Fell in lust but believes she was sent by God

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  • @creating1_c1999
    @creating1_c199911 ай бұрын

    People will use God, blame God, but don't even know God.

  • @Proverbs-vw2sc

    @Proverbs-vw2sc

    11 ай бұрын

    THIS!!!!

  • @zooey3785

    @zooey3785

    11 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @MR-cr7yc

    @MR-cr7yc

    11 ай бұрын

    People totally use god out of context!

  • @bronz7053

    @bronz7053

    11 ай бұрын

    Exactly... but haven't prayed in God knows when

  • @completelysharise1372

    @completelysharise1372

    11 ай бұрын

    👏🏽💯

  • @SolanaSoul
    @SolanaSoul11 ай бұрын

    Women need to hear this. ‘Cause too many women think they’re that exception to the rule instead of operating out of a place where they understand that 99.99999% of these men are not Yah’s best for you. And if it’s God’s best, no amount of patience and standards are gonna run them away. Close your legs, don’t get comfortable, be alert always. Don’t be in this spirit of desperation to get a man 🤎

  • @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle

    @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle

    11 ай бұрын

    Word🙂👍🏾

  • @ForbsieLaLa

    @ForbsieLaLa

    11 ай бұрын

    THIS

  • @IceChampakaWolf888

    @IceChampakaWolf888

    10 ай бұрын

    Very true.

  • @tessw9744
    @tessw974411 ай бұрын

    Out here fornicating and saying *"God sent him."* SMH If some man I just met told me he loved me, that would be the last date. That's needy as heck. Gotta be a set up! She's too old for that mess. That's gonna crash and burn as fast as it started. I don't even give it a year. 😂

  • @winning3329

    @winning3329

    11 ай бұрын

    That's the lover boy technique that tate teaches his followers to play women with

  • @ladynottingham89
    @ladynottingham8911 ай бұрын

    This is why you have to read the word of God constantly and pray without ceasing. Once your mind becomes aligned to the things of the world it becomes hard to have discernment when something comes from the enemy. All these unclean spirits come into your soul and you start acting crazy. I say it from personal experience. I had a season of rebellion in my spiritual life and it cost me dearly. Now looking back I can see things clearly because the Lord has opened my eyes to how spiritually blind I was and he has freed me spiritually. I doubt that union will last.

  • @jr8694

    @jr8694

    10 ай бұрын

    I feel this comment. I'm in that situation right now.

  • @camm8642

    @camm8642

    8 ай бұрын

    so true....

  • @AyeJye
    @AyeJye11 ай бұрын

    God is a God of ORDER period!!! I’ve moved too fast before and everything that is out of order is not of God !!

  • @N.O.W.826
    @N.O.W.82611 ай бұрын

    Lust rushes. Love waits. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @erind2261
    @erind226111 ай бұрын

    I experienced this before. I always reply: if God truly told you this, wouldn't God tell me this too. I didn't get no confirmation.

  • @gigijohn316
    @gigijohn31611 ай бұрын

    When we become Christians and have a relationship with God, God’s wishes take precedence over our own desires. He becomes a priority in our lives. In relationships, if we do not have a firm foundation, it can draw us away from this priority.

  • @lavish169
    @lavish16911 ай бұрын

    Ppl love to validate their love with sex.

  • @kellharris2491
    @kellharris249110 ай бұрын

    People act like only men are lusty. Women are lusty too.

  • @shettikkawoods3248
    @shettikkawoods324811 ай бұрын

    God doesn’t ordain love ❤️,through worldly immorality. Treat ones body as a temple. Looking through the heart with God first . Equally yoked. Godly within through solid foundation.

  • @Redismycolor82
    @Redismycolor8211 ай бұрын

    I won't say it's not possible to find true love when meeting someone aligned with you... but I believe in this situation both parties are love bombing, lust, not love, and codependency due to attachment styles.

  • @joequinbrownsr2414
    @joequinbrownsr241411 ай бұрын

    God will not do that people think it's okay to have sex before marriage. Me and my wife did it the right way we waited till marriage I wanted this to be my only marriage. God did put us together i was praying for a wife in she came 7 years still going.

  • @gloriamathews6452
    @gloriamathews645211 ай бұрын

    People just want to do what they want to do and put God into their mess. People always want to say God told them something, well I am a firm believer God didn't tell them anything that does not line up with the word of God. You NEVER hear people say God told me to get some where and sit down, pray, read my bible and let the Holy Spirit lead me! Great video and keep up the great work.👍❤

  • @KeciaB21
    @KeciaB2111 ай бұрын

    He knows she is desperate so it’s easy to love bomb her.. sad

  • @annagrace1159

    @annagrace1159

    10 ай бұрын

    💯 💥💥💥

  • @MzSweetzTalk
    @MzSweetzTalk11 ай бұрын

    Facts, even employers give a 90 day Probationary Period; before an employee is official. Time to hire & fire someone...

