Why So Many People Are In Crisis Mode

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  • @yolandaoliver5475
    @yolandaoliver54756 ай бұрын

    “Don’t gain the world and lose your soul. Wisdom (morals) is better than silver and gold”.

  • @damieo8139

    @damieo8139

    6 ай бұрын

    Hallelujah and Amen!

  • @TLW369

    @TLW369

    6 ай бұрын

    But is it though ❓ 😂🙃😘

  • @kakag.7401
    @kakag.74016 ай бұрын

    “Get a new man and tell ‘em it’s his” 😳💀🤣 Lord this is not funny. The level of toxicity and irresponsibility is at an all time high

  • @venesiaperry448

    @venesiaperry448

    6 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately it's been going on for eons. That's why DNA testing needs to be mandatory

  • @GNIKOFFICIAL1

    @GNIKOFFICIAL1

    6 ай бұрын

    And prolly the first ninja knew she was on some BS why he rejected the pregnancy.

  • @Bornagainvillain
    @Bornagainvillain6 ай бұрын

    When I was in that red pill nonsense… Hearing the whole high value man thing kinda did some damage to me. I wasted my 20s, and didn’t really start living until I was in my 30s now. I hang around folks that simply have fun. Folks I met through my best friend. It baffled me because of how simply it all was. I felt that because of all the things I’ve said and believed in all those years, I didn’t deserve any of this. I don’t have to conform to society, I forgot about that. I never did. That’s why I label myself as a “punk”. I was lost. As long as I believe in God and Christ as my savior, so what about what everyone else thinks.

  • @amberd5318

    @amberd5318

    6 ай бұрын

    I'm glad you got away from that rhetoric, brother. We all have value in Christ ❤🙏🏽

  • @Kmama801

    @Kmama801

    6 ай бұрын

    I really appreciate that you have grown from this. I wish you the best

  • @rachelphillips5576

    @rachelphillips5576

    6 ай бұрын

    Glory to God young man. God bless you stay encouraged. Stay on the God path.

  • @adrianwillis66
    @adrianwillis666 ай бұрын

    Some “Friends” want to see you play in traffic just so they can talk about it. Getting pregnant as a single person by accident is different than planning a catastrophe. She needs better friends and a role model.

  • @SamtheRightway
    @SamtheRightway6 ай бұрын

    As long as I got Jesus my rock, I dont need no one else. 💯

  • @xoxo-vp7ww
    @xoxo-vp7ww6 ай бұрын

    I just want to include that if you ‘heal’ your trauma, you’re not going to hang around them. You will see their trauma as bondage. You will try to help them at first, but after a while you’ll give it to God. Also, the toxic people don’t typically leave. They usually stay and make you a target. So be careful.

  • @user-xyz411
    @user-xyz4116 ай бұрын

    I appreciate your respectful and kind tone toward this woman. Your tone in general is always just wanting to see people win in Christ, and not just blaming for the fun of it. Thanks for that. It's a welcome respite from hateful finger pointers.

  • @sabrinaking6142
    @sabrinaking61426 ай бұрын

    Stop ignoring red flags , sometimes we can sign yourself up to be hurt.

  • @user-lp2he1md6i

    @user-lp2he1md6i

    6 ай бұрын

    We don’t - trauma is very complex and when people are repeatedly traumatized they become desensitized to red flags and TRULY believe it’s just normal stuff. Not making excuses but a lot of people are just fools of their trauma. That’s it that’s all

  • @ckantrel1977

    @ckantrel1977

    6 ай бұрын

    Ever thought that maybe she's the flag

  • @sabrinaking6142

    @sabrinaking6142

    6 ай бұрын

    Men and women ignore red flags.

  • @rockfresh5359

    @rockfresh5359

    6 ай бұрын

    Man you're English is terrible 😅

  • @tam6011

    @tam6011

    6 ай бұрын

    What people call red flags aren’t red flags. Some people are mean spirited and just mean. It’s not a red flag it’s who they are. Everyine isn’t nice or wants to be

  • @hermelagashaw7779
    @hermelagashaw77796 ай бұрын

    Man I respect u . I started bible study because of u .thank u 😊

  • @BeverlyHall-em8ux
    @BeverlyHall-em8ux6 ай бұрын

    Its important to surround yourself with people that REALLY want to help you grow. Too many podcasters are inexperience, insecure, and just want attention . I've stop listening to a lot of these podcast. The Shumake Way , Tony Gaskin , and many other inspiring as well as educational podcasts I've began to listen to now.

