar of strength. She's incredible, I'm in awe of her strength and determination.

@HeatherMac-ie1id

10 ай бұрын

She’s nothing more than a loving stepmom.

@Khate999

8 ай бұрын

It's not an insult to be called a step mom or a stepmother. Step mom / stepmother has become an inherently bad word that is imprinted on children's minds before they even HAVE a stepmother. From Disney movies, to Saturday morning cartoons, to sitcoms, to social commentary, to social media. Let's stop this horrible stigma. (I don't think OP meant it this way-or at least I hope OP did not- but it's how OP's post comes across.)

@lexdocampbell970

7 ай бұрын

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with calling a stepmom

@OfficialDJTasawennateken

5 ай бұрын

It doesn't change the fact that she's not his real mom She still has stepmom Get your freaking facts straight

@madnbad1408

5 ай бұрын

Ya damn right!!!!

I was sexually assaulted when I was 14. I told my therapist about it and she broke the confidentiality rule by telling my mom. My mom yelled and grounded me saying it wouldn’t have happened if I hadn’t been sneaking out. For almost 3 years I blamed myself and didn’t tell anyone else. It’s still hard for me to realize it wasn’t my fault and I wish I had a mother like this one.

@Crywenkin

2 жыл бұрын

It’s not your fault. you are so strong and I’m so sorry you went through this

@alix2021

2 жыл бұрын

You shouldn’t blame yourself. The only person at fault is the one who assaulted you, it doesn’t matter if you had snuck out it doesn’t give anyone the right to do that to you. I’m so sorry that your mom reacted so horribly :(

@Alibern7

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry that happened to you. While I don’t blame you for what happened this is a great lesson to other children to listen to their parents since there are a lot of evil people around. This is the main reason why my parents never allowed me to do sleepovers. I’m 19 so I can actually see why some parents may seem over protective, but some parents also lack explaining to their child why they’re over protective which in turn makes the children go out and discover why for themselves.

@sidedashh

Жыл бұрын

Well it is your fault, they told you not to sneak out and you did

@Lollipop.er42

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry you’re mom said that!

You’re messed up if you tell someone who was sexually abused as a child to get over it.

@starlethearlet237

3 жыл бұрын

My family after I told them my older brother's friends groomed and molested me when I was younger

@user-pg8iw1hz9k

3 жыл бұрын

@@starlethearlet237 my family told me to "get over it" and "its normal for kids to play like that" after i told then that my siblibg had raped and molested me for years when i was like 4-7 years old... Know how it feels..

@arabella4442

3 жыл бұрын

when I told my grandma (who I'm close to) what happened to me she said "why do you have to be depressed over every little thing get over it" and when I told my bestfriend "the guy who sexually assaulted me ruined my life" she said "no he didn't he was a good boyfriend' but he literally assaulted me in front of her....

@starlethearlet237

3 жыл бұрын

@@arabella4442 Oh my, I'm so sorry. And she did nothing but watch? Shame on her. God bless. I'm so sorry. I understand, I hear you, I believe you, and I love you. Stay strong luv💜💜

@user-pg8iw1hz9k

3 жыл бұрын

@@arabella4442 thats sick nobody deserves that. We are strong we are survivours ❤️

I didn’t even realize she was his stepmom because she talks about him like she birthed him and it’s amazing and kudos to her

@kailahmonroe718

3 жыл бұрын

It says it in the title 😐

@youregonnahatewhatyouvedone

3 жыл бұрын

@@kailahmonroe718 ok chill

@cheyenneholder3703

3 жыл бұрын

Kailah Monroe did she say she didn’t know or she didn’t realize

@ismagicgone626

3 жыл бұрын

Kailah Monroe nobody reads anymore

@kailahmonroe718

3 жыл бұрын

Cheyenne Holder i mean it’s pretty obvious with or without reading it , context clues , keep y’all selves educated , end of discussion .

i respect her so much for taking action and not leaving it like it’s nothing. and the fact she’s doing this for her unbiological son makes it that much more incredible

@Khate999

8 ай бұрын

It should be how a village cares for a child. Let's give stepparents the ability to be this way without being amazed. (OP I'm not saying you're rude or bad or anything on purpose, but these comments perpetuate that people in parental roles that are non-biological are as a norm-inferior or likely unable to be that permanently positive, just as valuable, just as loving, just as important, just as bonded parental figure. I'm not attacking you, I'm just saying.)

@gangoffour6690

4 ай бұрын

​@@Khate999It Takes a Village ? We know where you got that from. Actually it TAKES A MOTHER AND FATHER.

She’s his stepmother?! Wow. Props to her taking on such a difficult role. Just goes to show the expanses of a mother’s kindness and heart. You’re doing an amazing job.

I don’t care if he is not biologically hers, she’s more than a stepmom, she’s his mom, she’s doing absolutely everything she can to help him and protect her kids.

@eggy0lk333

3 жыл бұрын

and other kids** she's wonderful and everyone should learn something from her.

@jaejamieson2647

3 жыл бұрын

cherry g_rl yes correct!

@kristinpiper

3 жыл бұрын

Jae Jamieson thank you - I’m definitely trying to do what’s best for everyone - the right choices aren’t always the easy ones

@meagan2507

3 жыл бұрын

@@kristinpiper you are amazing. I pray you find peace. I can't imagine how much pain and fear you have been dealt. Your children are blessed to have you.

@kristinpiper

3 жыл бұрын

Meagan Brown thank you 🙏

i respect her so much, because he isn’t even her biological son, and she is stepping up like a boss to help him and protect others.

