I was having a debate with my sisters husband yesterday. He doesn’t realize he’s a unicorn and how hard it is for the rest of us Black Women in the dating market. A LOT of Black Men are toxic… idk what to do anymore.

@viciousreasoning504

7 ай бұрын

Agreed it makes me want to give up honestly

@marvaedwards1719

7 ай бұрын

Tony, you are the real thing man. Reason multitudes followed Jesus is because he was the real thing. He lived what he taught. The people followed Moses because he was real and confident in his purpose. ❤

@iyanayona5348

7 ай бұрын

Expand your options to every continent and color. Just have the same faith and culture/like-mindedness.

@kay_gold

7 ай бұрын

@@viciousreasoning504 I don't think we should give up. Maybe we should just be extremely selective.

@daisyhenry332

7 ай бұрын

​@kay_gold ..that's just it...we HAVE been selective...it's not working...I can't wait to hear what Tony is going to say...I LITERALLY just decided that black men just don't want black women...and I'm pretty sure I'm older than most people on here...but we shall see...but honestly I don't have faith anymore in black men because imo they don't like themselves and that's why they navigate to the snow bunnies..js

Your teachings help me daily! When I’m thinking about reaching out and chasing my ex - I turn your videos on, read the Bible or head to the gym (3b’s). You’re changing lives & your wife is changing lives by being the wife that she is. We appreciate you guys. I started my YT channel a year ago & I love it because it takes my mind off negativity. Thank you for being transparent always! 🖤

@karenbailey921

7 ай бұрын

Yesss help me too 🙋‍♀️

@optimalscore

7 ай бұрын

That's awesome!! Love that we're putting ourselves first! Girl I don't even know what your content is about, but I just subscribed 😂

@rayjones1029

7 ай бұрын

Congrats on your channel. 🎉 Getting good info is one thing; applying it takes diligence and discipline. 👏🏾 Kudos!

@fah232

7 ай бұрын

Right, hang in there, it's gets easier to not reach out and now you can be a blessing to someone else.🙏🏾

@Chanrobyn.

7 ай бұрын

@@optimalscore hahah thanks girl!! It’s about my microlocs journey and embracing self love. But thank you so much for the sub 🫶🏾

My husband and I (30 years old/almost 30 lol) watch your content regularly and discuss the topics. Although we’re solid and a pretty healthy, happy couple we know we’re not perfect. It’s easier for us to have what others consider hard conversations because we’ve done so much of the hard parts already. 10 years in and we consider ourselves somewhat a seasoned couple, lol. This kind of content keeps us on our toes, instead of having us thinking & talking crazy, breaking down our own union. We get better and better everyday.

@lettitiajoya

7 ай бұрын

Blessings to you all😊

@fah232

7 ай бұрын

Very good, you can never get too much help, stay open to it. Blessings you yall🙏🏾

@Kissmytailfeather

7 ай бұрын

This is such a great idea! Thanks for sharing. I love this for you guys. Congratulations on 10 years! 🎊

@rekanova3757

7 ай бұрын

Yes I enjoy that and do the same in my relationship as well. It makes for great convo with an emotionally intelligent man!

Tony, some Black women are isolated and under constant personal attack, so they are in survival mode (as intended). They are struggling to perceive clearly because they have been gaslit. Pray for them. They need it because their paychecks rely on their staying confused and ignorant. To wake up and see clearly will offend their environment. Pray for them. Continue to be patient and understand they're behind you - allow grace to catch them up. ❤

@iyanayona5348

7 ай бұрын

Such a poignant, aware comment. Thank you.

Be encouraged and don’t let up! Your teaching is helping me! Don’t quit! God’s remnant is listening! Be encouraged! God got your back! Preach the word of God in and out of season! It will fall on good ground. God has your back. Blessings 💪🏽🙏🏽👏🏽

thank you Tony for the shoutout. 🙌🏾 i was not expecting that, great way to end 2023. 😂😂😂 i don’t mind getting these people together in the comments, I got time ⏱️⏱️⏱️

@CaramelKissez

7 ай бұрын

Blessings ❤

You said a whole bunch!!!! My church doesn't talk about sexual temptation either. We need to be ready and aware. Spiritual warfare is real!