  • @Ebizzill
    @Ebizzill6 ай бұрын

    every time I feel like im ready to mingle... here goes the awful people trying me, and I go back in hiding. .. and that could last for years before I get back to mingling

  • @ckantrel1977

    @ckantrel1977

    6 ай бұрын

    You get out and mingle!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉NO EXCUSES

  • @ckantrel1977

    @ckantrel1977

    6 ай бұрын

    You get out and mingle!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉NO EXCUSES

  • @Ebizzill

    @Ebizzill

    6 ай бұрын

    @@ckantrel1977 no doubt no doubt, but it definitely does make a person not want to try anymore... ooo maybe I should move! I'll look into that!

  • @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq
    @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq6 ай бұрын

    I'm 6am fasting, ends at 6pm. ❤

  • @StacyAnderson-eg2gf
    @StacyAnderson-eg2gf6 ай бұрын

    He speaking truth again life is not based on what kind of car you drive or job you have that's what wrong with the people in the world they need to stop being so materialistic it's not all about if able to live that kinda life style good for you and I learned that you can't please everybody if anything you need to make yourself happy and please yourself especially if that person can't please you or make you happy

  • @StacyAnderson-eg2gf

    @StacyAnderson-eg2gf

    6 ай бұрын

    And you got to remember beauty is beyond skin deep

  • @AAA34FL448
    @AAA34FL4486 ай бұрын

    Your daughters have a great teacher in you. That is so important coming from someone that didnt get the teachings of my father due to my mothers hate for him. I learned alot the hard way, until he gave me guidance later as an adult. Its a beautiful thing to know some girls have a great father to speak wisdom to them as they grow. Blessings, Shumake 🙏

  • @ckantrel1977

    @ckantrel1977

    6 ай бұрын

    Now you have it too 🎉🎉❤

  • @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq
    @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq6 ай бұрын

    I'm gracefully broken, but I have the Lord to mold me and heal 💪🏾 My wounds 😭❤ 🙌🏾🤲🏾🤗

  • @ckantrel1977

    @ckantrel1977

    6 ай бұрын

    Faith without,,,,though beautifully written

  • @ajeedapoetreincarnatedquee1431
    @ajeedapoetreincarnatedquee14316 ай бұрын

    Powerful & much needed message! The devil had front row access to God and he knows that God is good and all powerful. So much so that he wanted to be just like God. That’s why he doesn’t want anyone to follow and to surrender their lives to God. I can tell you this: God, Jesus & The Holy Spirit transformed my entire life! I am so very thankful for Jesus’ healing power! Give your life to God and I promise you through God’s promises that you will never be the same again!

  • @Godgotmealways
    @Godgotmealways6 ай бұрын

    Thats dem young girls who do stuff like that

  • @deborahbrown8570
    @deborahbrown85706 ай бұрын

    Do not trick another guy to believe he is the father. Those type of games are not to played with.

  • @taedesousa199
    @taedesousa1996 ай бұрын

    People like her can't be trusted! If they're willing to be deceitful towards their OWN children and any man willing to take care of her family, they will screw you over the first opportunity they get. These creatures are selfish and don't care who they hurt, including their children! I hear people say things like, well, her life is messy, but she's a good person. Who do you think created the mess? How many times can you blame a baby daddy, and why do you continue to have more children. She showed you who she is. There are decent people who like to help others, but be careful not to get yourself in a mess.The females in this video were so proud to come up with an evil plan. That's not right! You will reap what you sow!

  • @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq
    @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq6 ай бұрын

    1 cor. 15:33❤ bad company, corrupts good morals.

  • @theblackbutterflyconnect4505
    @theblackbutterflyconnect45056 ай бұрын

    This video should have way more likes! He speaking facts 💯

  • @user-dv4qb3ri5q
    @user-dv4qb3ri5q6 ай бұрын

    Crying listening to you preach thank you 🙏🏽

  • @mgh174
    @mgh1746 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this!!! ❤❤❤ Amen

  • @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq
    @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq6 ай бұрын

    Peace ✌🏾🕊️ and blessings 💞

  • @shandalesantana
    @shandalesantana6 ай бұрын

    I needed this 🥺

  • @BWynn-eb8qn
    @BWynn-eb8qn6 ай бұрын

    Love your videos as always Shumake!