@NeeNee_B.

3 жыл бұрын

Well I mean, the other *five* kids are hers, right?? Lol

@eerinkailover3942

3 жыл бұрын

@@NeeNee_B. I shouldn't have laughed

@jessicagillespie9449

3 жыл бұрын

Dad's not talking much though?

@Thelegendl23

3 жыл бұрын

Tf, she doesn't like him and wants him out, the other kids are hers. Lol gtfo sheeple.

@amandaford864

3 жыл бұрын

Thelegendl23 I think she does care! Do you see her holding back emotion, trying not to cry? I’m a mother and from experience I can tell you she cares. But she also needs to look out for the other children, it’s a hard situation.

This child was groomed. I wonder who was that man that was in their lives who only wanted Robby to visit.

@peytonharrell1740

3 жыл бұрын

Not all pedophiles are groomed. Actually most are born with specifically different neurological functions. He’s also open enough to tell them about all he plans on doing so he would say that he was groomed

@angelflorez2870

3 жыл бұрын

@@peytonharrell1740 in the episode the mom sais that she had to cut a relationship off with a man that always wanted only Robby around. Also the boy said he doesn't know if he had ever done something to him. Im not talking about other instances just this specific case.

@boss_galaga94

3 жыл бұрын

@@peytonharrell1740 sounds like ur trying to defend pedophiles and avoid accountability but ok

@Brent10_ton

3 жыл бұрын

@@boss_galaga94 it doesn’t matter Robbie still had a choice to be better same as the mother who was touched as well

@yoshi-gy7sw

3 жыл бұрын

@@boss_galaga94 Well they’re saying some pedophiles are born with that brain significance that’s not defending, being born with it won’t avoid accountability you’ll still go to prison. Not saying he wasn’t groomed but for people who are born with issues

1. Robbie feeling comfortable enough (while knowing its wrong and most likely being very embarrassed by it) to go to his parents and really tell them whats going on, what hes feeling and thinking, and when he really needs help because he says hes getting dangerous is very brave of him. 2. His parents listening to him and actively trying to get him help. Not letting him be unsupervised, all of the things they are doing, is so good to see. This has most definitely stopped him from having the chance to abuse his siblings and/or other children.

@uhidk7940

2 жыл бұрын

HE SAID HE BELIEVES ITS NOT WRONG. HE DIDNT ADMIT TO IT TO TRY AND HELP OTHERS. HE DID IT BECAUSE HE FELT SO COMFORTABLE WITH HIS THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS. stop making him out to be the hero! U people are messed up

@chickennugget6849

Жыл бұрын

@@uhidk7940 thank you I've seen so many people giving the kid praise like he doesn't actively want r*** children and says he wouldn't regret it and it's sick

@rad6286

Жыл бұрын

yeah no his medical reports clearly show that he doesn’t feel any remorse nor does he believe his victims need to be protected from him. He was almost threatening his parents or bragging or something, idk. But he definitely didn’t come forward because “something in him” knew what he was doing was wrong.

@taylormarie5643

5 ай бұрын

⁠@@rad6286 He quite literally told his mom to help him or else he would do something bad. He knows it’s wrong and that it’s not normal. This is proven by his actions and words. I have no clue as to why his psych evaluations say otherwise, unless he decided to lie about knowing that it’s wrong when they were evaluating him. If so, it was probably because he didn’t feel comfortable enough to say that to people that weren’t his mom. He probably thought that it was better to SEEM unaware of how bad his thoughts are.

Get over it??? I swear some people should not be parents.

@princesssmileyface91

3 жыл бұрын

I was 21 when I told my mom what happened to me, she cried and held me, and told me she was sorry. I was floored when the lady said her mom told her to get over it.

@tigerlily9405

3 жыл бұрын

Priness SmileyFace I wish my parents were like that. I got kidnapped awhile ago. I escaped and I’m fine now but when I tried to tell my parents about it, they both told me they didn’t want to hear about it. They expect me to just get over it, but I can’t. I have nightmares and severe anxiety now and I sleep with a knife to make me feel safer :(

@tigerlily9405

3 жыл бұрын

bonsbennett Thank you. You’re very kind

@lenni332

3 жыл бұрын

TigerLily9 I’m so sorry that happened:(

@tigerlily9405

3 жыл бұрын

Helena Dobson Thank you

she was molested at 4th grade, finally had enough courage to confirm her mom about it at the age of 22, then her mom just says ''you're gonna get over it'' ... umm like when?! if she clearly hasn't till now?! Edit: I understand that the mother was hurt and maybe she said that because there was nothing to be done at that time and knows that to be healed from it is to let it go even tho it’s extremely hard thing to do

@chaysethebadger

3 жыл бұрын

"Getting over" trauma is a funny thing. Does it mean forgetting about it completely? Or becoming emotionally detached from it? I dont think that anyone gets over it. Because even if you forget. Theres still a piece that remembers. Even if you emotionally detach. There are still questions and behaviors that linger from it. I'm a 4th generation rape victim. My mother and great grandmother dont remember the assault. But there was clear evidence it happened. My grandmother was a product of it. My grandmother was raped several times. I myself remember some of the assaults that happened to me. But theres one I cant figure out, I have a deformities caused by blunt trauma. It's small and doesnt effect me much. But my gyno confirmed what type of trauma it wouldve had to have been. I was not born with it. Tho I dont remember when it happened. It haunts me almost more than the assaults I remember. I dont even have enough pieces to let go of. Just questions and fears

@nahrainyousif3961

3 жыл бұрын

@@chaysethebadger I feel for you, and i'm praying that you always be emotionally and mentally strong, may no one in your family go through it again.

