High Value means different things to different people. For me, the value of a man has nothing to do with his bank account. A high value man has good character, is capable of giving and receiving love, is kind, and fears God. Any man smart enough to know that If God is his source, all his resources will fall in line accordingly is extremely high value.

@GHO5tMod3

7 ай бұрын

Amen ❤

@nikkiwilds6598

7 ай бұрын

Right. Character matters.

@Martini829

7 ай бұрын

Agreed ❤

@lh6784

7 ай бұрын

💯

@kc270352

6 ай бұрын

never understood why it's all about money tbh, it just means you're a high earner if you earn lots of money

We need to stop confusing high earning and high value

@ashantiscoot

7 ай бұрын

This!!!!!

@luv-velvet

6 ай бұрын

THANK YOUUU

@cocoblessings

6 ай бұрын

Exactly!!!

@Idkjustyet

6 ай бұрын

no lies told 💯

@BellaZ209

6 ай бұрын

Exactly! 👏🏾

A man that will work as much as he needs to cover his family shows his character and value.

Everyone has their own definition of high value men. For me I don’t subscribe myself to the foolish high value, alpha, beta male convos it’s low vibrational discourse for me. The best men are the ones who are sincere, honest, loyal, treats his partner with respect and care, faithful and works his best for himself and his family.

@liahlove8297

7 ай бұрын

This!!!

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

7 ай бұрын

Exactly. Being high value boils down to character and self respect.

@shantaloves9043

7 ай бұрын

like this!

@carolechaney2830

7 ай бұрын

Amen

@BloodLeopard-rm8wg

6 ай бұрын

The best man to me is the one that doesn't try to control or put down the feminine, but protects it, and also respects himself and his own devine masculinity.

Man, the value of the dollar goes down year by year. Money can't be the only thing that measures your worth. If it does, then you will be poor forever.

@cynthiadickerson5403

6 ай бұрын

Money doesn't improve the quality of your life when your thinking is low/poor! Walk away from these women. They have nothing, and are expecting a man to be a rescue mission for them.

You are so correct. I am a design engineer that does make iver six figures. I am a woman but i still have to save and watch my money. I drive a basic car and live a pretty chill life. So i don't understand where she is getting the idea that people who make six figures living large. Honey we are not

@ForbsieLaLa

6 ай бұрын

Once you are being responsible with your money it becomes hard to live large

@limitlessinfinite2284

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for keeping it 💯.

The dating pool has diarrhea in it. We let social media dictate everything then end up miserable.

@keishabeal9978

6 ай бұрын

Amen!!! Ppl need to stay off social media and live there lives

@limitlessinfinite2284

6 ай бұрын

It is indeed a cesspool.

@Sunny-tc3ul

6 ай бұрын

Well stop dating online and mingle in person.

@dennisg7709

6 ай бұрын

@@Sunny-tc3ul Terrible in person too

@RahYisrael99

6 ай бұрын

Well, I live and operate in reality, and it socks here too. Lol

It’s scary to think that young ppl or even ppl in general will actually agree with what she’s saying. Like be frrrrrr 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

@Ms.HoneyH

6 ай бұрын

She sounds so crazy and slow. Wow smh

No grown man wants to be working at a retail store or fast food restaurants after 25, but the reality is some don't have a choice and they prefer to get their own than be bums at home. My government job allows me to have full health insurance(inclusive of dental and eyes). I get 30 days off a year(paid vacation) I get paid sick leave up(to a certain amount of days of course). That government job allowed me to go to college twice and own my car fully and now be debt free. These "baddies" think entrepreneurs have life easy, some are not even breaking even. It really is sad that we have come to this quick money life set

@JB-ro7kq

5 ай бұрын

Postal worker? Our benefits seem similar

I had to get a job at Dunkin to supplement my income becuase i work in a town with very little job openings. Im so very grateful tge manager offered me a job because some money is better than no money. It has humbled me. I was once a bartender in my younger days. I made great money, but once you're not as young, you're going to have a rude awakening. The people I work with are hard-working, honest people, and I would never treat them as anything but what I see. Just as quick as you made it, you can lose it. I can lay my head down knowing I did a HONEST days work, serving my community. God sees me, my kids see what I'm willing to do to make sure my responsibilities are taken care of and that's ALL that matters in my book. Blessings, Shumake 🙏

@AuthorJanaeMarie

6 ай бұрын

As long as you can keep a roof over your head and support yourself and your family; that’s truly all that matters.