Not everyone is receptive to the truth. It offends their delicate sensibilities.

I can tell, you are not even trying. You just flow effortlessly. You’re walking in the anointing God gave you. That’s why your videos are doing so well…because you don’t care what people think. You keep it 💯 and have blessed my life tremendously. Please keep going!

Thank you so much for your last video Tony. As a black female student, I was faced almost three weeks ago with this problem. I left my natural hair out in the open (after straightening it and making big curls) and went to the university. Throughout the lecture, a white male professor was starring at me and seemed to be surprised by the diversity of my natural hair. In the evening when I was home, I prayed asking God to protect me from any temptation (thinking that he might be interested in me since in the past, I used to confuse male attention with love). So I reminded myself that I went to study and not to have anything to do with my professor. He might be distracted by me but I MUST focus on my degree. Also he is a married man with a little girl (as he mentioned during one of his lectures). A married man can stare at me if he wants to but I am responsible for how I choose to react to it. Also I reminded myself that black women are mostly looked down upon and never taken serious so I have to respect myself, focus on my degree and look in the other direction when this professor looks in my direction. I also pray about it. Your insight in the last video was a gem to me and helped me see how I should prepare myself spiritually and mentally before I leave my home. Thank you so much Tony. Like the Bible says; let those who have ears listen. I wish you all a blessed year 2024.

@fah232

7 ай бұрын

🙏🏾

@michelleg1617

7 ай бұрын

💯 keep doing you identify distractions and dismiss them with prayer

@cocotruffles9815

7 ай бұрын

It is sad that you believe bw are looked down upon. That is not true AT ALL. We are highly favored and YES, when we choose correctly, we are taken seriously like anybody else. Affirm this to yourself so you can change that insecure way of thinking

@staciadavis-5p1cac93

6 ай бұрын

Bless you! Stay strong and prayed up! Don't let any man use your body and beauty as his playground. Keep listening to Tony and doing your prayer work. You are so far ahead of the game. I only wish Tony was around when I was your age! God is still on the thrown!

You're explaining yourself to people who hasn't rocked with you for a long time. Most of us know what you are about. And I'm here for Tony Gaskin word of wisdoms. Just keep going Tony. Maybe if you don't block these people they can keep listening and change in time of how you are and then they will be like ooo ok I get it now. Do you think that's a option ??

Some people who have nothing productive to do, love to come in the comments and try to cause discord. It's a reflection of what's going on with them internally. Most of them dont have any picture up, no videos, no visibility, but hide behind a phone or computer screen to talk mess. They're lame! Congrats on coming up on 17 yrs of marriage!!!

Mr.Gaskins, your KZread videos will truly be your legacy. I have watched numerous videos of yours dating back to 2020, I have now not only developed STANDARDS but I am also waiting in gratitude for A PERSON WITH STANDARDS. Your recent video titled “The 7 Keys Mindset Shift You Need In 2024” has rejuvenated hope, faith and trust in the Lord for what is to come in 2024. Your videos made me realise I had a scarcity mindset and I am finally challenging myself to dare to dream in ABUNDANCE. GOD IS STILL ON THE THRONE.♥️✨

“Thank you Father God for allowing Brother Tony to lead us correctly and to speak truth in this evil world. Continue to cover him and his family Lord, we need him to work for you continually, and to be protected.”

"A relationship is a puzzle piece." Facts Tony. Our strengths are in our differences. The more I observe the married people I do know, I notice that most of them are not clones of one another. Keep giving us the wisdom!