@ladyfoxwf1075

3 жыл бұрын

Which is why most sexual assault victims don’t come forward

@tamararv

3 жыл бұрын

How can a MOTHER say that to someone especially her own DAUGHTER!!! It’s absolutely disgusting and no mother should put their child in that position

@nahrainyousif3961

3 жыл бұрын

@@tamararv its very sad

As a victim of molestation when I was 6 by my own cousin. I get her protectiveness towards children, the feeling of being robbed off your innocence at a very early age is traumatic it almost cost me my sanity, to the point of being detached of any emotions and the only thing I can feel is desire since I suffered being a Hypersexual, I was like a parasite hogging all the fleeting feelings i can feel in sexual pleasures and it disgusts me, it took me 14 years before I was able to tell my mother on what happened to me and she just hugged me and cry along with me.

@MisleadJACOB9391

Жыл бұрын

Man this is scary so its true that other cousins molested their female cousins

@MisleadJACOB9391

Жыл бұрын

Hey can I kill some molesters?

@wwa2016

Жыл бұрын

@@MisleadJACOB9391 all types of people can molest all types of people. cousins, siblings, uncles, even parents sometimes. it's a cruel world.

@ddear-april

6 ай бұрын

hey girly 👋I'm aware we do not know each other 😭😭 but as someone who relates to your story way too much, I genuinely hope you're better. ilysm fr 💗

@zoereesor6630

3 ай бұрын

I was SA by my cousin too when I was younger….

I'm Male and 15, and for me I was molested when i was 7-11 by this far family friend. It really does traumatize you. I had a psychologist appointment just today but I had to say that I was okay even though im not because I didn't want to ruin my family apart. My parents don't know I had a conversation with a psychologist. I have severe PTSD and during that time til freshman year of high school i was being sexually abused at school. So it was ongoing. Fortunately, thanks to Covid I don't have to see my abusers anymore. Police were informed, it became a case, but I dropped the case so my family wouldn't be in pain. I feel so sorry for the mother, I feel her pain, but what her step son did and say just triggers and disgusts me. I hope her and her family heals.❤❤

@lilchocolatetinkc6743

Жыл бұрын

Im sorry u went through that, but You shouldn't have dropped the charges

@hardware20x

Жыл бұрын

You should not of dropped the case. The abusers are now free to abuse more people. You could of stopped them and got them arrested.

@maekoh

Жыл бұрын

Even though this is 2 years later, I'm sorry you had to go through that, but dropping the case was the worst thing you could've done. In the last 2 years your abusers could've been out doing the same thing that happened to you.

@jakeraught4939

Жыл бұрын

You can’t just drop child sexual assault charges. You’re lying.

@jakeraught4939

Жыл бұрын

@@maekoh he’s lying. You cannot drop sexual assault charges as a child. The state takes over, especially if this was a school employee

This woman is very, VERY special.

@leesteal4458

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely.

@FM-yu3ug

3 жыл бұрын

Frrr

@charismaking435

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly that guy lucked up

@blackarchon8778

3 жыл бұрын

Plenty of women are in this very same position. You would be suprised i am but its my parent im trying to help.

@takingitonedayatatime7851

3 жыл бұрын

@@blackarchon8778 sorry to hear.

She is literally a mother by nature.

@tanusree4124

3 жыл бұрын

what

@frenchvanilla7109

3 жыл бұрын

Yes some women when they become Mothers they become Mothers to all children. ❤️🙏

@bleachedwhite5067

3 жыл бұрын

@@frenchvanilla7109 I love those type of women. truely, everyone can benefit from having someone like that in their lives.

@kristinpiper

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the love and support 💞 Our family deeply appreciates it. 🤗 I have created a channel for anyone who would like to continue to follow our story or see updates. Thanks again. Much love ❤️

@laotterizy

3 жыл бұрын

Im your 1000th like you deserve it for a positive comment

Thats the best thing Dr Phil ever said "its not how that works".. you cant just get over it and forget about it.. you need to talk about it

@ChristopherTradeshow

Жыл бұрын

you can tell it made her feel better when he said that

She seems so freaking sweet. God bless her. She's gorgeous inside and out. I just want to give her a hug

Don't be shy, drop the full episode

@bosagontse

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh!

@lunarec6195

3 жыл бұрын

xDD

@queeniebeanie3196

3 жыл бұрын

The water’s warm it’s fine just one episode

@allie5171

3 жыл бұрын

@@queeniebeanie3196 😭😂

@jasminetiller9712

3 жыл бұрын

ikr what's even this episode

Honestly, the kid coming to her and telling her was the strongest things he could do. Something I him knows it's wrong, and he was crying for help.

@zzzzoa3377

3 жыл бұрын

Same with gay people

@mayplaysgames7978

3 жыл бұрын

@@zzzzoa3377 lmao no buddy.

@hamsterdude1233

3 жыл бұрын

@@zzzzoa3377 Pedophiles hurt people. Gay people don't hurt anyone apart from your fragile masculinity

@elliemeow6167

3 жыл бұрын

Thats what i was thinking too. The fact he said something is interesting & shows he trusts her soo much!

@piscesgf

3 жыл бұрын

Now that you say this I'm realizing as bad as he wants what he wants, he also probably wants to protect others but this abnormal side of him is just urging him to think and feel the way he does maybe I'm wrong but theres always a possibilty I mean we dont even know this full situation yet I dont think.