@ptcpowerup1350

6 ай бұрын

I’m happy for you! You got this! God will continue to elevate you 🥰

this lady and younger people obviously haven't read up on city, state, and government benefits. The benefits alone make most of those city jobs worth it, the salary, pension, insurance, and flexible hours do too.

Fund your retirement, not the Lambo.

@queen_k8444

3 ай бұрын

That part 💯💯💯

A true high-value man will never have this woman as his wife.

The government job and any 9-5, give you stability, healthcare and a retirement plan along with other benefits.. Again I agree with what you said.. Thank you for this video.

I hope she finds healing cause idk if someone graped her & she gave up on life. 2,000 or 200 means something is very wrong with her & her opinion is irrelevant.

Then who is supposed to work those civil servant jobs?

The best man to me is the one that doesn't try to control or put down the feminine, but protects it, and also respects himself and his own devine masculinity.

I pray she gives her life to Christ and come out of that lifestyle before it’s too late 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 🙏🏿

How do you even find time to sleep with 2k people? Sad to see.

Thank you for this content. As long as you have a job and could pay for necessary needs like shelter and food it shouldn't matter what type of job you have. If you don't work you don't eat. God never said you have to have a certain kinda job. He just states we have to work.

@shantaloves9043

7 ай бұрын

why would God tell us what type of job to have?? I don't agree with the rest of the things she mentioned except for a grown man working at a fast food restaurant. These jobs don't pay well and secondly, way of life might be harder or with problems in some communities. Might not even be able to afford fruits and vegetables because of the salary. These jobs are okay for getting a headstart in life or while in school but not for the rest of your life. I don't know... that's how I see it. Unless you want to work until you 90 years old.

@teresam5199

6 ай бұрын

It matters...although we should not love money or.put our trust in money, it matters...even the.Bible.says that money is a defense.

The majority of women value money over love in society. The majority of men value looks over loyalty. That’s the reality of things. Makes me think of Loyal by Chris Brown ft Lil Wayne & Confessions pt 2 by Usher. You’re not the majority 👍🏽

Her values are totally offset 😔, fruits of the spirit 🙌🏾 is high valued. And, biblical principles ❤ as a woman... PS.31 woman, virtuous, modest. Kingdom Men and women ❤️

She is is lost....."when people show you who they are....BELIEVE them, the first time."

2,000 partners? 😮 I don’t even know that many people smh

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

6 ай бұрын

And she started at 12! At 12, I did officially become a young lady, but I was still playing with my Barbies on the floor and watching Scooby Doo!😳 Where on earth were her parents? And how old were some of those partners??? SMH!

This video is just sad just sad. What shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world but loses his soul. Money and material things have nothing to do with love.

She’s never going to get a quality man with that mentality. Let’s hope her looks don’t fade. She may have to stay in that career😅😂

@phylis5264

7 ай бұрын

No real and respectful High value man will want a stripper or a loose woman as a wife.

@bj1959

7 ай бұрын

We are not sure of what looks she has behind all that makeup and surgeries

You are such a beautiful soul.im very grateful that your channel popped on my timeline. I believe it's the frequency I am on. Thank you for being you❤️

And this they same woman said that she slept with 2000 men 😂😂😂

@dii-N-sd

7 ай бұрын

That's crazy! I know a girl that was sex trafficked who hasn't slept with that many ppl. 🤯

@Brandy3319

7 ай бұрын

Oh… it’s the same woman? Nah, she the last one that need ta’ talk 😳

@UnluckyGirl81

7 ай бұрын

She has to be exaggerating! It's no way! I don't even think I've personally met 2,000 people!!!