Tony, when I listen to your first video on spiritual warfare. I was abstinent for over 6 years. I started talking to a guy in my church. If I had heard your message about just playing it back in your head. How will the man look that you will desire. I would've never given my body to him. But I had to forgive myself. But first and foremost, ask Father God for forgiveness. I realize that man knowing I was abstinence that long. I became a notch on his belt. Your messages are inspiring and encouraging on so many levels. I realize that the devil is busy. We must stay prayed up. I will continue to keep your family in my prayers. Stay blessed, 🙏🏽and Happy New Year!🎉🎉!🎉

@FernGray

7 ай бұрын

I made a similar mistake and ran to the lord to deliver me. I’m so sorry you were used and manipulated. Know that if you sought repentance you are redeemed. Do not let this define you. I pray for your total healing 🙏🏽

@tonyasherrod9042

7 ай бұрын

@FernGray , thank you so much. Yes, the Lord is my redeemer.🙏🏽

@tonyasherrod9042

7 ай бұрын

@msmeeks5860 , The guy was not new to my life. He had been divorced for 8 years. All I can say is that lust is nothing but the devil. There was never any promise of marriage. But I have been abstinent since ending any communication with him almost 5 years ago. I have met a good man. Trust I made it very clear what I want and telling him I'm abstinence wasn't put on the table. He knows exactly what I want. I made it clear that if he doesn't want what I want. He will need to step to the side. So, my BOAZ can step forward. So, if you're abstinent. Like Tony says, stay off your back and keep your legs close. You will know. I've been dating the man I'm with over a year now. I don't want to rush anything. I don't mind dating. This is how you get to know each other. First and foremost, God must be the glue that binds you both together. I pray that this helps you🙏🏽

Keep blocking, Tony! Those people are MISERABLE! I enjoy the analogies you use. It puts your messages in a relatable perspective. We appreciate you!

@elle381

7 ай бұрын

So good messaging is only for people who are not miserable? Seems pointless

@danielleelise2.0

7 ай бұрын

@@elle381 you know what’s really pointless? Your comment. Move along, Misery.

Amen! “I’m not even trying” 😂👏🏾👏🏾

Well i have been in relationship for 15 years i lost myself. My life was about taking care of family i also had a 9to5 coming home my family get hot meal every day, and the house cleaned. Our budget is on point by me saving our money after we pay bills. My brain was being use everyday for my family. Even all of that it didn't feel appreciated of what i was doing for family. We just came to a solution of co parent in different places. I am telling you this is my best life taking care of myself about to plan traveling we both have separate journey. we are best of friends now.sometims ladies you have to take your power back and live for you period blessings to yall.

i think you should cut your comments off on everything. i can't stand comments. especially when someone responds to your comment. lol please keep ministering. you have been a true gift

@sherriwilcox6916

2 ай бұрын

Yes!!!

When I saw those comments in the chat I knew they were going to be blocked! Some people so ignorant.

The problem is that black women aren’t used to faithful godly black men. Also they are not used to a black man confident in the spirit! I agree with your wife , just block them! So weird, I rarely look at the comments on Tony. I am attentive to message.

Trying to explain God to people who are use to their leaders putting a limit on God can be draining. A carnal minded person can not comprehend what it is that you are sharing in the spirit of God. Most churches don’t teach on Warfare and demons and people are lost. Tony G. Keep speaking on God. 🫡

Why do people post comments about what this man is saying, stop watching his videos if you got a problem with it. That’s dumb TG the Goat

Tony, I'm so sorry you have to explain yourself to the unwise and people not willing or wanting to get better or do better. A lot of us get you and understand what you are saying. If they don't receive you dust them off and "go to the next city where they will receive you" (meaning talk to all the people who want to grow). Jealousy is real, hate is real. People will gaslight you and manipulate you intentionally to make you hurt on purpose. Please if possible, overlook it don't fuel it by talking about it but simply move on because you are blessed because of God. Love you brother so much. Peace and blessings to you and your gorgeous wife.

I think Tony’s gonna have to start turning off the comments even more. I’ve watched his KZread subscribers grow by the 100,000’s! And I’m so happy that ppl are tuning into him! But with that increase comes a lot of crazies. And in order to protect the good message that Tony is sharing, he may need to end up cutting off the comments. The devil always comes to mess up wins for God.

@BrendaBaBoom

7 ай бұрын

Shutting off comments is ok …. however only infrequently because subscribers are unable to offer support. Trolls are gonna troll and sadly that’s the liability and the dilemma of internet vloggers.

