The Shumake Way

The Shumake Way

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  • @TheMarriedMillennial
    @TheMarriedMillennial4 минут бұрын

    🔥🔥 commentary!

  • @EmpressSol
    @EmpressSolСағат бұрын

    But nah lol...her energy is probably why she's having those problems. Her mindset and her energy is probably repelling people.

  • @EmpressSol
    @EmpressSolСағат бұрын

    This was me the whole time "🤨🤨🤨" lmao

  • @pringl3112
    @pringl3112Сағат бұрын

    The outfit was selling sex. Some men will hit on a women no matter what she's wearing but if you dress like a hoe, you're going to get treated like one. What ever happened to shame....

  • @itssione1020
    @itssione1020Сағат бұрын

    From fresh and fit got someone pregnant?? Ayoooooo man and he be downgrading women so bad 🤌🏾 bruva

  • @existentialtarot4409
    @existentialtarot44092 сағат бұрын

    Thank you Sir! ❤🙏🏼

  • @ebonytucker2172
    @ebonytucker21722 сағат бұрын

    What the name of the show

  • @natashakoneru7037
    @natashakoneru70373 сағат бұрын

    Maybe cause plain Jane is a nice person and beauty ain’t everything ❤️

  • @HelloThere12341
    @HelloThere123415 сағат бұрын

    She’s pretty?? 🥴🥴🥴 Is everything okay in America?

  • @ClaudiaEliThaQueen
    @ClaudiaEliThaQueen5 сағат бұрын

    I guess Shumake decided it's not worth it! And believe me it's not. I hope you and your beautiful family are well King!

  • @jamerson808
    @jamerson8085 сағат бұрын

    Video starts at 8:12

  • @MzJones-wo4oj
    @MzJones-wo4oj5 сағат бұрын

    Who says she pretty

  • @Bridecoach
    @Bridecoach6 сағат бұрын

    No challenge at all. It’s like a deer running to the hunter 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @thehotboywalking
    @thehotboywalking6 сағат бұрын

    It’s def a spiritual warfare bro. We have that understanding and wisdom and that’s why I subscribe to you bro

  • @lutherodaniels3799
    @lutherodaniels37997 сағат бұрын

    KS would’ve never interviewed this guy 😂😂😂😂

  • @TheSeersStudy
    @TheSeersStudy8 сағат бұрын

    Knowing how some men really feel is a turn off....

  • @TarynRMartin
    @TarynRMartin9 сағат бұрын

    By “plain Jane,” does she mean natural beauty? I’m not sure she knows the definition of pretty.

  • @nataliianezhynska5119
    @nataliianezhynska51199 сағат бұрын

    Staying home with two toddlers was the hardest shit I've ever done. I think it goes together with the most toxic military unit. It's a thankless hard job. And at the end of the day you have no proof you accomplished anything.

  • @emeraldpeony
    @emeraldpeony10 сағат бұрын

    Uhhh no. You are capable of love. It’s the spirit of Jezebel that men in society are fighting against.

  • @t.styles2k202
    @t.styles2k20210 сағат бұрын

    Pain Jain ain’t no better. Because they all think the same way, it just easier for plain Jain to hide it.

  • @RoshondaHasan
    @RoshondaHasan11 сағат бұрын

    I’m not defending her by any means… but I have had a lot of men be honest that they feel like you’re too pretty to be single. It makes them uncomfortable. You attract the attention of a lot of men. And don’t let you appear to be self sufficient lol sometimes they don’t even open the book and read it based off the high vibes you’re giving off that in some type of way is intimidating. I am very humble I don’t like being recognized for my looks and I go in and out of wearing aesthetics because I’m beautiful naturally. I think it’s about finding the crowd of men that can handle that vibe. It ain’t for the faint at heart…. Pray to God women that he will send you your King. You are fine just the way you are just fishing in the wrong pond ❤

  • @golden_divine
    @golden_divine11 сағат бұрын

    Dude on the right cuts Tony off waaaaay too much. Not a very good communicator.

  • @tehewhatthe
    @tehewhatthe12 сағат бұрын

    Both “Plain Jane” and “pretty” are subjective constructs. She should just enjoy her life. Maybe God is trying to protect her that’s why there’s no man on the scene. Last thing anyone would want is to meet someone who ruins their life.

  • @latishaarnold8221
    @latishaarnold822112 сағат бұрын

    Crazy part most of the ninjas I know with plain jane wives cheat with the total opposite! Weird

  • @darkgardener9577
    @darkgardener957712 сағат бұрын

    They told BM to F' off and they ain't $hit YEARS ago. So BYE BYE HYENAS!!

  • @JACKSCO30
    @JACKSCO3012 сағат бұрын

    1st of all no one….especially a woman should ever leave their drink unattended.

  • @TheGlamourBOXinc
    @TheGlamourBOXinc12 сағат бұрын

    Men that do outrageous acts such as 3somes I do not want him! He will NEVER be satisfied! 🌚

  • @BulelwaJack-xo3fd
    @BulelwaJack-xo3fd12 сағат бұрын

    Excuse me! Derrick ain't Jesus. He's just like any guy who's not perfect and he'd mention that he ain't no saint n never put himself on the pedestal. He lives on planet earth around all the stuff that can be tempting. Boys will be boys. If he shows he's remorseful why must he be crucified. And by the way he's not making himself a dating coach he is the master. Ppl must not look at his mistakes do ur own show n hands off him. Only God can judge him n he had his moment with Him. Who never cheated. Give that man D Bells. He deserves it. Hello!