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

6 ай бұрын

​@@UnluckyGirl81It's possible. If a person engages in things like 0rgies a lot and lives a wild/party lifestyle where they have a lot of drunk s3x, it's very possible. Especially since she started so young.

😮, I'm truly appalled at what I just listened to. The audacity of some of these women. I just don't understand their thought processes. I would never fix my mouth to say anything about anyone trying to work and make a living for themselves.

@teresam5199

6 ай бұрын

For themselves is fine...but it costs to provide for a family.

@TNGURL08

6 ай бұрын

@@teresam5199 Irregardless, I still wouldn't say anything about a person that is working and making a living to provide for themselves or family. It's illogical.

The message is bitter and angry, because why does she care what men she not worried about doing.

I’m sick of BM talking about wigs, weave, and makeup. I’m so sick of the world issues coming into church

I wish more people would come to this KZread channel, this man is full of insights, inspirations, and powerful biblical references. I mean… it’s free knowledge, you won’t get this from the schools or even most parents don’t bother teaching nothing to their kids. This is a very wise and knowledgeable man, I’m so glad I came across his account when I did. 🙏 Thanks @The Shumake way You are doing a great deal for us young people. Bless you! 🎉 🤝 🤴🏾 👑

Really enjoying your content 👍🏽

That was well said and don't need anything attitude. You covered all bases. God bless you, and I hope people eat the knowledge that you put on this table

Stay away from people who use words like high value male/female

If the man is considered high value, he should have integrity and be of great character and strve for the best for himself and his family. I understand what she is saying about mature men flipping burgers and working a low level job, where they will never advance in their career. If the man is working at McDonalds, etc., he should be striving for management status at those jobs or use those jobs as a stepping stone while he strives for better. However, I see nothing wrong with working blue collar or trade jobs, as those jobs pays a decent salary, you will continually receive salary increases and will be able to financially support yourself and a family.

Like my coworker said: Why is a man of the cloth (and his wife) at P Diddy’s party?

Shalom man of God and many blessings to you and to your beautiful wife and families (personal/ministries). I appreciate the truth you shared in this message. Because there are those who do misinterpret how the working world is seen. As you have stated, financial stability does not make someone a high value person. Because in today's world, there are plenty of people who are financially wealthy but continue to misinterpret the actual value of the individuals who help them to get where they are today. This includes the very businesses that this beautiful young lady is belittling in this clip. Those who own the fast food restaurants and clothing stores are wealthy correct? So would they still be considered as "high value" if they are paying their employees beneath their worth? If their employees are living pay check to pay check then are the owners of these businesses still considered as "high value" people? The beautiful young lady in the clip you have shared does not understand the original purpose for the business world or for the world of entrepreneurship. When a person is building a corporation, a company, an enterprise, an empire, or a business, that individual is suppose to build from an inner man that sees the value of human life correctly. It is unwise for any person to build anything from a mindset that puts the dollar first. When a person does that, it will cause him or her to see the value of human life incorrectly. And this truth can be seen in how the market scale is set up in the corporate and business world. Many people are underpaid in certain worlds because the purpose of building a productive business is seen from a place that does not have everyone's welfare in mind. I am speaking of the people who end up working for certain businesses and companies and who are primarily responsible for helping the business owners excel from a financial standpoint. Those are the true "high value people." Those who are overworked and underpaid, and who still find the strength and tenacity to be productive and an asset in environments that under appreciate their worth, are high value people. Business environments are constructed to cater to healthy transitions. These transitions elevate businesses into greater encounters with character, with integrity, with real fruitfulness and enriched development which create room for everyone within the business environment to be cared for properly and fairly, especially from a standpoint that builds financial stability for every person involved within the business structure. It takes a person of high value to see their employees on that level. High value people know how to include their employees in the building process. They do not leave them behind to squander for themselves. They make sure they are able to produce a productive life with a sincere care about their welfare and their worth. The gift of generosity can take a person into some beautiful and deep life changing experiences, especially when a beautiful soul is able to see the value of others in the correct light. God Bless you man of God and thank you for sharing this. Shalom unto you and to your beautiful wife and families.