@kaleshabrown

7 ай бұрын

​@@BrendaBaBoomI feel you, however we/the true supporters actually have extended resources for that outside of KZread 👍🙏😊

I’m in a healing process… recently single, leaving a relationship that wasn’t serving me! I’ve been watching Tony for years and took a “break” (not suggested) and ended up making HUGE mistakes avoiding the truth because I was afraid of losing this “man”. God & the algorithm must’ve known I needed Tony’s messages. I can’t express my gratitude for the work you do! Thank you for your ministry 🙏🏽

if people were more REAL then we would know what we are up against in the REAL WORLD. the details of the temptation were so real it was slightly uncomfortable but i needed to hear this because in the midst of the moment, that’s how temptation wins. we can’t win on the battlefield if we haven’t trained for warfare.

When I seen those comments I just knew you was coming to speak on it! Thank you once again. This generation requires REAL, RAW, AND AUTHENTICITY!

I’ve learned Tony Gaskins, that some people are just plain nuts. Keep steam rolling right over em!!!🚂

You talking out loud is holding us all accountable because we're all connected. Happy New Year to you and your family 🎉

That spiritual warfare video was on point. Praying for you for sure.

Yeeeees! You making the devil so mad, he has and is forming his army against you. The truth that you're speaking I love it. May God always and forever protect you and your family. Some people really dont get it. God is way bigger and better than the devil. Peace, love and Joy!!!!

The “virtually slap somebody in the mouth” truly made me giggle lol …

Hello Tony Gaskins 😊 This video continues to show your dedication to doing God's work. Your transparency is appreciated. This message is powerful. Your messages have helped me over the years. Thank you for continuing to do God's work although it can be challenging with a few that seek to cause discord. We hear and understand your messages. Looking forward to your messages in 2024. Happy early New Year to you and your family 😊😊

OMG Tony! Smh, I can’t believe how backwards these women are…It shows you how hurt people are. Praying for you and family Tony, cause you bring us women alot of peace and understanding.Amen

I’m not sure your content is geared toward young people , but I’m 19 and I listen to you on a daily !! Your teachings are a blessing !

Amen Brother Tony! Wrong is wrong and it needs to be spoken on more. The ones doing the most do not like to be held accountable. 😒 They try to distract, derail and redirect good messages.

Good stuff, as always, TG! As a mature Christian, who typically just watches and listens, I had to peek in to say...I get it..and I got it! And I thank you immensely! As the scripture says....Don't grow weary in doing good. We need you! God Bless and Cover You and Your Family! In Jesus Name...Amen! 🥰🙏🏽🎤💯💪🏽

“Your strengths are in your differences, not your similarities” Bars!

There are, unfortunately, a lot of dumb people Tony, lord forgive me 😮😂. We appreciate the lessons you teach and share with us and for free, that’s very generous of you!

MR. TONY YOU'VE GIVEN US VERY USABLE KNOWLEDGE !!! ENLIGHTENING THOSE WHO WANT TO GROW IN CHRIST & IN THIS ECONOMY. GOD IS LEVELING THE PLAYING FIELD. FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE SINCERE ABOUT GOD ARE ABOUT TO RULE THE 🌎 IN THIS CENTURY.

That’s so true. The devil loves to hide in messages that are mystical and not practically applied or spelled out.

I listened while cleaning and it sure gave me motivation to keep going. Thank you!

Thank you Tony!! Your channel and books have completely changed my life! I feel so much more prepared and covered in life! You are very much appreciated! I pray God continues to bless you and your family!

I saw your spiritual warfare video. It helped me to process my thoughts I had about my situation. I was hard on myself for actually having the thought. But really it was a warning to not go there this might happen. Thank you 🙏🏾

That was the best of all your videos for me. Continue the good work brother.🙏🏽 100% truths!!!

Bless you! Im glad you did what you did about the online seminar. Your message is essential to the world and your safety is first. May God shield and protect you 🙏🏾

Tony we see your heart and good will. Your message is well received for those who are willing to learn and grow. Please keep up the good work. Blessings to all !!

Amen Tony!!!! Much respect and love to you and your family always. ❤❤❤❤

Been watching/listening to you for years. Just want to say thank you for your transparency, consistency and commitment to your wife and family. It is so refreshing to hear from a legit married man who is honest about his past and turning your mess into your message for us.