  • @Autumn-zd9nq
    @Autumn-zd9nq14 сағат бұрын

    Women experience the same sexual urges but we still control ourselves so I’m not trying to hear it.

  • @jenniferhaynes8625
    @jenniferhaynes862514 сағат бұрын

    Familiar isn't always safe.

  • @shannonwilliams7404
    @shannonwilliams740416 сағат бұрын

    This video earned you a new subscriber!

  • @HarrisCassie
    @HarrisCassie17 сағат бұрын

    & then they favorite line be “I have a baby by a black man how would I be racial” SMH

  • @HarrisCassie
    @HarrisCassie18 сағат бұрын

    But yet she slept with him, girl please

  • @zayyd.n.
    @zayyd.n.18 сағат бұрын

    Captain save a hor

  • @zayyd.n.
    @zayyd.n.18 сағат бұрын

    So basically u love black women …cool YOU GO SAVE DEM HOZ

  • @peacendukwe
    @peacendukwe19 сағат бұрын

    Good video, good video.

  • @JosVBM
    @JosVBM21 сағат бұрын

    1st...YOU ARE NOT CRAZY!, DUMB, NOR STUPID! *Always go with your gut and follow through to end! He groomed me for 14mos. He was the kindest, always there for me helping, being polite, walking me to the door, "I got you Baby!" After dating for 14m, I thought enough time had passed to go into a deeper relationship with him. I DIDN'T IGNORED ALL THE RED FLAGS! He tried to break me down! You're fat, all of the compliments stopped, I had to start asking him to do the little things that came so easily in the beginning. *I STOOD UP TO HIM, YET I STAYED! *Once we had sex, his true colors came out! Yep, that Demon manifested. 3 weeks after sex, this is what he told me last Saturday night and I qoute, "Get up, I need to get out of the house. Now, there are somethings that I need you to do. That involves rope, tape and yo'big pretty yellow ass hanging out the back of my car...on one of these dark country roads. You hear me BITCH?!" (rape, or hunting me was on his mind!) HELL NO, I DIDN'T GO!!!!!! I watched my facial expressions. I pretended to be soft, submissive in my conversation. I got him out of the house using a physical illness. I gently asked him to go to the store for me. Then was not the time to show ADH that I know my worth, loud talking, etc., GO WITH YOUR GUT! And get the hell away from these CRAZY CRAZY TYPE PEOPLE!!! *And yes, GO! GO! file a Police Report

  • @darrenlobban7033
    @darrenlobban703321 сағат бұрын

    Those 9s and 10s usually come with a lot. If you find a 7 or a 8 and treat her like she's a 9 or a 10 then you're really locked in.

  • @aleksannuki
    @aleksannuki22 сағат бұрын

    I didn’t even know anton was part of the red pill community but honestly my first impression of him was that he is a clearly gay man. Idk how everyone else doesn’t see it to be honest. His mannerisms are extremely feminine.

  • @elizabethlondon7754
    @elizabethlondon775423 сағат бұрын

    Some men like to have professional, well-networked to power, "proper" women as a wife while enjoying attractive, poorer or lower on the totem pole women when they hookup, date, or cheat. It seems to come from a madonna-whore complex mixed with status mattering more than anything else to them. It's sad-- any woman they get with will be let down and used while missing out on a true connection and real love as these men focus on utility of women like they are objects. There are also men who hate fake lashes, fake hair, fake tans, lots of makeup, etc. This has more to do with wanting a woman who is pretty in the morning or at the pool. They are looking for true attraction.

  • @cherylbrown4483
    @cherylbrown4483Күн бұрын

    A woman with all that fake beauty, first off all, it's a costume - it's supplementing true femininity, and secondly, she's not looking to be a wife!

  • @Lacoste7-6-7
    @Lacoste7-6-7Күн бұрын

    Putting sex before marriage says that God comes second to the person you are laying down with.

  • @SheIsPotential
    @SheIsPotentialКүн бұрын

    If you don’t drink or smoke you’re actually winning ! I would never call you lame you just haven’t tried it and I have. I’m actually trying to be done with it can be a bad habit and take you under. You’re better off without it.

  • @Christine4321_
    @Christine4321_Күн бұрын

    Sounds like a bunch of crappy excuses to mistreat women or the dude is low key gay. Overall just a menace to society

  • @antgotguap6951
    @antgotguap6951Күн бұрын

    She’s a 5 on her best day talking about I’m pretty. Foh take all that face paint off and she’s a 4 😂

  • @thelifeofbryan3013
    @thelifeofbryan3013Күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your perspective. I find your channel valuable and so important as I imagine many folks who share your perspective are very busy with work and family. God bless you

  • @nataliianezhynska5119
    @nataliianezhynska5119Күн бұрын

    I am a plain Jane that married a guy who would be "too short, too nice, too simpy, not rough enough" blah blah blah to maaaany women out there. We have an amazing marriage, he's an extraordinary father, and a son-in-law. Nerds and plain Janes is where it's at.

  • @crystalmason829
    @crystalmason829Күн бұрын

    I thought they were brothers they all look alike

  • @soleilwhitton6397
    @soleilwhitton6397Күн бұрын

    These BEFORE and AFTER girls are clueless. I don't ever remember a time when our women was layering on make-up, weave and these spider eyelashes. And the crazy thing is, those eyelashes are ruining your natural lashes and those weaves are making you bald. Stop. It. Go back to school and develop your mind, the rest will follow.......

  • @ceyciemateo9411
    @ceyciemateo9411Күн бұрын

    Men want what they can’t have. Always put him in the friend zone first