You go girl!!! You put your face out there for someone that's not your blood. His mom doesn't even do that. You are stopping a prediture. I'm proud of you for being so strong.

I think that man has offended Robbie and that would explain why he is attracted to little boys and maybe he created his fantasies but Got ideas from the man

They had a man in their life???? Wtf does that mean..i dont let anyone have time alone with my son who is not my mother, brother, or father.. because ik that all it takes is 1 minute for something to completely change my son's life . Watch your kids cautiously.

@AlexB-mu8ox

3 жыл бұрын

Perhaps an uncle or a grandfather? Most children are abused by family members.

@arrived001

3 жыл бұрын

Yea id say it was a family member and they no longer recognise that person as part of the family - if that makes sense ?

@yeeepeepee6394

3 жыл бұрын

Or a friend/babysitter?

@torie29

3 жыл бұрын

Possibly the biological mothers bf haven’t watched this whole episode to get the facts but that’s my thought

@vocexseta

3 жыл бұрын

The stepmother ended the relationship though so that makes me think it may have been a neighbor or someone not family that she could easily ban? Unclear though.

Wow and not even his real mom, kudos to her for loving him unconditionally and trying to do whatever it takes literally to help him. He felt comfortable enough to go to her and tell her his feelings. That says mountains about her! Great job stepmom!

@SindyJ37

3 жыл бұрын

Heck yeah a wonderful woman and step mom

@SindyJ37

3 жыл бұрын

Sharing her own story with Robbie had to be so hard but she did it anyway. She is a selfless person who definitely deserves respect

@JenniferBrigitteOpticalVortex

3 жыл бұрын

This woman deserves the world.

@shaynarostro9136

3 жыл бұрын

She’s definitely his “real” mom

@kembren

3 жыл бұрын

Love Lasts Exactly what I was gonna say!

The poor kid is incapable of understanding he is in the wrong. A case like that cannot be solved. The sad truth is he must be kept from society permanently unless there are any changes.

@gaynamedpaul

Ай бұрын

He deserves to be loved, he needs someone who doesn't judge him and would help him understand why he has these desires

@username-lo9qr

Ай бұрын

it's sad because he actually told his parents about everything. it takes a lot of courage to confess something like that. I think that makes it clear that he also up to some level understood the hurt it could cause people and does not want to act to act on those urges. anyway he's probably 18 by now I hope he was able to change :/

I wish the best for her and her family. It’s unfortunate that most families would just sweep it under the rug. The fact that she not only believed him, but recognized the signs of his predatory behavior and got him immediate help to protect the lives of not only her son, but so many other children. This is how we prevent sexual abuse. This story is especially touching because I was also sexually assaulted myself when I was 12. It’s not something that victims just “get over.” It ruins lives.

She looks like Rachel McAdams

@Kimbrly_xo

3 жыл бұрын

I thought that toooo

@d.c.d.c.8811

3 жыл бұрын

She does! Absolutely gorgeous, I hope I age that gracefully when I become a mom

@ryoujika

3 жыл бұрын

I was wondering the whole time why she looks so familiar

@drdispekful747

3 жыл бұрын

Wanted to say that. She’s very pretty

@snickerdoodle7760

3 жыл бұрын

She's beautiful but she doesn't look like Rachel McAdams

“Have they done a brain map of this child?” As if that’s even available to the general public..

@bethanyjenkins5566

3 жыл бұрын

He's asking if a DOCTOR has done one...

@kellybroady6378

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Insurance won't be covering any brain mapping at 65,000 a pop i would agree this is not a standard to the people. Lol.

@boobax2197

3 жыл бұрын

There's a doctor in LA doing them for psychology. Saying if you have a broken arm you scan the arm so if you have a broken brain you scan the brain. It'd be worth a shot here.

@spartan123479

3 жыл бұрын

Dr phil will do it for free 😬

@christinewatson1989

3 жыл бұрын

Of course it it! For the bargain price of $8000 (after insurance).

i love when any step-parent treats their step-kids like their own, i respect her

LOCK HIM UP AND NEVER EVER EVER LET HIM OUT EVER

@annabelsspamlikeham8061

3 жыл бұрын

Yes please

@thehateking1607

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah! Kill all of the mentally ill! It’s obviously their fault they act this way!

@Katherine_xs

2 ай бұрын

😂 wait calm down

@Hamotho

Ай бұрын

he needs a hospital not a prison

What do you do with a criminal that hasn’t committed a crime, but expresses his desire to? This is a tough one to watch. *edit* I saw he has committed a crime and been caught, the question refers to his desire to offend again**

@taylorbumbum

3 жыл бұрын

He’s already assaulted two young girls

@keatonmask1918

3 жыл бұрын

He’s offended twice - both unwilling and both minors

@SaintAlessa

3 жыл бұрын

In this case, a bullet.

@TenThumbsProductions

3 жыл бұрын

Taylor Ashleigh I wasn’t aware of that, yikes, let’s say though he does his time, and gets released and says openly that he is going to do it again. How do you prosecute someone for a crime that they haven’t committed yet but will. The whole thing is creepy and I really feel for the parents.

@Hunter-ef4ch

3 жыл бұрын

TenThumbs Productions A prosecutor could attempt to use act of conspiracy which means they don’t do the crime but plan to. It would be difficult to prove though because you can’t really prosecute on a want rather they would have to find evidence that someone actively planned to commit a crime as in a journal or purchasing of equipment for the crime. It’s a legal black hole that’s difficult to prove but evidentiary if proven.