Tony those who know knows that you speak from the spirit. Lol, sometimes I go through the comments as a mod and delete. Thank you for 2023 even in my grieving from losing my son this year I continue to listen and grow.

What you talked about was my reality...if I had seen this video sooner I would have be better prepared for when temptations came. Keep em coming 😚😊💯🙏

Thank you for your time im always listening keep doing God's work 🙏🏽.

That breakdown was wisdom! I got caught up a few times and I began thinking about how I could get caught up in different situations and how I would respond in advance. It really helped me not to be in a bad situation. I’ve never heard someone else say that out loud. God bless your for sharing that wisdom! It’s definitely needed these days.

I understand and your doing a great job spreading the word keep it up you are getting me and others closer to GOD thank you!

The negative comments just lets U know U on the right track T !!! .... Keep it coming...U helping me at 61 yrs. young✔️💯❤

Please keep the content coming. I am getting reminders on lessons that I have become complacent with over the past few years and it's time for me to get back on a stronger path. ❤

Some ppl are just miserable and don't understand that God is using you as a vessel to bring forth the word....keep going tony!!!

Thank you Tony…I appreciate ALL your videos & gems. 🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏽💪🏽🎯💯👑🗣️🗣️🗣️

Thank you for showing up for us. I want to say I don't know how I came across your channel, but I know that it was ordained because you are an example of how I need to proceed as an introverted intentional woman with messages to share. I appreciate how simple yet profound your messages are. I am starting my channel and you've encouraged me to use what I have because that's enough. I'm enough in the Lord. So thanks for confirming so many things for me and answering the call, which, I know can be heavy. I pray you continue to walk and speak boldly for the cause of Christ. Blessings to you and your family this year and beyond.

Tony, I've been watching you for a few years and nothing you have talked about has never been confusing ..... understood it perfectly!! You have help me out more than you know!!

Hey Tony, your lovely Wife and children. Prayerfully you all had a wonderful amazing Christmas 🎄 and that your New Year will be even more prosperous, Blessed, & filled with Joy!!!!!!!

Bless you Tony! You’re my “brother” in my mind. TY for your teachings!

Long time supporter here I’ve been to a few of your relationship workshops over the years and know that you are the truth keep doing what you’re doing and walking righteously

🙌🏾❤️💯💪🏾I appreciate your teachings!!

That’s it!!! Stay humble. I don’t do all that, Im not a fan of anyone…not my style, but your messages have blessed my soul. Ok I’m going to go “sit down” now. 😊

Some people Really amaze me at times with thier ignorance

As members of the Kingdom of God, we have a right to speak on things that occur in the Kingdom. That’s what people don’t understand. Side note: Tony because of your teachings I’m able to recognize who’s a real man and who’s not a real man. Thank you for that awareness.

I thank God for your channel and you being the vessel that he uses to help us. 🙏🏾

I’m just grateful that TG is around in my generation, we got YT a free platform to take in the info. I never heard a man be so truthful. Some women will find the wrong in everything. Lady’s let’s just be grateful.

Talk about it Tony!! God wants us to be real with him and others, and bold in our faith. 🙏🏽🔥

Just read the mailing list email about the discounts…you spoke so gently as a reminder to slow down and how to get your point across with grace. Thank you.

@CaramelKissez

7 ай бұрын

Blessings

You helped me a lot. Been listening since 2020

@my.0224

7 ай бұрын

I concur. Would have loved to have Tony Gaskinsesque teachings when I was younger.

@aprylclark3796

7 ай бұрын

@@my.0224 me too

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS 🤞🏽.

I do feel you impart wisdom when I listen to you. I find you 😊truthful, realistic and open to change. You are showing us growth! People " project". They have their issues that they may be overwhelmed with. I think using Imagination, Desire, Vision, Insight and the ability to change is gifted to all of us, we just have to use these qualities.

That's the Word! "Where there is temptation, there will be a way of escape."

Btw Tony! Thanks for lowering the price for the upcoming class on January 1st. Can’t wait to apply those teachings to my life fir the New Year. Bkessings

Tony, I love your channel and the way God uses you. You also crack me up in every video. You give a good word and are also extremely entertaining to watch.