A Man of God that earns his bread honestly with the mindset of always improving himself is a high value man. A low value woman who does not treat her body as the temple of God can not speak on what a high value man should be.

Gotta love when ppl say "only God can judge me", but then act like God's not judging 😅 If you actually belive that then you'd act accordingly.

Whoa 2,000 exual partners is wild 😮 people look at you crazy if you say anything over 10... imagine 2,000. Goodness 😅

Want to be the first to say grown men aint worried your opinion.

U on fire for the Lord tonight, Shumake! 17:10 🔥 ❤

2,000 people! I'm just not believing that! She has to be exaggerating...🤦🏾‍♀️ Edit: Ok, I just heard she's a stripper. I guess it could be possible then... That's really sad!!

It's not all about that smh back on with the materialistic life

@carolechaney2830

7 ай бұрын

I agree

@nanakb7785

7 ай бұрын

Today relationships are too transactional. And it’s mainly in our (Black) community. This is beyond stupid/tired.

@carolechaney2830

7 ай бұрын

@@nanakb7785 I think it's this generation across all ethnicities. Those "real life" TV shows, and the internet. People flaunting the leisure lifestyle and it's all for show and not real.

2000? I need to lay down after hearing that.

Sad that it was illegal for our ancestors to work and make money.

And these types of mindsets are prominent in young women and men…so sad and disappointing

To some people high value means high income. Lol that’s it and that’s all.

That's truely sad, and pathetic. She is broken 💔

Just started the video and at 1:10 I agree with you..

McDonalds starts out at $17 an hour here where I live in the Midwest. It’s a job. There is no shame in working a job, regardless of what the job is. What does she do for a living? A stripper? Her looks and her youth are not going to last forever! No one’s does. All you have left after those go are someone’s character: their personality, moral values, work ethic, loyalty, honesty, etc, etc, etc.

2000?! 👀 Whew chile! Judge not ye be judged, right? 😕

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

7 ай бұрын

We are told to give righteous judgement by biblical scripture. We can judge each other in love as long as we aren't being hypocrites.

Fruits of the spirit make you HV❤

I think 2 things can be true. There is nothing wrong with "blue collar" work but, there is also nothing wrong with continuing to strive for more. Many get a "decent" job or just a job in general and think that's the end. But, you can continue to strive to grow. I think too many people are too comfortable settling for a "job" then come home, drink, smoke and watch TV. You don't have to work 24/7 but, you should never stop striving to improve and get to the next level in life. Now, she is not the best messenger and her approach was trash but if you are in your 40s working fast food out of necessity there is something you can do about that.

@shantaloves9043

7 ай бұрын

I agree... I worked at a fast food restaurant when I just graduated from high school and while in college. I cannot see myself doing it any longer because I have had my fair share of it. These jobs bring no motivation, no self-development, and can drain you after a while.

I’m so confused…. So many great people, important people work 9-5s … I could never understand that train of thought

5:28 TD Jakes need to read this! TD Jakes telling his congregation to do what thou wilt and God will forgive him! He literally stated: Don't worry about me worry about praising God. And the congregation just up there clapping and cheering him on. He's leading them astray and they are blind and will continue to do what they want and say God forgives. That was his response right after or right before Christmas wearing that red velvet blazer. 😢

@missj5564

7 ай бұрын

Do what thou wilt are what satanists say. Alestier Crowley the leader of the satanist church had that motto. These so call leaders better stop playing with God as his judgment will be swift.

No city worker no retail eatery or store chain.....who you trying to date...the athletes and military folk?....wait military dont make enough for her lifestyle.....yikes

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

6 ай бұрын

High ranking Military officers do, but they don't make up the majority of the Army though.