That boy should thank his lucky stars that he has a step-mother as strong as she is and that his parents contacted Doctor Phil instead of legal consequences. If he doesn’t stop he will end up in prison at 18. It’s amazing that she sees that and is trying to get him help. What an amazing lady.

@theriseoftony

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. He needs be in prison. Didn’t you read the description it says he doing it again

@whatzituya55

3 жыл бұрын

In the other video she says they're already pressing charges since the facility he's in doesn't want to help anymore and she doesn't want him to offend again. He would be put in an institution which is best for all involved tbh

@janewilks3829

3 жыл бұрын

@@theriseoftony Not necessarily prison. The fact is that he told his stepmother about these impulses and that takes courage. This young man needs a specialised institution.

@Geronimo22

3 жыл бұрын

Agree 100%

@yitaowang8547

3 жыл бұрын

Wait so the lady is only his step-mother?

People don’t just get over being molested. Sure it’s despicable to make stuff like that up, but for real victims, it’s awful

I didn’t even realize this was his step mom. This woman is amazing

I'm 25 years old man, I was sexually abused when I was 6 , my family told me to get over it and let it go. But since that day I couldn't be normal again and now I'm dealing with mental illness, my advice to anyone who has been through this don't be scared to talk it's not your fault

@Octavia-nd3br

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. Your trauma is valid.

@tommy30official64

3 жыл бұрын

Damn bro, sorry.

@felmargego2534

2 жыл бұрын

Oh damn, it's even worse because it's rare for men to come out with such experiences due to the stigma surrounding it. Wish you all the best!

@sarahnaji7848

2 жыл бұрын

@Rinka Anarchy Sometimes it’s easy to talk to stranger on internet than people in real life. At least you can’t judge them since your not in they’re position. + wanting attention from people is a mental illness too

@marraine7299

2 жыл бұрын

I tried talking. Therapists told me the same thing, or that I made it up. Hopefully you found someone who could help though. I sympathize and best of luck with healing.

It sounds like this boy has been abused. He has endured a lot of abuse when he was young. Dr Phil is right need to dig up more. Where is his real mom.

@chandraschannel6166

3 жыл бұрын

He’s not the victim here

@anthonyargueta131

3 жыл бұрын

@@chandraschannel6166 hes victim who couldn't deal with the trauma and wasn't mentally strong enough to deal with it thus he broke and started to be a sexual fiend. He's still a child but he has serious issues. Many kids have been abused and don't end up like that. At least hes tryna seek help

@anniem901

3 жыл бұрын

i honestly disagree. i think that it is brain chemistry. i do think that something happened to him as a kid that made his condition worse but pedophilia is a psychological condition that you are born with

@sqoishicasette

3 жыл бұрын

People who are in the situation like he is ... typically tend to have both, a mental or genetic component but also childhood abuse... I study psychology and there are case studies on criminals and offenders that show they have mostly endured childhood abuse of some form and also a family history of some kind... In his case could be one or both, but we dont know the whole story

@galacticjewels7856

3 жыл бұрын

sakura Of course he’s not, but there’s always a psychological reasoning behind behavior like this, and one of the most common ones for rapists and pedophiles is that they experienced similar things as children. It doesn’t make them victims or make what they did/do okay, it’s just a cause that triggers psychological behavior. It’s science.

I think it’s refreshing to hear and see a family that protects all of the children and don’t turn a blind eye.

this is horrendous to hear about a whole child coming from a 15 year old myself. thats so scary to hear. when i was younger i also got molested and i waited 10 years to tell my mom and she was so understanding because it happened to her when she was in her teens as well. my parents have been so supportive and no parent should ever say to just get over it. im so sorry for this family i genuinely feel disgusted by his thoughts

This is awful but i DO feel like there's something missing here

@rudrab658

3 жыл бұрын

Literally same

@chandraschannel6166

3 жыл бұрын

Like what ?

@Madi-dt7bo

3 жыл бұрын

Def I feel that too

@Madi-dt7bo

3 жыл бұрын

Like they aren’t talking about why he became this way

@jessicaaylwin7480

3 жыл бұрын

100% agree people aren't born like this they are made . Maybe his bio mom is a horrible person ? Or that men that they talk about raped him ? Or something there has be way more to this story

So the abused becomes the abuser. That sounds likely. I pray they can get this boy help. It's like real world vampirism, he has no choice.

@Tara-id3rk

3 жыл бұрын

That’s a very common cycle for kids who were abused. That’s why it is important that they get help to heal as early as possible

@baileyconn3363

3 жыл бұрын

Plenty of abuse victims do not abuse. It is his choice, nobody EVER has to abuse someone else just Bc they were abused

@brunetteone4082

3 жыл бұрын

He has plenty of choices ! He can choose not to repeat the cycle.

@phantomkitty0072

3 жыл бұрын

You're all right he does have a choice. But because he had been abused his cycle of appropriate behavior is messed up. He isn't going to fully understand. Plus this boy was made to feel powerless at a young age and is in a power struggle. He needs help and therapy.

@ravenclawladysedlock7191

3 жыл бұрын

The cycle of violence isn't broken by simple choices when you also have been damaged during formative years of your life. It is during that time that you are influenced so greatly that your level of what is normal is not normal at all. Not to mention brain damages can cause these behaviors, lobe damages, abnormalities etc. Yes, choices are something everyone has, however some people do not understand those choices, what their consequences are, or what to do about them.

I can't begin to imagine my child coming home and telling me this. I hope they find a way to get him the help he needs.