  • @KeyahD
    @KeyahD11 ай бұрын

    Love bombing...

  • @sunnyhunn9315
    @sunnyhunn931511 ай бұрын

    That’s not God sent, because God doesn’t violate His Word and He doesn’t lead us to do anything that grieves The Holy Spirit. And people just add “God” to their desires and experiences for their own sake, and don’t sincerely and purely knows who God is. It’s lust! LUST! It’s sooo raunchy and disrespectful how she’s speaking about their sexual encounters, because not only is it already immoral, it’s also a graphic narrative that people don’t need access to, ANND they don’t know each other’s sexual health and she unwisely slept with that dude. It’s quite disturbing and disgusting, and they’re supporting her shenanigans and think this is joke…no wonder this culture is full of perversion and immorality. Shame. This woman is a disgrace, and she needs a real encounter with Jesus, and to be told “GO AND SIN NO MORE.” She’s delusional, and like Jesus told the woman at the well, that man you’re with is NOT your husband. Plus, she needs a new environment, one that tells her the truth; she’s full of herself.

  • @MrElly228
    @MrElly22811 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this. I Was in a relationship for 22years and got cheated on multiple time. Now I feel like I never knew this person.

  • @EButta71

    @EButta71

    10 ай бұрын

    Were you married?

  • @user-zx9pd9cw9t

    @user-zx9pd9cw9t

    10 ай бұрын

    😢😢😢

  • @IceChampakaWolf888

    @IceChampakaWolf888

    10 ай бұрын

    Im so sorry. God Be With You

  • @Tel934
    @Tel93411 ай бұрын

    Yeah, Imma need them to keep God’s name out their mouths.

  • @m.h6858
    @m.h685811 ай бұрын

    If GOD has sent someone to you, He would have also SENT confirmation to YOU!!! Him saying that wouldnt have been the first time you're hearing that. God would have had you working towards marriage under HIS guidance. And still, you should have went to God for confirmation as to if HE'S the one He sent for you! Counterfeits offten come before the God ordained, trust me, I learned the HARD way! 😩😩 Narcissists are REAL!!

  • @tyrarice7318
    @tyrarice731810 ай бұрын

    Yes, I totally agree. Amos 3:3 - How can two walk together unless they agree? Consider God first and make sure He is also the center of your life.

  • @melanatedtelevision
    @melanatedtelevision11 ай бұрын

    I saw this episode. And I feel her friends don’t tell her the truth because she may take the criticism as “hating” or “judgmental”. I think she was desperate to validate her self worth, by having a man.

  • @nik-at-nite

    @nik-at-nite

    11 ай бұрын

    Shoot, the marriage happened so quick I wonder if she even told anyone her plans before she made them

  • @yardena1234

    @yardena1234

    11 ай бұрын

    If all women had 💯💯knowledge of the world , there would be no children. We all come here big Man and Woman tougher

  • @briggettmumphrey3226
    @briggettmumphrey322611 ай бұрын

    Decency is still something I know I definitely want

  • @Lightreign888
    @Lightreign88810 ай бұрын

    Not all relationships are of God. 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @OceanisInfinite
    @OceanisInfinite11 ай бұрын

    That’s call game!!!

  • @Redismycolor82
    @Redismycolor8211 ай бұрын

    Its so much to unpack here😔

  • @keahharrison4765
    @keahharrison476511 ай бұрын

    I believe in love at first sight but this ain’t it. But I was this person before. My children’s father told me the same thing (this was back when I didn’t know God) but thank God for the Holy Ghost because once I got saved God told me to RUN. So I’m telling anyone that might be in this position to RUN FAST. This isn’t Godly at all. God does not go back on his word.

  • @Redismycolor82
    @Redismycolor8211 ай бұрын

    When did we get away from seeing people in all their seasons(courting) thn moving forward? And waiting until after them seasons to sleep with them?

  • @briggettmumphrey3226
    @briggettmumphrey322611 ай бұрын

    It makes sense what you said but people are going to do what they want to do it’s sad but true

  • @mgh174
    @mgh17411 ай бұрын

    True. It’s not God it’s something else

  • @ForbsieLaLa
    @ForbsieLaLa11 ай бұрын

    Sure I believe in instant connections, but I will not be a fool to rush into anything with anyone I do not know, and you cannot know all you need in one day. Too many of us are hell bent on learning the hard way. I guess I will keep my boring stuck up self at home and alone.