@jamestateIII

6 ай бұрын

@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 correct and that's part of my point.....those High ranks seemingly eat sleep and breathe the uniform

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

6 ай бұрын

​@@jamestateIIIYup, they sure do!

There’s a difference between a high value man and a high conscience man! You see a high value man can have all the money and possessions in the world and still lose his own soul. But a high conscience man, will love God, take care of himself and you with HIGH VALUES!

….. and her body is not even hers 🥴🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

I only agree with the first part of her video. I really think that those types of jobs are for teenagers and younger adults but not for grown men simply because a family will not be able to live off of that type of salary. We have inflation and the salaries don't increase. So if you were young and started off at a fast food restaurant but in your forties and have not done anything to uplift yourself, then I don't know... maybe if this person has really low living standards then that is okay for him. But when you have mouths to feed, everything changes...

Sadly, this is how a lot of men and women think. Money, status and sex is all that matters now. SMH.

I agree with her to an extent. I won’t date a man working at a fast food joint or a low paying job because it shows he can’t provide and he’s lacking something. If a man is content working at a low level job he’s lacking ambition or has other issues going on in his life.

Did she mean 200 cuz no no no way...200 is gross but 2000 is diabolical this has to be a cloud chasing clip she can't be serious😊😅😮😢

2,000 partners… its hard to take any advice from you, morally financially, spiritually,etc you cant seem to do anything but sex. Hope she gets with Jesus for healing

When is she going to tell us what her father did for a living?

When she came for the Toyota and the firefighter job, I took it personally 😂 I am not going to lie. Toyotas are good cars, and being a firefighter, in my opinion, is a respectable job. Geesh, people are very materialistic smh.

my idea of high value is someone who does something with absolute pride and is self reliant. so if you come home made af even if you make that shmoney, yeah... no. this applies to both men and women.

She will most definitely attract the wrong demons in her life thinking with this mentality. She will miss out on some of the most God fearing, hard working men out there.

Oh my! do she believe anything that comes out of her mouth? 😂

Some of the most wealthiest people drive Toyota 😂😂😂😂 people don’t even get it

Well, where are people supposed to work, then? I think we have gone way too far in terms of what is considered valuable.

And whats weird is that females be working at fast food too and Apparently anything that a man brings to the table got sum or a lot of typa value her talking about dudes working in fast foods is crazy while she dismissing our counterpart of our species clearly showing there aint nun worth to talk about but then if it was her bestie or even a gay bestie she gun be like “you go girl/queen keep doin what u doin”

6:49..no.

The women today are so shallow it’s sad😔

7 deadly sins....Greed 😢 lust .....

Lmfao diamond the body is a literal troll. She says things for shock value lol. Can’t take her seriously

So a police officer, a fireman, a blue collar can't be high value men?

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

6 ай бұрын

They can be; it's about character. Being high value is not a tax bracket.

Firstly, I feel sorry for her that she was having sex at 12🔹I agree with her about the fast food restaurants, but construction jobs/federal jobs/government jobs are great.

That lady is delusional!!!!!!

A woman can have high standards just like men. Black men like to say they prefer light skinned black women and NO other black men bash him for that preference. She can have a preference for high value men that don't work blue collar jobs or fast food jobs.

@nanakb7785

7 ай бұрын

There’s nothing wrong with standards but this is essentially putting a (potentially fake) price tag on ya dating pool. A man could have a high salary corporate job/career and doing well for himself maybe planning to start a business but that’s a “9-5” so it isn’t “high value” for her. She even knocked city employees who could have good money. But if a scammer has a Lamborghini through his “business” he could hypothetically pass for a “high value man” in her eyes. The wires are getting crossed

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

7 ай бұрын

​@@nanakb7785 Exactly. By these women's logic, Future, Boosie, and Blue face are high value men just because they're rich. Being high value is a mindset, everything else is just the cherry on top.