Need to convict this man who molested her son! Go back and find him! File a report. It's so obvious. Children don't just have these feelings. It came from somewhere!!

@CJ-pf1se

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately your wrong some kids are born with sick tendencies

@pwags7917

Жыл бұрын

Not always true

@dylananthonyriley254

Жыл бұрын

I dunno… sometimes it is…

@Dennis-nc3vw

Жыл бұрын

Why do you assume there was a man who molested his son? The buck has to stop somewhere. Somewhere down the line pedophiles are just born.

i don’t know this lady personally but i love her. she deserves the world

Where's the child's biological mom? Does their family have a history of psychosis? I wanna know

@alyailithyia

3 жыл бұрын

There is definitely a genetic component to this. Would be interesting to know more

@christinagriz3736

3 жыл бұрын

Luna Carminis not necessarily. He could’ve been groomed by the man who became obsessed with Robbie and possibly abused by him. I agree though, would definitely wanna know the family history

@ifiwsaflowridbearose

3 жыл бұрын

Christina Griz Abuse victims typically see no issues in their behavior when they get older. It would not surprise me if what that man did to Robbie scarred him for life. So if he more than likely was abused and his brain physically can’t remember. Our brains can produce things called amnesiac walls. Inevitably what they do is block certain memories in our brains from consuming us. Most people go their entire lives without realizing that they have some kind of trauma built up. This boy is self-aware though.. He knows something possibly happened. Honestly, I think he can be helped. I think with the right treatment and care he could live in society again. But that could take time.. probably a lot in this case.

@hekategoddess

3 жыл бұрын

Hello. I have psychosis, this is not psychosis. Please respect that, I’m sick of being made out to be a bad person because people aren’t educated about this topic. So much stigma in the way of people like me. I think you mean psychopathic. Have a beautiful day strangers. Keep smiling!

@Kriistall7

3 жыл бұрын

@@hekategoddess Preach 🙌

This woman is one of the strongest people I have ever seen. This story just breaks my heart more and more.

I want to give her a big hug. She deserves all of the support, and time for healing for herself. So incredibly strong

I really hope Robbie gets help because this is absolutely devastating to him, his family and victims

@kalishagibbs3797

3 жыл бұрын

There's no helping that

@adamjustadam

3 жыл бұрын

I honestly don’t know it’s just a tragic situation all around

@artisanaltoast9085

3 жыл бұрын

In another clip they said he was institutionalized, however if he has offended before his family should press charges and he should face legal consequences.

@IluvAmerica

3 жыл бұрын

Ok whatever

@kittystetson6737

3 жыл бұрын

He's been getting help, but nothing is working.

She needs a mom of the world award.

The fact that the child told her what he feels and urge to his stepmom meaning he truly respect her and want help and guidance.

Yeah no you gotta lock this kid in a cage and throw away the key f

@moneymanluce

3 жыл бұрын

^

Dr.Phil posting videos like there's no tomorrow like literally every second I get a notification...

@thambir4192

3 жыл бұрын

LMFAOOOOO Dr.Phil's got some horny girls/bots watching his videos!!!!

@moaptop5925

3 жыл бұрын

@@thambir4192 tbh they need to stay on cornhub

@thambir4192

3 жыл бұрын

@@moaptop5925 LOOOOL

@phoenixrising4448

3 жыл бұрын

And why are they snippets??? I want to see the whole show in one video...super annoying.

@evangelinemontoya5750

3 жыл бұрын

Like can’t they just put the full video 😂

Dr Phil: YA THAT’S NOT HOW THAT WORKS.

@X043ver

3 жыл бұрын

He’s horrible 💀😭

@rebecca537

3 жыл бұрын

@@X043ver when he said that it made me so uncomfy. like even if it was directed at the step mums mum, i would been offended :p

@X043ver

3 жыл бұрын

rebecca samee

@kbreezy740

3 жыл бұрын

Offers no solution 💀

@shogun4202

3 жыл бұрын

Dr phil

Such an AMAZING and STRONG woman!! I can’t imagine how much this family is hurting and it’s sad and hard to see them go through this but then again it’s great to see them trying to help Robbie and make sure he isn’t out there hurting people! I’m glad they’re trying to get this to be a better situation and definitely not surprised how they aren’t getting the help they need and deserve!!

I could never imagine how to handle news like that and the fact that she's a victim. That takes so much strength its unbelievable.

Wow looking at the old photos I hope the mother willingly lost that weight and not from stress, I hope she gets better very soon!

@JupiterXtinct

3 жыл бұрын

I thought the same. Hope they get some type of resolution

@kristinpiper

3 жыл бұрын

I have health issues as well. Thank you for the love and support 💞 Our family deeply appreciates it. 🤗 I have created a channel for anyone who would like to continue to follow our story or see updates. Thanks again. Much love ❤️

@miggy2002

2 жыл бұрын

Well she looks hot now. Really brings out her beauty.

@miggy2002

2 жыл бұрын

@@kristinpiper good luck to you and your family. It's a fascinating story, and amazing that you were able to find out early. Will subscribe!

What man? I don't understand how people let adults around their children. My parents were HAWKS with my safety.

@Boudicaisback

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly I dont let anyone around my kids I even keep an eye on adults that I've known my entire life around my kids

@FruityHachi

3 жыл бұрын

you do realize that the kid the video is about is 15, right? adults aren’t the only ones who can potentially molest a child

@jackieochoa

3 жыл бұрын

@@Boudicaisback yup, you've got too. You can't trust anyone. I've heard too many stories where it's the grandfather or the own father doing things to their kids. You've got to protect your kids. God bless

@nataliejohnson9526

3 жыл бұрын

@@FruityHachi I meant adult in relation to a child. Not the technical over 18 definition.