  • @laila.banks0
    @laila.banks06 ай бұрын

    Thank You!!!

  • @Cocaleen
    @Cocaleen6 ай бұрын

    BIG AMEN!

  • @MissXray2013
    @MissXray20136 ай бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏾 I needed this soooo badly. I received the message

  • @GHO5tMod3
    @GHO5tMod36 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @sooprettydreaa
    @sooprettydreaa6 ай бұрын

    You are so awesome

  • @Keepinglivingintruth
    @Keepinglivingintruth6 ай бұрын

    Good video.

  • @mablem.9094
    @mablem.90946 ай бұрын

    You hit the 🔨 on the head!! You know exactly what’s going on…..💯💯💯 🗣️ 🗣️🗣️🗣️.

  • @SheCanSmile
    @SheCanSmile2 ай бұрын

    so true i love your channel and words of wisdom

  • @homehere9817
    @homehere98176 ай бұрын

    ❤Psalms 18:17-19 thanks for sharing!

  • @RoseMon3yy
    @RoseMon3yy3 ай бұрын

    This video serves as a reminder to have the relationship with God. Once I was reminded I felt better.

  • @hunnydonny9530
    @hunnydonny95305 ай бұрын

    Yup 💯

  • @NaturalzSoul
    @NaturalzSoul6 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video it brought me to tears

  • @LoniLoni11
    @LoniLoni116 ай бұрын

    I’m seeing the clips of the prior video of the woman talking to the baby daddy and the friends - how RATCHET! Y u c k! I thank the Lord my father was an overall good man and my mother conservative in certain ways. Otherwise I could have strayed faaaar down a ho ho ho path. Oh Lord !

  • @mirandarebecca3646
    @mirandarebecca36466 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @jessgala9429
    @jessgala94295 ай бұрын

    That 11th to 12th minute 🤯😮‍💨

  • @jackiehall__7275
    @jackiehall__72756 ай бұрын

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼. Turn to God.

  • @FromAPureHeartMinistry
    @FromAPureHeartMinistry6 ай бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @zori8191
    @zori81916 ай бұрын

    Shumake, you’re my favorite online cousin.

  • @bjones2022
    @bjones20226 ай бұрын

    @10:05 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @itsme3k
    @itsme3k4 ай бұрын

    You're mad because you had a blessing with a curse. That was a BAR!!

  • @gigijohn316
    @gigijohn3166 ай бұрын

    Powerful message!

  • @AnaThaLight
    @AnaThaLight5 ай бұрын

    I'm not a Christian but I think you're spot on. Spirit is the only answer.

  • @childofthellight
    @childofthellight6 ай бұрын

    Brother, You are much appreciated. Most High God bless you and your family in Yehoshua’s name.

  • @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq
    @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq6 ай бұрын

    Spiritual cleansing ❤ and restoration 🙌🏾🤲🏾

  • @rachelphillips5576
    @rachelphillips55766 ай бұрын

    If they give their life to Christ. They will not be problem free but God will not allow the devil to abuse , wipe them up like a mop all over the floor . God will be their protection and their help. They have to see Jesus in us. They need to see a difference in the MOG or WOG.

  • @Eucala
    @Eucala6 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏🏿 The word > anything else.

  • @alienmoonmom1361
    @alienmoonmom13616 ай бұрын

    This was clean, clear, and made me think about the twisted road of life I walked to get here.

  • @KhalessTheTherapist
    @KhalessTheTherapist5 ай бұрын

    I haven’t ever heard a guy told me a baby isn’t his because I never got pregnant after my son, I didn’t play them games I was not having more children until I was going to marry or not at all. My children are 12 years apart and I am now married with a 15 and 3 y old. I knew back then most then men were fun but not husband material.

  • @namendalancome5947
    @namendalancome59476 ай бұрын

    Everyone has red flags! Nobody is perfect!

  • @doll.ov.poetrii4682

    @doll.ov.poetrii4682

    6 ай бұрын

    Some absolutely have WAY more than others though...

  • @namendalancome5947

    @namendalancome5947

    6 ай бұрын

    @@doll.ov.poetrii4682 that's Cognitive bias. How do you know? Have you counted/ weighted someone else's red flags compared to yours? We enjoy pointing fingers because we don't reflect. You might find you're the actual problem on reflection.