@nmhoskins

7 ай бұрын

@@nanakb7785 She can have her standards. If her standards are unrealistic, life will show her that. In the meantime, we need to STOP shaming BLACK WOMEN for having standards. We (Black women) are TIRED of being known for dealing with bums or men who are not on our (black women) level.

@nmhoskins

7 ай бұрын

@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 If they are the type of high value men she wants, so be it! And just because her standard is not 9 to 5 guy does not mean every black woman is shunning 9 to 5 guys. This is only one woman's opinion. She does not represent most black women. However, she does represent the newest concept of black women having standards and. NOT accepting bums. My standard is a guy that makes at least what I make which is $65K per year. I will not date a man who makes less than $65k.

@nanakb7785

7 ай бұрын

@@nmhoskins that’s not really the point of what he’s saying. No one said you had to be with certain men making certain money. Nor do I think this is about “standards”; it’s about glorifying and putting “men” on a pedestal simply because of their materialism or tax bracket (legal or illegal). He’s saying high value is character; not a bank account. That’s all. If she wants to only date men who have $xxxxxx in the bank (regardless of how they treat her) or a Lambo (however they got it) then cool. Everyone looks for different things in different people. Her life and business at the end of the day. The main topic was what’s a “high value” man.

They’re all young-minded.

I really need to talk to you about "USA Inc" Beloved!!!.... The government are literally scripted showes Yes I know it sounds way to outrageous, but I have proof , need for you to know about it. I have so much conversation I would want to share with u sis. Can one have one on ones with you, like does that cost money ore like how does that work? Love you God bless you

I do agree with her when it comes to the fast food/retail especially when you are just stagnant. Regardless I love your channel ❤

No such thing as a high value man. You either of the most high or you of the world.

I can tell you she will die alone...

She is very disturbed

I hate to admit it… but the girl was exactly right about grown men working at Ross. Leave those jobs for the teens, single moms, the disabled, and the people in between jobs. If you’re going to work there, always try to work your way out. ❤

@ItsTwinnie

7 ай бұрын

I think it’s important to not shame others for the type of work they do. Whether someone works at Ross, McDonald’s or the Cheesecake Factory, everyone is trying to get by in this economy because it’s hard out here, even with a degree! You never know what someone is battling personally, so we shouldn’t put so much pressure on men to have a “better job”. At the end of the day he’s trying and who knows maybe that job could lead to a promotion.

@missj5564

7 ай бұрын

Or work their way up to management status, where they can support themselves and a future family.

She's crazy.

This young woman is very delusional

First of wll this woman isnt rich. I can see if she was rich and wanted a "high value" rich man. Some men wont even want her.. keeping it real💯..every high value man wants another high value earning woman. Not a stripper. She needs to find a real godly role model woman that she can look up to in order to live her life by in a respectful and honest life. Or else she is going to her so called "high value" bad character men thats going to physically, mentally abuse her. Sad sad sad..she needs prayer 🙏🏽

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

6 ай бұрын

Actually, most high earning men typically don't care about a woman he's courting also being high earning; this has collectively never mattered to men in general all throughout history. This is why we commonly see secretaries, receptionists, and baristas dating high profile men normally but not vice versa with guys in those same positions. I agree that she does need prayer though and to find a Godly example.

Let her standards be her standards🤷🏽‍♀️... there men out here making 75k thinking they are the prize... Expecting women who look like her to bow down to their desires.. women who look like her Prefer a particular lifestyle to be maintain. Im not mad at her, i respect it🤷🏽‍♀️

@dahliaherrod4301

6 ай бұрын

What about her do you respect?

@doll.ov.poetrii4682

6 ай бұрын

There's nothing wrong with her wanting a provider, the problem is her assuming that men who make six or 7 figures are all generous/have provider mindset and that they're "high value" automatically. High value men are high value because of their character, them being loaded is just the cherry on top, but it's not always the case.

D@mn if you lost your virginity at 12 and just f’ing like it’s a sport. You need to seek therapy. She shouldn’t be telling people anything about anything. You are broken. May she find healing ❤️‍🩹