@FruityHachi

3 жыл бұрын

Natalie Johnson a 15 year old isn’t an adult in relation to a child in any way whatsoever

HOW CAN YOU GET OVER BEING MOLESTED THAT'S SOMETHING YOU CAN'T GET OVER

Good for Robby for feeling this way and coming forward and telling his parents. He knows it’s different, can’t help it and told the people who can help him.

What about therapy for the stepmother so she may work through her own childhood trauma 🤔🤷‍♀️

@annabelleadams2768

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr she needs individual therapy the father needs it they need marriage therapy sessions bc this has to be hard for them and family sessions

The fact the boy confided to his parents about it means he wants help. I sure hope he gets it.

I am sorry that the mother was molested as a child and now knowing that Robbie has abused other children makes me wonder if he himself was abused as a young child

Thank goodness for this women! We need more parents like this, she is very caring and has protected so many children by stepping up! 💜

My parents would have kicked me out.

@imhuemankeepURcolorsforcrayons

3 жыл бұрын

J3WLS 9k you are kind! 🙏🏾

@riggedbyrachel8390

3 жыл бұрын

Bet they don’t - but teenagers are miserable humans to be around. I was once one and now I’m raising one and trust me sometimes i look forward to him moving out - but I love my kid more than anything and I don’t want him out. Stop feeding yourself negative thoughts , re evaluate your selfish teenage tendencies and maybe respect your parents.

@rekhakushwaha48

3 жыл бұрын

Guys you need to chill. It's just a comment. And it's called MOOD. So don't hate.

@twilightedwardbella9

3 жыл бұрын

If you struggle living at home with your parents...make financial independence your goal. Get a part-time job, finish school, get as much post-secondary education as you can, be smart about your choices and you will be able to live your own life one day. Short term losses for long term gains.

@sarahdixon1943

3 жыл бұрын

If your parents really wanted to kick you out they would. Believe me. If your over 18 they owe you nothing anymore.

Is that supposed to be this boy's father? Why is he so quiet? Wth?!!..they had a 'man' in their life when we met? Are you saying that the father was sending the boy over to get molested and she came along and put a stop to it? That guy needs to say something 😠 get him Dr. Phil!

@margosieg9321

3 жыл бұрын

It probably was the biological mom's boyfriend or something

@dancer3205

3 жыл бұрын

It sounds like it was a family friend or a family member like an uncle or grandfather

@curls4theworld

3 жыл бұрын

@@dancer3205 I agree. It sounds like a relative if he was getting regular visits from the children but was able to request the boy alone as well. Those requests for just one child can be a sign of potential abuse.

@gabbyc816

3 жыл бұрын

Ahhh seriously!! I have so many questions. Who is the man? A partner? I'm so confused. Either way that man is definitely the reason the son is the way he is unfortunately.

@lostavenue4819

3 жыл бұрын

I believe the father is being quiet because he’s on the autism spectrum, so his social cues don’t function in the same way as everyone else’s. Probably why he didn’t pick up on the signs of abuse from the mentioned man like the stepmother did. But I’m not sure if that’s entirely true or not though, I saw another comment saying that the step mom had mentioned the father having autism on her face book page.

This amazing woman and mother! I watched her KZread videos and she is intelligent and compassion. Breaks my heart when he asked if she got help in her past and she said " No, sir."

These are amazing parents. Them sharing their story is helping so many people.

I'm glad she cut off that other man. Could definitely well be the answer. Having him over alone.....ya no.

I also watch Dr.Phil.

@Krzrrazrrokr

3 жыл бұрын

Do you watch it with Lois

@AlexM13282

3 жыл бұрын

Im watching your show in the background right now !

@nukritik2933

3 жыл бұрын

Buttscratcher!!! Buttscratcher!!!

@JohnMacField

3 жыл бұрын

I force her to watch this

@joeswanson1664

3 жыл бұрын

Hey Peter, can Bonnie and I watch this with you?

There's part of me that feels that the boy doesn't want to feel this way hence why he told his parents.... I hope he gets the help he needs and is kept under observation if/when he's released.

Hats off to parents I mean it’s still their son no other parent will do that .

That poor family, thats tragic.

This mom gets it

He needs to be in prison.

I find comfort in this women. I really hope she knows how strong she is 💗

so Robbie was likely abused? I can’t imagine his problems developed on their own

@stuff1784

3 жыл бұрын

It’s called being a psychopath. Some ppl aren’t born with the capacity to feel empathy or feel guilt.

@re3171

3 жыл бұрын

@@stuff1784 dude he was obv abused he’s not a psychopath🙄

@stuff1784

3 жыл бұрын

@@re3171 Lmao, how would you know? Have you met him in person and accessed him?

@m.d.5050

2 жыл бұрын

Some people are just natural born monsters nothing provoking it at all.

@wetworms.

2 жыл бұрын

All the armchair psychologists pulling up trying to diagnose him over the internet lmao

I love this woman. She’s so sweet. She’s trying so hard to love. Oh mama. 💔

This is an example of what step mothers should be. Shes strong asf for not giving up on him.

This mom is insanely strong ❤️ all the power to her and I wish her and her family the best.