  • @22lanisha

    @22lanisha

    6 ай бұрын

    @@namendalancome5947It’s not about pointing fingers, it’s about choosing what’s right for oneself. I agree that we all have a red flag and baggage but that doesn’t mean that we allow ourselves to accept the worst ones. It’s about self worth

  • @juandelrio3206
    @juandelrio32066 ай бұрын

    She is going to be abused by a lot of these young guys who are not ready to be fathers to care for a child will make him angry and violent to be forced to take responsibility.

  • @rachelphillips5576
    @rachelphillips55766 ай бұрын

    Where are the mom's or dads? For these young girls? Are there any real good role models out here anymore? Its pathetic

  • @Terrie-di6rw

    @Terrie-di6rw

    5 ай бұрын

    That's what I thought She's 19; where are her parents? She should be in college having the time of her life, preparing for a bright future. I'm 35 and I haven't had my 1st child yet

  • @sequoyahmoore8277
    @sequoyahmoore82776 ай бұрын

    8:35 Yo, why is you reading me?💀

  • @G.G.276
    @G.G.2766 ай бұрын

    The Preferences Why do I want sing Pink’s Stupid Girls?

  • @seebzt
    @seebzt6 ай бұрын

    How do you feel about the bible positioning women as beneath men?

  • @Moratuoa12

    @Moratuoa12

    6 ай бұрын

    Men and women are equal before God. If you are refering to Biblical roles for men and women within marriage, both are still equal but are given different responsibilities. Men are called by God to love and protect and fend for their wives and kids women are called to submit to their husbands, nurture their children and build their homes with love and grace. Both have to fear God almighty and fulfill their juties for HIS Glory.

  • @doll.ov.poetrii4682

    @doll.ov.poetrii4682

    6 ай бұрын

    ​​@@Moratuoa12 Ephesians 5:23 says "For a husband has authority over his wife just as Christ has authority over the church; and Christ is himself the Savior of the church, his body." Husbands and wives are equal in value to TMH but they aren't equal in marriage. A husband has loving dominion over his wife and he's the head of the relationship; that's what scripture says. A husband and wife under the kingdom of TMH are not PARTNERS, they indeed are not equal in marriage since the fall of man in Genesis that was caused by Eve.

  • @DoodieLuquette-hk3lf

    @DoodieLuquette-hk3lf

    5 ай бұрын

    U shouldn't be looking at it from that prospective it's just that men are supposed to be leaders

  • @glenbutler9611
    @glenbutler96114 ай бұрын

    This young lady had little guidance from her parents, she will select men and friends that feel familiar. 😩

  • @nadine6579
    @nadine65796 ай бұрын

    I feel like this is staged for clout coz🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @ckantrel1977
    @ckantrel19776 ай бұрын

    He sounds like poverty 😢😢

  • @unplugged2432
    @unplugged24326 ай бұрын

    This is why you don't have sex before marriage. As men we are sex addicts and could put up with a lot of nonsense for it. So you need to ask for yourself if this is a woman you would put up with if there was no sex in the picture. And women need to ask themselves if this guy would stick around if there was no sex . But nope they'll use it as a method of control

  • @kaylabean3693

    @kaylabean3693

    6 ай бұрын

    If you are a sex addict (women can be that too) you need to seriously get help if you want to be in a serious monogamous relationship. That will only cause havoc in your life and that’s not normal. Even if you don’t want to be in a relationship, sexual immorality leads to a whole bunch for both parties as we see

  • @unplugged2432

    @unplugged2432

    6 ай бұрын

    @@kaylabean3693 not real sex addict in a clinical term, but the fact most men will stick it in anything that even entertains their advances lol

  • @user-dz3yp7lb2j
    @user-dz3yp7lb2j6 ай бұрын

    This chick…

  • @mellyjelly3331
    @mellyjelly33316 ай бұрын

    Please specify it’s the black community. It’s sad what we do to each other. Call it out

  • @endersoncassio6014

    @endersoncassio6014

    6 ай бұрын

    Wt girls do the same.

  • @ckantrel1977

    @ckantrel1977

    6 ай бұрын

    Why? It's been called out repeatedly. We allllll know BP are the only ones who have Wi-Fi, & bad parents that breed awful adults. 😊

  • @CurlyHeadPrincess

    @CurlyHeadPrincess

    6 ай бұрын

    @@endersoncassio6014and in India 🫣Pretty much anyone this is not just a one race thing