  • @Nikita_848
    @Nikita_84810 ай бұрын

    You're absolutely right. It's crazy what's going on in dating and how ppl go about relations these days. The levels of depravation are ridiculous.

  • @Eucala
    @Eucala10 ай бұрын

    Anything that starts fast, will end fast.

  • @yashitupman
    @yashitupman11 ай бұрын

    i wish you can not only react but teach men better thing for life , in a full video because you're starting to become what i need to learn how to be a real men in this world ,because i'm still 21 and wishing to be the best man in my environment

  • @survivorship4290
    @survivorship429011 ай бұрын

    This whole video! 💕💕💕

  • @Imluhvin
    @Imluhvin11 ай бұрын

    And she’s been with a lot of men not even judging 1:53

  • @alexisagginie4574
    @alexisagginie457411 ай бұрын

    LUST, is psrt of all of us. How do you use it to become sensible, balanced, righteous and godly? This has to be dealth with. These harbour temptations!

  • @kaylabean3693

    @kaylabean3693

    4 ай бұрын

    You need to pray to the Lord and ask Him to take it away

  • @alexisagginie4574

    @alexisagginie4574

    4 ай бұрын

    @@kaylabean3693 the Lord just does not take it away by magic. You, the person has to see it is wrong, useless and harmful to your spirit. Then you need to take resolute action to rid yourself, with the help of Yahweh!

  • @kaylabean3693

    @kaylabean3693

    4 ай бұрын

    @@alexisagginie4574 I don’t recall ever saying the Lord is going to use magic. We are to give our grievances to the Lord because He is the only one that has the power to take it away

  • @alexisagginie4574

    @alexisagginie4574

    4 ай бұрын

    @@kaylabean3693 BE clear. You still have to be ACTIVELY involved in removing it. Everything comes through your Mind!

  • @kaylabean3693

    @kaylabean3693

    4 ай бұрын

    @@alexisagginie4574well duh lmao faith without works is dead

  • @jubilantmornings8492
    @jubilantmornings849211 ай бұрын

    She’s delusional

  • @alaneofmyown
    @alaneofmyown11 ай бұрын

    I just do not understand this type of foolishness beyond the age of 25.. that woman is like almost 50

  • @kellharris2491

    @kellharris2491

    10 ай бұрын

    Maybe that's the problem. Like maybe she feels she is past her good times and so she latches on to the first guy that she feels a spark with. It's like a midlife crisis kind of thing.

  • @m.h6858
    @m.h685811 ай бұрын

    We gotta realize that Satan is a god, too. So, using that logic, we know who REALLY matched them together because NONE of what she saying is giving the MOST High God!! How do I know? The Lord told me I will know them by their FRUITS, and this "apple tree" is producing oranges.🍊 🤔🤔 4:58

  • @shettikkawoods3248
    @shettikkawoods324811 ай бұрын

    Exactly truth 💯

  • @BubbasJuice2145
    @BubbasJuice21452 ай бұрын

    And keep your focus on what brought y’all together every time things got rocky. I went back to what brought us together because that love that day should be the love we have, but you can’t when you live in the world it can’t be sunshine and happy flowers, but flies and gum drops and can’t so, you must have the respect and love for the other person and if you both have a vision to grow move forward full speed ahead you’ll be together longer than you know God bless you

  • @shettikkawoods3248
    @shettikkawoods324811 ай бұрын

    Discernment

  • @goddessb582
    @goddessb5829 ай бұрын

    Lol this was crazy! I seen this episode. I couldn't believe it.

  • @Elson79
    @Elson7911 ай бұрын

    I think we start a completely new school. A school for teaching young girls/ Education - careers Deportment Femininity How to be modest yet classy and elegant Morals. I agree with you Q pill when I saw this video I was astonished and amazed at the level of degeneracy my sisters seem to have fallen to. I pray this sister wakes up.

  • @olilumgbalu5653

    @olilumgbalu5653

    11 ай бұрын

    And what would a school for young boys teach them?

  • @far6311

    @far6311

    10 ай бұрын

    What is deportment? I’m about to google it---> deportment (noun): a persons behavior or manners. A class I might need 😅

  • @zooey3785
    @zooey378511 ай бұрын

    😒..... that's all I gotta say about that.

  • @shettikkawoods3248
    @shettikkawoods324811 ай бұрын

    Spiritual growth

  • @Keonahawk24
    @Keonahawk2411 ай бұрын

    FOOOOOOL ISHHHHHH

  • @saraalfredo227
    @saraalfredo22710 ай бұрын

    sounds lirics to my hears🤤

  • @MrsRens-LionessofJudah
    @MrsRens-LionessofJudah11 ай бұрын

    I do think god told him that she was his wife. Its just not the God of the bible. Satan speaks too.