She shouldnt be ashamed she never told him to molest anyone

@dogloverj7

3 жыл бұрын

Mike Johnson yeah but I think she feels upset she couldn’t prevent it

Why everyone making a big deal that it’s his step mom this is literally how their suppose to act

@xxxmolly

3 жыл бұрын

Many parents don't take this leap. Many. We should be praising parents who do this, so others feel inspired too as well. It is a big deal.

@brookebebabbling

3 жыл бұрын

Not all step parents love their stepchildren....or come off as the biological Mother

@rebecca537

3 жыл бұрын

its the bare minimum, but most people dont.

@saccharinepeachyie3098

2 жыл бұрын

@@xxxmolly the reason why i heard about why they dony do this is because they dojt wanna consider themselves bad parents or try to thibk there life is ruined with dramma and chaos

1:50 "That's not how that works" 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Dr Phil, you're a godsend. Continue doing what you're doing, please.

What wonderful people for semi keeping their cool when they found all this out. I don’t think I could. God bless them.

Dr. Phil, it's 5 am. Crawl up your weird snake staircase and go to bed!!

@Takeabigsipbitch

3 жыл бұрын

There’s more than one time zone

@dubyabalthazar4598

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@shannonlocklear3707

3 жыл бұрын

Pretty sure the weird snake staircase is in his sons house am i wrong

@kaytou351

3 жыл бұрын

Beetlejuice reference lol?

@smolsheep77

3 жыл бұрын

@@kaytou351 google Dr Phil's son's staircase

I feel so sorry for this whole family. That Woman is amazing for caring as much as he does.

Wow. Didn't know they could brain map that sort of thing.

This video made me choke up to watch. This woman is beyond incredible, and I wish her the absolute best.

Okay but children don’t just RANDOMLY get these thoughts... so what is he watching or being told? And who has he been around that could possibly expose him to these kind of thoughts and things or images

@emilywatson1195

3 жыл бұрын

It kinda said how he got those thoughts

@Alexandra_Wolf

3 жыл бұрын

Some neurological research shows kids can be born this way or damaged. So maybe he googled words or scenarios he thought of and that triggered more. And obviously molested on top of it. Like gun bullet trigger. Born with neurological issues, being molested, being in an environment where they can explore those urges. Sad there really is no fix for this yet.

@dragonsheen3049

3 жыл бұрын

That’s the thing though- they absolutely can. I’m sure he had these feelings for a very, very long time, and only recently was able to articulate it. Pedophilia is a disorder.

@Paokesm

3 жыл бұрын

Right and I think that it’s really important to see what he’s watching on devices and monitor that

@marie-ange3965

3 жыл бұрын

Omg, statistically young offenders are victims too.

Don't feel too bad. He told you and you got him help. Be proud of yourself....i am !!!!

she's so strong i'm absolutely in shock about how amazing she's handling this

Nothing a severe, blood dripping, beating can't fix

This lady is amazing. You could tell she's a caring person and emotionally intelligent

This would be the most horrific thing a parent would ever go through. What a living nightmare.

They need to stop blaming neurological problems and start calling it what it is. He’s a monster. Period.

@vulksen

3 жыл бұрын

Pretty much. Another way of normalizing pedophilia.

@mathildeeide8550

3 жыл бұрын

@@vulksen Really? By pointing out the fact that he most likely does NOT have a normal brain?

@waspoppin4784

3 жыл бұрын

If he was a monster why would he come forward and admit this?

@ceceslivinglife

3 жыл бұрын

@@waspoppin4784 what kind of reasoning is that? He is clearly a sexual predator and has no remorse for it, he will do it again and again if not kept away from vulnerable individuals. Stop making excuses for this stuff! If it was your daughter that was sexually assaulted would you be so nonchalant about the crime simply because he ‘admitted’ it!??!

@ninam500

Жыл бұрын

@@waspoppin4784 the man who raped me as a kid admitted his urges , what is your point it sounds like a psychopathic tell if you ask me, some people are just evil.

I can’t believe how eerily similar our stories are. I was abused as a child and when I told my parents at 22 they told me I was just making it up to ruin their friendship with my abuser who was also their friend.

@burntchickennugget3120

3 жыл бұрын

Omg! im sorry u had to deal with that...just know that u are heard and your parents are veryyyyy wrong for saying that.

This woman did absolutely everything right, and she’s a STEP MOM. Truly amazing. She’s protecting not only Robbie but all other children.

My mum said the same thing... get over it! Sending you all the healing and light you need ♥️

@nocturnalflare8457

3 жыл бұрын

Mine too 😔

@felicitys8673

3 жыл бұрын

Nocturnal Flare I’m so sorry to hear! It’s so not true. You don’t have to get over it. It’s your life, your story. Sending love and healing light! 🙏🏻

@marablue5132

3 жыл бұрын

my mom still doesn’t know

@allthatsheiz

3 жыл бұрын

Wow. What is happening 😖😕. I dont know why people just tell children to get over these things like its a normal occurrence

@Zayraxc

3 жыл бұрын

Mine happened when I was 6 all the way to 8 by 2 people and I’m 20 now and haven’t told anyone but 1 close friend I’m scared that that’s going to be their reaction or worse won’t believe me so I don’t plan to tell them ever and just take it to my grave even though I struggle so much with it I can’t bring myself to ever tell them

Soo sorry that happened to her my prayers to everyone going through this 🙏

How can I get help of a abuser around me, and away to run

@Newdisaster

2 ай бұрын

Are you ok???

@NefariousCrow

18 күн бұрын

If your being abused, please call the 988 crisis hotline or a non emergency hotline