This world is sad and just confused bc I been watching your videos for a few years now and you're very clear and well thought in your messaging. How people don't understand is pure foolishness.

It’s the BLOCK for me . 😂😅. Good message .

Those who get it, got it. Pure wisdom, good character and integrity, effortlessly. May God continue to bless you and all that gather here. ❤💞💯

Amen 🙏 The devil is a liar. I appreciate you staying on whatever the holy spirit put in ur hear to talk about. Stay blessed!

Some people just want to misunderstand. Period. If you’ve lived and understand you understand what you’re trying to do - which is serve. It is a huge blessing to have someone in this space that is as transparent. Some people will never understand what a blessing this is. The fact that you’re explaining any of this in detail says so much about a person’s spirit…sometimes people just need to re listen, re think before they speak. (Btw I do understand that the title has nothing to do with me or some of the subject matter for that matter - but I definitely understand and have learned how this applies to me and I learn something every time. I can’t tell you how much I’ve grown listening going on 6-7 years now.

Tony, I understand before I try to be understood thanks to you! I also listen to understand and not to respond. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Tony, thank you for enjoying our Caribbean foods. Prosperous New Year to you and your family!

Thank you for the transparency Tony! Please do more videos talking about your life as a husband and how you lead a successful marriage.

That’s it right there. You and your wife are already a power couple. Your transparent messages and very direct and rawness are several reasons I continue to listen. You are truly called…so obvious.

5:49 yes!!!! You have given me courage to do the easy thing and talk, teach, and preach... Oh I'm so thankful for you! And I just used the merry code! Thank God it was still active. I would've missed it!

Bon appetite!! My mother in law also a great cook. What a blessing 🥰🙏🏾 Thank you for another high level video

Thank you man of God for being human and transparent. We need more men to stand in their position as God has ordained and women as well. I thank God for your obedience and sharing all that God has commissioned you to do. Thank God for your wife also being an example of a meek and humble woman of God. People that don’t read their Bible and are not spiritual minded will never understand the things of God and your teachings. So continue to do the work that God has called you to do because you are helping millions that are walking in the spirit. God bless you and your family 🙏🏽❤️

I am so excited for this new year. I have been watching your videos and I can see the Holy Spirit working within you. God is good and he deserves all the glory. Thank you for being a faithful servant of the Lord our God.

Praying your strength in the Lord, God bless you, your family and your ministry🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

I always look forward to your videos Tony!! I see with the USF shirt on!! 813 representing!

I am so glad you know how to speak and communicate to people! I can’t stand all that, you know, yeah, etc. I can’t stand it and just tune out and not listen! God bless you because it’s very challenging sometimes to deal with people that are immature and/or ignorant! It’s very time consuming and can takes a lot energy at time! Whew!!!

MR. TONY YOU ARE RIGHT ON GOD'S SCHEDULE & WHAT UR SAYING IS VERY RELEVANT. WERE LIVING IN PERILOUS TIMES & I THINK THE BIBLE SAYS "THERE'LL BE WARS & RUMORS OF WARS...." IN THE BOOK OF REVELATION, THESE ARE THOSE END TIMES.. PEOPLE STILL PLAYING !!!

Tony, I would just say many of us women in their 30s and up who are single are very sensitive. Not all of course. I’m 34. I’m married but remember, when people are going off in your comments for something that you are not saying just keep in mind that many women would love to be married and aren’t happy based on the current circumstance. Sometimes when we have had something go wrong in our lives we are overly sensitive and project things onto other people that they’re not even saying. Don’t worry. When you know you’re not saying something just remember where someone has to be in life to intentionally be making up negative things in their heads about you. We will continue to support you! Been here since 2019. I’m a blessed member but on my original personal account.

I love Tony!! Thank you for being you!! I stay on my platform!! knowing knowing

PERrrrrrFeeeeCTly said and Done PERIODT we are in a spiritual warfare we must fight stand against these demons that are trying to bring us down from our serving Jehovah keeping our godly desires in serving Almighty God thru his son Jesus Christ

I like Tony Gaskins.. I leave his conversations feeling good and having constructive things to think about. Some of these other people have me feeling like they’re hypocrites or like I lost brain cells.. I’m not losing brain cells listening to no one.