  • @chloelageaux769
    @chloelageaux76911 ай бұрын

    Extremely misguided! This is why it's IMPERATIVE to know God for yourself or you will be mislead by these foolish people!! God is not going against His word!

  • @HISFAVR-ug5kt
    @HISFAVR-ug5kt11 ай бұрын

    Who is that woman???

  • @evettesmith5308
    @evettesmith530811 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BxBayou
    @BxBayou11 ай бұрын

    I kno Ye is looking @ her friend starting her count down 10...9...8...

  • @androyd87tv
    @androyd87tv10 ай бұрын

    I think the wildest part is they grown. I would think this was a no brainer.

  • @lifeoftee1835
    @lifeoftee18353 ай бұрын

    2 Words: Spiritual Narcissists

  • @kiranholt3296
    @kiranholt329611 ай бұрын

    The God of this world is Satan.1 John 5:19. That is the god they are referring to 1000%

  • @ForbsieLaLa
    @ForbsieLaLa11 ай бұрын

    You cannot be living how you feel and expect God to work for you. Nope you need to show him you are serious about him and he will show up for you. I mean he is always there for us but you can't keep choosing YOU and he keeps showing you otherwise and expect it to work in the end, then blame other folks and say God got you. Be accountable

  • @rachelphillips5576
    @rachelphillips557611 ай бұрын

    Men in church will say that God sent them to single women in church. I've heard this line before. Just be honest.God did not send you nobody . You just listed after her body. Why do people feel the need to lie on God. For one, because they don't know the Word of God.

  • @yardena1234
    @yardena123411 ай бұрын

    Vampire🤔🤡

  • @AMiah-jz8uu
    @AMiah-jz8uu11 ай бұрын

    Mad rashet

  • @shafserious2805
    @shafserious280511 ай бұрын

    What does God say in the Quran? That He revealed the torah and the gospel. So read the Quran and let me no what God says about zinah.

  • @keyairaspivey5093

    @keyairaspivey5093

    11 ай бұрын

    We're Christians, and we believe in the Bible.

  • @shafserious2805

    @shafserious2805

    11 ай бұрын

    @@keyairaspivey5093 Yes which means u have to believe in Quran because of my initial comment

  • @heavenly213

    @heavenly213

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@shafserious2805You have it backwards! That literally means the quaron is telling YOU that the torah (old testiment) came first and that it is the truth YOU have to believe Moses words and the Prophets and Jesus as well. However Bible believers have no such obligations. The bible NEVER tells us to read the quran infact it never acknowledges it at all or muhammad so your twisting the narrative. don't even know what the point of you bringing it up was!

  • @shafserious2805

    @shafserious2805

    11 ай бұрын

    @@heavenly213 lol come on mate! Allah is basically says in the Quran that the previous scriptures were revealed by Him! They endorse previous scriptures and correct where misguidance has crept in!! Guidance has always come from the one God. Due to the nature of man corrupting guidance- prophets came to bring people back on to the path of truth and they bought updated guidance and evidence. So now they bible got all twisted with the trinity theory and additions by kings and Queens- now we have the Quran to put that straight!

  • @shafserious2805

    @shafserious2805

    11 ай бұрын

    @@heavenly213 and Jesus never said he was the final prophet and did clearly say that there will be a prophet after him and to follow his guidance- that is clearly stated in the Bible- which you guys twist into the trinity theory! The trinity theory is a modern belief that was incorporates into the Bible! Please read the bible cover to cover and this will become very apparent. Ive bought this up because adultery is mentioned much more in the Quran with its punishments and the Bibld even attributes adultery to some of the prophets!

  • @yardena1234
    @yardena123411 ай бұрын

    How is sex immoral please ?

  • @heavenly213

    @heavenly213

    11 ай бұрын

    Only the marriage bed is undefiled!

  • @yardena1234

    @yardena1234

    10 ай бұрын

    Undefiled🤣🤣🤣🏃‍♀️👑

  • @yardena1234
    @yardena123411 ай бұрын

    Nothing wrong with having sex. Noone can stop it. Its nature👨‍🎓💯🤩

  • @lelo46

    @lelo46

    11 ай бұрын

    Can you drop a time stamp of where he specifically said “sex” in general, is wrong? I don’t think he said that or said that he was trying to stop the world from the natural act of having sex. Maybe I missed that part.

  • @cela9852

    @cela9852

    10 ай бұрын

    Something is wrong with having sex too early with someone you want to be with seriously. Sex is amazing and that is why it so good at blinding people's logic when it comes to choosing a partner. Very and I mean very few couples have been able to build healthy relationships that start off with sex. Keep in mind I said HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. Some couples have started off like this and been together for years all whilst being dysfunctional.